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Well as you can see I didn't continue those relationships because I don't hate myself that much, and now I'm here all lonely and shitty and angry. I'm not excluded from love, great. Nothing will change. The truth is love is a privilege for the lucky ones, will I be a lucky one? I don't know, will I win the lottery tomorrow? Nobody is excluded from the lottery. The most I can do to have a change is getting ripped and going the player route
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:24 PM
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I was having actual dates with them, is that simping? And of course as a woman you are not excluded from love. News flash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:53 PM
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My type is anyone who would be interested in me. My bad that the "good women" are pursuing chads and not me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:44 PM
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Not my fault that most people are assholes and that most women wouldn't date me so the probability of having one accept me for a single date being a asshole is higher, it's just how the world is for us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:39 PM
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Women date shitty men all the time but it's never their fault because men this or men that blahblah. I'm not a nice guy in the literal sense, well it's been only 4 months since the last date that left me in shambles and made me give up, but I'm making up my mind already. I'm unable to get crushes anymore though. I don't expect women to love me for being nice. My delusion was expecting that any woman would love me at all for being myself, a bluepill myth. The shitty douche players get laid at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:33 PM
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you can chose not to date those women So I can chose not to date at all, great. And then have another person like you call me a loser for not going on dates Don't be afraid to walk away That's what I did and now I'm here commenting on this shit ass subreddit and feeling sad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:29 PM
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My friends? They're alright. My women friends? They're alright too, most of them aren't single like most women, some I have seen being kinda assholey but it's not my problem. You think I have a choice in regards to which women would date me? Women can chose that having their simp army, they can pick and choose which men give "good energy" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:21 PM
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See I used to be a kinder guy, like, I had so much love to give, I wanted to cuddle and show affection and be there for a woman I loved. Then I grew up and realized I was only a pet for women I dated, a silly guy to talk about exes and the douches she wanted. Women only wanted attention and money, emotional help when necessary, some guy who was below than a friend. So how can you blame me for not being a dumbass now and accepting that love is a privilege for few.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:50 PM
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"My love language is having the guy pay for my shit" Women don't fancy men unless they're really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:40 PM
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A woman has to smell like literal shit or defend the holocaust for me to get the ick, unlike women who will find an ick if you like drinking water or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:34 PM
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Here's the thing "bucko", maybe it comes natural to you. I have had many dates and to me it's just rejection and being used. If it was something everyone did effortlessly this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:13 AM
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What is even your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:40 PM
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"Men decide if she's dateable" Women decide if he's not a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:39 PM
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People who are naturally good at stuff and incredibly lucky look down on others and wonder why is it that not everyone has it as easy as them, they should just follow their heart and dreams and life will resolve itself I hope you're troll
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:17 PM
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Then let's all be assholes to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:32 AM
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Now you are gonna tell me that there aren't millions of misogynistic abusers out there getting laid all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:30 PM
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Or you become a player and seek casual sex with them, if that's within your possibilities that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:19 PM
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Isn't this a minority of sad losers? Also I know plenty of misogynistic men really successful with women, that doesn't seem to be a fundamental problem to them. I have plenty of bad experiences with women and some traumas, my friends too. I don't hate women, I can get along with them fine, but I don't see the point in trying to date them because the dating environment is so versed in their favour that many can afford treating us like disposable pets, and so many of them do exactly that. Knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:11 PM
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You don't get it, I don't scare them away, they want me to stay as pet so they can talk about the other men they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:55 PM
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You don't get it, I don't scare them away, they want me to stay as pet so they can talk about the other men they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:54 PM
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OLD except for one time. And well, I've never ever gotten a second date I'm not that ugly, like 4/10, 5/10 on a good day. But I don't seem to inspire any kind of sexual attraction at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:39 PM
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Yes I fully agree, that's why I hate the double standard of women being plus sized and men being fat. Or women being petite or shortstacks and men being short. You know at least being fat has a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:37 PM
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It's not fun when you're sexually unattractive and all you get is women who want to keep you as emotional support pet. But meeting people, men and women, outside of dating can be fun tho, like DnD groups and all that jazz I like that despite my anxiety. But dating? Nah nah that's pure and raw suffering for us the unattractives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:34 PM
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My point is that calling a woman fat is cruel but calling a man fat is just stating facts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:32 PM
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You just need to attract one woman Yeah that's the hard part
