| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interest | BreadSquare | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:38 AM |
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| 5 | Give her an experience, not just a dateVery strongly disagree, a first date has an extremely simple purpose which is very easy to carry out, just talk and get to know each other. All you need is a setting to talk. You're two strangers, you can easily talk. You don't need frills or experiences or activities. Some women ask for that and I associate them with girls who look for high income chumps who give out free dinners and entertainment. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestWell in this example reading the reciprocation told me it was a total lack of interest from them ... | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestnice points, thank you | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestFair enough, maybe my standards are too harsh for thinking I'm unwanted and imposing on them. How do you judge when to bail from disinterest? Should I just keep going until they make a direct statement to me? | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestExpecting them to "keep the conversation going" is one thing, but expecting them to barely make an effort at participating is another. Isn't the latter fair to expect? Is there actually no minimum effort from them that says "they aren't interested"? Should I just keep going all the time always up to what ... 5 opening topics, 10 opening topics? A one sided convo has to end somewhere. How do you judge when to bail from disinterest? | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - When to bail on the approach, judging lack of interestNope I'm here in the US. Ah, ok so you would have kept going with small talk in that situation. I just feel so bad and nervous about imposing on them that I always second guess whether they actually want me there. Not sure how to get past that feeling. I actually left out a small part of the interaction, that part I described happened a few moments after I made my actual first first approach. I made some comment about the drinks they just got, they made one comment about the drink I had, then I … | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Do great in person, not so great online. Anyone else relate to this?Think everyone does better in person, online is a waste of time | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 03:26 AM |
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