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| 13 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?Bro is going to keep living with his parents forever once he starts spending that much on girls lmao. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Always go for it? Or dont interrupt a sure thing?Your response to “what are we going to do” was basically “we should fuck” Yes sex was on the table and implied in dating, but she was asking that besides sex, what should we do? And she even suggested batting cage as well. She tried to make it easy but you weren’t listening to what was in front of you, what she was saying. Didn’t sound fun. I can’t give an exact thing bc I tailor my moves to the girl in front of me, (that’s why girls call me too smooth), but based on your original chitchat about… | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Always go for it? Or dont interrupt a sure thing?Started off as fun, ventured into augmented reality. Gotta know when to be serious and when to be fun. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Can We Please Stop With the Dating Coaches and "Gurus"?Smart dude, you’re right and you just discovered “innovation.” Our goal is to learn the behavior. If we could spot them, we wouldn’t be having these issues in the first place, and many men encounter these issues btw (aka seduction subs, dating subs, whatever new terminology comes out next). Naming does help some people spot behaviors, but when you understand things deeply, the names become less important. Our goal is to understand things, and it is our duty to use our heads to come out of each l… | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Can We Please Stop With the Dating Coaches and "Gurus"?Professors: Stops giving advice and have a lockout period. Students: why is no one teaching anymore? Billionaires: Refuses to share their wealth. People: Why’re rich people hoarding wealth? Be careful what you wish for, unless you’re a rich guy ofc that would benefit from asking billionaires or professors or coaches to bottle up their sauce. And in case you didn’t get it. Coaches: Shares their wealth of knowledge. Students: Coaches should stop sharing their knowledge! It’s on us to not shut our … | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Simp RehabilitationThen there’s nothing to worry about and yk it. The smash is about to happen. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Simp RehabilitationOne last time? Did you smash before then lmao. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:48 PM |
| 3 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmful>Be a good soldier for me and go to the Reddit front lines. Good luck. Idk why I found this funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with ApproachingTake the first step dude. And it’s not about her but about you. Read No More Excuses. I shouldn’t have to explain everything like a children’s book. Here’s the deal: Interpret that in two ways. Trick yourself into feeling like you know her to trigger that familiarity spirit in you. You do that by thinking to yourself what she reminds you of before approaching and this helps you talk to a stranger same way you do with the other girls you feel comfortable talking to at work. If you approach her an… | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with ApproachingPretend you know her from somewhere and approach. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:51 PM |
| -2 | Struggling with ApproachingYou can have a full time job and still need a job. Asking a girl out IS the goal. Not being social or talking to her. What you need to do is to talk to more women so that pressure goes out the window. Talk more, sex more. No in between. Social skills are trash. You might be confused. Let’s make it better: Your goal isn’t to talk to a girl. It is to ask her out, so the more women you lead to that point, the more confident you’ll feel. So within the first 5 minutes of talking to each person, ask e… | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Struggling with ApproachingYall need jobs fr. You can’t be not interested in sleeping around while at the same time having multiple options. Essentially what you meant there was that you want to have the illusion of options while having none. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | I’m really confused too many mentorProceeds to seek the advice/mentorship of even more randos. /s. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 04:40 PM |
| -1 | Is detachment a very powerful seduction technique ?Again, “when they’re scared” is *YOUR* mental rational for their behavior vs anyone who, in that moment, YOU somehow encoded them to be insecure (anxious or avoidant). “Anxious” attachments ghost and stop communicating all the time. If they have a new thing they’re fixating on (whether their current bf or a new potential), they’ll stop communicating with the guys that they consider “lower value.” Girls who don’t like you, whether initially or not anymore, will do this, it doesn’t mean they’re no… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Is detachment a very powerful seduction technique ?Avoidants and secures mean the same thing in your comment. The only difference there is that one was given a gymnastic reason why, while the other wasn’t. I check the attachment subs all the time and people go there to either refuse to acknowledge their own role in the relationship, or to trauma dump and avoid facing the reality. I’ve never had anyone use such term in the real world and the moment anyone shifts failure and blame entirely onto someone else, I’m leaving bc what they’re telling me … | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Is there difference between good social skills and”game”?Right. The same girl will fuck two polar opposite kinds of types while that guy is [on the sideline] yapping [I’m not her type] lol. Npc guys are hilarious. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Is there difference between good social skills and”game”?No one said game was magic. Do your thing and goodluck dude. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Is there difference between good social skills and”game”?lol y’all with this crap. You can 100% sway a girl to f even if you’re not her type. It happens frequently in the real world. I’ve heard girls say but he’s not even my type! Then they’re fucking some time later. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:29 PM |
