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Maternity and paternity testing should be done after the baby is taken home from the hospital. This will prevent a situation where a baby could be accidentaly (or on purpose) switched in the hospital with another. There. Solved this one for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:19 AM
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Just goes to show how little affection in general men are getting in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:57 AM
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"It's not everything if you have it. It's everything if you don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:10 AM
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And she had a ton of work done. He didn't. Also she never had kids so that didn't age her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:49 AM
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They cannot because of the tingles. Same with men who go for "crazy hot" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:43 AM
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Climate change is a solid candidate. Not even bunkers are going to protect the ones in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:42 AM
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For me it was growing up in a home with 3 adult alcoholics. 2 of them emotionally abusive. 1 of those also physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:39 AM
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Therapy is meaningless. I don't know what you look like, but I assume at least good since you have a partner. You don't know anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:18 PM
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Looks is the first thing that matters. You don't know what I look like so you can dispense with the lies. You don't know an ugly person's lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:51 PM
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These things matter only after the initial looks check is passed. You can delude yourself that this wasn't the case in your life but you're not deluding anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:30 PM
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And before they age they are still beatiful. And therefore reap all the benefits of being young and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:07 PM
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No one has it easy. Life is just hard and unfair. That's bullshit. Beautiful people have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:38 AM
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1) If you make a man wait for sex, you don't really like him. He doesn't have genuine sexual value to you She's worth the wait if she's a virgin. Otherwise there's no point. 2) Pick better men, not just guys who are just going to use you for sex True. Vet them and involve your family in your vetting. Especially the men in your family. 3) The lower your body count, the higher your value (which means you can keep a guy) See point 1. Not at all as contradictory as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:38 AM
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If that were true then all these dudes who are deep into W40K and MTG and other such intricate universes with extensive lore that they could talk for hours about would be swimming in pussy, and yet they are not. It seems like something else might be holding them back. Could it be perhaps their... looks? Or could it perhaps be that women aren't into typically male hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:07 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:45 AM
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To me it would be: Must be physically attractive. Must be physically attracted to me. Must be a virgin. Similar level of education to mine. Similar worldview and life goals. There's probably more but that's just off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:29 AM
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In other words, if she is worth the effort. Yes. Most women these days aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:05 AM
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You don't have a worldview that's in line with other people's lived experiences and therefore you have no advice to give here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:20 PM
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Different people have different worldviews due to their lived experiences. Who are you to deny them theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:14 PM
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Your "paradigm" is useless, as agreed by the majority of posters here. It's not that you have something to offer that people are rejecting, it's that what you are offering is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:55 PM
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My reading is fine. Your claim on the other hand doesn't seem to be, judging by the amount of upvotes on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:37 PM
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Your first set of a,b points is the exact same as your second set of a,b points - It's just phrased differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:23 AM
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The more attractive you are, the easier it is to maintain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:14 AM
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It was written by men, who became trans years after making these movies. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:52 AM
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Yeah, but if she is a virgin, she probably isn't going to sleep with you before she is able to judge your character That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:34 PM
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But if she has formed some emotional attachment and the first time yall have sex is sub par she is more willing to give it another go since she cares about yojr character and your companionship I meant this part specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:02 PM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:47 PM
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But you just changed the utility of which a woman judges you on. And by doing it earlier the ONLY utility she has to judge you on is your ability at sex. And if you suck cuz of nerves or alcohol or whatever she has no reason to give you a 2nd chance. But if she has formed some emotional attachment and the first time yall have sex is sub par she is more willing to give it another go since she cares about yojr character and your companionship That would all be fine by me, on the condition that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:38 PM
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Then you have no self preservation drive. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_violence_in_the_Russian_invasion_of_Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:35 PM
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I don't hate single moms. It's just someone I would never consider dating. Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:20 PM
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As a European, it is just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:34 AM
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Simping is most definitely a bad thing. It's putting your time and effort into someone who doesn't reciprocate them. How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:13 PM
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Hello my friend from Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:55 AM
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Why not? Let's go full eugenics. I guess it's the one thing we haven't tried yet. And while we're at it, let's forbid procreation of men with male pattern baldness and women who's fathers have male pattern baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:05 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:57 AM
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F for spelling though. Back to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:09 AM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:05 AM
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They aren't interests. They're more of a worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:05 AM
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Also unlikely. We are still in NATO and EU. Putin needs to first take over entire Ukraine before he has a reasonable chance to attack any of the NATO/EU countries, and he can't even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:38 AM
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But did you have any relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:23 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:26 AM
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I have always been alone and likely will be. With that said I'm looking forward to humanity going extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:15 AM
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But he's not a pedo. His dad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:50 AM
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body count doesnt matter But somehow it matters when a man is an older virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:28 AM
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I would proceed to hit on her heavily and make her uncomfortable instead. Joke's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:46 AM
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This is very telling because this kind of woman doesn't even consider a man she isn't attracted to as of the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:49 AM
