Boxhead928 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-5	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you This is why secular society doesn't work look what's happening today. Men want to know that the child is theirs it's ingrained in our biology which is why we don't like promiscuous women deep down there are some men okay with it but they're usually like military or cops or some high stress field, just different than the norm and it changes them because of that career field. Cuz what you do at work you do take home with you in a sense. Basically Traditions are solutions to problems we have forgot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 05:33 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Yep for real hypergamy high standards feminism movement degeneresy hookup culture hedonism I mean end stage capitalism the poor economy on top of delusional standards it's just all it's a multifactorial issue today 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 03:56 AM
17	A word about "single mothers" I hate to say it but I feel the same way especially if she's a young girl in her early twenties late teens or whatever and she has kids it's like she's made bad decisions you know	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 12:27 AM
3	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". The problem is companies would want to hire the cheapest Workforce	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 01:42 AM
1	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. Yeahh, I had one female coworker that I could tell liked me and she wanted to do friend stuff after I quit to focus on school, she was nice and I felt bad I wasn't attracted to her and I could tell she wanted to ask me out and I just let her down nicely, but we don't talk anymore. The other problem with today too is when you are talking to a girl/dating for months and eventually stuff starts to get a little more serious but shes still talking to loads of other men and is not wanting to get rid o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:18 PM
2	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. 99% of the time men and women cant be friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:43 PM
1	Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever? Yuppppp, unfortunately. I'm in my late 20s now and a girl from high school is now wanting to date me when she didn't want in the past and she's hooked up with a lot of guys like a lot. Now she's wanting to have someone long-term and I hate to say it but I feel like now that she's older they're just kind of only as loyal as their options and I hate to say it but I know it's not everyone but applies to a lot. And a lot of guys don't have a lot of options nowadays. So they get married so they can s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 01:05 AM
2	How to understand women's attraction? Yeah you don't do what women say you do what they respond to	/r/seduction	24/02/25 05:04 AM
3	There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality. Yes same, and you have to be what you want to attract	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 03:23 AM
1	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think Are women the same way? Or do they just passively more easily get male validation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 09:01 PM
1	Women end up hating the Men they create. 100%%	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:57 PM
2	Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you. Yea lol 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 07:17 PM
-3	Do you genuinely believe feminism is for equality of the sexes? Or just helping women? Fr 100% 👍👍. It originally was good and about equality but now it's about power.. and Power corrupts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 03:45 AM
1	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? And I forgot to mention there was this whole Pharmacy drama that went on one of the techs was showing a lot of interest in me touching playing with me and she was early twenties and I obviously was interested in her cuz she was really attractive but I found out later that she wanted just to hook up, found out from 2 co workers at a dinner hangout she didn't want anything serious and she's just in her party phase rn, not so I want to ask her to hang out she said no so I was just left so confused,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:31 PM
1	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? Yeah I worked in a pharmacy and it's kind of like half approaches like one of the pharmacist was offering to buy me dinner and was buying me lunches and asked me out for coffee but she was just older and wanted kids right away kind of thing and then I had another tech asked me to go to the movies and when I wanted to invite another friend she was like oh never mind kind of thing so I just felt bad and I have my step sister's friends two of them were interested in me and I just couldn't one was n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 12:03 AM
-1	Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any case Yep just signs and symptoms of a Dying society, hell people don't even want to have kids anymore there's no faith in the future. That's one of my biggest arguments, Unless you're in the upper class	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 06:35 AM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations So true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:52 PM
2	At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it? Yeah this is very true and I've heard the stats are even going to get worse. It's literally a dating crisis going on nowadays, I have so many friends that are late twenties that haven't even held hands with a girl yet me included. And I strongly feel that the economy is highly correlated with it as well because no one can really afford stuff let alone dating. Not to mention it's a major disconnect between either Generations like Boomers don't understand why their sons are having problems nowaday…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 09:22 AM
