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| 1 | Looksmatches and the assumptions behind themThis is the most helpful advice I think I've ever seen... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.I genuinely believe people that are introverted have some type of mental illness. For example, I'm introverted because I know I'm not the best looking or charismatic so I choose to remove myself from other people that might remind me of that. That's mental illness. Constantly comparing yourself to other people isn't normal and it also prevents you from truly focusing on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Men, Rwd and Blue and Unaffiliated alike, what stupid questions and assumptions are you tired of getting/hearing?I'd say it started off with people who are introverted genuinely trying to have relationships but now most aren't looking for anything serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do males know how unattractive they are?There's a lot of different reasons someone would rate themselves differently. Where they live is a big factor, if 1/2 the people you see daily are less attractive then you're a 5 in your mind. Or they could be trying to cope by lying to themselves. That's probably never crossed your mind but I've always been suicidal because of my looks so if I confirmed that I couldn't become at least average I would definitely be dead within a week or two. The only thing that really matters in society any more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:33 PM |
| 14 | Men on here are so bitter they can't fuck a single woman it's hilarious. I'm laughing my ass off.This post is gross. Reeks of narcissism. Intelligence isn't determined by gender, you'd be in the same place had you been born a man. I don't think that bashing women is the correct way to go about their problems, they obviously have mental issues but if you're here slandering them then you probably do too. I'd say most people on this sub and any other sub like it need therapy, men and women both. I honestly believe most people are mentally damaged in one way or another though. That has a lot to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Men, Rwd and Blue and Unaffiliated alike, what stupid questions and assumptions are you tired of getting/hearing?I'm tired of hearing about how all men just want sex and also the men who do only want sex thinking they hold leverage over women because they can decide whether or not to date them. I'm in a position where I can get a random hook up with online dating about once a week if I want to and yet I don't because I actually want to bond with someone. It's just so hard for me to find anyone remotely interesting through OLD, especially when most girls reply with super short responses unless I suggest mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | If you were hotter would you be a slut?If I was born attractive then I'd be blue pilled and married but because I've faced rejection and break ups if I were to glow up now I would treat everyone like absolute shit. That's mostly because I've been a victim of fomo hypergamy and I now understand that people don't have feelings for anyone but themselves. If I were to suddenly become attractive why would I respect anyone trying to get with me then? I would just attract self-serving people. I think the idea of standards outside of being c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Poll: Who has more privilege in Western societies?More like this: genetically gifted men > genetically gifted women > average women > genetically inferior women > average men > genetically inferior men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What are your insecurities?Then stop trying to complain about problems no one cares about. It's pathetic. It's like a rich kid complaining about the color of the car his parents bought him. It just makes people hate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | What are your insecurities?This is like telling a crippled person that walking can be tiring, who are you trying to help lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What are your insecurities?Ehh I don't think so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What are your insecurities?I dont have a 6 pac or veins that pop out. My eyes aren't symmetrical, one is a millimeter further from my nose than the other. My nose is too big. My voice isn't deep enough. I'm not as funny as other people so I can only come up with things to say out loud occasionally in groups. I'm also convinced that I'm destined to be acceptable and fun to hang out with but never anyone's favorite for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What is your N-count22 M and mine is 8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 0 | It's not nice guys finish lastMy body count is 8 and 4 of the women I've been with specifically did not want to pursue a relationship but had sex with me multiple times. I'd consider myself relatively nice; I try to do the right thing. The other 4 were short term relationships that ended mostly mutual. I wouldn't say I've manipulated anyone and yet I've been with more people that the statistic average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Is marriage necessary, or are we pressured by society?I'd say marriage is necessary. If you can't become a favorite person for anyone then there isn't really a reason to live in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Chubby chasers are copersYea not proud of it. I just have super low self esteem lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Chubby chasers are copersI mean personally I don't really mind weight but I'm 6'3" 220 lbs and I've been with 2 girls in the past month that weighed more than me and were under 5'7" so while I'm not hot I'd say I definitely lowered my standards because those options were readily available. I think its more a matter of patience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:35 AM |
| -1 | Chubby chasers are copersLeast effort required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Most women don't. I think I approached most of my relationships as a friend and became bitter later. Most women are just doing anything they can for attention. It's their main source of dopamine and they don't care about who gives the attention. You act like guys pretending to care is a one-sided issue. The truth is that most of the people around us are complete garbage. Man and woman alike. Even people who dedicate themselves to helping others often have some idea behind it that this will make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?I lowered my standards and started talking to girls that many people told me were below me and the end result isn't good either. Insecure people just won't accept a relationship. The girl I talked to had bulimia and an eating disorder and no matter how much I tried to help her mindset wouldn't change. She wanted a casual relationship with me but nothing serious. I ended up blocking her and since then I've come to realize that she is just a greedy breed of superficial. She knew that I was a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Men's unrealistic expectations of female sexuality is the problem, not women's "high standards" of physical attractiveness and the 80/20 rule.This is true. I know plenty of people way uglier and dumber than me in successful relationships but im basically autistic so ill never actually be in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:44 PM |
