BraveProgram Archive

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1	Always lean in to who you actually are as a man. That just means the people who dont like you are leaving and eventually youll find your people who DO like you. It's a blessing in disguise kinda thing. If people leave you because youre an asshole, then yeah thats a problem lol. But if youre just being genuine and they leave, then that's actually good. Not everyone is meant to like you. But again, you'll find people who do appreciate you.	/r/seduction	20/07/26 06:14 PM
2	If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for it You could but the point is that if she actually gives you a number and you text her later or the next day and it’s actually her, then you know she’s interested. If you hand her yours, that’s fine and way more chill, but who knows if she’ll actually text you back. It certainly works but at least if she enthusiastically gives you hers, you know you did very well and she knows youre confident and imo, a woman is badically “primed” for you now. It’s hard to describe, Ive done both and always feel mo…	/r/seduction	01/07/26 02:29 AM
2	If i am talking to tall girls and if taller guys approach the same group and set, should i leave? Because clearly, women prefer taller guys and i think, i become a block between them. I feel girls might be upset with me because of that. They just don't show it on their face. Something a lot of dudes on this sub (and in general actually) need to realize is that romance, confidence, socializing is all feelings. They say "facts dont care about your feelings" right? Well guess what, Feelings dont really care about "facts" either lol. What Im saying is, STOP applying logic to shit when you socialize. People dont remember what you say, they remember what you made them feel. Just be cool af, chill, and VIBE bro. Seduce them, attract them by being a memorable guy man. I kno…	/r/seduction	30/06/26 05:38 PM
2	Cold approach has changed my life You get better at it overtime, stop over thinking too. yes, just use those if you think theyll work in that specific context/vibe. Way better than doing nothing	/r/seduction	18/06/26 12:29 AM
1	Cold approach has changed my life I wish I wasnt short as fuck, otherwise id actually do this lol	/r/seduction	18/06/26 12:28 AM
7	The problem with most advice here is that knowledge isn't the bottleneck. It's motivation to actually act on what you know you should be doing. And most advice doesn't address how to generate motivation, or if it does, does so ineffectively. So most advice sucks. But, anyway, here's a new idea. You can read all you want but what people are missing is confidence/internal validation. Theyre missing this because they never practice awareness/introspection and they especially dont actually get their ass out and get shit done. They never actually DO anything or accomplish anything. You gain confidence by DOING. Even if you fail. Im not saying meditate but just lay in bed and THINK about your life and how far youve come or something. Go through something difficult to the point it actually ch…	/r/seduction	15/06/26 04:30 PM
2	Once you control her emotions, you control her. Most simps will hate this If youre gunna make a comeback, at least put some thought into it. But I guess if you use ai to write your sentences, you already dont do that. If you can’t adapt that’s on you.	/r/seduction	15/06/26 02:20 PM
2	Once you control her emotions, you control her. Most simps will hate this I cant spell or use grammar properly, then says "If you cant adapt".....	/r/seduction	15/06/26 02:15 PM
2	You just are not attractive My #1 tip for all men for attracting women is to always be calm and have a relaxed energy about you. Ive always been this way due to some life difficulties I had when I was a child all the way up till my mid twenties. I never realized that not just women, but people are borderline addicted to an individual capable of creating a chill atmosphere where everyone feels safe to be themselves. I dont consider myself that good looking at all and Im short af, but Ive been able to pull just fine just by …	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:57 PM
1	You just are not attractive Ill never argue with any takes any dude has when it comes to being a man attracting women lol. Shits rough out there	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:39 PM
2	You just are not attractive To actually answer your question for the physcially attractive part. Just try to beef up your body with a bit of muscle and get as lean as possible. Get rid of as much softness as possible by eating right too. Your diet plays a massive part in what you look like day to day, especially as you get older Sooo many people basically walk around bloated all the time because they eat too many carbs, salt, and sugar all the time. Just bs diets everywhere. Working out helps you cut fat and the bullshit i…	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:36 PM
1	You just are not attractive You responded too quick lol. I added more to my comment. But yeah at 6’6 if you cant get women, then you just suck. Everything else should fall into place as long as you arent a lazy degenerate or something. As a guy you still have to constantly be working on something/yourself and always put your goals first	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:20 PM
2	You just are not attractive Long as youre born with decent height and face and have nothing really wrong with you (physically, mentally, etc) then yeah, everything you said can just be worked on If youre very short, have a horrible face, you better have absolute confidence, be intelligent, funny, talented, and the thickest skin imaginable	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:17 PM
11	It’s Actually Pretty Easy To Get Girls Took me under 2min to read it lol	/r/seduction	20/02/26 02:44 PM
1	How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (My Full Framework) Can I get a copy of this? I had read it earlier and thought it was good, thanks	/r/seduction	18/02/26 03:55 AM
