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Hmmm, you realise the reason why women in most countries get child benefit payments is because it was common knowledge and constantly proven that men were more likely to take the money for alcohol, gambling and prostitutes.... SOME men work to be providers and protectors. Many men don't want to do the work. Few men buy/build a house and renovate it with their dads and uncles, then look for a wife, many men cannot fix a car.... Some men kill their wives/girlfriends, some men abuse their families …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:59 PM
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Unless you have 4 or more children, are a midwife, obstetrician or womens clinical psychologist... I doubt you can play top trumps with me. Decent mat leave is different in different countries in Germany mat leave is 3 years in Sweden its about the same...in some countries women are never expected tp go back to work because they understand the recovery time is different to being able to minimum time required to pull yourself up by the bootstraps to put food on the table. Go talk to your mum dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:52 PM
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Probably just close to women's pregnancy hormone levels just not of specifically testosterone and women's bodies will increase other hormones more effectively to balance it out... Mainly because they're not adding drugs to their bodies like a man taking tren... I don't know why. You'd use that as an example a tiny fraction of men take it, most women have babies... And tren is self inflicted for no good reason pregnancy births human life....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:48 PM
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You said 'a good time' and I said I assume by that you mean have sex.... It doesn't change what I have written above. Females of most species get agitated when males,, especially ones that haven't shown they are safe and trying to be helpful, are around. The nature argument is also fine. I have clarified the points that are when non-violent. Male humans do the same object able violent things that male dolphins and chimps and dogs and birds and - insert intelligent animal that does not mate for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:45 PM
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That's not true. Most women do not recover From pregnancy in montha. Most women return to work in months, many women stop having vaginal bleeding and the need for pads within months but being able to return to work is not the same as returning to your baseline. You know more women die from child birth per year than men die in wars... Im not sure about the disability rates but they're probably not far off each other. Men and family go through hormonal changes but not even close to the same degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:38 PM
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That is insulting to men. Many men are not biologically programmed to rape just like many men are not biologically programmed to be pedophiles. The predisposition may be geneticl but its not biological
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:32 PM
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Nature taking its course. Is for these men to die out. As has happened in history in many countries. Violent men group and gang together to sexually enslave women whose viable reproduction falls significantly and who die at higher rates and lower ages. Those men litterally run out of women and girls to sexually take advantage of. Depending on the geographic location those men then raid other tribe and countries and steal their girls to raise into complaint women but again due to the mistreatment…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:30 PM
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So men will do what they have always done. Trade their freedom and labour for sex. Except this time instead of doing it with women, they will do it with other men who provide them with plastic customisable women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:24 PM
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Things will go back to the way they used to be. Extended and communal families and societies rather than nuclear families. Women will raise children together. Men will not be needed or wanted unless they are very agreeable towards women's and safe towards children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:21 PM
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Fun fact men wore make up before women across most countries to be appealing. Men went through an odd period where their money could bail them out of any genetic or personality deficits because women had 0 money. Now women have money men. Are remembering how to reen themselves like birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:20 PM
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When war was high, families aborted girls in favour of boys who could protect family property and wouldn't be at risk of rape/abduction. When pornsickness and low work workplace participation is high there will be less boys born. They become a social and family liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:18 PM
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This is a strange take. Why do you assume if ai robots are available men won't just be aborted at high rates and sperm of the top 10% put in a sperm bank? I mean robots are best for muscle, so all the hard labour jobs men do can be easily replaced and let's say they can make wombs that replace the vestibular and auditory input a mother provides... Why do you assume they won't just keep women working and free them from having to carry the babies... And let's say they make a milk formula as good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:15 PM
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They have disproportionately high levels of femicide and male on female domestic violence. Where there is violence it is hidden in the family and normally taken out on women so as not to be caught and bring shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:09 PM
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Find a female friend or two and move in with them. They will be much more helpful, caring and consistent if you're sick than a man who expects sex from you. At 40-50 men need to start popping pills to have sexual relationships and you will still have to deal with all the behaviours your friends complain about intnerms of entitlement and self centredness. If you want children that's a different kettle of fish. You can have a blended family but it's a road not many have taken so it won't be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:08 PM
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Some men like the chase. It's validating. To be chosen after proving that you're better than the others just like some men like owning billion dollar companies, it's validating, to be the richest when putting in hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:01 PM
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Absolutely not. Women would approach men for relationships, be men would hope/assume those women were approaching for sex. The less moral men would accept multiple approaches and juggle women in secret ... Same outcome as now but more carnage and more women mistrusting men overall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:59 PM
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You asked why women should be able to be stay at home mums without judgment... That's why and its all true... You should go and talk to your mum about how hard it was to birth and raise you for the first 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:57 PM
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I haven't talked about sex. I've talked about males accessing females space. The more intelligent the species the more at risk a female is when having a male. In her vicitinty. This is why all females are standoffish with males, in 'intelligent' animals. All non-violent males have to do something to earn a place to share oxygen. You're angry at women for a fact of nature that spans almost every species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:52 PM
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Young men tend to be unemployed because they're disagreeable, which is why middle classed men tend to do better, they're conditioned to be less disagreeable or at least within a work place.... Patriarchy is simply a society structured around male needs and wants and this society absolutely is. Nuclear families are awful for mothers and children but it givens men a chance to be a king in his castle. Healthcare for women is awful and much worse than for men. You may be alluding to men having poor …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:48 PM
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Congratulations. And just to be clear I'm not trying to discourage you form being financially sensible, I just wanted you to be aware. Many older women have horrific pregnancies becuase they have them with older men... Kick The weed habit if your mental health can afford it and good luck with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:38 PM
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Societal role.... Those are different for men and women depending on the country and time in history... Farming depending on the country is a man's or womans job. Speaking of jobs, most women that have them do so because their grandmother's and sometimes mothers born at a time when women weren't allowed access to credit, bank accounts, unchaperoned doctors appointments, university etc told them never rely on a man because the hand that feeds can also starve and unfortunately too many men abused …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:23 PM
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The problem women have is they don't understand the concept of 'fuck meat'. It takes years for them to accept its a thing for you men and even then, can understand its a thing but don't understand it. That Is why men get called gross, creepy, predatory etc. The concept of treating a person like a fleshlight isn't something we have an equivalence for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:19 PM
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No woman needs sex enough to 'switch sides'. That's a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:17 PM
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Don't do that. 35-40 is where sperm quality starts taking a nose dive. The man is responsible for the quality of the placenta. When the placenta quality is at its worst it leads to death for mum or late pregnancy death of the baby. When sperm quality is poor it leads to gestational diabetes, pre-eclampsia, morning sickness etc. And if mum or the baby doesn't have a permanent disability mum will simply have a hard pregnancy. If you're going to wait till 40, be in the gym, eat clean, no alcohol et…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:15 PM
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All men are privaleged comes from the fact we live in a patriarchy. It's not evil, it just is what it is. Everything has been designed for and with men in mind and women are an afterthought. A example is that all car safety crash testing is done for males/male bodies. Female parameters are represented by a smaller than average male. Another is the 9-5 workplace without provison for onsite childcare. 9-5 as work hours meet a male physiology of testosterone being highest first thing in the morning…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:04 PM
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Men in pain are more likely to get into fights or try to kill others women in pain are more likely to self harm and try to kill themselves. ... Women are bad at violence so don't succeed often with killing themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:49 PM
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Because pregnancy can take years to recover from for most women, especially if breast feeding is occurring. Some women have end up permanently disabled (varying degrees) some women recover but all women have to manage a new hormone profile and a chronic anxiety around their children's wellbeing that fathers don't have. This is often why you see mothers cry when their children get upset at them being left at day care. Not including the baby blues and other well established mental health challenge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:46 PM
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I'm not talking about those women I'm talking about women, full stop. If that's your focus. For complaint you really don't understand our psychology at all, and when I say turn on I mean the entire thing of feeling attracted, safe, interested etc all before sexual appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:08 PM
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Men and women are both humans. So that's the equality By good time I assume you mean have sex. But to do that youre a predator. Hypersexual women are so because of childhood (usually sexual) abuse and 'easy' women are naieve either due to age, autism or learning difficulties. The type of women men hope to come across for their good time are rarely naturally occurring and normally made through trauma. So its not that women need special treatment but women expect a higher level of social functioni…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:05 PM
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Don't discourage men with close to zero emotional intelligence to pursue real life women when all they want is the ego boost from accessing something female enough to brag to other men about. You're just hurting other women. Some men were born for sex dolls and prostitutes. They don't 'like' women as people, simply as bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:16 PM
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Escorts are perfect for you If you see 'courting' women as paying for sex then you don't get it and likely don't have the genetics to ever understand. That empathy is just missing.... Same for any guy who thinks marraige should secure him access to sex, a cleaner and A cook... A prostitute, take out and a cleaning company are perfect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:13 PM
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You don't understand what turns a woman on if this is your take....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:56 PM
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Net, yes, very much cheaper. A woman's Labour in the home and in child rearing v the cost of a wedding, ring plus additional food isn't comparable. A single man still needs a roof, utilities and food. If he wants children renting a womb is 6 figures as is an egg. A woman is a cook, cleaner, nurse, p.a., entertainer, therapist, social capital, etc. And that's a woman that doesn't work at all. Women that contribute 50% financially pay half the cost for a man having to put a roof over his head and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:10 PM
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Feminism is about the right of women to choose their lives... Previously women were legal property to their husbands or fathers. It is about female autonomy, which branches to the welfare of children and as boy children grow, men. It has nothing to do with sex. Just women's ability to choose from whatever life has to offer. Many men have a sexual addiction so are very interested in how every change in the world affects their access to sex. Women do not have a sexual addiction unless abuses as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:03 PM
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You're either young or a guy trolling and I can't work out which one. Opression is a fact of life for males and females of every species. Feminism is the fight for choice against the current system of idealogical oppression. Feminism looks different in different places because the idealogical oppression is not the same everywhere because culture and politics are not. That is why feminism is about freedom of choice and not abolishing a specific type of Opression. And the animal rights movement al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:59 PM
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Don't go slandering all men now. Some men had a good dad who taught them how to make sure they and their families are alaays looked after. Those men were taught everything and told a man can do everything.... Its like 50 years ago to be a man you needed to build a house get married and plant a tree. There are still men in the west who will get their uncles down and build a house on land they bought... Or renovate a house they bought in the city, then go look for a wife. Different cultures have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:50 PM
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Not all, a lot of. Downs, autism and many others. There are chromosomal problems from being too genetically related, or either parent having a dodgy egg/sperm that one time But robalems that come from the mother generally are carrying problems eg insufficnet hormonal regulation to support the pregnancy and illness or abnormality is generally the father eg gestational diabetes, downs syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:47 PM
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All men are slaves to their d*ck. If it tells them to touch kids best believe they'll be outside a school at 3pm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:44 PM
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Men don't want to spend money, even on a fleshlight...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:43 PM
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Kindness is power To be generous you must have a lot of something yourself. Kind men are generally secure and mentally stable. Niceness is not kindness and women are constantly measuring personality proxies... Its the most important thing to a woman. A personality match
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:41 PM
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Men don't want to pay prostitutes so bitterly stay with their aging wives and have free sex. This is what they mean by stuck. They want free sex with the women they want to have free sex with but they cant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:29 PM
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That's a wild statement. Men are lucky to access any woman outside of paid prostitution... To say them getting any wife is settling shows you have no clue how hard it is for men to get women to sneeze in their direction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:26 PM
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Any woman with a developed brain hits the wall in the eyes of a pedophile.... Thats why not all men agree with the wall philosophy, only a sunset of men who are constantly trying to talk to teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:19 PM
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You have somehow disproved. Your own point with your own references in B Old (unhealthy) fathers cause most of the chromosomal abnormalities and pregnancy sicknesses in women, regardless of that woman's age. Younger women tend to deal with those illnesses better than older women. Gestational diabetes for example, as well as morning sickness, pre-eclampsia etc are the fathers fault as are most of the conditions deadly to the mother. Older women are more likely to have weaker bodies unable to deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:11 PM
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... You don't know what feminism is or how it came about then.... 50 years ago women didn't have the choice to not attach herself to an abusive man, women didn't have the choices you have today. If you have a bank account, don't live under a father's or husbands roof, go to the doctor on your own, think marital rape is a husbands right and that women should be legal property of men... Then you're right, you're not a feminist and there are old women today who truly are not feminists. They grew up…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:54 PM
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The reason why men are simple is because their dck have full veto and voting rights. When you're dealing with a man just speak directly to his dck, that's the brain that is in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:46 PM
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Let's be honest men don't care about pretty or nice. They care about keeping their d*ck. Happy. If it says jump they ask how high, if it says marry that woman who takes all your money and uses it on botched plastic surgery she's now addicted to they nod and handover their wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:45 PM
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It probably wasn't even that he liked 45f. It was probably just he found someone he could be sexully open with, without worry and who then indulged him.... I have yet to hear a story about a man who cheated who didn't do it purely for sexual gratification a man who cheats doesn't respect women... Not the new one or the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:40 PM
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They don't find guys 'so insecure or addicted to working out that it's their perosnality' attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:35 PM
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Your mum wasnt wrong. Be your best self and at least 1 woman will like you romantically. What she didn't add was that those women may not be the ones you want and the older you get, the bigger the potential gap between you and women. .... She probably didn't realise she was raising an entitled son and you would turn your nose up at any woman. This is why i feel sorry for late blooming men. A woman will never have lower standards for dating than when she is young, cared for by parents and ignoran…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:33 PM
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I see what you're saying but I think you have a bias. Some women jump between men and will have a sugar baby setup where they will be fully looked after. They will move less often between men but have no issues moving as often as they need. There's also the women who don't want men having the ability to integrate themselves in their lives and just want to sex. They will also move between men and not want a penny from them. Both women need a level of promiscuity to do this though the first one ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:05 PM
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Some men just see financially taking care of a woman as a thing men do. Regardless of how much money she has....its like men who were raised to be able to service their own cars or do the electric work in their home. They may earn well more than enough to pay someone else to do it rather than getting dirty but it's something men should be able to do, so they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:00 PM
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Most women aren't 4th wave feminists. Every woman that doesn't cover her face outside and that wouldn't allow her husband to sell their teen daughter to pay the mortgage early is at least a 1st or 2nd wave feminist... Because that's the sort of things men were doing before the western feminism movement started
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:50 PM
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Feminism is about the right to choose. All women will agree that in the current state of patriarchy, where capitalism has allowed the life of the average person to be physically and financially unsafe a man that can provide financial and physical safety will get BONUS POINTS. Women do not choose men based on those things, men get bonus points for them. Especially if that woman wants children. Patriarchy hurts men most because it conditions men to be entitled to women, to look, talk, smile, use t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:47 PM
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Men can't tell the difference between lust and love.... Especially when young. The first time most men understand love in the way women speak of it is when they have their first child.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:42 PM
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If she left early it's to get away with you. Women don't just leave decent company. Imagine you're offering to buy her a 3 course meal and she can't stand you enough to wait around for dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:35 PM
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Plenty of men are just raised to be providers just like some men are just raised to be able to do the basics of cars, house maintenance and to open doors for women. It's not a trade in their mind it's just what men do... Some men have been told they can buy the woman they want and she will never leave if he makes her finaivally dependent.... Both types of men and upbringing are Not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:33 PM
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The ingrown hairs occur from shaving. If they let a Bush grow free they wouldn't have an ingrowing problem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:11 PM
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Both are terms designed to explain how men are unable to integrate their perception of people. A woman can have maddonna and whore traits a man can be an alpha with beta benefits. People's psyches are that polarised. If they are either than person has a personality disorder or your personality disorder is causing them to polarise around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:07 PM
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Most women don't care about looks. Most women are sexully attracted to your personality. They lust after your personality. A good looking guy who she considers to have a child's mind will not get her lust. I the same way you like but don't really lust after a woman's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:01 PM
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Men and women aren't biologically equal. Women risk their lives to birth children and many men risk their li es to be able to participate in the opportunity to get a woman pregnant. The hormonal incentives around sex are not the same, women do not care about or value sex in the same way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:26 PM
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Women don't approach men because 1/3 of them are dangerous to women. We can't tell which ones, men won't tell us which ones and it is easier to sift through the men that approach us, as it gives us more information on them (and if we get it wrong at least we didn't deliver ourselves into the lap of an unhinged man) than approach additional men, who won't say no if they think there's a chance f sex, despite not being that attracted to or interested in us, plus dealing with the men approaching us.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:56 PM
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The advice is correct the wording is wrong. "at least be/appear confident" Insecure men appear creepy to women for good reason. If she likes you and there is social proof you're not a weirdo she might think you're cutely shy, but that puts you into the aww he needs to be looked after category, not the hmmm he seems masculine category. A lack of confidence loses you points and makes things unecessarily hard. So when you're told just be confident. Those people believe you have the prerequisites if…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:50 PM
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I prefer a WoW guy to a guitar player. Just like men women have different tastes and hobbies. You're looking for a woman who shares your interests so expand into all of your interests. Don't pick up something you have no interest in else you'll end up with the common complaint of 'before we got married we'd used to - Insert hobbies-together but now he's lazy and won't go and I'm misetable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:42 PM
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Many women aren't attractive to men, many men aren't attractive to women. Neither are entitled to the other. Women are okay with that. Men go insane at the idea and want to burn the world down. And when I say attractive I don't mean alluring as a hole to put you dick in, i mean as a whole person to try and build a life with. Men boil everything down to sex too often an. Wonder why women think their sexual attention is a joke when men are known for putting their dicks in anything alive or dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:37 PM
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"Just be yourself". They mean "be the best version of yourself." Anything else is pretending to be someone else which means you can never relax or be loved for you and if you try the other person will leave, angry that you lied to them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:34 PM
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It can scale as far as the local patriarchal system will allow That's always been the problem. The patriarchal system goes in, uses brute force to take what it wants or believes is of value and subjugated everything below it. Patriarchal systems canabalise themselves after a while though if there aren't local systems to consume being either matriarchal or a weaker patriarchal one. When the world was smaller men used to steal resources from neighbouring villages be that food, 'wives', clothes, sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:38 PM
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Before marraige you know what the state. Or countries laws are on marital unions. If you don't like them you can add pre or post nuptual contracts to amend the default one.... But every contract under the sun is enforced by the or a government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:27 PM
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The type of capitalism we have is bastardised. Companies having this much power over individual workers is a result of patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:49 AM
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Child bearing family units" are the only way society perpetuates itself in a stable way... Uh no. That is the Abrahamic way of doing things. The Abrahamic religion way of doing things spread through the world by the sword. Those who didn't conform died and with them cultural diversity. But if we look at societies that either were untouched by Abrahamic religious groups or 'converted' recently in history we see communal sometimes matriarchal groups. Sometimes where men are kicked out after a cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:45 AM
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All coveture laws that only started being repealed in the late 1900s and some still stand on statute books today. Litterally they were the laws outlining how women were the possessions of men. Fathers or husbands....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:38 AM
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The male mind is hierarchical. Someone has to be at the bottom for someone to be at the top. This is why patriarchy will always be unequal and oppressive for many. Matriachy is more communal everyone gets what they need and everyone contributes what they can. More communal possibly communist. It sets mens teeth on edge. Because it's so far from their pyramid scheme way of thinking where working hard is to get to the top, not to care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:37 AM
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Patriarchy in the west is weakened but not dead. Patriarchy is just a world built on the male fantasy. Sometimes some fantasies can't function and they shift to a different form of a man's ultimate fantasy but... Its still very much clearly there and they hurt society in general. Just because women are no longer legal posessions (slaves) of their husbands and fathers doesn't mean the male fantasy isn't still running rampant through society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:33 AM
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A marraige contract would still be enforceable by the state... Who do you think enforces contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:29 AM
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Question: "heard about a women who complains about how her Boyfriend doesn't clean up after himself and rarely showers. Instead of feeling sympathy for her I asked myself "why is she continuing to be with him then? Why is she continuing to tolerate this behaviour instead of leaving?" Answer : She has the heart of a mother. She believes he's defective and loves him anyway so tries to help him but is still burdened by his dependency... As all mothers are. Good people tend to get taken advantage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:26 AM
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Then you didn't read the responses...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:25 AM
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You have no idea how rapey your comment is. Sir you many act a nice guy but you are not what we'd consider a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:06 AM
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By good I believe you mean 'nice guy' Women are very off put by the fakeness of the nice guy. So being your open toxic self gets points for authenticity and slightly less ick for not being as much or a snake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:01 AM
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Women don't need men. Women grow up thinking they do because they have weddings shoved down their throats from a young age and the idea that theyll find 'the one'. Then they hit 20s and meet men and realise most men aren't tolerable to live with, let alone finding 'the one' so their early 30s is the frustration of realising they'd been lied to by society and they start looking for 'good enough' or choose to stay single. But many men nowadays don't fit into the 'good enough' . They're financially…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:00 AM
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Women have lots of inbuilt systems that stop them from having children from genetically incompatible men. To reduce child deformities Men don't even have the inbuilt systems to ensure they're inserting themselves into their own species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:55 AM
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Choose emotionally healthy women who had love since they were born and think not having it is weird. Though the fact your type is women that push you away emotionally suggests you're just as broken but complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:08 AM
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This is why antisocial men used to get branded and tossed out of the group before they could pass their antisocial genes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:06 AM
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Yes. Broken people are attracted to broken people emotionally. Predatory people will take an opportunity to leach from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:05 AM
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Within female spaces men normally require some sort of vetting before they're accepted. he left out the important part. He's not going to shed meet-ups he's going to primarily nice feminine spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:04 AM
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Many men don't care about female company. It's simply different forms of female validation to prop their egos and regulate their anxieties and insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:02 AM
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Women that decenter men don't date or have sex unless a very special man comes along. That can be years of zero dating, zero sex with men and women are fine with that. If a woman wants a baby she can go directly to a sperm bank. You underestimate how little value mens validation and sex has for women once the shine of the 'Prince in shining armour' and romcom movies from her childhood shine wears off. Society works double time to convince women they should want to be around, sleep with and marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:00 AM
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Yes you're 100% right in that relationships we want have been a media fantasy product used to sell movies and songs and that men should be able to have a happy life without women or female validation....but you've come at it from the wrong angle. Men needed to have sexual attractive full stop and perosnality cannot make it grow. Women are the opposite. Emotional attraction has to be there and physical attraction will come if it wasn't there to begin with....but if you're able to be a self suffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:51 AM
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Men who wanted a house slave finally realising the courts see her as a person rather than chattel and that on divorce their wives labour is compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:27 AM
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Females is too broad. Ask the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:26 AM
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Go to an ask women forum and hear it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:09 PM
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"To a starving man, there is no such thing as hard bread" - a young man Men seek status through women and feel entitled to a/multiplewoman that has their desired asthetic - they prioritise the status of their chosen asthetic (or getting as close as possible) ober personality compatibility. So they lie and pretend to be someone they're not, for as long as they can to secure the asthetic rather than living a peaceful and relaxed life with an attractive enough personality match
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:55 PM
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You don't like gold diggers or you don't like poor women? All the married female doctors I know dont pay for a thing and do the 'what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine' it's great hey look much less stressed out at work than the women who need to support a family whilst also having people die in their arms or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:51 AM
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Ah..... Noooo! Did you plan on going home the next day or just hadn't thought that far ahead? Did you mum know she dropped you down? What a shame, she seems like a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:47 AM
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Hmmm. The problem men have is that they value aesthetic over compatibility. There are plenty of women who will prefer your disagreeable perosnality over a 'Wife is always right' guy....but men are so specific about their chosen asthetic it boxes them in a lot. When they're young they say I don't care about asthetic as long as I can get it up as they get older the status signalling from the asthetic becomes more important to them and trumps the perosnality they would need to match with to not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:36 AM
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Ah thank you. I was thinking about this yesterday (minus your very valuable write up on resentment). It's strange women seem to want men who have integrated both sides but can't find them at all whereas most women have an integrated Madonna/whore but men treat them in a way where one gets repressed for self-protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:28 AM
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..... Dude. I'm laughing but genuinely feel bad for you. If it makes you feel better most women have that life. Especially daughters of immigrants. Maybe try to form connections there, you'll have a shared understanding for each others awkward moments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:21 AM
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Read the opening again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:57 AM
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Looks are not height or weight.... At least not to women. If you say looks ill be talking about the face and if he played contact sports he's probably not a pretty boy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:46 PM
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Your problem is your definition of attractive. Women talk about perosnality traits when thinking of an attractive man. Men tend to think of looks when asked about attractiveness. Ask women what looks and body type that they prefer.... Be specific about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:45 PM
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You mean the guy who openly says he targets vulnerable women because they're easier to manipulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:43 PM
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You're unreal. Do you know how athletic you have to be to be a cheerleader and the head one is normally the most motivated and organised if not also the most talented of the team.... The power in those thighs to get the spring height, the flexibility requicked the shoulder and back strength and let's not even get into any tumbling routines.... Only a guy who has no exercise experience could say something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:40 PM
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That is how it normally works in nature but within human societies we've had a thousand years or so of societies making women legally dependent on men so fathers have forgotten the natural ways and now that women are no longer legally dependent on men to live no-one is teaching the boys correctly and the boys are flailing. Historically men (on average) are lucky to be picked by any woman, despite her face or body type. Men are also lucky to live to 30 without having their heads caved in by anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:37 PM
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Women are human too. If you raise a woman in a war zone/cartel locality she will grow with dark triad perosnality traits or a desire to be protected by someone with them. Maslows hierarchy say that survival is the most basic need, if she does not have tools for survival men with those tool will be attractive to her. If you raise the same woman in a middle classed western society her taste in men will be vastly different. Men are chosen by their usefulness in a woman's eyes, not his status in oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:31 PM
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Op isn't talking about a relationship. Op is talking about utilising feminine attributes to self medicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:14 PM
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Women are very picky about personality Men are very picky about looks Shrugs. That's nature for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:10 PM
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Is there anything immoral about manipulating people into investing their time and energy into you so you can self medicate with them and then discard them when you're ready? Most qocieties have some sort of rule against stealing. I'd say that the most fundamental form of theft
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:57 PM
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Going to the gym is a perosnality trait. Knowing how to dress reasonably well/cleanly is a perosnality trait. Having tidy hair comes from a perosnality trait. Not having a posture induced hunchback is a personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:52 PM
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Women partner for personality so ye, they partner with men more similar to their personalities, because they like themselves and are stable people. If only 3% of men can be relatable to women, earn as much and have sociable hobbies men have a big issue. There is no 80 20 rule in this regard. Its not a universal law in the same way equilibrium is. I will say in the same way men see boobs, hips and clear skin as sexuallu appealing signs women see some personality traits of men in the same way, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:51 AM
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Most women aren't interested in short term sex. Most women tend to the sexuallu Conservative side, which is whys men struggle with cold approaching and have to manipulate women into situationships and whatever other names there are for the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:22 PM
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Because there was a level of attraction and she was able to know him better in a safe environment....and like him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:18 PM
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When you tell women to lower their standards which standards do you mean then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:02 PM
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That used to be the case because couples were having children int heir late 20s early 30s so had less time to maintain friendships. You don't become less socialble on your 30th birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:57 PM
