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| 2 | Game For Fat Men: You're Not A Fat Man, You Just A Man With A Lot Of Body FatWhats wrong with being 300lbs? I'm 6'4" and weigh 300lbs and am not fat at all. I have a lot of muscle but would certainly not consider myself fat. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | [Technique] I should probably share some of this finesse that works 100% of the time for me, and why I always carry a pack of gum.Just the fact that you assume something that you've never even tried before. This entire community is toxic and FULL of horny guys who are desperate to get laid. The jealousy among this entire subreddit is extreme. And I'm not even talking about you or anyone in particular. I've seen some outstanding advice on here before that has been proven to work, but gets downvoted to hell because guys on here get extremely jealous when they read a comment from another guy who is successful with women. They… | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:14 PM |
| -2 | [Technique] I should probably share some of this finesse that works 100% of the time for me, and why I always carry a pack of gum.You dont strike me as the type who would ever have any idea whether it would work or not | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 03:36 PM |
| -11 | [Technique] I should probably share some of this finesse that works 100% of the time for me, and why I always carry a pack of gum.As corny as this sounds, it's definitely a good, easy way to break the ice. After a few drinks it wont be as hard to approach her and say, in a joking way, something like: "Hey, so you wanna make out now?" (Or use your imagination) and see what she says. If she says no or laughs it off then whatever. No harm, no foul, right? And no one has to be uncomfortable or feel awkward about it like you would if you just straight up approached her. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:52 AM |
| 5 | Is online dating a waste of time?I agree with what you're saying but his point is the fact that these girls who do OLD are getting hit on every single day by several guys. Not that a little competition ever hurt anyone but I'd say thats a little too much. Like he said, unless you're a rich, handsome doctor then you will be outnumbered at some point. I tend to agree with OP, I tried OLD and sure, had a good time with a few girls, but as far as Im concerned that's as far as it goes for me. OLD is great for hook ups, not so great … | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 11:27 PM |
| 3 | How much does a good personality increase attractiveness for you?You forgot to say Amen | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How much does a good personality increase attractiveness for you?Very well said, and very true | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 14 | How much does a good personality increase attractiveness for you?It seems like the average frustrated chumps on here are the ones who say "looks aren't everything, personality is!" and the guys who actually get the girls are the ones saying "well, actually...some hot girls have great personalities!" It's quite simple, they do. The AFC's just don't know any better because 1. They have never been with a really hot girl, and 2. They are used to getting treated like shit by hot girls so naturally they will think their personality sucks. This is quite funny to rea… | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 07:45 AM |
| 4 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!Just that OP will need to be very patient with her. That's an understatement | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!Yeah, that part sounds a little odd. I don't care who you are, you have to go out of your way and put in effort to dodge a kiss like that. She was clearly dead set against it, and now I'm wondering why.. I wonder what reason she gave, if any. You'd expect her to say something after that move, right? | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Ohhh, yeah I kinda knew what it meant..just been hearing it a lot lately. I'm not really self-absorbed. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.My coworker called me self-absorbed last week, what's up with that? Is this a new term women are giving men now who are confident about themselves? Not bashing you, I'm genuinely curious. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.I agree with this 1000%. Tells it like it is, no holds barred, and he's absolutely right. If you are actively searching for a date or a good fuck all weekend and can't find at least one then something is seriously wrong there. Social circles don't even count as far as I'm concerned. It's NOT hard to pick up a woman at a bar if you know what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.He's not necessarily wrong. If a guy puts in effort in the sense that he makes himself more appealing to women (nice clothes, better shape, haircut, etc) then I consider that effort and it most certainly will help you get laid. Also, confidence plays the biggest factor in getting dates and getting laid, while looks run a VERY close second it doesn't top confidence. Let me put it this way, a good looking guy and an average looking guy both hit on the same 10/10 woman, the good looking guy is extr… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.That's actually quite simple, it's because we have experience in the dating culture and we know damn well how much women are focused on looks. They don't know shit about dating and probably sit behind a computer and follow a strict moral code and have never been to a singles joint in their lives like we have. Women are more full of shit than men will ever be. Fact. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Ooooh, well yeah, I'm not gonna disagree with that... | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.I'm 6'3" so I'm good, lol. You're so right about that though, damn. People try saying it's not about looks...but it really is, come on now. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.I know, I was only kidding. I do agree with what you're saying. Some areas are vastly different when it comes to that. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.You just described the entire country | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Lol, gotcha! Happy to help! | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.You know it's probably written by a guy when the title reads "an actual woman" | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.To live? Or just visit? To visit, I used to bartend the banquet facility at a Hotel called the Royal Sonesta in Boston/Cambridge area. It's right downtown and easily accessible to pretty much everything (Highway, train, etc). It's not as expensive as it sounds either...well, it kind of is, but it's a 5+ star hotel with 4 star prices. As for living, Revere is a really good area right outside of Boston right along the ocean. Like anywhere it has its good areas and bad areas but I alwqys considered… | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Oh good, you're smart 😉 Mets are okay with me. In that case, GO PATRIOTS!! Lol | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.At the driving range, lol. "It's working overtime" "Glad to hear that!" The Departed is my favorite movie of all time next to Jarhead. It's so busy around here because of all the colleges and universities, and because it's a tourist town. Should see the beach bars in July, holy hell. I agree, for the most part, with what you're saying. I just feel like it varies greatly from person to person and imo shouldn't affect someone's status if they have 3 friends vs 23. Yankees SUCK, by the way.. 