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Personally as a childless woman,you could not pay me to date a man with kids. I don’t understand why any willingly childless person would date someone with kids. Men might be different idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:26 AM
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Thank you,someone who understands that attraction can’t be forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:43 PM
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I can’t speak for all women obviously but I’ve never felt the need to be “led” or needed a “leader”. Not all men want a fawning,fragile flower either. Partner up with who suits you best instead of trying to dominate someone who has no desire or need to be dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:05 AM
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They vastly overrate their magnetism,in this sub at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:08 AM
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I’ve found that men in this situation often misread exchanging a few sentences as being “into you”. No. If she’s truly into you and finds you arousing/desirable then wild horses would have a hard time dragging her away. She would come back or try to get your number or something at least. If she immediately turns tail on you then she’s not very interested in you. Sometimes it’s hard to get an “out” In conversations like that because if you walk away from the guy he will simply follow you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:06 AM
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I remember being a teenager/early 20s young woman and having weird old men old pressing me for attention. I don’t mind age gap relationships as a whole,I find it a little bizarre that some older men swear up and down that there is some magical “bitter old hag” barrier keeping them away from hot young girls when 9 times out of 10 the young girls find them repugnant as well. From my personal experience,older men think they can get away with touching you (they’ll pretend it’s “playful”) you as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:29 AM
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Okay,you might not like to hear it but men CAN wear makeup,if it makes you feel emasculated or it’s too difficult for you to learn a few techniques then the problem is on you. Just learning to put concealer under the purple bags under your eyes makes you look so much more healthy and awake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:51 PM
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Ugly men rack up numbers all the time,it’s just not usually with the kind of women that the men on here obsess over. They sleep with shitfaced drunk women on nights out and get passed around the trailer park by day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:18 AM
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Then why are you nagging them to date you (not you specifically just this general topic)? If you don’t want a woman to settle on you and you don’t want her to choose a man on her own free will then what do you want???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:01 AM
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I was just saying that it seems like they want to be settled for which isn’t good for anyone. Okay. The girl who isn’t into you is giving you a chance. Here you go. She’s dating you. She’s still not attracted to you. It all sounds fine and dandy I’m sure until you see her look at your naked body in utter disgust. You really want that? Is simply being “with” someone worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:13 AM
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If most young single women can reasonably get the “best”(let’s be real even the women that the men on here spend all their time degrading can still get a fairly put together man) then why would they settle for someone they are not attracted to? The men on here wanting women to settle for them don’t realize they’re begging to be in a dead bedroom. Oh you mean the woman you had to “convince” to give you a chance doesn’t find you sexually appealing,wonder why. What do you want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah I’ve noticed the women ranked as “mid” are usually just unconventionally attractive or a bit odd. The women they find ugly don’t even make a blip on the radar because they don’t even consider them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:48 AM
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I read your post dude give it a rest please. Your league is what you make it. If a woman sleeps with a much better looking man then she’s in his league id say. It’s usually only men who fail to box outside their weight limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:54 AM
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Don’t be surprised when you marry a woman who won’t touch you and find you repulsive then. That’s what “settling” means. You want someone to lower standards to find undesirable men desirable. You can’t have it both ways,either women find you naturally attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:52 AM
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I don’t need to be saved,I’m not the one crying about loneliness and not getting dates. My life is good. I’m just saying if you want women to lower themselves to you,they aren’t going to find you attractive and then you’ll be crying about an emotionless and lustless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:50 AM
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I see some re-worded version of “society is over if you don’t start sleeping with the miserable men you aren’t attracted to” in here every other day. I don’t understand what the unchosen are trying to say when they say this. You clearly want us (women in general) to settle,isn’t that what “lower your standards” means?.Are you going to enjoy your relationship with your wife who flinches when she has to see you naked? Who keeps her eyes closed during sex so she can think of someone else? If women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:39 AM
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You’ve got a point,for there to be so many “lonely” men they sure seem to not like it when women interact with them or their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:37 PM
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Exactly,when I was younger I was repulsed by old men coming up to me. Not all women are like that but to pretend young women in general love the attention of old creeps when they have young attractive men their own age vying for them is a little laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:11 PM
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Ugh. And then gets sulky when he doesn’t get enough attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:51 AM
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I have been with the same man going on six years and I still initiate sex more by a wide margin. I can’t keep my hands off the guy and find him incredibly sexy. I would never be in a relationship with someone who is an Undesirable right from the start. I’m being serious I have no clue how some young women do it (because I know it happens lol) Having to “swallow your pride and take one for the team” aka having sex with an unattractive man is something I find so repugnant that I couldn’t imagine l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:58 AM
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Is “political correctness” him being a misogynist and a bigot? If so then no,pass. Acting like a macho jackass who’s constantly in a dick measuring contest with the men around him is also undesirable for me. Vulgarity i probably wouldn’t have a problem with because I “curse” more than most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:59 AM
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There’s nothing “confusing” about sexual assault. It’s a clear distinction between that and leaning in for a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:20 AM
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Even if he was wildly attractive,a male slobbering like a St.Bernard during a first kiss is gross. It looks desperate and like you have no self control. What happened to just a simple first kiss like most people have? Are we pornifying that now too??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:05 AM
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I’m really bad at fake laughing,my brain doesn’t really get the “prompt” to fake laugh,I just kind of let it go in one ear and out the other without making any noise. You find out really quickly who has an ego problem by who comes unglued when you aren’t grinning and fake giggling in their face. Men absolutely get angry when you don’t pretend for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:47 PM
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Look at these comments,the OP even admitted he only cares about himself and doesn’t care about the women he’s approaching,declaring she must decline him in a “polite manner” if she’s going to. That’s the attitude some of them are going to have no matter what. Even if every woman on earth pushed back against being publicly approached it wouldn’t matter. They’ve made it clear they don’t care how uncomfortable they make you or offputting they are and they are still going to expect you to be perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:31 PM
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I notice you can’t explain and double down on snark and sarcasm. Telling. Have your feelings been hurt by a woman not pretending to find you amusing in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:43 PM
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When I lived in the south US men did it a lot more than when I moved to the Midwest. It’s usually old guys or just guys who can’t/don’t care to read the room. The cringe jokes are one thing but sometimes they just stare daggers at you if you don’t give them a sufficient reaction or pretend to be amused enough which is irritating. It’s almost like you have to give them a “yes that’s nice dear and oh what a funny boy you are!” look like you do toddlers sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:42 PM
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…what’s funny about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:26 PM
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Probably just ragebait because it’s typical for PPD,but if not you’re incredibly lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:50 AM
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Which culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:20 AM
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Most people would consider it impolite to leer at women,so yes,bad manners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:56 PM
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I wish more people understood this. Big beefcake bros are there more for the male audience than female audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:26 AM
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I would wager to say that it’s pretty widespread knowledge to have manners in public,at least in America,where I am. Give me an example of such “cultures”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:48 PM
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How do you define “interacting”? And I don’t mean the neurotic gym chicks who think everyone is staring at them. Everyone agrees that’s extreme and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:46 PM
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It’s crazy how they’ll always find a loophole no matter what to excuse bad behavior. “Hey maybe you should not act like an animal in public and control yourself a little bit,most men are able to do this so you can too.” “Uhmmmm interesting but what if I walked outside jerking my dick huh? Would it be okay to stare then? You’d stare. What’s the difference huh? What if my religion says it’s okay to leer at women? What if I get a signed notary letter from the governor saying it’s okay,hm? What then…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:42 PM
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Jesus Christ that was was painful to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:35 PM
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Oh I realized it very young. I’m not even sure when because it’s always just kind of been a Fact in the back of my mind. I knew for sure by the time I was 19 though and I’m a month away from 34 now. I’ve never wavered. In my opinion it’s one of those things women especially know deep down at an early age if it’s to be or not. I’ve noticed men are more likely to be fenceriders at first but after you drop the pretense and say you’re Childfree they’re like “whew! Okay cool.”. Some men have babyfeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:05 PM
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I’m already in a Childfree relationship and it’s been all I could have ever hoped for. 6 years going on 7 and he still gives me the giggles and makes my heart skip beats. Nothing comes between us or adds unneeded stress into our life,I have no problem at all with people who have kids (as long as they aren’t untrained little shits) but it is simply not the lifestyle for me/us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:45 AM
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I’ve noticed a lot of “muh biology” is just an excuse to act like an untrained beast. “Noooo you don’t understand I have to start visibly slobbering and howling when I see a nice lady,muh biology says so and I can’t do anything about it! Sorry!” It’s a crutch and an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:02 AM
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If you glance at a pretty person and give them an appreciative look quickly I doubt there’s going to be an issue. It’s when you behave like a frothing-at-the-penis freak with no home training,that’s what most women don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:59 AM
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No,she’s saying that when you’re younger it’s harder to spot the loser manchild because well,you’re young. When she got older she realized why she got along with him so well at the time,because he was a very childish 35 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:01 AM
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I can definitely believe that you would believe something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:26 AM
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You can like someone and get along with them really well without finding them sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:42 AM
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One of my earliest sexual experiences was with a guy that I was in the same situation with. I liked him well enough but there was no attraction. I was bleeding every time we had sex and had my eyes squeezed shut most of the time. I don’t think most men know/care that’s woman having sex with someone they aren’t attracted to is pretty painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:38 PM
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The girls from my school who went the Karen route were usually chubby and plain. Not popular,not unpopular but kind of a bully. They were also always mean or obnoxiously “sassy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:16 PM
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From my point of view,no. Unless you were able to see into the future to know you’d be treated fairly. For one,I went through a phase when I was younger where I was more or less a “pick me” who always coddled men in any discussion about gender relations,snarked at other women and basically always gave the benefit of the doubt. I learned (and many others have,I’ve heard) that you don’t become “one of the good ones” to misogynists by doing that,they don’t care. If they looked down on you before,th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:12 AM
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That’s very imaginative. In that case,I don’t want to hear anymore boohooing about alimony or child support or any of the things that the mean old wimmanz are doing to the poor downtrodden males. The men should have simply known better and avoided those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:51 AM
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“Should I start hitting my wife if she makes me mad?” is a hell of a take even for PPD. What happened to just going to opposite sides of the house for a day or so? If she’s yelling at you all the time and you’re wanting to beat on her all the time maybe you two aren’t a good match…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:08 PM