| 31 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Real world advices are “controversial.” There’s a reason why people get confused when movie/social media and the real life don’t align. We seek validation (financial in movies and virtual upvotes on social media), so the actual thing that happens in real life, when it’s just you and her, is different. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:27 PM |
| 10 | How do you subtly move forward after repeated eye contact without coming across as creepy, take the game forward?Y’all sitting here talking about creepy. If you never approach anyone nothing will happen. You’ve just got to muster the courage to do it once to see that you’re alive. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:14 PM |
| -4 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaIt’s difficult to gain social skills without experience. A 5’10 guy having more social skills could also be due to them having more experience than a 6’5 guy. The same girl could hit on both: Dang this ‘6’5 guy ain’t got no game to even touch or make me happy or turn me on and the Mfer ain’t even no bball player! Lemme go check out this “short” 5’10 guy. Fuccccckkkkkkk!!!! Oooo yeah lmao. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaAll that talk from you with no sex brother. Having a million girls around me in a club or wever don’t mean shit if nothing happens. There wasn’t much difference between you and him that night. Girls talked to both of you, and you both left without sex that night. The entire post was you yapping about you getting attention, but your lack of game left you without the ability to close. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone recommend a solid and practical program?$10m entry fee. Lmk when you’d like to start. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 02:34 AM |
| -2 | How tf do you actually build sexual tension ?Keyboard warrior, I’m talking about the guy’s focus, nothing about what girls want. If a guy’s focused on trying too hard to making her feel safe then it won’t lead to sex. That’s where guys fumble the most. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 06:22 PM |
| 14 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?She doesn’t think much of it and expects the guy to think nothing of it bc she doesn’t like him like that, That much lol. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:59 PM |
| 3 | How tf do you actually build sexual tension ?Girls don’t prefer slow and steady lol, although age tends to make them want a slower life. Also focusing on making a girl feel “safe” is actually what makes you unable to close bc she’s going to follow your lead in the slow department on that end as well. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 02:38 AM |
| 0 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingWhen someone dismisses every solid advice that’s already given to them, improving would be challenging and more socially adjusted ppl would be reluctant to help. Even in my case I was actually reluctant to even say anything and I can see why some others might feel the same. Currently pushing myself to even say much and I hope you see that. Both the guys and the girls can see this when you talk to them. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How do I pass this shit testEverything’s a skill and you absolutely need cocky banter to pull certain types of girls so you’re either not pulling/closing/approaching enough hot girls anymore or you aren’t getting out of your comfort zone to find 9s+ If you approach more legit 9s or 10s then you’ll constantly get shit tested no matter what. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeGood women also fall for known corrupt politicians. Millions of evangelical women chose Trump over Biden despite the overwhelming evidence of him having a disgusting character compared to Biden. Tens of millions of women chose trump over Biden and support him to this day. There’s no such thing as being tricked to be with someone for *decades.* These men show who they are, women just choose to ignore it because no one’s publicly humiliating their man just yet, so they enjoy the benefits knowing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Those experienced, do you ever just know how the interaction is going to go based on her looks alone?You can gain baseline insights from looks alone. Now, after this baseline has been established from her looks (just like YOU’ve already predetermined how you’d interact based on your perception of her), that’s where your comments come in. The point of gaining experience is that you gain so much skill that a glance alone gives you valuable insight. Whether it’s lack of experience with that type, or a new experience from that type, the “not having an idea of how an interaction goes” is more due to… | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 06:27 PM |