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TLDR: men use women and sexual validation from them as natural drugs to numb the pain of failing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:54 PM
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Most men are clueless about the average female experience. A lack of empathy a around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:48 PM
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The way you make it seem like predatory women are roaming the streets looking for men down in their romantic luck to "pick up" and bend over in an alleyway is quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:44 PM
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Men who are looking for hookups will put their d*cks anywhere. Women therefore will always have value to a subset of men.... But male validation has always been worthless due to that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:31 PM
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Older women aren't looking for commitment from younger men most of the time, they realise they're incapable of many things, so they don't expect it. So younger men dont have to fiance anything ad have low expectations in terms of having their lives together. Basically women that aren't worried about getting pregnant (even by accident) don't care about the reproductive viability of the man they're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:28 PM
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Young men struggle because they have undesirable personalities. When they mature they do better. This is why most women date and marry older than their own age (by a few years). They found the immaturity level of the men their ages to be undesirable. Even in high-school girls turn down boys in their year and look at the older more mature boys in the years above. It's not a woman's job to fix you. .. Maybe your mothers....but you need to decide to grow up and then follow through
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:18 PM
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...i believe you even less now. What man posts a picture of his girlfriend up as fap fodder for other men? Also she's in a bikini top and shorts... Could be any dating app profile pic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:48 PM
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Men (in general) need women in a way most women won't ever understand. If an island of women found out a man was 3 Islands away, they'd say cool and carry on with their day. No man is better than a cost inflicting man and most men are cost inflicting as a default because they have higher rates of dysregulation and then acting that dysregulation out, whereas women normally deal with it internally. It hasn't been 50 years in the west since women legally didn't need a man. I think the last laws got…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:45 PM
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.... Sure. We believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:38 PM
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When desperate men are inserting themselves into animals and inanimate objects I would comfortably argue all women are desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:20 PM
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Women report lower happiness because they have less of a community. Religion builds in community. No woman is unhappy about not having to stay with a useless or violent man untill death parts them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:17 PM
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Yes and no. It depends on how bad the issues are and how well they deal with it day to day. Just like men don't mind kids with an anxious woman but would say no to the bipolar drug addled mess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:14 PM
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Yes and no. 1. Social media allows women to learn from each others mistakes so cultural gaslighting gets dismantled and women get to learn Red flags they thought were normal due to upbringing or bad family examples are not normal Dating apps. Women get to see men and have the space to work out what they are attracted to, sometimes traits they didn't even know existed before. Women no longer legally need a man to survive. Coverture laws pretty much everywhere have been repealeds so there is the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:25 AM
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You're missing the point. OP is talking about the male experience and limitations and you're inserting your female experience to invalidate it. Then adding that women are valuable than men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:18 AM
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There is an empathy gap but it's due to men being difficult. Men have a loneliness epidemic because even men don't want to be their own and each others friends. Women don't have that because women are not as difficult to be with or around. I don't blame men as individuals there's a lot biochemically that make men difficult to be around, they are more likely to. Be dysregulated and when dysregulated. More. Likely to cause harm to their environment and others in it. Its just easier to be kind to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:10 AM
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Women date/marry men their friends call ugly all the time. This is why it's said women fall in love with their ears and men their eyes. Looks don't mean much (though they do mean something) When women speak of 'the bar' they speak of personality. They're saying the personalities of men are so poor they'd rather be single. This doesn't mean all of these men are bad people but it means they are too far on the extreme of certain traits that makes them detrimental (in that woman's eyes) to pair up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:02 AM
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Women tolerating abuse for access to resources is the same as an animal born into a zoo not escaping, even when transferred to another zoo. The level of normal has been set and there is no ability to dream of a better life. It's how we get culture. What shit were you raised to tolqrate as a child tends to be the shit you tolerate and perpetuate as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:53 AM
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Women choose men that are reflective of how well they are treated/safe they are within the world. Women in safe established economies are not attracted to the level of low morality that can mean life or death for women (or their families) in war torn and unstable countries. Unless their upbringing and communities are unstable and violent. I don't understand how men don't understand this still. Women don't care about status at all, they are attracted to what makes them feel safe in their immediat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:50 AM
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Being strung along is to have a reasonable belief that you have something but no confirmstion as o the other person has plausible deniability. Which is situationships. Every aspects of a relationship bar the confirmation of it. Friendzone doesn't have a reasonable belief of anything just a gdneral hope after many indicators of the negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:03 AM
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Spoken as a man who has no clue how horrific pregnancy is.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:00 AM
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Eating is a consequence of low self esteem And low-self esteem is a consequence of being fat and undesirable due to this. It seems your energy match is the obese girlie's. You should date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:56 AM
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But doesn't hold on to them for long it seems. Women aren't god you know. We make bad decisions due to childhood trauma and being decieved. Women tend to leave once they realise their mistakes. The ones that don't get put in a box early
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:54 AM
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Adam never told Eve not to eat the apple. God only informed Adam and god only showed up once Adam ate it. Men are bad leaders, always blaming others. Adam truly was the first man and Eve was described as cursed for having to deal with him. I'm always amused that the Bible references unmarried/single women as blessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:52 AM
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That was the case 50 years ago because women had to marry to access a bank account 1970s or a decent income 1990s Now women can get a best friend to be a housemate/split a mortgage. Unless a woman wants children there is no need to be in a relationship with a man. Now it's more she wins or she stops playing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:47 AM
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What happens if you're not struggling with dating as a man, should you still view women's complaints differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:44 AM
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Salty men never change. They just mask for a few years, then go back to being asshole then claim they were blind sided when their nagging and miserable wife finally file for divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:43 AM
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If you you could understand. Most men are negative value, some men are low value and a vanishingly small number or men are moderate to high value to women and society in general. Its why prisons are full no matter where you go, crime is controlled by threat of punishment and women naturally do their best to stay away from men at aren't pre screened in some way for safety. Then after that you have the hoards of men who aren't harmful, but they're difficult to be around for half a day let alone a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 AM
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If you you could understand. Most men are negative value, some men are low value and a vanishingly small number or men are moderate to high value to women and society in general. Its why prisons are full no matter where you go, crime is controlled by threat of punishment and women naturally do their best to stay away from men at aren't pre screened in some way for safety. Then after that you have the hoards of men who aren't harmful, but they're difficult to be around for half a day let alone a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 AM
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Stringing someone along and friend zoning a very different. Stringing along is more in the context of situationships. Everything that should be there is there but theirs no final commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:28 AM
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Beauty is a sign of status and men are status driven creatures. That's about it. What is beautiful is largely dependent on societal conditioning and changes depending in country and time in history. And yes, any man interested in a pre menopausal woman should make more than her 'for the good of the community' because if she gets pregnant, her economic output capacity will drop during pregnancy (let's ignore the health risks that come with pregnancy for a mokment as well) and at least the first 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:13 AM
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That's sad for teenagers, maybe early 20s but how old do you have to be before you start looking at the world objectively and thinking for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:11 AM
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Because women's standards relate to family formation and community maintenance. Men's standards relate to the way a person looks, at least whilst outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:07 AM
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Women are desperately looking for good men, by a female standard. Obviously poor quality men never admit it and always say they're good enough. 1+2= if a man is having really severe dating problems he is probably not self aware and thinks he's a catch when women would rather chew off their arm than be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:05 AM
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They trigger you because they hit at the heart of your insecurity. "other men can do it, the problem is you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:02 AM
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Even women with poor options choose to be single rather than deal with subpar men....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:01 AM
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Men only get friend zoned when they're not honest with their intentions and then resent other people for not going out of their way to mind read and bend over backward to make a decision in the friend zoned guys best interest. If you want to have a sexual relationship, tell her, if you're too scared, endure the life of a coward. It's pretty simple. Men hate being accountable for their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:57 AM
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"And plenty who will say yes even if they don’t like her, but want a chance to get laid." - this is the part I'm talking about. "But are you going to say yes if you have absolutely no attraction to her?" I don't think a man can have zero attraction to a woman. Men get bricked up over curvy wood, men dressed as women, clothes that make them think of women, the voices of women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:50 AM
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Sad. Especially because a man (of any sexual orientation) is more likely to be sexually assaulted by a man than falsely accused of sexual assault by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:43 PM
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Average doesn't determine quality, just gives you an idea of hierachy. Certain environments may have an abunadance of high quality, where even below average is seen as high quality but the inverse is also true. An example is eye sight when flying a plane. Minimum requirements are set. It doesn't matter what the population average in sight is if it improves or gets worse, minimum requirements to do the job safely are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:26 PM
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The infrastructure was there because of the need for family formation. Untill men as a majority decide from a young enough age they want families, rather than to play the field and see what they can achieve, this will continue. Sorry to put this at mens feet but it's where the break down starts. Male antisocial behaviour makes girls strive to be independent of them when they're women. When men's antisocial behaviour manifests in their dynamics with women, women start being raised and wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:14 PM
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"Women don't avoid asking men out because it's hard. They avoid it because no man is going to say no, whether he likes her or not." I think I answered your question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:01 PM
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So he wanted something but didn't ask because he didn't think he could or would get it so "settled" on a relationship he wasn't happy about. But then founds out his wife would and did provide the type of relationship he wants.... He's a bum for not asking for/marrying what he wanted then for blaming the wife for him not getting something he never asked for either because he's a coward or his self loathing was high and he didn't feel deserving. He should grow a pair and be open about what he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:04 PM
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Women don't avoid asking men out because it's hard. They avoid it because no man is going to say no, whether he likes her or not. It's not a question of courage untill you point out her guy didn't have the spine or the motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:19 AM
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Men get confused. They want to be high in the hierarchy which requires men below them to acknowledge that. So young men get caught up in hierarchy games, forgetting the point of it is to determine who is more likely to access a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:06 AM
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That is litterally one of the pillars of patriarchy. For men to band together to fight the oppression of women and stand strong together against them. The problem is men forget women aren't oppressing them, it's millions of years of evolution telling them how to pass of their genes, but they don't like feeling helpless and invalidated by women. So the older men get, the lower the drive becomes, the less they need to band with other men for mental support to fight their biology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:03 AM
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Men aren't social conditioned into worshiping females Males are biologically made up to do anything for female sexual and affection based validation. All males. Over thousands of years the males that didn't care for female validation didn't pass on their genes. Partiarchy was about giving every man one woman, which is why abrahamic religions say a man that does not provide for his wife is worse than a non-believer. If you're going to get gifted a woman, the least you should do is make sure she e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:59 AM
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If you're not gay yet, you're going to learn to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:52 AM
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I think you miss the main point. The males of all species are programmed to want female approval and sexual validation. Especially ones they see as environmentally 'fit' The females of all species are programmed to like specific types of males they deem as 'fit' within the environment they forsee or live in. Men will always care about and work for fenlae validation, as much as their enlightened brain tells them not to. Even when their balls fall off they will still want the affection and validat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:49 AM
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The jobs market became globalised and women only had to partner with men if they wanted to rather than to get a bank account or go to the doctors. So parents stopped trying to arrange marraiges by having lots of family and friends gatherings in the hopes of teenagers getting paired off with socially approved families. And the below average men could no longer 'buy' an opportunity with their earning advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
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'hero'? Her guy needed saving?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 AM
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She loved him but didn't feel loved by him. So when you see the marital deadbedrooms. Those women love those men but they're also exhausted from having to care for him like a child as well as herself and feels like she's carrying everything. She doesn't feel loved by him. She (rightly) feels abused. And whether it's mental or physical abuse, few women, no matter the Stockholm syndrome can orgasm with that man... But like all abuse victims will compulsively seek validation through compulsive repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:35 AM
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You're thinking of a real golden era for men in the west when you think of your grandfather's time. Women had gotten the pill so the old ways of no sex before marriage and being married often as teens (as we still see in religious communities) in an arranged, though not forced way was gone. Both men and women had choice. On top of that the American(Western) dream had come into full fruition, families that had fled starvation and authoritarian countries had over a few generations settled in a pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:25 AM
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Because those men value women and can't satisfy themselves with porn. Women tend to have an idea about men from seeing male teenagers and getting warnings from family. I'm pretty sure it's porn rather than the Internet in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:50 PM
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Boys are immunologically weaker than girls. So they often die more. Most of the aspects that balanced out the sexes were seen when women have children. Death rates and mental health problems go up whilst income plummets. Untill then women do very well. Men generally have their problems once the testosterone kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:31 PM
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You're an edgy guy clearly. I bet you have the best locker room talk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:04 PM
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The risks ou mentioned exist no matter the men's declarations before the community and law. But if you think those are the only sexual risks women deal with I can understand why your empathy seems so low
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:03 PM
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I agree. But they do determine e your hormone levels for the most part. Your arousal and predilection for certain sexual interests. A strong willed person can always overcome that. But we're talking about the genetic makeup bringing an absence of temptation. Not whether it impacts the ability to deal with temptation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:29 PM
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Cool. I don't do it so you need to tell a different audience. But women's issues with locker room talk is the choosing a woman yo disrespect and gratuitus sexual violence that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:46 PM
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Genetically monogamous people. People with a genetic predisposition to monogamy, don't struggle. You could offer them any partner anytime, even the men and they'd turn it down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:44 PM
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Most risks in sex are held by women. Whether 1 or more partners are involved. But I agree the risk isn't a solid reason not to have sex, but it can lead to the mental over overload that often leads women to not want to have sex. And once a woman doesn't want to have sex but is forced to that add on another 3 or so risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:42 PM
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Funnily enough exactly the same risks as having sex with a man you've known for 5 days. I'm happy to expand but I do wonder what sexual risk you think women face. Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:39 PM
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Monogamous people don't struggle because their arousal is directly linked to their partners. The thought of others either isn't interesting or a bit off putting. Non genetically monogamous people trying to be monogamous is very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:36 AM
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Usually it's the men certainly if work is hard and they've been together for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:34 AM
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Sex has far more risks to it, for women, than man care to acknowledge which is why men struggle with the empathy gap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:33 AM
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Only a woman out for revenge will do that. Most arent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:26 AM
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When women think of locker room talk we mean degrading and abusive conversations. Rape jokes etc. Men that are trying to be edgy purposefully used depraved language when talking about women. Men that are genuinely depraved use depraved language also. We can't tell the difference we just despise the depravity. Women have no issues with men talking about their sexual experiences, tastefully and respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:23 AM
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You're missing the point. Women are happier without men, so it's not a choice of which man is best, its a question of is this one going to make me regret getting into a relationship. Most women can happily not have sex with men for years...forever even. Men are an active cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:16 AM
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This. Men don't realise that they are on average more work and less benefit than being single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:14 AM
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If I come up from behind you and try to give you a voucher for a free sandwich. You'll be much less at ease accepting it than of I had a stand, smiled at you from a distance, waved the voucher at you and let you come to me o see what it is. Same works for women. It doesn't matter how attractive you are. If you put her in defenceode via your asshole cold approach you will struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:06 PM
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You're missing the point entirely. I've just told you masculinity + perosnality, different for different women. Then I told you to look at characters women fawn over and break down why. You answer was to mention love bombing (which is an intense version of romance) name two books and put it down to sexual abuse. Nothing about what those women liked about those men so much they'd stick around for the sexual abuse. Do you see why I call you lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:55 PM
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I assume your rizz game feels predatory and overbearing. You being you is enough confidence and you not trying to rizz means women don't have to be in defence mode. We're like cats, not dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:49 PM
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You think a free meal where I have to sit in the company of someone I don't like and wonder if they're a physical abuser or sexual assaulted is a good deal? Food isn't that expensive and you've just admitted the experience is crap. I'd rather just work those extra hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:31 PM
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There's a delineation between romance and sexual tension but what bridges both is pro-social masculinity. Like have none of you read the main protagonist characters of female romance novels? Has no-one even thought to break down the appeal of different male anime/TV characters and listened to why their fangirls say they love them? Romance isn't just about doing nice things it's about signalling masculinity. The buying nice things. You had to pay attention to her to figure out what she likes, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:20 PM
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Why not be the best of both worlds. The safe and secure guy who is also very masculine and has an edge. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:14 PM
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Iys because women feel its so basic it doesn't need to be said. Men need to be masculine to be attractive, just as women need to be feminine. On top of that, a kind, sociable generous perosnality for most women is wanted. Even with the murderers with fanmail, they're expected to be rough around the edges but basically polite and capable of kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:45 PM
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Women want romance. They don't get wet for NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:35 PM
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Surely it's obvious that romance is about romance, not being a nice person. A nice person can be romantic or they can be a NPC. Romance is just showing off beneficial or pro-social masculinity. Its not difficult but it is work. Just like for women seduction is about showing off pro-sexual anti-social femininity. Not difficult, just effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:33 PM
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Yes and no. Some women prefer introverted men who are a bit awkward, not all women like the larger than life characters. But as with physical appearance there is a cut off where no woman would want a child that would struggle as much as you do. If you're below it you're going to struggle. Some women get wet for angels and some women get wet for demons. Men only pay attention to demons in prison swimming in panties because they think its unjust but there are lovely men women want obsessively beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:25 PM
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....Sir, I am a woman. Don't talk to me as if I was a man. I agree that low impulse control causes me to feel disgust towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:10 PM
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Like I said. If you knew what women said about men after casual sex you wouldn't be able to derive validation from it at all. It's a gamble to scratch an itch, with the guy least likely to cause any trouble/put up a decent fight. So they pick weaker looking ones. The women that do that function in the same way men do in that pretending he has someone else's face, not thinking about the parts of his body that are gross etc. Plenty of women the next day will tell their friends they faked whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:59 AM
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The need sex like children need praise and boundaries. Without it psycological development goes ary and they become poorly adjusted, struggle with addiction and impulse control etc. It's not essential to life, I agree. But men, at the most fertile points in their life, have a strong drive to get female validation and affection that they associate with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:50 AM
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It used to be that young men were looking for wives so didn't bother with older women leaving child bearing age. Now most men can be honest about not wanting children and rarely wanting life long commitment there's not really an age limit as long as she's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:57 AM
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You misunderstand us. We want those men to go and be gay together. Not be violently and hateful sexual with gayen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:53 AM
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No, as feminine people. I mean even if we go with your weird idea, objects for what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:52 AM
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Depending on the fantasy women get burned young and look for less risky men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:12 AM
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Thugs have the skills to be a protector but not the inclination
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:09 AM
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If only you knew the jokes and put downs those women made the day after with her friends. Casual sex is an itch scratcher a desirable man isn't required. One to look at everyday and risk having your children look like on the other hand...I mean unless she's trying to slyly have a hookups genes....he's far from special
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:01 AM
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You're confused. Men show love by providing for women in the same way women show love by displaying desire for men. Love isn't either of those thing but both parties require the validation and security of having it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:59 AM
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Absolutely not. Men treat hookups very well, especially if he wants to show her off to his friends. The wife gets the end of the day crumbs and treatment that comes with thinking she can't leave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:51 AM
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Women don't need sex like men. If we don't like what's on offer, we abstain. That is where the power comes from. Sex is 100% optional, all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:07 AM
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A random man is worthless. Takes time to know him enough to judge and value him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:01 AM
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Litterally the opposite if women's strategies. Most don't know if they'd have sex with you untill they get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:00 AM
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2 is deadbedroom fodder. Why try an ltr with a man that makes you ick and is lazy enough that you cab forsee yourself turning into his mother. Certainly can't have kids with him. It'd be easier to be a single mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:57 AM
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Physical affection? Ever heard of a hug? A kiss? You don't need to try and climb into a woman womb for affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:44 AM
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We mean it but we don't mean date the cool, lovely and living gay men. We mean dare each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 AM
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Men in prison and ancient Greece can learn, any man can
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 AM
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Crime speaks to a populations nature when they're unable to control their natural impulses. Murder for example is extremely natural. Every man is capable of it, under the right circumstances. But the stronger the nature, the more compelling the urge and the harder it is to suppress...hence we have so many male murderers. Some who never had control and killed consistently post puberty and some who snapped and crime of passioned away lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:32 AM
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Look at any countries crime statistics, at anytime in history. Men are men everywhere. The only real hope is them having good older male role models and enough men who've passed peak testosterone to keep the younger ones in line
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:39 PM
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As a group, they will do anything for sexual satisfaction. They are litteral dick heads, men will kill, maim, cheat, lie for something as insignificant as a 2 minute nut. If we're talking about a group of 'unworthy' men. They have even less self control and generally lash out at everyone. Yes it includes men but is much more harmful when done to women and children. Mainly because they can't protect themselves against adult male dimorphism but also because a woman or child can never heal through …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:07 PM
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Keeping angry and damaging men away from women you (and the wider menkind) don't want damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:00 PM
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We women would 100% encourage it. Just keep the children out of it. If you've got all that misplaced hate and frustration, we'd rather you direct it at each other rather than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:59 PM
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Yeah but not out of hate. Usually selfishness and greed. War is about a man killing another man so he can take his stuff. Nothing personal. Even in the present, most men fighting each other is over a silly principle, nothing personal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:32 PM
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Throuought history misogynistic men have encouraged each other to be gay to strengthen that brotherly bond, especially in times of war. Think ancient Greece. Rome during many periods. Afghanistan is the worst country for both, misogyny and groups of men (who wouldn't dare touch each others female family) having gay sex parties, normally with trafficked young men/boys. For a lot of men the sexual urge is about dominance, you don't need a woman for that, a man that won't flip you over will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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I occasionally tell men to go after other men. These are men that clearly dislike women and are hoping for a psycological man in a woman's body, can't recognise why thats not a fair expectation, are into/or not against anal and only value women for their procreation ability. At that point I'm fully convinced you're a closeted Bi-guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:19 PM
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This was all too long ago to reply fully We agree that guys law was crap, full of bias and derived from ignorance. I'm not sure why his name is still being used, especially in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:09 PM
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When unworthy people date they pee in the pool and make life difficult for everyone, including themselves. Better they become worthy, then sit at thee table rather than infecting others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:54 AM
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Lots of animals kill lions, hyenas kill lions. But that point is moot because were talking about females allowing males to be a part of the pride but being willing to getting rid of him and make way for another male, that they prefer, if he doesn't act as they want. Male lions don't just rock up, roar and rule. If thew females don't accept him he can kill as many male challengers as he wants, and roar as loudly as hew wants. It makes no difference In some prides males hunt alongside and as often…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:42 AM
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Uhuh. Good luck crossing swords with 'the bros'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:34 PM
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Only the crazy people will say everyone's funked. And dicaprio is an outlier because he's not a playboy, he has monogamous relationships intill those women leave him to get married. Beard behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:37 PM
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So if simps don't care if she's a 10 and non Simpson don't care. Who is this huge group of men complaining about the lack of and holding out for 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:31 PM
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It absolutely is. Sexual assault, violent behaviour and destruction of property
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:30 PM
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Firstly. Women latterly can't rape as per the definition. Sexualnassualt is the word you're looking for Secondly most women don't have the testosterone surges to even care to do it, even if you're right and women can be as amoral as men. Thirdly. Gay me complain all the time thay other gay men just want to chase the young men, don't want relationships and if they do either want them open or cheat all the time. Gay men complain like women all the time about male fidelity. They will also sit with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:11 AM
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The men who liked marital rape didn't live long. There have been poisons and techniques throughout the ages rich wives used to get rid of bad husbands. Sometimes brothers would also help a bad husband go missing. It's also why women quite liked wars. Men went away and the goverment gave them a lifetimes worth of money if he never came back. The number of Russian women signing men up for war because they'd get paid more than je can bring home is a running joke on the female side of the Web. Espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:01 AM
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They wouldn't care about looks because they weren't planning on having sex with you more than once a year to make the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:57 AM
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You're kidding me. Less than 100 years ago in the US the best way to get a wife was to rape her, get her pregnant and then te her family you'd marry her. Or win her In a poker game or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:55 AM
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Plenty of lesbians carry 1 biological child each or each others biological child. Women would never dream of cheating on a pregnant partner. They understand they risks to health and life. They understand the sacrifice. A man that cheats on his pregnant wife either hates her or is a lowlife with no understanding of how difficult pregnancy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:43 AM
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Read what I wrote again. Not men politely coming up asking if they can buy you a drink. Men who are going to be grabbing at what they want on you, staring at it unblinking whilst talking and doing their best to get you drunk and cornering you off from other people whilst doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:40 AM
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Most men who make a point if going after societies 10s either have daddy issues from childhood or want a daddy in the bedroom. There comes a point where it gets weird. Dicaprio for example. Pretty much half the world is now convinced he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:38 AM
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As a man can can sexualise anything in an instant. Just has to be curvy. That is the exact reason why male sexuality is vilified. Even men don't want to be in vulnerable places like a toilet with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:23 AM
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Boys will be boys is used to side sweep, sexual assault. Plenty of peadophiles go to Asian (for example) for the short, thin, baby faced women and they get them as legally young as they can. A peadophile doesn't have to kiddie fiddle to give themsleves away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:21 AM
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No Most women don't call creeps out because men, especially emotionally hurt men feel dangerous. Most women will be polite and gentle. If you're getting called out as a creep youre doing something really wrong. Like something in your energy or perosnality is super off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:19 AM
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Women would still be disgusted by the objectification. Its like saying men don't like being treated like arms but wouldn't mind being at 24/7 atm for *insert female celebrity * or maybe you wouldn't mind but women don't like being brought down to body parts. It's not a compliment to tell us you want to master bate with bits of our body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:17 AM
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Honestly, you're a guy who needs to experience something before you can empathise. Go to a gau bar or something. Go experience male sexual energy once they've 'locked in' on you and are too sexually charged to care about consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:14 AM
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Being more excited about the validation from your male friend about having sex with a woman than the actual sex with a woman is hella homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:10 AM
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Lesbianism couples could cheat on each other when one is pregnant, they wouldn't but they could
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:07 AM
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It's more bisexual men that are the biggest Std risk to women but they don't flag themsleves as such when dating heterosexually and they transfer the gay dating std risk over to hetero women, not heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:42 AM
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Everyone involved ends up crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:27 PM
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So I hear, all the time....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:22 PM
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I whole heartedly disagree. Men have their hair at varying lengths. Other cultures wear men traditionally wear skirts and dresses have mixed in so there are 'man versions of everything. Men can walk around singing, men will wear pink shirts, style their hair, there a big trend for mens makeup piggy backing off of the popularity of bulldog face creams and manscape male grooming. Normal barbers are offering pamper packages etc. What exactly is it you want to do that you're scared of. I guarantee y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:21 PM
