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FundamentalsBounceThatShit/r/seduction06/09/21 11:58 AM
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3

Where are you from?
/r/seduction30/06/26 03:11 AM
2

Ignore the message and move on. Never show desperation
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:51 PM
1

I’d say thats almost too formal like you’re in a job interview. Make it chill and move with confidence and humour
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:00 PM
1

Nah i find that worse, ill just talk to a girl at a bar or try to dance with them
/r/seduction20/06/26 01:19 AM
2

Definitely do NOT base your game off of hstikktokky jesus christ man! Tbh most times i could approach are either to or from work or if im out with friends. If i see an opportunity in the supermarket or on the way to the gym ill go for it. I never do it at the gym or on the way back from the gym. Just gotta find opportunities in every day life and go for it
/r/seduction20/06/26 01:04 AM
1

Where?
/r/seduction20/06/26 12:58 AM
5

I feel like you should just approach women on a day to day. Don’t dedicate a whole evening to doing it because it will make you come across as desperate or do multiple locations instead of walking up and down the same road
/r/seduction20/06/26 12:58 AM
5

You’re definitely in the uk right or you at least type like you are. You’re thinking way too much into it, you keep saying it’s insanely hard. It’s not just go and talk to them, if you want to fuck uou gotta try
/r/seduction20/06/26 12:54 AM
2

Women need some “convincing” to come back on the first night. Not exactly convincing but almost validation or reassurance that you wont think of them differently for doing so. I always put out feelers throughout the date about how society views women as sluts for doing things like that etc. not even to necessarily try to get them that night just because I actually believe that and its nice fir them to feel comfortable. I’m not sure if what i said makes sense but it works. A lot of societal press…
/r/seduction19/06/26 03:48 PM
3

Lowkey doesn’t sound like you know what youre talking about… you can absolutely have 175+ bodies and still wanna write your number down and still read the signs if a college girl going to the beach doesn’t want your company. You sound like the creep if you think he should’ve pushed when they waved him off.
/r/seduction18/06/26 01:48 PM
68

I would like to see the quality of the girls youre taking home
/r/seduction18/06/26 01:19 PM
1

Bloody hell mate, long response. Well by being smart i mean i start a conversation if we have something in common or theres a conversation starter. I dont just randomly approach women and say Hi. Thats boring and not memorable. During the conversation i will usually say things that invoke curiosity or something and once asked give a vague answer, which makes them curious and want to see me again. I also maybe approach 1-2 women per week and usually get a response from both. I work full time so I…
/r/seduction17/06/26 04:59 PM
1

You can call bull shit i dont really care lmao
/r/seduction17/06/26 03:23 PM
1

Yeah if you’re smart about when and where you do it
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:48 PM
28

More guys need to read this fr
/r/seduction17/06/26 03:32 AM
1

Sometimes same day, sometimes a couple days. But it happens usually. Especially if its in an unusual situation
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:55 PM
8

A good tactic I’ve found with cold approaches is “I’ll give you my number and if you ever want to chill or get curious, message me” works a lot for me.
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:45 PM
1

Ask questions about or comment on it their answer or make the questions flow
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:20 PM
1

By asking a question
/r/seduction15/06/26 01:53 PM
1

Then you respond to what they say. Always make sure it invokes a response from them though. And/Or makes them laugh
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:43 AM
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Compliment people on something cool they’re wearing or something they’re wearing that you can tell they like. Or someone’s hair etc. Or even sports teams. Like the knicks just won you can start a convo about that
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:21 PM
1

Honestly my best advice is to just get comfortable talking to and complimenting ANYONE. Do it to guys and girls, gays and straights, any race. Just start random conversations and realise that everyone’s human. Once youre comfortable with that then try to add a bit of flirting with women. Also everyone knows how to be charming theyre just too nervous and not confident enough to pull it off. Say whatever is on your mind and it works with the right confidence and delivery. But start at square one w…
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:55 PM
1

I mean it works for me and continues to work, i dont think its that bad i cant lie
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:02 AM
3

Grow some ball and approach. Something as simple as “I would hate myself if i dint come and introduce myself because I’m really attracted to you” its easy. Its harder said than done but just dont think too much and if you want to pursue and eventually do the dirty with this woman you need to go for it
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:00 PM
1

