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It does? First time I'm hearing this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:28 PM
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This was MY experience. I was sexually assaulted. And a lot of women have had these experiences, so it's relevant. In your original comment you seemed confused as to why women say we get sexually harassed but also say we don't get propositioned a lot. I'm giving you an example of someone (me) who has been sexually harrassed and sexually assaulted, but also doesn't get propositioned a lot. Unattractive women who get mostly ignored by men still get sexually harrassed and assaulted, because a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:58 AM
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No, they don't. I'm an average woman and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:48 AM
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Um, yeah. I would consider sexually assaulting an underage girl to be the "wrong" kind of male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:45 AM
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Well, the truth is not all women have. But even though I rarely get cat called or propositioned, I've still been sexually assaulted. Most women have had some kind of negative experience, even if men ignore them most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:44 AM
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Where I live it is not common at all. I rarely get complimented and never get approached in the street. This just doesn't happen to women as often as men think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:41 AM
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Healthiest? A woman is probably more fertile at a 22 BMI than a 19 BMI, which is borderline underweight. This 19-21 BMI ideal is really more of a modern thing. Plump was actually considered more attractive than skinny was 100 years ago. Pre-skinny model era you can see that a lot of the women were curvy and plump. Not fat, but a bit plump. My BMI is currently around 21, which I feel is healthiest for me, but at my lowest weight I was around 20 and I actually started to lose my period then. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:00 PM
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Hate is a strong word. I don't hate individual men. I'm wary of men as a group and have some resentment from past experiences. I'm also angry at the way some men treat women. But it's not just men. Everyone pisses me off. I don't even like most women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:57 AM
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I'm just fine but nice try at being condescending. Nothing wrong with not liking men. It keeps me safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:38 AM
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That description applies to me (at least the not fat, piercings and tattoos part) but I still don't like men lmao. I think that's just a stereotype. Attractive women still have to deal with sexual harassment and assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:44 AM
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I would not date an MRA. I think MRAs are more likely to hate or be aggressive towards women than feminists are towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:42 AM
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Some men consider beautiful women like Margot Robbie to be average. I don't trust men's definition of "average". Men have just as high standards as women. Particularly when it comes to the female body. Sorry, but I don't sympathise with men complaining about women having high standards while shaming women with "loose" genitals, as if that has anything to do with sex and not genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:40 AM
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Emma Stone is very pretty but she's not sexy. I guess that's why some men might rate her lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:30 AM
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How is that homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:27 AM
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Men are more unreasonable than women lmao. Don't even know what the hell you're talking about here. Women have more impulse control than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:59 AM
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Ew. No. Men are hottest in the early to mid 20s. Are you a woman? Men do not peak at 35-45. This is such a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:46 PM
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There is not much difference physically between a 24 year old and a 27 year old. Why is the cut off at 25? This is such a made up statistic. The range is probably more like 18 to 32. Same as men. Could men even tell the difference between a 24 and a 27 year old if they didn't know their ages? I get more attention now as a 26 year old than I did when I was in my early 20s. My body has become more womanly. Also, who said men are most attractive at 25 to early 30s? Who said that? Men? Men's testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:44 PM
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Emma Stone is much better looking than Ryan Gosling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:22 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:22 PM
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Lol. Just go to a gym. There's plenty of guys there way hotter than Ryan Gosling 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:21 PM
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No, it's just that men are terrible at judging what women find attractive. Literally no woman I know would consider Ryan Gosling a "babe". I could go to the gym and spot ten guys more attractive than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:19 PM
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You are a perfect example of why I say men have high standards. I'd love to see what you look like. Post a picture of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:17 PM
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Doesn't mean they will try to hard to please me or that I will have an orgasm from that encounter. It's not a privilege to get sex if the sex is bad. And women orgasm way less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:25 AM
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Men do not have realistic standards compared to women. The vast majority of men find larger labias unattractive despite the fact that larger labias are completely normal and common in women and have nothing to do with how much sex a woman has had. Almost half of men also require women to have completely shaved vulvas. Men call beautiful women average (Margot Robbie etc). Men are mainly attracted to pear or hourglass shaped figures despite the fact that only 28% of women have hourglass/pear shape…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:00 AM
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Most women would also rather be alone than with someone they think doesn't find them attractive. Men bullying women's physical appearance makes women less likely to want to have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:51 AM
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Out of all of them I'd choose B because he's around my age and into fitness. C is the most facially attractive to me but he's 10 years too old and also too skinny/beta looking. A is fine but tbh I'm not that into Asian guys (some are really cute though).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:44 AM
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B is the least nerdiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:41 AM
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I don't think we are. Anger is an emotion. Pretty much all of the biggest drama queens in my family are the men. You don't know how emotional men can be until you've experienced your brother drunk and threatening people with a sword. You're conflating being sensitive and empathetic with being emotional. I'm sensitive and empathetic, but I'm not outwardly emotional. In fact, I'm quite a stoic person. Men and women express their emotions in different ways. Women arguably express our emotions in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:04 AM
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You go ahead. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:57 AM
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Also, what exactly do women gain from being younger and getting more male attention? I think it's funny that men think women value sexual attention from old farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:54 AM
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Why don't men start advocating for those ages to be raised then? Why do women have to do everything for men? You're actually confused as to why women would care about women's issues more than men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:50 AM
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The difference is that none of those women want to rape or kill men. I get why Western men might be annoyed with how many women are obese these days, but at least most women are still generally decent. There are entire communities of young men who constantly whinge about how terrible and digusting women are. It's not the same. And a lot of men are also out of shape and don't take great care of their appearance in addition to being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:39 AM
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Their personalities are not desirable. Many women give less conventionally attractive guys a chance if they have nice personalities. A lot of unattractive guys also have unattractive personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:29 AM
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If a man does not go down on a woman or try to please her in other ways, he is not attracted to that woman. No amount of hair is going to stop a man who is truly horny for a woman. I find it funny how men are always going on about their sex drives being so high, yet they act like a bunch of babies when it comes to going down? That's gay shit. You are not a high sex drive male if pubic hair scares you. You are merely a porn addict who craves women to sooth your ego. You don't see gay men complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:15 AM
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If men were into oral sex, they would give it. I'm not asking because if I have to ask, that means the guy is not into it. It's embarrassing and pathetic to have to ask for oral. If he doesn't go down immediately, I'm leaving that sexual encounter. Selfish men can fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:58 AM
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You were just shaming women before about smell and hair and now you wonder why women don't speak up and ask? Are you serious right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:53 AM
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Why should we have to ask? Men would just do it if they were into it. No woman wants to feel like she has to pressure a guy to do something. It makes us feel undesirable. A man who is truly attracted to a woman won't hesitate to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:51 AM
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No. Men who require pussies to be completely shaved are men who aren't into eating pussy in the first place. Men need to be into it for it to be good. Why don't you shave your balls and handle any bad smells YOU have? Dick and balls are way more disgusting than vulvas. Imagine a gay man whining about dick smell and hair. Gay men don't care because they love sucking dick Straight men like this are so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:49 AM
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I'm average attractiveness and I rarely get approached so it's not true to say that women don't have to approach. Men don't seem to approach anymore these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:27 AM
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Why do men on here have such a warped sense of how women view themselves? Most women do not think they are super attractive and actually have lower self-esteems than men do. It's men who are the ones who tend to overrate their attractiveness, not women. Most women don't walk around thinking "I'm so hot, I could approach any guy I want and they wouldn't reject me". At least my case, I already don't approach men out of fear of rejection. I've been told by men my whole life that I'm not beautiful e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:21 AM
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No, it's not. It's lack of foreplay, oral, etc. That's why lesbians orgasm more than straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:57 PM
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This is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:55 PM
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The man doing it just because he feels he has to rather than because it's something he actually enjoys is what stresses some women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:53 PM
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Yet men still perform oral less than women and oral on women is one of men's least favourite porn categories. And we also rarely see it in male created movies and TV shows. I would go so far as to say that there is a conspiracy against it by society. The reality is that most men are not that into it. They only claim to be into it. Also, the reason women are bad at communicating is because men have made women fearful of speaking up. Women feel that it's their duty to please the man. Women have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:40 PM