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It's not apples with apples as a paternity fraud is far worse of an accusation than just cheating but if the relationship is so bad you font trust each other....then what're you doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:54 AM
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The caveat is that not all men are shitty or toxic. Just a lot and most in the dating pool after a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:51 AM
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Well then most women are with shuttle men The data is clear that marraige shortens a woman's life and prolongs a man's when compared to their single counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:50 AM
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No, it just makes them feel bad about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:47 AM
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Single people help each other hold up their standards. Depending on your social circle standards differ. Most standards are just healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:44 AM
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Then encourage men to treat her badly as punishment for having a sexual self in anyway that's not centred around them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:35 AM
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Your problem is you talk about the man as though she accepts him as a sexual being. Women sit I the laps of other women, jokingly flirt with other women and touch other women. Women also buy things for each other and pay for each others things. These are very heterosexual women. But it's fine because they're being friendly and loving with no sexual interest or energy. The guy you've described is learning what it feels like to be one of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:31 AM
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The std spread problem does tend to be a male one. The gay male community first, then bisexual men second. Otherwise, women are also human finding their way through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:22 AM
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We already have male emancipation. Men don't have to look at women and they don't have to participate in society. No one will berate them, no-one will care. Men can wear nail polish, a skirt and a beard. They can tattoo their faces and spend all day in a brothel or a gym. Women had to marry men or else they would litterally be penniless, have no bank account, or access to legal recompense. Men have never been in that sort of bond age outside slavery. Men doing what they want doesn't mean the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:18 AM
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Are you a 15 year old? Your biological knowledge is basic and incomplete. Males only dominate social structures where violence is rife and even then the males at the top of the hierarchies don't last long. Otherwise it's normally females that dominate the structures. In pair bonded animals such as most birds the males remain bigger but they work equally and continue to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:24 AM
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I didn't ask for the TED talk, I understand how lions live. What you missed out is if the female lions don't like the male lion they will gang up on and kill him. But areas with 2 cooperating male lions attached to one pride are normally very harsh living and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:20 AM
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Yes, you're an emo child. That's what I said before. How are you enjoying your reality that you've crafted, whilst shouting at others that theirs is wrong. Others that are much happier and more functional than you....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:19 PM
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Only Insects and some fish have larger females. What're you smoking g?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:20 PM
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There's no such thing as a pack of male lions. There are male lions that will help each other survive whilst waiting for the chance to fight for or find a pack of female lions. As soon as they see ladies the claws are out for the brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:20 PM
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Definition of disappointment is important. No-one wants a spineless doormat but if you're refusing reasonable requests, sit down so I can talk to the man behind you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:16 PM
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Women do not make up vlose to half of domestic abusers. Half of domestic abuse victims may be men, I haven't seen the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:12 PM
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It's not so much man bad that it is "man goals and wants destroy community and social cohesion unless under strict control" Which is what religion did for many years. Either a big sky daddy or tribes of women with a handful of men that could be neutralised if they became a threat to the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:08 PM
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I know. But it is the crux of our social problems and it will be men's undoing in the age of robots and AI
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:04 PM
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I was very clear. Read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:03 PM
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Women do have more choices than men. On any month of the year she can choose to have a baby. The point I was making is women are deciding dealing with men is too stressful and bypassing normal family routes. Men are just that gross and awful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:02 PM
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Gay men don't report abuse because its part of being a man. In the same way a woman won't tolerate they way toy talk to your friends, violence is normalised within male groups, as is infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:01 PM
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Says the guy who is so emo his username is dark heart....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:34 PM
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There are toxic aspects of the masculine and the feminine. You should be guided by you morality to know which parts are and are not toxic. You do know, you just may choose to ignore the problem An example. Aggression a very neutral masculine trait. You can implement it healthily, getting something difficult done, protecting your boundaries, etc. You can implement it toxically, abusing your wife and children as quick and easy outlets. Destroying other people's or even your own belongings, intimid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 PM
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Most men don't earn enough to lose anything in a divorce. On top of that, alimony only goes to women who don't earn anything. How many women do you know willing to give up their jobs to be a stay at home ? This is a top 5% of men problem and even then, only the ones who choose to marry trophies. But that's besides the point. Married men are perceived as more trust worthy reliable and competent. They convinced a woman to marry them afterall. And from that they get more work.and networking opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:15 PM
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Are the actual men the ones that use violence to settle disputes even if that includes beating his wife and children because someone outside of the home upset him but he was too scared to address them, so took that pent up agression out on his family? What about the men unable to and unwilling to cook (a woman's job) even after his wife has given birth and can't stand without bleeding from her vagina? So many examples of non-simp behaviour that men really should t be proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:13 PM
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Going the way of men is celibacy or homosexuality. What you're describing is continuing to follow women and trying to pick off the emotionally weak for sexual exploitation like a gremlin. You can look at the reasons women cite for divorce, you can look at the domestic abuse statistics within marraige, you can look at the rates of women remarrying, you can look at the testimonials of divorce lawyers. In general men are intolerable. Sometimes it's women but the majority are men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:10 PM
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That's a male way of thinking. Most women don't have that worry. Mainly because men trigger women's disgust and to have sex at the very least disgust has to be low. For the women who want genetic children they can be highly selective of the sperm they choose and most will choose the same sperm. It will be very normal for most men to be genetic dead ends over the next 3p years. You forget its only been 50 years since women could have bank accounts, 40 since they could go to university and the doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:02 PM
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Humans in general but men more specifically are horrendously predictable. They're predictable because they are rational, it's just the goals are so stupid most people struggle to follow the line of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:44 PM
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Dropping toxic masculinity isn't the same as dropping masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:42 PM
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Women aren't spoilt for choice, that's why they choose terrible men. If all the options were old ones we couldn't pick a bad one and if bad ones were a small percentage there litterally wouldn't be enough to go around. Besides, why should women curse their children with bad genes so you can feel better about yourself. At least most men who don't look good try and make up for it by being masculine, generous and competent. If all women are passing you up, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:29 PM
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Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:15 AM
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India has a lot of rape and even more cases of women being treated worse if she was found to have been raped. That law benefits men in the round
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:15 AM
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Not all men are young, usless and chaotic men. Society favours married fathers more than mothers and possibly more than single women. It's a young man problem, not an all men problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:07 AM
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The advice isn't bad. The advice is for a different struggle. Women want relationships and family so if you say, I want to date and have relationships women will give advice for LTRs and getting married. If you're honest and say I want casual responsibility free sex with as many women will look at me, most women will walk away in disgust but the ones that hang around will give you advice for what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:03 AM
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Courtship is you showing her that you're a decent guy with his shit together and the life you could both have. If she's attracted she decides if she wants to choose you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:59 AM
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Talk to women as if you were a woman or gay male. That can be sexualised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:57 AM
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Women don't like those guys either. Especially after children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:55 AM
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That is good advice if youre looking for, what women are looking for. If you're yourself, women who actually like you will be drawn to you and your relationships will be solid. If you pretend to be someone you're not the women drawn to you won't like you and you will live in chaos. The problem is men aren't honest. They say, how do I get women to like me/go on a date with me/ get a relationship. And the advice they get is relationship orientated. What they mean to ask is what's he best way to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:49 AM
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Women of all ages want the same thing more or less. Youg women struggle to know what theyre looking at so accept toxic variations. The fools gold if you will. The other problem is the women want all men to have what they want, regardless of age and arent willing to target the ages groups most likely to have the skill and perosnality set they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 AM
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Society doesn't favour women.. on average young men are antisocial so society are wary of them. That why married fathers get a status boost, they seperate themselves from young aimless trouble causing men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:43 AM
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MGTOW is fine but men rarely do that. Often they just avoid relationships to try and maximise sex As for passporting. Those men go to poor countries, promise the poorest women a decent life then mistreat them. If I ever hear of a passport bro going to Monaco or Sweden I will cheer them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:41 AM
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So you were with her for the sex experience? Gross. Just see a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:39 AM
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Monogamous men don't need a lot of options. They just need to really like the woman they're with. The problem comes when he doesn't like the woman he's with buy he gets regular sex so stays and treats her badly out of resentment. I'm pretty sure that's the basis of all domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:38 AM
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Men watch too much Disney. You don't all get princesses and if you ever got them, you'd realise you don't want them. Men need to stop wanting women based off of how they look or that woman's percieved status. Not going to happen but untill it does Men will never be happy. There's always a prettier, younger, more aligned with your fantasy woman out there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:35 AM
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You say that but the number of women hitting their 40s childless and unmarried or adopting says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:33 AM
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Pretty much every world untill men start triggering women's disgust. Starts with the nose picking and fart jokes, peaks at the sexual predation and tapers off with the laziness and selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 AM
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Humans are completely rational. Men are just uniquely selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:31 AM
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Absolutely not true. I can see your logic but will tell you its male logic and can only apply to men. Women operate differently. Firstly your definition of intimacy needs to be given. I assume you mean sex because women will cuddle the hell out of men they are or aren't attracted to. If it does mean sex you need yo realise that women have sex for bad reasons, regret it and try not to make those bad decisions again that come from her feeling troubled on the inside and have nothing to do with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:25 AM
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Dating is equally unfair for men and women. It's just unfair in different ways and the consequences of the unfairness impact society as a whole more on the women's side. Most men would struggle as women with women's wants and most women would struggle as men with men's wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:19 AM
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You're confused. What use to happen is girls were sold to men and would birth double digit children, and get beaten so their self esteem would be too low to leave. That alongside the religion telling them to stick it out. You forget the trope of the 1960s housewife is always drunk, regretting her children and of the times before that, plotting to kill her husband so she can be free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:22 AM
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You are 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:17 AM
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You don't understand women at all or men for that matter. Women date for a solid, committed man. We don't need to date for hookups nor do we need an app. Men use dating and apps to try and get hookups (for the most part). Women when they're younger take the lead, then learn that men will rarely say no, even if he hates you so it's better to wait for men to take the lead so you know who is really interested and who is a chancer. That applies online and in real life. Basically there are too many a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:12 AM
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This. Most women don't mind men gaming. It's that they're gaming for almost the same period of time they work, whilst being behind in life and having lots of chores that need to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:25 PM
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I dont doomscroll. Both are a wzste if attention and time however the obvious answers are travelling, typing/writing, packing things away (most home chores), participating in work meetings or other conversations, etc. The scrolling requires like 10% attention and between 1 finger and 1 hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:05 PM
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You sn scroll a phone whilst doing g a lot of life tasks. You can't play a game whilst doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:54 AM
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Your issue is that you approach dating and marraige as a sex opportunity. Women look at relationships for relationships. That's why if a man is too immature by her standards, despite being Chad. She will pass him up. Most young men are not preparing for or considering family. They're not mature in their life choices and most women see less mature men as children. Because women don't like child like features in men, it's off putting. If young men had the maturity of men 5 years older women would …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:26 AM
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That is a big ick. She imagined him being poor and stingy with money. Asking for left overs for anything other than your dog is an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:07 PM
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Women have their mate choice preferences. It's like a transwoman complaining straight men aren't into them and the only way to get straight men is to lie about being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:06 PM
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Men do use it as an excuse. Truly stressed out men often turn down sex from their female partners. Just few men often get to that level of stress. Especially when they're young. Often men will offload the stress onto women or use women/drugs/gaming as a distraction but when stress is so high they can't do that. Their libido drops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:12 PM
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Women are hugely caring and self sacrificing towards their in-group and are more viscious and bloodthirsty against the outgrown than men. Men, for once, are in the ambivalent middle. When women are born and grow up men are part of in-group. The more women see men abuse other women or get abused by men the more they seem like an outgroup. The less empathy they get and the more they get thrown under the bus to protect the in-group at any cost. Women constantly tell men, you need to protect us from…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:16 AM
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Most of the time the drive for sex is just drive for validation. If your right hand doesn't sort out the problem, the problem isn't sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:11 AM
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Appropriate aproach and cold approach are two very different things. One will get you eyed as a creep or potential threat, the other will get you a pleasant conversation with either a gentle let down or a date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:49 PM
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Validation doesn't come with ot but validation isn't sex. You need to choose what the issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:56 PM
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I am self made. I have no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:54 AM
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You misunderstand. I'm not talking about emotional stress and wanting to talk. I'm talking about actual life stress and needing practical help. For example parents with young children are often too tired and stressed to have sex. Getting a baby sitter occasionally and a cleaner relieves stress so they can be in the mood again. It has nothing to do with emotional safe havens it's to do with high cortisol levels dampening down women's libido on a biochemical level. Men's libido have a testerone pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:21 PM
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.... I don't know what to say to you. I can't work out if you're autistic or being difficult for fun. Let's try this. You know hunger and how its a strong desire and some people are more hungry than others? Let's assume we have a guy who is always hungry and I want him to eat monies worth at a buffet. He agrees, then I kick him in the nuts. Despite him being a hungry hippo and under normal circumstances eing happy to eat crazy amounts. Because of that life instance, he sort of loses his appetite…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:16 PM
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What do you think a dad bod is? Skinny fat? Fat fat? Would you like to ask women what the consensus is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:48 PM
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Incels tend to be left leaning funnily enough...and happy to lean into authoritarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:36 PM
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Even those women aren't sure why they have ONS, the orgasm gap for that group is horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:26 PM
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Or the men in the relationship to be a partner and offload her stress so she can have a libido again. Why is your go to to jump ship when life gets hard. Women who have sex to distress can only do that when they feel supported by you. If they feel emotionally abandoned they develop a disgust for you and the destress sex doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:22 PM
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You realise marraige isn't a prostitution contract
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:19 PM
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The idea is thebdeadbedroom comes about because the woman has developed a disgust around a man or he has lost interest in her for more exciting(normally porn) options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:18 PM
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Not attractive. Weak wrists, delts flat on the top, no pec volume. Something else though I'm not sure what, might be a slim neck. There's just no harmony there. Maybe it's the pictures I looked at... Do you have pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:56 PM
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If you say so. Mansplain away. It's clearly worked for you up till now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:44 PM
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It depends on the woman. If she likes snuggles and cuddles and sofa time. A fat guy is litterally better on those metrics. If she's sporty and wants to go on hikes together and get back rides and picked up, those arms and that back needs to be sorted. I'm she's a perfectionist and wants a highly curated life with a family that fits her image of how her life should be 6 pack, low fat required.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:51 PM
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Don't insult me. We all have access to your post history you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:48 PM
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Chris Hemsworth? I'd prefer him with a dad bod. Also women have a type some skinny women like fatties and some chunky women like fatties. I don't know how much of a bean pole you are to say if you're slender, slim or disappearing. But to be fair most women aren't going to comment on your weight unless you make it a topic. We generally don't care. I also don't know where the 6ft reference came from. Are you 6ft and thin for your height? Do people make jokes about the wind blowing you over?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:33 PM
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better dressed and more attractive people get preferential treatment -people used to veing treated well as babies tend to grow up to be better adjusted adults, adults who aren't weird with anxiety and self loathing tend to not male people feel awkward. People who dress well tend to not have mental health issues and make people feel awkward. picking low level criminals over the average person - depending on your culture, drug dealers are more useful than the average person. If a woman likes drugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:28 PM
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You say misandry, it's actually androphobia. You're not wrong that spending time with good men helps women notice a bad man but that only works when everyone's young and bad men haven't had the life experience/are too stupid and therefore can only prey on the young to be better at hiding their intentions and manipulation. Both the wolf and she sheepdog have teeth. The most fearful of women will see teeth others will take the time to try and work through the camouflage and hope they survive the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:05 AM
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Sure, if they find him attractive. But women didn't make him fat, he was fat and likely will always be fat, 100% his choice. Women don't have to marry or have sex with fat men they don't like, you know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:57 AM
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No hun. Some women like chunky men. Just like some men like big boobs/bums on an in shape woman, some women like an in shape but on the larger side man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:51 AM
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I prefer a dad bod but I don't think men know what a dad bod is. Massive arms, broad back, overall muscular man but with a soft midsection. A physically attractive man that has relaxed into life and isn't in the gym 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:50 AM
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Women won't force feed you lard and burn your trainers. Promise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:47 AM
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You've single handedly restored my faith in men not all being manipulative monsters with bell ends of heads and nut sacks for hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:47 AM
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You can always pay a prostitute if your hand gets tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:45 AM
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I agree. Men and women want different things from life. Nature and then patriarchy used to make them both compromise. Religions served to brainwash one group into wanting what the other did so there was harmony. In the absence of training children or forcing adults women will find men disgusting and men will find women to be an emotional nightmare. If men get their own way, society crumbles due to competition and inadequate family formation. If women get their own way men will have to learn to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:39 AM
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Yes more attractive for breeding, I.e. having children with. When it's hookups it's about the personality traits that could make money (the admiration that comes with being around a useful man), not the litteral money ( that you both know you won't benefit from).. Men pick women based off of fertility cues and status, women do not pick men off the same. You risk projecting your way of thinking onto us and digging yourself a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:19 AM
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Money has no value to women in a hookup. Only if they're considering a long term relationship/marraige or children. Women who want expensive dates are vetting you for long term relationships. Are you generous and do you have enough income not to sweat it. Also status means nothing to women. Women care about usefulness. Sometimes usefulness and status converge within society but not always. But again for LTRs not one night stands. There's a caveat to that. Celebrities that some women have been fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:57 AM
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Only men care about status and looks. You're projecting. What women care about, which is often confused for status, is usefulness. You don't have to be at the top of your chosen hierarchy but a woman has to deem it valuable because it has use in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:48 AM
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A man with money is only hot if he has the personality traits that help a person get money. If his dad gave it to him and hes useless asa human being....not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:45 AM
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Wrong. BPD women often confuse drama for commitment. Men fighting their natural debased and animalistic tendencies to come back to her and fight for her. If you're selecting for these types of women by playing mind games, or fetishising female infantislisation through mental health issues you got what you deserved. I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:42 AM
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Attraction is highly negotiable for women. Ugly man with a good perosnality is attractive. Jason Mamoa that makes fart jokes and can't clean up after himself - gross
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:00 AM
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Love and romance. The one thing men hate giving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:56 AM
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That's so sad. No men will ever treat us well enough, it's all fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:49 AM
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I don't think any women disagree, many women live that reality already. The only thing I will raise is that part of the social contract means that everyone contributes and everyone gets the benefit of whatever that society deems essential. Physical safety is one of those, not every man or woman gets it but society will often fight for them to. A minimum level of respect as a fellow human being probably covers everything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:47 AM
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Any woman can become emotionally unhealthy after having a baby. It's more a case of support than previous history. There are so many temporary hormonal and permanent brain changes. And pretty much everyone can think of a time where their mother took her own stress out on them, even if it was through a level of neglect. This is why, if you have a nuclear family, dad needs to be emotionally regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:47 AM
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It's not extremities at all. Emotionally dysregulated men will attack the children physically when they're distressed. Many people from poor backgrounds especially will cosign. Also mothers who aren't supported enough because they're ina nuclear setup and the man doesn't have the capacity to carry his load plus some of hers tend to be mothers who for various mental health reasons detach emotionally and sometimes physically from their children. Emotionally stable men are essential for child raisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:20 AM
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That some men are treating dating as a way of getting charity from sex workers is really annoying. Especially because they assume and treat all women like potential sex workers. It's a dating app not a hookup app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:09 AM
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A man capable of being an emotional support systems is so important with children. I'd women have PPD that gets bad enough they can abandnon their children. Men that are emotionally dysregulated tend to shake crying babies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:05 AM
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Those men aren't wrong. Men are choosy with relationships but will put their dick in anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:42 AM
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Most men have standards for women they'd show to their friends and family. For women they'd be in relationships with For sex? Zero if no-one would ever know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:40 AM
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Men will f anything. A man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, often its an insult, he thinks you're so dumb he can try and use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:38 AM
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The problem men have is they externalise their problems, often aggressively or violently so people have less patience for their issues. If a woman is hurt, she likely won't hurt you and will be grateful for support, when a man is hurt he will use you to make himself feel better, regardless of its impact on you. It's the age old trope, a woman sits at home and self harms through the pain while the guy goes out, has a few drinks and gets intoa punchup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:36 AM
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You seem to be the kind of guy who confuses girlfriend for charitable sexworker. I don't think you should be in a relationship either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:24 AM
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I'd answer but I don't see how it's relevant to the conversation and I'm not going to help you derail it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:13 AM
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Looks are like 9th on a woman's list. Also average doesn't matter. What's necessary is necessary. If the average income is 30k and the minimum required for a decent life is 90k, guess what income women will be looking out for as a minimum. Also if the average guy is so animalistic and deformed it makes women's skin crawl, women will be looking for a guy that doesn't make their skin crawl. Doesn't matter if his is the top 10 or 0000.1 %.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:37 PM
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I 100% agree. And that is why men in their 30s become more attractive. Hey stop being walking penises and start being people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:44 PM
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Define afford. If they're relying on their introverted male friends. They're doomed. If they have female friends introverted or extroverted have told them they're looking for a woman they won't mess around with and will be respectful of and those female friends aren't inviting them out or creating circumstances where he can bump into her female friends and acquaintances....she's not doing it consciously. We women have lots of male friends that are lovely as friends but we know would be a nightma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:32 AM
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It's more than men care about sex, food, sport and looking cool. Calling a guy a loser or incel hits two of those with one stone. Most women have no clue how truly sexually depraved men are untill they hit their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:10 AM
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I don't disagree with 1, 2 or 3. I disagree that its about getting laid. If you're still on the whole I need a woman to validate my manhood arc of life...loser
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 AM
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Your problem is a lack of masculinity not balancing sexual overtness. Plenty of women will swoon over men who show nil sexual interests in them. Women do not swoon over men being sexually interested, it's not a compliment or a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:02 AM
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Ego
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:00 AM
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Men do the community a disservice when they settle. If the women knew, those relationships would be over. Instead those men lie and treat those women poorly. This is why married, partnred and single women say men are trash. Because lots of women assume men can't be better. Luckily the new generations of women are learning the signs of the difference between a man that likes you and one that sticks around for easy sex. Women would rather be alone than settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:59 AM
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You mean during college and its not a true cold approach if its on or close to campus. There's the assumption you go to the same or an affiliated school, or have something to do with the college. Itsbluke saying you cold approach at work. Actually there's already a lot of context and information about you, to be in that building and workplace etc. Or at high school. A cold approach on the street with zero social context is what you're comparing it to. You forget cold approaching mainly doesn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:03 AM
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Wife is looking after the children. Where do you think the cut off should be for her in terms of diverting her resources of time, money and emotional labour from the children to baby him in his time of weakness? How much long term damage should children endure from functionally losing two parents, because mum is consumed with trying to jump start dad and dad is struggling to get back on his feet? Should a good father not want his children taken care of even when he's struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:00 AM
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And if he has intention but is struggling with the fear of failure again, has developed an addiction dependency etc which is slowing him down and the children are suffering while he has his emotional breakdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:15 AM
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There used to be a system. It was called community. Men would be slung into shotgun weddings or end up in bushes. Men would carefully choose women they wanted to court and they thought were in their league and would speak to their families to make sure they made decent decisions Men would invite a woman into his world, not over spend trying to compete with other men, and wouldn't date if they couldn't afford it Women would never be expected to pay for their dates, even if they could afford it so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:21 PM
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Men get more female attention when dating a woman because you're deemed as safe. So I guess it is social proof in someway but its not romantic or sexual. Women will sit and laugh with you, and touch you and hug you - platonically. Once you're single and certainly I you start flirting, you're suspicious and not safe, you get chucked out of the harmless friend zone into potential predator zone. Men however don't seem to know what sort of women they like, so go by what their most respected friend/t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:09 PM
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Its the same scenario. Many of those men will turn to alcohol if they struggle with ego or can't go back to similar work and often turn violent. The men that can go back to adequately paying jobs often have a level of savings, a plan they can share with their families and are back on the horse within months. I'll ask you again. If a guy has no plan and can't get back on track. Should the mother let the children suffer, physically and mentally to save his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:54 PM
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Women don't make it difficult at all if you're looking for a relationship. Only of you're looking for casual sex. Your examples of meeting women are about coming across one in the wild you gind sexually alluring and convincing her to let you as a stranger get close to her. If your focus was to find a woman with similar interests as you by spending time doing social things that interest you, you'd find that women would be more open. But that would require you approaching women wih a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:50 PM
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All women have a dream of what they want from their children. If a man who said he would care for their children decides he no longer wants to put in the work to provide for their children, should she or should she not find a man that will care for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:45 PM
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That's a woman who likes you trying to lower her standards for you. The degree signifies lots of real world skills. Sociability, being able to tolerate intellectual stress etc. You couldn't show those things with the degree but there's a chance you can show them in your current job, if you've matured. Women are always subconsciously looking for a father to their children. Are your genes good, is your character good enough to pass onto children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:14 PM
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They confuse status with usefulness and therefore get the wrong metrics. A useful but low paid man is better than a high status but useless high paid man. See firefighters, men who volunteer to community and youth services, men who have a big social circle that's like extended family etc. Human resource are more valuable than capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:11 PM
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If she has children, should she stay and let their children suffer because he's failing or is it her duty as a mother to both of their children to ensure they're provided for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:05 PM
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The advice is fine your understanding of it is wrong. Friendships: take the edge off of loneliness (so youre not so desperate) and allow you to work on your people skills, conflict resolution and empathy. Friendship is not supposed to help you with your sexual desire. As a man you need to learn to control that. Friendship groups: are not there so you have women around to have sex with you. It's not a shared harem. It's there so you can spend time with people who have shared interests and similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:45 PM
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Only if the woman is also playing patriarchy. Younger women are refusing to play yhe mating game by those rules
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:14 AM
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Honestly it's where I'm having second thoughts in whether he's not attractive but may have a good perosnlity so worth talking to or something k his post has triggered my disgust response and I didn't give it weight untill second time around. Lots of men take pictures from the male gaze rather than the female gaze then wonder why the pictures don't do well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:54 AM
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Porn sickness is about unrealistic expectations about women's sexuality and men's inability to get sexually excited about women outside of a very small body part niche or very specific sexual acts. All females are choosy. Women have inbuilt systems to avoid men who are not genetically compatible and would produce sick children with them or would otherwise be harmful to a family unit. That is the crux of an ick - disgust. Its not that women swipe left because that guy isn't super amazing, it's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:56 AM
