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People from Alabama wouldn’t regard their mother as an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:45 PM
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Women actually have male friends and appreciate them as friends. Most men have women as "friends" but it's a trick to try and get pussy. The fact that there is a person attached to that pussy is an annoyance. I hope you realize the irony of this post as you arguing women are less biased against the opposite sex than men. This is just the "I can be racist, I have black friends" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:41 PM
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Nah, I've been through this a few times. Once you prove the bias exists the discussion transitions into how completely justifiable the bias is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:39 PM
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Honestly "the friend zone" is just a term for a situation where a guy is romantically interested in a woman but she won't see him as anything more than a platonic friend due to her just not find him attractive. It's not even a question of existing or not existing, it just describes a common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:59 PM
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Just ask him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:01 PM
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There are two kinds of people on PPD, people who strongly support TRP and are crusading to expand its influence, and people who strongly oppose TRP and are crusading to tear off its mask expose it for the vile ideology that it is. lol "tear off it's mask" TRP endures because it's completely open about it's worldview and the implications on gender relations. It's considered vile and evil specifically because it doesn't bullshit people. People here aren't trying to expose a hidden ideology they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:00 PM
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Disregard females Acquire jutsu
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:14 AM
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Yeah, I went the shounen protagonist route...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:02 AM
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I'll remind you that I'm speaking on behalf of my client and not expressing views that mirror my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:01 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:58 PM
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Apology accepted. Honestly I was just illustrating that your premise was so banally oversimplified that even your own beliefs would invalidate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:38 PM
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I don't think you should be debating on a subreddit that talks about sex so much if you don't know what PIV means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:32 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's giving or receiving. It's not "male oriented" PIV sex so they're obviously unhappy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:31 PM
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Indeed. Men’s hatred of things like anal and oral sex is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:22 PM
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Men don’t only care about sex. Reliable access to sex doesn’t outweigh the repercussions of a relationship with a woman who thinks she deserves better than you. She wasn’t sexually attracted to you to begin with so sex is going to dwindle/disappear as the relationship persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:49 PM
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The problem with the 80/20 principal for women is that there's not enough top tier men to go around and those men invariably select the most attractive women for LTRs. This leaves average and below women and men to mostly have to pair up with each other. Perfectly acceptable for men, utterly intolerable for women. Some throw all their chips on hooking down a straggler HVM, but most eventually "settle" for beta guy they can comfortably take for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:58 PM
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I love that pretending someone said something and then ridiculing them for saying it makes you feel like you've one upped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:06 PM
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Men here speak about squares in a general sense and rarely add concessions that their judgements only apply to rectangles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:30 PM
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The reason these theories and observations of women are typically debunked by surveys and studies is because men observe a small group of women. Particularly, super attractive hyper sexual women. Why? Because you want them. Even though men SAY they don't like sluts, that's a bit of lie, because men are the ones funding the sex industry and OnlyFans. Those women are the fastfood of romantic/sexual outlets. They have enduring popularity due to their accessibility, not because they're particularly …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:49 PM
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I think her point is that even if "watch what women do, don't listen to what they say," isn't inherently bad advice it'll lead to the wrong conclusions if put into practice due to men's tendency to fixate on a specific subset of women who don't represent the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:33 PM
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Before PPD I honestly had no idea so many men were in need of explicit instruction for coed socio relations. I will say that seeing how men here rely on explicitness did highlight a general disconnect I think I’ve always noticed between men and women. Women never really get this. As Jordan Peterson put it "girls are interested in people, boys are interested in things." During the years the brain and personality develops girls learn how to communicate and interpret behaviors at a level the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:44 PM
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What I described has no resemblance to the Madonna/whore complex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:02 AM
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It's hilarious that women here keep insisting their supposed "dating privilege'" just manifests in the attention of a bunch of thirsty dudes they'd never touch. Then a thread like this comes along...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:35 PM
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To be fair that Jane Roe chick was a nutjob who lied about everything from being raped to being straight. She claimed on her deathbed that she was "paid" to become a straight, pro-life, catholic but I think even that wasn't entirely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:52 PM