18	Never, ever miss out on the opportunity to talk to women, no matter how random the circumstance is It’s about the energy you bring not just the words man. People can feel the vibe, if there’s any enthusiasm/interest from you and if they want to, theyll reciprocate.	/r/seduction	15/09/25 07:00 PM
1	How to Talk to Girls: Make Music, Not Noise I already saw a youtube video that said the same thing and it also looks AI generated	/r/seduction	25/02/25 10:24 PM
3	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Have you actually met real assholes? Ive known a few and they never had issues getting women, sure. But eventually, if they settled down with a woman, they eventually become much more patient, understanding, and kind. They settle down over time if they actually want to keep a woman. Being an asshole works, but it isn't sustainable long term. Im talking being married with the same person over multiple decades.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 08:32 PM
2	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Did you? Because he still goes on about his confusion about why "being an asshole" is perceived as attractive, which I went on length to explain why that is.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 08:30 PM
5	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? This vid is genius about what both men and women think when picking each other. This is just a jumping off point though. If you want to be "a bitch" lol, then prioritize the "bad boy" traits first and the good boy traits last, but just enough to be safe. Be vigilent about your feelings too and that you don't end up in a "situation ship" because you're clinging to a man that wont give you commitment. The rest is about making him feel as though you appreciate his time and effort. Men will only inv…	/r/seduction	24/02/25 06:19 PM
5	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? You're technically "right", but not "correct" about thinking of them as objects I mean. Id avoid this line of thinking and instead embrace the fact that theyre simply a different type of person/"human". Because to us men, they are. As we are different to them as well. It's not like women can't be logical and very intelligent in a professional environment. Goes without saying a woman can even be smarter than you, a man. Instead, embrace the fact that theyre simply "feminine" people. This will enc…	/r/seduction	24/02/25 05:32 PM
1	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Yea, there's a lot of ways to word it, including the "dark triad" traits. All men have them, but utilizing them appropriately is the key for all men. But all men should define it themselves if they aren't happy with the way another man might do it. I kinda went down a rabbit hole on youtube and came across so many helpful videos that'll help me communicate this stuff to other dudes when I need to. I want my brothers (and sisters) to be successful and happy. This has been a great thread for me to…	/r/seduction	24/02/25 02:58 PM
7	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Another big thing I didnt have time to mention is that women also want a man with the capability to be dangerous. But he isnt ticking time bomb with it, because he isnt stupid/immature. This is why women like a big man, it's obvious he can be dangerous. But you dont have to be big at all to keep her protected/safe. "Assholes"/bad boys almost ALWAYS demonstrate, or at least exude a "dangerous energy" about them. Women will always be attracted to this aspect in men. If you're a "soft man", she'll …	/r/seduction	24/02/25 02:51 PM
9	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? That’s because it’s emotional conversation and creates drama that causes them to “feel emotion” even stronger. I didnt mean it needs to be serious. Just that you dont need to be an “asshole” to get what you want since that’s what OP’s question is all about. It isnt about morals, it’s about emotion and fun/excitement. But again, you dont have to be outright rude or an asshole for that. If you talk shit, that’s probably because it’s already accepted within that specific friend group.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 06:11 AM
18	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Yeah it’s actually a long n difficult thing to explain. There’s a lot of parts before you even get the talking/words part. Which is why there’s literal books written on this topic. I was looking up vids on youtube and actually found these and would say these two videos explain/articulate it as succintly as Ive ever heard. Understanding the dynamic before the words The actual “words” Id honestly just watch all of these, they look good. I saw another channel called Charisma on Command that looks a…	/r/seduction	24/02/25 05:44 AM
80	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? Yeah that’s what I was explaining. The difference being you can use those traits for the benefit of yourself and others by having a direction in life. That’s why women like “bad boys”. It’s because theyre confident enough to do what they want (their direction). But you can be a good boy and do this too. It’s just a little harder to be cool and not an asshole. Being an asshole is the obvious and easy way. Women want to experience a range of emotions and knowing how to “speak women” is a skill too…	/r/seduction	24/02/25 04:53 AM
396	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? It’s about confidence, competance, and dominance. This is the essence of masculinity. To the naive, it’s easy to confuse these traits with being an asshole. Too many dont realize this unfortunately and choose to step on others to prove/better themselves. What you’re suppose to do is combine these traits with “warmth”, not selfishness. Put others before yourself and stick to your goals. Masculinity isnt about being perfect, it’s about having direction. That’s what it means to be a man.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 04:43 AM
