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#HeAin'tTheOne2021Br0ther-Finger/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:42 AM
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Story time ☕Br0ther-Finger/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:37 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!Br0ther-Finger/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:21 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONBr0ther-Finger/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:51 AM
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Men get testerical over the smallest things. He asked what was wrong and then started a fight when he didn’t like the answer. How hard is it to say, “oops, here’s a different one”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:47 PM
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Oh. The eggs or whatever on the plate threw me off. I’m not going to lie, I like Olive Garden. I think I’ll take myself there for lunch today because it’s just that fucking basic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:39 PM
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What even is that restaurant? Cracker Barrel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:14 PM
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Same. They are really good comebacks though! It’s best the offender never hears them because they would be crying in their pillow for days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:33 AM
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Even though I’ve been supporting myself and my daughter on my own since I left my ex (don’t worry - I’m keeping receipts) I’ve been able to save money. It was impossible in my marriage because he would run up big bills to keep me tied to him. Also, my life is so peaceful and I feel so safe. Even when someone comes at me sideways, it doesn’t faze me. It just shows me how extra antagonizing he was to get me so upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:10 AM
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His stats are on a billboard. What a time to be alive. Truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:42 AM
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I definitely sense a kind of “hundred monkey” effect. Even Jordan Peterson told men they need to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:38 AM
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My ex literally told me to just fake being happy while he openly had an affair. He was blindsided when we separated. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:09 PM
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So what if he thinks that? Also long as you express you thoughts clearly and logical and make your point. Fuck grades. They don’t really matter that much. Having a voice matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:10 PM
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This is it. I’m soon to be divorced and have a young child. I would much rather date a man who is a parent. Not baby daddy, but parent. I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t understand parenthood. Plus it would be cool to spend time together on play dates. (Obviously keeping it G-Rated and super casual around the kids.) I want a dad “friend”. It’s honestly a pain in the ass and expensive to do anything when your kid can’t come. So yeah. Compatible lifestyles is key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:45 PM
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I wasn’t. I apologize. I was rushing and didn’t use punctuation. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:58 PM
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Oh lol. I just meant FDS shouldn’t be worsening misogyny in men because they shouldn’t be here reading. It’s not for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:32 PM
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And let’s not forget, when they’re cheating, they don’t care about looks at all. There is no rhyme or reason to their “logic”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:28 PM
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Also, the mods work so hard to make this a female-only space. Why are you here, Jason? You’re not invited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:00 PM
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Who told you that? It’s more of a “you’re dumb and I pity you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:56 AM
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I don’t even like to shake hands with people I just met. Hard pass. I always told my daughter to never sleep with someone you wouldn’t share a toothbrush with. Edit to add: I don’t think people should share toothbrushes, but it’s just an analogy to how close and comfortable you should be with someone before you make them a sexual partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:30 PM
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My NEx would always complain I used him as a “tool”. I ended up doing literally everything myself and hiring a pro for anything I couldn’t. He cried about that too. I learned later that’s a common Red Pill term. It’s ironic because he’s falling to pieces without me. He wishes I was there to ask him to do dumb shit for me. Red Pill theory is so toxic and confusing to men. Lurkers - purge that shit from your brain if you ever want to be loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:40 PM
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Or they hook a woman promising to provide and then resent her for not working a W2 while she spends 14 hours a day taking care of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:26 PM
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That’s why he picked you. Users feed off giving people. That’s why we have to set our boundaries and stick to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:52 AM
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He has to be good company - good conversations, a balance between active and enjoying downtime. Respectful of others - in person and online. That’s basically my list. I’m going to be alone forever. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:39 AM
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I recently heard that to really heal, we have to focus on the positive things that happened because of the relationship. For me, I have gained a beautiful daughter, a loyal and amazing bonus daughter, I’m wiser to manipulation tactics and I won’t be easily fooled in the future, and I’ve grown in my spiritual life. I’m a better, richer (not financially tho 😅 - divorce rape my ass) person because of the struggles he created in my life so how can I feel negatively about it? I’m sure you learned a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:04 PM
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My Nex would ALWAYS try to put things in two categories. It made him sound so stupid and it was embarrassing to be seen with him when he started talking like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:25 PM
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In real life, he probably does have erectile dysfunction or a micropenis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:10 PM
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I enjoyed and agree with the post, but I just wanted to point out that Cinderella had made her own dress and had all her shit done so she could go out, then HVW fairy godmother helped her out when her pickme stepsisters tried to stop her. Honestly, homegirl just wanted a night out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:59 AM
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It’s crazy to me how men make these blanket statements about how villainous women are. Really Brian? ALL women leave for another guy? Women who flee in the night with their kids to a shelter or move in with friends or relatives are doing that for another guy? Even if she was lonely (which she’s probably not), that’s still clearly better than looking at the scrote she left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:38 AM
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Men run this world. That’s why there’s so much slavery, war and disease. Edit: And pollution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:29 PM
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I feel you. My bestie is in year 3 of being a forever girlfriend to her dude who I suspect is a narc. But he’s “nothing like your ex” just because he makes more money. My ex wasn’t that bad 3 years in. These assholes take time to work up to full scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:08 PM
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It’s cool. She’s 35 and has hit the wall. It’s scientifically impossible for any male to find her attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:32 PM
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Or they just talk about being entrepreneurs and do nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:23 PM
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Oof. Really ‘nice guyed’ there at the end…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:07 PM
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She told them that Laundries grabbed her face and that’s when she scratched him, but they still had a hard on to side with him. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:46 PM
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Duper’s Delight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:35 PM
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It’s such bullshit. If your wife or girlfriend is so awful, dump her and find someone else since men are the prize and all. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:18 PM
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Some angel here at FDS recommended HG Tudor’s videos when I was leaving my narc. It’s so stomach turning and repulsive to learn how narcissists view people and relationships, you won’t give that loser another thought. You are too good and kind for him. He absolutely doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air as you. Live and learn and go on with your life with your head held high, never looking back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:58 PM
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I absolutely agree. I had read that in the handbook, but as time passed after I had gotten away from NEX, I started to soften back into my natural sunshiny self. I don’t want to think that men are so cruel. But to any ladies out there reading this - THEY ARE. Don’t be fooled by what they say or how they present themselves. Keep your secrets. Protect your heart. Protect your body. Protect your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:14 PM
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Thank you! I do have lots of rewarding and healthy friendships. I’m happy. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:45 AM
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Absolutely no OLD. He was kind of a peripheral friend of a friend. We had some nice chats on social media and he seemed like he had potential to be a good partner. At least now I don’t have to wonder if I missed out on someone good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:33 AM