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Anyone with half a brain would know that Cosmo was was just entertainment pretending to be news and advice. I think people who do horoscopes are full of it but I don't expect them to feel guilty for lying, the readers have themselves to blame for believing it. It seems like her whole complex originates from maybe contributing to abortion legalization. I think she's giving herself too much credit for that and all the "damage" she's supposedly done to girls over the years, she just rode a wave tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:10 PM
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That's fair. The whole point is giving yourself the skills and wisdom to decide what you want to do, rather than your sex and love life being determined by the whims of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:31 PM
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I'm not gonna pretend the difference between outlining and explaining points and rambling off lazy potshots is a subtle one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:27 PM
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A question for the red pill guys converting from type b personalities: is it worth it? Ignoring yourself so to bang as many girls as possible? If banging girls is your goal then yes. You aren't entitled to women's attraction so you have to ask yourself what you're willing sacrifice to meet their standards. It's not in your best interest, but women are under no obligation to twist their desires for your benefit. The good news though is that it's not really "ignoring yourself" so much as being abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:20 PM
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Just because it’s easier for you to screech about misogyny and hinge your argument on the assumption I’ve nothing valuable doesn’t make your rant an actual argument. If you believe divorce courts are fair just because you’ve been told they’re supposed to be then you’re free to do so. But as the person statistically likely to be financially devastated by a divorce I have to pay attention to what happens in the real world.l and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:58 AM
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Because men can be held accountable for mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:03 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:40 AM
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Because I think men and women are prone to certain abusive or at least damaging behaviors towards their opposite sex partners that have both instinctive and societal origins. The difference is that the negative male behaviors are universally accepted to exist and the negative female behaviors are denied wholesale. It's not that men treat women better its that instances of widespread male mistreatment of women are called out and analyzed and types of female mistreatments toward men are regarded a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:39 AM
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No, you're trying to assert an oversimplification of my belief as being my belief to establish yourself on a moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:28 AM
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The difference is that society places an enormous pressure on men to analyze their viewpoints on women and ascertain if they have behaviors rooted in outdated gender roles or goals of self centered gratification. The gender reverse version of that is not just less pronounced, but absolutely unacceptable to consider. Male disposability couldn't have established a societal standard of male partners being consider less valuable just for being men. The "women are wonderful effect" couldn't have set …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:33 AM
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It's more about the widespread emotional abuse and exploitation that men subject themselves to in their relationships with women but I guess not sleeping with that one dude was probably pretty annoying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:11 AM
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That's cause TRP is basically just an internet subculture rather than a society wide trend. Women have a pretty good shot at getting a partner who's not emotionally manipulative and won't take them for granted. Men aren't so lucky, so our only shot is armoring up and mitigating the damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:34 AM
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People are confident they can always spot toupees because they assume every toupee they've identified are the only ones they've seen. It's a premise that ignores the possibility they've could've seen toupees and assumed they were natural hair. People are confident that they can easily spot redpillers based on their ability to identify blatantly obvious examples. Thereby ignoring the possibility that they could have met, been attracting to, or dated redpillers and not recognized it. TRP, like a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:22 AM
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I wasn't satisfied with that so I started searching online, and that's when I found Reddit, specifically the RP subs. The behaviors, the things I didn't get about him, the "quirks" I overlooked started to make sense. Honestly, I don't care if he actually read RP or not, reading that stuff and how people like him might think has helped me exponentially. I couldn't continue on being naive like that. Ironically this is the exact same revelation men finding The Red Pill have about all their past rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:03 AM
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Me too, hence the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:53 AM
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Good effort buddy. With a little research and spellchecker you might not embarrass yourself next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:49 AM
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You know what that word means about as well as you know how to spell it. Calling women on their manipulative bullshit and reminding them of the consequences thereof is not gaslighting. Gaslighting is making your partner question their sanity so you can manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:43 AM
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Yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:04 AM
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Sorry, women don't budge on this one. Their whole existence is spent courageously weathering an entirely justified miasma of fear that men would collapse in terror from experiencing one minute of. Any skepticism is proof of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:14 PM