| 8 | I broke down infront of my GF and i want to win her respect backOP broke down in front of his gf and described himself as a beta male. Pretty sure he doesn’t have the balls to do it, and he also knows that his “alpha male” friend will punk on him if he insults him like that in public. Best thing would be to cut the friend off so OP can have time to work on himself a bit. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is this really all bar/club game is?You aren’t gonna lay in her if you take her to the corner in the small club and makeout bc it doesn’t matter. If she was worried about her friends, she’s still going to be worried about them and if her friends see that it’s game over for you. Now if you’re talking of holding off on making out to get her out of there, then yeah. And even then, you gotta probe her receptiveness beyond grinding before trying to get her out of there. It’s nuanced but taking her to a corner in the club changes nothin… | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Is this really all bar/club game is?When you say making out in public it feels like trying to kiss a girl you know in front of her friends. That’s different from night game. Girls at nightclubs are there to have fun and aren’t really thinking of some random guy after that night for the most part. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Is this really all bar/club game is?Dude it’s the club. If she wants to kiss you in the heat of the moment she will. Trying to take her to a corner can backfire. I do agree with the not getting her number immediately though bc she can be more inclined to f then and there as opposed to viewing you as a later f. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Is this really all bar/club game is?Lmao “chances later” Both of you are drunk and the club is semi-dark at night, wether or not you go in front and ask her if she wants to dance, she still won’t remember you the next day. Both of you went there to dance and have fun, not to look for your next wife/husband at a nightclub. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:26 PM |
| 17 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.I’ve seen this exact same story a couple of times on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Just feel absolutely shit…Yeah after drinking my mind wasn’t that cleanly sharp too, unless you always went sober the whole time. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Just feel absolutely shit…I don’t think you did *thousandS\* of approaches at the club but I get what you mean. We’re saying two slightly different things to begin with and both are correct. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 09:23 AM |
| 3 | What's your default opener for situations where there isn't enough time to think and take in to account unique circumstances?Telling a woman long day right? can be double edged lol. I use that and it gets me responses although not always the type you expect lmao. Had a woman straight up tell me not to point that out, I’m smooth so I still took her out close by 5mins later but refined my opener after that😅 | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:49 AM |
| 3 | What's your default opener for situations where there isn't enough time to think and take in to account unique circumstances?9/10 times that first line won’t lead to a date with a stranger lol. It’s definitely not a closer much less an opener. Your edit though, is a good opener that should work for other guys, although I never use that and have a 100% success rate with getting 100s of numbers. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Just feel absolutely shit…You don’t go to night clubs to talk man or collect contacts. You go to have fun, for THAT specific night. It’s specifically called a nightclub and everyone’s drunk in there to even remember shit unless you both wake up tgt the next morning. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:35 AM |
| -7 | Field Report #3Dude you’re treating this sub like your own personal diary, which is not ideal. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 06:35 PM |
| 15 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceIt’s not always true that the fattest man at work has the hottest girlfriend btw, and if he does, he’s probably working with lowly guys himself. I agree with your overall point. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 11:05 AM |
| 4 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?Well when you go in with the fear of unintentionally creeping her out then you’ve already creeped her out to begin with. Approaching a girl thinking about creeping her out is what actually makes her creeped out. Same thing with rejection. If you approach and have already self rejected yourself before even opening your mouth then you can’t expect to not be rejected. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:50 PM |
| 5 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?Yes. We see those posts all the time from them. “Hi guys what do I do I’m so scared of blinking near women bc I’m scared of being called a creep!” If you’re afraid of whatever about women, then you’re a little kid. Once you learn to overcome those fears and become confident when doing so, you’re now a big dawg. Women aren’t aliens. They are people with sexual needs just like everyone else. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:04 PM |