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....dude. I don't know whether to laugh at or cry for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:48 PM
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You're a good guy. Looking out for the 'cel bros
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:45 PM
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The lady was pointing out its a common stand point in those communities. Anyone who looks at those sites can confirm she is correct. Saying the relevance is low is like saying the number of murderers of racists is low. We hope so Enough of them to do serious damage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:41 PM
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Most of the world is patriarchy but they're fractured and broken. Korean women work hard. The work culture in Korea is 6 out if 7 days and they're still traditional society where women are expected to cook and clean as a duty to their husbands. Unmarried women do less domestic labour than married women world wide and childless women less still so considering Korean women are unpartnered with nil children, that could be true. In terms of domestic violence, there are few laws against it and men on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:37 PM
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If that's what gets you through life. Go for it. You get one, be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:32 PM
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Go on a womens forum and ask them. Would they rather a man who proves his masculinity by dominant men or women. They will all say men. The followup, which is the nuance, is do you like it when a man is a bit/occasionally ruff and gruff with you, answer will be yes but only because that's spill over behaviour from his core personality (a gentle reminnder), not.because it's directed at them. An example is women who like the scratchy feel of a man's beard. They don't like the litteral scratching, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:22 PM
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You haven't read a thing I've written....go back gave another look, write an appropriate response and I'll answer you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:17 PM
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No I'm making the point this guy is morally repugnant that he can't get the women he wants so he'll go out of his way to interfere with and preemptively damage a section if women he doesn't want but they're he only ones that will give him the time of day. Dude needs to be put in a hole untill he chooses to be human over making his dick happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:16 PM
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Men, someone please explain that men will 'secure' a woman with a popular look, to show off to his friends, even if she's not his type and go get his type as a well cared and invested in for mistress or second wife. He will also replace the trophy when the shine fades and the wrinkles come through but keep his type because that's his type. I hope you don't catch marital aids or whatever your guy brings home for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:11 PM
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Women can get the ick very quickly and easily with men. They just need to trigger disgust. Younger generations understanding of men is already causing a level of disgust so individual men don't have to do much to get them over the line. Abused girls and women will partake in abusive cycles, just like abused men participate in abusive cycles. Those instances are sad and we hope those women grow out of it as they get older. Not all do. But that's not promiscuity it's sexual trauma patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:05 PM
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You're gross. Source the law in most of the west
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:54 PM
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State mandated child support is pittance in comparison to the financial cost of raising children and doesn't include the more important parenting aspects of giving children time and love. Punishment and accountability are not the same thing. I don't care for men being punished. Them dying alone over years, Following a stroke and poor health, seeing other people have children visit and cook etc will be their natural punishment. I'm talking accountability. Noticing what they're doing wrong and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:54 PM
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Source for what exactly? That men can see their children without the mothers permission? Try the law in most Western countries, including the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:51 PM
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Women are changing their minds as they realise men and women aren't similar in important ways and men on average trigger women's disgust. Boys and men have always pressured women into sex. We forget that kidnapping your wife in some world regions became so popular it remained as part of the wedding ceremony. Giving the wife's family money because traditionally men bought girls directly from the family etc. Women have always had to deal with that instinct in men and fight for their safety in soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:43 PM
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So we agree. The reason is wrong. But the outcome is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:38 PM
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Men will never understand that concept. They hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:49 AM
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Promiscuity is two people on the same page having sex what he's suggesting is deception of naieve women to get aex. It's not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:47 AM
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I wish men with your mind set would stay away from relationships. You're making women hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:45 AM
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Yet he will settle for having to have that guilt around taking away virginity because the promiscuous women don't want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:44 AM
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Because you're not telling the woman that you're doing that. Infact you hope she never finds out else you know she won't agree. That is taking advantage of someone's trusting nature, naivete and bring deceitful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:40 AM
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Most men have a specific type of woman in mind to marry but will try their luck with any woman who gives them the time of day. They just decided not to play with you. I wouldn't calk that nice but I suppose it's the beginning of a redeeming arch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:37 AM
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Birth control did nothing. Convincing young women to be sexually promiscuous was the problem. Young women are changing their minds back, slowly but the abundance of porn and onlyfans will continue to delay men's desire to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:35 AM
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It is but these are the same magazines and websites encouraging girls to be promiscuous and engage in porn sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:31 AM
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Do you know ehat the world Anglo means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:23 AM
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You're an idiot if you think the average Indian man makes 1500usd per month. These countries are still on 5 USD a day median income
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:22 AM
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It's a shame that it's so hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:17 AM
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Not social status *usefulness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 AM
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Men used to out earn women because society wanted them to have more money etc and women were barred from uni. That's not fair. Women want men who outearn them because they're stronger, faster, more resilient, more intelligent, more resourceful etc. Money is a proxy for good father traits, upbringing and genetics. That is hypergamy. Better gametes(genes)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 AM
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Why are you on reddit and not living your best passport bro life with your wife that can't speak English?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:10 AM
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You do. It's just American men who didn't have dad's to teach them how to work effectively, complaining they're too poor to look after themsleves, let alone a family. They think that if they went to a poorer country, they'd be paid the same US wage over there and live well. They're too dumb to understand country specific economies means they'd be paid an equivalent, which would leave then in the same place of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:06 AM
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The problem osnt poverty but life quality thay comes with it. Gone are the days that poor meant less nice clothes and less expensive sweets. Now poverty means dangerous towns, insecure housing low quality food, pare ts always working so no attention etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:01 AM
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So you're complaining about inflation? In Latin America men are still building houses for their wives with families help. That'd save you 400k in the US but men aren't traditional enough to have those skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:59 AM
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Not unless the state pays for their children or they choose not to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:56 AM
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A poor man can gey a woman pregnant and abandon her. That's the worst case. He can stay and she can watch her children suffer from the effects of poverty. Malnutrition, unsafe environment poor future prospects. That and men under stress tend to be more violent. With a woman too tired ( from over working and poor health) to have eex, plus added child bills men tend to be abusive. Women risk their lives and health birthing children. Women having sex with men risk their lives. Why risk your life fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:53 AM
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But women still want a man who cab provide some security if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:47 AM
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Women like dominant men that dominate other men, not that dominate women. Women feel safe and relaxed with them because they don't have to worry about the threat other men potentially pose. Occasional Reminders of the dominant man's nature is fine but if he starts controlling the woman she outta there. He's supposed to be protecting her from other men, not chaining her up in the basement. Otherwise I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:42 AM
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Hookup men dislike hookup culture? Where's my violin....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:34 AM
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That guy is ugly. Womens taste varies, a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:33 AM
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The problem is that friend means something different to men and women. Women wouldnt dream of treating their friends as poorly as men do. Be able to be female friends to keep her Be a dimorphic male to attract her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:26 AM
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A good personality isn't goodness coins. You are or you aren't. Doing nice things in the hopes of getting sex out of it is goodness coins. Pretending to be what your not and growing resentment in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:23 AM
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To maintain a relationship you need to be friends. To get the opportunity to have the relationship you need to be attractive as a sexually dimorphic human
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:18 AM
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Girls assume boys are more like them so a nice guy is just friendly in their minds. It takes explicit teaching for women to understand how sexually depraved men are and with that context they can understand the nice guys way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:15 AM
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If you try and work with boys in an educational format you'd understand why she wrote that. It's not surprising yo anyone who works with boys. Male teachers will agree. Boys like to learn the hard way on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:13 AM
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You should look at the incel forums. The only time they really fight is when they try to draw the age line for peadophilla. They'll make multi page report around historical levels in different countries, reported mental health implications at different ages etc. Every guy looks down on the guy with an age lower than his. At the end they all cry that the legal age is almost hitting the wall and there's no point in trying to date...occasionally some sickos popup and suggest passport bro'ing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:09 AM
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Bravo. To add though. The education system was built by men for boys. It's just that girls thrive in that arena. We can choose to change it to benefit boys but can we be honest that it was never envisioned that girls would access this level of education enmasse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:04 AM
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Correct outcome, wrong reason. Those boys will still be better adjusted than the average male redditor. Most boys are ticking time bombs, that's why prisons are full, tough guy coaches need to lead agressive sports for adolescent boys and we have most of our antisocial crime. It was a few decades ago that all boys were enlisted in an army style coming of age in all countries. The boys with the most potential will blow up the worst if they're not guided to divert that energy to somewhere useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:00 AM
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Men are naturally slower to develop, more likely to not be neurotypical, have worse emotional Regulation etc. It's just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:52 AM
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A real man role models yo his children regardless of what any woman says. Are you really here asking women permission for men to be strong role models. Get outta here. Just be, how about that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:47 AM
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Divorce doesn't cause fatherless children. It is illegal for mothers to stop fathers getting access and most fathers settle out of court because they don't want their children or at least the time and financial burden they represent. It's not that women are leaving the men it's that men are leaving the children and societies is trying to shame the women for the men leaving the children, like it should be a package deal. Hold men accountable for how they treat their children and you will see men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:45 AM
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Most women want men in their eareas of dominance for that reason. Men will not put up with suppressed wages and low pay. It's not women stopping them, it's men not wanting to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:41 AM
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That's not what I described at all. Side note korea has one of the worst domestic violence rates in the (measured) world. Women will always make decisions around their children even if they let the man think its his idea. Its intrinsic to being a woman and a mother. Every mother risks her life to birth each child and her ongoing health to raise them. She's not deferring their best interest to anyone who isn't close to being as intune with them as she is. Lastly. Submissive by your definition is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:30 AM
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No. Most of the time when men don't get women who like them it's because they triggered disgust and that digust outweighs the love like that is still there and exists independently. So you're right they can't imagine kissing you bit it's not due to your face. Women love absolute orks because of their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:17 AM
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I'm wincing at the older man part but I'm hoping it's an age gap for the right reasons. I'm glad you're thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:10 PM
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I think every woman has been there. Wondering if men who know they're lucky getting a chance will treat you well...and they just act as though they earned it and sometimes are worse wih resentment if they acknowledge they're luck and don't deserve you. Many famous female singer has written a song about the ugly guy being worse human beings than the good looking ones. Sorry that's your world. Make sure to teach and save the younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:04 PM
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Is it that bad out there? My cut off is 5, that leeway is for getting into multiple bad relationships with good intentions. It feels like anything higher than that was testing promiscuity simply because. It is funny how we both have odd numbers though. I could've been 6 or 16
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:58 AM
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Women are the prize in all cultures and most species. In different times a prize can be won with more or less work but women will never understand what access to women means to men. Also what being 'chosen'as the winner means to men. They're buit for competition and guarding. Women should hold a man she chooses in high esteem but women won't fight each other for men (for security and other thigs maybe, but access to a man, no). If that's what you call a prize then sure. But men will work and pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:45 AM
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She just needs to meet decent men. It's like men in hookup culture only get to know women in hookup culture so their view of women is set by their social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:40 AM
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Why 15? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:38 AM
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It's the idea of using another person's body for sexual gratification....if there's no intent of emotional connection. You need to have a sociopathic/psychopathic mind set to do this and the more you do it the more it entrenches. I'd seperate this from friends with benefits because even though that's also bad there is a level of mutual respect and aspect of playing adult games together rather than using each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:37 AM
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This. I'm pretty sure this type of man is the one we see, rejected by women his own age who know better and who then go for the big age gaps with women with no "baggage" who are sweetly naieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:34 AM
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Men and women are different on this one. Women that have sex with multiple men do it just because. It's like going abroad and trying new food. Men that have sex with multiple women are satisfying a lizard brain urge that quickly turns into a habit and addiction. Neural pathways get laid down for men in a way they don't for women. Being able to access multiple women start affecting men's dopamine and serotonin pathways in a similar way the porn addicted men struggle. Women don't have those issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:31 AM
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Women need to know the man they've chosen can manage with them in the pregnant, nursing and small child rearing phases, this is years of women putting in work men can't even comprehend. Breastfeeding is 30 hours per week in the first year or her handing over the milk her body has made. It doesn't even account for the energy taken to make it. So women look for men they think would be 'good fathers' I.e. patient with children and 'generous' able to be equitable win them if they.have children. A 's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:58 AM
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Whatever. I don't benefit from you taking good advice and absorbing perspective. Do what you want with the information
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:08 PM
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The conundrum. A cold approaching means a guy saw your face and body and thought 'I want to tap that's so goes up to you to see if he can. It's insulting and objectifying. The other end of the spectrum. They good friend that betrays a woman's trust. They guy who got so close to her she saw him as a brother/family member actually the entire time saw her ina sexual light and was taking his time ploting to get into her pants. He never liked or cared about her. It was just the long game. It was alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:06 PM
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Women desire equity whilst thinking they desire equality. That's where the confusion lies. Equity to women is equality. Equality in a man's eyes puts women at a significant disadvantage. The most obvious example is a 6 month pregnant woman who gets out of breath going up the stairs (because the baby is compressing her lungs) having to equally match a man's labour...it's not happening. In that situation a woman looks for what men call equity. She has to take the hit to burn his demon spawn he nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:59 PM
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Sure let's have the debate. What do you Hinksey women get that isn't indirectly linked to safeguarding children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:50 PM
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No woman (feel free to survey) will say looks are the number 1 thing they look for. Attraction yes. But attraction for a woman is far more than looks. Most of it is personality cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:49 PM
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If men's push for hookup vulture to take root is anything to go by...then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:39 PM
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Looks are very low down on the priority list for women. If a guy isn't getting offers and options it's a personality problem which is 100% fixable. Women are screaming at men to go to therapy, treat us better or just put effort into life....men refuse br also want to be desired and respected for their dumpster fire of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:28 PM
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We've had too many generations of men with poor genetics using their family name or other leverage to get women pregnant when those women's skin would crawl just glancing at them.. Every guy can be a Chad if we breed them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:25 PM
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Women don't have safety nets, children do. All protections women get arrested actually for the children and women benefit due to proximity if at all. Hence women no longer being able to abort a baby that doctors can say ahead of time may kill her during labour and die anyway. But vulnerbale women will be kept off the road because men are likely to take advantage of ehr and put a baby in her that she can't look after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:23 PM
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Have you seen some of the orks that marry beautiful women who adore them. Compare that to handsome, wealthy fit men who can't keep a woman for more than a month. It's 100% a personality problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:13 PM
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Side note hun. Sex is great if you're having it with the right perosn. Lust (physical and or mental) + emotional bonding. Hookups are notoriously bad for women's orgasm rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:09 PM
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If you think getting married is the equivalent of a down payment on a prostitue/sugar baby...don't get married. Women are looking for partners, not John's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:05 PM
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It's not sex they want. It's ego validation from women. If every man got a realistic sex bot they still wouldn't be happy because its not a real woman who is risking getting pregnant with them. If we suggest they all get a transwoman or gay man it would also be a hard pass. It's just a bid to control wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:00 PM
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Then men need to work on being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:56 PM
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Many of them aren't. I've seen odd looking, big eared, missing teeth asshole men with slender, young often feminine women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:43 PM
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I'm really struggling to see a point linked to all this anger you have for me. Go rub one out to clear your head and come back with a comprehensive thought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:46 PM
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If you read what I wrote in full rather than stopping at the part you don't like you'll notice I haven't demonised any community
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:21 PM
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It's not the extreme. It is common enough that most men that have the coveted tinder life are interacting with the emotional dependency women. Women say the bar is in hell because of what men think they can get away with enmasse because of what a critical mass of women, with low self esteem will give up and accept. Cheating for example. No woman wants a man that cheats. It risks her medical health through STIs, her mental health through abandonment wounds, her financial health if he's splitting …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:16 PM
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and some NT men are the best husbands on the planet. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:01 PM
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I could but i'm not trying to fight with you. Find someone else for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:22 PM
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There is grey between the black and white that I've painted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:06 PM
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Some autistic men are a danger to society. I think she may be thinking about those. No point In her sacrificing her life to make men feel better about themsleves. Some autistic men are lovely, organised and will be the most hyperfaithful man she will meet. It a depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:01 PM
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Don't drop your standards hun. Men who see you as a sister do so because you don't seem sexually available to them, Ie you don't sexualise yourself enough. If you wanted sexual attention, put on a small amount of make-up, do your hair and dress up in flattering clothing. Men are very status sensitive and want the higher status women. If they percieve your autism to lower your status (as it lowers theirs) you can raise your status in other ways. Best to avoid self hating men though when you share…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:59 AM
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I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:39 AM
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allowed to be "good enough" and not have to prove themselves? - yes, society will love them but those men shouldn't expect women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:28 AM
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That only works if you're trying to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:22 AM
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No. Korea has horrific Partiarchy so the female response to the structure is more pronounced. They have the societal expectation that the wife provides all housewife functions but most men can't afford for a woman not to work so she ends up doing a lot of the man's and woman's job Domestic violence is very common so many women don't want to become housewives as they then can't escape those situations. It's also hard to get men arrested for it. You date at your own risk. Children's lives a predic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:15 AM
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Lots of men marry and have children with women they have no interest in whilst waiting for the right one. This is why women are so wary of men, some of y'all are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:04 AM
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Do you dare to suggest that men prefer personality? Lol I have a line up of married porn stars that says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:55 AM
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It's not attraction its emotional dependency. That's a very sick person with a very sad childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:53 AM
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They start off trying to gain your trust and once they have it, start small scale abuse. At that point for low self esteem people their emotional Regulation is normally tied to that perosn and they now how to pull the right levers. It's almost like an addiction. People will snort drugs off the floor bt turn their noses up at 4 star rated restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:52 AM
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Very small subsection of women are like that but it does exist. Those women have a lot of childhood trauma of being used by family and working for their validation. Those women struggle to accept help and support and seek out jobs and partners that retraumatise them. The comfort is in lowering anxiety through getting validation and then confusing that for love. It's not dissimilar to the retraumatisation cycle sexually abused people go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:44 AM
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All women. Full stop. You can argue how much of each and I would say the capacity needs to be present and obvious to her but does not need to be obvious to everyone else. Shes looking for a skill set not virtue signalling. In the same way a woman doesn't care what can you drive if you're a millionaire willing to share with her. A woman doesn't care how soft/nice you are in public as long as you're tender to her and your family. In fact you looking like a complete push over in public is a negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:32 AM
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Again attractive for what? Men have different value in womens minds for different things. Edit: Also on looks alone Henry Cavill - 8 Thimothee Chalamet - 4, Jeremy Meeks - 8 and Brad Pitt - 7 Women are not a monolith, we find different things physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:56 AM
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"choose you" for what exactly, i want to make sure we're on the same page before I go forward
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:47 AM
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Women find personality more sexy than body type. Most dead bedrooms come about from a husband that a wife sees as a child as he's not pulling his weight. Men like the idea of having sex with a girl as young as they legally can. That sort of thing is not sexy for women, we want capable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:40 AM
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Professor Autist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:40 PM
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Private message me. I will help you hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:39 PM
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On the one hand, you are gross. On the other, I'm glad you're being honest with the struggling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:36 PM
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Women don't understand what sex means to men. We can't comprehend why you would lie and sell your mother to get it. We have no conceptual framework for it at all. We don't understand why you get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:32 PM
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You need to define success because many will disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:31 PM
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Terrible men do well with naive women, which is normally why they like to go for vulnerable or young women. They don't keep families and often die alone as old sick men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:29 PM
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Women want good father traits (even if they don't want children) A man that has an edge that will allow him to protect his family and gather resources A man that is safe around children and would be nurturing towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:26 PM
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Thank you Mr Autist, proving that neurodivergence isn't a reason for not treating women like humans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:24 PM
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Your kindness will keep a woman, your personality will get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:23 PM
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So be the sort of man your wife finds sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:20 PM
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I'll bite. What you said is true but for a very small subsection of men. Most women don't care for looks the way men do, most women are promiscuous in the way men are so most women are looking for a partner differently to the way a man is. The upside of that is, a man needs to have decent father traits/skills and be that particular womans personality type. I don't mean friendship type, i mean romantic personality type. In the same way men can be mesmerised by breasts, women can obsess over a nos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:18 PM
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People with dark triad traits are better at all forms of sales because they have dark triad traits. That's why men and women select them as politicians, then after sometime they come to realise their true colours and that person has to step down/ leave. Dark triad is an effective short term strategy because it relies on a deception that can only be maintained for a fixed period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:08 PM
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I'm not a business owner or likely to work with you so your actions have no impact on me...if you chose to take any action that isn't whining.... If you were "about life" you'd move to a country that lived the way you wanted or start a community yourself. Everyone can be a leader!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:03 PM
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Anything where your ego comes into play, whether ego is stroked or feels threatened. Shut that all down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:44 PM
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Sex is psychosocial and we as mammals are social beings. Sexual contact and activities are about more than baby making.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:44 PM
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This is hilariously adorable. Most sex is in women's heads. Make her happy before hand and make it playful during.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:42 PM
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Some men want women bare foot and pregnant. I'm glad that's not you but don't encourage women to drop their defences when controlling men exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:31 AM
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You can just become your own employer...or go live in the woods and dig a well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:29 AM
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No. Its that they don't realise they don't have to. It's like paying a holiday company to book your holiday, then getting to the destination and realising you could book a trip for cheaper directly through the hotel. Litterally a naivety thing and a lack of self confidence to break the percieved standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:27 AM
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Most women aren't into hookup culture but go with it because it seems to be the standard for entry into a relationship. If you are ugly and talentless then yes, you will have to wait for a woman to settle. If you're on the higher side of average or have an unusual trait about you, you'll be fine. Women like unusually irrelevant things about men that you'd have never even considered before let alone wondered if it was a good or bad thing. What will screw you up is a lack of confidence. Some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:09 PM
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Sure but the whole point of incel is that women wont give those men relationships as well. I say that because when you suggest to them seeing a prostitute they say no, the woman has to want them etc. Also, no man can get any woman. every womans taste in men is different. So yes, cheating is a cowardly way of breaking up...at the same time manosphere groups screech about women initiating 70% of divorces and f-boi villains claiming their arcs started when a woman broke their hearts and denied them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:50 AM
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Definitely, it's not simple. Men and women either want the same thing or the complete opposite it seems. A significant percentage of the male population is only motivated in life by sexual access to women. They tend to make awful absent (physically or psychologically) parents. If it's genetic...really we should try and remove or water down those genes. The west is unusually successful because it gave men enmasse, via religious family roles and status positions, a reason to invest in their childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:45 PM
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I think you underestimate the soft skills you've gained along with your technical ones that have allowed you to find places to apply your skills set within the community but you point is made. AI will unseat a lot of people. I can tell you're male from your last paragraph though. "soon-to-be relic of the post and overstating its importance." This bit will give you away everytime. If you can't understand the biological importance of a woman having a provider, be it family/community, the goverment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:20 PM
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Mmm but to a woman a relationship with infidelity is practically worthless. She may stay for ongoing access to his stuff but if she hates him, won't have sex with him and is there for his debit card...is it still a relationship? This is all assuming she doesn't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:01 PM
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Get some friends? You can live with your friends and order in prostitute services
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:58 PM
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That's true but it's not impossible and it's not back breaking. Not unless you're stuck in a minimum/low wage job and lack the creativity or brain power to move to something more lucrative. If you can afford to look after yourself you only need a little more to cover food and transport for +2 or so people. I'm not talking millionaire lifestyle provide. I am just talking provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:53 PM
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It's true some men are cursed with bad genetics that mean they can't provide. I don't think it's wrong to say if the genes are that bad it's immoral to pass them onto another generation. Plenty of men choose an easy life though and due to ongoing life choices can't provide, its not a lack of capability. You make good money because you chose to. If you lost it tomorrow you know how to get it back, how much work is required and where the short cuts are. Or maybe even a better path going forward. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:51 PM
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I'm asking why as in what's your reasoning to yourself? It has an amoral impact on the community, yes, good and bad as you said. But why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:43 PM
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Girls like mature guys. The boy bands are always early 20's Girl groups are older than teen boys. The guys just look at which one they want to paste on their walls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:31 PM
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Porn stars and only fans women are marrying rich men who i assume treat them reasonably....else they'd divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:29 PM
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They want you to be vulnerable towards them and not vulnerable infront of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:27 PM
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Why be with an SO who isn't your object of limerance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:24 PM
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Interesting but too complicated. If a guy is crying he's not in control. He asked this woman to hand over the reigns to him and he's not able to control himself. If a man is talking through how bad things are but has a veneer of self control he is given the points for being strong enough to deal with the problem Women value safety. A man can struggle to victory and she will support as much as she can but he can't lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:22 PM
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As long as you don't take your issues out on other people...that's very attractive. A good partner should help you work through problems if you let them know you're brainstorming for problems. There's no rule that says you can't have your head in her buxom while you throw out ideas and she simulates them for you. Still very manly and in charge and she gets to feel like she helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:16 PM
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Sure. Enjoy the sausage fest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:43 PM
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And this is why you're single. Untill you can accept that one of the differences between men and women is women have a high need for safety and value it over access to men, you will never not scare a woman off Edit: My bad, you may not be single, you may get lots and lots of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:39 PM
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That tracks lol 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:35 PM
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Are you German by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:26 PM
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You are confused dumpling. There is a critical mass of men that hurt women and children out of sadism. Those men are in the general population at all times, like red coloured M&M's in a full bag. Women don't understand male psychology well enough to work out which man it is as quickly as men do. Men are very good at meeting other men and knowing he's a wrong'un. Women have to put their hands in the bag and pull out one at random, hoping that one wont hurt them and they wont know untill it's too …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:24 PM
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why do you think anal sex is the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 PM