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This is like saying "I couldn't date a feminist" because she'd spend all day ranting about patriarchy and refuse to do anything sexual while insisting I reassure her that her fat hairy body was beautiful. People we disagree with aren't automatically caricatures just because we disagree with them and TRP is much more about heading off female manipulation than manipulating them in turn. A guy applying TRP properly would make you feel loved and secure by rightfully putting the idea in your head tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:25 PM
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Divorces don’t actually work like that. Yes they do. If both parties disagree on dividing assets judges will assign the property to one person and an appropriate amount of money to the other. Her wardrobe and makeup collection is probably worth as much as your TV and Xbox. Are you going to demand her to buy you out of shared ownership of it? No, because if my past relationships are any indication my "stuff" amount to a handful of expensive and easily appraised items and "her stuff" will amount t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:03 PM
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Because it's worth money if sold. Meaning if she demands it or equal compensation for it I either have to give her more money or sell it and split the proceeds with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:43 PM
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Is that a risk you’re not willing to take even if she makes around the same or even more money than you do? Or a prenup agreement was signed? Women don't date down, and they only reluctantly date laterally. The consequences of a woman divorcing me when we make similar incomes are lower, but the probability of such a woman cheating or leaving me is a lot higher so the commitment is pointless. Most women would refuse to sign a prenup, and even if she did or we made the same amount of money a lot d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:24 PM
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Not really. Alpha widows are girls who settle for beta males they're comfortable with but don't find sexually attractive. Men simply never commit to women they don't find sexually attractive to begin with. The damage thinking about an "old flame" can do to their intimacy is severely limited unless that flame is present and active in their lives to cause a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:03 PM
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As a man, no. Marriage is just me betting half my stuff that my wife will always be attracted to me and only me, and that's a shitty bet. I'm willing to spend the rest of my life with one woman but not to give her the power to throw me on the street and empty my bank account if she decides she wants to start fucking her fitness instructor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:55 PM
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Men aren't animals that need to throw their decency away just because they can. I'll acknowledge that men have a greater threshold for temptation than women and WAY less experience abstaining from indulging that temptation but that isn't a sufficient handicap to excuse giving in to it. The fact is, with a basic level of integrity and discipline any man can say "no" to a tempting sexual encounter. Men who cheat should held fully accountable. In regards to who's "more to blame" it still falls on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:44 PM
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I think both genders can cheat for largely the same reasons, as neither gender is really built for monogamy. I do think men are far more likely to cheat out of straight horniness and women for the emotional validation and excitement of a new partner. That being said I think that men have the capacity to feel more guilty after being confronted by cheating. Men's "instinct" for sleeping around doesn't manifest as a constant desire for multiple partners, but as brief flare ups of arousal when direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 02:42 PM
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Not sure this is true. I think being cheated on hits men harder than women, but men also tend to view their relationship with women as more valuable just due to scarcity. In my experience women are a bit more tolerant but a lot of guys stick around as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 02:13 PM
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I don't think it's really about the girl in those situations. Women view most men as disposable to their lives because they're inundated with male attention. They, in turn, focus their own attention on top value males which creates a similar disregard for their own value in that elite minority. Guys who can sleep around aren't predisposed towards committing towards one woman because they don't have to be. It's not really women falling short of a standard as much as there being no standard for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:01 AM
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There aren't rigid definitions. "Women go for assholes and not nice guys like me" became such a common complaint amongst men on the internet that it became a go to slur for dudes on the internet bitter about their lack of success with women. Later "incel" largely supplanted it. Redpillers are people who believe at least the basics of the Red Pill interpretation of the world, and MGTOW are men who actively abstain from personal relationships with women. Due to "nice guy's" status an insult it's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:38 AM
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Maybe delete this thread and workshop that title.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:34 AM
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1.) Beyond increased STD risk, does sexual history/ n count really matter that much to you? If so, why? She'll appreciate one guy in a half dozen more than one guy in three dozen. 2.) Do you view your sexual history/n count the same way you view a woman’s or a potential partner’s? Probably. I have the N count of someone who doesn't do casual sex but as had a few LTR's and that's who I want to date. 3.) Have you considered how easy it can be for a potential partner to lie about sexual history? Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:50 PM
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Oh God, another victim complex. That's not attractive in any gender. The truth doesn't really give a crap about attractiveness. Who would I be trying to attract right now? You can vet. You guys REFUSE to do it because you're pussy-obsessed. Yeah okay we're exclusively interested with specfic hot women but somehow also don't vet other women due to pussy fixation. That makes a lot of sense. Men don't vet because THEY DON'T GET PURSUED IN THE FIRST PLACE. There's no women to turn down and no social…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:42 PM