| 7 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?There’s no such thing as creepy. There’s only socially adjusted/calibrated vs uncalibrated. Sex is creepy. Expressing sexual intent is not creepy as long as you’re smooth with it and know how to do it right ur. All this creep creep label is what girls use to scare the little kids away. The big dawgs aren’t afraid of the creepy label or being rejected by women. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Why do women in clubs are so unpredictible?You wasted one hour with a girl before trying to take her to dance, then did the same thing again with another girl but this time you spent 30mins with her without moving past the dance stage and she got bored of doing the same erotic dance after 30 straight minutes. Women aren’t that unpredictable, but when you are the type to say why do women xyz after 2 interactions in the same night then I can see why you would think like that. Up your skills. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Gym imbalenceWhat’s up with all this pre-selection crap going on by beta guys? Y’all in here have a long list of things to worry about before taking on yet another stupid yeah bc you don’t want to work in the fundamentals to get to where you want to be. | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Daygame approachingYou can build enough comfort within 30 seconds if there’s already a baked in familiarity with the location that you two are in and you already have baked in status. I’ve literally had lots of girls walked up to me and before they get to where I am I’ve already decided if I’ll f# them so I already open myself up for them to instantly entice and lead me to immediate sex. I’ve also approached girls that before even opening my mouth to say hi, they’ve already decided to f# me right on the spot and t… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:15 PM |
| 3 | The Magic PillYou can’t really be giving advice when your success rate has stayed consistently abysmal. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Date High Quality WomenHow does “all rugby players being buffed” have anything to do with this? Also, being buffed doesn’t automatically mean that you will be a good rugby player. Going out of your comfort zone to talk to the beautiful girls you’re attracted to is a necessary step in and of itself. You can’t be a millionaire if you refuse to take a step to make money. Changing your diet and getting out of bed is an achievement in an of itself that is a first step to losing weight. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Date High Quality WomenThat’s not what the OP is saying. They’re saying that for the guys who whine, go out of your comfort zone to get what you want. You can’t keep remaining in your comfort zone eating chips and hot Cheetos on your bed while whining that you’re overweight. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 09:44 AM |
| 0 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedThose are not different scenarios, those are literally what OP said, maybe you finally realized that your 100% AI-generated comments weren’t the correct thing to do after I called you out on it, and your last comment that I’m replying to does suggest you do know how to write in English even if it’s not your first language. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedHe told her he had to go get some stuff for the company and she said “what’d you get some condoms?,” asking him if he’s going to get some condoms while also touching him and making strong eye contact with him. Saying “you’re just joking” after making sexual comments or physical advances doesn’t fly. He needs to nip it in the bud immediately. Him waiting to let her keep touching him while making direct strong eye contact with him and asking him if he’s going to get condoms at a store, letting tha… | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedThere’s no more direct signal than touching someone and asking them if you should get condoms from the store. Him trying to get her to “text him consent” is even worse. it could feel like OP would interrogate the 18 year old than “to set boundaries” with your suggestion. Telling someone to stop it is not an interrogation. You are not interrogating or even asking. You are simply telling them to drop it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedThere’s no way asking him about getting condoms from the store is “her way of feeling comfortable around you like close knit friends.” If a guy said it would you say the same thing? Especially when they are also touching you and stuff. He should either tell her to stop it or escalate for her to stop it or move forward with it. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 10:37 PM |
| 3 | The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural MenThat 3 days break is still going to come at some point anyways, and if she was wet yesterday then today she suddenly became extremely dry today and for more days then it wasn’t going to last long either. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | i just can't man i just can'tSeduction works when the other party makes it easier for you. If the other party is making it harder, then you’re getting farther from your goal of seducing btw. The issue wasn’t the initial talk from girl to girl w him nearby. The issue was the bump afterwards. First one the girl could be like yeah, second one (the bump) was what ended the conversation. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 09:26 PM |
| 3 | i just can't man i just can'tShe wasn’t direct enough. Her friend was there and it’s a public setting. He could turn to interject their conversation and get burned for it by the girl. Anyone can say anything in a public space and it doesn’t mean that a guy should interject whether they notice it or not. This is some double sided shit girls play. There’s the manners that don’t interject other people’s conversations so if she wanted to be direct she would’ve faced the guy and said whatever she said for him to know that she wa… | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 08:33 PM |