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In the short term,yeah,there’s a chance. But a lot of the tenets of RP are very spiteful in nature,purposefully trying to guilt,manipulate and “dread” someone you want to actually build a real connection with is probably not a good idea. That being said,a lot of RP men are nihilistic blind pussyhounds who don’t care to connect with another person so that’s all good with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:04 AM
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If that’s the case then it is what it is. Perhaps she is boring,but that’s still on him for being desperate. Would you give the same grace to a woman who settles with a pudgy slob that she avoids sex with at all cost? She was desperate to settle too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:57 AM
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I’d have to ask why he’d propose and marry to such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:45 AM
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Yup,men “settle” too and it’s obvious when they do because they are lukewarm towards the woman to an obvious degree. It’s kind of insane the amount of married couples I’ve seen where the guy just sort of treats the woman like a log.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:07 AM
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What this person is saying is that it happens to men and women,the “getting hung up on an ex” thing. Women aren’t the only ones it happens to,so it’s confusing why it’s planted as a “women only” issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:58 AM
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The logic(for at least some the men on this sub) is if you’re the first,you don’t really have to put as much work in because she doesn’t know better. If she’s been “alpha widow’d” she’s had fun and enjoyable sex before which means she will detect bad sex/laziness/selfishness. Which is crazy because even a Virgin will probably eventually figure out if you’re halfassing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:35 AM
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I made that myself because I got a guy on Reddit so flustered once that he told me that,I thought it was pretty funny and it does somewhat describe me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:09 AM
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Yeah,I feel. I guess they’re just describing someone who’s not over their ex. In fact,men often get hung up the same way,you see lots of guys bemoaning “the one who got away”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:47 AM
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Fair enough,all of my exes were much worse than the man I have now so I guess I don’t relate to the female side of the equation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:34 AM
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Would the second half of the second paragraph just point to insecurity? You’re worried that you(not you personally but general you) can’t measure up to another man. I’m just wondering because I see a lot of men in here say that the virgin obsession is not about “insecurities” which is fair but then they turn around and say they’re worried they can’t be as good at sex as her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:27 AM
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Contrarianians (“let me play devils advocate”) who like to argue or correct you(“well actually-“) at every turn. You have a favorite movie? He thinks it sucks here watch blah blah. You enjoy a happy,stupid pop song on the radio and he’s rolling his eyes blatantly as if you were a simpleton. He shuts everything down and it’s impossible have a happy or friendly conversation with him . Back when still single,I lost interest in a guy where there was mutual attraction because of the correcting and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:28 PM
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“She looks really good so she’s trying to look good for me specifically” is the train of thought that runs in this situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:28 AM
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Fair enough,a lot of people think only women get baby fever but I’ve known just as many if not more men who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:57 AM
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Either a) it’s a guy who has baby fever/baby crazy/breeder fetishist and is obsessed with the idea of children. Or b) brilliantly placed Get Out Of Jail Free card so they have an excuse to lust for teenagers Or c) they were snubbed by the “hot chick” in high school and now want to live out some kind of Revenge Of The Nerds fantasy where they get the hot chick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:12 AM
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That’s nice honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:40 AM
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Only a naive or desperate women is even going to pretend like she doesn’t see the games being played in front of and around her every day. Loser men have a stench.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:36 AM
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As someone else pointed out,he loves only himself. He wants his cake and to eat it too. Of course he doesn’t love the side chicks and of course he doesn’t love his wife. The happiness of his wife or the pain it would cause never crosses his mind,and if it did he didn’t care because Penis Feel Good Now. If he loved her he would have considered her instead of chasing every lustful whim like an animal. People who won’t control themselves but still trot out “but I wub you 🥺” when confronted are tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:24 AM
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I’m Childfree and also petfree. (I’ve had roommates with cats/dogs but never had one of my own in idk 10 years?) I feel the same way about them that I do children. I don’t hate them,would never hurt one but also don’t want to live with one full time. An extra mouth is an extra mouth. A loud noise is a loud noise (barking/crying).I don’t mind dog-sitting for my in-laws Great Dane,he’s pretty chill. I also don’t have to pay for the fuckton of food he eats lol When I was a kid I saw my dad get a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:00 AM
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Seriously. You don’t have to be a spineless jellyfish but you also don’t have to put on a fake tough guy act. A dude posturing to be “the bad boy” he’s obviously not or to try to play out something a redpill grifter told him to do is amusing at best and repugnant at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:50 AM
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Every woman in the world also gets the attention and admiration of a 10/10 supermodel and is coddled like a newborn every time she steps out of the door,don’t forget. I wish I had at least half of the “soft life” that all average women have apparently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:53 AM
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I always feel good when I look my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:04 PM
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A lot of guys deem a woman posting flattering pictures of herself as “uppity”. They want you to be hot but not feel good about being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:04 PM
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The “she posts on Instagram” always gets me because everyone and their grandmother posts on IG now. It’s a social media app like Twitter. Attractive women on there aren’t embarrassed or ashamed of being hot,I think that’s what the problem is tbh. “Be good looking but don’t get too uppity and know you are” is the vibe I get sometimes reading the social media debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:49 PM
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try not to tell her you would like to put a kid inside her This is one of the most repulsive and unsexy things a man could possibly say,christ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:55 AM
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One of the biggest things is to read the room and exit gracefully if she’s not interested. One of the most unnerving things a man can do is hovering and standing there staring. If she’s not speaking or speaking very little,no eye contact and closed body language…for the love of god don’t lurk 2 feet behind her waiting for your chance to get another word in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:53 AM
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Dick salesman huh? Why are so many of them so bad at making their penis seem desirable then? Perhaps a seminar in marketing is needed. I only speak for myself mainly,because I’ve always managed to dodge the useless. I’ve never been pregnant a day in my life so the single mom shit fizzles out. I had to be self-sufficient at an early age and was homeless a few years in my early 20s so I learned quickly how to be as aware as possible of a predator or scammer. That was before I even found all this r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:36 AM
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lol I’m not single anymore so the losers and weirdos of the world aren’t my concern personally. Also if you think it’s not easy to spot this kind of man from a mile away,you’re wrong.TRP is a perfect playbook for women on how to filter out undesirables. It filters out the neurotic/religious men with sexual hang ups and wannabe sociopaths who think they’re the Joker or something. Sometimes it’s funny just to watch them impotently rage out of anger and dry-dick frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:02 AM
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No but learning about TRP did teach me a little bit about what kind of men to avoid + I learned their little mind game manipulation tactics and saw them coming from miles away. When they would try to play “dread” or purposely ignore me to try and get me to trauma bond,I would just simply stop speaking to them. When they showed signs of “negging” I stopped speaking to them. That was years ago though,way before PPD. PPD didn’t really make me bat an eye,I knew there would be some weird people and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:49 AM
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“Anyone who comes between me and this uninterested/uncomfortable woman must be some jealous ugly bitch!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:27 PM
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What they think comes across as Machiavellian and crafty is read more like try-hard and amusing. A lot of redpill/“alpha guy” stuff reminds me of the little mind games we were trying to play on each other in high school. “I’m going to ignore her and talk to ANOTHER girl so she’ll be jealous and be my bf”. An extremely insecure woman might fall for it but they probably see that as a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:51 AM
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I’ve only had it happen twice when I’ve been out at a club/bar. Both times I wasn’t interested in the guy and she could tell I wanted him out of my face. She wasn’t “unattractive” though in fact she was pretty hot,blonde and tan beach chick type. This was in Florida so we were both super tan but I had black hair then. I also once got a text from a friend while I was in the bathroom at the bar asking me to come “save” her from a guy wouldn’t go away and kept hovering. She’s not very confrontation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:18 AM
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It’s not my attention to make you guys feel uncomfortable or anything,just laying it in the barest way I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:18 AM
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I said what I said. You have someone jam a dry dick into a dry orifice on your body. Until it’s bleeding. Then you can question me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:47 PM
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It doesn’t really matter how much you want to fuck him if he’s obsessed with other women’s bodies. You can be the horniest housewife on the block but he’s still going to be seeking out other women if he has any kind of issue with porn or lusting for random women. On the “Dead Bedrooms” subreddit you see lots of women who are depressed and crying every night because they can’t get their husband/bf to look away from the video games and pornhub long enough to see she bought new lingerie. Not saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:46 AM
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I don’t know why it’s considered a bad thing to want to be sexually attractive. Women enjoy feeling desired too. I also know the pain of knowing you can never compete with the never ending parade of women that men have access to from porn stars to twitch streamers. Just trying is difficult. It did a lot of to fuel the start of my two year recent Glow Up journey that I’ve been on,from getting mental health in control to losing weight and keeping glowing skin. It would be nice to say that I did it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:14 AM
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Not all men are sniveling,mid beta orbiters though. Some of us settle down with who we want anyways no matter how much “karma” we were supposed to be reaping the whole time. Sorry,but it’s just the truth. It’s not always some insane “Mr.Big” (lmfao) type situation,we (or I at least) want someone who’s good looking,fun and easyto live with. Some ladies might be ok will settling with someone but most aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:34 AM
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It’s a visceral and disgusting feeling,I couldn’t imagine living and sleeping with with someone I wasn’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:28 AM
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I see your point and I’m sorry you feel that way. Sex feels like a performance in many ways and everyone gets nervous the first time. So far as just your one comment though I would separate you from the rest that I consider fetishists because you aren’t dickslinging at every doorstop but also asking for a virginal woman. That’s what my original point was when I was yammering up top. I have seen at least two separate conversations go this way in here. “I want a Virgin woman because I want her to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:06 PM
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Now,why would I be “triggered” by undesirables? There’s plenty of fun men without sexual hangups. We’re taking a laugh about their Trad Virgin Dream Woman which is no different from a woman wanting a hot rich guy or whatever we’re mad about today. I see countless threads of men sucking each other off over those meanie women and Chad,but I usually don’t gaf. We will continue our conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:40 PM
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Go for it. Every human on this world has a preference. She will live without rich Chad just like he will live without his fetish-fantasy dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:34 AM
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The perfect woman is pure as untouched snow and obedient like a golden retriever. She has no male friends. She has no female friends that know what men are either. She is obsessed with him and her life revolves around him. He would be the first male she laid eyes upon and only then does she discover arousal from his mighty penis. The only time I don’t find it that weird is if they’re virgins too. If they could have all the random and thoughtless sex that they’re dying for then Miss Sundress woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:32 AM
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Men can’t talk about their preferences? When does that start because it’s not currently in effect. If you want to date a young lady of the church no one is going to say anything. If you say you want a “devoutly Christian” woman nobody will care especially in smaller towns. If you say “I want a virgin and she has to be young and have no knowledge of sex” you can probably even get away with it in smaller towns. Some people are going to side eye you no matter what. Live with it or don’t. Everyone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:01 AM
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Dude I was saying this in another post this very day. The “virgin” shit is a fetish that they try to couch in morals and explanations. Quick way to test? “Would you have sex with a 38 year old virgin? Or even a 30 year old one?” The answer is usually ew no. They immediately start talking about how she must be dog ugly to be a virgin at that age (ironic). For a lot of them I don’t think it’s about finding a good marriage partner because a lot of them actively dislike women somewhat. It’s always “…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:48 AM
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That sucks,I’m out here having a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:34 AM
2