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No. I would either: Use the halo effect of being in a "relationship" with her and get with her female friends and other attractive women. OR Simply rather be her friend and use her to do the same as above. But being in a relationship with an attractive woman who doesn't like sex just seems like a weird torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:47 AM
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You are a lesbian then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:39 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:21 PM
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It happened to me once when I was in middle school. A girl from a grade below came up to me and said that her friend liked me. And there was a group of girls where she came from. But I was very shy and bullied before and there were my classmates around to hear this so I thought that this was a joke, panicked, and ran away. But maybe it wasn't. I still think about it every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:39 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:57 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:46 AM
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Yes. I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:51 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:27 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:22 AM
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I was slut shamed as a virgin. How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:22 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:29 AM
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0.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:36 AM
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That's what i'm saying! I've been friends with a lot of women and they love people and hanging just to spend time together. That's because the world is generally much kinder to women than men already. It's much more colder to men than women when it comes to creating social bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:39 AM
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That's a sad worldview. It's like saying that "all women are sluts". Just not true at all. If he gets from you everything he needs in a partner and a lover then he has no reason to leave. Girlfriend/wife goggles is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:03 AM
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You are talking out of your butt. You should remove yourself from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:50 AM
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Then correct yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:35 AM
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Being born unattractive is not anybody's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:13 AM
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As a guy I disagree. I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:11 PM
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Yes. In fact, in most modern western democracies the majority of voters are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:14 AM
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When looking for a serious partner, it boils down to this: Men have quantity issues and have quality issues. Women have no quantity issues and have quality issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:26 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:33 AM
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Only if she's a virgin. Otherwise what am I waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:46 AM
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Some do have the muscles and should build them if possible. But tatoos are generally a sing of poor qualities in a person. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/kitchener-waterloo/wilfrid-laurier-tattoo-anne-wilson-bradley-ruffle-1.4534983
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:41 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:28 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:16 AM
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It would be statistically impossible for ALL the women who eventually settle down to be attracted to their men. And vice versa. Haven't you heard about r/DeadBedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:41 AM
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If "women are rarely attracted to men" as you say then human beings would never have grown to about 8 billion on the planet. Attraction isn't required for reproduction. Have you heard about "settling"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:20 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:51 AM
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A good advice in principle, but it's not even legal in some countries. France, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:22 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:16 AM
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So you have your bodily autonomy. What are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:23 AM
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Did you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:20 AM
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Did you need an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:18 AM
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Neither can men. Most countries have a male only draft of some form written into their constitution. Also male genital mutilation is perfectly legal in most western countries while female genital mutilation is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:46 AM
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I could never take seriously a woman with a nose ring. What are you, a cow? Why would you do this to yourself, woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:30 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:58 AM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:30 AM
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18-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:44 PM
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not married no children any race between 5'0" and 6'0" not overweight any income I got 12,08%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:36 AM
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I've seen some incredibly ugly, monstrously looking women on dating apps. Not their fault, just 0 luck in the genetic roulette. And in some of their bio's there was a note that she already has kids. And I couldn't help but wonder, "Holy shit, who in their right mind would have unprotected sex with her!?" But some men did. That is my answer to that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:21 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:26 PM
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It looks like there's a kid in the background. Is she a single mom? That would explain her grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:58 PM
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Panda bears have been known to occasionally attack and kill when threatened. Koala bears would fit better here. They're so stupid that if you put a eucaliptus leaf in front of it, it wouldn't know what to do with it. Because their little smooth brain only knows tree-leaf-eat command. Nothing else. They're that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:30 AM
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No social hobbies or communities. Not religious. No female friends (I wish I had those, but from my experience they're almost as hard to come by as an actual girlfriend).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:20 PM
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Currently nowhere. I have no idea where to look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:27 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:56 AM
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This has been my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:43 AM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:52 PM
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You're a woman so you might not care about it as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:54 AM
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The obsession with virgin women is fucking weird. Most men and women prefer their partner have some experience. A 30+ year old virgin is not ideal for most people of either gender. I wouldn't call it "obsession". I just always wanted somebody equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:34 AM
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Unpack what? It's just a standard. Are men not allowed to have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:34 PM
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I don't. It would just feel like masturbation with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:30 PM
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I'm not religious. I just don't think I could relate to her at all when it comes to intimacy. There would be no feelings. Equality is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:50 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one. And I wouldn't put a ring on a woman with previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:21 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:14 AM
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That's not exactly true. Grades from middle school will affect your high school choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:27 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:05 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:41 AM
