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Difference between assuming all women like you and ACTING on it (ie. being arrogant, touchy, expecting things out of women because of it), and simply assuming all women like you for self confidence reasons - that you're doing something right, and you should keep being yourself. Whether or not a woman decides your worth doesnt change anything. Its if you're going to decide your worth. If you assume women like you for who you are, you're giving yourself worth. If you doubt yourself constantly, you…
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:25 PM
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Yes. If you assume they like you, you're instantly more confident, relaxed, enjoyable to be around... even besides lifting your mindset because you're not constantly in your head thinking you're not good enough for them, simply acting like she's interested will impress her more than anything else.
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:58 PM
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I'm mostly wondering how are people able to make their intentions clear and get what they want rather than begging for crumbs and waiting for shit to fall into your lap when it almost never will, and even when it does, how do you stop yourself from pushing it away because you're afraid of abandonment? Say exactly what you want. Harder than it sounds. You'll come off as blunt, as an asshole, as demanding. Doesn't matter. If you like someone, say you like them. If you don't like someone - maybe do…
/r/seduction03/02/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah, silly and meaningless disagreements is a pretty universal method of teasing. Don't overdo it, though. If it happens too often it comes off childish.
/r/seduction03/02/21 04:29 AM
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It very well may feel that way. Unfortunately, as hard as it is to believe, a woman isn't going to change that. Most people hit a wall in their life in their late 20s where the realities of life and growing older strike. Look into you. What do you want to do with your life? Do you want to be stronger? More confident? Have more skills? Do those things. Women will come later. Get the most out of your life in the best years of your life.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:54 AM
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Sounds like you're willing to put too much energy into attracting women. Weird idea, right? Focusing all your attention on them desensitizes them to your worth. When they're constantly your #1 focus, your #1 goal, and you shift yourself and your conversations/availability to match theirs, theyll be bored. It's like they're hanging out with a mirror... matching them at all points. Theres no spontaneity, no life, no 'difference' from just hanging out with a best friend... You need to find somethin…
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:45 AM
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I'm gonna keep it real with you. Texting almost always ends up making conversations dry out IF you guys dont meet a very niche criteria - super similar humors, and a spontaneous nature. You could love a person infinitely and yet still get bored of talking with them after a while. While you dont need to keep texting to ONLY planning future hangouts like some posts recommend, dont consider frequent texting as a good thing, or something to aim for, and instead as something you should generally stay…
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:39 AM
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You're going down a bad path with that mindset. Quit the pity party, start the self improvement game. If not to better your image for potential suitors, than do it to give yourself confidence. You reek of confidence issues really bad. No girl is going to want to get with a guy convinced women are delusional sex slaves.
/r/seduction02/02/21 12:26 AM
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Ask her to come over and watch a movie - its harmless. If she says no, that sucks, but at least you tried and don't have to ponder the possibilities. If she says yes, see where it takes you guys. Should she come over for a movie, don't go in expecting anything out of it - sex or any physical touch isn't guaranteed. Just be open, yourself, flirtatious IF shes receptive. See where it takes ya.
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:50 PM
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I don't think you need a coach or a youtube channel to guide you through how to text women, to be brutally honest. The only true resource I recommend is "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I could probably help you with a conversation or two for free - chances are you're just over texting them (match their energy, if they write a line don't write a paragraph and vice versa), or being a bit too open to quick (relationships and emotions are built slowly, too fast and it seems obsessive).
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:48 PM
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I don't think its healthy to perceive everything or anything you do as masculine or feminine, and dislike those actions because of the label you apply to them. Do what you like doing, act how you want to act, and you'll find someone who sees those actions and values them. To answer your question though, exercising and becoming skilled in crafts perceived as 'handy' are pretty omnipresent and generic ways of being more 'masculine' - cant get much more 'manly' than a buff guy fixing a car.