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You drive away women with depth and then you chase after women solely based on sexual attraction with any regard to her personality and morals. Men don't "drive away" any women because most men are not pursued by any women to begin with. You're projecting your own privellaged dating experience on men and assuming they have the luxury of "vetting" suitors to select for the ideal romantic partner. Women fixate on top tier men and ignore the rest. To have any success men need to focus their efforts…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:19 PM
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Also, most hookups SUCK. So we didn't have a high sex drive to begin with. No no, you don't know what hook ups with these types of guys are like. You know, since you were never interested in them at all, remember? Most guys here don't even act like they want a relationship, which is why most girls they know are shallow, vain, and greedy. "Not wanting a relationship" doesn't make the women in your life shallow or greedy, that doesn't make sense. Women in your life being shallow or greedy makes yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:28 PM
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Correction: Stupid people do this. Other than very stupid girls, most women are not interested in dating pieces of shit. At best, we'd fuck him and kick him out afterwards because we interested in sex, not his heart. And young people are near universally stupid when it comes to relationships. You may be experienced enough to r/iamverysmart yourself over other people's bad decisions but that doesn't make you representative of the majority of people's romantic histories. Being stupidly attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:58 PM
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Being consistently turned on by someone is all it takes for men and women to try to force a relationship that'll never work. I think most people wind up at least trying to date a piece of shit at some point in their lives and only realize how obvious it was in hindsight. The popular cocky prick with 0% interest in simping for them lights a fire in most women's nethers. Women are attracted to less men than men to women and sex just isn't as important to women in general. But if a girl does get ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:06 AM
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Still RP claims how much women like older guys and that their SMV goes up as they age. It's important as a man to stay in shape and maintain a superior financial situation than most guys your age, but the real reason men's SMV goes up as the age has more to do with women than men. Women's attractiveness goes down considerably as they get older. They spend their youth having an edge over their male peers and when old age erodes their bodies they become a much less enticing romantic prospect. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:44 AM
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In the same way men who are unlikeable jerks view themselves as "nicer" guys than they actually are, women who sleep around view themselves as more sexually exclusive than they really are. There's a reason women are pushing a narrative about the pervasiveness of "fuckboys" who supposedly lead women on just to sleep with them. Women like to pretend their promiscuity is the result of being tricked into a one night stand by players, but really they know exactly how all those stories are going to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:34 AM
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This honestly is the best answer. The most important people in a daycare are the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:01 AM
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I love that men keep everything running in society from building skyscrapers to scraping shit off of sewer walls and women think it's even cause they're in charge of managing feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:59 AM
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But it does mean women are the dominant force in creating those doomed family units. So they disproportionately shoulder a burden they were disproportionately responsible for creating. It's like saying car companies do more for the environment than lemonade stands because they work to reduce emissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:51 AM
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Being married or appearing early in a child's life aren't reliable metrics for men not being reluctant fathers from the beginning. They're financially penalized and socially scorned if they don't play an immediate active role as a parent, so initial compliance is not automatically wholehearted collaboration. There's no way to just be talking about men who wanted to be dads but changed their mind when the social impact you're referencing doesn't filter the other men out in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:18 AM
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It's absurd to compare both genders' relative commitment to parenthood when only one gender can be dragged into parenthood unwillingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:57 AM
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So, for the sake of argument, assuming these these statements are true: what exactly do you want us to do with this information? There is no practical solution being sought after because there isn't one. Humans are an accident, there was never any guarantee that our problems would have clear cut solutions.It's not a question of fixing the problem, it's just the struggle to stop everyone's relentless drive to ignore and mischaracterize it. Just making the situation common knowledge is a victory i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:41 AM
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Not doing something because you don't have enough "motivation" is bitch logic. You're setting yourself up to procrastinate by pretending you're one self help post away from kicking into gear. What you're lacking is discipline.. You need to force yourself to do shit no matter how much you don't want to do it. Don't wait for wanting to do something to fuel your activity level. If you say you're not going to work out today then you're basically saying you never will again. Nothing about tomorrow wi…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:51 PM
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People are always more irresponsible with money they don't earn. Getting a fat check from Daddy every month without doing anything to deserve it will slowly but surely fuck up any woman's sense of fiscal responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 06:43 PM
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