💯😉 | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.I live in Tampa, Florida. The night life here is twice the size it was in Boston, tbh... I wasn't describing myself, just saying that as most people get older (30's) they usually tend to have a small social circle they would consider friends and a lot tend to focus more on their careers. My point is that the size of your social circle shouldn't be a major factor in that regard. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.What part of the south are you talking about? I'm in Tampa/Clearwater area and I don't agree with that at all. We have a pretty level playing field here for everyone. I work at a popular bar here and I see all walks of life. In fact, I see it to be the complete opposite of what you said. Far more girls than guys for sure. Maybe it's just this area, idk. But I have no problems with that here..I have dated far more women here in 1 year time than I did in several years up north. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.This. If you're out looking for a woman to take home then looks play the biggest factor, idc what anyone says. No, you dont need to be a male model but think about it... if you're an out of shape guy with unkempt hair and a gut, and there's a few other guys in the bar that are decent looking, in good shape, and dressed well...who are the women going to focus more on?? Call it what you want but I call it common sense. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 10 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.What you're describing is known as a miserable loser | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Advice on what, though? If a guy is unappealing and having trouble getting a girl then the answer is writing on the wall as far as I'm concerned. Go to the gym, lose weight, get a haircut, spend $2000 on tattoos, buy some new clothes, grow some confidence, rob a bank. There's your long piece. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 12 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Confidence, mystery, and non-neediness are definitely the 3 key words here. Not so much for being a "bad boy" but in general. And with the overpopulation of desperate, insecure, needy/clingy guys these days it's a pretty rare thing for a guy to have those qualities. Sense of humor is a bonus but not mandatory, and social circle is ehh unless you're 20 years old. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Hey man, I wasn't knocking you at all, just being honest...not sure what you mean by "wishful thinking" but from my experience I do know that one night stands and FWB's are almost always based solely on looks and appeal, and relationships are based on everything else. Confidence is key in both situations. I also work at a popular bar and see this shit every night. If you're not confident then the only thing you're going home with is an empty wallet. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Either you dont date much or your standards are extremely low. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 05:21 PM |
| 76 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Isn't that the problem in the dating world these days is people trying to "appear" to be someone they're not? If a guy doesn't understand what a "bad boy" is then he should not be attempting to be one just to pick up a girl. That's just pathetic. Same goes for women. I've dated women that should have won an Oscar for their first date performance. Exaggerate about yourself and your qualities a little, everyone does it, but don't try to be someone completely different just because you want someone… | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating women & petting catsTouche, ass hole 😁 | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating women & petting catsI still don't like you 😉 | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating women & petting catsSolid point, I guess. But that's just the way I am. Sometimes it does suck, but you don't know me and probably wouldn't understand why it is wwhat it is. Instead of dwelling over my personal issues I make the best out of them and this is how I do it. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating women & petting catsYeah, maybe I am.. You're the one who just said i was insecure dude (your own words)..I was just correcting you, lol. And yes, it absolutely, 110% does help keep feelings in check for me. Like I said, if one doesn't work out then it's onto the next without thinking twice. Might not work for you but it's worked for me for 3+ years now. Sounds like you're the narcissist over here making every possible attempt to tell me what i do and don't do and how I feel. Doesn't matter, you're nobody. Must suc… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating women & petting catsThe point is I don't care about you or your life. This entire thread has absolutely nothing to do with you, dude. OP made a point and I backed him up because it's true, end of story. I have very few insecurities and dating women is certainly not one of them. You're coming here basically trying to tell me, OP, and everyone else that dating more than one woman at a time is naive and insecure? Maybe for you it is, but you'd be surprised at how many people do it. I work with a girl who brings in a d… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Dating women & petting catsIt is very true, very real, and very awesome.. you've been married for 16 years so it's quite apparent that you're not familiar with the dating scene today. Plus, I work at a popular bar so it's not hard to meet them. I've been single by choice for over 5 years and wouldn't change it for the world. And we are talking about dating here...not married or even being in a committed relationship- that just wouldn't work out for most people. I'm not saying I date 7 women at once, I definitely don't and… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Dating women & petting catsI couldn't agree more. Dating more than 1 woman at a time is an excellent idea and really plays a hand at keeping feelings in check. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 10:30 PM |
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