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0	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates?	Discussion	Bravemount	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:31 PM

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1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I'm defensive about trying to regulate reproductive rights in general. This has never been anything but a source for humanity's worst behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 12:24 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Glad I got your permission to have children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 11:08 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Because the world needs more well raised kids and I feel I'll do a better job at it than most. Because I want to pass on my genes. Because I love my SO. Because I owe it to my ancestors. Because this is not a zero sum game. Because life is worth living and there is a lot to see and do out there. Because it's fun. Because I don't want to grow old without children. And finally, just to annoy u/stlmick. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 03:20 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Now I'm curious: what's a good reason to have children, according to you? What kind of people does the world need to breed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 01:29 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Good thing you're not in charge, then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 11:09 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? The world does not need these people to breed. I hope you can see by yourself why I find this kind of statement problematic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 06:34 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Just because you're pessimistic, doesn't mean it can't be done. If your pessimism leads you to refuse to breed, in my eyes, this only means that these thoughts have broken you. And I think this is sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 09:28 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Oh, I see. I hadn't thought of that, but yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:13 PM
0	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? mommy mcbangmaid Made me chuckle...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:37 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Oh, it was an impersonal/general "you". In that case I absolutely agree. It would be vital to check what the law has to say where you live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 11:39 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I agree. I pretty much view things exactly like that. But this rationale rests on subjective values only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:53 AM
1	What kind of man would you want your daughters to date? It would be in French, because it's the national crime statistics. When women get killed by their partners or exes, what we call a feminicide here, the perpetrator is a man in 88% of cases. That leaves 12% of cases where the perpetrator is a woman. Much less than 12% of French women are lesbians. But as stated previously, the number of cases overall is rather small, so it might just be a statistical distortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:46 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Very strange comparison. Buying a new car is almost always a bad deal, because you lose 30% of the value pretty much on day one. Buying a new-ish car (up to 5 years old) is where you get the best bang for your buck if you drive a lot, buying an older car in good condition is where you get the most out of your money if you don't drive that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:10 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Oh, so with "their utility", you meant the single mother's utility?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:06 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? There are far too many people on the planet Holding this opinion is proof of lack of imagination. The planet, with sufficient engineering, can house trillions of people. The main reason it seems like we are resource starved is because of very poor distribution/management of our ressources to the benefit of a very small minority at the expense of everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:05 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? life is literally all about being the one to breed While I do hold the same opinion, you need to understand that this is just an opinion. There is no one true answer to the question of the meaning of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 10:00 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I narrowed it down for this type of partner search because it is obvious that when you're just looking for a ONS, her being a single mother probably won't matter at all. Similarly, if you don't want children at all, it's also pretty obvious that you wouldn't want to date a single mother. I did not assume everyone is looking for a long term partner to have children with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 09:56 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I was careful to word it in a way that doesn't blame the woman. Why do you pretend I blame the woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 09:53 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? It probably depends on the field. Yeah, I can imagine the army or other public employers being more humane about it on average	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 10:11 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? in the right circumstances And what would those be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:23 AM
0	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Ok ok. Well, once again, congratulations, then. Many mothers don't manage that well / get treated unfairly by employers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:16 AM
