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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
75	Is today's environment better for men long term?	Social Issues	BosBuano	/r/MensRights	08/12/22 09:59 PM

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5	What else can my husband put in the court order to protect his child and his right to custody I know this org. They are laser focused on shared parenting and there are a ton of resources that can help if you reach out. They are more aware of custody issues that many (not all) family law lawyers don’t. Their motive is including fathers and the benefit of fathers in a child’s life where lawyer primary focus is fees.	/r/MensRights	16/11/23 02:03 AM
4	Do you care if you see a man dating a woman who is 10, 20, or 30 years older than him? Do you think he needs you to 'save' him from that woman? I would say men in general don’t care. It goes to maturity level. After divorce my first gf I was 38m and she was 27f. The bonding was great but intellectually and life experience-wise, there was nothing we had in common. Nice girl but not stimulating in any other way. Closer to my own age was much better. For me the range was 5 years younger to 10 years older than me and we had a great time together. Attractive, confident and spending Quality time together plus, loyalty and respect are the most…	/r/MensRights	23/09/23 03:12 AM
38	Hostile work environment caused by new female hire Starting to sound like gyms nowadays. You can’t look at a girl working out without the possibility of getting your membership cancelled. Now I have been seeing a lot of videos where a female gets stuck (too much weight) or needs a spot and men are refusing or ignoring. Looks like that trend is moving to the workplace too. Seems to be working in gyms…. Just sayin’	/r/MensRights	22/09/23 04:18 AM
4	Cringiest red pill phrases I agree with this. The 10% of men that are these "high value men" are ruining the reputation of the rest of us. Many of us want a mangomous relationship that brings a family up with morals and good judgement with the hopes of making a better world. There are a bunch of F* boys out there causing a lot of damage to girls women but i am also seeing a bunch of girls (my kids are high schol) trying to pull boys for likes and clout. This is a chicken and egg situation. I don't know where it starts, bu…	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/23 07:18 AM
6	Cringiest red pill phrases Any alpha male who is an alpha male will NEVER say they are an alpha male. They just are. If someone tells you they are an alpha male, "cringe" is the correct reaction. One other point of contention are the statiscs you bring up. According to Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Bumble and several other dating apps, 80% of women "swipe right" for 10% of the men. These men fit the 6, 6, 6 terminology popular in social media today (6 ft tall, 6 figure income and 6") I am not placing labels, but would be intere…	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/23 06:18 AM
1	Is today's environment better for men long term? I think you are missing the point. 80% of purchasing decisions are made by women but with whose money? If there is no marriage then i predict that will shift. Single women will make 100% of their purchasing decision and men will do the same. And if a politician tries to strike back? We find an opponent in the next election that has a more agreeable mindset. This is the same strategy all these women’s groups have used for decades and you now see the results	/r/MensRights	09/12/22 05:49 PM
1	Is today's environment better for men long term? I think you are describing a chicken and egg scenario. Men brought up by single mothers and no male guidance are suffering. Anxiety, depression and low self esteem brought on by watching too much social media and influencers telling how men have to change into something that is counter to their nature and the resulting identity crisis I think is the root. (My opinion only) As successful men we can provide guidance, healing, direction and support for those without that influence growing up. Look …	/r/MensRights	09/12/22 05:39 PM
0	Is today's environment better for men long term? I don’t believe that. Politicians respond to money. Donations, PACs, etc. they are all bought and paid for. Laws get made by the political influencers not the politicians themselves. $ = influence. The more we have and direct it in a coordinated fashion the more change we can make. There are already a ton of laws that go against the constitution that are on the books and are heavily prosecuted. Hell, CPS’ entire existence is founded on NO due process. Red flag laws, Kacie’s law, domestic violenc…	/r/MensRights	09/12/22 04:51 PM
-3	My Ex-Girlfriend is Trying To Control My Life. Does She Have Grounds For Her Threats? AH = Asshole	/r/MensRights	09/12/22 04:34 AM
16	My Ex-Girlfriend is Trying To Control My Life. Does She Have Grounds For Her Threats? If you live in a common law state where they consider you common law married, get a family law lawyer. Get an AH because if you can prove you helped her grow her business then the lawyer can go after her for half of it. Tell her you will no longer pursue her business if she drops everything on her side and get it in writing. Basically she is hurt and trying to bully you. Fight back hard now and you will be free of her. A little pain now is better than dragging the pain out over years. If it is o…	/r/MensRights	09/12/22 03:46 AM
7	Is today's environment better for men long term? My bad... I use Pick Me for someone seeking attention by copying popular social media post for views... But I agree with your statements	/r/MensRights	08/12/22 10:50 PM
6	I'm saying nothing new but I need to say it: I'm tired of being treated like a weapon We need to just rely on each other. Filter out all the female "experts" on mens issues. Only we know that we are biologically designed to protect and provide and be dangerous but in control. To many of our brothers from single mother homes need a place to learn that control that they can't get at home and end up n jail or causing damage to people. IMHO	/r/MensRights	08/12/22 10:25 PM
11	Is today's environment better for men long term? Funny, I posted a reply in r/Divorce recently about changing traditional marriage to 5 year contracts renewable only if both parties want to renew. Contract law instead of family law. Much less "squishy"	/r/MensRights	08/12/22 10:08 PM
0	Are women owed marriage? Given the odds of divorce initiated by a woman and subsequent financial ruin of the male. Men should never get married so we don’t owe anyone anything except settling honest expectations.	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 11:49 PM
1	How do men paying child support even pay for retirement? Do they just work forever? She is on husband #3. We don’t talk so idk and idc. Kids are good	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 04:16 AM
1	Platforms to inform about men's rights THIS! Right here. Before divorce men have $. After, they (we) are in survival mode. $ is all that politicians understand. Lobby groups against title 4d, civil suits for damages caused by false sa/dv accusations, assault charges being filed against women, paternity fraud civil suits, unfair sentences for crimes (equality) are all tools underutilized by men. We work best together and only together can we propagate change.	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 12:35 AM
3	How do men paying child support even pay for retirement? Do they just work forever? My story is a little different. I am still in IT. I had an excellent job as a senior executive in a medium sized midwestern city. I am originally from the northeast where all of my family and support system still live. The company I worked for was very large for the area and when a new CEO wa hired, 90% of the executives were let go including me. This happened 2 years after my divorce. At the time, my three kids were all under 7. I had to make a choice. Follow my career and move to another high …	/r/MensRights	30/11/22 11:16 PM
44	better rules to replace "don't hit women" Agreed. Assault is assault. Period	/r/MensRights	30/11/22 10:29 PM
1	I give up Focus on self and career buddy. All the BS is out of our control. Let the brainwashed young female masses realize when they are 30+ “wait…. Body count really matters?” Or “I’m so lonely” or “why are all the good men out of the dating pool” Patience. Focus on yourself. Realization will flash like a light bulb soon.	/r/MensRights	23/11/22 01:18 AM
2	Am I in the right place? Absolutely. One of the main reasons men are treated like we are is because we do not work well together outside of our jobs like women do. The new hip them selves up into a frenzy and get behind each other whether or not the situation is right or wrong. Men on the other hand only seek support when something devastating happens like cheating or divorce. Personally I think we need to come together more forcefully to change things like family court, custody, cps, title ivd etc. we have become the b…	/r/MensRights	23/11/22 12:24 AM