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:48 PM
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In my experience, those who look for a partner in order to raise their confidence find the opposite because those people tend to have clingy and obsessive behaviors - latching onto their SO because they enjoy the pseudo confidence that it may bring them- which ultimately results in that partner distancing or leaving which can leave the individual feeling even worse or less confident than before. That isnt to say that having a partner DOESN'T raise your confidence, it's just that trying to get a …
/r/seduction07/08/20 01:01 AM
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Something tells me it's similar to most all "seductive techniques" that promise to make women grovel over you when, in reality, they build unhealthy ideas regarding women and make you come off as an asshole. The only technique you need is being the best version of you, and approaching women you think youd have a shot with.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:20 PM
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Hmm, it depends on what level. I think it's normal enough to envision physical contact with girls you meet or know, but if it starts to control how you act (you're extremely touchy or insinuiative towards sexual contact) or happens chronically (every girl you meet, all the time) you might want to step back and reevaluate your views on sex. If you give me more info I can help ya further, but generally if you dont let those desires wholly control you theres nothing wrong with it
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:07 PM
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It becomes easier mostly because girls are more interested - and thus willing to put more effort in themselves - in men who have their own lives, and don't need that girls attention or companionship. It's sort of like how clingy guys don't end up being successful. You still have to be somewhat aware of relationships or hookups, but in a sense you need to lower them off their pedestal. They're not essential to you, if they happen that's fantastic but it should rarely be the ultimate end goal of a…
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:52 PM
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Yeah I've had friends who benefitted from dropping masturbation, and concurrently some friends who only benefitted from dropping porn. Personally I found that dropping masturbation led to lower horniness overall after a week or two, and it's made my nighttime routine a bit easier since masturbating would almost wake me up and make it hard to fall asleep. I dont think masturbation is bad in moderation, it's just easy for those like OP, who seem to be unsatisfied emotionally, to turn to it as a cr…
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:11 PM
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I think planning or practicing teases is a one way ticket to your teasing feeling unnatural, forced, and flat. Just go with the mood of the conversation, if the person you're with enjoys sarcasm then throw out some snide comments about them - sometimes girls are touchy and in that case a good way to tease is playfully shoving them whenever they make a joke, hopefully you get the point. Teasing is rarely universal and most of the time if preplanned it can come off ungenuine or flat
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:27 PM
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Usually a tendency to fall for every girl you meet or develop any bit of a relationship with stems from a lack of self confidence, and a desperation (strong word there, but you get what I mean) for a relationship. Like most struggles with self confidence and desires for relationship, the solution to this is making the difficult realization that a relationship won't build your confidence or solve all your problems like it may seem. It adds additional problems, and can sometimes even make people l…
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:23 PM
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Yeah, their selection of tees and pants are actually kind of decent. I check them for any new tshirts whenever I go to pick up something random, and about a fifth of my casual tops that I wear are from Target! :)
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:47 PM
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Ethnicity or nationality itself has no impact on seduction. However, the culture around love and relationships in Latin countries tend to be more open, encouraged and romanticized. Chances are they're perceivably "better" because seduction, lust etc. are more normal or relaxed than elsewhere. I know in the small town I live in, these aforementioned topics are a lot more personal and intimate.
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:28 PM
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Picking up productive hobbies like cooking, working out, or really anything you enjoy that has space for improvement are always my #1 go to. If you know for a fact she isnt interested and you wanna get over feelings, block her on social medias until you're over her. Seems petty, but I know plenty of guys who cant get over girls because they're constantly seeing their pictures or comments on Insta etc. Otherwise try and focus on yourself, no matter how hard that can be. Dont punish yourself for t…
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:25 PM
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Thrift stores are always fantastic. Target, Kohls, Marshall's, Old Navy and Ross all have good foundations - they're cheap, and although you won't be revolutionizing the fashion game at these places, you'll be finding fitted and decent clothing that more than does the job. The solid majority of cases you don't want the clothes to do the talking, you want them to compliment you. Fitted, plain and/or patterned but not too loud clothing is safest for most scenarios
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:22 PM
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Yep, absolutely normal. The time will come when you meet a girl who you want to have a relationship with, but forcing it because you feel like you should've found someone already is a one way ticket to an unfulfilling experience.
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:17 PM
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Hey, thanks for the clarification. Seems like shes dealing with an issue all of us have had to at some point - a lack of self confidence. Tell her the cliche "no one will love you until you love yourself", and then go into how one can love themselves (have a level of self respect: if someones rude, not responding, etc? Move on!) Good luck friend.
/r/seduction21/07/20 06:23 PM
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You... want to help a girl pull more girls in order to send them your way? Not sure I get it. If she wants to know how to get more chicks, just be openly flirtatious and touchy. That'll weed out any girls who arent into that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction21/07/20 05:07 PM
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I think the key is giving the option to the girl - I'm sure it makes them feel much safer if they can choose which way they would prefer.
/r/seduction21/07/20 02:27 PM
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