3	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? They're looking for someone to split the physical and financial workload with, not necessarily a partner. Well, I mean, that is what being a partner means too. They're looking for a man to help them take their mind off of being a mother so they can still have fun and feel like a woman without a child bogging them down. I understand what you mean, but I think this is worded poorly. Being a mother is a very feminine thing to be. A mother is most certainly a woman, maybe the epitome of one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:14 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Look at the first paragraph of my OP. I'm not in that situation at all. I'm just having a discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:11 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Good point. I'll add it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:09 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? All those points are already on the list, but thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:07 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? That... seems unlikely to me. On the contrary, she would probably be very well aware of the "sacrifice" you're making and be grateful for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:05 AM
-1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I think you may have misunderstood me there. My question was if your career has suffered compared to that of a woman in your professional situation who didn't get children. Stuff like missing out on a promotion, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 01:03 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Holy crap, this seems insane. I hope those are extremely rare edge cases and not everyday situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:59 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Well, congratulations, I guess :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:56 AM
4	What kind of man would you want your daughters to date? I have seen similar stats about France, but they are always worded carefully. Do you know how many of these partners actually were lesbians? In France, the percentage of lesbians among partners who kill their female partner is about twice as high as the percentage of lesbians in the general population. So based on that, it would seem that lesbians are more at risk than heterosexual women. However, it is important to keep in mind that we're talking about a very small number of cases in France. De…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:53 AM
3	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? How about a widow who had found a decent man who unfortunately passed away in an accident?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:40 AM
3	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? So, you mean that she will have fewer orbiters, even if she is hot, basically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:38 AM
4	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? That made me chuckle, thanks. But to be fair, having to deal with an "unreliable, disloyal, irresponsible" previous partner around is a pretty big con. I think that this is what the other commenter meant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:34 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I mentioned that some guys just see it as a chance to trade their utility for something resembling a relationship and they are perfectly ok with that. So... you implying that those are dudes who just can't get childless women, or what? I don't see why they would do that if they don't love the single mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:30 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? All of your points are either already on the list or also apply if you were having children with a childless woman. The state could get involved have you pay child support on kids that are not yours but hers. How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:28 AM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? RMV ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:19 AM
0	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? you will never be a priority to her That's actually a very good point. I'll edit that in. On the rest, I think you're making too many assumptions, tbh. And I don't think love is precluded in such situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:17 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Fair point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:12 AM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Serious question? Well, yeah. I'm curious to see the reasons people have for thinking this / disagreeing with this. Your points are already on the list, except the one about post-pregnancy body being less attractive, but that would be the case for a childless woman too, once you have kids with her. As I said, this is narrowed down to the case where you are looking for a woman to have children with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:11 AM
-1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? My career never suffered Oh? Most statistics I've seen seem to show that motherhood is quite a setback in terms of career. Are you certain that it didn't have any impact on yours?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 12:02 AM
0	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? That's kind of what I tried to put this way: She has proven that she couldn't / didn't want to keep the father(s) of her child(ren) around (unless she is a widow)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:54 PM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I agree. And I do have a stepfather who I have an excellent relation with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:53 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Well, as I said, I couldn't think of more, but will try to edit more from other users in as we go. I didn't try to get the same number of pros and cons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:51 PM
2	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Good points, thanks. I'll edit them in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:46 PM
0	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? You would be surprised how many single moms when I asked would you date a man with kids, they said no and try and hamster wheel why not. Oh wow, that must have been quite a display of mental gymnastics and hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:45 PM
1	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? Surprisingly, I know one guy who settled down with a 30 something yo single mother when he was younger than you are now. He's a little brother of a friend I haven't seen in years, so I don't know him that well and can't tell you why he did that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:43 PM
