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Easy day - why is this hard for you? Just being sentimental I supposed. However, now that you mention it, I see how it's a projection of a scarce mindset; I'll never have a friend as good as him again. Appreciate your input, makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 05:35 PM
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I think it's perfect - "Let's meet at xyz tomorrow at x time" - definiteive and it makes her choose.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:21 PM
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depends - is this a rando? Typically the advice is that unless she specifically sets a new time/place to hangout then she's not interested. One more text wouldn't hurt if you're never going to see her again anyway. As far as why you care about text vs in-person - I think that it has to do with uncertainty. In person what'd done is done - it's a yes or a no. With a text you are uncertain, and that uncertainty can drive you nuts!
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:06 PM
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unconditional love is bull shit and doesn't exist. It's mostly just a way for toxic people (e.g. mothers who can't validate their kids) to manipulate said kids through anxiety, guilt, and ignorance. Please read "fear of intimacy" by Firestone. It's very thought provoking and will help you with your issues.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 05:54 AM
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I think maybe OP just framed his sentence wrong. You are correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 09:31 AM
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Have wide chest, back, and chiselled jaw line hmm, don't know of anyone who has a chieseled jaw line at 40% bodyfat. Are you thinking of yourself, maybe?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 09:28 AM
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Is your understanding really that she has no emotions for you but she is just rationally doing what needs to be done? Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 09:28 AM
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He thinks this is proof she doesn't "love him" No. This is proof that she loves me in proportion to how much value I bring. Call if love or something else...it is all contingent on the value we as men bring to the table.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 09:25 AM
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I totally agree, unconditional love does NOT exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 06:10 AM
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Believe me, I've been there. The other day I was meeting a friend for lunch and was getting out of my gar in a parking garage. There was this woman who was in a huge SUV and couldn't figure out how to get out. I started helping her "back up, blah blah blah". After a few seconds I thought, why the fuck am I going to be late to help this woman? I said "sorry, gotta go" and bounced. It's a process. Just remember, you are allowed to solve people's problems if YOU want to. Just don't do it because yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:34 AM
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If you haven't read "When I say no I feel guilty" I highly recommend you do. Something that is covered there is that YOU decide whose problems you want to solve. If YOU don't want to help someone solve their problems, don't.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:28 AM
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as /u/LukeMooney said, looks are only part of the equation. Case in point: Last weekend I went out with a tall and good looking crew. I am not ugly but compared to them I am not all that great IMO). Think 6'2 and above with average looks or above, all athletic. We get to the club, and guess who was pulling chicks? Me. Now, don't get me wrong. Looks definitely help. But looks only get you so far. I have a friend who is 6'5 but does stupid shit with women. Later, I'll number close the same woman b…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 06:45 PM
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As far as biology goes the only reason for our existence is to reproduce. If you are jacking off all the time, your body thinks it's doings its job and will be less motivated to interact with actual women. Last week, I didn't masturbate all week. I felt good, felt a bit more confident/assertive, and was way more motivated to talk to women. That Friday (5 days of not cumming) I was so on point, I've never been so good. I was approaching hotties like nobodies business. I blacked out and awoke the …
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:39 PM
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Hey, we've all been him on occasion. What helps for me is to acknowledge that I am 100% accountable for how good of a time I have. You'll be fine dude. Music venues are money, a great way to meet women and dance with them. Common interest is there and you have a reason as to why you're alone.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:18 PM
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I think you are overthinking it to an extent. First of all, you should never be a lone guy. A long guy walks in, orders, and doesn't look at anyone or talk to anyone. Don't be this guy. I would encourage you to go to a place with more than 40 - 50 people so as to blen in a little more. Also, most people probably don't give a fuck if you're alone - they're too busy worrying about themselves. As soon as you walk in, start talking to people. Hey, how's your night? Nice shirt dude! Whatever. You nee…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:42 PM
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then fucking do it. Buy that book today, seriously. Quit being a non-assertive bitch.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:32 PM
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Our whole world is based on connections and interactions. You tell me, would it be beneficial?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 06:26 PM
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Don't try to climb anything you fucking idiot. Social groups aren't made to climb to the top and conquer them. They are made to have mutually beneficial interactions amongst all. 2) The problem isn't your friends, it's the fact that you are a huge pussy and don't stand up for yourself. Read this book, it will change your life
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:57 PM
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hahaha. "Honey, you should start a pinterest board for your vagincave"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 05:06 PM
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I had to get four fillings and the frenectomy. I'm pretty sure my dentist billed it in such a way so that the cost of my fillings (covered by insurance) subsidized the cost of the frenectomy. I ended up paying 400 out of pocket for fillings, 0 for the frenectomy. Tell your dentist it prevents you from speaking and insurance may cover it. Otherwise I've been quoted around $700 for it elsewhere. Not sure if anyone else does it, I only consulted dentists.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:25 AM
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glad you are able to take care of this now! I know what you mean. I hesitated so much before when speaking to people because I feared they'd not understand me and/or not hear me and completely ignore me.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:55 PM
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personally, I wouldn't go that far. You gotta decide what's right for you though.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:27 AM
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In college I would go out most weekends starting on Thursdays. In my mid 20s I was kind of over it and went out for occasions but never just because. In my early 30s I discovered how fun going out alone can be and started going out a lot. I also started working in a city where happy hour is filled with young people and that fueled some of it as well. I tamed it a bit now. I am like you; idiots, money, etc. But remember that you're only young once. You could try going out for a bit and when you g…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:40 PM