A lot of red pill stuff is just fetish shit. It’s porn fantasy. It becomes a little less disturbing when you realize this but not by much. Not all of them are I guess but by the things I read in here it’s a fairly good number. They need to control,some people enjoy giving up control. If their wives/gfs consent to it though it’s whatever. A lot of it boils down to “VIRGIN WIFE MAKES DICK GO BOING WHEN SHES OBEDIENT AND CHASTE BUT CRAVES MY PENIS IMMEDIATELY”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:34 AM
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“Why do you want to hang out with that hot asshole when you could be dating me,an even bigger asshole???”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:26 AM
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Seriously,I’m not going to even FWB someone who would try to dupe/pressure me into pregnancy or try to force me to carry a baby. I’m not going to sleep with someone who’s a prude otherwise or has some kind of sexual hang ups. That would kinda destroy the whole “friend” aspect of it too. Why would I fuck someone I don’t even like? If more men checked that kind of stuff before just indiscriminately slinging their bologna at the first warm hole we’d have a whole lot less “she killed my baby :( “ sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:41 PM
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This guy probably thinks the be all end all for women is marriage to some bore that they themselves even refer to as “beta”. He’s basically saying men can get married. Like that’s it. I don’t know what else it could be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:12 AM
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Or when you have sex with someone who doesn’t even bother to care if you’re aroused or not. One of my earliest sexual experiences is with this guy who stuck his dick into me completely dry,no lube no nothing. I was still really young so I thought that’s just how it was and you always feel like you’re being gored by a bulls horn. This guy kept on and dgaf until I started to literally bleed. Then he was grossed out and immediately wanted me to go away. That’s just how I thought it was for a long t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:36 AM
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Schrödinger’s Virgin is both chaste and moral while also becoming so enamored by one penis that she throws that all away immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:41 PM
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They will describe the most unappealing and boring man possible then be like “This is who won’t give you a chance btw” like who fucking cares. Not all men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:51 AM
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Noooo you can’t just use SOURCES you have to go by my penis’s revenge fantasy 😭 because it’s real and you HAVE to listen to me you HAVE to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:56 AM
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Bless your little heart. Some of the men in PPD are precious. It’s a good power/revenge fantasy,and it probably helps you sleep a little nicer at night. The mean old wimmanz have to pay ME with pussy. Not the hot men that they ACTUALLY dream of. No mention of the fact that you type all of this with lonely,cum stained hands as you pretend you are the rejector and not the rejected. Keep blowing loads over your fantasy dream life,hot men are getting everything you want and more while you waste the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:35 AM
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Hopefully you will be able to grace yourself with a sun ripened watermelon to pass the time and not bother the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:17 AM
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You won’t have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:11 AM
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I don’t plan on becoming less picky and being threatened with Mad Max Fury Road (lol) is not going to change it either. Life is too short for undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:05 AM
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Steel Panther is pretty trashy so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:00 AM
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Sheltering and helicoptering your kids too much is never a good thing. There is a reason why the stereotypes of the preacher’s daughter getting pregnant at 17 exist. I feel the same way about people who completely pull their kids out of society and put them in the homeschool bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:58 AM
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I called the man a lizardman because he is fucking ugly. The “predator” stuff you just said is something you deduced from my comment through your own desire to pick a fight. I could care less where he puts his penis,I assure you it’s very low on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:58 AM
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Is this addressed to me or is it just a random blurt? I didn’t call the man a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:51 AM
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They usually do not treat ugly women very well,especially if just using them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:54 AM
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They run around openly talking about disgust for ugly women or how they fuck ugly women even it’s akin to torture for them. And then have the nerve to be like “nah there’s no way they can tell we’re repulsed! They don’t suspect a thing!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:48 AM
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Right. He’s looked like a lizard man wearing human skin his whole life. It’s not his looks that he’s getting by on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:21 AM
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Your vitrol is so adorable because it comes from a place of hurt and bitterness. Get it all out now. Well,seeing as I’m in a five year relationship,that would be a very interesting long con to play. Also if they do decide they want children it’s in their best interest and definitely mine to move on. Like I said,it’s a hard no. I let them know up front that they’re free to change their minds but we Will separate if it comes to that. If you think there are no men out there who value their free tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:12 AM
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not on men’s watch Lol you know there are plenty of men who don’t want children either. It was one of my “hard no”s when dating an vetting men when still single. I never found a short supply of childfree men. Sure,a fence rider could lie,but it would be against their best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:30 AM
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What’s wrong with wanting the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:48 PM
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You don’t have to say it,men make it obvious when they’re disgusted. The fact that you think women can’t see it makes me sad for the women you’ve interacted with. They probably talk to ugly women like dogs and look at them like their shit on their shoe. Imo men LOVE letting ugly women know they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:52 PM
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I think it’s a disservice to you both to date someone you’re barely attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:15 PM
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Right? These are the people telling you personality doesn’t matter. Then they are shocked no one likes a guy who both identifies as ugly AND is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:28 PM
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The point I’m trying to get at is that a man who doesn’t find a woman attractive and “settles” with her is doing no one any favors,he’s probably going to resent her and possibly cheat. Even in a one night stand situation he’s going to shove his dick in her 5 times and leave. He thinks she’s below him,why would he try? Oh,as far as physical attraction,men can be extremely cruel and vitriolic. Look at the comments made toward women they consider ugly. Women who seek status tend to ignore men she f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:07 AM
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Guys always get mad when I say the “take one for the team” mentality but that’s what it amounts to. These guys know in their heart they’re only after Skinny Pretty Girl (even the OP admits he really wants the pretty girl,we see how he considers anything else a near punishment). The whole “don’t be 400lbs” is a quick and easy save but we know it’s not true. Look on any social media meme page and you’ll quickly see how they really view women’s bodies. Their tits are gross and sagging,her pregnancy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:57 AM
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Your attempts to climb up on your high horse are visible to anyone who cares to read. It’s how you think you get the upper hand,but I simply don’t want to converse with a snartmouthed and sarcastic man when I could be talking to someone more pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:06 AM
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You’re quite sassy. I hope your day gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:00 AM
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I said what I said. OP even says he only wants the “slim pretty girl”. Then why is it wrong for us to only want to sleep with the hotties too? Why are women meant to “take one for the team” and have unpleasant sex with men we aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:45 AM
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Could have fooled me with some of the posts I see in here. Dog slobbering with lust after the “skinny pretty girl” but in the same breath will tell you women are backwards for only wanting attractive men. In fact in here it seems to be the consensus that being a “Chad chaser” is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:14 AM
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What does this mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:03 AM
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They’re so obsessed with Chad and where he’s putting his penis that they forget hot women also have lots of options. You’re not always going to be the best pick of those options. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:47 AM
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Nothing gets a woman hot and ready for sex quicker than a miserable man who makes it clear he sees her as lowly and beneath him. I don’t even think overweight women would sleep with someone who acts like they’re a martyr for it. Wallowing in the slop of loneliness while painting it as sneering delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:45 AM
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No I do not. It’s not really because of the reasons you listed,although they are good reasons. I have had a “childfree” mindset since around 12. I know that sounds crazy but I knew already it was just something I had no interest in. It did not and does not look fun.It has never changed,at this point I’m a few months shy of 34. I’ll be honest a lot of my reasons are selfish. I personally see nothing wrong with being selfish in this context because it hurts no one (some people would say it hurts m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:54 AM
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I speak for no one but myself. I don’t think so highly of myself as to pretend to know what the “average woman” is up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:47 PM
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Sounds like a sugar baby situation. If he has to buy you off like that he’s probably unappealing and I am viscerally adverse to sexual disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:01 PM
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You’re right about the weed guy who can sling sausage. I’ll pick that guy over whatever fantasy rich guy these dudes are obsessed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:23 AM
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My boyfriend and I have talked about this. He’s self conscious of his hair as he gets older and he’s asked me several times how I would feel if he started wearing wigs. I said that wouldn’t be a problem at all but we definitely would have to sit down and really find something that’s quality product and fits his face. That was completely his decision and right now we really don’t have to worry about it because he has beautiful long hair. Good to hear you have a skincare routine! I’m always happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:43 PM
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Too far would be when it’s obvious and not a subtle enhancement I’d think. Similar to giant,solid fake tits that are obviously a botch job or botched lip filler.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:15 PM
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If you are already good looking,leveling up your looks enhances it. I’m not ugly without my makeup,but I still use it to enhance my looks. If I’m attracted to him I’m probably still hot for him even with blemishes uncovered or eyebrows unwaxed. The wig stuff idk it would depend on how nice it is. I would rather him just be bald then have some Party City ass wig on. If women put effort into their looks,why wouldn’t men? And I don’t think I’d stop seeing someone over that,to answer your question. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:04 PM
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Tattoo sleeves I would be put off by because I like actual tattoos on men and it will never look the same imo. Muscle suit is also going to look weird and I dislike huge bulk anyways. Makeup and eyebrows? Hell yeah. I don’t know why more men don’t a least learn to use a little concealer. Simple application to dark circles and blemishes looks very natural if you’re using the right product. I’ve taught several guys along the way how to level up their looks and it always yields pretty good results.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:28 PM
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I started reading that kind of stuff several years ago even as far back as when there was still just a regular old ‘cel subreddit. It didn’t stop me from dating but it definitely changed how I interacted with them and viewed them. When you know all of their little tricks and hang-ups it becomes almost a game. It also taught me to vett with a new lens. I stopped being so soft and simpy for men(“I love him so much I’ll put up with him making me feel like shit!” “It’s no big deal you don’t ever ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:10 PM
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They don’t realize a lot of women have already tried it. Also for a lot of women losing their virginity hurt really badly (not turned on,nervous,guy is just jabbing his penis at you like a nail gun) so I and I’m pretty sure other women already know the feeling. Plus a lot of younger women especially feel pressured into sex at least once or twice,and that is also not a good experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:38 AM
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100%. Sex with someone you’re not attracted to is revolting. I might not be able to buy a Chanel bag every month but I’d much rather save for one while I get my boyfriend to fuck me stupid and cum my brains out. I’m just extremely adverse to disgust playing a part in my sexlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:48 AM
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I’m the same way to be honest. Neither of us are into babies so there’s no real reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:52 AM
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Right??? I don’t know who told these folks they can step out of line for 3 months then cut back in like shit is sweet. And they say women are the ones with inflated egos 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:28 AM
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Yes. Ever since I was a much younger kid I’ve always felt I had to jump through certain hoops to look good enough to be able to attract the men I want. The first time I even thought about what parts of my body would need hypothetical plastic surgery I was probably about 15-16. When I was younger it had a MUCH much more negative effect on me,where I felt I was forever falling behind the pack and would never be as attractive as my peers (I was an ugly duckling kid)I was exhausting myself with nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:44 AM
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1) yes. I love both though. 2) no,not since my very first boyfriend in high school but that’s because I wasn’t super attracted to him (low self esteem and thought it was the best I could do) so I wasn’t always just crazed horny for him all the time like I have been for most exes and current bf. Having sex when you’re not aroused (especially as a teenager) as a woman is incredibly painful. Like close your eyes and think of something else painful. I didn’t see the point in making myself suffer so …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:33 AM
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I ain’t never had to pay on dick and certainly not if it’s average streetdick. You’re smoking bong water if you think I’d give a mid money for sex. And the hotties of both genders love me,so I think I’m good for at least the next 15. I don’t mind sliding some money to someone that I live with and am having a relationship with because that’s just who I am but a random? For sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:34 PM
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You were so upset by me that you responded to two of my comments within seconds. My god at least try to have some decorum and keep your seething a secret. Also a lot of men rot like watermelons in the sun by 27 if they’re addicts or just don’t take care of themselves. Boring,wrinkly sacks aren’t terribly appealing to me either,so I see where you’re coming from,that’s why I date men younger than me. Gotta enjoy it while it lasts ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:18 PM
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Most of the other commenters have said the same or similar to my answers. Hygienic issues and smelling like a wet goat are probably the biggest and most widely shared icks. More of mine include: 1) being rude to waitstaff at and restaurant. This includes that weird little shit where they snap their finger or beat on the counter to get someone’s attention. Not only is it an ick but it’s an embarrassment to be seen with someone like that,male or female. 2) overly sarcastic/smartmouth attitude. Bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:19 PM
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Number 2 was going to be one of my answers as well. Just generally being an unkempt schlub especially on a date or meeting. Dirty nails are also an ick. Get those vulture talons out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:33 AM
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“Men Get Better With Age And Also Become Hot And Rich Especially Me,You’ll See! I Will Be More Desirable Because Young Women Simply LOVE Old Men!!” Is one of my favorite PPD golden oldies,it gets played daily but it’s always entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:05 AM
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In PPD convos it seems they want you to drop your standards and date down so they have a better chance even though “ugly” men are not automatically angels and can be just as cruel and domineering as the “hot chads” that they’re jealous of. No one seems to discuss this though and of course you’re A Shallow Bitch for finding attractive people attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:00 AM
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I hear you man,and I appreciate your candor. It sounds like you’ve got yourself a niche and if that’s making you happy then it’s what it is. You don’t have a nasty attitude and you don’t reek of bitterness so you’re already doing better than a lot of guys in here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:47 PM
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I’m taking extremely good care of myself at 33. I also put a lot of money into skincare and looking as attractive as I possibly can. What kind of chemical peels do you get,professional or one of those The Ordinary peels? I’m much better looking now than I was on my teens and 20s. I’ve been iced out and rejected more times than I can count. Women aren’t always turbohotties when they’re younger. I definitely wasn’t. I also had extremely bad social anxiety and barely went out for a few years. Those…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:45 PM
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Often times it’s just a way for young men to pacify themselves when they’re having trouble with women. “Ooooooo you whores just wait! One day I’m going to be the RICHEST and HOTTEST guy but by then you’ll be dying to touch my penis but I’ll be having sex with hottie college chicks everyday!” This does happen,but not in the way that they expect. They become a paypig for the hot chick. I know that they usually think they’ll be worth more because of their money but some of them legitimately think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:12 PM