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After 3 children at least he decided to make it official and propose 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:06 AM
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Match your tone = loudly interrupt you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:04 AM
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He straight up called her a liar and that he nor any future person could ever trust her - then is surprised pikachu when she says there won’t be a second date. Holy hell. What is wrong with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:47 PM
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“If you would stop being a bitch and over reacting to everything, we will get along fine. I know I left you on read all weekend while I was on my boys weekend, but that’s because I left my phone in the cab. But the craziest thing happened, at the end of the trip, I was winning big at the slots and it drew a crowd. The cabby happened by at just that time, recognized me and returned it. I gave the winnings to a homeless child, so if you want to give me shit about not buying you a souvenir, you’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:20 PM
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Bold of you to assume he has a place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:52 PM
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Way to go sis! I’m proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:01 PM
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She thinks women are jealous because she has a vagina and they don’t… oh wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:23 PM
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I absolutely agree. I’ve been talking to a new guy on the phone and sometimes his children ask him for things. He responds so gently to them and it’s such a turn on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:30 PM
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So much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:18 PM
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I hope she charges extra for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:05 PM
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They also recommend avoiding committed relationships because women are whores who take your money and just use escorts instead. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:09 PM
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My NEX and his friends (they’re all pretty shitty to their partners but good to people in general) were at a festival in fucking Vegas. They ran across this young girl in a wheelchair who had been dosed by her friends and abandoned. She didn’t even know what they gave her. The guys rode the tram with her back to her hotel and helped her find her room. She was so lucky they weren’t complete degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:02 PM
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All the responses are great. And I especially agree with the one above. Don’t feel guilty at all. Obviously, this relationship is bad for both of you. He’s using you to destroy himself. He’ll never have to improve himself if he has you. You’ll be happier most importantly and he has the option to get his shit together (although he’ll probably just find another woman to leech off and torment.) You deserve better. Don’t be afraid. Go and don’t look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:37 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I’m so proud of you for taking ownership and control of your health and heart! I know it’s not easy, but you can do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:46 PM
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Lol. Touché 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:14 PM
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Lol! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:44 PM
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I get that children aren’t everyone’s cup of tea and that’s totally fine. But do people realize that they grow up? They aren’t pissing and shitting everywhere forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:51 PM
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You don’t take back gifts. You ain’t never seen Judy Judy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:39 PM
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He killed himself. Fucking coward. Gee. I wonder why she left?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:38 PM
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I don’t get her point. Who wants syphilis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:32 PM
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Not just slept with- his EX WIFE. The woman he publicly declared his unending love and devotion to. Everyone in this shit show is a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:24 AM
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Stop telling my business!🤫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:54 PM
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Hurr, durr. I’m damaging my son. So cool.🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:44 PM
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“Don’t marry your girlfriend that loves you because women are whores. Just visit escorts instead” -mgtow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:50 PM
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I will never tolerate being yelled at again. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:03 PM
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She lacks social skills. She has at least 5 years , if not a lifetime, of drama and fuckery ahead of her. Be glad you’re not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:17 PM
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There was that shady guy - I can’t remember his name, it started with an A - that was barnacled to her after she split with Federline. He was around during her breakdown and the catalyst for the conservatorship. I hated that slimy guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:41 PM
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She was replying to a previous poster who said verbatim that this woman in the tiktok should have aborted her child because the boyfriend didn’t propose. I understand but he sentiment behind it, but damn. And I agree FDS (and nowhere actually) is the appropriate place to tell women how to handle their pregnancies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:08 AM
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You are entitled to your opinion, but I don’t think she’s necessarily wrong. Everyone’s situation is different. If a woman wants to carry her pregnancy to term, it’s her business. We all know scrotes are sneaky out here and switch up without warning. FDS is great teaching the red flags and learning to pick a worthy mate, but sometimes that horse is out of the barn by the time she gets here. I wish I could just block my ex and forget he exists, but my kid is rad and I have no regrets. And I’m goi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:10 PM
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That’s exactly it. And let’s just assume that these weren’t crocodile tears and he really is hurting. Suffering the consequences of bad behavior are often the only thing that creates positive change in people. Staying with him was allowing him to continue acting like a piece of shit. His treatment of you would have only gotten worse. Ask me how I know. Breaking it off was best for you, and as a tiny silver lining, he has an opportunity to reflect on his shitty behavior and perhaps improve himsel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:08 PM
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No you do not! Good riddance. And now you’re stronger and wiser than you were two months ago. You’re on a roll, honey! Shit - better go out and buy a lottery ticket with this momentum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:41 PM
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Eww! Don’t feel guilty in the slightest . Feel happy you’re free. He wasn’t treating you right and he knew it. He underestimated you and got what he deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:17 PM
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Love to hear it! Well done🌈💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:01 PM
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Agreed. When I first moved out on my own, I kept all my important documents in a cooler. Now I have a file cabinet. #goals 💅 But for serious, it’s so important to self reflect and find things about ourselves to improve on. Whether internally, in our relationships or how we maintain our environment. We really only have control over ourselves and by being better, we make the world around us better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:59 AM
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Putting together a piece of furniture for my apartment with a movie out tonight and boating tomorrow!🌈🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:26 PM
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I totally agree. I remember when Britney first came out as an “adult” star with “Hit me baby one more time”. I was really repulsed because of the weird pedophilic overly sexual tone. Of course, criticisms were met with accusations of being prudish or jealousy. But I couldn’t help thinking that there was no way this wasn’t a marketing strategy of a team of gross ass 50 year old men. And as far as women in general being labeled as crazy for reacting to poor treatment, it just reminds me that there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:23 PM
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I found a great therapist on BetterHelp. She really helped me a lot. It was half the cost of in person therapy and they have financial aid. OP, I’m so so very proud of you! Your life is going to improve in amazing ways now that you have someone to love you. You! Much love and luck to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:09 AM
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Was it Morbid Podcast? They are always saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:49 PM
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Awesome story! I’m so proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:33 PM
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Orange is not my color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:14 AM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:55 PM
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I just looked. Hmmm. Confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:11 PM
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Early in my marriage, we were so tight. Total trust. We even shared phones. Np. 10 years in, we have smartphones. He asks for more privacy. Np. I respect that. 13 years in, his behavior changes drastically and he’s gaslighting the fuck out me. Am I crazy? Check the phone - nope. I’m not crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:51 PM
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I am so resilient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:12 PM