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Why do they perform oral less if that's the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:35 PM
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Only to get off. Not attracted enough to bother getting the woman off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:26 PM
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No, men are more picky when it comes to body types. Men mainly want hourglass and to a lesser extent pear shaped women. Skinny and chubby are not body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:24 PM
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But men have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:45 AM
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And men call beautiful women "average". Men are the ones with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:56 AM
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Probably cause they were sick of their husband's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:54 AM
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That's why it's not a privilege that women are able to get sex easier. Men will literally have sex with women they're barely attracted to and they won't try hard to please her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:53 AM
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Are most men sexually attracted to their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:47 AM
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You said all women. There are millions of women who have not experienced this when they were 10-12 and I'm one of them. Maybe it's a bigger problem in the USA than where I live. Catcalling is uncommon where I live as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:10 PM
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No, not all women. Not me. I didn't notice any sexual attention until I was well over 18. Guys were just never interested. I had an incident when I was a very young child that I'd rather not mention, but if we're talking about men creeping on teens and pre-teens, I never experienced this. I guess I was not attractive enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:21 AM
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Um, maybe early 20s if I'm not counting an incident I had as a child. I'm very surprised that almost all women seem to say in their teens. I never experienced any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:14 AM
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It is men though. Lesbians have more orgasms because they do oral and manual more. If men focused on the clit more instead of pumping and dumping, women would have more orgasms. But men aren't as into oral as lesbians are. "Female orgasm is more comparable..." Why do people keep spouting this BS? You're not a woman. How would you know what a female orgasm feels like compared to a male orgasm? That ridiculous screaming you hear in porn is fake, and as a woman, most orgasms just feel like regular …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:17 AM
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I think it's just that sex with men is often dissappointing for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:15 AM
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Heterosexual sex is mainly geared towards men's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:14 AM
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That's not true. Men usually only find hourglass or pear shaped bodies attractive. A lot of women are pear shaped, but most women are rectangle shaped and very few women are hourglass shaped. Women need to have curves to have a "nice" body. A lot of women don't have curves. Most women also don't have very big boobs. Also, I'm sick of having to repeat this but curvy and thin/skinny are not mutually exclusive. Curvy and thin aren't two different body types. You can be curvy and thin and also curvy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:01 PM
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You can't work out to get great tits and ass 🙄 A good body is mainly genetic for women. It doesn't matter how many squats a woman does, a flat ass can't become a big ass. Just because these women look "skinny fat" to you, doesn't mean they don't work out. Your genetics determine where you store fat. If a woman naturally stores fat more around her midsection, she has to work extra hard to get a small waist, and some women no matter how hard they try will never achieve a small waist because their …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:58 PM
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Also, women need to be curvy as well as thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:34 AM
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You feel like women aren't interested but women feel the same way and are probably waiting for the man to make the first move because they're not sure if the man is into them. Men constantly shit on women's appearance, so I honestly believe that men wouldn't be interested in me because of the way I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:57 AM
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I operate exactly the same way and so would many other women. It's not just men who feel like no one wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:54 AM
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I literally said that in my comment. The difference is that women recognise why it's hard for men to approach women, while the men here seem to think that it would be easy for women to approach men because apparently we all think we're so attractive that no man would reject us. Approaching men is difficult for us too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:52 AM
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No, men shame more than just promiscuity. But shaming promiscuity is also shaming female sexuality, because men's definition of what a "slut" is is inconsistent. Some men would consider a woman who goes home with a man she just met as a "slut" even if she's only had a few sexual partners. It's a meaningless term and differs from culture to culture. Women are allowed to have sex with who they want to and any kind of sex they want and shouldn't be shamed for it. Women avoid being too sexual out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:36 AM
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I don't think most women are into violent men. This is only true in poor countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:18 AM
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That's probably true, but women's low libido is also partly caused by male behaviour. A few reasons why: 1. Men shame female sexuality. 2. Men shame female bodies, making women feel less comfortable naked and therefore too in her head to enjoy sex. I've seen many women say they feel uncomfortable receiving oral because they've been made to believe that vaginas are gross and smell. Also many women think their vulvas look ugly. 3. Men focus too much on penetrative sex that gives less pleasure to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:39 PM
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The fact that you view women merely as sex objects says more about your misogynistic brain than it does women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:32 PM
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But men will also never experience the trauma (the rapes, sexual assaults, sexual harassment etc) of being a woman. Many women are lonely as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:29 PM
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Why would I approach men if I don't know whether they're interested in me or not? I get that men have the same dilemma, but I don't think you realise that there are many women who have insecurities about their looks and think men wouldn't be interested in them. Men here think women think highly of ourselves but we really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:26 PM
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Women have plenty of libido. Many men are just pornbrained selfish lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:23 PM
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How do women get to have their cake and eat it too when they have to work while being stuck with most of the household chores and childrearing? If anything, women get less out of marriage than men do these days. Marriage has always benefited men more imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:02 PM
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If women never matched, men would complain about that as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:56 PM
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Men can't learn how to get better at sex by going to prostitutes. The prostitute's job is to service the man. Most men either go to prostitutes to fulfill their domination/degradation of women fantasies or because they can't get sex the normal way. To be good at pleasing women men need to learn to put women's needs before their own - they can't learn that by having sex with a woman that is paid to do whatever the man wants. I would be disgusted if I found out that a man I'm interested in used a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:53 AM
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Unattractive women just have sex with unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:47 AM
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Women have more power in the dating market and get to choose from a larger pool of potential partners. Men need to do more to impress. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:26 AM
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I'm not straight and I have lesbian family members, so no, I'm not homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:19 AM
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Why is why I said that lesbians aren't naturally uglier, it's just that many of them don't conform to typical beauty standards. The fem lesbians that do look like any other woman. Lesbians are more likely to be overweight statistically. I'm not saying all lesbians are like this. But I think on average they are less likely to conform to typical beauty standards than straight women are. I didn't think that was a controversial idea. Women may be more ruthless when it comes to makeup and hair, but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:13 AM
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Working class women can be just as intelligent. A lot of college educated people can be quite stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:55 AM
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Cleaning and housekeeping are very physically demanding jobs and most cleaners and housekeepers I see are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:48 AM
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Many men will fuck anything with a pulse. That doesn't mean they have lower physical attractiveness standards. It's well known that men will have sex with women they're not even attracted to. And they definitely won't partner with those women. Maybe lesbians are just more likely to only have sex with women they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:11 AM
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I don't think this is true. No offense to lesbians, but they do tend to be less attractive than straight women. I don't think it's because they're naturally uglier, but more so that they simply don't put as much effort into their appearance. I assume they don't put in as much effort because lesbian physical attractiveness standards are just different from straight men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:09 AM
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I can't imagine what it's like to only be attracted to one sex. To me attractive is attractive. Women are just too beautiful to not be into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:02 AM
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Me too ☺ But I'm kind of embarrassed about it lol. It's not seen as "acceptable" for a woman to be into guy on guy like it is for men to be into lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:57 AM
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I just don't listen to crap music.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:54 PM
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Heterosexual sex is geared towards male pleasure. That's the difference. Women don't get off from PIV sex like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:25 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:18 AM
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Women just can't fucking win. If we're thin, we're "built like little boys". If we're thick, we're fat and disgusting. Men have extremely high standards. Keep your asinine comments to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:17 AM
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I'm calling BS on the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:14 AM
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It's something like only 28% of women have hourglass or pear shapes. Only 8% have hourglasses. Most women don't require a man to be very tall. Most men want hourglass shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:13 AM
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I don't see many thin girls with big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:07 AM
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Fat men are the ones who want thin hot women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:34 AM
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I'm so sick of men complaining. Men literally get sex given to them on a platter and still want more. You can go out and just pay some desperate woman to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:31 AM