3	Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates? I explicitly said "assuming the goal is to find a long term partner to have children with".	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:41 PM
1	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? Ah, thank you. Interesting read. You seem to have a strong point there. The wikipedia page on polygyny also states that this position is not especially controversial (and has a nice map). I do now think that polygyny is a contributing factor to the instability in the relevant countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:08 PM
0	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? This is not how this works. You made a claim. You have to back it up. For all I know, you could be sending me on a wild goose chase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 08:56 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? Ok, I'll leave you to trying to refute the current scientific consensus. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 08:54 PM
0	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? Well, first of all, I'm not a gender studies student. And then... how about you start here. There is broad consensus across the biological and social sciences that race is a social construct, not an accurate representation of human genetic variation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 07:51 PM
1	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? You do not need a fortune to have two wives. Oh come on, you're being pedantic now. You know exactly what I meant. It's not as easy as just work more and earn more. America is not a polygamous culture, since polygamy is not legal. Being married makes all subsequent marriages unenforceable, unless the initial one ends first (through divorce or death of the spouse). In (most) islamic countries, polygamy is legally recognized and enforceable. That's the difference. That's why they are polygamous an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 05:27 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? This is a Wikipedia article. As I said, look at the mountain of cited papers. I'll take a look at what you linked later and might come back to you. Edit: Actually, I don't have to. I'm a layman. I might misunderstand what he's talking about. If all his peers disagree with him, that has to be good enough for me. I have fallen prey to the Dunning-Krueger effect before and don't especially care to repeat the experience. If you think that this is due to all his peers being corrupted by a political a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:51 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? I don't need to, since the scientific consensus agrees with me. If you don't like it, take it up with the cited papers. Dawkins is the one making baseless claims without backing them up. If you want to believe Dawkins when he makes such claims, that's a matter of faith, not science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:19 PM
0	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? Look. If I say 1+1=2 and Richard Dawkins says 1+1=5. Who is correct? What you're trying to do here is an appeal to authority. Dawkins is making a baseless claim here. His achievements in other matters don't dispense him of the burden of proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:07 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? African black race There is no such thing (edit: genetically speaking). Africa is home to various ethnicities with little to no genetic ties. Outwardly similar appearance (which is the only required factor for race) is not proof of genetic similarity. You can stomp your foot on the ground all you want, you are uninformed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 03:59 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? I don't care who says it. It's false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 03:55 PM
1	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? Oh, I agree. I just meant to point out that the examples are rather poorly chosen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 12:33 PM
4	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? You're basing your argument on exceptional individuals that were most likely strongly encouraged to pursue a career in sports based on their race. Similarly predisposed individuals of other races are less likely to be advised that. I'm talking about the gene pool of the whole population. Case in point: a person can have 3 white grandparents and only 1 black grandparent and still be considered black without hesitation. Race is not based on genetics, it's based on looks and social reaction to said…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 11:48 AM
4	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? As a man could work more to get more, but it isn’t worth it for him. You do realize that it's not that simple to make a fortune, do you? You just said that “most men pick monogamy” which means that it is a monogamous society by and large. I said "pick" because I quoted you, and then proceeded to explaining that it's not really a choice. All this proves is that these men respect the restrictions their religion puts upon them and that most of them are not wealthy (duh). The Islamic world is by and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:55 AM
3	Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Women As long as she's not too obese and she's not too young or old, a lot of guys are willing to have a go. "As long as we don't consider those who are below the arousal floor, men don't have an arousal floor." Ok then...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:40 AM
2	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? Most men pick monogamy because Islam requires a polygamous man to be able to provide equally for all his wives. They can't afford more wives. That doesn't mean they wouldn't want more. Anyway, the islamic world is a large example that clearly contradicts your claim. There are other, smaller civilizations that are polygamous, or even polyandrous, but I figured you'd only accept a large civilization as a counter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:37 AM
1	Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Women Well, I know a bunch of guys and that one was really the exception, not the rule in my experience. Maybe I'm just in a circle of freaks of nature, or maybe your assumptions about the "meat of the bell curve" are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:33 AM
