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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | How long does it take to your financial future back on track? | Breed_love2375 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 09:41 AM |
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| 1 | How long does it take to your financial future back on track?Cheers. We’re doing it 50/50 because it was an equal marriage and I know that if I pushed it through the courts, I’d be at 50% or even worse off, and I’d be paying an extra £20k for the privilege. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to your financial future back on track?Thanks guy! I’m keeping our house and I’ll carry on paying the mortgage. If I need to downsize to free up cash or remortgage in a couple of years, I will do. She’s buying a new home with a smallish £100k mortgage. It’s a fairly fair split in property equity here. We’ve not tackled pensions yet but I do have an IFA involved. I’ll offset what I can, but after that I’ll try and do it in the most efficient way possible… alas I have nothing left to give her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Dividing a houseLooks like you can only sell here. A friend of mine did the charge process on the marital home when he moved out, and I think he gets 40% of the proceeds when sold, but only the asset value at point of divorce. He did this so that his ex couldn't access his pension. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | How long does it take to your financial future back on track?I'm paying £613 a month, or will be. I'll also be picking up insurances, and ongoing bills at least for the next 12 months. In short, i'll step away with £280k in equity, car, and most of the items in the house. I'll lose 40% of my pension during the marriage. But, my individual surplus cash each month should go from £400 a month to £700, and ability to save from £350 a month to £600. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 10:08 AM |
| 6 | I can’t wrap my head around how she is doing so wellShe's a year ahead of you, unfortunately. I've learnt this about women (I think). They're constantly analysing the situation (that doesn't mean they're right) it just means than when they make a decision they are confident it's the right one at the moment. They're also quite resolute so once the decision is made they have clear focus. I know i'm generalising but that's my experience. Some of the stuff you've highlighted on your child impact, and finances, she's probably not thought through prope… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 09:53 AM |
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