Yeah for sure it does but if you can do that then it means you’re not ugly, so walk around like youre hot shit, why not, only person who would give a shit is you
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:31 PM
1

Im not sure how old you are but this is bare minimum. If you can get a girl to stay and talk to you and agree to hosting you on omegle then you can do it in real easily. So grow some balls and do it. Just be confident or act how you think someone confident would act, then you’ll see how easy it is and it will become natural!
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:59 PM
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I think he’s already made it pretty clear he wants to see her again so idk if that would work. He’s gotta give it some time to message again a couple weeks minimum
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:02 PM
1

Simple answer, because I want to have sex with them. That’s why I approached them or started talking to them in the first place.
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:13 PM
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You’re gonna have to play the long game with this one if you wanna get with her again. Or ask her if she’s out at the same time as you e.g. if youre on a night out hit her up n see if shes at any bars close. Or pull back and hit her up in a month or something. A lot of times i hit old flings up with “idk why but i had a sex dream about you” most times i didnt but it works pretty often. Also NEVER ask a girl if she wants to see you again, i always mention a second date without phrasing it like a …
/r/seduction22/04/26 03:53 PM
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You need to stop thinking this makes you special lmao, most guys can do this if they want to. Your special because you can fuck women? Me too and 90% of the male population outside of reddit. Get over yourself
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:46 PM
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Why do you think this makes you special? Do you think this makes you better than people? Do you come across as this much of a prick to people in real life or just on reddit?
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:46 AM
4

Wrong sub for meeting but right sub for not being so desperate in the future
/r/seduction18/04/26 06:46 PM
2

Honesty and taking advantage of opportunities.
/r/seduction15/04/26 10:43 PM
1

I’m telling you, call don’t text. Make your texts a long time between replies, like you’re not interested but reply like you are just take your time
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:37 AM
35

Watch a movie after and see if the vibe is there and make a move. Or if she’s sick offer her a massage
/r/seduction14/01/26 01:21 AM
2

You’re right that was a mad assumption my bad
/r/seduction11/01/26 08:31 PM
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Yeah i understand that and there are definitely women out there who are into that. I just don’t believe it’s most of them. If you approach most women like they’re just sex objects because they don’t need to feel anything from sex then you’ll find less success imo. I’m not saying get the girl to fall in love with you, just more passion will get them coming back more from my experience
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:50 PM
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Strong disagree with that.
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:08 PM
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You shoulda hit her up later that night
/r/seduction11/01/26 03:59 AM
5

Tell them you’re not looking for something serious after you’ve had a good date or right before you’re about to have sex. Don’t tell them at the begging of the date it will set it off like you’re just trying to have sex (even though you are) no woman wants to think they’re just a sex object
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:02 PM
2

Maybe you just weren’t intimate enough during sex. Maybe she wanted more out of it and you just saw it as sex. Create mire boundaries and make sure they know its just sex and nothing will come from it. Sometimes no connection means “you fucked me like I’m nothing” when they want you to fuck them like you’re in a loving relationship
/r/seduction09/01/26 02:58 PM
1

There’s a couple things, game can be done without words, with eye contact etc, also because he was by the dj maybe she thought he was a friend of the dj etc. also it helps being attractive of course, it would just take more effort and you need to put in the work before she gets bored and goes for a guy like him
/r/seduction06/01/26 10:46 PM
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The best way ive found to initiate touch is looking at her nails, compliment them and as you do you grab her hand. Of course it helps if theyre painted etc
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:23 AM
1

Tbh i work as a waiter and doing that with customers is like a cheat code. If not you can spark up a conversation anywhere
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:15 AM
2

Don’t use dating apps they’re shit for guys. Start with regular conversation with women, but practice none-creepy/seductive eye contact. Speak with a more relaxed tone of voice and try seduce them without flirting. As you gain confidence begin to flirt etc
/r/seduction04/01/26 05:16 PM
9

Even if you end up fucking it will cause drama in your work place, the place you get money is way more important than fucking
/r/seduction04/01/26 04:40 PM
1