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This mindset is really sad. This woman can’t accept that she’s settling for the leftover pieces of a shitty, cheating, lying, duplicitous man, so there needs to be something wrong with the main.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:09 PM
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That’s awesome! Congratulations 🎉🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:29 PM
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His comedy was clean, he dressed dapper and talked well of his wife onstage. That was his shtick. I hope his wife bounces back from the heart break quickly. He’s garbage to treat he so poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:04 PM
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Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:57 PM
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And what is wrong with being in bed by 8? Especially if you’re not going to sleep. Whatshisface used to always wake me up at like 2am poking at me, breathing beer breath in my hair and then pout that I wasn’t into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:03 AM
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He’s my celebrity boo since Paula Abdul’s “Rush, Rush” video. Never change, Keanu. 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:09 AM
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“Why is there value on money?” Because I like having electricity and eating every day. Next. “Why can’t a preschool teacher be as valuable as a lawyer?” She is. But she can’t afford to pay half your bills, Kevin. I don’t know know why men go on about what they want. They don’t know. They’re children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:12 PM
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It’s so true. Correct me if I’m wrong, but most abusers escalate to physical abuse. They start with emotional, verbal and financial abuse. By the times things are physical the woman lacks the confidence and resources to “just leave”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:47 AM
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On theotherwoman sub, they hate it when they can’t talk to their boyfriends because the wife looks through the phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:13 PM
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Forsaking all others... My husband loves to throw up the “til death” part. He also expects me to sit around while he spends the weekend at his girlfriend’s. He’s going to be sad pikachu when he comes home to an empty house because I just put a deposit on an apartment. I am so excited for my future without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:26 PM
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Yep. Same over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:41 PM
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To comment on number 3 specifically, from my perspective women are taught not to value themselves at all. They’re taught from a young age that their value is giving by a man. That’s why there are so many women waiting around for some white knight to swoop in and fix their lives. FDS empowers women to fix their own lives. Drop the dead weight. Stop chasing men. Appreciate themselves. Create their own happiness. It’s honestly confusing to me how anyone would consider that entitled. Entitled to liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:58 AM
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My husband was 27 for 6 years ...🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:22 PM
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Congrats! You deserve to be happy. And if you are, your baby will be too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:57 PM
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Dudes out here behaving like the Ministry of Truth. Then wondering why their lady slashed their tires. 2+2=3 flats asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:27 PM
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I think they don’t respect women enough to realize she’s going to see through the manipulation eventually. They underestimate intelligence and overestimate how much she’ll put up with for “love”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:44 AM
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The adultery sub is FUULLL of these stories. “My wife won’t kiss me.” She probably doesn’t want your girlfriend’s pubies in her mouth. Also, if you’re out chasing tail, you’re most likely lacking in the relationship. A woman will know something is wrong without evidence and she’s right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:23 AM
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You’re absolutely right. When they met he was probably telling her how great she looked and then used the pregnancy to neg her. When she lost the weight, he never went back to telling her she looked great. Home girl is probably a smokeshow and everyone sees it but her. He did this on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:00 AM
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I recently started therapy and the FIRST thing my therapist recommended was shoring up my boundaries. It’s already helped me so much to free me from playing into his games. The fact is that “relationships” with toxic people are very one sided and the party that’s carrying the emotional, physical, financial burdens - usually the woman - needs to learn how to protect themselves. TRP teaches men how to manipulate, use and discard women. It’s toxic af and anyone that is dating to find someone to lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:33 AM
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This sounds like the right move. You were friends for a season and it sounds like you ending the friendship made her reflect. That’s awesome and you should feel really good about calling her on her bullshit. It sounds like you made a positive difference in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:47 PM
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So encouraging. Thanks for sharing and most of all - congratulations!🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:23 PM
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One of my husband’s friends came to visit after his wife left him. His car was full of garbage and broken glass. He even had his kid riding in this nonsense. I was like, “wtf man?!” I swear my reaction made him see the filth for what it was and he cleaned it out before he put the baby back in the car. I know you’re depressed homey, but come on. Freaking men. Just hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:31 AM
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I agree. That comment was pure cringe. I can’t help but imagine them saying that to a little girl. They’re the people damaged by shit fathers and have to recover throughout adulthood. It’s fucking monstrous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:09 AM
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Just wishing for both. The thought of someone selling precious breast milk to perverts makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:29 PM
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I never thought I’d wish for another woman to have an emergency c-section and not a drop of breast milk, yet here I am. That poor infant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:59 PM
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Someone said it. I totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:45 PM
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Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:22 PM
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Can’t wait! I’m still in my house, but I’ve basically stopped talking to him. Grey rock conversation only, started therapy, stopped drinking AND I’m looking at an apartment next weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:01 PM
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I feel the same way about willing side chicks. I had one lie to my face. That set me up for 5 more years of abuse, pain and confusion. The latest one was asking him about my schedule so they could fuck in my house. My anger toward him is betrayal. Toward her because of the shitting all over my boundaries. The worst part is these women didn’t even want to really be with him. They all just get off on being sneaky. It’s fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:57 PM
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Holy shit. That was beyond a burn. That was a nuclear apocalypse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:36 PM
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I was watching an ID show last night about this sweet lady who taught “wife” classes at her church. It did not end well for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:30 AM
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Happy Birthday!🎂🎉🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:02 PM
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How else will we know if our experiences are valid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:23 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:34 AM
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Why not neither?🤷🏻‍♀️ If you’re choosing between a man you have no chemistry with and one who treats you shitty, keep looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:26 AM
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This is the real consequence. I missed out on good connections because I was loyal to a man who doesn’t respect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:21 AM
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Oooh girl. The Lord saved me from a super-scrote. I was head over heels, but I was having bad dreams about him every night. I pulled back a bit and he dumped me. He turned out to be a narcissist and a burglar. I found a different narcissist with a job and Jesus let that one ride. Lesson learned, Abba. 🙏🤡😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:18 AM
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If she has communication issues, it’s probably because she picked them up from him. Look at how he asked his daughter for space! I used to never yell, but it became something I picked up from my nvm because that’s how he communicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:46 PM
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That black heart at the end is foreshadowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:25 PM
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Honestly, rejection is the best outcome. If you don’t, you’ve just made yourself a target for all sorts of heartache. Being picked is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:30 PM
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Lost me at the end there. Hope the new guy keeps up his end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:16 PM
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I tell myself that anyone making eyes at random women in cars is a chronic masturbator with a car full of crusty tissues. Works like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:02 PM
64