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Thanks much! I agree with much of your post and found it super helpful. I have a trip coming up which will put me alone for 2 weeks. I am also going to focus on achievement instead of happiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 07:51 PM
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Definitely some truth to this. I read the book fantasy bond by Robert Firestone and he touches on this very point. It's something I'm working on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 03:50 PM
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Thanks, I thought he was going somewhere with that other than bragging
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 04:34 AM
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Thanks man. I am having a hard time determining what is an ample time to spend with her versus on my own. Sometimes I just feel like I am doing so much shit alone that I may as well be alone. While I am not an adrenaline junkie by any means, I share your spirit of doing things for me. It just seems like sociey paints this picture of marriage where you do EVERYTHING together and then I come to find that in reality that's not how it works.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 12:16 AM
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You depend on each other too much for your happiness. Shit man, I am slipping back into my beta tendencies. You're right! I had kicked that but slipped back. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 12:14 AM
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She is still a reflection of you. This is very helpful, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 12:12 AM
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Totally agree with you. I had stopped for a while but picked it back up. I've stopped again, hope that will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 12:11 AM
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Thanks for this. In the spirit of candor, I didn't actually give her the list but she found it. I am in no way blaming her. I am looking for action steps I can take (which you have given me) to help me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 11:29 PM
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12 or so...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 11:28 PM
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I like to use fogging and "but". In case you don't know, fogging is agreeing with what they say. Think about it like judo; you don't attack your opponent but use redirect the force they use on you against them. By not resisting what she says, it kind of fucks with her mind and doesn't give her more leverage over you. Step 1: "I may be ugly" Now, think about the word "but". When someone uses it, you usually don't hear/pay attention to what was said before the but. "paperlion60 that's a nice shirt…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:45 AM
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If you do well for yourself, move to the city. Young, single, promiscuous women from all over the country are in one spot. Last night I opened five to six sets easily without really trying. With effort you could open double digits every day and never run into the same girl twice.
/r/seduction23/01/16 09:56 PM
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1) Do NOT let the perfect get in the way of the good. There is no perfect opener. Just say something. 2) Say ANYTHING. Hey, what was the last thing the professor said...."blah blah blah" oh ok cool. How do you like this class? "blah bloah blah" oh yeah, me too. I'm xxx by the way, what's your name?
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:51 PM
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When I first got into RP I automatically assumed physically imposing = alpha. I quickly figured out that this is not the case. I have a friend who is 6'5 who gets opened every time we fucking go out. He can be beta as fuck sometimes, supplicating to his gf and what not.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 07:09 PM
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This is great. I can't exactly get behind the posts about being a father being the best thing in the world. I have always known I wanted kids but it was mostly for this reason. Who knows, maybe some deep level DNA will make me feel differently. I just think there are bigger goals in my life that will give me more fulfillment than kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 05:47 AM
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This is so true. The other night, I was going to go out alone but was nervous. I made up a bunch of excuses in my mind....I am too fat, I am awkward, I am not rich, etc. I then realized something; my flaws don't bother other people nearly as much as they bother me. It was a nice realization to have. After that all my sets went smoothly and escalated to kino/kissing. I had back to back nights that were great and I truly think it's because I internalized this belief.
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:39 PM
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It means she is into you and wants your approval. Give validation sparingly and escalate. Tease her a bit too.
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:10 PM
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Dude....all women are capable of dating two guys at the same time. http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf That is the game women play. They tell you what you want to hear in order to keep you around. When something/someone better comes along they bounce and only come back to you when that something better is gone. Have you fucked her yet?
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:05 PM
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Abundance mentality.....knowing that you can get another chick if this one fucks around on you.
/r/seduction19/01/16 08:51 PM
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Here is a tough hard fact that you need to accept: Women have their phones on them 24/7. The fact is she receives your text and consciously waits a long time to respond (either busy or not). She likely has another guy she is texting and texts/sees you when that guy is unavailable. I know that sucks to read, but it's the truth, AWALT. My advice....develop an abundance mentality. Go talk to more girls, get more numbers, etc. And don't think too much about the WHY, it will drive you nuts. Accept it…
/r/seduction19/01/16 08:45 PM
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She didn't notice. I grabbed the chicks hand, threw it away, and told my wife to step back so that they were in front of us. Don't fuck with my first mate.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:28 AM
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Everyone has a wealkness. I have trouble taking women from comfort to sex. Yours may be further up the chain. Find a way as to solve your problems and quit blaming your weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:45 AM
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yeah man. I never imagined I would get more attention in my 30s than I did in my 20s. The nice thing is that as long as we continue building our SMVs, this will continue well into our 40s. The age range will obviously change.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:51 AM
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I have lost about 30 pounds from my heaviest weight and the changes are drastic. I am 5'11, and 220 lbs. I am still in the low 20% as far as bodyfat goes. Thankfully I am blessed with a broad upper body, a prominent jaw (defined at my current bf%, can't wait to drop more), and being moderately handsome. Dudes treat me differently. They will more chat me up at a bar or something. I feel like people respect me more but that may just be a reflection of my respect for myself. Gay dudes have been tal…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:17 AM
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