4	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? Honestly with me how jaded I've gotten cuz I faced nothing but rejection my early and mid-20s I've gotten to the point where I don't just have high standards I have walls/barriers up, and I'm in my late 20s now and I'm working on myself and building physically, financially, and mentally. Now I'm actually rejecting girls now because I'm just not attracted to them or I find out some of the stuff they did when they were younger and it isn't what I want long-term. So I guess I'm just getting more se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:19 AM
4	Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex? 👍👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 03:54 AM
0	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. Yeah this is so true especially nowadays with Hedonism and materialism being more prominent	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 07:41 AM
1	Childless people should not date single parents 100% agree. Lots of people are childless because they don't want to deal with children	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 05:49 AM
6	If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's fault Ikr. Unfortunately it's the truth nowadays average is not seen as good anymore, it's the average like.. there's too many people so you have to stand out in some way	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 08:29 AM
0	People that play games, why? Be honest. So true 👍😔	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 06:29 AM
2	What does a top 20% man look like? Damn that's a good point, I thought the college was just about status for them. Cuz even though a plumber can make more money than an average lawyer (debt too) I heard that they want to tell their girlfriends that their man's a lawyer not a plumber kind of thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 04:19 PM
25	What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience? You're right about the not looking for love one cuz I honestly haven't done that at all in my life and now I'm 28 years old with no experience lol. Mainly because all I heard is you're supposed to build in your 20s and play in your 30s. 30s is the new 20s for men now because what does a young man have to offer a woman vs an older more established man in his thirties??	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 07:47 AM
0	Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship? Yeahhh 😞	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 05:16 AM
0	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? It's all of it, depends on the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 08:20 PM
-4	Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than women Honestly its just sad what dating has come to. There have been girls I lost interested in because they dont want to self improve like what he mentions	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 07:18 PM
18	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? 👍 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:57 AM
17	Should We All Just Quit Dating Period Yeah it's bad friends family people at school Etc all are saying it's really bad. I would say just not to go looking for it but pseudo looking and just if it happens it happens because it's that bad there's no point in really trying for lots of reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 12:36 AM
1	For those of you who can’t get dates/relationships, what are some other goals you have in life? Blood west is pretty fun too	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 03:45 AM
–	Do guys here seriously never get approached by women at all? Not even indicators of interest? I'm sorry please don't let one person ruin it, guys love to be approached. It's like a breath of fresh air 😔	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 05:36 AM
1	I don't think average men get laid that much actually Same 😔	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 01:44 PM
-2	There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ? So true. It shows how biologically programmed she is attracted to that person, it's what's happening in dating right now, girls making average guys wait but they'll happily sleep immediately with the 10% of attractive guys no issue. It's just in general hypergamy is all	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 01:20 PM
26	What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women? But Pros are rented, girlfriends are leased, and wives are financed And now apparently AI is just a monthly subscription LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:07 AM
2	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this Problem is some women aren't looking for a relationship they do want easy sex. But then they want to be traditional later down the line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 05:55 AM
4	What is the end game for TRP guys if they don't like the options once they reach their prime? This is so true. You have to build value as a man to have options, and options mean you can make a decision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 06:34 AM
-1	It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriage Exactly, I've tried dating in my twenties it's just not working out and I have basically no experience because I don't know people don't want to give me a chance cuz I'm living with my parents I guess. Girls will date a guy that lives with his wife but wont date a guy that lives with his mom... I'm tall, athletic, weight lift, have hobbies and a strong friend group going through the same things... Going to school right now and working too. Im in the nursing program I'm going to be making decent …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 03:51 AM
5	in which direction do you think your marriage or relationship will go if we went into another lockdown ? Yeah even during covid one of my nurse clinical instructor said that she was a nurse during the pandemic. There are so many bodies in the hospital the mourge was filled they had nowhere to put them and they were just laying them in the hallways and got so bad that they had to put ice on one of them in the patient's room somewhere so they can work on a new patient	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 04:34 PM