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How is attractive men getting more sex hypergamy? The average woman is simply more attractive and sexually desirable than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:26 AM
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Lack of blowjobs? Women get less oral sex than men. Maybe if men were more into reciprocation women would be more enthusiastic about giving blowjobs. Also, men ruined blowjobs for many women by making them degrading. I bet these men complaining about absence of sexual favours aren't pleasing their partners either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:21 AM
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'Blow their backs out" Why do men have refer to sex with women in the most violent way possible? This is part of the problem of women not enjoying sex with men. Remember that most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. Penetration is mainly for the man's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:41 AM
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I choose not to date because of misogyny. I can't speak for all women, but I know that if men were nicer to women, I would want to date more because I am sexually attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:36 AM
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Uh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:32 AM
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Not really. I mostly care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:29 AM
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You could say the same thing about men. So what? We all know very attractive people are worshipped in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:26 AM
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Basic respect and showing interest should be a given. But I wouldn't go down on a man until I got know him better and only if he reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:14 AM
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Men still have unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:15 PM
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There's "wouldn't kick him out of my bed" attractive and then "give me babies now" attractive. I wouldn't kick Thor out of my bed but he doesn't do it for me. I find his look boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:26 AM
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A guy being over 6 feet with a jawline and abs does not make him attractive. So no, most women wouldn't be inherently attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:23 AM
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No, give me a 5'10 guy who works out and is fit. I don't want a lanky 6'3 guy. I'm 5'2 and that's too tall for me. Why can't men accept that not every woman wants a giant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:20 AM
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I'm not attracted to Jason Momoa at all. If anything I think he looked better when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:10 AM
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I actually agree with your choices here. I don't think women generally like hypermasculine men. Many women like men with some femininity. Even the traditionally masculine men that I'm attracted to still have some softness to their features.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:08 AM
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Hunter eyes can look great on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:22 AM
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I think many women like men that look like they would be an interesting character. Chris Hemsworth is just a bit boring, handsome as he is. Although I'm not physically attracted to Tom Hiddleston either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:20 AM
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Most women find both types attractive. An attractive guy is an attractive guy whether he's "alt" or a bodybuilder. For example, my sister who's usually into more traditionally masculine men also finds Timothee Chalamet attractive (but does think he's too skinny). I think women like Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth cause they're just handsome. Their body is just a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:15 AM
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I like men with both edge and just a touch of femininity. I don't like soft and flabby men. I like "feminine" men in the sense that I like pretty faces, but I like men who are slim and athletic. I also like muscles and square faces/jaws. It just depends. Attractive men come in many different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:07 AM
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Most women say sex gets better after their early 20s though. Young men are less likely to care about their partner's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:42 AM
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We know that's bullshit. It's men who have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:35 AM
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So men have nothing to complain about then. They're still getting sex, even if it's from women they're not attracted to. If you're going to use a woman like that, you don't deserve to have sex with someone "better".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:24 AM
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Women are allowed to have preferences. Height, looks and charisma are important as well. If men can be shallow, women can be shallow as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:22 AM
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It is terrible. Why would you have sex with someone you're not attracted to and lead them on? That's cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:20 AM
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You can tell in the bedroom. Being sexually attracted is not the same as wanting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:18 AM
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I do have empathy. I don't think fears of certain groups are unjustified. I take back what I said about his fears being unfounded. They're not completely unfounded when it comes to racism and hate crimes. But he's the one who brought it up as if to say that women being fearful of men is somehow like racism, presumably to get a reaction out of white women. It seems to me that he's the one saying these fears are unjustified. If a black person doesn't like white people because of racism they've exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:38 AM
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Straight men stopped them from having those rights in the first place lol. Do you think a bunch of gays just showed up one day and said "give me rights!"? No, they protested because they were being oppressed, beaten, killed, thrown in jail etc by straight society. Learn some history. The vast majority of people did not accept gay rights. You can look at the polling data yourself. Acceptance of gay people and gay rights came after the gay rights movement, not before. So what you're saying is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:50 AM
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And most of those men were Jews or Europeans. You're getting into some controversial territory here. Also, men deliberately kept women out of science and education. You can't ignore that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:43 AM
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Statistically straight women are less homophobic than straight men. If you're going to make this a competition on who's more homophobic, straight men will lose every time. Straight women aren't beating up and killing gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:39 AM
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Average intelligence of men being too low* Dumb women still aren't as violent or psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:38 AM
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No, face inspires lust more than body. Most women prefer the face, sexually. Ask any woman. Hot face and at least average height + nice penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:33 AM
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Autistic women are not attractive to men. I'm not autistic but I am socially awkward and have OCD. I never got attention from boys in high school. I lost my virginity at 25. And I'm thin and okay looking as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:31 AM
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Don't project your feelings onto women. Women care less about this than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:27 AM
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Disagree with this. Women don't like very tall men as much as you think. Very tall men are usually lanky and look weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:20 AM
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We're trying to even out the height genes so we don't make short children. But I'm fine with men shorter than 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:16 AM
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Yes, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:15 AM
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I think most people would choose to be very physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:10 AM
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Uh... no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:06 AM
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"Many women don't have much to offer beyond sex" You say this as if men have much to offer. What do men offer to women in comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:05 AM
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I have no idea what you mean by this. Your idea of female relationships and the way women live is obviously very skewed. There are more depressed and mentally ill women out there than men, and a lot of us aren't talking to our female friends about personal issues. It isn't any easier for me to get emotional connection than it is for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:01 AM
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What do men have to offer? Even if women offered just sex, that's more than what most men offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:57 AM
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Women don't enjoy sex with men as much because men don't try hard enough to please women or they just don't care about pleasing women. Yeah, women have lower sex drives, but men also just don't try or care. If men were better at sex, more women would want sex with men. I'm attracted to men so I want to sleep with them, but I worry about whether the sex is going to enjoyable or not. Men can increase their sexual value to women by becoming better sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:20 AM
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Most men have male friends or pets to satiate emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:09 AM
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Your feelings are not irrational. They are a natural response to male violence and misogyny. These feelings keep you safe. Trust them. Or else you will become another man's victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:03 AM
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In almost all straight porn I've watched the man is degrading and dominating towards the woman. The woman's pleasure is not considered at all. It's made me believe that men just aren't interested in seeing women enjoying sex. Men aren't just getting off to nudes, they watch sex scenes too. And the sex scenes are all like that. The sex looks very uncomfortable and painful for the woman. It's so bad that I just watch gay porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:57 AM
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Okay, but why should women care about men's mental health when men don't care about women's mental health? I mean, men are literally the cause of women's mental health problems lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:41 AM
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Statistically there is an extremely low chance that you will be attacked by a white person versus me as a woman being attacked by a man. White people are not a threat to black people in general. Your fears are unfounded and based on media and political propaganda. Women's fears aren't. I'm not saying that racism doesn't exist but in general white people aren't a threat to black people statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:28 AM
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Yeah, this is not comparable at all. White people aren't sexually assaulting and murdering black people at the same rates that men are sexually assaulting and murdering women. Furthermore, most white people live around other white people, while men make up 50% of the population so women have to share their spaces with men. Until 1 in 5 black people have been assaulted by a white person, shut the fuck up. Or you could flip it around and make black people the perpetrators and it still wouldn't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:21 PM
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It's not overblown when 1 in 5 women have been sexually assaulted and many women can't go out in public without having men harass and catcall them. I've had a car full of men literally pull up on the side of the road and harass me while I was walking home. I've been sexually assaulted. I've had men make disgusting comments towards me on the street. I've been harassed by men. Thankfully, these are rare occurrences for me because the men in my city aren't as bad, but I've heard many women say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:14 PM