| 3 | i just can't man i just can'tTbf she was not direct. She was with her friend and it should be interpreted that way. The bump afterwards though but even then it’s still indirect. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How to be more fun and charismatic?Saying charismatic people tie their self worth to the attention they get is some shit on em copium to make non-charismatic people feel better, especially when it’s the non-charismatic folks that are posting left and right about how to be charismatic. Not saying it’s a bad thing and there’s a difference between charisma and narcissism btw as it’s all on a spectrum. Some of those guys faked it till they made it so there’s nothing wrong with faking it to start. The OP is competing with the charisma… | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:36 AM |
| 0 | How exactly do you handle LMR for women who activate their 'anti-slut defense' before sexIf it’s a last minute resistance, you’re right that there’s something on her mind that’s making her feel not quite there yet - safety or comfort thing. Asking her directly won’t open her up. Once the words “what’s wrong” leaves your mouth in that moment m, she’s going to instinctively go into even more asd mode. Also sitting down to listen in the last minute is the last thing you want to do bc it’s not going to lead to sex in that moment. There are healthier ways to make her feel safe with you i… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Does the after party ploy really work?That hardly works for parties. Most girls either drank during or before a party, asking em to go with you right after a party for a bite/coffee/cocktail almost never works except in our heads, for many reasons, including the fact that she doesn’t know you. If she’s down to shag right now she’s not going to want to waste her time with all that shit we think sounds cool (and usually the ratio of guys are more so there’ll be a more confident guy in the crowd). If she’s open for dating she probably … | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 11:43 PM |
| 18 | Just A Little Tip For Anyone Who Doesn’t Know…..Never do this. Never comes across well and never ends well. Not sure why anyone gets in a fight either. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches.Brother cited Forbes as a research source lmao (I might as well cite Vogue and The Sun for my own evidence as well), then dodged the fact that he’s never left the friendzone after accepting it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches.Don’t wanna be that guy, you saw so seems like it’s not been the case for you after never turning down being (essentially) friendzoned in the hopes of turning the friendship into some relationship. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches.If it’s someone ik who’s trying to sell me the Toyota, I can see them saying or implying that. I can also see the other person in dating feeling disgusting when the “be friends” shit is offered. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Is anyone else sitting on hundreds of matches on dating sites with women out of the country but getting no love locally?100s of spam matches. FTFY. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How to learn texting womenWhat reputation. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How to learn texting womenWho cares about their group chat lmao. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you think she knew I was trying to ask her out?She knew, and her response says she views you in the friendzone. Move on. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 04:26 PM |
| 11 | What do you talk about on first dates?If both party listens, then who talks? Gotta find a middle common ground. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:31 PM |
| -3 | I left my date because she wants me to payI’ve dated across all races. If they’re programmed to “not pay based on culture,” then it’s up to you if you want to date that. As for country by country, you might have a point, but it’s up to you if you’re looking for a girl to take care of since some cultures demand that but I’m not referring to places were the cultures demand such. Regardless of culture, confidence absolutely has to do with it. If you set your standards of who you want to date then that’s what you want. If you have money and… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 10:22 PM |
| -1 | I left my date because she wants me to payI’ve gone on many hot dates, and every one of them have been either split the pay or they pay for me. At least 8 out of every 9 times they spend more on me than I have on them and I’ve had times where I jokingly wrestle with girls on who pays lmao and she forces to pay for her drink. If you have self respect and self esteem and they see that, they’ll respect you and pull their weight bc they actually want to impress you and show you that they’re not like other girls, but if you don’t, then they’… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.How many times did your gf do that before the first kiss? For every anecdotal story like yours, there are 30 other instances of girls hoping you would get the hint of refusing your advances while taking advantage of the free restaurants you take her to. A girl not even willing to chip in anything or split the bill after the 5th date while silently turning you down should be another sign of your self respect slipping. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 03:59 PM |
| 20 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.“Vibe isn’t right” but she keeps going out w you. If she knows the vibe isn’t right after the 5th or 6th date then one of you needs to cut the other loose. If she’s still “shy/scared” after the 5th or 6th date then cut her loose. If she’s scared of you then she shouldn’t be coming back to you after each date. No need to let a trick with “it’ll happen later or sooner” trick bc it’ll never happen and she’ll laugh about you later. You’ll be on the 12th and 13th date of buying her free food while sh… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 08:52 AM |