Damn bro, you’re really obsessed with these self esteem issues and not sure if you wanna go for it, but posting on reddit? I’d avoid it to save her from you. Honestly if you actually want her then be up front, dont say the nasty shit because that’s creepy. Just flirt with her, give her extra eye contact, try get her alone when in a group setting. Make her laugh and dont come across as arrogant as you do in this post.
/r/seduction01/01/26 09:09 AM
1

Its not about caring about approaching them its not caring about the consequences of approaching them, stop caring about what you think will happen after and just go for it. Or keep over thinking what might happen and go without ever having sex🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction30/12/25 04:52 PM
11

Well look into a therapist thats specific to what you’re looking for?
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:48 PM
2

Work in a chill restaurant part time, try with customers and colleagues. Worked for me plenty when i was single
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:41 AM
5

No absolutely not, if they’re uncomfortable then thats on the guy. But if you’ve already made out etc then i doubt it would make them feel uncomfortable to move it to the next level…
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:07 PM
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Imo most guys still will be too scared to be so forward about getting a girl back even after they kiss them. I just feel like some guys are too pussy to be forward and out right tell a girl what they want.
/r/seduction16/09/25 05:55 AM
2

“Lets watch a movie” or find some common ground or straight up say come over
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:53 AM
11

If you’re at a bar “Lets have some more drinks at my place” If you’re out for dinner “I’ve got a nice bottle of wine back at my place, lets go”. If the chemistry it’s good then they’ll probably be down, kiss and try to escalate. What happens happens
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:20 PM
1

You know exactly what you should do/say but you’re just too nervous to actually do it. Stop asking questions on here and use other people’s guidance so you don’t place the blame on yourself if it doesn’t work. If she’s looking at you in the eyes the whole time, go for the kiss. Go for it before dinner if the chemistry is there while you’re at the museum. Build even more tension at dinner and shes at your place after dinner. Don’t be scared to escalate. The only reason you’re there is to build a …
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:13 PM
6

This happened to me, had one beautiful woman leave in the morning then another come the afternoon like an hour apart. After the second left i felt unfulfilled and that’s when i decided that I’m gonna get a girlfriend instead of just hooking up. Now I’m happy and in a relationship, i miss casual sex with other women but in the grand scheme of it all I’m way happier
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:49 PM
1

It could also be that she wants a regular thing with someone closer not someone that you have to arrange a meeting etc and isn’t readily available especially if it’s just casual. I’ve done it before 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:23 PM
16

Is this made by a guy who actually talks to women in real life or am I missing something??
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:02 PM
5

If you can flirt on text you can flirt in real life, just grow some balls and say what you think dont second guess whether you should or shouldn’t say something
/r/seduction18/08/24 08:57 AM
2

Because people are in denial and are clinging onto the small bit of validation they get from getting a number, even if they dont have sex with 90% of them
/r/seduction18/08/24 08:52 AM
0

You’re trying to act all high on mighty on a seduction sub. Men on here are looking for tips to seduce women… The verb to seduce is defined as “to entice someone into sexual activity” to you can be as disrespectful as you want youre only words on a screen and even if you may not like it, those words are wrong.
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:35 PM
4

What is the goal? To seduce women, no?
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:28 PM
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I’m just trying to emphasise that the number doesn’t seal the deal. Its a big step to begin cold approaching but there are many factors as to why they have given the number, i wouldn’t say it’s a way to measure success
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:22 PM
-4

Nice, next step is to see hee naked
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:09 PM
28

Its great you’re doing this, but idk why people in this sub think getting the number is a success. Thats only half the battle, I’ve had plenty of girls give me their number and then completely ignore my initial message
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:07 PM
2

Ask her to call, get her comfortable there and ask again on the phone before you’re about to leave
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:37 AM
0

I always say something about their nails, if they got nail polish on (could be the most basic ass colour” but I usually go “lemme see your nails” and grab their finger to take a better look. Plus a girl always care about her nails so its like youre taking an interest in her too
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:21 AM
1

Are you wanting a hookup out of this or more?
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:13 AM
1