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Eradicate all artifical enhancements for both men and women (this includes cosmetic surgeries, makeup and all other addons like fake nails, fake hair, fake whatever). It would humble both genders, but especially women who already have unfair advantage thanks to all this crap. Skincare and hair health products are fine and should be encouraged for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:15 AM
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animals like him Just be a druid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:55 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:40 AM
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A "situationship", if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:15 PM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:28 AM
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You can add piercings to the Men list.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:30 AM
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Depends on the kind of baggage. I've been abused as a child (not sexually, but physically and emotionally, both by my parents and other children). I would accept that kind of baggage from a woman provided that we would both make an honest effort in dealing with it together and support each other. But I would not accept a relationship or sexual baggage as I don't have any experience in those areas myself as a virgin. I just want someone equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:48 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:20 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:46 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:41 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:11 PM
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Honestly, with climate change going unchecked and biodiversity loss going rampant, it's only a matter of time before humanity goes extinct. Global societal collapse by 2040-2050 and human extinction or near term human extinction in a couple hundred years. These days I'm here mostly for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:44 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:01 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:30 AM
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I'm 34 and it looks like I'm gonna be in those 12%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:58 AM
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It's not everything if you have it. It's everything if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:47 AM
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European too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:47 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_slavery Do black people owe white people reparations then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:13 AM
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There’s a significant portion of them that are undesirable to women because of their own choices, behaviors and character traits. Or terrible life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:51 AM
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Global societal collapse by 2040-2050. Functional human extinction or complete extinction in a couple hundred years, 1000 years max. That's my estimate for the future of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:20 AM
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the rich are building walled communities and bunkers, we're fucked They're fucked too. It won't save them from the upcoming climate change induced societal collapse. Perhaps it might give them a little bit more time on this rock but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:18 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:54 AM
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Where are they looking then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:49 AM
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I was looking for a fellow virgin to lose it with and hopefully marry her since I started seriously dating at 22. Couldn't find one. It is what it is. But I will never lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:25 AM
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Yeah. Functional birthrate in Poland is at about 1,1 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:38 AM
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Most often I see people with very little expeience being idealistic towards love and relationships. That's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:15 PM
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I agree as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:58 AM
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The moment I saw how Jordan Peterson´s daughter turned out, I lost all respect for him as a role model. How did she turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:22 PM
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Hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:03 AM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:34 AM
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I slut shame EVERYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:26 AM
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As a virgin waiting till marriage I can tell you ALL the men I have met don’t like it. Some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:21 AM
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It won't matter either way. Climate change is upon us and collapse of society is all but guaranteed, with human extinction not being impossible in a couple hundred years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:31 AM
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I kind of agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:55 PM
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I'm of the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:17 AM
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There were some first dates but we were already incompatible based on what I wrote earlier, so there were no future dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:51 PM
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It's very difficult for me to even get a date these days so I can't answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:58 AM
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I was looking for a girl to marry since I was about 22. One of my hard requirements was that I wanted her to be a fellow virgin (I'm not religious but marriage and similar past is kind of important to me). Couldn't find one. Where was I supposed to look for women like you, to this day I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:17 AM
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How compassionate of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:44 AM
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How do you know why they want that? Are you them? I already gave you my reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:21 PM
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Or maybe they're just looking for someone with the same set of experiences? Or lack thereof?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:13 AM
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It tells me they think of women as possessions. Or maybe they're just looking for someone with the same set of experiences? Or lack thereof?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:14 PM
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Civilization collapse is going to happen. Just not for male/female related reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:23 AM
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Not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:38 AM
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Poland is the biggest outlier here. 5 years of difference and absolutely 0 plans to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:32 AM
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So did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:08 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:48 AM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:36 PM
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It's gonna happen. Just not for male/female related reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:12 AM
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Yeah. People vastly underestimate how fragile our supply chains are these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:50 AM
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That's how I always thought about it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:06 AM
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I wouldn't have a problem with waiting. In fact, that's what I was always looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:48 AM
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Reported for homophobia. Sexual orientation is not a choice. You're a mod. You should now that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:42 AM
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Fertility rates are dropping too. With all the PFAS chemicals and microplastics in our balls it's inevitable. It's just more difficult to measure fertility than birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:36 AM
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This is already a thing in Poland. The so called 500+ program, which after some years transformed into 800+ program. Every single kid in Poland receives 800 PLN every month since the month they are born until they turn 18. This is financed from all taxpayers, but is only paid to parents and legal guardians of said children. Also, it didn't put a dent in the birthrate problem. Poland is now at 1,1, which is the lowest in the entire EU and Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:25 AM
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No, but would love to have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:54 AM