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Not taught. Experiences made most women fearful. Women experiencing sexual assault and street harassment since they were young girls made them fearful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:07 PM
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But anyway, my point was that fat women like Ashley Graham are still considered beautiful because they have good ratios and pretty faces, both of which are genetic. And yeah, of course being fat makes you less attractive overall and distorts most people's shapes, but the point is women can't just be skinny and automatically have an attractive figure. There are many thin women who will never have an "ideal" figure because they have no curves, butt or boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:53 PM
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She is fat. She just doesn't look as fat because she holds her weight better. But going by BMI she is fat. But I can give plenty of examples of obese women that technically have good ratios. https://www.bustle.com/articles/54701-the-hourglass-figure-is-traditionally-more-acceptable-than-other-plus-size-images-but-heres-why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:39 PM
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If he didn't offer then yeah I would be disappointed. To me, it shows how little he thinks of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:16 PM
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Ha, this is easy. Ashley Graham: https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/439101032414346950/ Body shape is genetic. You can be skinny with no shape and fat with shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:59 PM
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Gay men don't hate women as much as some of the incels on here. Enough with this "you must be gay" crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:30 PM
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That they're not attractive because they're not fat. They're attractive because of their low waist to hip ratios. Waist to hip ratio is more important than weight. The myth is that all women have to do to be attractive is to lose weight. But you actually need to have a good waist to hip ratio (which is genetic) to be considered very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:34 PM
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You would if the women didn't have low waist to hip ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:48 AM
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All of these women are curvy. All of these women have low waist to hip ratios and so they will all be considered attractive by men (if they don't mind flat chests, which a lot of men don't like). If you put skinny rectangle shaped women instead, the vast majority of men would pick the "curvy" women over the skinny women. This is not proof that men don't like skinny women or that men have varied tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:07 AM
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No, you cannot change your hip shape with exercise. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:04 AM
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No, women can't look like that with exercise lol. Exercise doesn't change your body shape. Only 20% of women are pear shapes and only 8% of women are hourglass shapes. Most women will never look this. This is what women are talking about when they talk about beauty standards being unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:03 AM
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Only 28% of women are hourglass/pear shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:01 AM
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Unless you're a genetic freak, it's usually rare to have a flat stomach while also having a big butt. Most women who are naturally curvy are soft looking in the stomach area as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:58 AM
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I would argue women's tastes are more varied. Men have two types: big titted blonde and curvy exotic brunette. Men won't be attracted to women unless they have at least 1 of 3 things: sizeable boobs, sizeable butt or a pretty face. Only 28% of women are pear or hourglass shapes. Many men are also very picky about how vulvas are supposed to look (hair, lavia size).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:48 AM
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Lol at your posts about gay men. Gay men are into any and all attractive guys and usually they have better taste than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:32 PM
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What are examples of men you are attracted to then? I'd love to see what you think is attractive. I'm tired of this women aren't attracted to conventionally handsome guys crap. Yes, we are. I'm not lowering my standards for some dad bod. I prefer fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:31 PM
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Dominating/violent men are a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:29 PM
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I don't fantasise about that. When I fantasise about mmf threesome I fantasise about watching two hot guys with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:14 AM
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You can't tell the difference between a 24 year old and a 26 year old lol. Men will find women attractive as long as they look young enough. Being thin also helps to make you look younger. I would extend 24 to young looking 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:11 AM
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I don't have male friends so I don't know what men do, but yes women gossip sometimes. It's exaggerated a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:08 AM
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What do you mean by "equals"? Equals in what? Men are not better than women. Men want women more than the other way around. I would never feel inferior to less attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:05 AM
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Yeah, except high fashion models aren't fit. They're skin and bones with very little muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:21 AM
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You think men naturally find women prettiest when they're at a weight that makes them lose their period? If I tried to get down to "model' weight or the weight that was ideal for women in the 1980s - 2000s, I'd probably lose my period. At my skinniest I was at a 20 BMI and I lost my period for a short time. That's still like 2 points higher than underweight, which is what most models are at. I'm now a healthier 21-22. Men are supposed to be attracted to fertile women and women that can bear heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:18 AM
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Men are influenced by body trends as well. In the 80s men liked super skinny women. Now they like curvier women. The body that many women were picked on for is now popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:09 AM
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I lost my virginity when I was 25. Being a virgin at that age fucking sucks despite virginity in women being glamourised. You always feel like you're missing out on something. I will never know what young love feels like and that's the saddest thing ever. I wish I had experienced it in my teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:30 PM
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You can literally apply the same logic to narcissistic men. Women are attracted to confidence and good looks, which tend to increase narcissism. It's not the narcissism itself that we're attracted to. Good looking, confident men just tend to be more narcissistic. Why do you think women would be attracted to narcissism? How does that make any sense? Why would we want to have a child with a man who only cares about himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:16 PM
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Those women that you're sleeping with only represent a very small minority of women. Douchebags attract either other douchebag women or damaged women. I know I wouldn't touch men like you with a ten foot pole. The way you talk about and use women certainly is not very "good Christian".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:36 PM
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Wait, how does it show that if 17.7% of women have only had 1 partner compared to 11.2% of men? This doesn't show that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:27 PM
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I bet those girls all have one thing in common - tits and/or ass. A lot of women don't have tits or ass and I doubt you're checking them out. Also, women do not care that you are 6'3 and jacked. Women's tastes are not as simple as that. People could be looking at you because you stand out. You could be very attractive for all I know, but a guy being tall and muscular does not automatically make him attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:24 PM
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From my experience as a woman and talking to other women, women prefer faces over bodies. Women like pretty boyish faces as well as traditionally masculine handsome faces. For me the body doesn't matter as much as long as the guy is fit and not very short. Of course a good body is nice, but I think a lot of women would rather have a man with a nice face and an average body than a man with a nice body and an average face. I've found that there is some overlap in the kinds of men that women find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:17 PM
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So I have a pretty friend who kind of looks like Audrey Hepburn. She has a pretty face but she's also very skinny. She ended up with an Asian guy who's shorter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:00 PM
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Yeah but most people are average looking and will settle for other average looking people. They might find the top 10% of people the most attractive but that doesn't mean they will try to date those people. I think your average 5/10 woman just wants a guy to be fit and reasonably attractive, while having a six pack is just a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:57 PM
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Well, men say they want curvy yet thin women who make up probably less than 10% of the female population. Only 8% of women have hourglass bodies. At the end of the day, both men and women will settle for average looking people, despite finding muscles or curves more attractive. Most women do not require their man to have muscles. For me, I prefer a handsome face over a muscular physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:34 PM
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My nanna is probably considered obese and she's almost 85.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:29 AM
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In general fat people aren't attractive. That's just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:26 AM
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Wow. The absolute state of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:23 AM
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I agree with this. Gay men also tend to be more into mutually pleasurable less one-sided sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:22 AM
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Um, women have a sex drive and so we seek men out for that reason. But then we realise that most sex with men is underwhelming. Women who have one night stands all the time have low self-esteems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:20 AM
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Relationships benefit men more than women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:18 AM
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I just assumed no boys were interested. That's why I never made an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:41 PM
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This is me. Honestly I don't get how dating in highschool even works. Did your bf ask you out? I would've liked to have dated but no one ever asked or showed interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:42 AM
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These women are like that cause of experiences with men, not cause of university.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:39 AM
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But the difference is men get more out of sex and dating than women do. So while it might be easier to find a partner as a woman, it not easier for us to find a good partner. There's a reason women are wanted more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:37 AM
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Women get treated more harshly than men. The Amber Heard debacle is a perfect example of that. A lot of men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:31 AM
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I'll chime in here because I'm a "femcel". I'm 26 and have only had "sex" (barely) once. I'm not college educated. I'm not sure how attractive I am but I were to guess maybe a 5 or a 6. I haven't had sex mainly due to a combination of anxiety, low self-esteem, childhood abuse, and resentment towards men from being ignored by them all of my teen years. Tbh I feel unattractive a lot of the time and don't think men would be attracted to me. On the other hand, I've had a few attractive guys be inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:25 AM
