Bot9813 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
205	Staywithmeisha?	DISCUSSION	Bot9813	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 05:41 PM
183	Why do they do this?	DISCUSSION	Bot9813	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 02:20 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Let’s talk hobbies! What are your current hobbies? What’s a hobby you’re interested in starting? Current: reading, painting, cooking, I go to gym classes most days (yoga, cycling, barre, TRX), learning French Want to get back into: refurbishing furniture, glassworking, woodchip, making jewelry, pottery Interested in: woodworking, crafts classes, volunteering	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 03:19 AM
39	on beauty standards and wanting to opt out, way way out I think you're doing a great job leveling up! Just remember, it's not all about physical appearance. Part of building up your standards and confidence is knowing that if you want to turn into a swamp witch, you absolutely can and you still deserve to be treated with respect. To get that respect, you have to let go of other people's judgements a bit. Your suspicions about men's comments are accurate. They start with comments in appearance because they are shallow and low-effort. Even a "hello, ho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 04:06 PM
63	Once again, Guard Your Womb, Sisters. Same here! Let's not forget that the vast majority of single mothers have confessed it's actually easier without their deadbeat exes around - he was just an extra kid to take care of 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 03:43 PM
8	There is hope! My only concern with a group like that would be the hive mind kind of scenario where they get together and find ways to blame all their issues on women. Like an incel group under the guise of mental health. I guess that depends on who's in charge of the group, but I definitely wouldn't take participation alone as a sign of high value	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 09:27 PM
19	Just saw this posted at another community… 🤮 This is just bad advice? Lol I lost 70 pounds and if anything, the extra attention from men just made me even more cautious	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 08:46 PM
34	Saw this on IG. Could say I'm shocked but sadly I'm not. Often when it's a bio relative, the family doesn't report it to keep up appearances or protect reputations. Of all the SA victims I know, almost all were abused by bio relatives first - only one was convicted	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 01:55 PM
7	What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single? Woah almost same situation here! Def same with the emotional stability. Turns out I don't just cry every day lol. I'm now able to fully grow to my heart's content. I started grad school in water resources engineering. While doing more research, I've decided to stop eating red meat, nuts, dairy, and palm oil (which is also in most cleaning supplies, hygienic care, and makeup so it is not easy). While with my ex I just wasn't eating beef and he gave me so much shit about it, I never would have bee…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 03:52 AM
36	I want your stories: Have you ever dated a guy who really looked up to guys like Elon Musk or Bill Gates & What was your experience? Never dated, but a coworker who also went to college with me idolizes them. He has this fantasy of becoming a multi-billionaire through investing, always bring up how he almost bought stock in GameStop. He spends his money on shit investments and has his gf pay for their shared expenses (except rent - that's 50/50 🙄) Every single conversation he has with me ends up revolving around sex, even when I only respond to work-related things. He brings up Jordan Peterson a fair bit. He goes on and on ab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 01:09 AM
31	Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats! My dog (R) is a rescue and he takes awhile to warm up to new people. I always warn people about that because I don't want them to assume he's aggressive when he jumps back after sniffing them. Anyway, I dated a guy who basically love-bombed R. He'd bring R gifts, tell me that R was happy when he visited, would try to cuddle with him, kiss his snout (which R especially does not like), and would ignore all the signs that he was making R uncomfortable. During that time he was also suggesting he and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 01:11 AM
64	Why do they do this? Boy moms are the literal worst. I dated a guy in college whose mom AND GRANDMA held an "intervention" for me because I don't want to have biological kids. They literally told me his DNA was too good to not continue (there was literally nothing impressive about him) 😒	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 03:29 AM
13	TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years. After leaving my college bf and finding only losers on OLD, I thought I'd give sugar dating a shot. My thought process was essentially "fuck it, at least the dates will be nicer." After just four months, meeting 6 men, being cheated out of money, and a very close call with being assaulted (forever grateful my dog is so protective of me); I finally blocked all the scrotes and got myself into therapy. I had been depressed and dealt with anxiety before, but this was totally different. The experienc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 02:48 AM
2	Staywithmeisha? This is why I posted! I have read the handbook but personally, I have a hard time recognizing the specific behaviors I engage in when it's all under the same umbrella term. Of course the pickme traits come from the same internalizations, everything we've been taught to do as women does. But the actual actions DO change as the relationship progresses and it was important for my growth to acknowledge those differences.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 12:12 AM