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I would have gotten us out before it got that deep. I have a few contacts overseas I would try to work things out with. Two things I promised I’d never make him do is get stuck with a backbreaking blue collar job that wrecks his body early or get sent into the military as a meat shield. I will protect however I can,even if I don’t have all of the answers now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:16 AM
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Women like sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:16 AM
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Isn’t that the solution for men too? If you’re afraid she’s going to get ugly don’t even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:43 AM
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I’d buy a plane ticket for my man and hope we can get to Canada or somewhere else. I would definitely have something figured out because I need him around and he said if he ever gets drafted he’s leaving the country and taking me with him. He would probably be on board as he’s not the military type and he’s not going to die when there’s so much left to do and we’ve only been together 5-6 years. We value our life together over two governments playing ‘you want some bro’ with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:02 AM
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I didn’t say that women who want to be kept do not exist. It just seems crazy to insinuate every woman needs or wants a “provider”. I date for love and lust. I’m attracted to physical and emotional connection. I have my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:45 PM
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If that’s how you feel then that’s how you feel. I’m not dogging you I just thought it was a little bit funny to see Stacy Fucks Becky Bucks(because she’ll be expected to have a job of course or expected to do all the housework unlike the woman he paid and kept for years)play out in 4K.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:07 PM
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He’s still a whoremonger. Would you be happy knowing your future wife was fucking for money every day but oh don’t worry only for one guy! It takes no effort for women if you don’t care about hooking up with mid men. I promise you women aren’t screwing 10/10s every night unless they are also drop dead gorgeous.I get that women can have easy sex but it’s nowhere near what a man paying for a supermodel bombshell to lie there and be his warm hole is getting as far as the attractiveness of our partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:56 PM
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That’s what I said. They love to wring their hands about how disgusting and fat married women are but usually the man is overweight,big red alcoholic nose like Rudolph and wearing sandals and socks in public. He’s wearing a shirt that he probably woke up in. His facial hair is patchy and unkempt. If women have to bust their ass to be aesthetically pleasing (as many of us already do) then men can follow suit. It’s also pretty funny he wants to wait till 30 for marriage and ride the cunt carousel …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:17 PM
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Old men really were repulsive to me when I was in my teens/20s. Men have this idea in their head that they age like George Clooney or some other Hollywood star no matter what and it’s so cute sometimes. I’ve seen men who have already physically “hit the wall” with their looks by 27,yeeeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:03 AM
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A lot of women are already providing for themselves while they’re actively dating so I don’t know if it’s a “baseline requirement” for most women. Not everyone wants to be kept or treated like they’re helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:43 AM
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Well,if you’re going your own way and not giving women the time of day,how are they still such a drain on you? I understand that there’s a lot of unspoken rules in society but “give women attention and money” isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:21 PM
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You’re immediately used and discarded if you don’t give women money and “protect” them? Ok I’ll bite. When’s the last time you were forced to protect someone? When’s the last time you were forced to “raise social status” for a woman? If it’s really that much of a drain,why do you keep doing it? Isn’t that what MGTOW is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:11 PM
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That I can agree with you on and think these girls who start recording guys for no reason should probably take their head out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:43 AM
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Creepy is gawking at you obviously in public (especially if you’re 20+ year older and it usually is older men who behave like weirdos because they think they’re untouchable). It’s not taking no for an answer and whining and wheedling on how you should talk to them and then they pout obviously and openly like a child if you are not interested. Some men -change- the moment they feel you aren’t giving them the attention they need,it can get weird and for a lot of women,scary. Also a lot of men have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:12 AM
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And nothing turns women away like desperation. NOTHING. No one wants to be with someone who basically screams to the world ‘I’ll take any crumb of attention I’m given by anyone”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:38 PM
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Like I said,some of them act resentful that they have to put forth effort and it’s obvious. If you tell them that they would benefit from a better haircut and wardrobe they’ll whine it’s a waste of money. Like,sure,but most women (at least the ones men chase) put a lot of money into their appearance. Not everyone is born looking 10/10 in fact most people aren’t. It requires some effort to at least not smell and look like a wet dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:54 PM
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It’s so obvious when a man puts in effort to make himself appear more desirable vrs when they just exist and look blank and bored in pics,wearing dirty clothes and no skin or haircare to speak of. If a woman puts a lot of effort into herself especially she’s not going to go after a guy who gets resentful if asked to do more than the minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:16 PM
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If this was true you’d see a lot more people called creeps tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:04 PM
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That’s exactly what they want so they can reinforce their beliefs. They want women to respond with “uhhh omg the hawt guy of course teehee” so they can rant and rave about those shallow bitches lusting for murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:03 PM
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Sheesh is that really my only options? How about a hot guy who isn’t a murderer??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:00 PM
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The desperation attitude of “even though it wasn’t great it’s still great because I’m a thirsty mutt and any sex with a human is great”is so offputting. Just because you’re willing to tolerate shitty sex doesn’t mean everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:43 AM
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I’ve never met an emotionally healthy man who displayed that kind of sexual repression or neuroticism about what their girlfriends vagina was doing before he got into the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:39 AM
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Do YOU want to be married to someone who finds you sexually repulsive?? I wouldn’t. Do you want to see her wince in disgust on your wedding night?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:00 PM
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It’s like they want their penis to be the magic key that could seduce a nun. Unfortunately,few have that kind capability or sexual energy because they already have such a rigid view of what is “okay” to do and probably a good deal of repression. I think that what it truly boils down to is she won’t know bad sex if she’s never had good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:34 PM
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I’m not saying that’s the only two options,I’m just saying that it happens and has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:25 PM
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You can go to Deadbedrooms right now and find a man griping about his wife isn’t sexual enough for him or won’t do “fun” stuff sexually. They want them to be pure,chaste church women 24/7 EXCEPT when his penis is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:44 PM
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I’ve thought about this before. I guess it all depends on upbringing (although maybe not seeing as I was raised in a religious household) but if I found myself saddled into marriage/children at a young age or before I had any fun and lived life,I would be incredibly resentful. I’ve known several “high school sweetheart” couples who’s marriage dissolved for that very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:41 PM
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I mean sure but “background” is usually something like a history of abuse or criminal record,not how he treated someone else before me in simple dynamics. If he manipulated or abused his ex yeah,that would be a cause for concern. Honestly in this scenario I would assume the ex acted helpless a lot and constantly begged and pointed out things she wanted. Definitely not positive behavior and she’s an ex for a reason. Even if not,what’s it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:23 AM
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Sounds like his ex was a broke bitch who couldn’t score nice things on her own. Poor gal. Serious answer: doesn’t affect me now what he did with the last one. Hopefully he has the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:16 AM
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One thing that just kills me about PPD is the histrionic yet clinical terms that come up in the heat of the moment. “Women ARE DENYING me ACCESS to a sexual encounter and yet when they do give in and marry me they are FUNNELING MY RESOURCES. Hypergamous women want nothing but to OBTAIN RESOURCES” Like please. Let’s reel it in. It’s not theatre night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:16 PM
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That’s respectable because you actually stick by your word and your ideals. I don’t think anyone should put themselves at risk but I also have a feeling people who have the “well I just won’t play with you anymore!” attitude like OP simultaneously also want the Trad Man treatment. They want the submissive housewife part and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:18 PM
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I knew you and I got along for a reason 😎👉🏻👉🏻 But yeah it’s the same here. I get dopamine and serotonin from treating him well and giving him a life he wouldn’t have had elsewhere. It makes me feel lucky and makes him feel lucky. The really degrading stuff is,funny enough pursued by mainly by the really really sub guys with humiliation fetishes as well. The “who’s mommy’s good boy?” (Paraphrasing) style RR is what women (and good boys) usually gravitate toward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:13 AM
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“Do nothing and be secretly snarky about it” is a fan favorite in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:49 AM
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Yeah that’s basically what I typed all that up to say lol not all gender/marriage jokes have that undertone of meanness and spite like some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:56 AM
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I make jokes about how he cooks better than me and therefore I’m a failed female. The butt of the joke here is me. I usually do the whole song and dance of “ah I would just live off of bread and peanutbutter if I didn’t have you around.” It’s an obvious joke because I’m more than capable of cooking myself,just very appreciative of when I’m served a meal. Also if he wasn’t comfortable with it I would stop. We’ve had many a convo about it which is more than I’m sure a lot of women get. Do you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:52 AM
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As someone in a RR I actually hate this. I couldn’t treat a man that I loved and lusted for that way and it comes across as rude and offputting as if you’re trying to parrot misogynistic men. This comes from someone who makes Get In The Kitchen jokes very tongue in cheek,there’s a way to be playful and express the dynamic without coming across as a douchebag. Sometimes it’s a kink thing and even sexually “bitch boy” sounds so ugly. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:37 AM
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I can’t think of a single instance where someone buying me something has thrown the needle from “Unfuckable” to “I’m going to die if I don’t suck your dick” Fuckable men are fuckable without having to do tricks,at least in my experience. If you find yourself always being used for things,reconsider your approach and who you’re approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:37 AM
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I can see that. I also just have “that” sort of personality. I don’t know how to explain it. I actually grew up in a very Christian stereotypically southern home…which means that I went insane when I finally was able to get out and do my own thing lol I developed a very “fuck it,do it. This is my one life I get and I won’t get to be young like this forever” attitude. But I feel you on that before I got out of the house I was actually so quiet and withdrawn that people in our town thought there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:49 PM
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I enjoy the discussion in here. I can get a little abrasive and caustic at times but I think we all do,it’s a subject that’s personal to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:41 PM
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That’s a fair enough assessment. I guess I compare myself to other women I’ve known who just…don’t do anything. If I see someone and I like him,I’m going to at the very least make myself known. I feel like I would have missed out on so much if I didn’t operate that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:17 PM
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A variation of that phenomenon can happen. Becky Bucks (or at least the attempt of it) for us though is them being burnouts in their mid to late 30s who have slept with everyone in town and developed a drug/alcohol habit now instead of being the stud they’re starting to look and feel rough. Often they’re quietly depressed or drained from whatever it is they do for work now. This can come in the form of the biggest bully/douchebag from high school randomly messaging you on FB (“Wow you sure look …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:13 PM
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I can concede to that. I’m speaking from my experiences but I was just talking in another comment about a girl I knew who met a guy she liked at the bar and then just…sat there. It was like they were just talking at an office. I could tell she absolutely would not show the first obvious sign of interest to her guy and she seemed put off that I was being so casual and comfortable with the guy I showed up to see. I really don’t know why and honestly I don’t care. There’s nothing that I did that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:41 AM
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I think that is silly personally and I have known people like this. Funny story; I had a female friend (not very close and I think she grew to dislike me)years ago when I was still down in the south and we were going to the bar to meet two guys who were also friends. One for her and one for me. When I met the guy I liked,I gave him a big hug and hello and then started chatting with him. Not too long later while we were having a smoke outside,I leaned in to kiss him. It was nice and he was into i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:43 AM
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It’s kind of a bitch to retype so I’m going to copy a comment I made here once before: “I met my boyfriend by seeing him playing an acoustic guitar quietly on the couch at a friend’s house. It was kinda like a little house party but very chill,definitely more weed being smoked than alcohol drank. I sat down,listened for a second and said “Ah that sounds so familiar,I just can’t quite place it.” And he said “Oh nah this is just something I made up.” 💀 I looked like a jackass but it got the ice br…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:58 AM
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So what do you think they do when they see a hot guy they want to start talking to? Communicate with telekinesis? I get that there are women,I’m guessing younger women,who have a very Princess attitude about how men should be stepping all over each other to get to her. Whether you believe it or not,we (or at least I,I don’t speak for everyone but I’m surely not the only one out there) don’t want to wait for the moment to be gone. If we stand there and flutter our eyelashes then he may not even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:27 AM
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Women do get rejected. Maybe not if you’re 10/10 or even 9/10 status but average women don’t live the same life as those women do. There’s a gulf between us in how men treat us and how they respond to our interest in them. Not all guys obviously but if you think women don’t get rejected then I think you may be overlooking something. A man’s rejection is to pretend that he isn’t “interested” in dating right now,when the truth is he just not interested it you. Or to “you’re a really good friend bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:20 AM
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I used tinder for a few years when I was still single. I knew several of my dates that were actively talking to other women from Hinge/tinder at the time(no shame,I wasn’t seriously dating at that time either,looking for FWB and whatever happened,happened.) I don’t know for sure how many options my dates had because I didn’t ask those kind of questions. Just from what I saw,they were doing fairly well,and I wouldn’t call them Chads,Chad guys usually are not into me as my style and looks are very…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:03 AM
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I forgot men on this sub think women go out and just sit quietly and wait for men to fall into their laps. Women who approach men don’t exist in this world,we’re all just helpless waifs waiting for a man to talk to us. Give me a break,I’d never get anywhere plus I’m not the type to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:17 AM
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You think women don’t put that effort in to get laid? Maybe if you’re really slumming it and having sex with the first person you find in an alley but if you want to fuck someone decent you have to put effort in to look good. Who wants to fuck a slob,he can probably do better than a slob. Stuff like this always makes me wonder if I’m living on a different planet than every one else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:02 AM
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Thank you! I’m really conscious about my physical appearance because I’ve always held myself to a certain standard (was a very plain and teased kid who got obsessed with ‘glowing up’ and just kept building) People never assume I’m in my 30s so I must be on to something,somewhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:42 PM
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I think I’m finally starting to lose the last few pounds that has been troubling me for a few years now. Stood in front of the mirror and laid my fingers completely flat against my cheekbone,could see it perfect. I love when my facial structure shows like that 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:25 PM
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Yeah I just mentioned that in my other comment too. When I tell people in here I’ve been the one to pursue men that I want and break the ice for conversation,it’s insinuated I must be very ugly because even if I was slightly attractive I would have men slobbering at my feet all day. Apparently there would be no need for me to do anything but just sit and wait for the man I’m interested in to come fall into my lap. What’s so weird about finding a man desirable and then making moves to get yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:28 AM
