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| 1 | Do Pheromone Based Products Work? Any Experiences? | BreakTheWallsDown95 | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 10:56 PM |
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| 8 | How do I get over my fear of approaching women and false SA?Don’t overcomplicate it. The odds of you being accused of SA are slim to none. Approach from the front or side with an observational comment, make your intent clear, and wait for a response. If you don’t receive a receptive response, it’s going to be okay. Excuse yourself and walk away, don’t be a lemon. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:58 AM |
| 10 | Guys, what’s the need to date women from your workplace?We spend 11 hours of our day either working, commuting, or getting ready to and from work in a given day; couple that with a couple of hours of sleep, and your amount of free time is severely limited. Convenience breeds a lot of the decisions that we make; calculated risk is at the forefront of it all. Sure, you can always have hobbies outside of work that help you meet women, and sometimes that works, and sometimes it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?You reach a certain point where rating women just feels juvenile. When I reach out to someone, it’s because I genuinely want to connect—not to prove my worth. The truth is, people interpret things in their own way. We’re not mind readers, and we never really know what someone else is going through or how that might shape their response. All I can do is show up honestly and communicate clearly. If I stay authentic and confident, then it’s simple: either she’ll be receptive, or she won’t—and eithe… | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 08:57 PM |
| 12 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?Everyone's criteria will differ based on their own framework and experiences. I consciously try not to overanalyze things that would keep me away from happiness. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Do you think someone with autism could play this game?It’s a different path to follow, but being on the spectrum, I don’t see it as impossible. I would recommend checking if your employer offers therapy and learning how to converse in general. PUA content can provide useful ideas, but it’s not something I would spend money on. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you not feel bad and upset about teens having more experience than you?As someone in his late 20s, my life revolves around bigger and more important things such as my career and making my dreams a reality for me to allocate my bandwidth to worry about some lanky high school kid scoring with a hot babe. Everyone's journey is different, but it's more productive of your time as a 21-year-old to understand what has led you to where you are and be strategic about how you are going to fill in that gap to have the resources you need to be successful. University therapy is… | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a woman questions your manliness?Most of you who are recommending an insult as a rebuttal are missing the point, lol… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?It's sent me into an absolute state of depression. No woman I meet is memorable, (compare to the one-i-tis I once idealized) and I often feel like my value as a human being correlates to how I look. We are not even talking about romantic attraction, but just people's overall attentiveness and treatment of me. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:44 PM |
| 4 | I can't do it, I'm giving up, and accepting this as my reality forever.Settle down, Beavis. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 43 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?I was never part of a frat, and I personally have issues with them for many toxic traits they exhibit. However, I was "in the know" of the scene. If you want to get laid and are semi-outgoing, you'll probably succeed. Try joining with a buddy and it'll make the RUSH process much more fun. Joining orgs also helps if you're not willing to dish out the cash associated with a frat. | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 66 | Just did my first day of cold approach, and landed me a job randomlySales will teach you something important about people. People like to buy, but they hate being sold something. | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 24 | Finally realizing what abundance means.Something in common with dating and job interviews: it's all about framing, and don't reveal more than you're asked. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Such on point advices are what we need!The problem isn't whether they like you or not, the problem is whether you let her mixed signals actively ruin your self-esteem or day. In the words of CM Punk, "Some of you need to stop listening to criticism from people you wouldn’t ask advice from." | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Some things you can control in life, some you cannot. Work on falling in love with yourself so that others can fall in love with you. Will you miss out on some hot broads who love tall dudes? Absolutely. In the end, only strive for those looking who have your best interest in mind. I have a friend whose 5'5 (he claims he's 5'7, but he's lying or delusional) who gets pretty attractive girls to look at him by the way he dresses. He manages to screw it up in the end, but it was nothing to do with h… | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 09:36 PM |