For a first date i never go to a restaurant only to a bar, alcohol helps loosen people up, yourself mainly, and give you a lil confidence. Restaurants are to like formal for a first date imo. Can seem a little like an interview
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:09 AM
4

All thus gym bull shit is not it. You don’t need to go to the gym, you need personality. Take it from an out of shape guy who regularly fucks beautiful women. You need a personality that makes girls feel comfortable and entertains them. Not some douchey personality. Of course the douchey personality and going to the gym works, but you’ll only be having sex with women who are cunts. The main way to get a personality that makes women comfortable and entertains them is to be yourself. However you a…
/r/seduction21/03/24 06:27 AM
57

This just feels like you wanna be like the guys on TV. Grow up and ask their names for fucks sake.
/r/seduction12/11/23 02:26 AM
1

Everyone needs tp believe number 9 at all times. Thats a main reason I’m actually successful with women
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:45 PM
7

Its my distrust of women that helps me not to get emotionally attatched
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:55 AM
3

I feel like a good skill to have in this “game” is to tell which girls would kiss on the first meeting and which wouldn’t. Girls at work are especially ones that almost definitely wont kiss on the first meeting
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:42 PM
1

This jus seems like you’re using women to boost your ego, thats not a healthy way to live bro trust me
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:10 PM
1

I’d try to move off girls from the internet called bubble gum, you’re getting hung up on a girl called bubble gum my bro
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:01 PM
1

I’d just wait til you see her again, you already seem too eager, but if you lay off it could work, or it might not. Either way its a win so you can focus on other girls if she doesn’t seem into it
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:59 PM
3

Honestly I’ve had a lot of success with a lot of attractive women, without even knowing half of the techniques you guys are talking about. I don’t have a bangin body or anything. I’m actually a thick boy. However I’m very confident in myself and my abilities, in and out of the bedroom. I’m funny and witty, which isn’t hard to be, you just have to not be scared of the consequences when you say what you’re actually thinking. Also I’m me 100% of the time, which again demonstrates confidence, no mat…
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:04 AM
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Confidence comes from within and it starts by trying to love yourself. What I’ve found is “fake it til you make it” works well to start off. Unfortunately theres no set definition of what confidence is so unfortunately most people can only tell you to be confident
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:02 PM
1

This is your second post on this
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:29 PM
1

Alcohol also helps
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:56 PM
3

If you both get drunk it’s 90% gonna end up in sex, dont be a pussy n just do it
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:25 AM
1

Like 20 minutes, I met her in an uber pool
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:24 AM
2

Go do things that you’re interested in, or pick up a hobby. Maybe you cone across too eager? Could go to fitness classes like yoga etc then after engage in conversation? Maybe you could find different friends there too, people who you could go out with. Also if you’re not drunk at a club you’re probably not gonna enjoy it
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:45 AM
6

Maybe she doesn’t know you enough to make a decision or maybe she’s been hurt in the past and is guarding herself
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:37 AM
2

Well I’ve never have to resort to a game and I’ve got a pretty good success rate, if it works for you fuck it, I’m not gonna use it but it may help others.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:23 AM
2

Ngl to you bro I feel like in your mind this is a good move. It’s honestly not, seems cliche n boring. You need to entertain her with wit and humour and you yourself have to be memorable and different
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:03 AM
2

Banter and flirting. All girls have SO MANY options on dating apps, so it’s extremely hard to keep their attention for a decent amount of time. The power balance is shifted so much in the girls direction its hard to actually bag on them. Also a lot of them just go on them cos they’re bored
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:59 AM
2

You saw cat rape my bro
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:52 PM
1

Tbh the gym isn’t as necessary as some are making out. My body type is kinda similar to yours and I find a lot of success with attractive women. Fashion sense, if you have good fashion that suits your body type it works wonders. Some of your t shirts look too tight n highlight your flaws. Confidence, if you come like they’re missing out if they don’t pursue you without coming across as arrogant they’ll love it. This is tricky but it works, silent confidence is great. Style your beard more, it ca…
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:26 PM
5

A nightclub smoking area is a very effective way to meet women. I work in a restaurant which is also a good way to do this but you have to be good at covert flirting and decent at using eye contact
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:19 PM
2