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:31 PM
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It's fun when you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:27 PM
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But use fat to describe a woman and it's over for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:25 PM
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It's a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:23 PM
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Lmao aren't you showing a duality with your examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:15 PM
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Then please do enlighten me oh you wise one, what is it that my uncreative mind is blind to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:30 PM
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"Just be yourself, be confident, the right person will come to you when you least expect it" That's the alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:04 PM
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They are simple to your delusional self and nobody else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:41 PM
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Well if all your input is "nuh uh" then, uh, have a cookie I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:40 PM
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Romanting to jaded of course. Romance is a privilege for few and only if they find it they will tell everyone that there is hope for everyone and that your time will come. Kinda like getting a raise during layoff season and telling everyone that their raise will come if they just wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:47 PM
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There are every few people like that even on this sub and overall in the world. Most just realized that we're playing the romance game on the hardest difficulty and are just tired. I can speak only for me when I say that I stopped getting crushes and liking women romantically when I realised it only led to disappointment and sadness in the good cases, and to actual suffering in the bad ones. But I still have plenty of women friends. Yes I get angry when they bring out boyfriend stuff but I can j…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:45 PM
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The reality that most blue pill women are stuck in a delusional bubble of their own experience as means to explain every interaction and that they are incapable of fathoming that maybe most people are not attractive and successful which comes with different experiences altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:35 PM
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Sending ambiguous and unclear signals is not "initiating" anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:32 PM
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No they don't. Romantic falling in love and finding the one is just a privilege for a few lucky ones. The rest of us are forced to navigate this market and settle for the least bad options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:30 PM
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Then maybe that way of structuring society is not beneficial to neither sex. Men are not approaching because we get called creeps for not being attractive, we get laughed at for misinterpreting normal interactions as "signals", we get told by everyone that women don't want to be approached but women actually only want to be approached by a select few, we get told that women only want friendships, that approaching is just a few steps away from sexual assault etc. So yeah, no wonder men aren't app…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:26 PM
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Looking at a guy for more than 7 seconds and then him not responding to this "approach" is not "being rejected". "I laughed when he made a joke and he still hasn't asked me out, he must be rejecting me ." "I looked him in the eye for 12 seconds, how come he hasn't asked me out, he's rejecting me" This is delusion, and if a man thought like this he would be rightly called out as an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:17 PM
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A total loser
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:00 PM
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See the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:37 PM
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Because no woman actually goes for these men in the first place because they are not tall supermodels. So what the fuck are these men supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:23 PM
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It was a rhetorical question. It was my fault for assuming you were intelligent enough to understand that, I apologise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:55 PM
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I did and the answer is douchebags because being myself just turns me into their pet friend to whom they talk about the douchebags they fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:30 PM
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Idk the sexualy successful fellas in highschool were the party dudes with horrible grades safe for like one or two guys. What is being sexually attractive then, being a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:21 PM
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Some of us were studying and not literally fucking around, our bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:02 PM
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Great for you buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:28 PM
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I'm wasting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:28 PM
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I have no idea what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:21 PM
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So you don't care if a man "can't entertain you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:14 PM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:04 PM
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And it's then fair for them to act like queens who want to be entertained by her court of jesters. This is OPs point exactly. Most women I met who think like that have nothing going for them, they think they're so special and quirky and have to be entertained but are the most shallow and uninteresting human beings roaming the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:02 PM
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Oh I was thinking of getting those, I know stein's gate is good but between fate and tsukihime which one would you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:10 PM
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But No visual novels I assume
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:19 PM
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Romantic love: I become an imbecile clown thinking about how much love I could give this bitch who sees me as a pet to vent emotionally and after a while it fades leaving me empty in search for peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:17 PM
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It is if you don't play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:14 PM