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No they don't. Only 8% of women are hourglasses and 20% of women are pears - that means most women (at least in the US where that study was done) do not have ample hips, butts or boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:00 AM
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I'd argue women's tastes are more varied and less focused purely on the physical but the mental as well. A guy could be extremely attractive, but his douchiness would instantly turn me off. I don't think men's tastes are that varied. Men only seem to find slim or hourglass women sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:57 PM
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Except I see more ugly men with attractive women than vice versa. For example, when I go on dating apps there's always a couple looking for a third and the man is always less attractive than the woman. It's actually ugly and fat women who get treated the worst, especially by men. At least women are respectful to less attractive men. A lot of men will straight up ignore or be nasty to ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:11 AM
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Who the fuck cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:19 AM
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Or what about the millions and millions of women who were murdered and raped by the Germans? Why would you bring up rape during the occupation of Germany as an example of the crimes that were perpetrated against women during WW2? It was the Japanese and the Germans who were the biggest murderers and rapists of women. Germans also raped a lot of Eastern European and Jewish women. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_military_brothels_in_World_War_II At least the Soviet soldiers didn't kill the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:00 AM
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You know millions of women and children were killed during WW1 and WW2, right? This is such a stupid argument. What do you think happened to women during WW2? They all just stayed home safe and sound? Women contributed to the war effort. Women were also victims of some of the most horrific war crimes you can imagine. It was especially brutal for women because they were often raped before they were killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:56 AM
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But men expect to get women above their level of attractiveness and bully women for the most minor physical flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:51 AM
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They're not chubby. They're definitely obese. This is chubby: https://fashion.allwomenstalk.com/women-who-prove-o-magazine-was-wrong-about-curvy-girls-in-crop-tops/amp.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:05 AM
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"Pussy licking - 281% more popular with women" I always knew men didn't really like eating pussy. And men wonder why women don't want to have sex with them. It's interesting how popular solo male is with women. Women get off more from seeing other people enjoying themselves compared to men, whose sexuality revolves more around their own bodies and what women can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:49 AM
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I think it's actually men who are more picky with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:46 AM
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No, it's not because of racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:40 AM
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But he's average. I see guys that look like him all the time. Him being tall doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:39 AM
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Women have better bodies and faces than men, on average. That said, even as a bisexual woman there's this raw primal sexual energy I feel with handsome men that I don't feel with women. Makes sense as my body wants me to make a baby with a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:41 AM
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It's just an example. A guy just needs a decent amount of musculature. He doesn't have to have an extremely low bodyfat percentage. Personally I think Marlon Brando had just the right amount of beefiness: https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/211950726187633473/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:13 AM
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I prefer muscular men over lanky men. So it's definitely not all women. I appreciate health and fitness, not some arbitrary measurement. As long as the guy is not too short and at least average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:07 AM
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Not really. That's just you. I'm the opposite. I would prefer a stocky musclar 5'10 guy over a lanky skinny 6'2 guy, body wise. Muscular bodies are more attractive. But the ultimate winner would be the guy with the nicest face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:02 AM
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No. https://www.rogerebert.com/interviews/paul-newman-in-memory http://s.telegraph.co.uk/graphics/projects/marlon-brando/index.html Attractive men were still toned and muscular, just not to the extent we see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:57 AM
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She's just a J.A.P. It's part of their culture. I think Italians are like that too. I'm Australian and princessy behaviour from either sex is looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:48 AM
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Misogynistic views are mainstream though? People like Bill Burr can say awful shit about women and still be popular. Um, Andrew Tate? As a woman I've grown up with tons of misogyny. Men couldn't deal with half of what women go through on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:45 AM
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Boys already have those things and still grow up to be trash towards women. If the man they look up to doesn't respect women (and most men don't) then he won't respect women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:41 AM
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Be masculine but respectful/gentlemanly. Be attractive (or fit whatever niche a woman is into). That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:37 AM
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That proves her point that women can achieve just as much as men if given the opportunity, which we were not given for the majority of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:32 AM
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Men prevented women from getting an education and being able to contribute to scientific advancement. No shit men invented most modern technology, considering they barred women from everything. Give me a break. In fact it's says a lot that women were able to invent or achieve anything given the societal constraints placed on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:30 AM
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It feels validating to be chosen and be seen as attractive by a hot guy. That's one of the main reasons many women enjoy one night stands. Statistically, a woman has a very low chance of orgasming from a one night stand. One night stands are essentially men using women for an orgasm. There are exceptions to this. Women seek out one night stands hoping for an orgasm but most often leave disappointed. It's not always the man's fault. You can end up with a very generous guy and still not orgasm bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:20 AM
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Women often don't orgasm because men focus too much on penetration and not on the clitoris. Lesbian sex tends to focus on the clitoris and involves more foreplay. Just look at how sex is portrayed in the movies and in porn - all penetration and blowjobs and very little oral and foreplay for women. A lot of men are weird about going down on women because they think it's gross and that it smells. You'd think men's so-called "spontaneous desire" would overcome this yet I've read countless stories f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:16 AM
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Most women don't orgasm during one night stands and feel used by the man. That's why. And women will say this. Just talk to any woman who has had a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:06 AM
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Cause men don't try to please the women they're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:05 AM
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You mean men don't care about the female orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:04 AM
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Source: trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:03 AM
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As opposed to the so very logical men who waste money on drugs, booze and gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:53 AM
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An ugly scrote who's funny and has lots of money won't make me wet either 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:51 AM
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It's men who date up, not women. Most of the time women are better looking than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:48 AM
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Tell him sis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:40 AM
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If you're pumping and dumping people then yes you're a bad person. So it is a men bad issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:37 AM
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Most (white) men go after hourglasses with big tits and blone hair so men's tastes aren't exactly that varied either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:45 AM
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Most women have no problem with men being sexually attracted to them. Women just don't want to be sexually harassed and gawked at. It's a pretty simple request. No one is shaming innate male sexuality. We're shaming men who are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:37 AM
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Gay men are not as much of a threat to other men as men are a threat to women. A man can fight off another man who's trying to rape him, whereas women can't. Also, the sexual comments men get from other men are probably way less degrading compared to what women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:30 AM
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Where do you live where the men are so fucking disgusting? Jesus Christ. I feel so bad for some of the women here. I can't recall a single time that I was ever accosted by an adult man as a teenager or young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:24 AM
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Could you at least try to have more nuance? Sexual attention is good. Most people like sexual attention. Men want sexual attention. Women want sexual attention. I want sexual attention. A guy absent mindedy taking a quick glance at my boobs doesn't bother me. But if a guy constantly stares, that's when it becomes creepy and uncomfortable. A guy coming up to me on a night out and telling me I look pretty feels good. A guy yelling "bend over" is gross and makes me feel uncomfortable. It's pretty f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:16 AM
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We don't have power. I don't have any power over men. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:10 AM
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The difference is that when men find women attractive it's often creepy and dehumanising. Women aren't yelling out "bend over" to attractive men. Attractive men may be noticed by women, sure. But women aren't gross about it. Men see attractive women as attractive objects. Women see attractive men as attractive human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:06 AM
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Where do all these women live that they constantly get sexual attention from men? I rarely get hit on or catcalled. I never had boys liking me in highschool. And I definitely don't get compliments. I'm not fat or ugly either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:56 AM
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Do other women really get this much attention though? It seems exaggerated. I rarely get hit on or catcalled by men. Never got any attention when I was a teenager either. I'm not ugly so I don't understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:53 AM
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But it's true that men don't care about nails and fake eyelashes. From what I've heard men think women like that are fake and too high maintenance. Men still have standards, but their standards are often only achievable with surgery. At the end of the day, the girl next door with the blonde hair and the big tits and hips is still going to get more attention than the skinny flat girl with the perfect makeup and nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:51 AM
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Roman, Greek and Egyptian women probably didn't shave their vulvas though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:31 AM