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https://www.okdoomer.io/10-reasons-our-civilization-will-soon-collapse/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:54 PM
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https://www.okdoomer.io/10-reasons-our-civilization-will-soon-collapse/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:53 PM
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https://www.okdoomer.io/10-reasons-our-civilization-will-soon-collapse/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:44 AM
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It is in fact collapsing. And billions will die. Just not for male/female related reasons. https://www.okdoomer.io/10-reasons-our-civilization-will-soon-collapse/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:48 AM
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We don't need a virus. Microplastics in our balls are already doing their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:40 AM
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r/collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:26 AM
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Hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:34 AM
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Not all guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:20 PM
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Not all men. Some would wait for the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:57 AM
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The reason I'm inexperienced is that I wanted to have my first time with a fellow inexperienced woman. Started dating seriously around 22. Couldn't find one. I'm from Europe. I don't really want to do it with a woman who already has had other men before me. It's not some sort of "she's a used up hoe" thing. I just feel deeply that I couldn't really connect with her. Maybe I'm still romanticizing young love. Or maybe I'm one of those "demisexuals" or whatever they call them. I'm not religious, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:15 AM
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I've read somewhere that women are becoming genetically more feminine and attractive with each new generation while men are staying the same or less masculine for some reason. Wonder if it's due to all the hormones in the food, water and everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:25 PM
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Also climate change is upon us so it's only going to become even more hellish, not just for men but also women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:56 AM
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What do you think about non-religious men who share similar values towards virginity and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:34 AM
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The "are we dating the same guy" groups probably didn't appear out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:51 AM
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Some scientists say human extinction is entirely possible in 100 years due to climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:16 AM
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money is nothing when you have it, but it's everything when you don't. Replace "money" with "relationship" and that's a typical male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:44 AM
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They are to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:40 AM
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Can you elaborate? How are they different?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:27 AM
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Does it work for your hair loss? How about hair regrowth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:19 AM
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Climate change wise we're already cooked either way. The population is still projected to grow to 10,4 billion or so in a couple of decades, then it will start falling. But in the meantime, we are still breaking records of CO2 emissions year after year. What we've produced so far is already causing 6 mass extinction, and we keep on producing. r/collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:46 PM
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That shit didn't work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:52 AM
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Not all. I'd be fine with waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:48 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:00 PM
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May I ask what is your reason for being a virgin at this age? Not trying to insult you in any way. Just curious because I'm also one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:38 PM
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Climate change wise it's already too late. Human depopulation in 25 years is not going to put a dent in this problem. Especially because carbon emissions still break records year after year. We're cooked either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:46 PM
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Which is also no longer the case. Women account to something like 80% of spending power and most voters in most developed countries are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:33 AM
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Not the guy above but I also believe that the world will soon go up in flames. Not because of the divide between men and women, but due to climate change induced agricultural, political and societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:52 PM
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Not just sex, but also affection, attention, kindness, validation. Pretty much all the things that men can get only within the confines of a loving relationship. That's why men want to be with women more than women want to be with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:00 PM
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I'm baby faced with male pattern baldness so I'm pretty much screwed either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:37 PM
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Nah. They do like women that make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:42 PM
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Women provide insight and tips all the time I'd like to know them. I'm not being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:18 AM
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There are men like you here too. Not super young anymore, virgins and who want marriage. Probably not many of them but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:34 AM
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Can you explain the 2.5? How did you get the 0.5?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:41 AM
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Looks like we're a match then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:46 PM
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He has one on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:17 AM
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Female hormones are everywhere these days. Food, water and everything else. They make each subsequent generation of women more beautiful and men more effeminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:59 PM
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It can also be prevented by using minoxidil, finasteride, and ketoconazole shampoo. Doesn't work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:51 AM
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Why do you consider yourself a 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:29 PM
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Hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:20 PM
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There are people I know who used to be abusive and bullies change and become good men later and also the opposite. Those men should be shunned regardless. For all the lives they've made worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:50 PM
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You were very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:25 PM
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Society as we know it is going to collapse, but it won't be because of male/female relations. It will be because of climate change induced agricultural collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:20 PM
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i see sex as love and theres just something about losing your virginity to someone whos also losing theirs to you. i love the idea of going through it together and him not having inserted it into another woman or lots of women before me. I'm not religious myself but this is exactly how I felt about it myself. To be someone's first and hopefully last while giving them the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:35 AM
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But if it wasn’t for those things I probably would been a reclusive intro my whole life. That's exactly what happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:36 PM
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Why? If you don't mind me asking. And are you one yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:32 PM
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Bringing them into your social circle. I wish I had somebody like that to reach out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:11 PM
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That's dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:37 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:56 AM
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I just don't think it's what most men want. I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:33 PM