| 0 | Drop the act guys.No girl ever calls “hey I was manipulating you” sexy. There’s no universe where telling someone that you used or manipulated them will ever come off as being sexy. Overall the advices in this specific thread are horrible AF. If you’re a guy, please, IGNORE ANY ADVICE IN THIS THREAD. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Drop the act guys.No girl ever calls “hey I was manipulating you” sexy. There’s no universe where telling someone that you used or manipulated them will ever come off as being sexy. Overall the advices in this specific thread are horrible AF. If you’re a guy, please, IGNORE ANY ADVICE IN THIS THREAD. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Most men are confused even “successful” ones who post hereWhy can’t the girl also express their feelings to every guy they like? That type of pressure on the guy does not work for confident guys, that’s not how they roll. Most girls also make guys do the dance for their own entertainment and ego boost “I got it.” Not everyone is looking to build partners with every dating prospect. Sometimes men or women just wanna have fun without allat seriousness. Showing women “that you’re different” or something “that other men haven’t shown her” can also come off… | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?He’s mature and not interested in being a validation tool for her as “friends” when she knows he’s into her. How would you feel if your gf keeps male orbiters as “friends”? Or if your bf is keeping “friends” of girls that have told him that they want a romantic relationship with him? | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next?I dislike all this “no sex on first couple of dates” or no sex ___ nonsense. It’s all bozos and culture specific and sometimes you just hit it off the chart on the first date. You may have also had a long standing relationship before you two went on your first date. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 5 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?Take it offline at this point. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sI asked so you could be specific about what you want from this conversation. Were you talking about what you do/say to women when you approach (smell good, try to show them that you’re intellectual and to tell them how well traveled you are using your verbal game, etc)? Were you telling me that to compare yourself to other guys? Were you telling me about yourself to critique what you’re doing right/wrong or what you can work on? I’m asking you to provide clarity on what you meant/want from this … | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sIs that how you approach women listing all your content about why she should choose you and do you live your life by looking at and comparing yourself to other guys Mr fit westernized too intellectual Indian male? | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 03:29 PM |
| 6 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sLooks gets you a lot more than that a few mins of “fame”. I’ve NEVER had a girl reject when I approach and never had a girl not give me their contact info when I asked. In fact these days, girls are the ones always first to ask for my name and contact info, unless I want them that’s when I ask (I usually strike the convo smiling and whatnot while giving them the opportunity to ask me out). “Content of” the man does NOT matter as much. Any guy working on their content to get a girl is insecure ab… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:13 PM |
| 3 | how do i get over fumbling 10sYou buy roses too soon for them. I wouldn’t do that until we both explicitly know that we’re into each other. You’re also planning too many wayyy exclusive or non-inexpensive things for them. Need to pipe down a bit on that. You’re too mesmerized by how awesome they look, up to seeming like a fan to them that is shocked to meet their highness, they sense insecurity when you put them on an insane pedestal, gotta knock that down a notch. When you always have it at the back of your mind that you’re… | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Response to common questions that women ask?You’re the one overanalyzing why he wondered why she asked that question lol. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Response to common questions that women ask?She’s the one who brought up the question, not the OP, so OP is allowed to question why. If a guy brought up the question to their female coworker, they’ll also think the same thing of why. He’s taken, and if she knows he’s taken then this new coworker has no business asking her taken coworker if men at least want to cheat. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 02:21 AM |
| 10 | its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late?Societal backlash have kind of made people feel old quickly, like you should freeze in time and never catch up or do anything about it. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose OutSome people are just legit nice, and it’s okay or not okay for girls to do what they want with that, wether it is to be repulsed by that behavior, to take advantage of the situation as either the guy or the girl could take advantage of it, or to find comfort in such behavior knowing that they are not a threat and all. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Men who have dated/hooked up with older women, how was it and how can I go about connecting with some?Funny how reception changes based on the gender. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 04:54 PM |
| 3 | How does one ask out a serverChill brother. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 07:45 PM |