2	Today society is PERFECT for men Oh that's only for the top 10% of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 07:27 AM
2	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? That's the thing that's all that's available out there now are these kind of women. That's why you hear guys going to other countries trying to find wife material cuz America's done lol You literally have girls coming out of high school with body counts in the double digits, then they come out of college with body counts higher than a John Wick movie. They can't pair bond anymore they don't know how to cook or clean, start drama if there is none, they're disagreeable and argumentative they don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:41 PM
16	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? No it's not a joke, online dating for a man is like a job interview, online dating for women's like going shopping. She has all the guys in the world in her rotation she doesn't like anything she swipes to the next guy. Meanwhile, all the top 10% of guys that are tall athletic with money and status have all these girls on THEIR rotation for sex because these girls are just giving it out to guys like this, thus becoming the girls new standard once he is done with her and rotates to the next girl.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:39 PM
9	The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to women Yeah you're right that's the problem cuz attraction goes so much deeper than just the physical. It's how you talk how you carry yourself if you're funny charismatic, how well you deal with adversity and treat other people. Everything. That's why I just firmly believe social media and dating apps have just completely skewed and screwed up the whole Market, because half if not more of dating takes place online now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 05:38 AM
1	If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards? Exactly, women and children are valued unconditionally. Men have to create value. Once a guy create value in their 30s with a stable career the ability to provide and have lot going for him with passions Etc that's when he gets attention and then he can be picky (Rule of 6's) Unless a guy in his 20s is conventionally attractive with looks height physique Etc the bottom 80% pretty much get nothing until he has the ability to make decent money. (lots of young guys are losing their virginity to pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 03:35 PM
1	If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards? I just did a general google search and picked the top 2, it's out there everywhere. It's very widely known even without the internet and through literally everyone's experience that dating today is very bad and a lot of good people are just out and not wanting to date, and being happy or trying to be happy on their own, especially for young men and older women. It's like an x on a graph, men have it easier later (resources) but harder earlier, and women have it easier earlier (youth, beauty/fert…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:50 PM
2	If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards? https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/women-say-80-of-men-are-below-average/ https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/#:~:text=As%20of%202022%2C%20Pew%20Research,whopping%2063%20percent%20of%20men. There are soooo many sources coming out with this. 60% of young men 18-29 are single while about 30% of females in that age range are, they are dating up to men in their 30s. All the good ones get taken and it sucks for career women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:51 AM
6	If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards? You're right but that's also the problem with the current dating Market is majority of young men have nothing until they have resources in their 30s and then party girls want to settle down with high body counts. Social media and dating apps have completely skewed and screwed up the whole dating Market. Average guys can't get average girls now and all females think they're 10/10s now https://youtu.be/hk6LD1ORQx8	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:28 AM
8	Age gap relationships end in divorce Yeah that's because you have to be the top 10% in attractiveness and looks and Physique and height in your twenties. If you're not any of those you're out until you have resources in your 30s unless you're lucky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 06:53 AM
1	Is it wrong to want a masculine woman ? Everyone can have standards and preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 12:23 AM
0	How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? Exactly 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 01:49 AM
3	The bald mans handicap I was balding at 16. Finally shaved and rocking the mr clean look since 23	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 03:40 AM
2	Marriage 2.0 is much better than Marriage 1.0 Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:48 AM
–	Trad Cons and capitalism Yeah, you're right. The cost of living is getting really bad. Everything is money now, especially corporate America not paying employees enough, and college is insane, kids are not feasible. We're in for some rough times boys	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 06:39 PM
–	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it? Yes all this is 100% true. I would say having simmilar values in life is extremely important too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 04:08 AM
5	A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sex Yes, the worst financial mistake you can make. Especially with kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 04:55 AM