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It's 0. This message is from a fellow teetotaler.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:26 PM
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Wanting to marry a virgin isn't a normal preference, at least in the US and similar western countries. I think that when this is discussed in this context, most men mean something along the lines of "date a woman who's a virgin, have some sex after a while and then eventually marry her".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:19 PM
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Humanity is not going to survive the climate change induced agricultural collapse that's coming so it's all pointless anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:39 AM
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I love it when women compare sending men to war with women giving birth to children, because it's such a dishonest take. You know what would be the equivalent for women forcibly participating in defending/rebuilding population after the war? Forcibly giving births. The government comes to your house, kidnaps you, drives you to the clinic and impregnates you. Then you are monitored for the entire pregnancy against self harm or harm to the baby. You might die, you might get a PTSD, you might suffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:42 AM
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It basically told me my friendship was worthless to him because if he couldn’t get something more, he’d rather just dip. That's a very one sided and selfish way to look at it. Maybe he caught strong feelings for you and couldn't bear seeing you happy with someone else? He is not entitled to a relationship with you. You are not entitled to a friendship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:13 PM
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Not every man can have hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:55 PM
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What if the kids already flew out of the nest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:43 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:44 AM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:44 AM
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There already is. It's an older (1984) Polish movie called Seksmisja (Sexmission). https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088083/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:46 AM
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These aren't even "nice to haves" Please list them all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:23 PM
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So what? Women put plastic penises inside of themselves. And before that wooden penises. And before that stone penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:14 PM
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Women can elevate other women too. So why don't they? Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:27 AM
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However, politicians are still overwhelmingly men. You can thank your fellow women for that. The majority of voters are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:02 AM
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Do you need to use things like minoxidil or finasteride/dutasteride and does the hair look natural/exactly like before going bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:43 PM
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My thoughts? Okay. I think... humanity is a thin layer of bacteria on a ball of mud hurtling through the void. I think if there was a god, he would've given up on us long ago. He gave us a paradise, and we used everything up. We dug up every ounce of energy and burned it. We consume and excrete, use and destroy. Then we sit here on a neat little pile of ashes, having squeezed anything of value out of this planet, and we ask ourselves, "Why are we here?" You wanna know what I think your purpose i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:21 AM
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Women don't like bald men and toupee is pathetic to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:03 AM
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Get a hair cut Male pattern baldness norwood 7. Solve that one real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 AM
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as being pretty heartbreaking. And demoralizing. If someone needs to feel loved and appreciated every now and then (like most people on earth do) and they never find it, then life will become very depressing very quickly. Therapy is only good at identifying what's missing in somebody's life. If love and sense of belonging is what they're missing then therapy, hobby, or career is not going to fill that void.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:29 PM
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Can you even read? Author clearly stated the difference between arranged and forced marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:52 AM
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If you are going to say "but men go to war" then I'm going to say "women sacrifice their bodies to have children" so don't bother They aren't though. Birth rates drop in literally every country worldwide. Some women do still have children, but when you look at conscription laws in all countries, it's pretty much all men and only men (except for israel maybe). Women can decide to have a kid or not (depending on abortion laws in certain states/countries). Men don't have a say whether they are cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:34 PM
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To be fair, as someone who still watches Family Guy, Lois has become a lot more unhinged in the recent seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:26 PM
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Have you heard of Jodi Arias?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:39 AM
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It's all good. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:40 PM
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Never said that children don't count. But men don't want to have JUST children. They want a family. What don't you understand? Also apparently you don't even know who you are responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:48 PM
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I don't think that most dudes want to be single fathers. They want families.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:37 PM
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Nobody said the man also has something to put the water in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:26 AM
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She also could collect rainwater when it rains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:45 AM
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https://www.indiatoday.in/india/story/bengal-monitor-lizard-raped-maharashtra-3-held-sahydari-tiger-reserve-1937027-2022-04-13 Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:53 AM
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We won't. If you're talking about climate change and biosphere collapse then there's no way of digging ourselves out of this mess now. I think it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:25 AM
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LOL. Only if they're otherwise attractive. Not all bald men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:42 AM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:29 AM
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What a moronic response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:23 AM
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I have male pattern baldness. Nature is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:58 AM
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Yes. This is also reinforced by a lot of most popular polish newspapers and tv stations. "Polish man bad, foreign man better, Polish woman the best" is the narrative. Dating apps and open borders made it easier for women everywhere to expand their dating pools. Poland is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:46 AM
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Leftovers from before the invention of the dating apps then. Younger people don't date like that anymore here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:02 AM
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A lot has changed since the invention of dating apps. It's not like that anymore here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:22 AM
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This was both educational and entertaining. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:09 PM
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I'm curious. What's the difference between a pig and a cow in your analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:29 AM
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It's because people don't need each other these days. People are more choosy than ever. Everyone can be discarded for the slightest "ick". And I'd wager that this extends to not just relationships but friendships as well these days. Men are especially on the short end of this stick because women are still choosers and men are pursuers when it comes to relationships. Also men are "dangerous until proven otherwise". Men are rather territorial and protective when it comes to their friends and loved…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:13 PM
