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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	This. Hits. Hard. 🗣Trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed I've always been fiercely independent, ever since I was a child I never asked for help or opened up to those closest to me. I used to struggle with my own identity and never feeling enough love growing up, never feeling worthy, wanted, accepted.... I turned to men to try and find love, acceptance, understanding. I've spent the last 10 years of my life with NVM. Abusive men. Mentally and emotionally draining men. Men that only know how to take but never being able to match energy. NEVER AGAIN. Th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 05:21 PM
40	Fuck dudes I’m not dating again Preachhh! Anytime I get the itch to try out OLD again I come here to remind myself I'm better than that. For real. I work with large companies and some very successful, professional men. These types of men aren't OLD. Most HVM interested in a HVW aren't swiping on tinder or POF. On the rare occasion you do find a man who appears to be HV and attractive, BEWARE.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 05:52 PM
3	The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩 Literally my first thought 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:00 PM
2	Y’all, I gotta find a way to end this and I’m just not sure how. No problem girl, i'm happy for you! What I've learned the most from this group is so many of us have the same stories, have been through similar trauma and we all need to hold ourselves to the highest standard and it starts with ourselves. Once you break free from the NVM toxicity and work on yourself and are content with being single it's a new level of happiness and freedom! Than we can begin to attract HVM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 07:55 PM
14	Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex. Where are these stories??? I want to read more!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 10:25 PM
3	Y’all, I gotta find a way to end this and I’m just not sure how. This. This man child sounds like my ex... narcissist all the way, insecure as hell, made a point to wait on me hand and foot and use his "helpfulness" to manipulate and gaslight me. Run Queen! Anything that starts to good to be true and unfolds the way you're describing only ends horribly. You're seeing the light and understand this LVM is not bringing anything to the table worth suffering for. Next step is gathering the strength to dump him for good and learn from this experience!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 08:26 PM

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