8	How to call out girls that are being cold for no reason? There's basically nothing you can say to women that would make them change their behavior/game. So it kinda doesnt matter, just move on.	/r/seduction	23/02/25 02:34 AM
9	“ a lot of boys tried to talk to me “ Like others said, this is just a regular bs thing/shit test women say, even if they dont realize it. It doesnt even need to be true. She's just letting you know she's hot commodity. Because for women, the opposite isnt a good thing either. "Nobody has ever tried to get with me" isn't exactly good for women. Ive had a buddy who Ive been friends with my whole life. We have an on going on n off thing if we're both single. She's asked me to be her bf n we've been fwb before. Anyway, one of the last …	/r/seduction	21/02/25 09:14 PM
1	I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answer Because that’s typically how it goes. Like yeah, all situations have context, but for the most part, most people talk out their ass. That’s how extroversion basically works and you get better over time as you do it. Stop thinking and just act and do what feels good with the given context. There’s a bit more too it than that, but it’s basically all anyone’s ever doing.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 12:52 AM
1	I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answer Yup, never been able to comprehend how people talk and act so extroverted till I just started pretending anyone I talk to is a friend I havent seen in years or something lol.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 12:51 AM
1	Shit-test She gets mad Just tell her she’s taking it too seriously (difuse and not reacting) and that she’s cute (change subject, turn atmosphere into a positive one and she’ll look dumb if she changes it back to a negative one). Gets’em everytime lol	/r/seduction	14/02/25 07:34 PM
1	I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests A trained Ai. It's really cool for sure	/r/seduction	12/02/25 02:29 AM
1	I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests This is fucking genius bro, now I wanna know the tech stack and everything lol. Amazing job	/r/seduction	12/02/25 02:18 AM
1	I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests I got 80 70 80 on my first try on medium, guess Ill try hard	/r/seduction	12/02/25 02:17 AM
1	What the differences between being playful and being a dancing monkey? One is fun and enjoying yourself, for yourself. The other is basically being a simp and hoping they want you and not really enjoying yourself.	/r/seduction	11/02/25 12:44 AM
3	Did anybody use Tinder to make friends with women and turn them into wing girls? Ive always approached dating as a way to make good, meaningful connections and just flirt with whoever I'm attracted to. If we become friends, cool. If we do more than that sweet. If we actually get into a relationship, awesome. I feel as though people take dating so serious, it's the point where they close themselves off to any other possible options honestly. I dont blame anyone for doing this, but it's so much more fun and chill to just let "anything happen". Then it isn't about time/effort, …	/r/seduction	11/02/25 12:34 AM
1	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves This is why Trump won lol. You're not entirely wrong, but there's no point in being so condescending about it.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 04:47 PM
1	Does caffeine worsen your results with approaching women? Caffeine can increase anxiety levels, but this could be said about a lot of things in people’s diets. If you’re otherwise healthy, eat right, work out, get enough sleep, etc. Then no, caffeine shouldnt habe an effect on your game.	/r/seduction	14/01/25 06:49 PM
9	Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer? If youre hot and got goals/ambitions yes. But 22 really isnt that bad. Ask a 32 year old virgin n get back to me lol. Ive met them and THAT sucks, not being 22, like, at all man. Nobody needs to know either, who cares. Just be confident and get shit done n not even youll care. Id say just keep working on yourself and your goals. Be fit, get a hairstyle you like that works for you. Get a hobby and do shit so you have shit to talk about. Like a certain genre of music? Cool, learn who the best and …	/r/seduction	13/01/25 12:54 AM
7	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? Height and face can never be completely made up for with game, even if you’re smooth af and it kinda stings. No big deal for someone with confidence, but it’s almost like “discrimination”/a glass ceiling I can do nothing about and it’s lame to think that I couldve been born “better” and that forming even regular relationships would be sognificantly easier as well.	/r/seduction	05/12/24 03:49 PM
2	If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ? That completely depends on the person. I, no joke, literally just asked once. HOWEVER, this was in response to what she said first. We had been having random good times together, and my style of dating is that I let it "build" and drag on a bit, while flirting with them like crazy. Anyway, one random night she texted me "be my bf". I waited about an hour to let it build up even more. I finally sent "be my fb" lmao. She responded like 15 minutes later saying "WHAAAT??", so I said, "nothin, nothin…	/r/seduction	30/11/24 04:48 AM
14	What are they saying!? They arent thinking about it. Think of that "bell curve meme". On the left is a dumbass ugly dude who says "I say what I want", in the middle is some reddit nerd with no confidence who says "oh but you have to be hot af, tall, charismatic, have money n muscles, n blah blah blah. And on the right is a chad dude that just says "I say what I want" lol. It's a flow state thing where you arent in your head. Youre just focused on the good vibes and having fun. Shut your brain off and say anything. If …	/r/seduction	27/11/24 09:25 PM