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Wow you're so complex and deep, of course you wouldn't understand the plebs who feel barbaric emotions such as looking at someone and thinking "damn they're hot". Such a great example of pure superiority you are, nothing but the utmost admiration from all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:20 PM
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Then look at it like a spectrum, more chad, less chad. The men you refer are greatly leaning towards the chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:56 PM
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You mean chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:38 PM
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He's talking about young men. Betabux settling comes a bit later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:20 PM
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Alpha fucks, beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:38 PM
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All the assholes fucking seem to disagree. Also the studies revealing that asshole behaviour correlates with success in having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:33 PM
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Props on french kissing, you're way ahead than many of us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:22 AM
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Link leads nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:17 AM
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Then statistics should show that being a bully does not correlate with success in romance and sex right? Oh wait, the opposite is true 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:16 AM
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Hey if women making bad choices is an inherent force of nature like banks having money then you said it better than I ever could
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:35 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? Men will date the usually best option available, which is usually below a certain attractiveness threshold but we don't care. How does that relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:34 PM
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600 women means the probability of one of them having really low standards is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:34 PM
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Men will stop aspiring to be immoral assholes when that stops attracting women, but that doesn't seem to be the case yet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:40 AM
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Hey we don't have a fucking choice if we want to feel basic human warmth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:29 AM
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But when I do that and say most women in general go for assholes I'm wrong huh, even though you can see it everywhere. I posted a study some days ago that supports it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:50 PM
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Hey I've seen women get hard just with looks 🤷‍♂️, so either you're lying or you want to use yourself as template to generalize women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:43 PM
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All Virgins are incels, gotcha How do you meet so many douche bags then? Because they're everywhere to varying percentages. Everyone knows an asshole. If you don't know any assholes welll, maybe you're the asshole they know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:50 PM
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Lmao incel subreddits? You mean only this subreddit? I don't really venture to others. And no, clubs not either. Other places I meant like workplaces I've been in, university, friend groups, you know, the average stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:36 PM
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If I felt good about being single I wouldn't be commenting on this stupid sub Reddit for losers like me. It fucking works and that's what makes me feel like shit because I have tried to be more of an asshole but I just can't, it's not on my nature. And naturally my own personality doesn't work, because it only attracts friends, because I'm friend material, to use as consoling and advice, also favours and shit. But for romance and sex? They need a douche bag and I can't afford that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:11 PM
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Yes I knew many women who fell for assholes quick. Ah the good old family argument. Let's see. My dad was a confident douche bag who abused my mom and me, a total sociopath in fact, so yes my mom was attracted to him. I don't have sisters... some of my aunts married antisocial abusers, others settled for a guy when they were older. My grandma settled for my grandpa because she was too old for the time, my grandpa was an unconfident antisocial total piece of shit who would've never found love if …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:06 PM
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Oh a guy telling me to just work on myself, I've never seen one of those before. I wonder if women also have to work on themselves this much huh, because their advice to each other is all "wait for the right person"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:50 PM
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Idk maybe being vulgar and rude to others, using others as the butt of the joke and bullying them, saying misogynist shit, displaying narcissistic tendencies. Those are the favoured men by women wherever I go. Adding to that, also in the smut women write for women, fiction kinda resembles reality sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:10 PM
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Of course they are not only visual creatures you silly, the man must also display antisocial behaviour to make the attraction succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:08 PM
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Lmao you write a whole thing justifying the stupid view but then add that men get easily hard with anything. That's the shit that takes out seriousness for y'all's advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:07 PM
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"Be yourself" "be funny" " be nice" "Open up emotionally" and other bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:04 PM
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It's because I'm tired of seeing women go on about how attraction is so complicated for them and they see sexuality in terms so complex men wouldn't understand... And then you look again and they are drooling and smooching over a douche bag asshole they just met and a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah. The first one was once when I was trying to flirt with a girl and apparently she didn't like me but didn't say it. Later her friend told me I was making her unconfortable horrible shit like that. No wonder that made me stop approaching girls for like 4 years. The second was, well, several times, people after finding out I was a virgin telling me how that was because I was such a loser and a pathetic socially awkward idiot. Other times when I was telling women "friends" how I was feeling do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:56 PM