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Egalitarianism is feminism. Feminism and "woman supremacy" are not the same thing. You can get behind 1st and 2nd wave because they are egalitarian and are feminism. The 'modern stuff' is communism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:03 PM
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" A woman will not stay with a pretty face because it's a pretty face. She will stay with an adequate man with a pretty face but he has to clear the bar first."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:48 PM
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Nope. that she didn't mind you saying you aren't feminist because your actions and thought patterns are. I mean egalitarianism over hierarchical elitism is literally feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:47 PM
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Men love high status women, it's why the celebrity is so coveted, despite her being uglier than the girl next door quite often. Men who value their intelligence often go out of their way to reproduce with intelligent women. This is hypergamous with the gene being selected for being intelligence. As much as men willl date the ugliest, dumbest, genetically disabled women out there given a chance, those men when thinking with their upstairs long term brain pick hypergamously. Edit: to be clear mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:39 PM
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Sweden? One of the few countries that have managed to maintain a replacement rate despite the huge devaluation of currency and reduction in affordable housing? You realise we don't even expect animals to breed as many offspring as human woman have been forced to over the last 100 years or so. 2.5 is a very reasonable number for a woman's health. No country will or should ever get back to the days of double digits, nor r should they get back to the days of 7(ish)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:35 PM
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I'm glad you haven't you're not missing out at all. You offered them a job, they said no thanks. You offered him and he jumped at it. Good for you, you managed to side step a lot of trauma girls from as young as 12 go through in regards to men constantly pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:29 PM
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Men do that all the damn time. Those are the men who work 80 hour weeks so they don't have to go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:27 PM
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Wonderful. Are you coming around to my conclusion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:26 PM
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If that's genuinely how you feel you'll be fine. The men women are angry at are the ones defending rapists, cheaters and abusers. If that's not you, don't take the message personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:25 PM
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That is hilarious. Womens main predator is men Mens main weakness is women. A real life woman is always more alluring and attractive than the alternatives. Not being able to get one is the ultimate blow to a mans ego. They're not joking when they put a woman laughing at them on par with a man killing a woman. So as all knuckle draggers do, throw the baby out with the bath water. I can't have them, no-one can and finally what I do have will be the best a man can get. The men that advocate for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:23 PM
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Everywhere that women have decided they're tired of being beaten and sexually assaulted is having a low birth rate. Your side are going to have to try and squeeze as many babies out of the women as possible then do as the Abrahamic doctrines suggest. Take the little girls and start afresh in a mountain somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:16 PM
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Women aren't men. A woman will not stay with a pretty face because it's a pretty face. She will stay with an adequate man with a pretty face but he has to clear the bar first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:08 PM
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You mean the muslims...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:07 PM
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You would be surprised what happens in eastern countries....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:05 PM
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Not a stable or long lasting one. Hence the situationship offering. Also this applies if his redeeming quality is his looks. If he has what women want from a man + looks then yes he'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:03 PM
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Watch the birth rates and weep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:02 PM
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You're joking. Most rich men like status and intelligence in women and normally pair with those women to have at least children with them. The marriages may break down after and they may go for the dumb blonde who will never be smart enough to hurt them or interesting enough for them to emotionally invest in. But the first marraiges of men who made their money without their looks/bodies is always with the highest status women they could bag
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:02 PM
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Here you describe men using money or hotness to 'buy a woman'. Women struggle to understand why a hot guy can't love the woman he chooses and be with her and why non-hot guys are assumed to be loyal because they can't cheat. Both describe men as doing what they need to do to get a woman but not valuing her as a person, just a woman. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:59 PM
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I've heard so many definitons on the interweb it's best to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:56 PM
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What is your definition of boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:51 PM
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Securing a baby maybe, situationship yes. Not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:50 PM
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You find the plastic disgusting but not the overall look. Plenty of guys will ignore something a little firmer than normal if it looks natural enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:49 PM
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Men love a high status woman. We can argue a porn star may not be of high status but men are hypergamous as hell with status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:48 PM
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I don't disagree with you but please explain this to me. On the one hand I have yet to hear of a porn star who hasn't been able to get married on the other men are hollering all over the internet that they want purity, they don't want to think about the other men shes been with, they worry about pair bonding blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:46 PM
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Relationships are something women select, like a manager looking at candidates for a job position. Women don't need to even go outside, we get hit on by delivery drivers, gardeners etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:44 PM
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Women have been taught for centuries to look pretty and shut-up...it seems to have worked. If a man wants a woman he will pursue her, hence women complaining about being harassed and bothered on the street, in the gym, drinking coffee, on the train etc. A woman just needs to look like a woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:41 PM
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Feminism includes the rights of men and males.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:39 PM
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Because you're egalitarian, a very feminine trait. You're probably pro feminist in everything but name because you worry about what bro might think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:39 PM
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Don't get angry with him. Men's lives literally revolve around women and their place in hierarchy. Many men struggle with the concept of it not being the same for women. He's projecting and doesn't realise how far off he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:37 PM
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Girlfriend for 14 years tells women all they need to know about how unsafe she felt in the relationship and how low your emotional EQ is. The married guy knew how to treat women, hence him being married. Its a shame he used his power for evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:32 PM
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Modern feminism is a collective complaint about how men have been treating women and a refusal to play ball untill men promise to be nice in the future. Polyamory may happen but only because the number of men who promise to "be nice in the future" will not match the womens demand for men. Women to this day are gobsmacked about how men are absolutely refusing to be good people to the point where they'd rather give up contact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:31 PM
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If you get too ripped you'll only have Grinder bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:26 PM
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Who knew there'd be a day when young men advocated for abstinence by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:25 PM
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Depends on if he wants to keep her and sex outside. At that point, she decides if she stays or goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:24 PM
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"Have any girl they want at a moment’s notice? 0.5%" - that's like 500 men in the whole world and only because they'll send their security to knock out her husband and pick her up off the street, knowing they'll be safe from comeuppance. No one man fits all women's preferences for that to be a consensual statement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:23 PM
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Women with a college degree want men who have the same or more ambition and earning potential. Plenty of business owners have no degree and can out earn a degree holding person. The degree is a proxy for how functional you are in the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:19 PM
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Plenty of women will still take the provider. It's just that most men aren't motivated to become the sort of guy that can provide. Or if they are, are portion of them they think it'll get them a free pass for multiple women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:18 PM
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Every man has sexual options. Most men don't want to pay for them. About half of the male population has relationship options and even fewer have marital options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:15 PM
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Hairlessness is a West western thing, mainly USA and other countries that have a lot of plastic surgery like Brazil. Northern Europe, even southern europe are pro signs of sexual maturity via hair. Most of eastern europe is too. Most of souther asia doesn't care, south east asia has a hair preference.... Like your brain is porn addled. Western porn addled more specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:30 PM
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It's a huge shame. Plenty of poor people would make wonderful parents and there fare plenty of well off people that use their children as accessories. I wont say poor people should have children but I will say it's a huge risk for the family and both parents need to be aware that children will come with a significant financial cost. Some people will choose hard poverty and still have children, others wont for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:39 PM
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White people assume in twenteens. Asian people are off by 6 years or so. Black people off by 3 or so years. Now I'm super suss of white guys my age that are into me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:34 AM
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Not many women are in relationships at all which proves both points
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:29 AM
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Eventually you can breed in a trait via the men alone. It just takes longer. Men arent attracted to physically hard masculine women most men want smaller, softer, sweeter women than the average man. Men brought up in difficult environments want psycologically masculine eomen but never physically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:27 AM
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Womens bodies cannot work as hard as men's. Hard labour makes women litterally infertile and increases men's fertility. I'm not saying men are born slaves but we have coadapted for men to do more of the hard labour and women to have more of the psycological labour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:24 AM
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Whatever you want to think dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:18 AM
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I don't find Henry Cavil attractive at all, let alone sexy. Women often use money as a barrier to entry. You need enough to have a shot but money doesn't win you the prize. Status is a personality test. Is he caring, is he ambitious is he orderly is he whatever that individual woman is looking for. A lawyer that works 60 hours a week is appealing to some and not appealing to others Looks - you can be an ugly version of her type or a handsome version of not her type or her type. All three work so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:16 AM
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I think men and women want the same amount but in a different way. Women are not as promiscuous. The idea of a different guy every night doesn't appeal and women generally want some sort of emotional attachment with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:07 AM
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If you didn't have a secure home, you would care about what he earns more. Your family have paid forward your housing security so he doesn't have to be able to offer that to you. Congrats on that by the way. Its the biggest headache for families
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:04 AM
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I can see where your frustration lies. We are still in a patriarchy, where society is structured off of men's needs and preferences and women's are an after thought or not included at all. But we're not in a strong patriarchy, we are moving towards the middle. So a lot of benefits men had in a patriarchy aren't accessible to all men at the same time a lot of the things a woman needs from a man in a patriarchy are still needed because the patriarchy still stands. The main one is finance for when …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:52 AM
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Yes there is a huge male demand for women with prepubescent hair levels. There's also a high demand for prepubescence in general of the number of dads drugging girls during their daughters sleep overs and the number of children being abducted into sexual slavery across the west is anything to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:41 AM
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It all depends in men's sexual fantasies and the porn they're watching enmasse. Men in the west like the prepubescent look on average. No hair anywhere. Men in other countries think its weird that a woman doesn't have hair in multiple places and discourage western grooming ideals. Young women who encourage you don't know any better and arr doing what's popular older women who encourage you don't want you to stand out from the crowd of women and to be picked by the men. As long as you're neat and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:35 AM
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Ill take one hormone process as an example. The release of oxytocin during sex is high in women. That causes them to 'lovingly' bond. The oxytocin I mean. It's the same hormone released when mothers breastfeed and when you're hugging friends. Men release a tiny amount of oxytocin on orgasm and that's normally what triggers them to become sleepy(due to interactions with other hormones). The higher the testosterone in a person, the less oxytocin that person can produce. So men don't primarily bond…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:43 AM
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I can tell you're not a woman. You're struggling with the fundamentals of the way women think. Women don't have a desire to pass on their genetics in the way men do. They have a desire to surround themselves with loving family and to love. There is no biological benefit to any animal to put your life on the line to bring another animal into your space, especially a second animal that will require your time and resources to survive for years. Women aren't stupid. We just get different things out …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:34 PM
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"Are you sure you know what you're talking about because I haven't experienced it and data says not all women have (especially with one night stands, in stressfull relationships and difficult periods in life) either" is also condescending. Moving the goal posts of discussion is unnecessary but I am genuinely sorry that you've found your sex life so difficult that you can't comprehend what i've said above. I don't wish ill on anyone and it's a satisfying aspect of partnership that everyone should…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:04 PM
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Do you not understand that females are born with the ability to pass it on whenever they choose. They are selective about the genetic code that theirs is mixed with, they are selective about the environmental conditions in which they will put their bodies under the stress of gestation and females across species sometimes decide to never pass on their genes. To the point where some female animals can selectively self-abort foetuses The desire is different for females than it is for men. Women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:01 PM
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What does part of the luck few mean exactly? I'm not being condescending. You've raised statistics on womens awful orgasm rates, i've clarified what I was talking about had nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:35 AM
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I never said women arent having poor or no orgasm. I said "PIV is the best orgasm, just only when it's with someone you love. At that point clitoral stimulation is unnecessary" You may meet someone later in life and all this will make sense. untill then, good luck with whatever you've got going on right now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:26 AM
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If you look at how men bond it's very diffferent to how women bond. For men it's much more about achieving together for women it's being together. Men seem to love their children in the way that women love full stop so I wont say men can't do it at all but it's not an easily accessible way of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:19 AM
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there is a mental health condition where women are attracted to proven killers. IT's not all women but a large enough group that it can be named. Just like we know a significant subset of men throughout history that have sex with dead, mainly female bodies. Not all men but consistent and large enough group to be studied, named and for undertakers to struggle hiring men for embalming. All women with many good friendzoned men - you don't understand women. You're expecting them to act like men. Eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:16 AM
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As a woman, with many female friends who has also worked in female pelvic health. I can confirm what I have said is accurate. Sorry you're vaginally inorgasmic, you're missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:51 AM
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Women want children to have the social bonds of children. Men want to have children to have the genetic continuation. It's just a male thing, many children with many women is the fantasy. For women the fantasy is normally a close loving family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:50 AM
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Because women see people as whole and men see people as parts. When women want to have sex its social, when men want to have sex it's to fulfill a goal So if women don't come across a good whole person who she wants to share a social bond with they're not interested in sex. Whereas men just need to come across a body part to achieve the goal or orgasm with. But if you put the right person in front of a woman her libidio can be higher than the mans. If you put a peice of blank paper infront of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:38 PM
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We don't. That a guy thing. Dude is an incel pretending to have experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:32 PM
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PIV is the best orgasm, just only when it's with someone you love. At that point clitoral stimulation is unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:31 PM
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As a woman I support what you're saying. It's like when women say men dont love, they do, just not in the same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:29 PM
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Different women want different things in life. The problem is men treat us all the same and use the honest women who want families like prostitutes because they're easy to engage and get confused and insecure around women who want to be treated as a one-night stand and fall into an ego love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:28 PM
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At the frontal lobes yes but monkey and lizard brain will still release chemicals that try and hormonally bond to that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:26 PM
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This is an adorable question. Orgasm for me is like the satisfaction of scratching an itch and that pleasant after feeling but in the body rather than a body part. No monatges with us being hi-5'ed. But males are biologically designed to convince a female to carry on their genetic line. All males have a strong desire to pass on that genetic material and most males will willingly put their lives on the line for the opportunity. It makes sense that the evolutionary hormonal reward for passing on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:23 PM
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Women don't want to be abused. Some decide if they're going to cry they'd rather it be in a mansion, others decide its better to stay away from men altogether. Most women start off trying to find love with the 'poor' man who will 'love' her. Most find that men can't love or if they can, not the way women do or not untill they've had children. Men, for some reason think they are better as a collective than they are. Some women find the truly good men and don't let those men get away but we both k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:13 PM
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Oh I forgot about location. Yes, if I'm in a rural area I'm having tea parties at home and going for country walks with the girls. In the city i'm out doing everything meeting everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:52 PM
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Maybe it's a country culture thing. Where I am,in the UK, most outdoor activities are female dominated. Men are indoors playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:16 PM
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Men spend money and shit ton of time time looking for sex. Roomates works for gay men and asexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:51 PM
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It depends on your age. The older you get the more women expect of you. But got to where women are. What hobbies do women have, painting, pottery, debate, dancing classes, sports, board games. Etc. Don't hope to meet someone getting drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:44 PM
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Mmm some people get stuck in trauma and develop complex ptsd. Some people have narcissim or other cluster b probless before trauma amd it makes it harder for them to cope with pre-existing conditions...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:41 PM
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That's different. You're describing a mentally unwell person. Clinical paranoia and rumination is different to baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:16 PM
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Men's bad behaviour has a bigger impact on the community. It is what it is. That's why women fear men will kill them and men fear women will laugh at them. Men are stronger, more violent (when they choose to be violent), are faster to anger etc. A society with poorly disciplined men is a war zone. A society with highly disciplined men is somewhere people flock to. Womens bad behaviour has very little overall impact on society as a whole. Womens mental health and ability to cope has a huge impact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:14 PM
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When I was young I didn't expect men to pay for things. Those men were poorly put together and didn't have the ability to go far in life, regardless of how much they earned. Now it's an expectation men will pay because I want children. A man that can't afford a few meals a month can't afford an extra mouth to feed for 18 years plus a bigger home. It's a way of sorting the wheat from the chaffe. A man that doesn't want to spend his money on me will probably not want to spend his money on piano le…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:28 PM
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No downside for the most desirable men for a while. What tends to happen is women don't form families and society crumbles or sexless frustrated men take out the top their who are hogging all the women. Short but sex saturated lives for the topteir and a broken society for the rest. It's why Kings with more wives/concubines than days of the year always got over turned within years of woman collecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:23 PM
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That's like women saying all men are cheats, players qnd abusers. No, some women have lower morals. Also China is so far from comparison. They have an excess of tens of millions of reproductive aged men. They also have a patriarchial culture that is transitioning. If you start off with 5 men to every 1 woman in a dowry culture, of course dowry will increase. If you're in a men compete for women with money and stability culture of course the level of stability required will increase. Thats patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:17 PM
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Big difference between being open about baggage and appropriately discussing it v emotional dumping on someone and expecting them to work through it with/for you to have a functional relationship. It sounds like they weren't talking about you but you still took it personally. There's a lot of men out here that are a complete mess. Clearly more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:01 PM
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I don't disagree. But why dint decent men, if they truly are the majority straighten out the psychodudes or at least teach women what a psychodude looks like. Rather than throwing up their hands, saying its not their business, then complaining psychodrama has passed I the pool when they want to take a swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:59 PM
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We like genuinely nice guys not guys pretending to be nice to get something. It's like the sleazy salesman sating whatever they need to to get your money. Good men are naturally kind. They don't need to over think or worry, just be their nice selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:31 PM
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That's not true at all. I know plenty of spotty, balding skinny fats that are married because their wives love doing shared hobbies like that. Will those hobbies get you an Instagram woman? No. Mainly because she's not that interested I those hobbies. If you want a woman take part in her activities, use those as a way to become familiar then ask her out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:30 PM
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You say that but there aren't many father material men around for those women to choose from. Basement dwellers Failure to launch Prison stayers Mental health paralysis What about any of that is going to help provide a good environment to raise children in? They might bring in money...that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:20 PM
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Men confuse rabid sexual energy for enthusiasm. This is the problem. Women are not men, we don't respond to your sexual energy in the way gay men would, certainly not on first meeting you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:16 PM
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Is that why so many pranks with 'the boys' end up with hospital attendance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:14 PM
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I understand you concerns about your life being pre-allocated on a war economy spreadsheet. I hope you feel the same way about women being seen as wombs and the progression of anti-abortion laws, even in the case of rape and incest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:12 PM
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That's a dark, masculine way of coming to normal and natural behaviour. A man should want to court a woman and a woman should entertain him untill she decides he's not for her or she gets married. That's basically the action you've described but with the wrong intention. As long as you don't dump your husband you've not done anything wrong. That's exactly how men feel who wanted to trick sex out of an unsuspecting virgin...you just knew ahead of time and played along....which isn't good for you …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:07 PM
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Some men are similar to women in that they need a lot of mental foreplay and some women are more like men in that foreplay is the undressing. I wonder if he is stressed out or feeling unappreciated or even like a hunk of meat.... Try and give him a day of his love language, don't ask for anything sexual from him, but be suggestive etc The other issue might be that he has some porn hang ups or a high need for variety and is bored of your look. It's one reason why women have wigs and makeup....dif…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:02 PM
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It sounds like weaponsied incompetence. You need to make it clear that you require specific things from him and let him work it out. If it was work he would have to. I'm sorry you've had a baby with a man who isnt focused on the team aspect and is turning into an "extra child". You need to have a conversation with him. Let him know the lack of help is making you unwell. Then hand him some responsibilities and make them fully his and have consequences. As you would for a three year old. If he get…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 11:56 AM
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Makes no sense. Do you mean the girls interested in makeup, hair and fashion group together? Like the girls interested in sports will group
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:29 PM
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Women don't 'social proof' for men. Men do that for women. Women will spend time around men women are comfortable with because they assume the guy isn't predatory. That's it. Nothing sexually interesting, just safe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:24 PM
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Let me edit * not allowed to access financially viable work. This is why the term spinster came to represent women highly unlikely to marry. T was one of the few jobs a poor woman could do and earn enough to look after herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:28 AM
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Women that won't have sex with you aren't crazy irrational feminists. They just acknowledge the low quality of your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:27 AM
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You missed the word 'essentially' . You didn't say it litterally but that is your ideas logical conclusion. If men can't be worthy of millionaire women then those women are with those men because they are in a level of environmental survival. They're not choosing those men, they're choosing to survive. Would you choose to have ugly, deformed or otherwise defective genes passed onto your children unless you had no other choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:25 AM
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Poor women always worked. Only middle and upper classed women didn't work. So women didn't flood the workplace. They just got access to better paid jobs. Like I said "exporting inflation" is why you're poor not women being able to get better paid jobs. You're shouting at women when you've already identified that fat cats in big corps are the ones that have you bent over. Aaaand that is why you'll stay at the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:21 AM
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They could lengthen a few things while in surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:18 AM
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Silly boy. I have a high sex drive. The truth is just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:17 AM
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Let me clarify. Women were not allowed to work decent paying jobs. Which is where he term spinster came from. It was one of the few jobs a woman was allowed to do by society that would allow her to earn enough to look after herself. At the same time. Women weren't allowed access to credit or to own property in their own names....in the anglophone at least. In most of Asia, preclinical Americas Americas Africa women owned the housing and would work within their tribes/hamlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:16 AM
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Didn't you get the memo? Men cant be men because women won't let them. Also can't get good jobs because women aren't having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:48 PM
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No. Women just want good genes for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:47 PM
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Part of the Freedom of being able to earn as a woman is to move into the social class you want (so you can find a man there) and also to be able to leave an abusive situation as many of our grandmothers could not, if man becomes abusive because you can provide for yourself and children. As for pay decreasing that would be the side effect of significant and prolonged Liberal migration and simple jobs being exported to the third world to reduce inflation t home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:45 PM
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That would require men to take accountability for their immaturity and perosnality deficits....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:35 PM
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3 would make the birth rate plummet even further. Single mothers/fathers keep coporations going. Many women currently want to have children but can't find a decent man to have them with. Only a few go 'sod it, I'll do it on my own'. Even fewer fall in love with a scumbag and give birth thinking they'll get married and he has no intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:33 PM
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You're asking for women to be given to men esentially. That happens in Islam and other patriarchial structures where everyman gets a woman and they pay for that with their lives when war time comes, and it always comes....or if she poisons him. That also happens. If you wanted to lush egalitarianism that also helps your dick you'd want to level the playing fields. All men get free gym access, everyone couple starting a family gets social housing, minimum wage is a living wage and the goverment p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:29 PM
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Men's lack of dick discipline is why we're here. Women aren't walking qround looking for sexy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:22 PM
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Men are not seen as success objects by anyone other than other men. Historically women weren't allowed to work so we're forced to pick financially viable men but this was also back in the day when the average job paid 50k, house cost 90k and you didn't need to finish high-school to get a 'good job'. Women have always wanted financially stable men but rarely successful men. Not in the top 10 of important things at least. You're living your grandpa's trauma. Wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:21 PM
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Humans aren't objects, they're animals at worst but still capable of objective thougt and self determination
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:17 PM
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Sexiness is how a woman is perceived. Sexualisation is the act of taking a woman's image and fitting it into a specific sexual fantasy mould.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:16 PM
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Men know but it doesn't fit into the scenario they want. As for the women who don't know the difference, it's because they've been seuxalised from a young age and have a thicker skin. Some women don't see the problem with secretaries getting a spank as the boss goes by, then often tell you many stories of how it happened to them and they lived yada yada. It's a trauma response to downplay violation, so the mind can survive something it can't get justice for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:15 PM
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I think dating is meritocratic. Change my mind if you can. Everything you listed as being unfair is something you can acheive/earn yourself in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:51 PM
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He's not completely wrong. There's different types of incels. Some are hapless and we're never taught adequate socialisation - they should be helped. Some are violent, entitled and agressive - they should be brought down a peg.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:59 AM
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Only a man who has never ejaculated could believe that lol.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:56 AM
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Feminism is about destroying the patriarchy, not destroying men. Omen are trapped in the patriarchial structure with men, its not natural to us we constantly complain about being forced into it
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:55 AM
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Men do have all the power. But not all men have all the power. En at the top have the most and those at the bottom have nothing. Just like with money and because it's a male based system created for men by men a woman can move like a chess queen all over that patriarchy pyramid.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:54 AM
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Most women love men for who they are. Women who love men for their money have been hurt d decided men can't love. And if not for love, money is the only thing a man can give as women will not be with you for sex. So the question is why do you choose the broken women? Edit: all women require financial investment or else they will love you from afar. Any desire to have children will make they require q stable man - finances emotions etc.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:51 AM
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I was with you till 10. Some men dress like litteral children....it stops them from getting jobs qnd being taken seriously. I will upgrade you within your own tastes. It's hard to respect a mam that won't grow
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:49 AM
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Get a therapist
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:47 AM
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Mothers are venerated because a woman risks her life to birth a baby. Abortion is thousands of years old women who choose to carry full term and birth are risking a lot. That used to be recognised when our communities were smaller and healthcare was worse. After that a village would rise a child. So 'bad mothers' weren't destructive.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:47 AM
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Girls don't but by the time they become women they've learnt not s many of you are as good as you think. So guilty unless proven otherwise because the risk is too great. Bullying is bullying. We agree here. However a woman who isn't attracted to those things isn't attracted. Men's issues are what they are. Men's opinions on their issues is what gets you the label of following someone's philosophy. It's hard to know which ones you're talking about considering this world was built by men, for men …
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:44 AM
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But other people's food tastes better
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:35 AM
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🤣
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:32 AM
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In bdsm communities women are normally beaten by men and participate in rape fantasies. The world moves on. This is just the male gender dynamic equivalent.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:24 AM
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Lol its a fetish, just like everywhere aspect of the BDSM community the dominant provides a level of pain for the asochistic submissive and both get off on it.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:23 AM
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Men dont die for women, they die for men who've pimped women. It's like an Andrew Tate thing. Hes fleecing other men, his target is other men's money, he's doing it through women's bodies, women ye recruits because he knows that's that's only way to get men's money
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:19 AM
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Because women make little soldiers. It's like cooking your golden goose when you can wait for it to shit some gold and take that to the market
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:17 AM
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I hear you. My advice would be to own the fact your a male teacher and market yourself as the disciplinarian, the guy that can guide your wayward sons etc. You may get away with suggestions a daughter could also benefit from the structure approach you as a male could bring but..also maybe don't qdvertise specilaiing in teaching girls, as a man. All parents will have q second thought about a man choosing to work with children. So go either for the single mother families or the naughty boy familie…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:14 AM
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And buy up all their tampons.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:10 AM
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Calling transphobia misandry is misogyny. Trans isn't just males presenting and women and they're not the only ones with problems.they just the only ones shouting loud enough and demanding attention often enough to have their problems addressed.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:09 AM
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The idea is, if you're a trans woman and you don't fear men, you haven't experienced the life of a woman and can be dangerous because you can't see the pitfalls and protect other women from them. You're basically too "male".