| 23 | Besides bars and clubs, where are some solid places to meet women?You know what you guys should do? Go to the bookstore at lunch. There's tons of cuties and it's easy to talk to them. "Hey, what book is that? " "Cool, let's hang out tonight. " "Sex already? Whoa" | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Is this a "jerk" move?No, move on. | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Endless Options (Jesse Jhaj of Simple Pickup)Anything is possible! However, I consider my friend to have the ability to even get a good conversation out of a broomstick. Not an absolute indictment of his ability, but enough to have me skeptical about shelling out $400 on such product. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Endless Options (Jesse Jhaj of Simple Pickup)He's a good marketer when it comes to evoking a reaction, but I lost admiration for him about a year ago when he messaged a friend of mine (female) on a notorious dating website. He presented himself as a world-traveler, but his conversation skills were dull and no better than most guys on this sub (including me.) I'd be open to paying $30 to check out the content during this quarantine, but $400 is just a weird price skimming strategy. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 02:33 AM |
| 10 | Weird breakthrough on rejection"Game" isn't about having many rules, but it's the equivalent of not having basic sales knowledge and apologizing profusely to the customer for your product being expensive. You're conveying a lack of self-worth and are making people uncomfortable by raising an objection that wasn't on the table. Similar with women-be an improved version of your authentic self, ask her out, and have her decide if you're her type or not. If the answer is "no," politely move on without having women feel sorry for … | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 42 | Weird breakthrough on rejectionNever ask a girl if you’re her type, lmao. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 07:16 PM |
| 6 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.I’ve been dying to read some of these books. Great job, OP! | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 3 | 24 Hours On Girl's Tinderwelp, buying a loose rope right now. To be fair, though: Different cities will have different results for a girl. I'm guessing a city like Las Vegas or Los Angeles would have a more favorable result for a chick than Salt Lake City, Utah. This is assuming that the girl is interested in every single profile she comes across. It's the upper value (while still impressive) range of results, but not a clear indicator of how screwed you are. 75% of these guys will be left on "read" by the 6th message. … | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend of 2 years wrecked my state of frame and became emotional over her last ex tonight - Where do I go from here?Don’t listen to that poster. If she lacks the vision to see what you’re doing, then she’s not the girl for you. You’re 25, the breakup will hurt but you’ll eventually do fine! | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 04:57 AM |
| 0 | I turned down sexSounds like you avoided an STD. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Tips on getting lucky with a milf?Grow facial hair. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Anyone know why Jesse from Simple Pickup left JumpCutJesse messaged a friend of mines on OKCupid, which was really cool. She be musingly messaged him back, but he never got back to her. Seems like dude is living his best life. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I seem to have caught oneitis, help removing it?"Do you know why you're not over her? It's 'cause you can still picture her naked. You can't get over a woman until you can no longer picture her boobs. It's a scientific fact. The average male brain can only store a finite number of boob images, or BPEGs "-Barney Stinson | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:08 AM |
| 17 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.If I was teaching PUA in 2019, I would move to Vegas and just profit off there tbh. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I want to ask my friend (girl) to hangout this week and I kinda like her. How to respond to “is this a date?”“Absolutely” sounds weird, too try-hard. Go for “Yes.” | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Very hot girl gave me a record-breaking number of shit tests on our first date. I deflected most of them and she ended up initiating the kissHaving Tony Stark like retorts to everything sounds exhausting. How did you prevent yourself from just being mean-spirited in your comebacks? | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 07:56 PM |
| 51 | Jerry and his pick-up lines:Dude got Elaine. I respect him more than your average PUA artist. | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Should I politely put her in her place?For Christ's sake, it's not that important. This is not meant to be an attack against you, but rather a way to look at things. Accidents happen, people often have problems in their lives that affects their mood or makes them make silly mistakes such as not pressing "send." If it becomes a regular occurrence or blatant display to disrespect you, walk away. What do you gain by putting her in her place? Becoming a champion of Men everywhere? It's silly. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Unusual advice for all the introverts out there, you too can make them all talk about you.Solid video. Charisma’s CharismaUniversity course is pretty great, I’m slowly going through all the modules and learning tremendously. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 05:49 AM |