He just left with some clothes? How do you accomplish this sorcery? Mine won’t leave without property damage and a police escort. Congratulations on your freedom and being a bad betch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:56 PM
47

I see what your saying, but number 11 .... tsk, tsk. Knowing, willing side chicks are the WORST kind of Pickme’s and incredibly disrespectful. You can be mad at 2 people, him and her. Especially when it affects your kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:51 PM
7

The lady on the left looks super uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:38 AM
28

Same situation. I wish I could say I’m getting stronger every day, but I have good and bad days. But I finally have no illusions that he’s going to decide to be the man he sold me that he was when we first got together. I don’t have many dreams for my future because they all dissolved when I saw him for what he was. We’re still living together and it’s hard to find myself again while still dealing with his bullshit. But I’m steadily working to get my resources together to be free and I’m NEVER N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:22 PM
140

He’s probably an Uber driver and no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:09 PM
35

She sounds like a side piece fr. If you read the adultery or otherwoman subs, they all talk like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:08 AM
11

Here’s a fruit pie, Kevin. Now you don’t need a girlfriend. Stop pestering the grown ups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:43 PM
15

I was thinking the same thing. Me at 16 wanted to walk across America. Me at 18 needed a hotel after the rave because not having a bathroom is unacceptable especially after being outdoors for an extended period of time. And yes, I count being in a vehicle being outdoors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:12 AM
4