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When we feel scared and insecure, we're pathetic and we need "to work on ourselves" because our very being is a mistake that has to be amended. From what I've seen from friends, autistic women have it nice, they're seen as quirky and cute most of the time and dying alone is not really likely for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:49 PM
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Then thank you for caring, you're so virtuous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:46 PM
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No wonder women are shit at it. They get angry when chad ignores the signals and also angry when the loser misinterprets her 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:44 PM
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We get all the "men are rapists asshole" treatment as well as the "you're a pathetic virgin loser" treatment, the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:43 PM
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Typical bluepill just ignoring the issue to solve it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:42 PM
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I guess being attractive does help to avoid the pathetic loser allegations. Tops if you're also antisocial, women love that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:41 PM
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Idk, all my women friends see an attractive douche ag and immediately fall for him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:40 PM
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I've seen women throw SA accusations for looking at them 🤷‍♂️. The only difference between a potential assaulter and a cool guy is attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:14 PM
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Men are afraid of expressing interest or even looking at women because we don't want any SA accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:06 PM
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Oh women are so virtuous that they cannot simply be attracted to a man, such complex creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:05 PM
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Yes we are pathetic losers and social inepts, thank you for providing such en lighting information
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:01 PM
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Yeah I'm one of those autistic men, and all I get from women is "you're not confident, you're a loser, work on yourself etc", and I'm like, bitch I have been working on myself my whole fucking live as a survival strategy, masking is second nature, I had to avoid bullying and being ostracized. But that's the thing of being a man who wants to date women, no matter how much effort you put it's never ever enough and you always have to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:56 PM
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nothing is more bloody than boiling than seeing the sheer lack of sincerity so many guys have when it comes to approaching women. [...] I think that’s some of the reason why women don’t make it clear because they’re playing this inane game. Nobody gives a flying fuck about innocent men and we have to eat the shit of both men and women and nobody cares. Women mention them so they can avoid the "you think all men are bad" allegations but in reality every man is a creep unless he is an attractive d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:54 PM
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Thank god you're a woman then because a man with those traits will rot in loneliness forever apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:46 PM
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even when they make the first move they expect you to carry the conversation Interesting way of saying women are lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:45 PM
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Oh but a man has to be able to be confident and make perfect eye contact or else he is a pathetic loser who will die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:43 PM
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Once again women being pieces of shit is men's fault, glad to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:42 PM
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News flash, women are lazy and sit on their asses waiting for the men to come forth to accuse them of being creeps if they're not 10 times above average attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:40 PM
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Well in your other comment you clearly implied that women who fuck antisocial men are mentally ill. That would mean most women in the world are mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:43 PM
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Astonishing discovery: Women love antisocial behaviour, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:25 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:12 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:54 PM
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Well of course it's different you dipwit, because any woman can get any fucking dates she wants, duh. She just has to sit on her ass and wait and then the men will arrive. And I'll tell you something about my preferences before you lump me with other incel losers: I have dated obese women lmao, and I don't mean chubby, I mean 80kg with just 140cm height. They didn't want me as a partner because I was better as mental health support for whenever they were feeling down after a douche bag she pursu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:13 PM
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We get it, you like to read disgusting rape erotica with asshole men, but you're not a pervert, you're a woman with preferences. Have a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:22 PM
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So we agree that women being attracted to douche bags is a widespread mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:05 PM
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Well go on and tell them. I find women aaaall the time bitching about how there are no good men, how all the guys they date are douche bags and how it is soooo hard to be a woman these days because reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:30 PM
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Idk I'm not on the conservative manosphere. I accept that I have to work to get dates, I don't accept that asshole douche bags don't have to, and I also don't accept people who wanna say that women have it so bad because every single one has men pursuing them who would like to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:23 PM
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The red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:48 PM
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Yeah I've read them and it was all the same rhetoric of men being pervert deviants and women being complex creatures full of reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:47 PM
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Take a look at all the comments saying how it's not a fetish because women are allowed to have preferences and fetishes are perverted and blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:16 PM