| 85 | A girl from work used a seduction technique on me yesterday.It always amuses me how women are able to do that in a smooth, natural way while it comes off as a daunting task for me due to body spacing and context. | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 04:57 PM |
| -2 | Girl who lives near me showing interest but has a boyfriend.If you have any event coming up with your friends, just invite her along. If not, say you like her style and ask if she's open to getting drinks with you. If the answer is "no," move on to the next girl. Or if she's worth it, just have her be a friend. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lolI got IP banned years ago for doing that, lmao. Anyways, keep in mind that you probably swiped right on everyone. Broads are picky, so I would reduce that number by 6x or 7x and she has about 150-200 matches that she found intriguing. It outlines the importance of peacocking with your pics, keeping it at 5-6 back and forth messages, and maintaining the conversation as short as possible before moving on to text, and shortly after, meeting up. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Woman with boyfriend always flirts/hits on me, how do you communicate that she should be available or stop this?A guy of higher value doesn’t care. Why do you care so much? | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 12:56 AM |
| 25 | Girl I'm texting indirectly cancels date by saying she's going out with friends. Where to go from here?“No problem. I’ll text you when my schedule opens up again” and just bail. She’s not that into you or likes to play games. Either way, it’s not worth it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Best overall book that has improved game and lifestyle?I can’t find an online copy of the book from either LibGen or torrenting. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Best overall book that has improved game and lifestyle?Did you get Fundamentals of Female Dynamics from anywhere specific? My usual methods are failing. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Based Zeus - The Godly Texting Guide$100 isn't bad, although I think that texting is the easiest part of the interaction. I'm in, if we can find 10 people, pretty good steal. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 04:54 AM |
| 3 | I found a way to bang foreign chicks who are visiting my cityWhich app is it? I have been dying to practice my poor Italian with someone. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Where to go on spring break?Your bio sucks. Try to add your personality to it, not generic bio material to it. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 03:42 AM |
| 5 | You might of already be losing daily opportunities.Just remember, Pam said she always thought that Toby was cute. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys open on TINDER“Daniela!” | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | List of 81 Ways to Break Rapport & Spark AttractionDo something childish like point at her shirt and flick her nose when she looks down. le chuckle. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneWas she fobby or Americanized? I heard a similar story years ago about my one-i-tis. She was with a group of friends at a restaurant, when the waiter suddenly asked for her number. She declined. Good job, OP! | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | What's the biggest seduction/self-improvement success story you've seen?You mind if I PM you? I would love to pick your brains without spamming the thread. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 2 | What's the biggest seduction/self-improvement success story you've seen?Do you target bicurious/bisexual women? I don't see how a straight girl would not be put off by this. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | I approached a 9 today and got her number!Eh, I would be annoyed if I was some cute girl and some random came up to me to tell me that he finds me cute (as a guy, I’d be flattered, but that’s mostly because I look like Quasimodo.) That’s why I prefer the, “I know this is unusual, but...” approach. Acknowledging the fact that you’re not creepy or socially retarded is a good disarm tool. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | I approached a 9 today and got her number!To be fair, that sounds like a horrible approach. Don't feel bad, improve your game. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 04:55 AM |
| 2 | RSD COACHING, $2500, INVEST OR NOT?As someone currently looking for a wingman, I would say "no." At this rate, there is plenty of free content (if you know how to look) on the internet that you can use as a blueprint (no joke intended) for approaching. Let's assume you get an RSD coach, do pretty well with him, and then the bootcamp ends. When you go back into the real world, you might get "bitch butterflies" and not approach as you won't have Max, Julien, Madison, or whoever telling you what to do. Essentially you get used to a … | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | RSD COACHING, $2500, INVEST OR NOT?Any recommendations? "Models" seems to be focused on relationships, and "The Game" is more of a story with some useful tidbits. I have information overload where I have in my possession both "Project Go", "The Natural", "The Blueprint", "Transformations", and "Flawless Natural." | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again.What the girl's said to us the next day blew my mind. The host tried sitting them at another table and they told him no please sit us next to that big group, in the hopes that one of the guys at the table would talk to them. In the age of the "#MeToo" movement and women wearing headphones to not be approached, I almost find this hard to believe. Good job, OP! I'm curious. Does your average joe approach women like this? It seems like an unrealistic expectation from those women. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How to compliment a girl you like: "Don't just say she's pretty... make it more meaningful"...but does it have free candy? | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Some of the best pick up artists lost their virginity at a late age. Mystery lost his virginity when he was 21.Ditto. I know I'm not, and I have been my own worst enemy over my lifetime. The first significant step I have taken is joining a top sales program that has made me more relaxed through the practice of it. Truth be told, looking for wingmen in my area. I think I would benefit tremendously by going out with a more experienced person. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 19 | Some of the best pick up artists lost their virginity at a late age. Mystery lost his virginity when he was 21.I'm 22, and still haven't had my first kiss. Training hard both physically and mentally to reach my enlightenment. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Caught myself developing oneitis just in time. Any advice on getting rid of it?Imagine all the guys who have pulled her hair and spanked her. Well, thanks for the visual.... starts drinking | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she asks "Are you hitting on me?"I once replied with, "I think you're cute, but I'm just having a conversation." Not a killer line, but the girl was receptive to it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | FWB Let Me Look At Her Badoo - This is what I saw insideThe thought of someone pulling quality ass from Badoo is amazing. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Models by mark masonIs there an audiobook version? I only have an epub. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame)I was talking more about first impression meetings. I usually always have something to do, so time is the most valuable asset I have. Most of my practice roleplays (conversations emulating a business meeting) last about 10 minutes, with the logic that you could use S.P.I.N (a legendary sales process) to build a connection and stimulate interest or desire within that time period. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame)I wouldn't do it. I have very little experience with women, but am undertaking a well-recognized sales program challenge. First, I have seen in a business setting (buyers) or in a more intimate setting, women, become defensive when they perceive they are being sold something with no rapport. Attempt to limit interactions to 15 minutes, and try to learn from your interaction to know how to improve. After those 5-15 minutes are up, go for the sell. You have to build comfort and demonstrate credibi… | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | I’m 30. Just matched with an 18 year old. THATS STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL. uhhh. What the consensus on this?Seriously. Many guys get off on the idea of having young ass with limited to no experience. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | My biggest key to having a high success rate with women.As someone who is studying sales, this rings true so much. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:59 PM |
| 5 | My oneitis seems to be interested in me. But i am writing this to myself beforehand.Oneitis. That's your problem. You need to game and look for more girls or you will be crushed if she flakes. What is one girl to a man who has dozens? | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sex with a cute girl at the second dateIn what kind of tone did you say it? I could see some girls taking it the wrong way at my local uni. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Today a very sad event made me come to a realization.This is an amazing post, hopefully it becomes a sticky. I don't know if it will help me get over my Approach Anxiety, but great way to reform your mindset. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | My dad stole my swag and is now getting hot chicksDamn, twice a day? How many calories was he burning? Doesn't seem healthy. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | My dad stole my swag and is now getting hot chicksHow long did it take your dad to lose 35 lbs? | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 06:42 AM |
| 6 | Redpill Wisdom: 3 Lesson's from old school U.S soldiers.Amazing advice. Makes me upset that I never had a grandfather. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Going back to a library after getting rejected by a librarianI am not sure how libraries are outside of Texas, but they are usually in open areas similar to Walmart. I suppose that you approached her at night time to warrant a reaction like that? Anyways, don't be a people pleaser in that regard of not going to that library. She's dead to you, move on. | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 11:55 AM |
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