“Honey, don’t do my laundry. I don’t believe people should work for other people.” Hahahhhha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:24 PM
243

It’s sooo difficult to find a man’s opinion! If not FDS, then where?!? I wish I had a man to figure this out for me. Oh well, off to the cat store...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:57 PM
29

I don’t know who Kevin Samuels is, but he looks like Tyrice from Love After Lockup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:53 PM
9

I am so proud of you! Look at what you accomplished in spite of that loser holding you back. He was feeding off your beautiful energy like a parasite and you still made it. That’s amazing. You’re amazing. I know it hurts now. But you did what needed to be done and now it’s time to look forward and the future you’ve made for yourself is so bright! We all make mistakes. And we are tougher and wiser from them. You deserve every bit of happiness that coming your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:23 AM
14

Does this lady know how porn is these days? Why would you support your man’s “God Given need” to fuck his step sister? Porn is toxic mind poison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:18 AM
25

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:57 PM
3

How was his “ex” visiting for weeks in her own house? Sorry sis, but that’s his current. Once you’re safe in your new town, send her some receipts. Good luck with your new start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:54 PM
10

I disagree. Learning and unlearning happens with continuous reinforcement. Men are masters of subtly moving the goalposts for acceptable behavior and reminders that we as women have to be firm in our boundaries CAN NOT be stressed enough. The stakes are too high. Yes, you might end up a single old cat lady. But that is heaven compared to a life of abuse. A life with a man who punches holes in the wall, or drives drunk with your children in the car, or gambles your rent money away, or feeds you s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:02 PM
22

You left now. That’s what matters. You in a year will be so thankful. We do the best we can with what we know at the time. Hugs.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:01 PM
16

That’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:58 PM
7

It is bad. No one deserves to be abused in their relationship. Just like no one deserves to be raped because they drank to much or wore a short skirt. I’m sure if she could do it over knowing what she does now, she would see through the lies and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:39 PM
15

No ma’am. I’m not asking for 50/50 dates. I’m not asking to be fucked and chucked. I’m not asking for Netflix and Chill. I’m not asking for a relationship where I’m not valued and respected. And if you chase a man, that’s what you’re asking for. A man can put on the full court press and STILL treat you like trash. If you have to chase him down, you’re throwing yourself in the dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:41 PM
26

Congratulations on being set free and not looking back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:31 PM
10

It’s so true. If a woman is posting about a problem to randos on the internet, she’s clearly already talked to him and he didn’t give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:56 PM
6

Eww gross. I have a friend who dated a scrote for 3 months. He stalked her like that for 6 months. Calling from random numbers all day long. If she ever answered, he would beg her to get back with him. It was so creepy. I was genuinely scared for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:52 PM
8

Plus, it sucks to be in a relationship and have to eat dinner alone every night. What’s the point of having a relationship that makes you feel lonely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:17 AM
7

I recommend the book. “ How to win friends and influence people “. The title sounds manipulative, but it’s not at all. It teaches you how to make keep conversations flowing and make people feel valued and important and in turn they return those warm feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:24 AM
20

It is so wonderful to be able to be your true giving, helpful, supportive self without it being seen as a weakness and used against you. I never really thought about how I only have that dynamic with other women. Not all women, but zero men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:20 AM
17

So much for “the wall” theory. It’s so sad men buy into this toxic bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:28 AM
111

It was definitely a man that came up with that marketing strategy because they don’t see the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:52 PM
3

Could you imagine seeing a PT and “Ma’am, weak glutes aren’t the source of your back pain. Yours are very toned. I’d love to see you in heels.” There is no context in which that scrote’s comment was not sexual and objectifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:33 PM
17

Right? It’s like ordering a new handbag over the Internet. You check out the photos, read reviews etc. And then a box of dog shit arrives at your door. How on earth is that your fault?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:58 PM
28

Whatever. I will happily discriminate against all pedophiles. Also cannibals, serial killers, slave traders, monsters of all kinds. Discrimination is the absolute softest consequence of these types of abominations. “Oh so you’re a pedophile? You can’t come to my birthday party.” I’m done. Excuse me while my brain implodes. Edit: I’m totally agreeing with sleepykittn, if it wasn’t clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:54 PM
6

I think so too. But he would have to be a trainer or physical therapist or something for it not to be cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:46 PM
32

Yeah. It sounds like sexual harassment to me. Nobody wants to hear about what your jerking it to, Kevin. It’s wildly inappropriate and unprofessional. Same goes for politics. Does this guy think he’s Todd Packer or something? I’d def be bringing it up with the boss or HR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:14 PM
71

How the heck did you get roped into discussing your married coworker’s masterbation habits? I’d firm up my boundaries with this asshole stat. Save the grown up conversations for the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:01 PM
9

I think it’s to feed their ego. They will pretend to be whatever a woman wants, because if he revealed his true motivation, she wouldn’t entertain him. Fooling a woman into sleeping with him makes him feel like he “conquered” her. Then on to the next. He doesn’t respect her, so of course he doesn’t care about her feelings. It’s absolutely the man’s fault but he doesn’t care, just like a burglar doesn’t care about the people he steals from. It’s just greed and entitlement and ego and the thrill o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:55 PM
21