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Those are a lot of words to defend women having fetishes. But if men want women who have good bodies they're fetishist perverts and fatphobic misogynists right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:15 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:14 PM
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Oh another comment bitching about how women should be able to have height fetishes, be attracted to douche bags and explain how that's totally nromao and men who are affected by unrealistic standards and general shitty women should just go fuck themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:13 PM
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When they do with groups and shit then women complain about it. Do you think TRP just appeared out of nowhere? It's essentially a support group because men don't get any sympathy irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:11 PM
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Lmao new imbecility just dropped: men are lonely, starved for human touch and depressed because they're lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:12 PM
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Idk about others, but I just wish a world were women were not always attracted to total assholes and also were men who are autistic and/or socially awkward don't get treated like shit and isolated. But you know, I'd be easier to wish for flying pigs or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:09 PM
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Most men just google "naked woman boob" and that's enough 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:53 PM
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They masturbate to the most horrendous smut erotica imaginable full with rape and abuse with the shittiest stories ever known to human kind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:50 PM
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Women have to know that the guy is a total asshole to get that sex drive going
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:03 PM
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Meh, being an absolute piece of shit douche bag doesn't come naturally to me and I don't feel good forcing it. If that's what women want then I'd rather just give up with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:02 PM
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"Women are attracted to douche bags but it's men's fault" Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:14 AM
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Not all of us have the privilege to go around fucking every gal buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:35 AM
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Who approaches men anyway? The only women that have ever approached me wanted help with homework or studies, or wanted to complain about how this absolute douche bag is so sexy and cute but won't approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:28 AM
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Whag the fuck are you even saying? Are we now imagining super hypothetical scenarios where all the men decide to do one thing? Who is talking about guns??? Men are forcing women into what?? Into women finding douche bag behaviour attractive??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:25 AM
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And the part about men is what women say, your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:14 PM
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It's a bet alright
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:42 PM
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Lmao sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:32 PM
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What the fuck arou you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:15 PM
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Should you do this? Maybe not Does it work for the douches and assholes? Oh yes most certainly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:09 PM
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Acting like he's not saying something that's at least partially true. Most people have romantic and sexual experiences before turning 18. If a woman doesn't have them she's pure and saving herself, cause you know women can do them whenever they want. But a man? He's a disgusting virgin loser, probably a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:07 PM
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That's the same old rhetoric for the same old moral facade. In the end they'll find the greatest confident douche the can and that would be it, maybe with money, maybe broke, always an asshole who stands up straight and that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:03 PM
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millions of average slubs who manage to do so You have just been introduced to the context of settling and betabux. Oh but of course that doesn't apply to you, yours is genuine love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:38 PM
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It's easy to say that when you have not been dating for the past 2 decades, it's a nice little happy bubble. So what's a good woman? "mY WifE" Innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:24 PM
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Congrats on being married etc etc but the reality is that women see most men a scum and creeps to discard from the confident douche bags they will bang. "Good women" can sort out and find themselves some real asshole who expresses confidence, humiliate other men and, most importantly, attract other women. If a man wants to attract a "good woman" he'll have to play an unfair numbers game. "BuT iM mArrIeD tO a BeauTIful WoMan wHo LikEs Me BecAuSe I'm NiCe aNd wE mEt roManticAlly AnD hAvE SucH a Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:16 PM
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These are older men with money or confident absolute douche bags. "Average people everywhere" could mean anything but the fact is that most young men are single and most of them are not having as much sex as your average hypergamous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:23 PM
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My point is that no matter the proof brought up, the idiots will always say "nuh uh", so what's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:16 PM
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Hey I posted a study the other day and people still found ways to turn it against itself 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:22 PM
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Imagine just simply excluding the reality of millions of men because you've ridden so much cock you can't sympathise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:26 PM
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So now next to basic human interaction I also shouldn't be allowed to express my opinions? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:50 PM
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Sad shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:32 PM
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Because a mutual chemistry the ways you describe are something people like me will never experience. Sorry for being once so naïve to think that a woman could have been showing genuine interest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:32 PM