7	How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb? That's a tough one to answer quickly. I just want you to know this is a very common thing among dudes bro. Every guy thinks this at some point, because yeah, "the dating game" is annoying af. Let me just tell you three thing, first of all, when I say game, obviously things like height and Looks matter a lot. But if you dont have those things, all you can do is either try to improve your looks a bit, and get into better shape. Make sure you have great social skills and clean yourself up looks wis…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 09:13 PM
2	How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb? It’s always gunna come down to your game or if she just doesnt like you. If she isnt receptive to you, think about which of those two things it could be. I mean shit, she could just also not be in the mood lol. You cant criticise the situation if you never even got anywhere. When the vibes and game are good. Itll feel like you didnt even do anything when she likes you.	/r/seduction	27/11/24 06:48 PM
38	How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb? It can be tough, but the only "guaranteed" way honestly is to set a "time limit" on them. Depending on how much you like them. If you aren't super attracted to her for whatever reason (not just looks), then Id say give her about a week total. Just never make the mistake of letting them string you along. If you're really smitten with a women for a variety of good reasons, a month tops honestly. If theyre lying, you at least wont waste too much of your time and ALL women hate it when you "cut them…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 05:28 PM
178	How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb? By flirting. Women shit test dudes all the time, but guys forget they can "test" women too. You tease (lightly bully/challenge) and flirt/slip sexual innuendos anytime you want. If she's receptive, you know she'll be down. Make sure you both're having fun tho, things are easy going, the vibes are good, and she's feeling a range of emotions with you. She might be into it but if you cant give women that rollercoaster of emotions, it'll still be difficult. If she calls you a perv or starts getting …	/r/seduction	27/11/24 05:03 PM
1	Can You forgive a Cheater? Whether you should or should can be debated all day. Only you can know your own situation. Ive met two couples that got back after one of them cheated and both couples even went on to get married. In one relationship, there was resentment for years, idk if it's still there. But just ask yourself if you could live with it. Personally, I could not, so whether I forgave them or not would be irrelevant to me because I wouldn't associate with them anymore. Finally, if youre worried about hotness so m…	/r/seduction	20/11/24 05:49 PM
4	How to make the conversation more sexual? That’s basically what flirting is for bro. Learn how to flirt. Once you do this THEN you simply make it a bit sexual.	/r/seduction	13/11/24 11:56 PM
2	Got stood up by my manager The emotional investment thing isnt even just about being hurt and taking a cofidence hit. It also has to do with being very confident infact. If you dont let it hit you, you wont make a big deal out of it and take it out on her or anyone else, especially yourself. You'll stay "cool" and think more clearly/strategically. Getting too caught up in most emotions is a waste of your time. Youre good king, tomorrow is another day and there's plenty of women out there. Just keep that rizz up and the ya…	/r/seduction	13/11/24 08:31 PM
3	Got stood up by my manager As dumb as it sounds, never get emotionally invested in any woman unless she actually shows up consistently for you. This doesnt just mean dates, this also means the things she says and does for you in general. Feel the vibes out everytime yall interact. Just ghost this lady. Im aware you work with her but just be short and professional from now on lol. Like another comment said, you just arent a priority for her (potentially yet). If you really like her, you can go easy on her this time. Person…	/r/seduction	13/11/24 07:14 PM
5	Late 30's female dog walker crushing on male dog walker Lmfao wow, imagine if a dude posted this BS. What would women think? OP you should ask your husband how to get this guy to notice you.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 11:32 PM
1	How would you casually ask out someone you just met out and about running errands? We're guys, we always gotta figure it out. If you feel like it's better to ask for theirs's, then do that. But it's always smoother to give them yours.	/r/seduction	25/10/24 07:04 PM
2	How would you casually ask out someone you just met out and about running errands? By keeping it simple. Act at least somewhat confident so they can tell you're both serious and stating your intentions. Then just say it and smile. Something like "I dont mean to be so blunt, but I think youre cute. Here's my number." Hand them youre number, never ask for theirs's unless it's on a dating app/online. Not because it's rude or something, but because it's not really necessary. They could give you a fake one or give you the real one then block you later. Again, keep it short, sweet, …	/r/seduction	25/10/24 05:55 PM
140	When did women gain so much leverage? Men have always had the “disadvantage” because we aren’t “picky” enough. Simply put, women have so much power in dating because of MEN. If men ignored women for a year, youd see how desperate they get (it would even out). The way men are right now (and have always been) is very silly. Testosterone man. Most men also dont put nearly as much effort into their appearence and behavior as women do. There’s more to it of course, but Im trying to keep my comment short. Want women to like you? Treat the…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 07:01 PM
1	Should you act jealous? No	/r/seduction	15/10/21 11:02 PM
10	Update: Letting my husband pursue me. Absolutely. I was at my highest “drive” when I had the least amount of bodyfat, worked out, and ate/slept/hydrated well.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/21 10:42 PM