I think, also, it is an ego boost to compete with other women. Lying and fooling the wife, knowing they have the power to hurt her and get the “best parts” of her husband. Like, there’s a million single scrotes out there to lie and manipulate you. Why entertain someone else’s scrote? Because doing so makes her have something over another woman. It’s sick and twisted and below the basement of human behaviors. Not as low as murdering your wife and kids of course. That’s the sewage system in hell k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:13 AM
37

She hasn’t had a job in 9 years? What does this mean? She considers getting dicked for money a job, but not writing? Oof. Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:07 AM
2

Best comment on this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:41 PM
10

It was so kind of him to explain to her that she wasn’t understanding her own feelings. What a great friend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:49 PM
5

Same. I remember him mentioning her once. I was starting to wonder if I dreamed it. I liked his videos, but once he started blowing up it started to feel like pandering. In the respect that women should expect to find a legit HVM. In reality, women should expect to be single and finding an HVM is a bonus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:35 PM
58

Hobosexuals. Why is this so common there’s a word for it? Some of these dudes have no shame. It’s sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:21 PM
25

Scrotefestos! I can’t breathe.😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:49 PM
7

What is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:43 PM
186

Cat issue aside, it’s kind of weird he wants to move her to some random ass whole other country for no particular reason. And she “gets” to choose from his list. Eww. Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:36 PM
54

That is sad. Maybe she has some LVM dulling her shine? I hope she shakes it off because she’s awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:27 PM
55

Perhaps. I just watch the bad movie reviews and she makes me laugh. I didn’t want to steal her joke without giving her credit and it was the first thing that I thought of when I saw the OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:49 PM
234

As my girl Kennie JD says, “pussy is not an SSRI.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:20 PM
11

It really is. I’ve let a married man get a bit too friendly with me because I was lonely and he lied about the dynamics of his relationship. Once his wife approached me, I told her everything (there wasn’t much to tell) and blocked him. On the other hand, I’ve confronted women I KNOW via texts were involved with my husband and they want to fight or have amnesia. It’s so frustrating. I’m not expecting people to be perfect but don’t make me the enemy when you’re taking the best parts of my relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:20 AM
108

Right? Women don’t bail because their husband is awesome and makes them happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:49 AM
64

“ They’re the ones responsible for your depression” FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:37 PM
6

Where is this roster of men that don’t have sex? Is there a spreadsheet somewhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:38 AM
34

“Treat her right” means he doesn’t physically abuse her. Any other bullshit he pulls is null because she just a woman and therefore doesn’t have real feelings or needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:33 AM
46

So much this. These scrotes are living in an alternate reality because they don’t see or appreciate all the WORK that goes into taking care of a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:48 AM
50

So .... she’s telling women they should be a placemat? I really don’t get it. And yes. A cat would be a zillion times better company than my narcissist husband who torments me every day. (PS- for those interested; I found a rental place I can afford. Fingers crossed I get it!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:34 AM
6

I’m in the south and in my are it’s not locked up. Plan b is behind the counter in drug stores but I don’t mind asking cashier for it. They’re going to ring it up anyway. Plus, the “embarrassment” of having a random person know I had sex is worth not having an unwanted pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:23 AM
40

I’m so proud of you for taking the step to demand the right to take care of yourself. It’s a huge win! I’m sure that this is only the first step toward freedom. This guy is a toxic asshole driving you crazy and bringing out the worst in you. You deserve peace. Keep taking those steps until you get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:53 PM
20

If he was using a VA loan, why would being married affect his down payment? Was his credit shit and he needed yours? Good God. What a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:40 PM
3

Lol! No hate. I was just focused on the cat and got confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:17 PM
10

Ugh. I used to make NVM everyday. At first he lived it. Then he started bitching I made it too early and it was cold or I cooked too fast and the texture was wrong or I waited too late too start and he would be late. One day he threw it at me and that was the last breakfast or lunch I ever made him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:45 PM
4

The man driving with his cat? Is that the clip you meant to post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:37 PM
85

Assuming he plays with them a few hours a week is generous. Most dads I know put in 15 minutes of face time and maybe dinner. Then he’ll cry she’s taking “his” children when she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:59 AM
2

Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:18 AM
17

Kev Hicks > Derrick Jackson I’ve watched a lot of Jackson’s stuff and he’s SOO for women, it feels artificial after a while. I found Kev Hicks’ channel last year and I really enjoy his advice. He’s super deadpan too and that’s funny to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:24 PM
44

I never heard of a strip club with a 401k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:06 AM
3

Congratulations! 🍾🎈🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:05 AM
18

Thank you! You articulated this so well. It’s a sneaky backhanded racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:02 AM
19

That’s so ridiculous. The neon lights on the building let’s you know what’s up. Only men are attracted to places with neon lights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:00 AM
18

This is what I took from it and I agree. Of course, it’s only applicable if it’s happening early and continues through the relationship. A man can’t be a scrote for 12 years and think lloading the dishwasher once gives him a free sexy time pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:03 AM
37

My NVM will do yard work once every couple months and yeah, it’s more thorough than when I do it (we also have commercial grade lawn tools that I can’t start when black and decker electric would be sufficient for our 1/16 acre because testosterone, but I digress) but I still do it the other weeks plus all the inside shit. Competence is not enough. Competence and consistency are necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:57 PM
38