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Good for him I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:43 PM
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It's not that we need more, it's that we don't get any whatsoever unless you're really lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:30 PM
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No, personality is what makes them see you as their personal therapist and come to you every time a douche treats her like shit, but she will feel absolutely no attraction to you if you're ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:27 PM
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Such is the way of life and nothing can be done about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:18 PM
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I guess you're an exception. If more women were like you then maybe we wouldn't even think about making these studies. I'm at least glad not every single woman on earth is attracted to douche bags, just a very very very huge number.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:17 PM
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Because when you meet a woman and have great chemistry with her, see that she enjoys your company and you hers, have so many things in common and would love to meet again... She will see you as a friend, because you're an unattractive loser who is only good at making people like you platonically. Say whatever you want about chemistry and shit, without looks you'll only be the idiot friend she uses to waste some time before she finds the douche she's actually attracted to. Or better yet, you'll b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:16 PM
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We're defeatist because unlike you, we are not okay at meeting girls. We never got that confidence boost. And you being a bad boy or a player, doesn't that kinda prove the study?? Don't be proud of it if you don't want, being being a douche got you girls, that's the reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:12 PM
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Who would've imagined that taking the decision to date a douche bag will result in an abusive relationship, how could one know such an unexpected outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:36 PM
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Eva AI is shit as of now man. I tried it and I felt like I was talking with customer service. Just jack off and enjoy solitude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:35 PM
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Read again. While positive correlation was found between being a victim and having dates, it was statistically insignificant. Meanwhile the correlation found between being a bully and having dates and sex WAS very significant, statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:33 PM
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Or, hear me out, people like that behaviour, it's "sooo confident"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:31 PM
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Is one drunk a naive for the whole duration of a long term relationship with a douche bag?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:29 PM
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Every psychologist will tell you that your childhood will have significant impact in the way you develop as an adult, it's a critical period filled with milestones and challenges and that's why therapists ask you to tell about it. You had a perfect childhood and developed a normal sex and adult lifez great for you, have a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:28 PM
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"Oh this is bad", but thats the behaviour society rewards. I agree with you and that's why I can say that most people are indeed immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:25 PM
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"small genetic component" he says
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:18 PM
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Bullying is never constructive. Every single study you can find about bullying reveals it's detrimental for normal human development. Were you a bully? Are you trying to justify what a huge piece of shit you were?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:17 PM
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Or maybe they like when they're assholes to everyone but not them, princess treatment aye
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:15 PM
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I would expect women to be intelligent enough to not pursue douche bags 🤷‍♂️ Unless, you knows they're into that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:08 PM
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Being nice doesn't work if you're not several times more attractive than the average 🤷‍♂️. The day women will stop actively pursuing douche bags I'll believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:06 PM
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Congrats, you're the exception and not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:04 PM
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I'm too horny for celibate life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:04 PM
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How can you tell that they're raping every girl that willingly come to them, or that they're coercing every girl they meet? are you with them behind closed doors? If you want to believe that all the women gushing over bullies are being raped then go on, yet another way of blaming men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:34 AM
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Same here mate, but I'm younger. No success with dating, only pain, rejection and misery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:30 AM
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Idk all the bullies drowning in pussy I have met the women seemed to be very consenting, in fact, they were very active in their pursuit. You're not gonna tell me that women chasing douche bags are also being coerced?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:24 AM
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Yes and when discussing the reason you suddenly jumped into rape allegations, even though the study clearly asked participants in terms of "dating" most of the time, which isn't coerced
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:19 AM
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Let's assume everyone is raping each other then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:13 AM
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The study also applies to women bullies getting more sex too, are you gonna say the girls are raping the boys too? Or is this some systematic machinery that is somehow men's fault too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:04 AM
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But agressiveness as a sexually attractive quality makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:54 AM
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I see the adult bullies and douches get actively pursued by women, it's not a leap, it's how the world is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:14 AM