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:06 AM
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Yes. Men are an absolute mess right now and communities aren't coming together to support each other. The goverment needs to step in.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:00 AM
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That's the most feminist thing I've read on here and it's true. You need to learn to be Kennough for yourself. Centre yourself in a way that maintains your integrity and be happy. People male and female will want to be around you then rather than chasing sex like a mindless goon.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:59 AM
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People act very forgivingly towards rapists. They have one of the shortest prison sentences for violent or serious crime. And in a world where innocent untill proven guilty it takes a long long time to gather very hard evidence for conviction. Often by the time a man can be convicted he's ruined a handful of people's lives or attacked multiples of people. That's is what I mean by low conviction rate. Also, the defense of " I didn't read the room, sorry, my mistake" especially when said by a youn…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:52 AM
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Legally male rape is classed under sodomy. Molestation is something different. Boys are included under that definition. It's nice to see you're worked up over the topic. Hopefully you'll take that energy and do something about it rather than spunking it over a discussions thread.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:47 AM
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That's the decision most countries and mental health boards have come to. It's sad because sick girls often get their help in the maternity and parenting services and sick boys get theirs in prison. Both lives were ruined before they started.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:45 AM
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And in all of that I haven't read 1 line of how you've tried to resolve it. Just reasons you're angry with her. Which courts did you file with, which legal teams did you work with? Which orders did you get and how many times did you renew them. This situation isn't good for a lot of men. American men do absolutely fine though because its in law that both parents have a right to see their children and input into their lives...f they can be bothered to go to court, which rules in their favour over…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:43 AM
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Most women with poor mental health have procreated with men who are just as bad or worse. The father is rarely q better option in those cases unless it was a sudden onset illness for the mother and father chose a healthy mother at the time.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:35 AM
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I like to find pigs in mud and throw it at them on occasion. But it's absolutely true. Babies in the womb are chemically affected by mothers mental health which is why adopted children, even as babies have worse health outcomes than those from a mother who was happy during pregnancy. Babies are also extremely sensitive to mothers moods and there's research that a lot of attachment disorders were from subconscious cues from mother rather than outright abuse from both parents in the older years. I…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:29 AM
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The court can't stop you from having access to your children unless you were proven to be a risk to safety for the children only. Your right to access your children is in law. OP is leaving out information
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:35 PM
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You're looking in the wrong place. Rape of males is under sodomy -they kept it seperate as there's never pregnancy risk with it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:33 PM
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Men get raped all the time. They suffer alongside women with horrendously low conviction rated and low prison sentences. At the same time, men are the ones screaming conviction rates should be low and prison sentences shouldn't be long because "he couldn't control himself", "it was a misunderstanding", "he's learnt his lesson he can't lose his future over something so small". Pick a struggle. You're all your worst enemies
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:32 PM
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Isn't this the fat argument? Yes they shouldn't stuff doughnuts down their throat. Yes they do it because they're sad and it makes them feel good....but at something they need to tame responsibility and do what's right and good for them, not comfortable - or it will kill them slowly. No-one but you can make you kick an addiction
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:24 PM
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Womens mental health has a significant impact on children. It's a better investment to deal with women's mental health as a priority because it also trickles down to the children. Both born qnd yet to be born
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:20 PM
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Yes, because you lied to her. You should have told her he truth upfront and worked through the consequences at the beginning, rather than building up hurt for her then going through the same consequences +. It's a good rule to have in life, not just with your wife. Be honest, have integrity.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:19 PM
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You're making the point that they have female only meetings, not that men aren't able to access meetings. The reason is many women experience sexual assault. Moat do. It's about the severity. Those who've had severe sexual assault can't even be in the same room as men. Those are the onesnthe women's only group is aimed at. The women that aren't severely traumatised attend the mixed groups...where the men are....
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:16 PM
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None of what I wrote was assumption but I'll bite, what specifically do you deem "wrong"?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:25 PM
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Men aren't villanised for wanting to sleep around. They're villaninsed for badgering and trying to manipulate people (usually women) who don't want to sleep around, into sleeping around. Like you said, there are a number of women who do want to sleep around. Just form a queue outside their houses, probably be willing to pay a little something and leave the majority of women alone.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:25 PM
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I absolutely agree that lesbians and women who didn't want children wold flock to uni when they were allowed. It would mean women who 100% didn't want to live under the influence of men could live q reasonable lifestyle on their own. Basically levelled up spinsters. Do you know where the term spinster came from in relation to women dedicated to the bachelorette lifestyle? It was the most well paid job a woman could do at the time and women who did it often lived with her elderly parents and swor…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:23 PM
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In the 1960s only a handful of women could go to university. I don't know what movies you've been watching to come to these conclusions but they're movies. Gender studies and oppression observations came from rich white women watching the dynamics of native American women and men and also black women and men. At that point they realised what they thought was natural gender dynamics was Anglo European/abrahamic religion dynamics. That is the only reason why feminism ended up being ties in with er…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:55 PM
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Okay. But then it'll be a huge legal debate qnd legal precedence will be set but currently so few people give eggs to those who aren't family or people who want to do science experiments on embryos. It's not a thing and normal case law covers and applies
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:45 PM
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The person she sold it to. As per surrogacy laws and IVF guidelines
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:29 AM
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Women 'invaded' the high paid white collar workplace? Maybe. Poor women have always had to work and rich women have always been able to do high level white collared work. Feminism meant women weren't legally chattel, could go to university and could get loans and own houses. Thats it. When the workforce was too small big bosses imported labour from abroad. When the cost of things were too high in comparison to wages goverments exported inflation to third world countries. This in itself is why La…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:21 AM
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Again. Not all women give birth in their lifetimes, but of those that do they also don't do it yearly. Of those women that don't die, many have life altering or life long diseases, just because they carried and gave birth...why would any women be happy about an infant mortality rate above zero. Babies are a huge burden and sacrifice before they're even born. Your desire to be a victim through others is strong. Do you have blue hair/tattoos? You know abortion is thousands of years old? Plenty of …
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:05 AM
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Why make the comparison. Multiples more women are dying during childbirth than boys being circumcised yearly. By your figures. And knowing that that many women are dying yearly, just in the USA - a country with good healthcare - why do you think women wouldn't be upset that the babies they're riskif their lives to birth are dying from something as stupid as having a bit of skin removed?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:41 AM
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Thats the point I'm making. MGTOW wasn't villanised. The group of men communicating an entitlement to women's bodies were villanised. Let's not pretend that MGTOW is one monolith of men living monks lives. There's plenty open claiming membership who say men should be able to pursue women for sex but just stay away from relationships. I don't think many achieve the pump'n'dump dream but you'd be disappointed genuous to say they're not a branch.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:37 AM
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The second wave argues gender differences come from socialisation. Third wave is where you start being antifeminist. Saying males/females can become men/women when the point of feminism is to get rid of gender roles, not let people choose which ones to join. Also, you confuse conservatives with traditionalists. Possibly even religious traditionalists. I would agree that not engaging with female counterparts is toxic. Even if to due to fear. I'm not saying marry them and I'm certainly not saying …
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:34 AM
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Why would women donate their eggs? Do you know how much hormone treatment is required to donate eggs currently. How many injections over how many months, currently. Women are either expressly paid for it, expressly do it for family members or do it for themsleves and donate some when they produce far more than they expected. Women have all their eggs before they're born, they don't make more during their life. They won't undergo multiple hormone flushes to donate eggs for men to put babies in wo…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:27 AM
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Has reality abandoned yours?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:35 PM
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Or that. I also advocate for men leaving women alone. But where men feel compelled to be in women's spaces and faces a non-destructive and manipulative way of doing that is best.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:33 PM
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Maybe you're speaking to third wave feminists. They don't believe in men or women so...it's hard to know what to do with them but first and second wave was all about women not being seen as chattel, men not fighting over women - causing destruction of the surrounding areas whilst doing so, men not legislating women's dependence on them.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:29 PM
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Women don't care about looks as much as men think. Men are obsessed by looks and they project that value judgement onto women. Looks may make it to 10th but sometimes not even top 10. That's definitely not what's holding you back. Edit: women do use looks as a proxy for things. I.e. muscles signify work ethic/fitness.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:28 PM
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I'm not saying men are wired to hate but certainly men are not wired to love.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:26 PM
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They can just c-section. The problem will be more the heart capacity, and internal rearrangement. Women have a lot of hormones that help with that. Men will have a lot of problems if those hormones aren't injected, frequently. Currently science doesn't know how much and of what a woman needs to for example avoid gestational diabetes.pre eclampsia, bone leeching and losing their teeth.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:19 PM
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Women have less need for men. They can work fully during gestation and just trigger lactation at "birth"
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:16 PM
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Ova below to the women who produced them...?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:16 PM
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Men are sexual slaves to women because of their dicks, not women's ability to have children. Let's be honest, most men don't look forward to the sleepless nights, feeds, cost of clothing, teen angst and arguments.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:15 PM
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Women only have leverage if a man wants a family. If he wants to be a single father he can adopt. What're you complaining about?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:14 PM
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Do you know how much eggs cost? And how many you need for an ivf cycle? A house. This won't be accessible to poor men.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:13 PM
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The world population will collapse. Women were previously forced to have double digits of children or convinced by religion. If globally the average birth rate goes to 2 children per woman or less you get to have your dream.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:11 PM
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You'd still need an egg. They currently go for 6 figures. Also childbirth is one of the biggest killers of women. I don't see why women wouldn't welcome it. Men desperate to have a baby will still be looked upon with severe suspicion, unless gay...
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:09 PM
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Child birth is the biggest killer of women in second and third world countries.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:07 PM
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I've seen enough videos of women being assaulted and men standing around laughing and filming to realise this is a culture problem.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:05 PM
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If it makes you feel better that's how men make women feel. Which is why women are constantly telling men to leave them alone.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:03 PM
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Being forced to clothe and feed your children is not a point of sympathy.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:01 PM
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She's not waiting regardless. When a woman loses respect for you she also loses love. She'll cry over the shock and betrayal. After a year she won't pee on him if he was on fire
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:00 PM
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She's not waiting for him. He's q rapist. She'll be onto the next and fast
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:59 PM
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He's luck to have had her. No self respecting women is going to stay with man who rapes. Whether he rapes women or men...
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:58 PM
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Male competition for women and resources to attract women. Male groups qre normally hierarchical. And men at the top are normally happy to treat men at the bottom as resources. I do believe the term is wage slave. Then they use the fruits of multiple men's labour to build a flashy house and car to peacock to women. Andrew Tate comes to mind on this one.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:56 PM
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No different to dating as a flat chested woman when the beauty standards is big boobs even if they're silicone. Go where you're celebrated, don't complain find a non US woman. It's not a big thing outside of there and Jewish families
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:51 PM
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In the past women would choose normal Joe because they couldn't get a loan,buy a house, go to university or have a high paying job. Litterally the last 60 years or so. So Joe was her access into financial security. Now women xan provide their own financial security average Joe isn't a necessity. It has nothing to do with dating apps. Men's best shot at getting a woman of their choice is finding one who wants a family and therefore needs a good man
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:48 PM
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Men are not wired to love women they're wired to seek them out for sexual pleasure. Love and feeling sexual gratification through interacting with qre completely different things
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:45 PM
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He's married with children...probably doing better than you. Looks are low on a woman's list. Personality, father qualities etc are high.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:43 PM
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Men dont love women, men want access to women and find them endlessly captivating.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:43 PM
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Females are not as sexual as males. The fighting comes when men try to impose their sexuality norms on women and get called out for assault and inappropriate behaviour Or women try to impose their sexuality norms on men qnd men feel sexually rejected or controlled.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:41 PM
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I was talking to a guy on another post who said grown .en sexually abuse girls because when they were boys, girls picked on them ....🤷‍♀️ Women aren't making it up when we say some of you are weirdos that hate us. You might not be one of them, but that doesn't help keep are daughters safe. Some men hate other men and get vengeance on smaller males around them. You guys also aren't making it up that there's male violence around you. But male entitlement to take their emotions out on smaller peopl…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:39 PM
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If he's in his 20s or teens, yes.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:34 PM
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In the original tale he rapes her and the pain of child birth 9 months later wakes her up. Disney decided a kiss was far enough. Disney prince's are rehabilitated creepsm
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:33 PM
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The Prince charming type is the 'sugar daddy' looking for a woman who matches his fetishism. Feet in this case.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:31 PM
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I think it was the men who were trying to claim sex with women as a human right that triggered that outcry. Most women are happy that men centre their integrity
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:29 PM
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Yes. We really really do. It's the feminist thing to do.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:28 PM
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The whole point of feminism is that men need to decentre women and stop putting so much energy into controlling them. A role reversal would be praised.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:28 PM
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Why? Men can prostitute just as easily.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:26 PM
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Killed or die? Killed? Women tend to stay away from men they're not sure are safe so they're less often in the presence of dangerous men. Women are less likely to murder men, even less likely to murder other women. They're generally a safe bet to chill with Die? Men are more likely to be adrenaline junkies chasing risky highs and dying in the pursuit of them
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:25 PM
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Friend zone is litterally a woman wanting to be your friend. You were here before and after the rejection. Gender roles has nothing to do with it. Men should reject women more often. If you're not genuinely interested that is. Instead men, with such self hatred and low self esteem clutch to a woman who says yes and becomes resentful over time she wasn't the one he wanted. Women wish men were more honest. Yes, young women, like men have to learn to accept rejection but it's healthy for both parti…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:22 PM
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Because men can't put in make up and become attractive to women. A personality transplant is required but you can't show that in a movie
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:19 PM
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I hope you feel better hun. But while I'm here can I ask a question about the male definition of loneliness of any men that grace the post. Are you talking about sexual validation from women? Are you talking about having litterally no friends, in which case why can't you be friends with men?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:17 PM
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Yes. Men do. Men really need to have a huddle and tell the other men to stop it.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:15 PM
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Goverments are a recently new thing in the Europeans west and East. Prior we had warlords, emperors, Khan's etc. Yes there were egalitarian tribes where people worked together, before they were ransacked and ravished by male led militaries trying to colonise
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:14 PM
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Women are dying in wars Ukrainian and Russian...probably also American men created
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:12 PM
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Wars are normally between men fighting over women or resources to attract women. Probably why a lot of the empires of ages has a lot of gay men at the helm.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:11 PM
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So men need to not be so violent and lacking in integrity when vying for resources, then there'd be no wars.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:10 PM
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That is the patriarchal world, where everyone needs to have a price and the world is a market to be portioned by the strongest and owned
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:07 PM
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That point has a dark answer. The reason why men provide so much variation but each country has so many points of genetic similarity is because women choose the genes that are suitable for the now and the future. So that competitve instinct was viable for the past, is it viable for the now? Are these competitve men attentive fathers? Etc?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:06 PM
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Only in a patriarchial/(hetero) system does this happen and even then. It doesn't happen men just perceive it to be true once they step into a male echo chamber of their own low self esteem. Where everyone has a price. A woman, by virtue of just èxisting can birth 'an army' and tame hoards of testosterone fuelled men. A man by just existing has to consciously do something to have a monetiseable impact. A woman is always a resource in the male world but a man is not. Within a matriarchy qnd to mo…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:02 PM
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Men are, but mostly at the age of peak testosterone, as they age, the premium disparity goes down.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:41 PM
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I have so many points of disagreement but the list is so long I can't be bothered 😅 At the very least we'll done in making such a comprehensive accumulation of thoughts.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:32 PM
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That's the point I was making. Which is why used Bezos as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:44 PM
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Neither bitter, old nor hate men. I just accept them for their biology and socialisation. Well I stay away from poorly socialised men, like dogs, they bite sometimes. But a man's biology is what it is and I have too much male family and friends to hate them. A romantic relationship with a man has multiple pitfalls, it's true. It's hard to build something meaningful with someone who from the day they saw you, ear marked you as a resource to take from, whether it be sex, comfort, social status boo…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 06:39 AM
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Preteen boys experience psycological harassment? Elaborate. Are you saying the girls bully th boys untill the boys hit puberty? Are you suggesting sexual harassment of girls is grown men getting revenge on young girls who've done nothing to them because a girl upset them once ? Also inferiority complexes are built by your parents and family. Not the people you go to school with....is there anything you don't blame school girls for?