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It is hard when shaving my cooch gives me a bad rash every time. Fuck men who expect women to shave their vulvas (which is half of men btw, according to polls. So much for men having low standards). Women are the ones with low standards. That's there's so many ugly ass men out there who don't even try to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:29 AM
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Because it's not true. Men criticise women's looks and bodies more than women do. Women tend to yaas queen other women. Straight men don't appreciate the female body like lesbians and bi women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:23 AM
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Total BS. Surveys and studies disprove this. Most men prefer thin women. The hourglass body and a waist hip ratio of less than 0.7 is universally considered the most desirable. Even blind men have a preference for the hourglass shape. Do you know what percentage of women are hourglasses? 8%. Another 20% are pear shapes. That's only 28% of women with a waist to hip ratio of around 0.7 or less. Men also do not like flat chests or flat butts. So women have to be thin, but also can't be flat butted …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:22 AM
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Half of men require women to shave their genitals. Men certainly do care. Men have high standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:15 AM
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Have you heard of cunnilingus? Men should use their mouths to get the woman off first. But considering oral on women is rarely shown in porn or movies it's pretty clear that men aren't into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:24 AM
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Not all women have sex appeal. I don't have any "sexual power" men. Men don't ask me out. Stop acting like being pursued by men is the default state for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:15 AM
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Not be fat and get what from men? Loyalty? Good sex? Appreciation? Yeah right. Men only consider most women good enough to dump their loads into. They only want to please the blond bombshell with the hourglass figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:08 AM
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Attractive enough to fuck and be used as a cum rag is not a privilege. Men won't try to please women who are just "attractive enough" - not in bed and not in life. I was unfortunately born "large" down there - so sexual pleasure with men is off the table for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:03 AM
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You just don't understand what it's like to be a woman. If you're a woman then you must have led an extremely sheltered and privileged life. 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes in the US. In my country it's 1 in 3. I have been sexually assaulted. That already makes me less privileged than most men in the developed world. Sexual assault has severely impacted my ability to function properly in society. I struggle interacting with people and finding work because of it. And no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:59 AM
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What about women? I've never had a boyfriend either. No man ever asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:28 AM
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What makes you think women don't feel the same way about men? Do you think women always feel sexually desirable and appreciated by men? Cause I can tell you we don't. I don't feel comfortable being naked in front of men either because I'm worried he's going to be judging me in some way. Women have just as many if not more worries when it comes to our sexual desirability because of the beauty standards that have been set by men. And yes men have to live up to beauty standards too but the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:14 AM
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Have you ever talked to a woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:09 AM
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Men tend overrate their attractiveness so I don't trust men to know what "average" and "above average" is. Also, it's a myth that women prefer men over 6 ft. Anything just under that is fine. I'd take a fit, muscular 5'11 guy over a lanky 6'2 guy any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:04 AM
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Well, men are getting more sexual satisfaction than women so according to this we have less of our needs met based on Maslow's hierarchy, yet you don't see us shooting up schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:32 PM
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As opposed to who? Women? Men are having more orgasms and satisfying sex than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:29 PM
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You are objectively wrong. It's not women who stipulate that women should have to be hourglass, have big boobs, big butts etc to be sexually attractive. These are male beauty ideals. There are studies that prove that the hourglass is universally desired by men. I don't know why the hell you're going on about fake lashes and hair extensions when nobody is talking about that. Only 8% of women have an hourglass body shape. Many women are flat chested and flat butted. Go to any porn subreddit and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:05 AM
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Bad thing. Men aren't interested in pleasing the women they perceive as having some major physical flaw (whether it be too chubby, flat boobs, flat ass, weird looking vulva etc) and are therefore only interested in their own orgasm. Because men are more visual than women they tend to be hyper-focused on women's features. Any woman who doesn't meet their personal preference is just for their selfish sexual use. Sure, I could easily find a man to have sex with tonight, but there's a very low chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:21 AM
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Women need to look perfect and fuckable. If we're not then men don't respect us and mock us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:00 AM
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Body image issues. Not feeling like I'm good enough. I don't like men either and think most of them have too high standards when it comes to women's physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:55 AM
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This has got to be a troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:55 PM
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Sounds like a very low T low sex drive thing to do. High sex drive men aren't going to let a bit of hair stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:41 PM
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Men go down? Lol. Any man who will let a bit of hair stop him from going down clearly isn't an enthusiastic pussy eater and good oral requires enthusiasm. You sound like one of those dreaded men who just do it because it's expected or to get the girl wet for intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:40 PM
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Because they've been conditioned into it by men and patriarchal beauty standards. Most women do not enjoy shaving their genitals. Women need to wake up and realise that they have the power over men when it comes to sex and don't need to do stuff like this. If all women stopped shaving, men would just have to get over it. They dealt with it for most of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:37 PM
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If men keep having stupidly high standards women are just going to stop having sex with men. Women have the power in the dating market. It's men who need to adjust their standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:35 PM
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That's not comparable to shaving your genitals. Your wife already shaves her legs and armpits. The only thing comparable is having to shave your balls. Do you shave your balls? If not then you are placing an unreasonable and unfair expectation on your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:32 PM
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That makes me so angry. I wish women would stop giving into patriarchal beauty standards and realise that we have the power. If all women stopped shaving, the manbabies would just have to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:28 PM
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You should not expect women to shave down there. It's a stupid preference. It's painful and causes rashes. And there's a double standard where only women are expected to shave. If a man expected me to shave I would assume he's a misogynist with a fucked up preference for women who look like young girls down there. I don't care how nicely he asks. It's 100% misogynistic to expect women to shave. It's men's unrealistic beauty standards that have turned a lot of women off sex as well. Men only have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:25 PM
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"An average or low-value man can't make such demands without being ignored" That's just wrong. Half of men prefer women to be shaved and 30% said they would end a relationship over it. Men's standards are higher than women's. And before you say "it's not a deal-breaker", the psychological distress of knowing that you're not good enough for your partner because of some stupid hair is just as bad as having to shave to please your partner. Women want to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:22 PM
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No-one cares. Women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:36 PM
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For them and their kids maybe. Not for their wives. I'd even be willing to guess that most men in history were abusive to their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:09 PM
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Did you really just write that no woman wanting to fuck those men is comparable to a woman being forced into marriage? This is a perfect example of male privilege. You think not being able to have sex is comparable to being raped. Fucking asinine. No wonder women don't want to have sex with men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:55 PM
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If men want more sex, they should do these things: 1) Be better at sex and start caring about women's pleasure. Stop watching porn. 2) Stop body shaming women so much that women feel too embarrassed to get naked in front of you or enjoy sex with you. Stop shaming women's genitals. 3) Stop shaming women's sexualities. This is pretty self explanatory but apparently too complicated of a concept for men to understand. 4) Stop sexually assaulting women. Women who've been assaulted by men are usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:52 PM
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Young women are the most unhappy they've been in decades. I'm going to guess misogyny is a big part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:39 PM
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Why the hell would any woman want to have sex with men when you're all so misogynistic, judgemental, have unrealistic physical standards, watch porn 24/7, can't fuck worth shit, etc. As a woman, I have to constantly worry about whether every single part of my body is "perfect" enough for a man. Men fucking judge women on their labia size. LABIA SIZE. Men are constantly abusing women and tearing down women's appearances and bodies. It's a miracle any woman feels comfortable enough with her body t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:32 PM
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You see it everywhere on social media and reddit. Where have you been? "Can't turn a hoe into a housewife", "She belongs to the streets", etc etc. It's almost always men saying shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:26 PM
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No, it's not common. Most of the people who advocate for female victims of abuse are women. Actually it's only a thing now because of feminism. Back in the day women in abusive marriages had little to no help from social services or law enforcement. Many women would go to the police and they would do fuck all. There were no women's shelters. When men were in power they had little interest in protecting women. Marital rape was legal until the 90s. When second-wave feminists started campaigning ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:47 PM
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Just because a woman is pretty doesn't mean she is confident. Women tend to be more insecure about their looks and their bodies than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:41 PM
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Because more men are criminals and gang bangers. Please use logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:39 PM
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Men are getting murdered because statistically they tend to be more likely to commit crime and be in gangs. It's self-inflicted. That's not proof that men have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:37 PM
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I'm betting that men just put themselves in situations that get them killed more. Men tend to be the ones who pick fights and act aggressive and violent towards others. They also tend to be more likely to be involved in criminal activity, gangs etc.That would explain a lot of homicides. Men are not killed for being men. Women are killed because of misogyny. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:34 PM
