Born_Adeptness_8841 Archive

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2	Research finds Tinder increased the incidences of sexual assaults, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and inequality in (male) dating outcomes but had little impact on long-term relationships or relationship quality. Bruh what	/r/BlackPillScience	08/07/25 08:47 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship At this point you’re not even trying to talk to respond and disprove anything now. You still haven’t disproved anything in the original post. This is like the 10th time I’ve said this. Now you’re swinging with (1) ad hominem (“y’all suck”), (2) bare assertion (“80 % of women aren’t dating”), and (3) anecdote (“every man I’ve dated is a dud”). None of that engages the claim that modern dating stacks more front end labour on men. Men have to do everything. Men must initiate ~80 % of first contacts…	/r/MensRights	04/07/25 03:03 AM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship “Women don’t have it easy! Sure, we get attention, but it’s from low quality guys. We just want one good man.” You still haven’t disproved the original point that men have to do everything. You’re just reframing the situation as emotionally unsatisfying for women, while ignoring the asymmetry of effort, rejection, and labor men face. Women to care about quantity? Irrelevant. Men must produce quantity just to get a chance at anything. Women don’t need to. That’s the imbalance. “It’s not easy for …	/r/MensRights	04/07/25 02:34 AM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship “Women deal with that too” but you’ve never shown how because it’s just not true for most women unless there’s something ABNORMALLY WRONG with that woman. The average man has to initiate, pursue, risk rejection, keep the conversation going, and build attraction from nothing. From scratch. Then has to deal with getting ignored unless he optimizes, and I mean OPTIMIZES his photos, game, humor, tone, etc. and still more likely to be lonely and sexually and romantically invisible. The average woman …	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 08:48 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship You keep saying “that’s not a high bar” and laughing — but you never actually refute that men are expected to clear that bar consistently just to be considered dateable. You also haven’t touched the parts that are not shared equally: Men face far more rejection and are expected to initiate. Men must keep conversations alive, plan dates, and pursue interest. Men get ghosted more, dumped more when emotional needs aren’t met, and receive less support post breakup. Men are expected to be both stoic …	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 08:17 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship Again, what this WHOLE DISCUSSION IS ABOUT IS THAT men are expected to be emotionally intelligent, financially stable, protective, dominant but safe, regardless of whether women are fulfilling traditional roles. That’s a high bar. If women abandon their traditional contributions, but keep expecting ours, the burden on men increases. So instead of disproving that you strawman (“you don’t want to be a good man unless we submit”) then give a moral attack. Complete refusal to address the argument. T…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 07:52 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship Again, Your source explains why many women leave marriages; it doesn’t demonstrate that men face fewer expectations. At best it proves women also feel over burdened but the two burdens can and do coexist and men’s is usually more warranted since again they’re expected to do more. Again, before the first date men must initiate contact, impress and pay. Men send far more likes/messages to get one date. This translates to real life as well. You haven’t disproved this. Next men have to pick the venu…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 07:48 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship Not really. Modern women often expect traditional effort from men, while rejecting traditional roles for themselves. Most modern women do combine traits from both when it benefits them. Modern career, independence, and sexual freedom. But also wants a man who’s financially stable, emotionally intelligent, dominant but safe, capable but sensitive (doing everything which you still haven’t disproved). They SAY she doesn’t need a provider, but won’t date a man who earns less or is unemployed. They S…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 07:13 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship I’m not just talking about what people say the expectations are (“we just want 50/50”), but what men are actually EXPECTED to do and the reality is men are expected to do more in order to even get to that supposed 50/50 starting line. You’re completely ignoring that before a relationship even begins, men are expected to initiate, plan, pursue, impress, pay (in many cases), prove emotional maturity, be sexually competent. Then DURING the relationship men are expected to maintain emotional and fin…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 07:04 PM
1	Men literally have to do everything in a relationship None of this really disproves that men are EXPECTED to do everything in a relationship. This just redirects. You say that women are working full time and doing the cooking, cleaning, childrearing… but even if that’s legitimate or not, that just means women still expect men to be providing 50% of the income and stepping up at home. So now, instead of “just” being the provider or emotional rock, men are expected to also handle 50% of housework, be emotionally intelligent, lead (if she allows which…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 06:39 PM
1	What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles? that says nothing about the amount of effort that would have been put in compared to if these people were good looking	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/25 06:01 PM
1	What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles? ad hominem fallacy	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/25 05:59 PM
1	3 principles to actually get matches from online dating https://youtu.be/35fiNZTVVtU?si=63Gid87K8TQ4CV62 Explain this then	/r/seduction	27/02/25 07:16 PM