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Hahaha I love how your flair has it alllll laid out ahead of time so you don’t have to repeat constantly. And yeah I get some strange responses sometimes when I tell stories like the above. Probably the funniest ones are the guys who insinuate I must be very ugly because,of course,even a mildly attractive women has a 10000 guy’s interested in her at all times and she simply waits for them to fall into her lap. I just don’t see myself doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:50 AM
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Even if you do try to tell the male denizens of PPD that you approach men first,they’ll be like “no you don’t and no you didn’t” Like. Why would I lie about that,what would I gain from it. I met my boyfriend by seeing him playing an acoustic guitar quietly on the couch at a friend’s house. It was kinda like a little house party but very chill,definitely more weed being smoked than alcohol drank. I sat down,listened for a second and said “Ah that sounds so familiar,I just can’t quite place it.” A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:52 AM
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No. It is not gay to like women. Also I have slept with/dated what I’m sure people on here would consider feminine men and I am most certainly not a lesbian. I just know I like what I like. You just find a balance to yourself. If you like masculine women I can PROMISE you there is a lady looking for someone like you. I’m pretty active in the R/RoleReversal sub which is basically a place to discuss and learn more about that type of relationship. It can be very rewarding,feel free to look into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:43 AM
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That would suck because I enjoy being around the men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:31 AM
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Ew yeah those weird manchildren like Dane Cook lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:44 PM
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Yeah my future frivolous purchases are only one part of the many thing I’m enjoying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:22 PM
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Yeah,I don’t do older men. I don’t really have a reason to if I can get attractive and fun younger/my own age men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:27 PM
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I was talking about this in another comment thread and you’re absolutely correct. I feel like if men had to get their insides torn and bleeding for “meh” sex suddenly the attitude would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:22 PM
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I smile back if they seem pleasant and are minding their business and not acting in a offputting way (gawking at you like an animal at a zoo,following you,old guy who reeks of booze who’s acting weird). When I was younger like way younger late teens/early 20s,I didn’t smile at strangers that much though. I attribute that to living/growing up in small town Alabama where EVERYONE tries to have a conversation with you and some people would literally step in front of you while you’re walking (to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:40 PM
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Exactly! They really don’t get that most women are looking for a fun and attractive man for companionship. As I said elsewhere,I don’t need any bills paid. Also not to be gross but having sex as a woman when you’re not aroused is extremely painful. You can bleed and get torn,usually the guy gets offended and it’s insinuated that you did something wrong. It’s another reason I’m sure most women don’t sleep with men they’re “meh” about because it’s not enjoyable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:09 AM
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Who’s in a sexless relationship? I’ve been getting more banging in the last half decade (length of current LTR) than I did through my early 20s. My female friends who are married/live with their man all seem to report the same,as long as no one is really sick or going through a real fucked up time. Guys in here assume women in relationships hate sex. Or need a relationship for “needs met”. I’m paying my own bills thank you. I’m not sure what “needs” you think I’m selfishly taking from the man. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:14 AM
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It’s not a burn. It was a question. You’re the one trying to twist narrative for whatever reason. Also good for you but most people are not nuns and monks and would like to feel pleasure yes even sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:42 AM
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She should stay single for wanting to have enjoyable sex?!?! I don’t get it. Do you tell men who want to have good sex with beautiful women the same thing? Do they have a bad attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:18 AM
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Plenty of guys in here say they get matches/attention from ugly women but they turn their nose up at them just the same way. They don’t want ugly women. As you said,let’s be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:53 AM
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Preferences can be adjusted but that’s not forcing yourself to be attracted to them,usually you just feel it like you would any other kind of desire. Personally I think it’s unfair for both parties to do things this way. It’s unfair for you to be with someone who you don’t feel any attraction to,and unfair to them because they’re being treated like a pity charity case and not a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:46 AM
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Because they aren’t. I know what I like. If this is your take then you should find a greased hole in the wall to have sex with and not bother anyone else since it doesn’t matter and there are no standards for sex. Maybe a spare tire with a hole cut in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:23 AM
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Bad sex with people I don’t find attractive? No,I don’t think I will. And I don’t have to,so I won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:03 AM
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Because it’s the HOT girls who are supposed to drop standards,not them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:39 AM
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Good point when you think of it like that. Honestly,it’s a bit audacious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:08 AM
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That’s what I try to get people in here to understand but a lot of them won’t hear it. You’re mad at the women for not finding you hot enough to fuck but my god have you ever had sex with someone when your heart is not in it? It’s rough. For women it can be rough physically as well. I “forced” myself to have sex once when I wasn’t into it and it was a unpleasant and unsexy experience. With that in mind,it’s kind of disturbing when I see men espousing a “just take one for the team” mentality. For…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:03 AM
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Literally I have been constantly “improving” my looks for years. I was a ugly and awkward teen and I knew something had to be done,for my own self confidence. Like I said I’ve sunk a ton of money into my hair,skin,teeth and nails. Not to mention buying quality products that don’t make you look like an old woman or a party clown. Try to find perfume that doesn’t smell like an old lady. Also trying to buy nice clothes in my 20s when I was poor was a nightmare. My hair is super thick so it costs mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:49 PM
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I love men,mostly. I find my BF’s body absolutely amazing,his voice rumbling in his chest when I lie against him and his scruff feels good when it tickles my shoulder. That’s not all of course,also the companionship and stability he brought into my life especially during a very very hard time in my life a few years ago. Being able to get it out the mud and start succeeding with the man of your dreams was all I ever asked for. I love my father very much. He supported us on his one job driving nea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:40 PM
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Is the gist of this “She knows what good sex is and now won’t accept bad sex”? Because that’s how it’s coming across,if its all about sex and I’m reading this right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:55 AM
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You can’t? Why? I learned all of my makeup from YouTube videos since i didn’t have a mother when I was in the age most girls learn from mom. It’s incredibly easy if you are just trying to do your jaw. Decent quality product done properly is going to look fairly natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:12 PM
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I’m on board with you tbh. I have spent who knows how much money and effort to look aesthetically pleasing to myself and others. A lot of women do. If you are going to shoot for chicks hotter than you,there’s a good chance she’s putting effort on herself and would expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:58 PM
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Even in this post and probably a few more like it you will see a few “Well,the matches I DO get aren’t who I’m interested in!” They never stop to think that maybe the hot girls feel the same way about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:17 PM
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Don’t they know the Wall is coming for them? Tick tock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:15 PM
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There’s a lot guys in here that will sneer that women should “adjust their standards” yet when you tell them anything similar suddenly you’re the mean and cruel bitch for suggesting they might not be scoring with a hot chick as things stand. They’ll even tell you that women only want to have sex with hot men and it’s like….yeah? No shit. I doubt they’re jerking off over some smelly chick they saw at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:31 PM
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Godspeed and good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:43 PM
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Well of course I didn’t “settle”. I’m with someone who’s a perfect match for me. And yeah whatever helps you get to sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:32 PM
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Cucked by Chadborg AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:46 AM
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First AI incel when???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:24 AM
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This is why women are often hostile towards some men,you’ve answered your own question. Do you know how 11 year old children dress? They’re wearing tshirts with cartoon characters on them. Even if they were in dresses and heels we should probably be a little more worried about the useless fuck who thinks children are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:54 AM
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Yup.First time a man followed me around the store I was 12. He eventually stepped out in front of me like Dennis Reynolds grinning and asking me where my boyfriend was. I was a shy kid so it really scared me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:46 AM
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Seems solid. Why would I have sex with someone who I don’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:24 AM
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What is it that I always hear in here? Oh yeah,outliers. There’s always some. Also isn’t he like some 60 year old man? His wife probably got with him before he was a grifter. I gotta say I find it funny that he’s so anti marriage but is married. Men truly do love consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:02 PM
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I think you might be hearing women in here complain about BAD sex,not sex in general. Nothing beats good sex with a beautiful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:55 PM
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You keep referring to women not sleeping/dating men they aren’t attracted to as “a picky toddler”. Do you really feel that way? Would you want to marry or fuck someone you weren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:08 PM
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That part. Idk why people stick their heads in the sand when I bring up how some good looking men can be very picky too. A 9/10? That’s like model status. An ugly woman is no more sexual than a bar stool to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:03 PM
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You can keep trying to hit me with the “emotional logic” thing over and over just like every other brilliant mind in PPD. You aren’t going to get under my skin. Anyways. Getting rejecting isn’t the revenge fantasy. It happens to everyone. When you start thinking about how miserable she’s going to be in the future and projecting bitterness onto girls who don’t date you,yes that is a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:00 PM
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I’m sure you make a wonderful wingman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:56 PM
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A 9/10? A man that attractive is going to be somewhat snobby and knows he has other options. Very good looking men get fickle and sort of stuck up sometimes just the way very good looking women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:53 PM
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Call it what you want. I don’t know many happily married men who snark and scoff about other women constantly. And yes,it is a revenge fantasy. It’s dripping with bitterness and sulking about her “having her fun” in her life and then afterwards not just plopping down next to the first man who offers. It reeks of sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:48 PM
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You think 9/10 men are sleeping with 2/10 women? Lmao indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:41 PM
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I didn’t personalize anything. That person may have a wife and kids but it doesn’t negate what I’ve said. Also I would like to think a man with a family wouldn’t be so miserable as to be stewing on what some single ladies are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:40 PM
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Utterly childlike take if I’m honest. Talk of entitlement,how entitled would you have to be to resent single women for not plopping down with men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:20 PM
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You’re disgusted that people stay single? Why? Do you feel something is being withheld from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:44 PM
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I was in my 20s before I found out a lot of that stuff. I was adopted so there was never much “pregnancy” talk from my mom. First I started hearing stories from older coworkers and older ladies in my life about losing hair due to vitamin deficiency,being ripped literally down the middle like a zipper and…bleeding. Sometimes literally having to wear a diaper because your bladder got so weak. I was already firmly in the childfree camp at this point but hearing first hand accounts of complications …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:44 PM
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This exactly,yes. Everyone has their own path that they go on. We all decide how we’re going to get through our time here. Some people are comfortable getting started early. I have family members who dated their SO since high school. I think more young women need to be aware of what could go wrong and what pregnancy/motherhood can really do to you with no unicorns and frills. Young women get pregnant and they are utterly overwhelmed by what it does to their body simply because they didn’t know. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:06 AM
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I was reading a post In relationship advice the other day that was like “my wife is gorgeous and beautiful and I love her” and then immediately next paragraph “80 percent of the time I’m not attracted to her because she’s in regular lounge clothes and I only get turned on when she gets ‘slutty’ for me and makes herself all up to look good for me” Watch what they do,not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:13 AM
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Not fair to say “most men”. Sure some of these super hardcore religious/traditional guys in here do,yeah. But if you have well done makeup most men appreciate the effort you went through to look nice. At least that’s been my experience. I’ve been wearing “heavy” (contour/winged eyeliner/highlighting/blahblah) makeup since I was about 19. My boyfriend loves that I’m into makeup not only because i can look very sexy and sultry around the house for him but also because it’s a hobby to me and I enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:33 AM
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The funniest part is they don’t know what makeup actually looks like. They see a girl in false lashes.concealer,blush,setting powder and say “Now that’s a natural woman!” with no hint of irony or self awareness. And if the makeup isn’t subtle and you can tell it’s makeup,then why pretend you were “lied” to??? Did you really think that lady had green eyelids???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:20 AM
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Agreed to almost everything. I saw it happen in my small hometown and I see it now time to time play out with people from my life. I knew this girl,I’m going to try to be vague,who would probably be called a “pick me” by some on here. Started having children at 19,married the first guy she lost her virginity too. She was very proud of her ‘trad’ life and regularly posted pics of herself with her husband. Thing is,she actually hated it. I was in a group chat with her and she had to be heavily hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:02 AM
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I’d say it’s fairly similar to my own reasons for not having children. The “I don’t have to” has always been a huge part of it for me. It’s basically what goes through my head when I receive any irl pressure or criticism about it. Sometimes there’s this undertone of ‘Come on. Everyone does it and you don’t get to be exempt just because you’d rather be comfortable. It’s your turn for sleepless nights’ I pick up from people at times especially older women and women with children who are currently …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:34 PM
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So what I’m hearing is that you’re making exaggerated claims and projecting them to every woman. The women who expect you to have everything exist,obviously. They’re usually shallow and unpleasant people in my experience and they treat everyone around them like a peasant. The thing is,not every woman is the richbitch girlboss ‘level up’ type. Some of us were born into families of meager income or have dealt with issues like homelessness and now we’re more than happy with comfortable living inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:18 AM
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I’ll bite,where’s this 436 point list?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:00 AM
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This is my answer too like….of course he is high value,I’m living with him and hope to spend my forever with him. He has unlimited value to me. To the world? To society? Who gives a shit. I haven’t bothered to ask them. ALSO he sounds like winner but that last paragraph especially is a good look. Men who aren’t enthusiastic and excited about sex or during sex is probably one of my biggest “icks” for both potential long terms and casual. Years ago I had been talking to this guy and I was really i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:51 AM
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They’re going to tell you that only guys who act like shitbags get laid so why would they put any effort into being a decent human. It never fails lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:26 AM
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I don’t know if you’re trying to be funny but they’re both addictive sedatives. ‘Ludes were so bad that they took them off the market completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:25 AM
11