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When you say you wish you had somebody to go out with do you mean like a friend group or solely a gf? Preferably both, but if I had to prioritize then I would prefer a gf. Did you move away from your friends in school? I didn't. We just drifted apart. The school/uni thing ended so naturally the thing that bonded as was no longer there. Everybody went their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:00 PM
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Only partially. I wish I had somebody to go out with but I have nobody. Literally nobody. I also don't drink because I grew up around adult alcoholics so the idea of alcohol disgusts me. So places heavy on alcohol are a no go for me. Also the so called third places in my country don't really have much women in them. All my friendships and social groups only lasted as long as my schools lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:13 PM
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It's because men aren't capable of providing that kind of friendship to each other, because we don't work that way. And the reason why women are benefiting from that kind of relationship is because they are women. Not because of some purported ability to be better, well rounded, more kind human beings. Even when I had male and female friends, I was still often thinking about a romantic relationship which I never had. That's why men seek that level of affection from women, not other men. Men can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:55 PM
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The child not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth. African Proverb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:46 AM
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Two birds, one stone, sir. Not even remotely, ma'am. She used them to get rich. Not that she had to. Her family was loaded long before she got rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:13 PM
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It's not like the most prolific and rich song writer of our Era is a woman writing all kinds of romance songs....no no, song writing for romance is clearly a male only field. LOL. She's doing it for the money, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:55 PM
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Women's romantic gestures: I will graciously accept his flowers and allow him to buy me extravagant gifts. Men's romantic gestures: I will create her presents from scratch and write songs and poetry that show my love, and risk my life to protect her. . I'm sorry if you've never been loved by a woman, but no, that's not even close to what a woman's romantic gestures are like. Name a romantic gesture that's a female equivalent or even greater one to some of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:06 AM
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Not to mention autistic women are typically better at masking than autistic men for the same reasons NT women are typically better at intuiting social cues than NT men. Do you have a study that backs up this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:00 AM
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Definitely not the case in my country (also Europe).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:31 AM
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I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:29 AM
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And even if they did, it wouldn't be somebody else's kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:33 PM
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Then approach them yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:56 PM
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Have you heard of Jodi Arias?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:06 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/feb/26/more-women-may-be-psychopaths-than-previously-thought-says-expert
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:49 AM
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Realistically, Russia has about 2-3 years worth of time/equipment/manpower before this invasion fails completely. And this timeframe accounts for their ability to replenish those resources under current sanctions and alliances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:45 AM
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Shit personalities are a direct result of shit environments. That's what I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:17 AM
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Blue Pill Disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:50 AM
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Maybe they're just not very attracted to their wives then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:13 AM
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Meh. Never really fantasized about impregnating a bunch of strange women. More about having someone who cares about me and loves me. But then again I come from a very abusive home so maybe I'm not the most appropriate example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:54 PM
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I've never participated in a girl carousel and still couldn't find a woman like that. Not every man is into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:37 AM
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He also talks a big game about staying together and working on marriage and whatever, and yet his daughter is a divorcee.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:05 PM
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Not all of them. I'm a virgin and I'm also looking for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:37 AM
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r/collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:52 AM
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If that were true, then we would have had birth rates on the same level now as we did before. Instead they're falling throughout the first world countries. People are not pairing up, and therefore we have less children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:07 PM
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Well then if only 15% of women are like that, then maybe women are the problem too? Not saying that men aren't but clearly both genders are getting worse, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:43 AM
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More inbreeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:42 PM
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It's worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:41 PM
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I think it's more the problem that "David" might be depressed and it's hard for depressed people to find energy for every day stuff, except for the things (and people) that they are really interested in. I've felt that way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:48 AM
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Not a realistic scenario for me because I'm looking for a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:25 AM
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There should be. Instant votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:37 AM
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It's not just humans. It's the entirety of life as we know it. Look at the lowest forms of life. Bacteria, viruses, cancer and so on. They just infect and reproduce until they kill their host and can't reproduce anymore. And then they die. They have no awareness that they are killing their host. In the 50's or 60's there was an experiment where some scientists put a bunch of deer or elk or some such animal on an island. Males and females. Two things about that island: There were no natural preda…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:06 AM
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r/collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:42 AM
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It's because the world caters to women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:36 AM
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That would be true if there were no financial programs pandering to women, like it should be in an egalitarian society, of which we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:17 PM
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Not advisable. You should watch The Looming Tower tv series and see how women, for petty reasons, enabled 9/11 to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:13 AM
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Ahhh, a fellow doomer :) You should pop in to r/collapse from time to time for some more news and data.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:40 AM
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I would replace your "something" with "someone", but yeah, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:01 PM
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It's not. Same boat here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:00 PM
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By vetting immigrants and getting their children to grow up in the West with Western values, you create more westerners. Not by triaging by skin color. No you don't. Not when they still have their families and friends to instill and reinforce their "traditional" muslim values. Europe is an excellent example of this failure to assimilate. Just read anything on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:35 PM
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And that's a problem why? It's not a problem if you don't mind living under sharia law. Look at Europe. These people don't integrate very well and create their little muslim enclaves. Then there's the rise of violent crimes that comes after that. It's probably the main reason why so many European countries are turning to far right governments right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:48 PM