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Well I was certainly not talking about the invading armies...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:02 AM
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Right back at you, I was talking about bullies and modern society and you suddenly mention the invading armies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:00 AM
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I like to think women are capable of the reasoning necessary to not pursue the advances of a sociopathic douche. Unless, you know, they like riding asshole dick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:57 PM
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kind Hahaha lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:54 PM
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So you have to be a bully and be really good at it to be attractive, gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:50 PM
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This world rewards antisocial behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:46 PM
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did women have a choice to be raped when invading men sacked their cities Is that the average high school experience in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:45 PM
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Those are things you seek once money and sex are fulfilled. Money and sex are not important to those who already have them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:43 PM
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Then we have found an agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:07 PM
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Is that supposed to be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:03 PM
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Goes to show that being an absolute douche bag is the way to go regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:55 PM
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Hey I could be. The women I "date" tend to say I'm the nicest man they've known, but you know, soon after she says that she doesn't sees me in a romantical sense or she ghosts me So maybe I am a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:48 PM
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Have you worked on customer service?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:34 PM
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Tbh I'd rather be wasting my time on hoes than being a loser virgin who every woman doesn't remotely see as a tiny bit interesting romantically and or sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:32 PM
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We seem to have very different problems and I have trouble understanding why should I feel sad for your position. I guess such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:24 PM
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I know so many adults well over 40 years old that are as immature if not more than your average high school bully. I'd be inclined to believe that the answer is yes most of the time. Most people don't mature, most people are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:23 PM
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In any case, most women want them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:19 PM
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Woe is you having so much sex all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:17 PM
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Tell adults to stop dating bully douches and maybe the study will not be applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:02 PM
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Are you saying women don't have the agency to chose not to be with the bully? That they're like candy that gets up divided like booty?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:01 PM
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Well then, I guess bullies just have more sex because of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:45 PM
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No culture shift because we will just keep repeating that it's not assholes who attract women, it's charisma or blahblah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:17 PM
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truth is, if you act like a fucking ape, most women would leave In high school there was this guy in my class who had an older brother. That older brother had the nickname "gorilla" because he acted like one and sorta looked like one. You will hardly ever meet a more pure douche bag. Anyway, he fucked A LOT. His younger brother, my classmate, shared a room with him, and he was constantly thrown out for the entire night because he had brought a chick. He graduated high school and he kept it in co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:52 PM
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Well average and below average men like me don't get pursued. And yes I've tried putting my foot down more, that just drives them away faster. Am I too boring?? Am I too ugly?? Who knows!! But I have a friend who's more or less on my level, maybe even worse considering that he is an alcoholic gambling addict, he is also a huge douche bag and a manipulative asshole. Between us, guess who has success with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:59 PM
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You can be successful with women without being a moronic douches but you'll have to pursue them. I guess that's how it works for you right? And no, last girl I was trying to date said she loved being around me and that I was so much better than all the other men she had met online. Crossed all of Germany just to see me for 3 days. But after meeting her in a fucking dating app, having her send me hearts everyday and coming to me for advice on anything, she opened up saying that she never saw me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:49 PM
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Idk man being bold funny and charismatic are just compliments, the real deal is being a douche. "Most women wouldn't like it" but everywhere you go, the attractive douche is the one getting all the gals around him. Sounds like you're high on copium
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:41 PM
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Oh no, plenty of non douches can rizz up women. But they are not pursued by them. But women actively go and pursue the douches, especially if they are attractive. Of Cours ein envious of the moronic douches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:38 PM
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It's not my fault you wanna ignore the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:36 PM
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Thats what logic would tell you but the men that are always chased by women are most of the time douches of high calibre, that's how they express their confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:33 PM
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Because women love asshole personalities. When people say "be confident" they mean "be an asshole, bully the weak and act like a douche" and that will get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:19 PM
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"online community" 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:27 PM