Of course they smiled,they were all on quaaludes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:57 AM
4

You’re the one mad and jealous because women won’t clean your shit up off the floor like they do for Rover. I wouldn’t be trying to tear anyone else down right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:36 AM
5

Correct. I’m beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:34 AM
5

Well. For one thing,you aren’t a pet and you aren’t a dog. So no you’re not going to be treated like a dog. The way we treat our pets is different from how we treat dates/partners. It seems like you shouldn’t have to be told that but I learn something new in here every day. Secondly,just because your standards for women are comparable to that of an animal doesn’t mean it’s true for every one. Also “cute” means different things to different people. Not really a word I hear used to describe adults…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:30 AM
2

I can honestly look within myself to see I’m too selfish to have children and not very maternal. It’s required a lot of introspection but I would be doing them a disservice to bring them into the world. The thought of letting something take control of my body like that (pregnancy) squicks me out on a very deep level too. The push to make people think that you HAVE to have children is dangerous imo,what happens when they finally go along with it and hate it as much as they thought they would?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:19 AM
1

I’m a very “do things on my own time” type person so a hectic lifestyle would not be beneficial to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:13 PM
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The problem is that a lot of these guys see every woman as hyper-Stacy. A lot of the things that I hear in here sometimes come across as someone who learned about female behavior from Mean Girls and decided that adult women are also obsessed with hating/mocking the “normies” and “uglies”. Are there grown women out there who still have the mean girl attitude? Jesus Christ,unfortunately I have to say yes because I’ve had them as peers/coworkers. They’re also usually huge bitches in general,so who’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:00 PM
7

Your base preferences sound about like mine. Not super obese,old (I’m mid30s so no 40+)or ugly. I feel it’s fair to ask for that as I’m not obese and objectively not ghoulishly ugly. No children/childfree has probably been my biggest hard line in the sand. I tried to date a man with children early on in my dating career and it got old very fast. I even started weeding out fenceriders and “maybe”s because it would suck to have to torpedo a fun and laidback relationship because the man got baby fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:17 PM
5

This is my thing. I’ve always just sought out men who aren’t neurotically obsessed with “n-count” and it always worked out both for hookups and long term. Sure there are some guys out there that are preoccupied with it but like you said,the kind of men I’ve always went after didn’t give a fuck. I never really dated religious or uptight men ffw so that probably plays into it a bit. My partner and I are long term but not interested in marriage (neither of us want children) or any of the paperwork,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:35 AM
6

Your language means nothing to me. You aren’t going to get under my skin with insults because I’m a 33 year old adult and we’re not in high school. I’m not scared of not being seen as “liberal minded” or whatever weird boogieman you’re trying to pull out on me. I don’t care for any of it. Wait so first I was lying,now I have generic desires? Can I get a flow chart to keep track of the cope? You act like I started this exchange. You dropped in on me with your “basic bitch” opinion of me,so I retu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:01 AM
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None of us are truly unique. We’re humans,once you take all the bitter gender bullshit out of it. My point stands,you must’ve felt slighted somehow by my comment to react so strongly and negatively. Does it anger you that what I’ve said doesn’t feed into your echo chamber ideals? That there are women out there who are loving,sane and normal? That there are average men who get fucked and loved by beautiful/average women? Surely not because if not every women is the problem…there’s only one other …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:34 AM
5

That’s good for you,champ! A man who is getting laid and paid regularly DEFINITELY leaves crybaby comments about “pumpkin spice lattes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:09 AM
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My current SO for the last 5 years is 5’7. Most post history is full of me discussing why I love shy,sweet men. If you think height is why you aren’t getting laid it’s more than likely some other skill issue. That’s the only reason I could find for you to lash out in such a helpless way. Your bitter,self indulgent and impotent flailings only hurt you,not me. Basic hoes being basic hoes,one might say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:01 AM
4

33 raised in the Deep South and now living in the Midwest. I honestly don’t really notice stuff like that in public but if I had to guess I’d say it’s about even. I don’t really see knockouts of any gender dating way down. Sometimes the woman will be much more attractive simply because she put actually effort into appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:53 AM
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Barely anyone in here has a good grasp of “average” for either sexes. Men of PPD will have you believe the average woman is a 10/10 supermodel,men throw money at her in the street and follow her around like a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:49 AM
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Super mom IG influencer types who wake up at 5am to make sandwiches for her kids,feed the dog and make her husband a homecooked lunch all while recording her latest tiktok about the all natural granola bars she’s whipping up. She’s always -busy- and has no time for anything but still somehow manages to squeeze out 6 inspirational videos a day about being a “crunchy” mom. I’ve known people like this irl and when the camera goes off they come unglued. Not sure if it’s really what the OP was asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:30 AM
3

Long hair and pretty was going to be my answer as well. I love long hair and pretty face with good bone structure. Current bf has the best bone structure I’ve ever seen on a man to the point that when I post photos of us other men comment on how sharp his jawline is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:51 AM
3

The pity party never stops lmfao they couldn’t wait to tell you why a fictional doctor is chadmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:48 AM
4