/r/MensRights17/09/23 09:23 PM
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The coward deflects.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 09:20 PM
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Women get rejected by men all the time. Her job makes little difference. If a guy likes a certain aesthetic on a woman, it doesn't matter how good she is a digging, she needs to mine the right caves. But sugar babies specialise in old men, if one says no, just go older and prostitutes marry men with significant fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:44 AM
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Life normally has two extremes and 1 middle. The abusive violent asshole on one side, the passive agressive withdrawing depressive on the other. Both are awful fathers that will raise suicidal children. Somewhere in the middle is better. Self confidence is always a must for raising children. They push you to many psycological limits they test your emotional Regulation, they require insights into the self that make you question your being. If you're a low confidence low effort man, I get it, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:33 AM
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Cool. So let your dick shrivel and fall off and you don't have to worry about women at all. It feels like a self correcting problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:23 AM
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Those are the women that get marraige. Don't be dense. After the guy has given her his life savings and house for sexual gratification generally they beg for the woman to keep them. Sometimes she will keep him, othertimes she'll step on his back to the next rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:10 AM
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Ah, did you see that article about a Chinese millionaire suing his wife as part of the divorce after she gave him children so ugly he had to do paternity tests. They were his but her face wasn't hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:08 AM
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Less chance of death to break and reset a bones than to inject toxic chemicals not your body enmasse. I was about to say explodable too but a couple of years ago they brought silicone on the market that if it bursts, doesn't leech into the blood stream. People still die from implant toxicity generally though. And you're here crying about bone fractures... like 50% of the population don't endure that as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:07 AM
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Pick a struggle. Either women you want only like men of a certain height and youll do what you need to be attractive to them OR you want to keep your money and bitch about how the dry rot is about to make your manhood fall off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:02 AM
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Uh...no i didn't. Go onto a female sub-editor and ask the question about the first time a man sexually harassed you. A lot of women will quote 9-10, most will say low teens the rest will say mid to late teens
/r/MensRights26/08/23 04:53 AM
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Even without clothes. Men struggle. It seems that men look to see if the body parts they like are big enough and the ones they don't like are small enough. After that they have a poor hold on bone structure and muscle mass input into weight. For a woman to look fit she just needs a high muscle mass but I thought we were talking about q guys ability to guess weight without picking a woman up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:50 AM
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If its based off of beauty it's not unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:15 PM
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Okay. But why do you think it was to do with the guys new income rather how insufferable he became whilst doing work ge felt was under him, with colleagues he thought were dumb, cursing life for being unfair, thinking his wife was unfairly lucky, not wanting to spend and berating her for doing so, being angry when he couldn't buy something and taking it out on the family, became a slob and made his wife clean unnecessarily to give him more of a feeling of masculinity. Let's be honest. When a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:14 PM
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Your mum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:10 PM
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Don't worry. All the transwomen, desperate for validation are in the pipeline and they have a male sex drive. What more can an incel want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:01 PM
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Just like food is to fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:00 PM
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So you'll accept abuse for 'validation'?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:59 PM
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Men are gluttonous. Food, sex, drugs and rock and roll. Then they wonder why they die at 60
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:58 PM
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There are litterally women who will open those gates for money if you're not good enough as a man for the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:57 PM
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You can get plastic surgery to be taller just like women do for bigger boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:49 PM
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I can put on 3 stone before my clothes get tight because of my body type. I have a friend who after 1 stone has a pot belly. Men cannot judge weight at all. They just look at height and shape and hazard a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:48 PM
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...I'm not even sure how to respond to that. I'm going to let the Internet shame you, if they even feel its worthy of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:28 AM
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Women have a lot to lose dealing with any many and men tend to value the women they're with when they've had to"overcome" in some way. That doesn't detract from partnership. Also, it weeds out men with no self confidence who would therefore likely be poor fathers at that point in their life. An approach and introduction is not partnership. It's a man/male coming forward to ask for sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:25 AM
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Clueless? There's a difference between old money, insecure new money, secure new money, middle classed and working poor. You seem to have a working poor mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:19 AM
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Yup. It needs to be in the family for generations to be considered old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:04 AM
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Just over 100 years is not old money. You need 4 generations to establish yourself within a class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:57 AM
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Don't let messy data get in the way of you claiming a good narrative. Self harming for example. Extremely common in teenag- 20s girls. To the point where I don't know a girl that didn't self harm in some way. What age does this data start at? Women also are happy to go to therapy and always ask for help if they think they'll get it. What was done to mitigate the effect of therapy and meds being more affordable so more people asking for it? And isn't male suicide also at a high, so is this a case…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:56 AM
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China Is justa bit behind. In the west it used to be extremely common for men to have whole other families, even when they couldn't fully support them. It why a lot of men took jobs away from home or even in other countries. Those societies are far more patriarchial currently. They'll become less so over the next couple of generations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:30 AM
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I'm not going to argue with what I see. I claim assortative mating and you claim patriarchial choice. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:26 AM
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You've never heard of starter wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:55 PM
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Immediately leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:53 PM
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Dude. I'm saying saying lot of business deals are sealed in a strip club. It's that or a golf course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:43 PM
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They'll realise whe they're older. Hopefully it won't be too late
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:42 PM
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You're arguing something completely different. I said rich men focus on the status and intellectual quality of a woman and poor men go for youth as a status proxy. You've said that women only choose men who are biologically and socially benefiical so you have more to choose from as your income goes up - you're not wrong. Celebrity women rarely date down in income and when they do it bites them hard. Britney spears, Kelly Clarkson, Mary j Blige, halle bery etc. They seemed to have chosen gold dig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:42 PM
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Do you know, in the 1960s there were adverts for "mothers little helpers". They were easily accessible pills used for women to calm themselves to forget how awful their lives were. They're no longer over the counter meds, you need a prescription. That was also the time famous for women drowning themselves in the bathtubs, often slitting their wrists. I'd love to know when your happiness records began
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:36 PM
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Hmm. Most women don't want younger men so 5 years is pretty believable. But first example that comes to mind, Jeff beats. He gave his wife half his stuff to be engaged to a woman with leather skin from being in the sun for 50 years. Janet Jackson married some Sheikh who I think was younger a few years back too in her 50s. These are celeb status people but the point remains only insecure men go for age over mental capacity. Having money doesn't make men less insecure. The men with the young wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:32 PM
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When a woman has a job, she has more power and more control over her life. "I'm seriously sick of this narrative being regurgitated over and over gain. With the current housing costs like shit she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:10 PM
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Trump is a narcissit he will want to be picture perfect at all times and I suggest you look at the age of Murcochs last fiance. But yes, new money thats insecure will look for trophies to signal to the world how much they've earned their place. Old or secure new money look for women that will help them solidify their position and legacy. Doesn't mean an ugly old woman, bt looks are not close to top of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:08 PM
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It's not the richness. It's the abundance of available resources to the entire population - women most specifically. With all animals on God's green earth that have concealed oestrus if women don't have to deal with males for food and other resources they just don't. Like even fruit flies have this behaviour. If females don't need to spend time around males, they're less likely to get pregnant. When males have a slave master like access to females, they sex it up all day untill their balls shriv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:04 PM
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So incels are average? So hypergamy works because if that's average I'm shutting up shop for anything below top 0.001%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:22 PM
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And the babies are dying before 5, with young mothers often dying during child birth. They'll have a dearth of men pretty soon and start resorting to raiding neighbouring countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:20 PM
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Men are biologically built to need women. Women are socially conditioned to need men. Men can use social solutions like porn to overcome their need of a 'real female' and women can shun social shackles/laws that made them need men. Men underestimate how much of an emotional drain they are on women. Which is why their presence isn't enough. Presence in itself is the promise of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:15 PM
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Well boomers did pretty well out of decimation of everything before them. Free education, cheap housing, lots of high positioned jobs available and them being told they sky is the limit due to labour shortages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:10 PM
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You incorrectly link women having jobs with the reduced value of your currency. I would suggest you look at politicians stripping currency value with quantative easing, plus allowing outsourcing of factory work to third would countries to export somenof the inflation they create, whilst suppressing minimum wages, illegal mirgant and slave labour and keeping labour laws weak. You're in a patriarchy the system is (male) winner takes all. Why do you think women earning a pittance along side you is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:05 PM
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Marraige doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal pregnancy. If he brought that in most women would just opt to marry gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:59 PM
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You say low birth rates like the rates we had before were natural. Religion and the Labour needs of patriarchy artificially inflated the birth rates + improvements in medical care reduces infant mortality. Education just gives women the choice as they can be self sufficient. What you're seeing as women become more educated is women's natural way of being without male influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:57 PM
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But every country also has a plummeting birth rates it's just less developed countries started from a higher number
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:53 PM
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I've seen women do that job. Also female plumbers. You forget there were jobs women couldn't do because they were perpetually pregnant or nursing. Double digit families were common. Now women don't have to worry about that they can do a wider range of jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:30 PM
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Women aren't sexuallu attracted to providing men. They're sexually attracted to useful men. Useful isn't always a provider br it is often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:28 PM
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Maybe for you. Most women are pretty happy making their own framework and path. We don't need Sargent telling us how to live our lives like you men do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:27 PM
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The nuclear family is a very new concept. The traditional family has been crushed by capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:26 PM
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Hypergamy changed for the environment. It isn't always money but men are struggling to be useful in child rearing outside of making money so they present themselves as a burden to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:24 PM
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Marraige has nothing to do with baby making. Poor women are least likely to marry and the most likely to have the most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:22 PM
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That would make sense if throughout history men weren't abandoning their families when times got tough or refusing to work so wives and children had to make money and him take it. There's a reason why prostitutes have existed since patriarchial structures. Not all women are taken care of. Poor women have also always worked. The first time middle classed women had a decent chance to stay in the home was the 1930s. But poor women have always worked. Men have never been up to the task of supporting…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:21 PM
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Who do you think is filling up strip clubs in big western cities? These women make bank becausenits where a lot of business is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:16 PM
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They're at three children now. But 1 child lifestyle is entrenched and they sterilised most of the women whonwould have wanted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:15 PM
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Yes make the first move. But that is an invitation for him to come over and impress you. Eye contact and a smirk for example. Q man has seen you acknlowdge him in a positive way. He can try and impress you or stay where he is but he won't have to spend hours wondering if you'll publicly humiliate him for harassing you. "Men like to be hunters, not prey" they won't say no to sex but most won't pursue you romantically after that as you will have sex with anyone, whether you're impressed or not. - …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:12 PM
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Hmmm. I would guess you're poor from the premise of your statement. Rich men normally want high status women, not young, slim etc. Poor men want youth indicators to bolster their status though. You're not wrong about the hypergamy completely, but its not about money. It's about what traits will allow her children to thrive. Just the same way men are hypergamous within their paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:04 PM
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You asked why there's a difference between behaviours of women in the east and the west. Like I said I'm answering your question. Women in the east have more to lose women in the west have more to gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:06 PM
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You can earn grades. Trade your time and effort for outcomes that you want. In school it's studying and focus and some people are naturally gifted. In dating its time and effort and some people are naturally gifted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:21 AM
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You're the one adultifying children. An unassertive man is seen as a child for the reasons I've listed above. Accept it or reject it. Up to you. The only women attracted to men like that are looking for an emotionally incestuous relationship where you become her psycological child, she treats you as a mother would and has sex with you. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:22 PM
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You asked me a question. I answered it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:30 PM
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That's men going their own way. Red pill is like 30 years old. It's about "nice guys" growing q back bone after getting dumped/divorced so they're masculine enough to give women a sense of safety and maintain a relationship. If you look at most red pill content creators. They got married and stayed in red pill or left and then got married. It's only the last few years where men are encouraged to act like animals and not form stable social groups within a community
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:07 PM
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You're edging onto making the case for peadophillia here. Children are hella assertive. But they lack judgement and emotional regulation. The same thing that makes a grown man cave when he shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:20 PM
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All women like sex. You haven't clarified the age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:17 PM
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What? Side note Obama is mixed race so you could call him white as equally as you could call him black but....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:17 PM
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I'm talking about children within the school. Not trying to get into school because all children will get into school regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:14 PM
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We can give it a fancier name "Eugenics" women have always practiced it and its the reasons why were not the same as beasts in the forest. Womens and in fact all female standards are a necessary biological imperative for the race
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:06 PM
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Men have every right to do that. When they get sex robots more men will choose to put their first date money into those than women and many will be happier that way. OP is talking about men being insecure about being used. It's like women saying we refuse to cook and clean for you, get a housemaid. As for jealousy, many men are jealous. Lots of atypicals are transitioning for attention and sexual access. Lots of men complain women could use their bodies for money whilst also saying if they were …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:56 PM
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This was 5 years ago when I was looking for bursaries etc. Do the leg work, you'll find it of you want it. Also, it is men's fault. Men like playing empires. Not all men but enough. So the ones willing to do anything to win get to set the stage for future generations 'games'. Men at the top setup society to mentally enslave ones at the bottom who provide labour and are gifted sexual access to women. That's the patriarcial deal for you as a bottom 90% man. It's a broken contract now that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:55 PM
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Lol. You're so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:49 PM
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Feminism has always been about choice. For men and women. You can choose the life you want but the other person has the choice to join you or not. You can't force a person to join you. Historically men would force women by making them slaves 'legal property'. Even in the US women only had the ability to own a bank account in the 1960s before then they could only access finance or have an account through a man. Gender roles are a part of biology more so than social pressures. You can see two or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:47 PM
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And when it's time to have children those masculine men will notice unfairness in the biological reproduction system. Either way they'll do their part happily because it resonates with their being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:38 PM
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Yeah, teenage girls often hate their bodies because men prey on them. So they want to be male like so men leave them alone. Its when they start wearing black and baggy clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:29 PM
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Societal equality is a great thing and we more or less have it but biological equality is impossible currently. If you as a woman have sex you carry the risk and burden of pregnancy after every interaction. Men do not and we cannot equalise this. You as a woman also retain the brain and body changes post birth, men do not. So it's reasonable for a woman to look for a generous many who will offer up resources, financial and otherwise that will help even out the burden of the biological risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:27 PM
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Yup, like a pimp. They'd love to have their own cookie but they don't so they go about collecting them and dressing brightly like a peacock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:22 PM
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Men aren't due much or any respect. I think that's part of their complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:20 PM
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So you want the state to pay for your desire to ejaculate all over the place? You want men to vote to mandate vasectomies don't you, especially for the poor. Most men will be dammed if their taxes go to paying your child support and you face zero consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:15 PM
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You realise abortions, the type of abortions they've banned litterally save women's lives and that women have died or had other lifelong injuries due to medical complications from not being able to get abortions. You're really comparing life saving treatments to your ability to say no after you've said yes, by jazzing in someone. That's your yes as a man by the way. Where you put your sperm a woman has no say in that. Abortion is her first opportunity to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:13 PM
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It's a good way to weed out a man with good father qualities and a good community spirit. Mean men have no place around womennor children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:10 PM
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Society is hostile to men because men commit most crimes.theres no forehead stamp for people to know who good or bad men are so they're all treated with suspicion. The risk is far greater than the gain. If men policed each other properly it'd be clearer who the good men were and they'd be treated better. When you say, not my problem and walk on, you contribute to societal distrust of men. Also, men are constantly competing with each other so you're less likely to help each other out than women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:08 PM
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To be fair most women don't want to be the heads of fields. That's your male competitive thinking. They want a job they enjoy, to test their personal ability and to have enough to fund the life they want without having to ask for handouts. If that means they're above or below men doesn't matter to most women. That's why it's stupid for a man to think women are competing, we're not. We just have a higher baseline expectation from life so need to have more to feel secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:02 PM
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Women are less likely to be around men so other men are normally the victim of a crime that's perpetrated by men also. It's a sausage fest we don't want to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:59 PM
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Do you ever get presents or gifts for your parents now that you're both on n equal adult footing or do they have to pay half for everything or self fund?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:58 PM
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Men dont have to pay and women don't have to deal with those men. Everyone is free to choose their consequences in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:57 PM
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I've seen college programmes for men specifically. Normally linked to an ethnicity, normally of the ethnicity of the donor. Few men take them up though. Many men are lazy or short term hedonistic thinkers. Every 5 years they look up and realise they've fallen behind but can't put a plan in place to move forwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:56 PM
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Men can walk away, anytime any day. They can refuse to do whatever they want whenever they want. It's much closer to having a job than being a slave. There are consequences but you have direction over your life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:52 PM
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Trad and redpill aren't even close. So be off put but the women who put you off and attracted to the ones who don't It seems your problem is the women you want are the gimmies and the women you don't aren't. So make a decision, what do you want? Even women have to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:51 PM
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You can always undergo sexual aversion therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:42 PM
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A woman is not biologically programmed for city life. Her genes will say find the best man to have children with, whether she wants them or not. The guy struggling and asking her for money might tug on her maternal heart strings but won't satisfy the biological programme. The fact we live in a society where women need good jobs to have a 'basic ' standard of living is a problem. By basic I mean secure housing in a safe area and access to nutritious food. The ability to get to jobs and friends in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:38 PM
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It's peak Darwinism. Males of all species have to prove their genetics are decent to the females to access sex. Many will do this at he risk of death. I'm glad men don't risk their lives but many are being raised to not understand the cost of having a romantic relationship with a man has to a woman. So when men say, women have enough money, I don't have to look after them, they forget the biological costs. So women will go to men that aren't stinger and can help her share the biological cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:31 PM
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Plenty of men were jealous. They just were able to 'enslave' women with attributes they wanted and have them used to their benefit. Nowadays men can't control women so men see aspects of women they want and they can't access them. That's the issue. Access. A pimp for example is hella jealous of women's coaching power but he's able to harness it. He's not jealous of the woman because he can harness it. But you'll find lots of men, mainly online complaining that men will pay for sex and how it's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:26 PM
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There's nothing dystopia about dating if you don't have an awful genetic mutation and a horrendous personality you will click with a woman somewhere. Will that woman dress the way you deem important? Have the right hair colour, body type etc...maybe maybe not. But no-one is a 100% match for anyone. Women compromise a lot, consciously. We just don't complain about it as much as men or we don't complain untill the man takes us for granted and we express the annoyance of being treated poorly by som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:21 PM
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I mean by that logic, school is also a marketplace, where different personalities and genetic factors lead to different outcomes in educational achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:16 PM
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AS long as you don't trigger her disgust mechanisms, once she likes you and loves you that's it. Women are the ones constantly complaining men don't want to be monogamous, not the other way around. Gold diggers will not be monogamous because its a money business, she's there to accumulate, not be loved. Red pill guys will get cheated on a lot if they're after women who are happy to use their looks and body for transactional relationships..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:41 AM
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Laid, yes, if they find an equally broken woman looking for validation but they never needed the game. She'll just be leas sensitive to repulsive parts of his attitude. Relationship, no. Again unless she's more broken than him and looking for anyone to latch onto. Or a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:39 AM
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It's because they look like they have no/low responsibilities. Often boys and men with few responsibilities either end up getting into trouble or they become a net burden on society. I think because directionless men have a tendency to cause more chaos than directionless women or at least are perceived to, the men are more closely shame policed than the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:35 AM
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Yes. Any man without a back bone is seen as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:26 PM
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Yes He was insecure about his place in the world as well as his looks. I emotionally bonded with him over pity and my mothering tendencies and mistook that for attraction He was directionless, intelligent and had many respectable personality traits but wanted to live a hedonistic life. I have my head screwed on, I eventually lost respect for him, his pity party and inability to manifest the things he wanted in life. Friends wondered why I gave him so long. Family just shrugged and hopped I learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:24 PM
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One more time for the people in the back OP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:18 PM
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Imagine accepting the truth that xanax, wine and cats are better than the average man. Finally, a guy gets it. Can y'all improve please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:16 PM
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Looks for women are like 8th or 9th of importance on her list. I promise you. It's why women push back so hard on this male idea of looks matching. It's like you making the number one thing on your list whether she has a MAC or PC or operating system matching. It's insane to us that that's the number 1 thing. And y'all say it with your chests
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:12 PM
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Women can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:09 PM
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Why do you think a woman would ever settle? I mean, having children is best in q couple, yes. But if men aren't looking to start families or fund her lifestyle what's their use? There are plenty of single mums getting on with life kids and cats in tow, no plans to complicate life with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:08 PM
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Cats don't put up with that behaviour so they're either choosing men that trigger them or that's not the personality flaw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:04 PM
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That's why you're single. Boiling relationships down to eat or be eaten. I assume you're a transactional guy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:01 PM
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Men die earlier in life so easier women nèd to date and marry younger men or accept accept husband will die on them and they'll live on average a decade longer without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:00 PM
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Cats are the most free sassy animals ever. If they don't like you, they go move in with the neighbour. Also, why should I give m mothering energy to a grown man, baby maybe, but no man should be getting baby or pet energy from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:59 PM
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Socially compete? Why would women hot or not do that? Also, any woman who lowers her standards ends up separating a year or so later. Men are far too much work, lower your standards and lose your dignity for. May as well pay your boss to go to work. If youre a woman just know. You can get a man if you plaster yourself in classy makeup, but the loser you will get is not because you're 'not pretty' 80% of them are like that. Most aren't relationship material, the more you speak to other women the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:55 PM
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At 13, you were thinking of and willing to sexually trade your body or use it as bait for material goods? And you claim no history of sexual abuse. Yet at 13 you had a good understanding of male sexuality qnd were happy to put yourself infront of an adult males grabby hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:37 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:34 PM
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Everyone feels like the main character. It's called first person perspective or taking too many drugs. But yes, even big cities have schools and children and horny men. You just never chose to interact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:17 PM
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Women don't choose their partners based off of capability either. They choose from the pool of capable. Honestly the comparison I may have to use for your understanding would be a man having a relationship and child with a woman with learning disabilities. That's how we see you when we have to carry your share of the load. Like there's something wrong with your brains and development. Though educated middle+ classed men will go out of their way to choose an intelligent and somewhat accomplished …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:15 PM
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Your argument is that men don't mind doing the labour and will actively choose to do but it's unfair that women expect men to do at least their share of the Labour. You need to pick one. You can't stand on both sides of the fence. At the very least sit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:49 PM
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I'm glad you're taking your past present and future into your own hands and being accountable but I think you're missing my point around trauma or are you saying you were an opportunistic 13 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:54 PM
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And long may antisocialism for women's protection remain. When we as a society can stop the average age of girls being approached on the street being 13, either because good men seeing it as reasonable to take those bad men out or all men struggle to have access to girls and women, we're in a good place. Men get to decide which route we take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:45 PM
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Women don't want men for how useful they are. They want men that aren't burdens. If you can't keep up she has to carry you. If a child or a pet comes along and you can't look after yourself + 50% of dependents she has to carry your load for you. Women are burdened with more labour than men from a young age so we're very sensitive to calculations of labour. You've confused me. On the one hand you're upset that women want capable men but at the same time suggest men don't care/prefer non-capable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:42 PM
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You're ONLY talking about young women's access to dating apps via a phone. The world has changed in so many more ways. Medicine, access to male pacifiers such as porn and conquest games, the reduction in slavery, food security, low cost or free education, research in everything, reduction in female death during pregnancy, reduction in teenage pregnancy and STI transmission. Try and think bigger than your penis, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:35 PM
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I didn't equate Asian men to feminine. You said you look like a woman and she gets attention so why don't you. All that being said K and Jpop men do very well, but they have an ethereal look and I guess normally are quite strong, even though they're slight. Honestly, you're making the point that you shouldn't be struggling. Chad Asians get women, 'v' jawed makeup wearing Asians get women....what's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:27 PM
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I can't say 'cope' because I got a ban for that earlier but I will say its suspicious that you feel the need to cover that vulnerability with the fact you had sex with someone else. A fling, that wasn't a fling because it was a relationship but it fizzled....y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:23 PM
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Many South East Asian women have eating disorders. Also some that you're seeing on TV in 'woman' clothing will be 13+. That's the age many - depending on the country start their singing careers. Many South Asian women, even on TV are bigger than Ariana. I mean are you under a rock or just flicking through pictures and videos of them presenting themselves as products to be consumed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:13 PM
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Well the single mothers will settle for you because they need fathers and a bag. Women who want children will do the same. The young hot woman, with her own job who has no need for you and can get gifts from men she finds attractive? You don't have anything to offer...other than a shining personality...if you have one of those. Of course unless you're going after a young hot gold digger but be sure you have gold, rather than a few thousand. I mean for those women the difference between a 35 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:46 PM
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I doubt she would have cheated. Especially when she was so desperate for an emotional attachment. Those women are the ride or die types once they're attached to a man. But you missed the opportunity. You've given yourself reasons and red lines. Move on. The fact you still talk about it shows you're still invested. Make a choice and move forward. She'll live a good life without you once she gets on her feet and learns from this lesson. You'll stay stuck where you are if you don't learn from yours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:39 PM
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That's not the 50:50 point 50:50 came about from men expecting sexual favours for buying women things, so women paid their own way so men didn't have the avenue to pressure them. Also women who don't want to feel like burdens pay their own way. The point of women working is so they don't have to rely on men. The point of women developing a career is so that they can satisfy their soul, and if they want marraige etc they are able to access men of that social status. There is no point for a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:35 PM
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Women in the east are also protesting and killing themselves for their freedom. There's a few differences in culture though. In the Muslim countries a man who does not look after his family is "worse than an infidel". It's built in that a man that doesn't provide at least the basics is shunned by society. In many other countries children belong to the mother, even when married so its easier for women to leave and go to their parents without the man having legal recourse to tying her up in court …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:27 PM
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I'm pretty sure Myron could prove how super manly and Greek level stoic he is over the rest of the simps he has on his show. Even the great Andrew Tate with the grit and focus to become a global martial arts winner, who was able to build a mini empire would lose. They could have naked women walk around and give them massages and myron would be the only one who wouldn't pitch a tent...because he's a real man of course...any man who'd react to that is a simp, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:19 PM
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I disagree with everything you've said. I've Asian men cover the stereotype spectrum of musician, athlete and intelligent guy with a decent financial future ahead. Which of these do women not want exactly? Also the ariana Grande etc bodytypes are not easily attainable. If you listen to them they admit having eating disorders at the points where people thoughts their body types were most appealing. If they were easily attainable you'd see all women prior to childbirth with those body types. At th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:00 PM
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Your definition of romantic is probably off. Most women can't get romantic relationships with men because they see their beauty/sexual utility first and their personhood second. The second a man sees you as a status booster or sexual gratifier over your personhood the relationship becomes transactional rather than romantic. He'll never be able to love you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:56 AM
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You say this but I'm sure if I ask if you've paid for sex before you'll say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:49 AM
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Also, they don't look feminine. They wear makeup to have an ethereal look but if you look at the facial structure, they often have reasonably masculine features.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:48 AM
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Ariana Grande married a Latino man, Jenna Ortega is also not Asian. Asian men are seen as extremely attractive, mainly by women in their twenteens. The rise of kpop as example. There's also a demographic of women that chase the kung-fu culture and fit men. Then you have the geeky women that love a need, with Asian men taking up that demographic stereotype. Honestly. You're reaching for excuses. A woman will pick the best man in the areas that she values. Mans face is rarely something women covet…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:46 AM
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The same way most men don't want super muscled huge women, most women don't want bean pole frail looking men. I'm forever baffled by the men who compare themselves to women who are attractive to men, then wonder why they're not successful with women....if youre comparable to a woman you're meeting the male gaze standard. Go twerk in a gay bar, it will rain green all day for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:41 AM
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Ariana Grande bought her face. She goes through a lot to meet the western beauty standard. She also admits being underweight and unhappy at the work she had to do to stay unhealthily underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:37 AM
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I looked around. Decided most men are gross and I didn't want to sift through shit to find diamonds. Getting a relationship isn't hard, getting a marriage proposal, not hard but takes a while but the men I've met are just a bit insane and highly Machiavellian. Not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:42 AM
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It's built into patriarchy. The male view point is enforced in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:38 AM
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Can I have the third option of life celibacy? But a woman beautiful or not is less sexually uncomfortable to kiss than an ugly ork of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:09 AM
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It's biological imperative. Not social expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:08 AM
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Female preselection is about as safety, not attraction. Women disagree on how attractive men are all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:05 AM
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Sounds like she was waiting for you to make a move then decided you didn't like her enough to take the risk, so waited for a guy that liked her enough to take that risk. That's your L for being so self conscious. That could've been your baby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:03 AM
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You could have the genes to become an Olympic athlete but be lazy and insecure so never become an Olympic athlete. Women will choose the self actualised mentally healthy mam who has shown he can function in the world over the one who hasn't. Even if they both have amazing physical genes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:51 AM
