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| 1 | Great comment by /u/Volcanix in Askreddit about how to have an enjoyable conversation for those that 'don't know what to say'Awesome. I would reiterate the fact that you need to ask meaningful questions. Ask why they did something, or think a certain way. Ask how they felt about a certain event that recently happened to them. You need to connect on an emotional level. Women have lots of feelings. You need to get her to open up those feelings to you to make her feel more connected and have a better relationship with you. That happens when you ask deep, meaningful questions that help you understand exactly how she ticks… | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/12/13This happened to me recently. Met a girl at a dance, set up by a mutual friend. We danced some, but before I got her number, I had to bounce. So I texted our mutual friend and said "hey, I forgot to get X's number. could you give her mine and tell her I'd like to take her out some time?" It worked. By giving her my number and allowing her to text me if she wants to, I took away a lot of the pressure off of her. She will text me only if she actually wants to. I do not appear needy, because I didn… | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/12/13I agree with you on this matter. If you text a girl after you've done something to let her know that you did it anyway, she'll take it as you trying to make her jealous, because after all, that is what they would have done. So even if you weren't trying to make her jealous, she'll think you were. Now, to her, she see's you trying to make her jealous; this means that she thinks she already has you. Know what I mean? | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 06:25 PM |
| 2 | good challenges to do?Go in with a silly goal. Have your wingman set challenges for you. For instance, he could tell you to try to get as many lines from the Pokemon theme song in as you can. Or he may tell you that you can't attempt to take her home until you get her to say "orange." These challenges will make things interesting and improve your confidence quite a bit. If you get blown out, no biggie. It was a retarded conversation anyway and you had a huge disadvantage. You complete the challenge? You're the fuckin… | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.Honestly, that's gold. I've used that myself a few times before. It works because she instantly feels like she's the less mature person in the relationship/interaction. Girls want mature guys. If she feels like you're more mature, instant attraction boost. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Why clothing shops are a great place to approach.Do it. It will help with the insecurity. The chick will help you find clothes that you look good in. Buy them (some?). Wear them next time out. You now should feel like a god because you're wearing girl approved clothes that make you look good. Look good > feel good > be good. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Why clothing shops are a great place to approach.This. I've done this too. It is really just as easy as it seems. If the chick is in a good mood, play along with her like the OP suggests. Otherwise, get her opinion and move on. Bonus: you now have some swank ass clothes that flatter you in some way if you decide to buy them. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Most girls at bars/clubs are not with the guy they're talking to.Come to Texas. We have great beer and fantastic women. You're welcome. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you command attention?If I'm talking to a girl and she starts texting, or if there's another guy and I'm talking to him and the girl tunes out, I straight up stick my hand in front of her face and snap my fingers. If she's texting I'll say, "Hey. I'm up here" and smile. If I'm talking to the guy and she zones out I say "Earth to [girl's name]." The most important thing is to smile so she doesn't think you're being a straight up asshole because you're actually mad at her. Its kind of hard to explain, but its very me, … | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 05:13 PM |
| 13 | Some Sexy tips on PIck up for those in High schoolTexan here, so it might be different, but when I was in high school that wasn't the case. Girls like athletes. Not just the confidence. They like the whole package. Most athletes have great bodies and give 0 fucks about school. Being an athlete, especially a football player, gave you high status- another attractive feature. Then again, I'm from a small south Texas town that worships football. Take it with a grain of salt. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 10:08 PM |
| 9 | Anyone have any tips or tricks for initiating kino immediately after meeting someone new?If she's wearing a bracelet (especially a charm one), notice it and say, "Oh cool. These are always interesting." Grab her hand and start looking at the charms/whatever is on it. Plenty of opportunity for conversation threading depending on what she has on it. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Getting her number?Short version: I let her play with my phone. Then after a little bit I tell her to put her number in too because I'm going to ask her out later. Example: Last week I was at this festival/dance when I saw a friend I haven't seen in a while. He was with these 2 chicks (one I know, the other I don't). Long story short, he introduced me to the chick I didn't know and the 4 of us went back to his place and chilled. I was talking to her about raving or clubbing or something (she was all about that), a… | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Going to Padre this weekend, any tips?This ^ I haven't been to Padre in a good while, so I can't recommend any local hot sports. But if you build the BP table out of sand on the beach, the women will come. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Going to Padre this weekend, any tips?I was just at Port A with a group of friends last weekend. All 4 of us were pretty good looking. As soon as we stepped out of my car, a group of girls drove by and honked and cheered at us. Bam. Confidence booster. We knew from then on, we could probably do whatever we want. We weren't sarging, we were just having fun. A group of girls came up to us and initiated conversation. We hit it off from there. Best advice I can give about Texas beach game is the same as general advice. Don't go out to p… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What activities or hobbies have you taken up to become a more interesting and attractive person?Not sure why you got downvoted. I did both and absolutely loved them. And yes, girls are usually impressed and demand you show them some moves. Grappling tournaments are always a blast, too. Also, they are great conversation material. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 10:47 PM |
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