| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | What to follow up with upon rejection? | BrandoPB | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 04:07 AM | |
| 5 | A stupid, but maybe helpful, little epiphany I had the other day... | BrandoPB | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 08:35 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Probably never even crossed her mind...Try reading it like this, “His name... is Employment.” | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/06/19 06:32 AM |
| 13 | How To Walk Into A Bar This Weekend?Confident as fuck? Sounds like desperate as fuck. I get where you’re coming from OP, but it doesn’t work like this in real life. Atleast where I’m from, bars are slam packed and loud. Have a short, meaningless conversation with 10 girls? Too bad, they’re already gone to another bar or someone else has already swooped them up. My success (and I’ve had a good amount of it) has always come from honing in on one girl. I see a girl at a bar, I’m gonna sit down next to her, then start up a meaningful … | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder guys: Don’t ghost on women you had sex withFunny. I hooked up with a girl this weekend. After she went home I didn’t even text her or ask if she got home safe. The next day I had a, “Holy shit I’m an asshole”, moment of clarity where I realized how many times I’ve done this to girls. I immediately texted her. If I find a girl attractive, but not necessarily have an interest in pursuing I’ll typically do this unintentionally. It’s pretty fucked up. Like someone else mentioned it’s not worth having a loose cannon and have this girl run aro… | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | My dating experience as a short guyI'm 5'7" and pretty muscular. Holy shit I can never find shirts that fit right. They need a size in between medium and large. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Fragrance at a clubNot trying to be an ass, but I didn't even know people continued to purchase that shit after they hit puberty. Just never buy Axe or any of those cheap "sprays". Be a man and buy something classy. Doesn't need to be overpriced. One-night stand, night out with the friends, dinner with mom, it doesn't matter -- just give yourself a good smell. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Fragrance at a clubAXE? Are you kidding me, dude? Women aren't attracted to cheap smells and if they recognize that it is in-fact a cheap fragrance, then it's probably a turn off. Just go to Hollister or Abercrombie and get something that smells good. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 02:20 AM |
| 2 | The Truth About Bottle ServiceI've always thought paying obscene amounts of cash for a table and bottle service is so fucking stupid. If you can afford it then I get it, but my game is just fine table or not. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Haven't seen this tip on here, so I'll share it with y'all: Take girls on dates in the rainHow romantic it must be to NOT live in CA. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 12:27 AM |
| 3 | How are sexual desire and Emotional needyness intertwined?Hey man, I only know this because it's happened to me. I thought I could fill that lonely void with sex (with people I'm not interested in), but once you orgasm you're just back at square one. Look at it this way -- it shows you that your heart really wants love and a relationship rather than lust. Lusting and casual sex isn't a bad thing at all, but sometimes it blinds us from our true desires. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 03:38 AM |
| 10 | How are sexual desire and Emotional needyness intertwined?Also, you'd be surprised how feeding that "sexual thirst" and finally getting laid will still leave you feeling lonely and empty inside. Sex isn't always the cure for emotional neediness. I think that's the point he's making at least... | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What is your go to sex music/mix? (playful)Pixies | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How to game without a place of your own?I feel for ya man -- it sucks. I know this might sound lame, but go out and do some scouting in your car. Drive around your town and check out places you could take a girl after a nice night out. There is this hillside overlooking my town and I've boned in my car twice there. Some girls might even think of it as voyeuristic or romantic as well. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are girls so different the next day?Girls get off to flirting and receiving attention. | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Kissless virgin with a solid shot - No idea what I'm doingI've literally used the line, "Hey, can I kiss you?", countless times and it's fool-proof. It's "cute" and shows assertiveness at the same time. | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 09:14 AM |
| 5 | German guys numberclose girls and ask them afterwards what they think about being approached. Their answers motivate me so much to go out there and approachSame. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 12:29 AM |
| 5 | German guys numberclose girls and ask them afterwards what they think about being approached. Their answers motivate me so much to go out there and approachSame. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 12:29 AM |
| 10 | When do you stop texting if delayed/no response?metally retarded Dude, head banging is no joke. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Had a great date with a girl last night. Surprises me with a text today saying she isn't interested in me. What did I do wrong? What can I do from here?I would send her a big basket of flowers with a note asking her to go out with me again. Oh man, please don't. Have some dignity. She was blatant about her not wanting a second "date" and would rather just be friends. It sucks man I know, but you should be VERY grateful that she's so straight forward about it. From experience I can tell you that it's much worse when a girl is wishy-washy and leads you on even when she has no interest. The sooner you stop talking to her, the easier it'll be to mo… | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | A stupid, but maybe helpful, little epiphany I had the other day...Could be true, but I think you'd be surprised. The whole "waiting a certain amount of time to text back" game is actually really common. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 2 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Awesome read! What're your plans/goals now? Going back to college? Find a job and work up from there? | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 06:41 PM |
| 4 | The 5 Rules of Self-ConfidenceOr maybe you've just been so accustomed to lying that it doesn't have an effect on you. This probably isn't healthy. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 06:53 AM |