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Well, it's true in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:43 PM
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I'm a virgin. Guys have stopped talking to me because I wanted to wait. So am I. And I wouldn't. I'd be fine with waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:00 AM
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Average women don’t have men falling over themselves to date them. Maybe not irl but on the dating apps they do for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:55 AM
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No. Because sex is not everything that men want. They also want kindness, connection, romance, empathy etc. There is no pill for that, unless you're talking about something like in that movie Equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:34 PM
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You can lol away but it doesn't change the truth. Why don’t you wanna talk about rape? Or school shooters? Or acid attacks? Or violent crimes? Or serial killers? Why not? Stick to the original comment. Did I say Rape? School shooters? Acid attacks? Violent crimes? Serial killers? No. Okay, then stick to the original comment. Also I have no agenda to promote here. I pointed out your mistake and you immmediately go into hysterics over it. Accept when you're wrong and move on. That's what adult peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:27 PM
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From Wikipedia: "In its broadest sense, domestic violence also involves violence against children, parents, or the elderly." Learn to be more clear in the future. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:14 PM
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And you might be right with partner on partner domestic abuse, but for child abuse the statistics clearly say that women are more often the abusers. And when confronted with that fact you go straight to made up words and letter capitalizations where there should be none. Grow up and learn some grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:54 AM
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Statistics trump anecdotal evidence though. Also it doesn't surprise me that in this day and age the female on child violence will be vastly underreported in the mass media. It goes against the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:29 AM
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Can anyone actually do anything about this? I mean, sure we could assign people sexual partners or enforce monogamy or something but that would involve a total rehaul of jurisprudence and our respect for individual choice. No need to do any of that. But there should be a ban on dating apps and self promotion based social media. That would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:02 AM
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most domestic abusers are men This one is not true. Women are more often than men perpetrators of domestic violence towards children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:01 AM
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I was raised by 3 adult alcoholics, 2 of them aggressive, 1 of them physically. Yeah, screw me for not wanting to have anything to do with alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:33 AM
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If you have a gym physique yourself, have no kids, and also stay young and sexy forever then yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:37 PM
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Then perhaps it is the women who need to be better? Fat? Eat less and well and work out. Don't want to be a single mother? Vet the men who you plan to have sex with better and use contraceptives. Or simply rub one out. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:41 AM
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You're delusional. I have male patern baldness (look up Kevin from The Office), weak facial hair and not a good looking face. In your honest opinion, am I attracitve or do I just have bad personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:15 AM
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I hate my blemishes Not an issue if you have a pretty face. body hair Can be shaved. stretch marks Most people have those, guys included. We don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:22 PM
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I'm not blind myself. And I don't have a thing for blind people, which is something that this website actually states.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:18 PM
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I don't know any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:55 PM
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They look ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:35 PM
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I don't have a body or head shape to pull off the bald look. Also I'm already using chemicals for facial hair but they don't work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:31 PM
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Get a fucking haircut Male pattern baldness is a thing. I have it. Facial grooming, facial hair is an easy hack that can upgrade you quickly. Watch a tutorial on YouTube, and experiment. Weak facial hair is a thing. I have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:28 AM
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We've all had problems. Definitely not true. Integrating into society is your responsibility, no one else's. And society needs to be good and welcoming in order for you to thrive in it. It's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:31 PM
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You don't seem to understand how society works. You need to be accepted by other people in order to be a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:29 PM
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And yet it's not their fault that they've turned out that way. And people have no empathy for that. You need people to give a shit about you. Otherwise what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:01 PM
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Social, physical and spiritual for a man to be attractive. That's three legs...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:05 AM
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I think a lot of them do not understand the concept of being emotionally supportive for the sake of it, or even how to care for a person without something in return, like money or sex. If they were never given any emotional support themselves, then how can they? I think that most people here just had a particularly bad childhood. I know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:56 AM
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r/collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:59 AM
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We are all going to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:36 AM
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The average woman isn't promiscuous, she has had seven past partners Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:28 AM
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Lol he is definitely not ugly. Full head of hair, facial hair, not the most handsome face in the world but not bad face either. If you think he's ugly then you're only confiriming what most guys here are saying. Most women don't find most men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:55 AM
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And I'm telling you that these options aren't for everyone. What's so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:43 PM
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Already told you I'm using chemicals. Hair transplant or painting my head is not in question. It won't do anything for my confidence. Like I said, you're a woman. You won't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:39 PM
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You're a woman. You will never understand the issue of MPB.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:28 PM
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hair transplants Doesn't always work and looks fake. tattoos, toupees They look ridiculous. Also just doing treatments like daily scalp massages, hair growth oils, scratching the areas to promote blood flow, they also have like a tiny wheel thing that had spikes on it(doesn’t deep) and it promotes like really good grown. These things I'm trying but no good results so far. I would need to know what kind of intestinal issues because off the stop of my head I can’t think of one that would affect yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:57 PM
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Do hair cuts based on your face shape Can't. Male pattern baldness. Most women like the decent muscular mass but lean Can't. Intestinal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:03 PM
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It's because women have easier romantic lives. More men pining after them - more options - less need to compete. Men have it the other way around. Everything is a competition. Maybe it's stops being a competition for men only after all their needs are secured. But until then it's every man for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:55 PM
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Try caring about something other than yourself for once. That's the thing. There's no one to care about, and nobody cares about them. And prolonged loneliness makes everyone a little more selfish and narcissistic. And it's difficult to blame them. Social, romantic and sexual needs are all lower in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Self actualization and all those other things come after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:46 PM
