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Braccas/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 11:08 AM
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Braccas/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 04:51 PM
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I don’t understand either- his first marriage ended because his wife cheated....now he’s the dude he used to hate I guess
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/19 12:47 AM
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I’m comming around to this idea
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 11:41 PM
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100%
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 05:25 PM
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^ yah this
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 05:25 PM
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50% in......
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 01:49 PM
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I’m actually thinking of tattooing my left arm and hand just to remind myself never ever ever do that again
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 12:31 PM
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Well I’m lower 30s in great shape and 6’3 215 pounds with 10% body fat- I trained MMA and was the semi pro champ for 5 years in my home town...the other guy is 55 concrete worker with no muscle tone and a beer belly.....I mean I guess I COULD go fight him but win or lose I’d look like a joke
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 12:30 PM
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Why would you ever get married again- I’m actually asking because I’m curious. I am fixed so no more kids- no reason to be married I can put in my will she gets a lump sum if I die (if I want to) but I’ll be damned if I ever give another power over me again....
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 01:45 AM
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Honestly I never thought I’d hold it together this well....I got my kids- I’ll end up winning even if it hurts now...and as far as the other guy goes - he was a looser before he will be a looser after
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/19 01:35 AM
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Usually for men It’s sex then connection For woman it’s connection then sex One of those small quirks that fucks a lot of shit up.....I’d tell your other you want better sex and you want them to help you get it. Make it a We problem not a “you” or “me” problem. Start out admitting you think that you yourself are not doing something right, and you want to be “taught” how to be better.....the more teamwork the better chances of fixing things and keeping both parties comfortable. Sex is important b…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/19 11:26 PM
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This gives me hope....do more of this more places
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/19 12:47 PM
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Good luck man....I gotta go to her family shit with my kids and her and play “happy family” even tho she is literally sleeping with the dude right now
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/19 02:28 AM
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As with everyone else ....MOVE! Good luck and I hope to have that passive income set up by the time I retire (any advice?) this is why after 10 years I’m getting a separation to protect myself from being forced into paying for her Cush retirement and me forced to work.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/19 01:47 PM
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Start keeping a journal, and texts. Neither is admissible unless she admits to it. So basically a good lawyer will ask her why she said “whatever” on this date when she went out. The explanation doesn’t matter, just admitting it happens means the rest of it can be entered into court as evidence. Make sure you record more then just when she leaves in the journal, record helping with homework record when you take them to activities record babysitters, record work hours. The point is it’s a journal…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/19 12:59 AM
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Only reason is for the kids at this point....it’s all for the kids- I have to keep telling myself that or I’ll go nuts
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/19 04:03 PM
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I can’t it’s locked through employment. Can’t touch it till 55. Typically other guys in my trade have to “pay off” their ex
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/19 04:02 PM
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Illinois is the state and I am 100% going with a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/19 01:33 PM
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Yup, doing as much as I can now, while also showing I’m not “take money away from her” to be honest I don’t really even care about money. I just don’t want to work till I’m 70 and was on a good pace to be set to retire at 55. Really I would have retired by 45 if she would have stuck to my plan. Such is life I guess....
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/19 11:24 AM
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Thanks and yah, I’m trying to keep it low enough that I don’t have to travel for money- essentially ruining my at home time. I make 10x my normal pay when I travel- great idea when you are trying to pay off bills- shit when they base your child support off of it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/19 11:21 AM
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Thanks, I’ll look into all of this....Reddit is the best place to find ppl who have gone through or are going through the same shit.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/19 11:20 AM
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Say it louder for people in the back!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 11:38 PM
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That’s what I’m afraid of but I figured this was a decent start....thanks for the advice
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 09:52 PM
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That’s the plan atm....just doing most of the leg work ourselves with negotiations
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 09:51 PM
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Never heard of this but highly interested
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 12:43 PM
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Same bro....lift heavy and get sexy.....don’t do it because she told you to, stop letting her lead. I’m leading, I’m in charge. I steer the family. I grew up in a very matriarch way. Strong step mom , all women teachers , very few male friends....I’m slowly fixing all that. You need to relearn maleness...this isn’t my own ideas it’s from A LOT Of books I have been reading. Start with “no more Mr. nice guy” it’s a rabbit hole from there to self discovery and self help.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/19 12:58 PM
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I know the feeling....it’s a long game and it sucks....random strangers are here to help...I discovered my wife was having an affair but we are working on things...by we I mean me, I’m going to improve myself so much that if/when we split it won’t matter to me. Good luck, men are always screwed in these situations.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/19 10:38 AM
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That’s profound....and I think that’s where my heads been at. I have been trying to “be perfect” -impossibility- and I know this may just be the new pattern
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/19 10:49 AM
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First lawyer...just a shock to me
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 04:26 PM
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10,8 4,3 - kids and marriage was 10 years
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 04:23 PM
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Good ideas.....currently I’m 100% focused on the kids. We build blanket forts every night, build models with the oldest. Wrestling with all of them, dancing in the kitchen. I see a huge change in their behavior. I realize how much I was fucking up. I don’t know how to respect myself any more. I think I’ll have to establish my own personal boundaries and space. Other then that I’m basically at her whims
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 03:59 PM
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