4	What role do you believe genetic traits play in human mate selection? aggression, race Not to mention that OP implies that aggression is mainly gene based (which is debatable). Race isn't gene based at all. There is more genetic variety within racial groups than between racial groups. Race is a social construct, not a genetic reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:30 AM
1	How would genetic engineering and advanced cosmetic surgery change the dating scene? The movie Gattaca (link to trailer, Edit: seizure warning, honestly, I don't know who made that trailer, but it's a stroboscope at one point) takes place in a future where genetic engineering is widespread and includes a look at how mate selection works (though that's not the main theme of the movie). You basically have people exchanging print outs of their DNA and they select their mates based on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:26 AM
2	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? societies that are not monogamous just died out The islamic world would like to have a word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:20 AM
2	Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Women Men don't really have an arousal floor. I (a guy) know a guy who once told me "A hole is a hole, my dick ain't got no eyes." so I know that there are men without an arousal floor. But believe me, I do have one. I'd rather be dipped in a barrel of puke than fuck some really ugly woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:11 AM
0	Study: No evidence for the link between women’s preference for cues of masculinity and their hormonal status, adding up to the growing body of research failing to find support for dual mating strategy hypothesis. Oh boy...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 10:02 PM
0	Study: No evidence for the link between women’s preference for cues of masculinity and their hormonal status, adding up to the growing body of research failing to find support for dual mating strategy hypothesis. So... like a... study group? ^^	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 08:42 PM
2	Study: No evidence for the link between women’s preference for cues of masculinity and their hormonal status, adding up to the growing body of research failing to find support for dual mating strategy hypothesis. Anti-intellectualism in a nutshell. No matter how social you are, you'll never get a representative sample from stuff you personally witness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 03:54 PM
1	Do average men really meet partners from dating apps? Or are you lying? I'm not blaming anyone. I'm explaining the mechanisms at work. My comment is purely descriptive, not judgemental. But you're right that what I described would have less of an effect if there were more women on the apps. This also contributes to the miserable experience for men via the mechanism I described, as well as a relatively miserable experience for women, who get bombarded with messages of... let's say dubious quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 10:26 AM
1	Most men who have utterly failed at dating are either incredibly short or have some form of Asperger's. You're right, I shouldn't have approached it from that angle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 01:39 AM
1	Do women have less qualms dating their siblings’ exes (or a friend's exes) than a man? I (m) have dated a friend of an ex who I was still friends with. That turned into quite a catfight when the ex tried to have a serious conversation with me while I was with her friend. She got incredibly jealous, fearing she might want me back (that wasn't at all what the conversation was about, btw). I have tried to approach a friend of another ex and she got very explicit about telling me there was no way she would do that to my ex. OTOH that same ex got hit upon by two of my "friends" after w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 10:18 PM
1	CMV: the TRP adage "don't listen to women" actually shows that TRPers have too few women in their life Hmm, just my two cents on that. I have always had many female friends and still do have some (you tend to have fewer friends in general as you get older). I have an example in your favor: I ended up making out with one of my friends after a night out drinking and she said "I can't believe we're doing this. If only the others knew, they would be so jealous of me." I was quite surprised, because I never thought any of "the others" in question had any interest in me (if you're not in my face about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 09:32 PM
1	How do you feel about snooping? It wouldn't surprise me if that's where the writers of the show got that line from. Edit: Also, I take this as evidence that this is a sound policy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 08:51 PM
1	We talk about looksmatch...but what about effortsmatch? I think this is an impossible question to answer. As another user commented, you're essentially asking where a genderswapped version of me would be in life. This introduces so many unknowns, it's impossible to answer. Just a few examples: - As a teenager and in my early twenties I spent a lot of my freetime partying and binge drinking. Would the female me have ended up raped, killed and left in the gutter at age 19? Possible. - I've always thought that if I had been a woman, I'd be much more int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 08:45 PM
3	How do you feel about snooping? Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 08:10 PM
1	Do men want traditional relationships anymore? I want someone I can view as an equal. If she wants to be a tradwife, but is smart, interesting and self-respecting, and I can afford to cover all of our expenses, then ok, I'd be willing to do my part in this dynamic. If she's nothing but a mildly interactive and submissive dishwasher, I would quickly grow bored of her and probably lose all respect after a while. That would make me feel guilty and her feel miserable, so... no thanks. I'm neither for or against traditional gender roles per se. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 05:31 PM
23	How do you feel about snooping? "Trust, but verify." -Klingon proverb In other words: assume innocence, but keep an eye open for evidence to the contrary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 05:16 PM
