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| 33 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? | Discussion | Boxing_T_Rex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 07:31 PM |
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| 4 | Why is it always semantics and not the argument itself?I really hate how I can never make any sort of analogy to make my feelings a bit clearer. This specific situation may not have happened to you, so let me just explain another situation that is more common and made me feel more or less the same way. Is it reductive? Yes, but it gets the point across. Guys will just say "dude I get it now that you've put it like that!" but women will often completely ignore the point and just day "umm women aren't (thing you compared them to) okay, sweety??" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 08:58 AM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingRejection is especially hard when it's a stranger because it's confirmation by an unbiased, independent, third party that all those insecurities and bad things you think about yourself aren't just in your head but are actually true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Being Nice vs AuthenticI spent my entire life hearing from people that I should loosen up, come out of my shell, put myself out there, be vulnerable, be authentic. And invariably, whenever I began to trust them and actually became a little more extroverted, these same people would tell me that I needed to calm down, relax, what's wrong with me, I was being too much. Lesson learned, after 20-ish years. Now I just nod politely when people tell me these platitudes and keep the shell up. Apparently I'm an unlikable guy. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Purge week makes it all clearIncels are unhappy, bitter people. But you, and many others like you, are assuming that that's just how they are and have always been. Their behavior is a reaction to the treatment they have received from others all their lives. All their lives they have been hearing from the media that they're perfect as they are and that they don't need to, and shouldn't change, for anyone else. But then real life shows them that's not true at all. It's very difficult to square these two messages. If they had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Which famous person do you think best represents “highly attractive” and “completely average” in a purely physical sense?I always thought Ron Perlman was a very handsome man, like in an epitome of masculinity kind of way, and years later I discovered that women actually think he's some sort of hideous half ape monstrosity. I get that same "this I what I would want to look like but women generally wouldn't want" energy from Bernthal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Reading back it certainly sounds like that, but this is actually kind of the opposite. These are my semi-organized thoughts after a couple of days ruminating on the fact that a very intelligent and high-earning female acquaintance of mine asked me out on a date. I'm a wagie bus driver with no current prospects for my life getting any better, and was left utterly baffled as to what positive influences I could possibly bring into her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?A lot of the women in this thread are speaking of men as something they really like, as something they want, something that would great to have, a nice prize. I think that what you want and what a man wants to be to you are different things. You're speaking of a man as a really pretty and expensive and fashionable coat that you worked hard to buy despite knowing that it's something you can't wear on those really cold days: it's more to look good than to protect you. What a man wants to be is tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?It's certainly not terrible, but I feel it to be . . . too idealistic? To be in love is one thing, to build a life together is another. There are no shortage of cases of a woman or a man who had to end a relationship where the other party weren't, let's say, pulling their weight. And these people drift toward someone who don't inspire feelings as strong, but who are financially stable, or present better prospects. Point being that most marriages only happen after both partners take stock of each… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:38 PM |
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