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You could get the same access (shitty sex + someone you’re not attracted to) if you just downloaded Grindr and had sex with gay men You're a Homofobe/Heterofobe. You're implying that sexuality is a choice which it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:45 PM
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Timetravel Bros
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:26 PM
3

We are all going to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:24 PM
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It's women's fault if they have no empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:18 PM
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Men also have options — straight men just don’t like those options (gay men) You're a Homofobe/Heterofobe. You're implying that sexuality is a choice which it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:26 AM
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Women are wise to be cautious. And yet there are more single mothers than ever. Not very cautious it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:24 PM
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She's 100% wrong. Women have less genetic prerequisites when it comes to appearance. It's literally this: Be attractive. Her introversion won't matter. Her neuroses won't matter (these tend to get better when a person is given lots of empathy and love), Her social status won't matter. For men it's also be attractive, but also: Don't have male pattern baldness. Be able to grow decent facial hair. Don't be short. Don't have bad personality, have money, have social status. Have everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:03 PM
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Men, who are nearly guaranteed sexual satisfaction from any encounter and a lack of social and physical repercussions for indiscriminate sex. Only those who can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:45 PM
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It's possible under the right circumstances, ones which I do not have and have no way of getting. But it takes two to tango. People have to be WILLING to be someone's friend or a dating prospect. People need to have that kind of empathy. I've never experienced that willingness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:24 PM
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I've dealt with a lifelong eating disorder. I'm a recovering addict and alcoholic. That's entirely your fault, not a struggle related to your genetic lottery win/lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:48 PM
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That's because you're a woman. People (both men and women) will inherently see you as a non threatening person. It's different for men. Women will have assumptions about men who are trying to join a social group. No friends? (probably a weirdo). No girlfriend? (probably an incel). And other men will just see such a person as either competition, or someone to look down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:38 AM
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Except that with working remotely and being out of school, the only way to MAYBE find some friends is to force yourself to do things and hobbies that you don't like. And even then it's just for the sake of making friends in order to again MAYBE have a chance that one of them will like you romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:09 AM
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I work remotely, I'm out of school, I don't have friends. What do I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:08 AM
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It's not everything if you have it. It's everything if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:41 PM
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It looks unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:12 PM
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and a lot of them just don’t put the time into making themselves physically appealing in the way women do. What is a man supposed to do if he's not tall enough? What is a man supposed to do if he can't grow facial hair? What is a man supposed to do if he has male pattern baldness? What is a man supposed to do if he can't "rock the bald look" because he has no facial and body structure for it? These are permanent detriments which can't exactly be addressed in a permanent way (except maybe a hair …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:56 AM
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It matters to me because I still have mine, though at that age that might not be the best thing to have for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:56 AM
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So am I. I was bullied throughout primary, middle and high school. But a female introvert is always going to have more chances than a male introvert simply for the fact of being a woman. Men approach women, but women don't approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:29 PM
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Of course you're a popular introvert. You're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:44 PM
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I'd rather not have any stds...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:18 PM
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Because men need affection from women, not other men. That's how nature works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:40 PM
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Is even worse if it's another way around. Your body is at it's prime at 20 but then for some they start experiencing male pattern baldness or slowly becoming obeese. This is me. Male pattern baldness is literally the worst thing than can happen to a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:29 PM
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That's the sad thing. A lot of us were never loved. Not even by our parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:33 AM
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What if somebody is terminally online BECAUSE they don't have a life but would like to have one? How would one even start?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:56 PM
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You need to get me in contact with these virgin women. Because I don't know where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:20 PM
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I do think that and I am a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:59 PM
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novelty (ranked differently depending on the origin country in question), parochial insecurities and a dash of growing up in a culture, (liberal) part of which nearly blindly idolizes everything Western and unconstructively shits on everything local, in an often desperate and downright pathetic attempt at extricating from conservative catholic roots to become accepted into the big boys capital E European club You kind of proved my point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:51 AM
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And what reasons are those exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:06 PM
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Wlkp. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:59 AM
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Poland. And no. Polish women hate polish men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:58 AM
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This might not be a common opinion but I believe that promiscuity harms both women and men, and both can be "ran through". All these podcast pill bros always claim that only women can be ran through but it's not healthy for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:00 AM
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Continuing Ed class Erectile dysfunction class?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:52 AM
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It's the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 PM
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I wish I could pull it off. The problem is that I neither have the face nor the body for it. I'm over 30 years old and I still have baby face kind of going on, plus it's not easy for me to gain muscle. Weak facial hair doesn't help. But I'm doing whatever I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:15 PM
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That's a different kind of MPB. Mine looks like Kevin from The Office. I would have to cover half of my head and there's no guarantee that it would last.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:28 PM
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tl:dr, most of male beauty standards in the modern era is very much controllable, and realistic, and the women who want anything more are few and far between. I disagree. Male pattern baldness is a thing and I suffer from it. Weak facial hair is a thing and I suffer from it. There are things like minoxidil which can help with that but I also happen to not respond to those well. So I'm kind of screwed. And women are biologically lucky enough to not have to deal with that nonsense. I can work out …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:57 AM
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r/TwoXChromosomes would disagree with you for some reason. They see Peterson as the same kind of person as Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:01 PM
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Many men are just gonna be plain screwed. 😢 Always figuratively, never literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:54 PM
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