1	Online dating really is for a small pool of men I do confirm that being a guy on a dating site is a miserable experience. This isn't due to how picky women are, it's due to how unpicky men are. Take Tinder as an example, because many sites have copied their swiping system to one extent or another: Many guys just swipe right all the time and only sort the matches they get (or not at all). This means that when a woman swipes right on a guy, chances are that he will have already liked her and they match. She then proceeds to chat with that guy a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 05:05 PM
5	Do average men really meet partners from dating apps? Or are you lying? Personally, whenever I saw a woman who even mentions height expectations on her profile (I'd guess about 25%), that was a hard left swipe for me. I don't want anything to do with shallow women. PS: I'm 5'10 or 1m78, which (to my surprise) is considered tall by some where I live (France). It's actually pretty average. PS2: I actually do like tall women, but I'd never make it an expectation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 12:23 PM
2	Do average men really meet partners from dating apps? Or are you lying? Fairly average guy here. I've met a few women via dating sites/apps over the years, one of which I've been with for the last 4 years. However, I do confirm that being a guy on a dating site is a miserable experience. This isn't due to how picky women are, it's due to how unpicky men are. Take Tinder as an example, because many sites have copied their swiping system to one extent or another: Many guys just swipe right all the time and only sort the matches they get (or not at all). This means tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 12:14 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Hmm, it would take a fortunate happenstance. You'd need to stumble upon them. But still, that's a valid case of someone being single for quite a while, without there being anything wrong with them per se. So by just avoiding people who have been single for some time, you might miss out on someone like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 06:53 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Theres a reason they are sitting on the market for 90 days or longer. I mean sure, there are reasons for everything. That doesn't mean they have to be bad reasons. If an HPV is LTR material, but they're very introverted and shy, they can spend an awful lot of time "on the market", even though there's nothing wrong with them. It's just that nobody knows they're there. Like a house that is for sale, but not advertised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 06:28 PM
2	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Hmm, we don't have Hulu here in France. I'll have to look up where I can watch it. Was just asking in case it was on a big service like Netflix, that we do have too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:49 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly I'm not on any pill, I'm what RP would call a normie. The thing is, you're saying "standard high value people" (let's call them HPV, at least it sounds like an STD) are hard to come by. That's your central claim. You say that they pair up with each other very quickly after becoming single, but what you don't explain is how they so quickly find another HPV when they become single (or why they wouldn't quickly become single again if they paired up with a non-HPV). That's a glaring hole in your mod…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:47 PM
2	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly You're a saint, compared to me, don't worry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:39 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Side question: is that show on Netflix? Or any other streaming service? I've only ever seen a few scenes here and there, but they were always amazing. Is the whole show that good? Bonus question: Is there a French dub? If so, is it good, or at least decent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:30 PM
2	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Uh, your study says that 7% of women had over 20 partners. Still a small minority, but it seems like you didn't read the graph properly. You have to add all the categories to the right of the 21-30 category too, which gives you 3+2+2=7%. Also, TIL I'm a slut. Well, by American standards, anyway. Good thing I don't live in the US. Edit: Damn, I'm a slut by French standards too. (link in French, obviously). I was quite surprised to find that the French figures seems to actually be a bit below Amer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:00 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly their life’s obsession to cry about unfair it is they can’t find a virgin Stacy to fulfill this ridiculous fantasy Just in case one of these people reads this: virgins are overrated as all hell. Their first time is going to be awkward for them and not all that entertaining for you. On their second time, well guess what, they're no longer a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 04:55 PM
4	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly because I don’t feel ready to start dating again. Then you fall into OP's "non-committal" category. You just like being single (for the time being).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 04:48 PM
2	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly But there is the issue with your hypothesis. Why would the "high value people" immediately find someone they are willing to start something with? The market should be just as unappealing to them as to everybody else. Or do you think they don't have any standards? Why would they settle for the first "buyer" who comes along to snatch them off the market? You're forgetting that both parties have agency, which is why the comparison to a market falls flat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 04:45 PM
5	Study: "Benevolent sexism" linked to parenting I mean... what's so surprising about that? Parents constantly care for little humans who are less experienced and weaker than adults. I can see how a more protective attitude towards people in general and women in particular might be a result. Maybe a leftover from when pregnancy made both parents very nervous about the wellbeing of mother&child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 02:30 PM