I find him cute as well,his relationship with Zendaya reminds me of my own relationship. You just want to put your arm around him and cuddle him up for a kiss. Shyness and playfulness are also two very endearing traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:46 AM
2

I still can’t get over the amount of guys in these comments who think you should be punished for not giving them attention in public. It’s bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:51 AM
1

Women throw drinks in your face without you even speaking to them? How many times,just guesstimating,would you say that’s happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:22 AM
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Repulsive. I’m sure that in his story you were the the rude one of course. The OP seems to think that women get away with everything yet I doubt this guy would have snatched a phone out of the hands of a bigger man. Just like you don’t see old men trying to get young men to pretty up their face and look happier or make comments about them looking grumpy/sad in public. They know they can pull shit like that and if she doesn’t react the way he wants he can say she’s a rude bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:46 PM
2

I’d say the more bitter and resentful views espoused in PPD are not in any way what the average guy thinks. It seems like it,but from my experience and just living on this planet for 33 years,it’s not. Normal guys aren’t walking around thinking about what “Chad” is doing with his penis or having a neurotic episode about “n-count”. A lot of their other hangouts get nuked so some extreme stuff can bottleneck in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:07 AM
2

I remember “foreveralonewomen” I think. I actually found it because they couldn’t stop talking about it on the regular Incel sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:42 AM
3

Honestly I don’t remember. I lurked PPD for like a year before I even started posting regularly. I remember thinking it was interesting to have a little “no man’s land” between the two genders were the gloves come off and things got messy but the pettiness of it can get to be a bit much sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:40 AM
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Same,I used to read /braincels when it still existed and even further back it was just called /incels. It started out as sympathy reading and quickly turned into “wow we share a planet with these people” reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:36 AM
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The southern part of the US is the worst,that’s where I moved away from. People will just engage themselves right into your business/space and speak to you like they know you and you’re a evil bitch for not sitting there like an excited puppy while they talk to you. It definitely is a thing mostly men do to women (some women will do it but usually it’s a bitchy “Karen” type trying to bully some teenage McDonalds worker),I have yet to see a male tell another male to pretty his face up for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:30 AM
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That’s like saying the guys who are exposed for sleeping with everything with a pulse should just not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:43 AM
2

And….? I think you forgot to finish your sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:38 AM
2

People stabbing each other is on no way the same wavelength as someone not being pleasant enough towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:37 AM
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If that’s the case then it’s true for both genders,which is what my standpoint is. We either ridicule people for mistakes or we simply allow them to make them and move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:29 AM
3

You give men who complain about being exposed online the same advice,right? Pick better partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:04 AM
4

I don’t know if it’s still up but I googled it and still saw people talking about “the coalburner registry”. Very weird and sick stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:00 AM
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There was something going around Facebook a few years ago,it was a website called CoalFax it was used by white men to call out white women who date black men,their full names and schools. Sometimes pictures. It was up and running for a good long time because I saw it linked and talked about on several occasions. It was pretty vile and abrasive stuff but oh no pweese don’t call me out for being a fuckboy!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:54 AM
1

Examine your driver’s license photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:50 AM
1

Lol the jump from “most men don’t defend revenge porn uwu bad bad” to “show me revenge porn tits right now” within the space of the hour let’s you know who’s really being gaslit in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:45 AM
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lol yeah nah,I never once said they weren’t. I even gave an example of their actual assholish behavior vrs the neutral behavior that some men feel offended by. If they are outwardly being a bitch or getting in your way then my comment isn’t about that kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:22 PM
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Hardly. Some men,especially older guys,will act genuinely offended if you don’t seem “friendly” enough toward them. Women don’t need to be abrasive to be be labeled a “bitch” a lot of the time because bitch can sometimes get watered down to “she didn’t laugh at my joke in the grocery store line”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:53 PM
5

Minding your business has no gender. A Man can be seemingly “unfriendly” too if he’s quiet or not a small talker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:42 PM
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Sometimes people just aren’t in the mood. That’s men and women. If I say thank you or open a door for someone and I get a glower in return my train of thought is “sheesh,rough day” not “how can I make this person pay.” A lot of quiet and anxious people are labeled as stuck up because they don’t want to exchange pleasantries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:27 AM
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I’m saying that if someone ignores you…they ignored you. They didn’t bother you or harass you or tell you to fuck off…they just carried on their business. You find someone worthy of punishment because they didn’t acknowledge your presence? If they are actively doing something to piss you off,sure but we shouldn’t be trying to dole out punishment to someone who hasn’t done anything offensive or purposely said something stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:57 AM
9

“What,you’re hungry? But there’s a perfectly good hotdog in the trash!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:20 AM
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One of the things listed was “ignoring you”. What do you think the “consequences” of not acknowledging you should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:15 AM
9

I hear a lot of crazy revenge fantasies in here but “you were mean to me in public once and now you’re going to die alone in my imagination” is one of the funniest and most self indulgent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:17 AM
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I mean yeah people shouldn’t be assholes in general but a lot of men’s idea of a rude female stranger is someone not being a giddy golden retriever in his presence or at the very least acknowledging him. There’s a difference in “bitch who cut in front of you in line then told you to get over it” and “stranger who had a neutral expression on her face when I walked by and didn’t look in my direction”. Being an asshole is being an asshole,minding your business is not being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:40 PM
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I do the same thing. It’s gotten a bit better since I no longer live in the southern US where every stranger is in your business but I still usually keep at least one in if I’m shopping by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:20 PM
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Well,I got laid and scored a great relationship (the topic) in the time when you say I should have been “dropping considerably”. Also I don’t care what you believe and what you don’t,it sounds like a skill issue on your part if you’re having trouble following what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:41 AM
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You think we have to stop fucking/dating hot men in our 30s? That would suck if it was the case lmfao some of my greatest victories have been from 27 upward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:44 AM
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I’ve always been the one to approach the men I’m interested in,at least in my adult life. I know what I want. Sometimes it works out (I met my current partner of 5 years by striking up convo with him because he looked cute and interesting) but just like the guys in these comments have said about their own experiences,it hurts to get shut down especially if they’re snobby/rude about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:42 AM
1

It’s the 10th “if I don’t get pussy RIGHT NOW then something BAD is going to happen” post of the week,yay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:04 AM
9

“If I don’t get my government sanctioned gf by the end of the month I will have to take desperate measures and blow up the moon”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:20 AM
2

Appreciate it. Yeah I’ve been with the same person for nearing on 5ish years now. We count our anniversary by whenever we moved in together and that was in 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:58 AM
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There’s pictures of me in my post history. I’m not a supermodel but I am definitely not ogre either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:55 AM
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Because having sex is fun and I enjoy having sex with beautiful men? I also don’t have a lot of regret about my single years so I may not be the target audience for this post. I didn’t see it as toxic,I saw it as fun (clubbing,drinking,going out to meet guys and try to talk to them) and I got into a relationship with a man who had “fun” before we got together. I don’t really see it as a negative except for when I wasted time on someone who didn’t work out but that’s only even counting serious re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:06 AM
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Sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 PM
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I can’t imagine why,you sound like an absolute sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:18 AM
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Bitter,chip-on-the-shoulder attitude about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:42 AM
1

Yeah this sub isn’t exactly filled with the best and brightest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:58 AM
0

I mean,yeah….Call me a insert your favorite derogatory female but I’m doing the same thing if put in the same situation. Stay in a war wrecked country? No I’m good. That makes me a coward? Cry to your mother about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:58 PM
1

I definitely don’t want kids and don’t get into relationships with men who do. I don’t really care about getting married. We already live together for several years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:38 PM
0

I’m already in a long term relationship,5 years. We have more than just my looks to keep us together but he’s surely not complaining. For a lack of better words he likes “cougar” women so I don’t think he’s going to cry when I’m 40. We aren’t into children either so that kind of stuff is out the window. Nothing but free time and free love heheh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:28 PM
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I’m 33 with no children and I’m dating a 28 year old man who could have anyone he wanted,jawline like the Chad meme guy. Keep holding your breath for the wall,baby,I’m sure any minute now I will become unfuckable. Oh wait no,I’m still getting attention from men young and old. I’m also the one to pay bills and always have been as long as I could work. The fact that my simple comment had you pressed it is very precious though. You mad that I said I didn’t want to talk to dinosaurs when I was a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:46 PM
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Honestly. I’d rather trade “stability” (lol I’ve survived on my own long before my man came into the picture,I’m plenty stable) and “maturity” (because there’s NEVER been a 35 year old manbaby right?) for a man who isn’t a schoolbus chaser/old enough to be my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:42 PM
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I can only speak for myself and the people I grew up around but it is most certainly not just an older woman thing. When I was 19-20 I felt extremely uncomfortable and put off when 30+ year old men would get in my face and think I would want to talk to them. I would complain that the hot guys my age wouldn’t come talk to me like that and it’s how I ended up being the “approacher” for men I’m interested in.Most of my female friends around that age also joked an laughed about “dinosaurs” who could…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:24 PM
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If you have that attitude towards rape/women,I can assure you that you are not a “kind” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:55 PM
2

It definitely happens. Some men can be very snobby and cold when they aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:26 PM
3

Members of the opposite sex do not become “invisible” when you’re in a relationship. You think beautiful women are attractive just like I can see a attractive guy and know the same. However,most people have the tiniest bit of self control not to screw anything that has a pulse. Ones who don’t are rightly labeled as cheaters. I’m sure he sees pretty women just as often as I see beautiful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:06 PM
2

Sure I could get another one. No,I’m not going to because we are in a committed relationship and we have other things going on in our lives besides worrying about babies. No,this does not mean we hate children. It’s just simply not part of the equation and we’re looking forward to the rest of our lives together and being able to enjoy life on our own terms. No,I’m not interested in getting outside dick. The man I’m with right now is the hottest one I have ever been with and he’ll do almost anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:31 PM
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Only sad,lonely people would try so hard to belittle a clearly happy relationship. I’m not too worried about their rudeness,it’s just fruitless barking into a void.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:18 PM
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They want so bad for me to be unhappy they’ll literally tell me there’s no love in my relationship. It’s past sad it’s just comedy now. They want me to hang my head in shame and say “guys you were right! I should have been shitting out babies at 20! I should have been the perfect feminine flower who sat in a wheat field with my tradwife dress on!” They’ll do/say anything if you’re looking too happy with an unconventional life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:14 PM
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He could. I’m not interested in marriage and he knows that if he cheats (which he never has,very introverted guy who doesn’t like going out or dealing with other people besides me and a few friends)he’s out on his ass. He certainly doesn’t treat me as if he’s tired of me,I doubt he’d cook me breakfast and snuggle in bed with me all day if he was. I feel his heart beat faster sometimes when I hug him,still. I also know that we’ve seen each other at our worst,struggled through things (poverty,depr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:56 PM
10

So not surprised that other women relate to how I feel? Then we’re on the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:32 PM
10

Hmmm. That’s pretty interesting. ,my personal current experience: my boyfriend is six years younger than me,so I feel that if he had baby rabies deep down he would have dated a woman his own age. He’s a milf/cougar kind of guy. We’re also coming up on our 6 year anniversary…next April I believe. He’s never shown me any lack of romance,we’re already planning a cozy spooky movie night and snacks for tonight. As for lust,I have the sex drive of a bull moose so I would HOPE he had a lot of that too …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:29 PM
12