| 9 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear? | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first strip club last night.Not bad. I'd just like to see if the pictures and making out keep coming if you stop giving her business. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first strip club last night.So did you get a date? | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How to listen?I have the same problem because I'm pretty socially anxious. I think I'm focusing on what they're saying, but in reality all my focus is on what I'm going to say in return. Don't try to formulate responses while they're speaking, they'll come naturally. Look up articles and videos on how to really listen to someone speaking to you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I am 5'5" short, bald, and at best have an average looking baby face. I get pushed out of promotional photos in bars and shit. I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men. I do not know how to accept this.I'm a 5'7" baby-faced male, so I understand where you are coming from. I always get the, "OMG! You're so adorable! Meet my daughter!" from the moms in the bars and I'd often ask myself, "Why aren't the women my age hitting on me the same way?". So I stepped back, assessed the situation and realized how absolute SHIT my personality was. The negative thoughts of me being short and baby-faced really clouded my "person" as a whole. So before you start being so hard on yourself about your looks, trul… | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 05:28 AM |
| 2 | I am 5'5" short, bald, and at best have an average looking baby face. I get pushed out of promotional photos in bars and shit. I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men. I do not know how to accept this.I have been told otherwise. Over, and over again. In what context? Like, when you're in a bar and hitting on someone? Or a friend will tell you that you aren't attractive? | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 04:43 AM |
| 3 | I am 5'5" short, bald, and at best have an average looking baby face. I get pushed out of promotional photos in bars and shit. I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men. I do not know how to accept this.What the hell, man? You look great. I don't know why people would be pushing you out of promo pics. I think your best bet is to keep a full beard and shave your head bald. Hit the weights if you currently aren't. EDIT: Your best look is in the pics with the grey shirt. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I am 5'5" short, bald, and at best have an average looking baby face. I get pushed out of promotional photos in bars and shit. I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men. I do not know how to accept this.Super curious as to what you looks like, OP. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 04:06 AM |
| 2 | For the first date, she asked me to change the venue to a bar closer to where she lives.None of the above. Lots of traffic where you live? Was the original location foreign to her? She probably just wants to feel comfortable knowing she's close to home. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Should I give up?I have a 3 time rule. If she bails on plans a third time I say ditch her. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Read This If You're Scaredwould you want to receive help from someone who’s life is falling apart I'm not trying to call you out on bullshit or anything, but I'd really love to hear your story. Did you turn your life around or have you always been a confident person? Was there some life altering experience you had or did you slowly chisel away at your problems? Most of the time I feel like good posts like these come from the most broken of people because they know it the best. | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 08:06 PM |
| 26 | Welp, I'm finally leaving guys. It's been fun. Here's what I learned.This sub can really drag a person down too. They'll read and read and think they're bettering themselves, but they're not. They're preparing themselves, but not bettering. So when things go wrong for this person what do they do? They'll head back to this sub for shelter. | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 12:06 AM |
| 8 | First date handbookSit next to her I laughed so hard when I read this. | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | A few write-ups from my blog for those looking for inspiration.Different strokes for different folks, totally understand what you mean! It's more of me just conveying my thoughts and if people feel the same way I do it'll remind them that they aren't alone. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 02:36 AM |
| 1 | A few write-ups from my blog for those looking for inspiration.Then you should keep reading :) Cast out, some will bite and some won’t. I’ve sat in my boat and watched far too many pretty fish swim on by, but never had the courage to throw out my line. That's more of the point I was trying to get across and what you quoted was me expressing how I feel at times. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Can someone PLEASE help me with kinoSpeaking of kino, are there any games that you can play that involves you touching her hands or something of the sort? | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I went for itRegardless of what people say on here rejection will hurt more or less. You'll get over it soon and the next girl you come across will lie whole new potential. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What to follow up with upon rejection?Thanks for these. Great response. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Meeting girls was too easy in Europe. Now I have AA.I appreciate the elaborate response. Yeah, if I'm traveling it'll be with another friend. We'd obviously check out sites, but mainly I wanna travel for scenic hikes, chilling at the beach, exploring towns, and hitting up the night life. I have a sense of wanderlust and the idea of exploring with minimal luggage and just going with the flow has always appealed to me. EDIT: Mind if I ask what kinda traveling you've done? | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Meeting girls was too easy in Europe. Now I have AA.Kinda off topic, but can you tell me more about hostels? Are they dirty? Expensive? Is it weird sleeping in a room with a bunch of random strangers? I wanna travel Europe as well. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell if a flirty girl is into you?Seems as if OP already has enough isolation as he has no way of contacting her. | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 04:05 AM |
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