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I was encouraged to do sport and social activities and I'm still an unsocialized loser either because in all those places I got bullied or every friendship I made was so superficial that it died out quickly. Humans love to pick someone and just exclude them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:18 PM
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Welcome to the average male experience. Maybe you should download tinder or something if you want people to talk to you and flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:09 PM
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There ya go, if you know exactly what the deal is why are you denying OP then? Because you don't want people to call you "heightist" just because you try to rationalize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:17 PM
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You're kinda proving his point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:03 PM
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Cause he ain't toxic enough maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:58 PM
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Well my answer was that humans don't always act rationally and according to their best interest all the time because we're not computers, we're dumb animals with access to the internet. A woman likes an asshole who will treat her badly, doesn't mean she will like when she is treated badly, because she will not rationalize this to that extend. But she doesn't like this answer because she thinks humans are always and all the time acting rationally and logically according to their best interest, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:52 PM
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You just described how women have a privilege in dating, and the disadvantage is, what? That they have low self esteem? Oh poor them, everybody wants them but they can't chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:48 PM
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Well I don't know if it's not about gender. But I'll tell you what I see everywhere I go, I see asshole bully men drowning in pussy. Such was high school, such was college, and such was any other environment I engaged with. In fact, it's the only type of man I see women actively pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:09 AM
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Idk about other men, but I've tried dating, one could say, conventionally unattractive women. Last one was overweight and her skin was not in the best health, but you know I didn't care because she seemed cool. I met her online. She talked about how nice I was, I helped her after a bad encounter with another man and after that she always came to me for advice, she traveled across the entirety of Germany to see me for a few days while on a very short vacation. She told me I was one of the best me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:06 AM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:58 PM
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Of course, making a girl laugh is the only thing required to get in her bed. You're a delusional lucky man it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:53 PM
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Not true man, I can pretend to be charismatic too and get women to laugh, in the best cases all I ever get is friendship, if not flat out rejection. Being charismatic brings you NOTHING without looks, except if you have money of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:50 PM
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Hahaha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:47 PM
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Translation: it's fine to approach women in public if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:40 PM
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Then please do enlighten me and explain to me why women go after abusive assholes, fantasize about them and get them to ruin their own lifes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:29 PM
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You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:26 PM
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Then I'll answer you Women chose to marry abusive assholes and then get sad because they abuse them and then file for divorce. Woe is them for going after pathetic abusive losers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:24 PM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:21 PM
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When men engage in terrible behaviours is their fault and they deserve it. But when women do it's always a response to their environment and a complex bundle of numerous factors that create an context in which certain kinds of behaviours are promoted leading to a specific patrn of behaviour blah blah blah. You never take responsibility, give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:20 PM
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You'd be surprised how hot they can be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:17 PM
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I always saw that sentence as stating a preference women had. But I'm starting to see that being an absolute asshole is the thing most women like. I knew of the idea, I just didn't grasp it's depth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:17 PM
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And then there's people like me, the boring kind of losers, we don't get shit because we are not assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:15 PM
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You were living a rom com fantasy and you decided to throw it in the trash, no sympathy from me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:14 PM
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I want to know as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:10 PM
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Well yes, and people who are assholes get positive results. Say whatever you want, but that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:38 AM
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156 out of 678 who chose to answer and were single correct? That's 23% A bit more than 1 in every 5 women. Consider that most women wouldn't go on a date with most men (average or low average height, income, not above average attractiveness). That leaves us with: depending on the situation, the probability of a woman who would go on a date with one of these men being on it for the food is very high. That means that the actual dating pool for these men, most men, could be full with those. But hey…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:38 PM
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You're describing how she treated him as starter boyfriend and refusing to acknowledge it as such. Oh but shame on those men who do treat women as starter girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:28 PM
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Keep on with the mental gymnastics, but the truth is ultimately that women will want assholes because being an asshole and being confident are deeply interconnected, no better way to tell someone if confident than having them being asshole, biggest turn on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:04 PM
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