Why are there laughing reactions? Definitely men who think this depravity is funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:49 PM
9

I mean.. is it a Sheetz? Those are pretty swanky. “Any flavor of slushee you want, girl.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:12 AM
26

No ma’am. You are giving a voice the most marginalized people in society. Which do you put on first in the morning? Your crown or your cape? Thank you for what you do! Much respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:14 PM
44

Watch the building. Is there a lot of traffic mostly at night or in the rear of the building? Is the clientele mainly men? Do you never notice the women coming or going or out on a lunch break? There are hotlines you can call or even just your local law enforcement to report that you suspect women are being held in a location. The Polaris Project has a lot of info and resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:49 PM
29

Oh wow! You are a hero! Thank you so much for your volunteerism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:16 PM
42

So gross. I’m shaking I hate it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:02 PM
173

I worked as a licensed massage therapist for years, so I got to learn about these places because our profession had to jump through legal hoops because of them. They are ran by the Asian mafia. They lure women from their families by coercion or straight up kidnapping, bring them into their network of brothels and traffic them. They live in the brothel and are beaten and their families are threatened. They are routinely moved to new locations to keep them disoriented. If the brothel is raided, it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:42 PM
38

Also, I’m glad you weren’t injured! It’s so scary being in the vicinity when some asshole loses his marbles and gets violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:07 PM
104

Entitlement and a superiority complex. This guy probably thought these poor captive women were happy whores who had it coming. He spent all his money on ammo and Mountain Dew and couldn’t afford what he “deserved”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:04 PM
160

You are so right. The fact that they are glossing over that makes me want to puke. I don’t understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:55 PM
76

After we got married, my NVM would skip foreplay, then accuse me of not wanting him. I thought there was something wrong with me. I really wish I had FDS back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:32 PM
72

Aww sweetie. I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. Your mom is WRONG. Do not lower your standards. It doesn’t even sound like your standards are all that high anyway. Never ever ever send another nude. It’s technically child porn at your age and will never add anything positive to your life. If you want to see yourself naked, look in the mirror. If I was your mother I’d phone whoever had those pictures and threaten that I’m reporting to the FBI and if those pics ever surfaced I would follow thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:56 PM
10

That’s terrible! Hugs to you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:21 AM
43

“Day” spas don’t have neon lights. Looks to me like an incel who took revenge on probable human traffic victims. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:11 AM
46

I didn’t read the article yet, but I just wanted to remind all my young sisters out there, you CAN get pregnant from precum. Pulling out DOES NOT WORK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:49 AM
91

Dafuq? Does this dude think that rapists, traffickers or even cat fishers creep around in trench coats and Snidley Whiplash mustaches? I’m glad you’re safe! That could have ended badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:19 PM
6

It’s weird. There are two music videos that I remember stopped me in my tracks and I watched them premiere on MTV. Each one it kind of felt like a zeitgeist shift. The first was “Smells Like Teen Spirit” and the other was “Hit Me Baby One More Time”. I thought Teen Spirit was cool and edgy and I loooved that brand of slacker guy. Hit Me Baby made me kind of nauseous, but people told me I was a prude or jealous for not being into it. I think OP nailed it with this analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:39 AM
6

Oof. You fucking nailed growing up in the 90’s. I’d get home from school, clean the house, read a cosmo article about how to suck a dick, microwave my dinner, my mom would come home and watch soaps while her stoner mooch boyfriend sneakily smoked pot with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:21 AM
22

Retarded. It was common slang when I was growing up, but I side eye when I hear it now. Know better, do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:16 PM
50

The ones he talks about to the escort he spends every other Saturday afternoon with. Dad of the year over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:58 PM
26

I remember that episode of Daria when she imagines a future life with slacker “musician” Trent and it’s him balding and potbellied on the couch in a crappy apartment she’s paying for. Then at the end she imagines a version where he makes it and she’s a glamorous rock star wife. It was disingenuous because it planted a seed a hope that the Trent in your life could live up to the potential that you were imagining for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:41 PM
5

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:28 PM
239

I’m in a trash marriage with a scrote so maybe I’m not the best to give advice, but I have noticed the differences between the relationships of LVM’s and HVM’s. The key is owning up and taking steps to improve bad behavior. The flaws in a young LVM will be red flags in hindsight because they get worse over time. A college guy who binge drinks and thinks it’s cute has a good chance of being a full blown alcoholic at 40. A college guy who binge drinks and considers his health and takes steps to fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:18 PM
7

Future Jenna Jameson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:56 PM
5

“”I hope you figure out how to be better (for your sake, and for the sake of other’s in your life), but I can’t allow you in my space anymore.” I really like this! I’m going to make this a new mantra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:41 PM
21

Cackling over here.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:21 PM
27

Good Lord. What a disappointment to the little girl she used to be. No young girl daydreams about marrying a twitch streamer that smells like a hot dumpster. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:21 PM
24

She doesn’t want your advice but cries to you when these scrotes hurt her? Maybe tell her she can choose what kind of relationship she wants with you. She can tangibly learn how to improve her unhealthy self esteem by reading books, therapy etc and listen to advice from people with her best interest at heart and you will remain the friend she can cry to when things are hard. Or she can keep her heart break to herself because it’s not fair to you to be her emotional dumping ground when she’s not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:48 PM
23

