Brashtard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What to do and not do when you see it coming That's what I suspected. Thanks, for the confirmation.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 06:58 PM
–	What to do and not do when you see it coming Sorry, I’m a noob here. What’s the “silver bullet”?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 05:35 PM
1	Is it selfish to want to be happy? For many people, missing out on much of their children’s formative years would be the greater misery. I made allowance for finding female companionship in the second paragraph.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 10:16 PM
2	Is it selfish to want to be happy? There are only tradeoffs, no correct answer. With young kids, were I in your shoes, I would prioritize their welfare and maximizing the extent to which I am part of their lives until the youngest is grown to adulthood. Then, assuming things between you and your wife have not changed for the better, I‘d divorce. Take steps over the intervening years to prepare for your return to singledom. Since it sounds like finances will not be a problem for you or your wife, the dead bedroom would be my next …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 08:08 PM
1	How many of you have had an amicable divorce? Thanks for the offer but I’m in a different state.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 01:40 PM
1	How many of you have had an amicable divorce? Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 05:32 AM
1	How many of you have had an amicable divorce? Thanks! A couple follow-on questions, if I may? Why do she get the whole of your 401k rather than half? Would a working-age SAHM in a long-term marriage be expected to get a job after divorce for the purposes of computing alimony?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 02:04 AM
2	How many of you have had an amicable divorce? Could you share your notes on the financial hit to expect for newbs to this sub like myself?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 01:44 AM
3	Looks like divorce is coming Sorry for your predicament. Don’t talk to or argue with your wife on tape. Know that t’s illegal to record someone surreptitiously or without their consent in some states. Lawyer up. Good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/23 10:36 PM