Perhaps so,but I’ve already gotten two comments who could relate with my story. Edit: you weren’t talking to me nvm,sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:12 PM
10

I don’t even drink anymore. Around 29 it stopped being fun and just gave me headache and got me sick so I laid off it and now I don’t miss it. Might have a beer every so often but nothing too insane. Ugh I feel you on the skin. My cystic acne was so bad. I got one on the very tip of my nose and it turned it purple. Also I learned better skin care and have a routine now which includes dry brushing (body) and rose/yarrow exfoliant + good cleanser. I definitely have a much better “glow” now than I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:36 PM
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Same boat here. I’m not ring/marriage obsessed so I’m not going to be led by that. I have never wanted children so you can’t guilt me into pretending I want them. I have always paid my own bills and pay the majority of bills now(rent,internet,utilities type thing)so I’m not looking for the “bailout” as they like to say. I just want someone who’s fun,adventurous (in many different ways) and wants to keep me company and wants my company as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:15 PM
1

Yup! They get away with everything and then some. It’s not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:34 AM
1

I don’t recall Valentines Day being only for women. It’s a day for couples. We usually exchange gifts and then spend the day together,end the night with some primal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:31 AM
1

If that’s the type of man they choose,good for them. I’m not “boys will be boys”ing a grown man. That’s for when little boys are outside playing in the dirt and catching worms,not for a factor in a adult relationship. Also to be fair it’s been a few years but I definitely remember seeing guys thirst for Arias. I HAVE seen women defend her too,but in the comments I recall only one or two(still too much,that’s weird). Another good example is the “real life yandere” Yuka Takaoka. She is indeed very…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:12 AM
2

That may be the bigger picture,I’m just telling you my own personal feelings. It’s anecdotal as always but I’m a bit bored. I hate arrogance so much it’s unreal. It makes me bristle the minute they get in my face with their shiteating grin like they already know I’m going to just melt into a puddle for them automatically. At one point in my early 20s I intentionally froze this kind of man out because I felt the need to send the signal to him that he wasn’t the god of fuck. Now that I’m older,if …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:08 AM
1

These types of irritating toolbags are usually pushy and aggressive,two traits that turn me off from a male. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:02 AM
10

Toxic,annoying behavior is just as obnoxious and repugnant on stereotypically attractive men. It’s obnoxious on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:47 AM
1

Have you ever lived in a small town? Big Bubba is fucking everything that moves at closing time. Skeeter down the street doesn’t have shit to his name but has 4 kids. I’ve seen it happen in cities too but where I grew up there were some real winners. I will say,I know that there ARE some men who have/feel they have to strive that hard but it’s not always the case. A lot of “high-N” men are dumpster diving on Saturday night with the drunkest woman they can find. Sure sex may be easier for women,b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:24 PM
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That’s definitely not exaggeration. They said babies CAN BE a life destroyer. It’s not a one size fits all thing. For me and surely other women in here it would indeed be a life destroyer. I’m lucky to be in a state with absolutely no bans on abortion so if push comes to shove…I would be able to get it taken care of but almost every state surrounding mine has bans. Those are the ones who’s life with truly be destroyed by pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:57 PM
33

Exactly! I sometimes have a brief little “oh my god what if i’m pregnant?” panic around the time for my period even when I know logically I’ve taken all steps and I’ve never had a serious scare before. Your mind just instinctively starts running you through all the possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:29 PM
1

….but it just so happens I’m still dating him(5’7) and we’ve been together for years. I will admit it’s kind of a…preference(?) a lot of women don’t have but what can I say I’ve been like this since about sometime in my early/mid 20s. Hell,even one of my favorite guys to watch in porn(Juan El Loco mmmm) is around 5’6. Also I’m 5’9 and and of the mindset everyone deserves forehead kisses ;) You guys gotta chill with this broad brush stuff. I know I’m a minority but it’s so weird when people get o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:02 AM
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Idk because my “standards” are a little off center from most. Not that there’s anything wrong with that but this isn’t a NotLikeOtherGirls post. I don’t hold any Ill will to women who are different,and I don’t think I’m better than anyone. Quite the opposite actually. About the height thing- Current boyfriend is the hottest man I’ve ever bagged and he’s 5’7 and skinny (something that according to some in this sub never ever ever could happen). As long as I can pay rent,eat good and live a fairly…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:01 AM
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I was a FWB person for a long time because I lived in an area where it was almost impossible to find a man I actually liked. Through some magic I found someone completely on my level,no kids,not a religious nut/likes to have fun and enjoy life while it lasts and we’ve been together for five (nearly six) years. It’s not for everyone,I know but it’s perfect for me and it’s probably been the most fun years of my life. Enjoy your weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:10 AM
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This is the only real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:21 AM
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Me too I guess??? When does my honorary penis come in the mail?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:18 AM
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Speak for yourself buddy I absolutely love sex. My drive is higher than a lot of men’s. I’m not interested in getting married to the person I’m with because neither of us give a shit about marriage and definitely not children (hard no for both) so the whole “secure the resources” shit is out the window. Give me a break dude. If you think women don’t like sex it’s telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:13 AM
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You’re preaching to the choir trust me. I was using tinder in Alabama no less lmfao so it was basically religious nuts,prudes,guys I had nothing in common with or guys who were in their early 20s and already wanting children and a church wedding. I did have some fun here and there but overall…slim pickings. Also,try a band tshirt or something similar if you’re looking for an alt guy but don’t look very alt. Smokey black eyeshadow/sharp eyeliner and the right makeup as well. Don’t be -too- smiley…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:59 PM
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I had a friend that would put “if you actually read this,send me -random emoji-“ Surprise,surprise! A lot of them don’t read bios anyways. They’re sitting there swiping yes on almost every profile that comes by. A lot of them even admit it. That being said it’s really easy to get them to reveal who they really are pretty quickly. I’ve seen pictures of it on the Tinder sub,some guys will shoot themselves in the foot by immediately picking an argument with the girl that liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:42 PM
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Why one earth would you think lowering the age would make you get better results? I’m not trying to go in on you but that’s quite the list you have. Also tbh you’re right about the septum ring thing. It turns away the ones who would probably not be her type in the first place. Same for tattoos. It is a niche thing you’re absolutely right,and there’s nothing wrong with you not being into it. When I was still dating I would sometimes wear a clip in septum ring (I had an actual nose piercing but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:07 AM
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A nice ass in some well fitting black pants or grey sweat pants. I’m a rabid dog for a nice ass/thighs/legs and something that shows it off the way I like. Shirts that show off their collarbone/chest area are usually nice too. Everything else has been mentioned already. Smelling good,taking care of your skin and hair (the 5 in 1 all purpose paint thinner horse glue bodywash might be cheap but it sucks for actually taking care of hair or skin). You could also look into supps and vitamins that mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:18 PM
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As far as what? Showing their interested in you? Talking to you and giving you the majority of their attention,direct eye contact,buying you a drink(I don’t expect it or anything I just know some guys do that when they think a girl is hot). I’m thinking about a situation where there’s two or three standing around and he sees one in particular he’s interested in. I will concede,this might be a regional thing. I spent some of my 20s in Florida and quite a few guys would freeze you out and make you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:52 AM
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From what I’ve seen when I used to go out almost every weekend,a really attractive woman and an “ok” woman are sitting at the same table and a man walks up,8 times out of 10 he’s ignoring Ok or not showing her any signs he “wants” her or sees her as a sexual option,because his first and favorite option is already there. You ever see a guy approach two or three women and he’s clearly only into one of them and laughing extra loud at her jokes and completely facing her. This isn’t a woman only thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:06 AM
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They can,but I just really don’t think having sex with someone you know has no interest in you and is waiting for it to be over and collect a paycheck is really going to bring people much fulfillment as they think it will. A lot of them are going to feel worse or the same after. Some will feel better temporarily but realize it wasn’t what they wanted making them feel more like failures. Some will like that they have all the power in the interaction and get a vindictive thrill out of buying a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:19 AM
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Some women(spoken from experience) are highly turned on by male homosexual implications,similar to the way a man would be turned on by hot chicks kissing and sticking dildos in each other in porn. I don’t know what the exact numbers/stats are but I only have my own anecdotal experience,”two hot guys kissing” was one of the first things I remember googling at 12 and I know it can’t be just me. It’s definitely not “unanimous” to the degree you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:25 AM
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According to some people women never strike out,they’re never awkward and they always have the money for the sexiest hair and clothes. They are always preforming on model-tier standards. It’s simply not the case. One of the worst ways I’ve felt humiliated is when you are out with friends and a guy comes over and is obviously interested in your friend and doesn’t say anything to you. You end up just sitting there peering into your drink or looking at your phone so you don’t feel so weird about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:11 AM
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I always say the same thing every time it gets brought up. They think the IG models/hot OF girls are living the same experience that an average woman is. It’s not even close to true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:47 AM
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Personal anecdote obviously but I was in my 30s before I found a man who enjoyed a role reversal(dom/sub where the woman leans heavy towards the dom side) relationship. I found tons of men who were “subs” only in writing. When the time actually came,they were spooked and obviously not into it. Not saying it’s right or wrong,just saying it’s not as easy as you might think. Men tend to talk a big game about what they’ll do and have done. Also, on Fetlife men who are not overly attractive or even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:23 AM
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You’re the judge and jury on “the right men” though? Not everyone wants to get married and pop out babies. Plenty of women find men with the same life plan as them. I lucked up and found someone with the same goals as me,I’ve never been pestered about sexual history,because he’s had sex too. What do you think most men are doing in their 20’s? And not a small subsection of Redditors in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:04 AM
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I’ve seen it talked about online but I’ve never known it to happen at least not to any of the women in my circles. I never had a problem with dating and have been with the same guy for years now.Although also I wouldn’t be dating someone who didn’t share my values and views.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:57 PM
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It is a mostly online thing. I grew up in a super conservative small town. Even most of the guys there weren’t as prudish as some of the guys I see on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:46 PM
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Seriously,if I got as many men throwing themselves at me as they allege I could start start an army lmfao. It wasn’t really different in my 20s either because I was scrawny and had no curves so no one was really beating down the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:52 AM
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That’s great man, date who you want. What do you want us to say? Do you want us to say we cry ourselves to sleep at night because you aren’t interested in dating us? That is absolutely not the case. If she’s “promiscuous” then she already has men lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:40 AM
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That they’re not having sex with him specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:39 AM
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Absolutely,it’s usually a cope for why they can’t get laid now. “Oooooh you just wait a few more years! Hot young women will be all over me!” When I was early 20s the thought of dating guy in their 30’s was not appealing. All of the other girls that I knew thought the same and didn’t like how creepy and aggressive older guys could be. Hell,even now in my 30’s,if I was single I don’t know if I’d want to date someone in their mid-late 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:30 AM
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Yeah,the Chad dudes absolutely exist. It would be stupid to say it didn’t.The same can be said for a femChad (above average looks,has men throwing themselves at her no matter what,very sought after and lusted over). She’s living a life that a lot of us have no clue about either. It’s disingenuous to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:10 PM
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Get life experiences that don’t involve high school. It’s such a small subset of your life you really shouldn’t base your expectations on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:04 AM
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You’re overthinking this. In the real world men under 6’ get happily taken/married pretty regularly. I only ever see the hyperbolic black and white type thinking defeatist stuff online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:03 PM
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