1	CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traits Oh yeah that's 100% correct there's been articles talking about how a man shows weakness in the girl recognizes that it's very very likely she loses attraction it's just innate in their psychology. It sucks but there's a lot of Hoops you have to jump through to even have a girlfriend these days that's why everyone wants situations and hookups because it's easier all around, and it all sucks it causes damage to people. There's a lot of other issues in society to pertaining to this cuz what it doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 07:42 PM
–	Most men have no trouble getting relationships/dates 100% agree and correct. It's a shit show for everyone today. 27 tried asking out with lots of rejection or just females that just want hookups while I want a long term relationship. Haven't even held hands with a girl yet, 0 experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/23 05:30 AM
-1	CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle? Yea but she got the tingles for hot guy chad so its over, then she will get tingles again for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 08:29 PM
4	Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men? Yeah, I guess I just dont make enough money yet to be considered a winner so ill just have to wait until im finished with med school. Problem is that I will have 0 experience when im 30. Like I've never even held hands with a girl...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 10:39 PM
7	Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men? I'm a guy and I feel like the same situation you're in, I just come across women that all want hookups but I want a relationship and I'm honestly frustrated at this point cuz I'm almost pushing 30.... Its awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 05:10 PM
–	Men need to stop focusing on body counts. From a man. This is correct. Men value low body counts for MANY reasons. A women that has a high body count will not be trusted with a RELATIONSHIP, thats just hardwired into male brains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 11:54 PM
4	Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex I feel that many modern women just aren't worth it anyway, that's why I don't even try	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 07:31 AM
1	Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive? So I'm curious what does it mean if a girl is really flattered and is doing hair flicks after you ask her out? But she said no In about 2 weeks later she seemed a little sad cuz I guess I stopped giving her attention or something I don't know	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:05 PM
4	The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enough Ive also heard once a girl knows too much about a guy they lose interest because he is no longer mysterious. The girl just need to be really attracted to you physically, chatasmatically and how you carry yourself or its not going to work. If she wants to rip your clothes off its a good sign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 06:58 AM
6	Why Are You Single? This is correct. Tons of vids explaining this phenomenon	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:05 PM
15	Why Are You Single? Exactly right, i bet we are all average. And average men cant get average women, most women see most men as unattractive. You have to work x10 harder than your grandfather for a woman x10 worse than your grandmother now...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 04:17 AM
8	Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort? Thats right! Men are the romantics and emotional. Women its all a business transaction always trying to level up..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 05:56 PM
1	Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort? This is why men are going their own way. Its way too much trouble for what... I heard somewhere men have to work 10x harder than their grandpa to get a woman 10x worse than their grandma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 05:54 PM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? yes! they all want 6 inches, 6 pack, 6 figures, 6 foot, 6 cars 6 everything :\. they all want someone who wants to travel around the world like Dubai, Bahamas, Hawaii ect... $$$ it makes me upset, partly glad im single and focusing on my money, myself, and my career because you honestly need to love yourself first :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 01:27 AM
14	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? 27-year-old monk here (yes clean shaven and bald too lol) 6' 2, sports car, working in a pharmacy and in the nursing program. Given up as well lol... average women don't want average men	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 12:18 AM
2	Men don’t care about women’s career? Not always, specifically online dating average women want top tier guys so most of the time average men can't get average women	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:44 PM
3	Men don’t care about women’s career? 100% 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:42 PM
2	Men don’t care about women’s career? I defiantly do believe there are some good people but depends on the person there are some really shitty people out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:39 PM
3	Men don’t care about women’s career? But women will sleep with a man they are attracted to but will also dump them if he is a low income. Man needs to be the provider. I think I heard or read somewhere that there's a 90% chance a woman will divorce you if you make less than her. So part of todays issue too is women are graduating college at a much higher rate than men are, but they also want men who have degrees even though a guy that's working a trade can make more than her they still want someone with a degree cuz that's consider…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:38 PM
3	How come men cheat more than women but men are much more sexless than women? Actually statistics are starting to show women cheat more	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 12:51 AM
9	Being sexually satisfied in todays society is EASY Its harder for males. Average females can have plenty of sex, males cannot unless they are top 10%. Many women would rather Share a great attractive man than date down below 10%	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 02:37 AM