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Men don't have empathy for women. Men hate us. That's why they love creeps like Andrew Tate. That's why they abuse, rape and kill us. Women have been treated worse. We've been killed in wars too, only we were raped before we were killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:31 PM
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This is all true, but I'd still argue that most men don't like women either because deep down they believe we're inferior and they resent us for rejecting them. The popularity of red pill influencers like Andrew Tate and the backlash to the women's rights movement is proof enough of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:42 PM
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Yes, this. Men hate women. I find it astonishing that people here are actually claiming that it's women who hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:38 PM
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Tbf, men have made women not want them sexually because of the way they behave and treat women. In a perfect world where men weren't mistreating women, women might like men more. And I actually think it's men who don't like women. Wanting sex and babies from women doesn't mean men like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:29 PM
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This is the real reason ^
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:06 PM
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The reality is that the way a lot of men treat women turns a lot of women off sex with men. First of all, a lot of women have been sexually abused by men in some way. It turned me off sex with men for years to the point where I started wondering if I was a lesbian. That's how strong my aversion to men was. As I've matured my sexual attraction to men has become stronger. And let's be honest - a lot of men are way more concerned with their own sexual pleasure and not women's. You watch porn and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:58 PM
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I would be interested in why he's been single for so long, especially if he's good looking. Is he a player? Does he have a bad personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:41 PM
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I don't know but it seems pretty inaccurate to me. Anger is an emotion too, and men have plenty of that. The women in my life are more logical than the men in my life. Women just deal with our emotions in a healthier way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:38 PM
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"Most men find most women attractive and desirable" - Men are very judgemental about women's bodies, especially the appearance of female genitalia. I don't feel attractive because of the way I see men talk about women's bodies. A lot of women don't feel desired or attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:28 PM
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Why are men always bitching about women's looks then? Men, gay or straight, are way more judgemental towards other people's bodies than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:22 PM
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Women are scared to approach men. Doesn't mean we don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:20 PM
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Plenty of men will be with a women older than them. Actually I would argue that men are more attracted to women, older or younger, than women are attracted to men, older or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:19 PM
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But can men really be happy with a woman who's just with him for his money? Don't men want to feel attractive and desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:16 PM
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A woman's prime does not end at 25. Seriously? That's just a made up rule that ugly men came up with to feel better about themselves and make up for the fact that they're ugly. Most men don't even think like that. That's incel/fuckboy thinking. There's also a bit of a predatory thing going on where they are turned on by vulnerability. I get that you're bringing this up because it's stupid but at the same time it's just reinforcing a standard that doesn't really exist for most people. Nearly all …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:09 PM
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Of course women don't naturally desire older men. I don't know why this is even in question. Men's testosterone levels and fertility start to drop off after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:00 PM
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Where do you get the idea that men are more insecure than women? Women tend to have way more insecurities than men and body image issues, mainly due to men.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 01:56 AM
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Men do have the same attitude. Every time a woman expresses body dissatisfaction a parade of men always dismiss her and tell her that ackshually only women care about those things, even though it's mainly men who body shame women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 01:54 AM
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Being 6ft is really not as important to women as you think it is. It doesn't automatically make a guy a Chad and you can be a Chad and not be super tall. I've noticed lot of really tall guys have lanky bodies which I'm not attracted to. I prefer men of average height to above average, so around 5'9 to 6'2 let's say. No higher than that. I'm 5'2 so really tall men are unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:05 AM
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Women have varied tastes, more varied than men's. There are some women who swoon over Chris Pratt and some women who don't. Sure, I can recognise that he's objectively attractive but he just doesn't do it for me. My sister loves Timothee Chalamet even though she's usually into more masculine men. A pretty friend of mine is engaged to a short, skinny guy who's nothing special lookswise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:58 AM
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Who says we're not supposed to make snap judgements about men being unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:51 AM
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That doesn't mean women have it easier. We still have to worry about pregnancy, the man not respecting us/just using us for sex, the sex not being pleasurable etc. Just having a penis is a form of male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:45 AM
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Have you considered that this is because we're sick of the way men treat us? I don't want to be a femcel but men give me no choice. Maybe if men stopped hating women and treating us like crap we wouldn't be ranting about how men are trash all the time. A lot of you really are trash. It's not that being single is inherently better. It's more that it's better than being in a relationship with a misogynistic asshole. I get that it's harder for men to get women and that's why incels exist, but men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:23 AM
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I'm currently celibate but would like to start sleeping with men eventually but only to use them for sex and they have to be Chads. Then I will find a nice woman and marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:13 PM
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Actually, men are the ones with high standards when it comes to looks. You're the ones who scrutinise every part of women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:11 PM
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Um, for the vast majority of human civilisation women were forced into procreating with men. Feminism is only like 100 years old and the women raising patriarchal men are usually not feminists. Everything you're saying should be happening is already happening. Childlessness is on the rise. Women are having less sex. Why are men surprised that after a millennia of treating women like shit that once we gained our freedom many of us would seek out alternative lifestyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:07 PM
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Women should take note here. Many men do not see us as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:51 PM
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We are a sexually dimorphic species and in general men and women have different features. An hourglass shape is "feminine" and v-shapes are "masculine". I'm not confusing them because there are females who look masculine and males who look feminine because they have less sexual dimorphism e.g. women with low voices, masculine facial features, big bodies, muscular etc. What you wear and how you style your hair just reinforces that. People use femininity and masculinity to refer to both appearance…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:59 PM
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I think it's mainly appearance. Take transwomen for example. Some of them will just never pass as women, regardless of how "feminine" their personalities are. Femininity is body shape, facial features, voice etc. I guess I'm a biological essentialist. I don't believe in feminine or masculine essences being independent from biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:53 PM
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Body shape, facial features and voice. That's it. A feminine woman is feminine regardless of whether she wears a tuxedo or a dress, is a mechanic or a fashion designer etc. People who think it's about clothes and personality are wrong IMO. I would say I'm a relatively feminine woman. I'm 5'2 and small boned with a pretty feminine shape. I don't think I could ever pull off the androgynous look because of my natural non-masculine appearance. Yet I never felt like I truly fit in with other girls (o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:50 PM
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Also, if you think not being fat is the only beauty standard women have to meet you are clearly clueless about what it's like to be a woman. Women are expected to be thin but fat in the right places (boobs and hips), flawless skin, shaved bare, perky but large boobs that are perfectly placed, big lips, small labia etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:21 PM
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Oh really? How am I supposed to change my labia size without getting surgery? I am young, thin, nice body I guess, okay face, decent fashion sense - I thought that would be enough but then I find out that I'm supposed to worry about labia size and the gap between my boobs and honestly I just give up. I will never be comfortable getting naked in front of a man. I've never been in a relationship either. I rarely get asked out or flirted with, even in clubs. Men here really think women have it so e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:16 PM
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Because they will never have their perfect fantasy woman. That's why they have to settle. Porn and social media have made men have unrealistic standards. Explain to me why men are always making fun of female body parts they consider unattractive then? On social media women get ripped to shreds by men bullying them for how they look. If a woman is too flat, too skinny, too fat, not curvy enough etc there's always a man that has to point it out. Most women go through life feeling like we're never …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:10 PM
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N-count of 70-80 ish? Gross dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:29 PM
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No, they're pointing out a trend. Men in general are just way more aggressive, violent and hateful towards women. And then wonder why women don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:05 AM
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Except FDS users are way more attractive than most incels. Also, the reality is that there are a lot more high value women out there than high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:00 AM
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Men may settle with women because they're desperate but that doesn't mean they find them attractive. Men have high standards as well and are more looks focused in general because they're more visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:58 AM
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Not me. Never had a relationship, don't want one with a man tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:55 AM
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Third example is me. It has a lot to do with self-confidence issues. I've been bullied by men in the past. Maybe if men stopped tearing down women's self-confidence we would feel good enough about ourselves to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:48 AM
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Yes. Men destroy women's self-confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:25 PM
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Well, women do approach. But women are less likely to approach because we're generally shier and have lower self-esteems than men. I just assume the guy is not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:24 PM
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You can pretty much apply this to men 100 times over. Men bring women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:03 AM