| 92 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?Being rich and handsome could overshadow charisma in certain cases. A shy but rich and handsome guy could pull in lots of bitches that charismatic people work to get. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 03:17 AM |
| 28 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?OP could be asking bc he’s curious but while the OP is insecure, even the most charismatic billionaires wonder why a certain pretty girl is with an unattractive broke bum. Also we don’t know if the guy’s inauthentically living his life. He could be an asshat that makes this one girl his whole rollercoasting life filled with insecurities. It isn’t abnormal for someone to wonder why a certain pretty girl is with a woman abuser. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What truly attracts womenFucking is different from getting. Usually it’s being at the right place right time. Those plumbers are usually just filling the wife’s fantasies and it ain’t got much to do with game or the plumbers themselves. Those guys are the perfect excuse for the wife to get what she’s missing without the husband noticing. Bringing random guys on camera is more suspicious than a plumber that naturally comes over to do their job. And also guys that rich are more narcissistic than they’re simps. They didn’t… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 5 | What truly attracts womenRight. They get attracted to these rich guys for the money, then find out that these guys ain’t got no time for them so they take out their sexual frustration on the lucky plumber. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 06:45 PM |
| 16 | What truly attracts womenThat crap isn’t for people that’re actually getting the chicks bc they know what’s up. Men also want to be around women who are moving forward in their lives and many women have no idea wtf is going on. It’s funny you say that money doesn’t attract women, then also say that women leave because the guy was broke playing video games all day. Saying that there’s no “direct relationship” between being rich and getting women, bc if that were the case every rich guy would have an amazing dating life, … | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 01:35 PM |
| 7 | What truly attracts womenThe nice guys were never rich to begin with. And the banging of broke guys by other non-rich girls is also temporary. I ain’t seeing no rich woman give up her life to go bang some broke prison bottom feeder with no car just yet. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 01:15 PM |
| 9 | When she says "you're very forward" is that good or badCold approaching a random stranger to ask if they’re single wouldn’t do you any favors either, unless you’re Chris Hemsworth in which case you won’t need to cold approach either. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 05:33 AM |
| 3 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?Respond with …, respond with …, but sir, what should they say? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Oneitis won’t let me enjoy other girlsI do all of these generally but wanted to hear your thoughts. I never seek validation from anyone and always get unwanted validation from a lot of people around me both men and women. I never put anyone on a pedestal ever, wether it’s a man, a woman, or a man child, but I’m a very verbally and behaviorally expressive person so I do communicate my feelings and act on it all the time, and I always have an inner circle of men and women, 70% women and 30% men bc men can be jealous and try to sabotag… | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis won’t let me enjoy other girlsWhat are ways to address each one of these underlying causes? | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Why KINO is the Difference Between the Friendzone and AttractionAnytime I stumble on a Reddit sub on stuff like this people always shit on things that actually work, like the one guy that said he “never actually touches a woman until the bedroom,” like, why would a woman follow you to your bedroom if you haven’t given them any indications of your intentions? That’s legit more creepy than giving light touches. “This guy didn’t touch me at all throughout my interactions w him but somehow wants me to go w him into his bedroom…” what a creep. Unless we’re dealin… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 12:39 AM |
| 6 | How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy?He can change her mind about how needy he is by not being needy and acting nonchalant but it doesn’t seem he’ll do that in this situation. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:27 AM |
| 9 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)It’s possible if they’re in places or professions that allows them to meet new people constantly, although I’m with you on this one. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downYes but at the same time not everyone has to or will fit into your description of what women want or see in their relationships. There’s the vanilla description which is yours and many other long term relationships outside this realm. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Blocking vs. Disengaging: What’s the Best Move for Self-Respect and Attraction?Blocking is not an ego stroke and it’s as much an ego stroke for her to ignore as it is for you to block them. It also helps your sanctity. If she ignores you (functionally the same as blocking since she doesn’t open your texts) then I don’t see any reason not to reciprocate. You blocking her has nothing to do w her caring, but more to do w if you care and want someone that ghosts/ignores you to never contact you again/remind you of them. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:11 PM |
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