So backwards. There’s no value in staying with someone who makes you feel insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:34 PM
5

Good grief!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:30 PM
2

Sidebar. I still don’t know what it means. The book is a tough read. The author(s?) are clearly mentally ill racist sacks of shit. It super gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:52 AM
1

The red pill. It’s an actual manual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:50 AM
30

I think the idea that “it’s just sex” is degrading to women because it reduces both parties to meat suits. Sex is a magical act that can literally create life. It’s the closest you can be to another human being. Casual sex removes makes you compartmentalize your emotions and creates a division in your mind-body connection. And trust me. I’m no Puritan. I had my share of experiences in my early 20’s and they were a total waste, decimated my self esteem, and made me narcissist bait. 100% do not re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:03 AM
8

It’s true they’ve mastered the art of manipulation. I went down a rabbit hole last night when I heard a term I didn’t know. There’s a legit 700 page book on how the fool women into sleeping with you. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:41 PM
17

Thank you for the love. It’s embarrassing that I’m in this mess. I took on a lot of debt for him while I was in denial and waiting for him to turn back into the man I thought I married. But I’m making moves. I’ve got all my important documents in a safe place, separate bank accounts and I transfer the bill money from his check as soon as he gets paid. I’m really not out to fuck him over even though I could and he deserves it. I’m not going to let him turn me into someone I don’t want to be. But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:58 AM
7

Thank you. I appreciate you reading through that novella. It feels good to have it off my chest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:40 AM
72

Right? Any woman can have dick delivered within 15 minutes and even get paid for it. It’s not sexual frustration that makes us angry. It’s not being treated like a whole person with standards and boundaries. If these guys want to have sex, maybe start with not being a piece of garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:37 AM
28

Thanks sis. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:12 AM
42

Ugh. So true. Tonight was so trash. I had a great day. Got home a bit early and planned to clean my car. NVM was there when I arrived. He told me that he missed work because he slept till 1:30. His coworker came into our house to make sure he was alive. I was quiet and listening but internally very worried because he makes the majority of the money and I don’t want him to lose his job. If he left, I would be fine but I can’t support him - not that I want him anyway. Anyway, as expected he starts…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:02 AM
55

I am. Just saving up my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:42 PM
67

You’re so right. My NVM would put on such a front around other people. It made me feel like I was the problem. But now that mask has slipped so far- he only shows off around new people. Everyone who knows us is aware he treats me like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:10 PM
31

It’s so sad that strangers will provide more than her “man”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:33 PM
8

Soooo accurate. My husband did every single one of these except the computer. Once he had me locked down he flipped the script and it’s been a downhill slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:51 AM
42

Um. No. You sound like him. Women are constantly told that if you can just do more/ better etc then you’ll get your needs met and be appreciated. Then we wonder why we don’t. The last thing we need is to tear each other down more. We need to tell her that she did everything she could but he’s just an asshole who is too self centered to ever appreciate what she does. Maybe show her some fucking compassion because nobody else is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:26 AM
20

King of the Hill had an episode very similar to this. Warn your friend not to sneak him in any Boggle timer sand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:44 PM
12

I heard in an interview there was a real Jolene. But so what? She had a pick me moment. It doesn’t negate all the wonderful things she’s done. Plus she turned her weakness into a hit song and made a bagillion dollars off it. That’s even better than queen shit. Dolly is an Empress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:17 PM
7

Reminds me of mouse utopia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:10 PM
2

Partners in delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:01 PM
7

My man built me a she-shed / gardening space. Then immediately packed it full of his shit and covered everything in sawdust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:00 PM
3

When I was underage for drinking, I was at a nightclub. This guy insisted on buying me a beer. I snuck it into the restroom and drank it really quickly so I could go out and finish the show. The guy accused me of pouring it out, called me names and made me pay for it. Worth it because he left me alone the rest of the night and I got a beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:26 PM
21

It fr looks like pepsi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:49 PM
15

They really took it personally...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:41 PM
63

His girlfriend is definitely going to see this. I seriously don’t understand how men can be so incredibly disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:37 PM
2

You’re an inspiration, darling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:25 PM
18

It read to me like the person attacking was “the other woman” in her own relationship. Those people are the worst kind of pick me’s. Always siding with the cheating husbands and blaming the wife for taking “his” kids - not “their” kids even. HIS. Whatever their situation, a person would have to be unhinged to think that listening to daddy fuck some other woman isn’t abusive. He was probably manipulating them into not telling on his skank ass. Good on the mom for not letting that comment slide an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:33 AM
15

Only people that can’t think critically would laugh or judge. I’m sure a lot of others might start to examine their opinions after being presented with alternative viewpoints, even though they might not speak up themselves yet. I remember being in middle school when gay marriage started being discussed in the main stream. So many people were like , “ woaaaah... whaaa???” And then they became supportive. A paradigm shift is possible. But, it takes diligence, bravery and facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:42 PM
99

She’s probably not even born yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:24 AM
48

She doesn’t even get waffles. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:44 PM
55

Thank you! It feels like I’ve found my tribe. I’ve never been able to articulate what felt so wrong with the Pick Me/Pornsick culture we are saturated in, but now that I see it spelled out - I can really separate from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:34 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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