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There's no such thing as a "Madonna" and a "Whore". These are just misogynistic concepts. And the more men talk like this the less I want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:18 AM
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Men aren't the ones opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:15 AM
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The simplest explanation to your experiences is that you're a person of probably poor moral character (based on the way you talk about sex and women) who attracts women who are either also of poor moral character with no respect for themselves or just women with a low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:02 PM
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I'm not doubting that men are hornier but the reason women don't like casual sex as much is because of the risks and the fact that men are pretty sexually selfish, especially with random hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:55 PM
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Why do you think FDS exists? Because of misogyny and red pill ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:43 PM
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Men are sexually selfish. They wouldn't do that if they weren't getting something in return. They only go down to get girls wet for intercourse anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:37 PM
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Women want that too. A lot of women don't feel like men truly respect and desire them and just see them as a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:31 PM
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"Easy to arrange" Yeah maybe if you pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:29 PM
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This guy understands us ^
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:43 PM
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It's men's fault that women don't approach because men have made women insecure about our appearance and shamed our sexuality so too bad for you guys 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:41 PM
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Why would a woman hit on a guy less or a lot more attractive than her? I've never liked a guy that was way more attractive than me. I think the men on this subreddit think women have way higher self-esteems than we actually do. The vast majority of women would be too insecure to hit on an extremely attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:38 PM
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No, women don't like approaching for the same reasons men don't. We're afraid of rejection and/or not sure if the guy likes us or not. We're not goddamn aliens. It's like the men in this subreddit and have never talked to or interacted with a woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:34 PM
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Huh? Whoever is doing the approaching is the one with the power. It takes a lot of self-confidence to approach someone, something that a lot of women lack. We don't approach because we're not sure if you like us or not. Unlike men, women don't assume someone is into them just because they made eye contact or smiled at us. Remember that men tend to overrate their attractiveness while a lot of women have low self-esteems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:31 PM
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This is such a male take. Of course you don't mind it, because the chances that a gay man is going to assault and rape you is astronomically low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:28 PM
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Men have made women's self-confidence so low that we don't approach men because we assume you're not interested in us. The man should be the one to make the first move because most women get mixed messages from men about whether you think we're attractive or not. Literally men will bully women and then years later claim that they actually had a crush on us. This is again another male-caused problem. Create beauty standards so high that women who can't meet them start to feel ugly and shit about …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:26 PM
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As a woman, I'm going to say that for me this has a lot to do with self-confidence issues. When you see a woman you're attracted to, just remember that there's a good chance she doesn't see herself the way that you do and is likely quite insecure about her looks. Men and society have caused a lot of body image issues in women. No, I wouldn't make the first move. You know why? Because I assume the guy is not interested in me. Men need to understand this about women. Us women have to put so much e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:20 PM
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The vast majority of people are attracted to people on their level. It seems that there are more attractive women than attractive men. Maybe that's why many men feel like pretty girls don't look at them. I can acknowledge that Jensen Ackles in his prime was pretty much perfect and obviously I would jump at the chance to be with him, but he's almost too good looking for me. I tend to be attracted to men who are good looking but not that good looking. Because I'm nowhere near as good looking as Je…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:34 AM
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Some white men fetishise Asian women because they stereotype them as being submissive, small, and girlish. I'm not saying this so don't come after me for being racist. Men are saying this. And although some white men prefer Asian women, the majority still prefer the best looking Caucasians over the best looking Asians. Call it racism, Eurocentric beauty standards, biological preference or whatever, it's still true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:25 AM
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I never said they were a "dealbreaker". I said that they aren't the ideal and men regularly make fun of women with very small boobs. Point is, the hourglass figure - whether hourglass on top or hourglass on bottom - has always been seen as ideal for men. Men do not find women with no curves sexually attractive. Men do not have diverse preferences for the female body. They all prefer hourglasses (who make up 8% of the female population BTW). This has been shown by studies and it's true across dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:20 AM
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Men are self-aware about how badly they treat women but lie to themselves and women and say that we deserve it. Women understand that men have feelings and emotions even more than men understand that other men and women have feelings and emotions. Women have way more empathy for men than the other way around. Men are constantly attacking and belittling women with no regard for our feelings. Men call us sluts, stupid, worthless, inferior etc. Men abuse sex workers who they see as worthless trash …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:03 AM
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Women are not rejecting men for being 5'9 outside of warped incel fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:51 PM
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Stop repeating this 6ft myth. It's not true. The only guy I was really interested in when I was OLD was under 6ft. Because he was handsome and just did it for me. I'm very specific with faces. Most women are fine with men under 6ft, especially short women (which I am). I'm also not American (but Western) - maybe American women are especially heightist. Who knows. All I can say is that none of the women I know have such strict height requirements. I had plenty of guys liking my profile, but that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:50 PM
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I'm always astounded by the sociopathic mentality of men who would sleep with women they despise just to "pump and dump" them. Sickos. The kind of men that all women should stay away from and not touch with a ten foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:22 PM
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Around 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted. A lot of it happens in childhood as well. Child sex abuse and rape is more traumatising than physical assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:19 PM
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Men are the ones taking advantage of sex workers, who are disproportionately poor and abused women. You just don't like the fact that sugar babies are getting more out of the transaction than a street prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:15 PM
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Also, just because some men are so desperate that they will settle, doesn't mean they see those women as "ideal". Men still shame women for literally every single body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:11 PM
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Women are doing to men what men have been doing to us for thousands of years. Those "thicc" women and those skinny women have one thing in common - an hourglass figure, small waists and big tits. Wow, so diverse. Men are attracted to the extreme minority of girls who are skinny while also having big boobs. Ask a skinny girl with small tits how much attention she gets from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:06 PM
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There is no hypocrisy. Speaking for myself, I don't care if men have preferences. The main issue women have is with the way men express those preferences. Men tend to be way more nasty about women's bodies than women are about men's. Men will literally abuse women online for not meeting their ideals. I don't see women abusing men for being short. This is what women are talking about. Men are just nasty pieces of work. Also, I still think women are overall more lenient when it comes to looks. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:05 PM
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The problem is that promiscuity is subjective. We can all agree that 100 partners makes someone promiscuous, but what about 10? 5? 15? What exactly is the cutoff? And what if they were all relationships? Is a woman automatically a ho if she goes home with a guy she just met despite having very few sexual partners previously? It depends on what culture you're from. In some cultures having only one sexual partner your whole life is the norm and having sex outside marriage is considered immoral. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:40 PM
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No, I want an equal. I don't want to feel like he's the prize, and I don't want him to be less attractive than me either. I think that's the norm for most people. Most of the time you see people who are equally attractive or successful with each other. I've noticed that I tend to be attracted to guys who are at a similar attractiveness level to me. You don't know anything about women if you think we feel secure being with a guy way more attractive than us lol. We want to feel beautiful and desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:24 PM
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Less men eat pussy than women give head. Overall heterosexual sex is still very centred on the man's needs over the woman's. Which is bizarre to me. I don't understand why a supposed heterosexual man wouldn't be obsessed with making the girl orgasm first. I've seen many women say that too often men treat "foreplay" acts like oral and fingering as things you do just to get the girl wet enough. I'm still technically a virgin but the first experience I had seemed to confirm that. The guy was very e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:11 PM
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Lol, how many virgin women have you slept with that don't starfish? Cause most virgin women are gonna starfish their first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:04 PM
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This is rather black and white. What about women who are somewhere in between? I've hooked up with a guy who I definitely wouldn't consider "beta" but not a stereotypical douchebro either. The hot but nice guy type. Confident but not a douchebag. I'm not sure what the consensus here is on what exactly an "alpha" is, but I always imagined an alpha as a stereotypical cocky jock type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:40 PM
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He's the most boring looking guy ever. And I say this as a woman who likes traditionally masculine western European descent guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:33 PM
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Young hot guys > older hot guys > average young guys > average older guys. IMO. Any young woman in her right mind would choose Chris Hemsworth over an unattractive younger guy. Admittedly there is a bit of a "creep" factor that might get in the way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:29 PM
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Can he make up for it with oral skills though? If yes then I'll pick him over the average young guy hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:26 PM
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Handsome man in his 40s. I much prefer young hot guys (I'm 26), but I probably couldn't get aroused enough with an average guy in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:24 PM
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