| – | Question about physical presentation for datingIn order for me to make a steady improvement I have to work out 2 hours a day 6 times a week. That is a target muscle group and then a 2 mile run afterwards. I also work around 60 hours a week so it's not really just a few hours a week its more like 1/2 of my waking hours that I'm not at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 3 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitNo I'm just explaining why men date down and women date up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThat's proportional to the other person though it would be worse if he tried to reach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitHe's more emotional stable in a relationship where he settles because he doesn't consistently question why you're with him. If he dated someone he thought was too hot he would either feel used or worry about them cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the good men?I meet these criteria and I've never even been in a relationship because I hate living in general lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:35 AM |
| 5 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThats basically what he means when he says western women see themselves as high value. Women date up, men date down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:31 AM |
| 9 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitEhh women can be insecure and still value themselves higher than a man would. That would be more accurate. See like I'm pretty close to average. Half the people I meet are better looking than me and half the people I meet are worse looking. There's absolutely no way I'd talk to anyone I thought was average or above average though whereas an average girl would flirt with the most attractive people in the room regardless of insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:26 AM |
| 0 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?I think the point they're trying to make is that you don't really win in the situation like that. If you're talking to 2 people that don't really interest you enough and one of them pays for food every time then you are going to hang out with that one more. In the situation where you are the person reaching, in his eyes, you are the person who doesn't pay for food when you don't put out. Some people could do mental gymnastics and try to pretend they have what it takes to win this person over but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:49 PM |
| – | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isNo I'm saying that the people who complain tend to be below average and believe they are average because other people won't tell you that you're ugly most of the time. I for example am a 4 to a 4.5 most likely. If I asked someone I knew or someone online they would most likely say I am a 6 but that is not the truth. It's either pity or self gratification in the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isThe problem is that everyone is "average" no one wants to admit they're ugly as fuck. Its not a gender issue, it's an issue of entitlement with everyone in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Men - would you be satisfied with a lifetime N=1 if she was N=1 as well?I wouldn't care about variety. I actually think it's pretty fucking weird that other people would rather have a bunch of sex and then settle down. I'm only promiscuous because I'm a man so it's embarrassing to be inexperienced. Therefore, I practice by lowering my standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?5/10 rating 6'3" military height 220lbs I have a really childish face and I can't grow facial hair. I have a picture on my account I'm pretty sure. I don't think I'm ugly but instead I just kinda blend into the background. My nose is too big aswell so I look pretty bad from a lower angle which is what everyone sees when they meet me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | When is ‘confidence’ actually confidence and when is it arrogance or fake?I'd just like to point out that being arrogant is still much better than being unconfident. I'm always honest and because of that I don't really advertise to anyone but I've seen people much worse off than me lie to girls and get plenty of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:39 AM |
| 4 | For those who have ever been overweight: how do you view weight in the context of social and dating life?In highschool I was extremely unhealthy along with the rest of my family. I never paid attention to my water consumption or calorie count for the day. I had gotten up to 300 lbs at 6'4" by my senior year which I am still embarrassed to say. Simultaneously I was trying to date a girl who genuinely enjoyed my company but ended up friendzoning me. This forced me to take a look at my self and I am not perfect but I lost the weight in about a year and am now 220 lbs at 22 years old. I have noticed th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits?19 Extroversion 25 Emotional Stability 35 Agreeableness 87 Conciousness 78 Intellect/Imagination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.This is facts and I'll be honest. I know my body count isn't high so she's more likely to have already had the best sex she ever will before even meeting me. That's a decent source of insecurity because it's not hard to visualize a relationship like that being toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.It was just a self depreciating joke but ya I've been looking for someone attracted to me and trying to not pursue for like 2 years lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.Sounds like you haven't met a genuinely unattractive person yet... Nice to meet ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Incredibly hot take. Maybe it differs from place to place or something cause my friends and I have 0 confidence. I'm probably gonna end up telling my parents I'm asexual because I suck so bad at talking to people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?I dont think im very attractive so I dont expect anything more from a partner. I'd date anyone in my age group with average health and common interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What are *your* current dating/sex problems?I am probably decent looking but I wouldn't even be able to talk out loud in an empty room without feeling awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:00 PM |
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