You gotta remember to be yourself first and foremost, there’s a reason she asked you. Also definitely eye contact, but keep it for as long as she does and dont be too over bearing with it (I still struggle with this). One good way I’ve found to break the touch barrier, hugging isn’t too effective to me because everyone hugs, I find asking about her nails and asking to see them and grabbing her hand while running your thumb along her nail and complimenting her on them. Girls fucking love their na…
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:18 PM
1

After the first lockdown in the UK, I managed to have sex with 9 different girls in a month. Let me tell you it was fucking exhausting. The pent up frustration made me go balls to the wall. You literally have time for nothing else. I’d suggest doing what I used to do before fucking corona. If you’re not looking for long-term fwb I’d just try getting a new girl every 3/4 months. But you need to let them know the deal and don’t go leading girls on. I made some good friends put of that tbh
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:11 PM
1

If she didn’t make her exes wait maybe she’s not tryna make the same mistake multiple times? Sounds like she’s taking a mature stance on your situationship and you’re taking a very immature one. Its alright to take things slow, try it. No relationship has become fruitful if it’s started with an ultimatum. If she asked to be exclusive then she’s definitely not playing you.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:06 PM
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If you have a low opinion of yourself then you’ll only attract others who have the same opinion of themselves... This is not a case of opposites attract. Work on your self confidence and maturity and you’ll get those hot confident girls trust me
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:56 PM
1

I’d try talking to her, ask to call her instead of texting too
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:43 PM
5

Man you’re thinking too much about it, just ask them
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:42 PM
1

Girls from dating apps flake A LOT, girls you meet in real life are way less likely to flake. Thats my experience with it.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:31 AM
1

If you cant meet up this week, say next weekend or whatever but you HAVE to call/FaceTime her. This keeps them interested, texting gets boring, especially when you’re forcing it until you meet.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:21 AM
1

I cant lie if she said you could’ve kissed her if you hadn’t sent that message you still could’ve kissed her, you just didn’t finesse it enough. You accepted defeat way too easy. The interest cant have just gone after she realised. Thats where you’re lacking bro
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:19 AM
3

Sounds like you need to start flirting and/or making her laugh because if you’re not entertaining why would she stay or care to talk to you?
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:08 AM
1

Tbh man its jus a bandaid you gotta rip off, also its easier to get a good response from a girl if you approach her group with at least one other friend, a single guy approaching a girl/s kinda seems creepy
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:43 PM
1

A couple of my LGBTQ+ friends actually found their partners on tinder and have told me its actually really good for LGBTQ+ relationships so why not give that a shot?
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:19 AM
18

Well you’ll get a girl with the same energy
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:26 AM
2

Yeaj i know its normal it just takes some getting used to, maybe practice on girls you find attractive at like restaurants or a coffee shop or something
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:26 AM
90

Honestly I feel like the best way to “impress” women is to do what you want because that shows you’re not afraid to be yourself which in turn demonstrates confidence
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:15 PM
2

If you’ve not talked in 8 months definitely don’t just start by asking her out. Just hit her up again, imo it’s DEFINITELY better to call than text
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:13 PM
2

Sometimes this happens when you haven’t fully introduced yourself to each other or like broken that barrier of conversation. Try talking to her one time, whats the worst that could happen, especially if you’re not trying to flirt, women pick up on whether a guy is into them or not
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:46 PM
1

You came off way too strong initially, it doesn’t matter if you felt the best you’ve ever felt it wouldn’t have worked. Start a conversation so she thinks you’re a guy she wants to meet. Then get her number etc
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:02 PM
1

Imo I do it in the morning and joke about the night before so the attraction is still fresh, if you leave it too long they’ll eventually forget they were into you, however i keep the replies far apart so you dont come off too strong
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:38 AM
0

Next time you see her, ask her her name because you always see her. Always keep eye contact when you ask her what her name is and tell her to take your number. I cant stress enough how important eye contact is its crazy
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:30 AM
1

It honestly depends on your last message, if it was a conversation ender then it’s all good. I would say leave it a couple days so you don’t seem too desperate, remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. When you text her again make it a reply to her story and make sure a conversation can be had from it not just a compliment that only gets a thanks
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:28 AM
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