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That's what women want. You as a man can want what you want. Plenty of men are arguing to marry literal children so it makes sense that men aren't averse to personality traits of children. Women are very averse to personality traits of children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:47 AM
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The most off putting personality trait of a man is being a "man child". I.e. Not being able to look after himself and not being willing to look after others. Lazy and selfish. I certainly wouldn't risk pregnancy with someone like that but those people don't even make good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:45 AM
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I think its the internet more than mobile phones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:42 AM
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I'm going to try means male 'bad behaviour' isn't toxic its driven by the biological need to be recognised women are the sum of their body parts but feminism is helping them deal with this men kill themselves when they feel useless and are scared to ask for help because it makes them less attractive to women. Theyd rather die pretty men are scared to be used but would rather die than be useless. They're jealous that women aren't, so hinder feminism feminism is good for men and women OP forgets t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:39 AM
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Their testosterone and human growth hormone does so...yeah. All the buff old men are on gear. The rock, Rogan etc. Men can be slim fit at 50 though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:04 PM
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Old men struggle to protect but finances they can do well in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:53 PM
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There is no pressure at all. It's just most women don't want promiscuous uncoupled sex. So if men want free sex, they'll need a relationship. They can go to prostitutes if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:51 PM
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Meeting people isn't hard. It's having joint interests to bond over, joint friends who can help you grow together etc. Also you need someone to vouch for you in some way. If there's not a group of 3rd party people she trusts to some degree to say you're not awful, you will start with the same amount of trust as the guy who cold approaches in Starbucks and have to do the work to catch up yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:50 PM
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If she sees you as a brother do slightly more traditionally masculine things around her. There's not enough gendered polarity. Otherwise there's nothing wrong with the advice. Most women pick men based off of personality, then adopt them as a project and try and help them get their money/status etc to where it needed to be. Women shouldn't do that but it's second nature, so unless she has friends trying to stop her, that's likely her route.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:47 PM
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If a woman only cares about money then older men have an advantage as they've had more time to collect. Most women find men more than 6 years older than them pretty gross so yes, there is some competition but less than you'd think. It's mainly cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:43 PM
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Most women are happy alone. It's men that are ending themselves. They can all live together though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:40 PM
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You know there are 5 year old girls who have given birth. Surely this young youngngirl must be so mentally matures he's pretty much a God and can be mother to all of humanity. Jeez. If you're a peadophile and want access to the youngest girls possible just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:36 PM
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Your figures are off. Old man syndrome babies start around 40, 45 years old. Many women have miscarraiges, no matter the woman's age in the second trimester as the foetuses aren't viable. A 40 year old woman with 25 year old man is more likely to have a healthy child than a 40 year old man with 25 year old woman. If that's your life plan, stay super healthy, organic everything stay away from plastics and fried food etc.your body has to make sperm every day. So when you're unhealthy the mutation …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:33 PM
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If it's casual sex only looks and energy matter. Money and status only benefit women if he's transferring it in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:26 PM
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Men with yaghts can catch a woman eye and imagination, like an old man with a museum. That doesn't mean they'll get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:24 PM
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Because in their hearts they're still the same old brokie. Some feel insecure and want to solidify their social status so will go for someone 'higher'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:22 PM
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Most women pair with men they consider average because those men are of her financial status. Honestly women keep telling men the most important thing is personality but men don't care...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:16 PM
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As a woman I will say yes. Confidence adds two points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:46 PM
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Only patriarchial women slut shame. It's nurture, not nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:44 PM
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Yup, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:43 PM
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Many men want a woman who validates him by liking his humour and social quirks but don't care about hers and sometimes dislikes it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:41 PM
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Any country with a strong drinking culture will have women buying rounds. Especially if they're not sexually interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:34 PM
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Was one set of women on holiday and therefore didn't care about the outcome and the other set of woman looking for indicators of intention (ie you buying a drink)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:32 PM
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Any woman could have told you that was a dumb idea...but then men mumble about not asking fish about fishing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:29 PM
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There are plenty of 30+ women who are virgins. There are plenty of 20+ virgins too. They less likely to be on social media or using dating apps. But they share your values of wanting one person and to connect as friends. You have to sift through a lot to get to them but they have to sift through a lot of men trying to trick them into casual sex under the guise of a long term relationship, to find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:27 PM
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You're really insecure. Either because you've never met a man you could trust or if you were in that situation you'd do the same. There are plenty of people that wouldn't have that issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:24 PM
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The advice is be your best self
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:21 PM
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Escorts have a very small number of men they'll have sex with for the reason of men being a Petri dish of gross. Theyre also are constantly cycling antibiotics. If men were doing fine there wouldn't be sex workers and certainly no manosphere I'm an athlete. We never have low sex drives. Though there are many women who think they are asexual because the average man makes her dry like the Sahara desert. Sad times. Most men get pity affection, whether you want it or not. Very few men are respected …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:18 PM
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You're talking about men fighting over women and I'm talking about women not being able to comprehend fighting over men. Men have a weird obsession with womens body parts. They'll die for The chance to look at them...and you know they will
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:11 PM
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You don't sound like you've had any female sexuality. Really you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:09 PM
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They are all traumatic. "Opportunistic" men need to be removed from the community. They do far more harm in one or two moments than they can provide good over a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:06 PM
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It's not hopeless. Just accept you're just as much 'prey' as she is. And women who aren't hunting will dislike being targetted by your lustful gaze like that. Women like being appreciated for who they are, not what they look like. If you're not approaching for that don't expect a great/risk free outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:04 PM
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You're hiding behind domination and sexual violence kinks? Really? That's what you think will save your reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:02 PM
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You missed the men are needy and emotional part. Let's say women don't get pregnant. She still has to worry about bacteria colonies and stds from men even if condoms are used. Y'all are gross. But the worst part is she has to talk to you especially if there's a relationship. Women who do one night stands do so because when men talk the women dry up. You really don't understand. Plenty of women give men pity affection. Those women that want to be your friends and say 'aww' all the time. They have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:52 AM
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It is. Men are so needy and emotionally volatile and if she gets pregnant she has to raise a child plus a potential man baby. It's exhuasting. Many women would rather be celibate. Let that sink in. Men are so burdensome that women would rather not have sex with them. Women enjoy sex. But men are that bad. Either get told "you should've chosen better" or don't choose at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:44 AM
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Nowhere. Your best bet is to look for women who're desperate to trap any man in some way and are therefore happy you're walking up to them. Someone who looks like she needs a sugar daddy, a woman who might want a sperm donation for kids, someone new to the country who needs a guide....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:42 AM
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USA is not a dream country to me. The amount of incompetently concealed corruption is mind boggling. It's hard to explain the benefits of a 1st world country over a 2nd or 3rd world one to someone who's never been. I've been to every country in asia, beautiful. But they're different in really fundamental ways that make them a death trap for people who rock the boat. Men coming in, with a poor understanding and respect for the culture, language and ways of being will annoy the indigenous men, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:39 AM
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No, because women don't want men like that. No woman is ever going to war over access to men. Also, what's means obsessions with women wombs and vaginas? Y'all are weird, wanting to own people because of body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:32 AM
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Women only need a certain amount of resources, especially if she has no plans to have children. Ill also say mature and older are an assumption. Plenty of women find men in their late 20s working their way up to CFO and he will be more mature than the 50 year old in the club, trying to relieve his youth because it was the only thing he had of value. In mammals mothers become grandmothers and this allows a mother to maintain her sanity with multiple little one's around. Only social mammals have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:30 AM
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...no, she's sick. Often high earners have a lot of trauma that they use to motivate them to achieve. Many people with mental health problems can smile and be social. I mean you can make 1000 excuses and I can nullify them. If you can't look at yourself in the mirror you'll never accept you're a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:23 AM
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Your premise is wrong because you fail to acknowledge the biological differences between men and women. Women do not have the drive to have sex and reproduce that men do. We don't understand or respect your trauma around the idea of being sexually lonely and needing to be chosen to pass on your genetics. This is a male problem only. Women however want emotional love. Options means little to nothing if they can't get what they want from them. Picking the wrong man and reliving trauma is therefore…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:19 AM
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Men are a burden to women. If he's not offering something to counter balance the burden the relationship won't last. The easiest way for men to offer something is money but there are many more areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:13 AM
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The difference is older women don't care. The trauma comes when men in their 30s are hitting on girls ages 12 and up. That then leaves women irritated in their 20s when men their age are hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:12 AM
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Women value older men because they assume they will be equally as mature as them. Women dislike young or some age men because they're less mature. Women are the community, if the government doesn't protect them, there is no next generation, it's more than sex it's corporations wanting to make sure they have another generation of workers. Women have historically always worked be it on farms or in factories. They have the same value as a man in most labour jobs (as they're all partly automate) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:37 AM
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In nature a lack of men leads to polygyny but a lack of women leads to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:31 AM
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Your question is incomplete and therefore impossible to answer. "That he likes the look of but doesn't know?" " the he likes and is on some level of speaking terms with?" Both have significantly different answers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:27 AM
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She let's you treat her like an object rather than a person. That's not well female behaviour. All women understand what would need to happen to them to get to that point, all women will agree she's unwell. By all means, do a poll. Taking sexual advantage of a sick person speaks to your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:10 AM
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Asia has a lot of slavery. People traffiking, is substantial. They put men on boats in the sea and make them fish, if there are any issues body disposal is easy. The distances aren't swimmable and countries police rarely put in resources to bust those gangs. Asia has a good reputation but a sinister reality. That region also doesn't normally let foreigners own more than 49% of any asset. So the men you see who own bars or houses etc legally own less than their wives and often marry to be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:07 AM
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Stranger on the internet. I do not care about you. Believe what you want. I'm just telling you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:36 AM
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Honestly, status is the wrong word. Competence in areas of significance is better. A man can be high status in the places she doesn't care about or he can have a skill set she values but society generally doesn't. Also, the way you would status makes it sound like she shouldn't be looking for her skills match in a chosen domain. I mean do you think a woman should take a man with a learning disability, unable to feed himself, who is therefore low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:33 AM
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She sounds mentally unwell and it reflects badly on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:15 PM
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I agree. Women don't have an inbuilt drive to chase men at all. Only codependent women do that. If she's Baptist it makes sense. They're raised to be codependent. Alongside some other religions. Hopefully she heals her childhood trauma and realises chasing penis is the dumbest thing a woman can do. Even if it comes with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:14 PM
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Have whatever dates you want. I don't care about your romantic or sexual life. I'm making the point of what women are taught and that the logic behind it is solid. "If he wants you, he wont risk losing you" - you may never have come across a woman you really want. That's fine, I don't give a crap, just don't be surprised if a woman takes your half hearted attempts to set yourself apart from other men as lacklustre and moves to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:09 PM
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I think we're having a semantic argument here. You're saying men can't lose control and I'm saying they do, often, with awful consequences, hence the jails filled to the rafters. I think we agree in principle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:07 PM
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If you don't think I know how women think go do a poll to disprove me but don't ask dumb questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:05 PM
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Yup. Many girls grow up seeing how men treat women. Then they enter puberty around 12 and they are inundated with old man sexual attention like 30+. Women are aware that how women were treated in the recent past was even worse, girls become more aware of the prevalence of femicide and men's talking points of wanting multiple women. They may have had high school romances go bad or watch older women in their life be mistreated in real time. Media also bolsters the idea that men only care about sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:04 PM
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Or she could have the same relationship with a man who doesn't want to see her work in anything other than what brings her joy, because her joy brings him peace. There are many men out there like that. Those are the ones women want. A man that wants a woman to work is no different to a roommate you have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:49 PM
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Passport bros are a tiny number of men, most of them at retirement age too. Some will have success, many end up dead or conned. But you're talking about taking 0.01% of men's behaviour being replicated by 90% that's hundreds of millions of men moving to asia, betabuxxing their way into villages and towns. Do you really think local men will stand for that? In countries where murder rates and kidnap into slavery are much higher than the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:36 PM
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Did it occur to you that the ex was her type and she chose the ex because of that? You were close enough so she thought shed mould you. Even the ex may have been moulded. All women accept young men are a work in progress and take on the task of moulding him to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:32 PM
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Because men in the west abused submissive women so much they protested for their freedom. Girls grew up seeing it and mothers and aunts and grandmothers raised girls to not be in the same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:36 PM
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Wage gap is when a job most likely to be done by a woman pay less than a job most likely to be done by a man. Despite the skill or education level being similar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:32 PM
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No. They take better work life balance jobs with potential for flexibility so if they got pregnant they'd be able to go back part time etc. Nursing vs law for example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:30 PM
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If he was planning a 50:50 relationship he wasn't planning on spending anything significant anyway. If he's got decent money and gets pulled into the addiction side, I never wanted him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:04 PM
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Honestly, if she made you wait it's because she liked you more. It's the different between Uber'ing a McDonald's or preparing a sous vide steak at home. You scratch the itch with junk you know isn't good for you and you don't really want or you take the time and build a prepare for something the should taste amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:40 PM
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This sounds like a male problem. Women don't get this. We grieve the expectations of the relationship - publicly, learn from the mistakes and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:35 PM
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What is free use? You sound like you don't deserve her and she is co-dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:26 PM
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So 90% of western men, I.e. 45% of the western population are either going to travel to and settle in other countries or bring those women back to the west? You think the western governments will let that happen and eastern indigenous men? You clearly have no clue how many passport brosblose their lives and life savings to targeted gang violence abroad or think the earning requirements for spousal visas wont triple overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:48 PM
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No, most will retire wi Th children and cats. Historically men were needed for their money so marriage was a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:51 AM
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Few women want to marry drake. Just like few women want to marry the members of BTS. We just like gushing over certain men, doesn't mean well have sex with them or want them. We find them attractive, enjoy talking about them and like the idea of romance. It's like reading a romance novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:35 AM
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Because women don't care about status generally. They care about the best men in the areas of competence they care about. Cheerleaders for example are athletes, that shit is hard. They will likely also choose athletes or athletic men and most likely from the athletic men they spend the most time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:31 AM
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The athletes and band members aren't chosen for status they're chosen for genetics. Athletic genetics and language mapping genetics alongside the strength required to be in a band. Also, status is normally linked to money or a highly useful social skill like firefighters saving people and being strong enough to carry her everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:19 AM
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And high labour business owners and produce sellers and governments with high debts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:16 AM
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😟 I'm not a dude. I will tickle you till you can't breathe for such an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:48 PM
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Women don't get into relationships for money or lifestyle. They have the hope that men can love. That's the point of 50:50. After finding out men can't love they either bypass men completely or trade their time and affection for money and lifestyle. The gold digger is the female version of black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:45 PM
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Sort of. I'm saying it's not them demonstrating a lack of control it is a literal lack off control
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:17 PM
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Men dig for 'free'/sex. Most women just want mutual relationships and many men see that as a cost to themselves. A very small number of women look for large sums of money from men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:15 PM
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Oh lord you're red pilled to the max. Bill gates wife left him because she said she couldn't forgive him for soemthing undisclosed Bezos left his wife for a 50 something year old woman he is still with Dismissive avoidant attachment men do cheat, yes. Homeless or billionaire. It's an attachment style issue. Trump is a good example of a classic narcissist and dismissive avoidance attachment style. His wife is a trophy and nothing more. His marraige was a business deal, nothing more. That's not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:14 PM
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The soreness is the same as a mans penile sensitivity soreness. It's not muscle soreness. Imagine you had two penises. You used one at a time, you'd be able to go on the second after because the nerve bundles aren't hypersensitive. It's about the amount of available tissue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:01 PM
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If your dream girl/ favourite celebrity wet dream went on a date with you, you're not going for a chilled coffee because you wouldn't want to risk her date the next day being much better and her being interested in the other guy, not because he was more compatible but he had a better idea and she was more impressed. If a guy can happily take a woman on a coffee date he's either super poor and can't do better or he's 'meh' on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:58 PM
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Everyone at some stages of their lives with use the outside world to regulate themselves but it's a signifier of emotional immaturity or mental disturbance. A healthy mature person has a fully internal locus of control. It's a long journey to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:55 PM
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Men are transactional. Going out on dates, even if it's a picnic in the park is receiving something for a woman. Receiving love and attention. If men could love a sexual partner, they wouldn't have to spend a penny on women but the best they get to is emotional attachment. Its sad, men's lives are so grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:53 PM
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A woman expecting a man having sex with her to look after her is 'traditional' not gold digging. Not all couples got married but historically women lived with her parents or the man she was involved with. It's modern men who have never had to consider pregnancy risk and therefore approach women without thinking about whether they could support her and a child if a shot gun wedding had to occur. I mean were talking 1970's onwards and only in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:51 PM
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No, it's most women realities. Women who aren't taught it, learn it. Think of women biggest complaints in relationships. He doesn't take me out anymore, he's always sitting on the couch doing nothing. I have to do all the cleaning, he just makes mess etc. All complaints about expectations that aren't being met. Expectations set at the beginning that the guy can't be bothered to do anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:47 PM
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In the 1960s women had to marry to access finances, own a home etc. And children left school very early. So you have 16 year old girls, in a poor home of 12 children, having to leave and being unable to legally live on their own. They had to make life choices at very young ages on their life partner and life route. T Women nowadays have the protection of school for longer and when they finish have the ability to live on their own until they're ready to choose a partner and life route. Many women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:43 PM
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But the women would still expect their husbands to provide, even when they have their own. All fathers would want that setup for their daughters. Independence and the ability to walk awaybwhilst being taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:34 PM
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You literally just described the JP talking point but his is from a mans perspective and yours a females. You're talking about dark and mysterious making you the special one he shows his underbelly to and men talk about a woman with patience to tale the risk to trust him and civilized him. If you ask an honest man they will tell you they're constantly fighting their inner animal to not do some dumb shit they'll regret later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:49 AM
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There's a refractory period, just different parts you cans stimulate while one area is recovering. If you go over the same tired nerves it's sore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:45 AM
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Even when they make good money, men are burdensome. It's why women will leave men making good money. It's still too hard, for the benefit. Many celebrities that don't divorce have separate homes and don't spend time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:41 AM
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A dinner or activity date won't get you a gold digger. Trust me. Gold diggers are getting shopping, flown out or secret location first dates. You're so far out of their line of sight you can't even comprehend it. Any woman you can access to talk to, let alone to ask out without her laugh in your face will not be a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 AM
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Right which is why they lose their marriage and assets giving in to sexual impulses and urges or violent impulses and urges putting them in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:37 AM
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Run. If a guy is using that terminology he can't think for himself, has required outside sources to emotionally stabilise himself and is nowhere close to ready to be a good partner. Also he's made his social circle misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:29 AM
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The world would be a better place. No more rapes, baby mamas, men fighting and hurting each other trying to show off, hurting themselves stunting to show off, no more cheating and the consequences of it etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:25 AM
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It is rizz, but not for the reasons you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:22 AM
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Different women value 20 differently. If she's a sapiosexual her 20 will be different to a woman who likes tanned gym bunnies. If she likes nerdy guys her 20 will be different to the other women preferences. Just the same way a guy who's preferences are blondes will have a different top 20 to a guy who likes asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:20 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:10 AM
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It's only expensive if you're poor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:10 AM
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Something like that. Sex has a higher value to men than women and the emotional connection after sex has a higher value to women. The problem comes when men take the sex but don't reciprocate on the attachment. So it's an 'uneven trade'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:09 AM
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Women aren't adults until 25 when their brain has fully matured. I hope you're not talking about women below that age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:07 AM
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So you're agreeing that not only are men gold diggers in their soul but there's more men like that than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:06 AM
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If you're black out I will draw on your face and hide your shoes. Beware
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:05 AM
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It's not different. Having the opportunity to have a high body count is different but the lack of self control and the self indulgence is not. Think of it this way. You have a rich and poor man. One can afford to sleep with more prostitutes than the other, of different nationalities, heights, styles etc. But if both of them indulge in prostituted as much as they can, they're both slimy. But the rich man is considered to be the highest value of slime because he has beneficial traits that allowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:03 AM
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This would result in so many relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:59 AM
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Made more boundaries, been less nice to 'loser' men and become more of a bitch. It's weird but men love it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:58 AM
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Women are being taught that how he treats you in the beginning is more than you'll get when he's comfortable. If half assed coffee meetup is the best you can do, you'll have a lot of first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:54 AM
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Stable housing is running the streets? FIRE is a great goal to have if you don't want children. Many go back to work if they do. Which I guess is you selecting out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:05 AM
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You don't have to eat or drink to socialise. You just have to get off your couch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:01 AM
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Like Afghanistan I assume where people are starving to death and selling their own organs to buy time before they have to sell their children. Sounds like something run with male priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:41 AM
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A woman is not a token to be traded for good behaviour. When men become unruly they get sent to war, as per every culture since forever. They're told it's there chance for riches and fame and to take advantage of unsuspecting exotic women and the idiots with poor impulse control go. As for male participation plenty, even with a wife and children do little or nothing. A lazy male is just that and will amount to nothing, especially when he's given everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:38 AM
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It's not women responsibility to give you sex so you function in society. It's your choice, if you want to live in the words, you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:34 AM
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That could only work in an orgy. Male sperm isn't just staying there unless something pulls it out if it needs to be pulled out its been recently deposited
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:32 AM
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That's clearly maladaptive psychology. They get a thrill for stealing cookies and would probably also get a thrill from being caught. That's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:30 AM
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It's one where they admit there's lits of guesses and assumptions. Similar to physics. They make an educated guess than look for things to support it. Unlike physics they cant use irrefuatable math to know when they're right or wrong. If you look at the actual double blinded studies, there are few.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:23 AM
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Gosh, that was just regurgitated talking points. The whole point of controlling the inner beast is emotional and sexual discipline. For many man that's from teen years up. Not all lose themselves to lust for a few years first. Only the weak. And no taming the beast isn't a female fantasy it's Jordan Peterson's favourite Disney movie. There's a big difference. It's the reality of most women lives that from a child they have to either stay away from males or convince them not to harm them. When ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:20 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:12 PM
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No, they wake up and think "I can't do this anymore when I told him I was unhappy he ignored it, when I stopped talking to and engaging with him he seemed to enjoy the silence. I can't live this misery anymore" then a switch in their heads gets flipped and they detach completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:08 PM
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I started reading this thinking this guy is guna claim to be 50:50- then you said it and I understood all of your issues. Men are burdensome to women. Emotionally needy, tender ego'd etc. Even dealing with a hyper masculine traditional provider type man is work. So if you are doing 50:50 on the work you see, she is doing 100:0 on the work you don't see, or value. This is why successful relationships require 100:100. Otherwise she will feel like she's looking after you in a similar way to a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:06 PM
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This isn't new. Women have seen going abroad for romances they couldn't get at home, since forever. There are movies older than me on it. The difference is previously no-one bragged about it. They just lived their lives. Passport bros are known for televising it and also their l's
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:47 PM
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Men are motivated to go to the gym and be healthy...even if it just so they can get more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:44 PM
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Some men are too tired and hungry to get a stable job, some a stable girlfriend, some stable housing. Like I said. If you don't have enough energy for the fundamentals of life select yourself out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:42 PM
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Yes. Even at the ones you'd expect to find men at like dancing, nerd stuff etc. Men prefer to be online or a high level sport it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:41 PM
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Testosterone channelling is more than bleeding heart art. It's the focus and skill to be a high level producer in any field, be it sport, business, design, engineering, building etc. All men good at anything harnessed their testosterone at a young age and just kept building on skill and competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:40 PM
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That would be true if more men were showing up. But they're not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:23 PM
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"There's no guarantee there will be any reciprocation and most men know this." - yes. It's a vetting tool for women. If he's so scant of resources that he has to hoard them to the point where it's counterproductive he's struggling. I say resource to mean time, money, affection etc. Extremely attractive women are not the same as attractive women who leverage their looks to make thirst traps and generate finances. One is a beautiful "girl next door" the other is an IG model. Yes a man that isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:28 PM
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I say you're an incel. That most women wouldn't pee on if you were on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:01 PM
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A lot of them end up dead or disabled so I'd disagree. The men who can channel their testosterone surge do extremely well in work and with women. The key is self-control. The jackass has none. He may learn it with age and get some women in his 40s and 50s but the ones in corporate jobs, athletic roles, the women they want in theirn20s are the men with self conttol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:00 PM
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"women are the choosers and the man is the beggar..." this is nature, for every single animal and insect you can think of. The only time this doesn't apply is when female choice is taken away either through forms of sexual slavery or low ability to fight off males they don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:22 AM
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Most men can't be bothered or are too scared of rejection to go to social gatherings with women. So they sort themselves into the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:22 AM
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I assume there other women aren't married. Married women make up less of the partnered population than the cohabitating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:18 AM
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It's normally because young men act wild and dumb. The quintessential jackass if you will. There's nothing more unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:16 AM
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"If men are automatically assumed to be a net drain on women's lives, why shouldn't emotional intelligence and relationship skills take a backseat to status-maxxing, looksmaxxing, and money-maxxing?" _ This sums up why men are net drains. You think we value the wrong things and when we tell you what we value or want were told "don't ask a fish how to fish, ask a fisherman'. Then when we tell you we're done hoping a man will care enough to 'maxx' on the things we want, we'll take the best of a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:00 AM
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I agree, they want money. I'm assuming the qverage guys profile doesn't signal that. Send a message saying you want to take her to Paris/ or somewhere nice like Budapest, for a weekend (separate rooms) all expenses paid and buy her some jewelry. Dont be creepy and don't choose a woman with a boyfriend.This is paying upfront, girlfriends will cost a similar amount over years. Looks don't dictate your ability to seduce. History's best seducers were known for looking inbred or average. Attraction i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:23 PM
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As a woman, I think this question is dumb. Men risk their lives and families for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:14 PM
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Men focus their energy on what they feel important. If a guy is wasting life energy onto getting something from you, you have a lot of leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:13 PM
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Potentially Shawn. But why does he cry? If i agree with the reasons -him - if I disagree, the self repressed serial killer Thad please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:12 PM
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Experienced love. He knows what is healthy, how to react and respond appropriately qnd isn't shy to return the affection/scarer to get attached
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:09 PM
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"why are comfort, familiarity, and security themselves anti seductive?" They're not. Dead bedroom is normally women who are exhausted and feel unloved, progressively gets bitter that the husband uses his free time to rest rather than help her and he wont/can't afford help for her. That or she never liked him to begin with and was always a gold digger and therefore a dismissive avoidant attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:07 PM
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Sex and dating qre not the same thing. Just like dating and marraige aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:04 PM
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No too many men will stab the collective in the back for female validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:03 PM
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Men sacrifice their lives for a lot. They're winning Darwin awards left right and centre. Men sacrifice their lives to be popular, for revenge, because they're bored etc. Once a man sets his mind to something he'll do it, if that includes keeping his girlfriend safe or not letting someone else hurt them....then that's the hill he'll die on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:02 PM
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Bisexual men are the biggest spreader of STDs within the community. It's an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:58 PM
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25 - 40 is the sweet spot. Grown into your body, have some responsibility in your life and a vision for the future and are reasonably fit and non-wrinkled. Obviously not all men, some have learning difficulties, have addictions, hair line and beer belly comes in the 20s etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:56 PM
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Depends If the men only cares about looks and age...he only cares about looks and age. Women generally are more patient and nurturing, even with men in a relationship. They're more likely to accommodate the neurodivergence and look after h as long as he's not violent towards her physically or verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:54 PM
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But you can have the IG woman, it just costs more upfront money and less time. What the hell is lookism? As for the halo effect I've seen many men prefer the "ho vibes" woman over a "wifely woman" with a worse body, worse skin, a less symmetrical face, thinner hair etc. There's something about ho vibes that makes men overlook the normal attributes men say they want. I'd just love to have some insight on that. I don't think there's a female equivalent. Maybe kpop and jpop. The pretty boy effect b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:01 PM
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I retract what I said then. The point I was making is that I didn't bring Dicaprio up. Most men wouldn't recognise a woman sexual attention if she told them directly. Smiles and eyes brightening is not an indication of sexual interest. Spend more time with women, you might work out the difference. Jeff Bezos is a great example of my point though. The woman he left his wife for is in her 50's. Men are able to be in fulfilling relationships with women they don't look like they're in school. Many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:41 PM
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You are aware that men will select young women qnd have them do aspects of an illegal task for them so they parse off the significant jail time risks to the women. It's a huge, growing problem, where gang members will pretend to be their boyfriends, ask them for favours or help and get the women to commit the actual crime, though they qre the ones who planned it and make the profit and if the women get caught they just abandon them to the law. You have to theive quite q few times to be in prison…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:13 AM
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