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Breggox/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:53 AM
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Well, maybe you are right, but the odds still stand against it for me to accept the quran as a truth on it's entire contents. You're 'then' statement isn't proven to be true so even this statement cannot be accepted. Ask yourself the question why you accepted it in the first place. Is it because of well known mental indoctrination schemes? Have you been willing to compare and study all different beliefs who 'claim to know the truth'? Why is it that the quran has the truth and not the bible accor…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:10 PM
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Actually my answer is already in the previous comment, because science is proven, examined and tested. Science is NOT a belief, it is a method. I'm not claiming science is truth and that it will change is something I am willing to accept. I choose to believe in the most accurate representation of the reality that we know of today. I also have my own idea of 'the big bang' where I only believe it was an event of distributing energy. If tomorrow I wake up out of the matrix and I see how humans got…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:28 AM
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No, why would your god - which again, has never been proven - be able to come out of nowhere but the big bang cannot? The bible is a book written by men, and I refuse to believe everything ever written by any men based on the belief that it is valid. I rather believe in things that have been thoroughly examined, proven and preferably experienced and challenged. You can find answers on the atheism subreddit if you're open to educate yourself into the reason many people don't believe in a higher b…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:30 AM
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Do you not like your past because of the city or because of your choices? What would make you think you won't make those mistakes somewhere else?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:22 AM
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Yeah and working out at home is bullshit if you don't have weights. The thing is if you're not competing and she is, she'll go for another man. Your response to her lip shizzle must be to become better yourself.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:26 PM
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My girlfriend did botox and I never even noticed untill she told me. She wants to do a nose correction even though nothing is wrong. That's why I'm saying they look at it differently, it's the same effect on their confidence makeup has. The slut factor to me is when they overdo it but just because I don't like that look. She said they are different things and does not have enough time for the gym bla bla. This alone is the reason I'd break up with your girl man. Everyone has time to go to the gy…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:17 PM
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Let her do it, girls have a totally different perception of this as guys do. It might look better. If you don't like it can always break up. To her it's something she does to compete, it's a good sign she is still trying to be prettier if she is all over you. By questioning this behaviour she will start wondering why you wouldn't like a girl that is doing an effort. Either she'll stop competing at all or think you are not worthy. You can't change her mind anyways. If you stay indifferent it is a…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:07 PM
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They never were red pill in the first place. They just chose this name because they have knowledge about the red pill existing and thought to pretend you are an ex of something people would assume you are also an expert, which they are clearly not.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:05 AM
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I start making jokes, about everything and everyone and don't care if they're funny to others or not.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:43 AM
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Girls don't care that much how hot uou are if your pictures scream 'I don't have a life'
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:18 AM
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I should add renting in the city I live is only $450/month, my total expenses are around $800. So depending on your city I would say two months of expenses is fine.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:54 PM
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If you can fall back on family, just borrow some money. I got into a complicated situation but in the end $2k was all I needed and 4 months in I paid it all off to the family members who borrowed me the money. Make deals, spread the costs over the first months you are in the new situation and be patient for luxury such as a car. Have a job lined up and there are no worries because you know money will start flowing, I didn't even had that in my story.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:52 PM
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21, As soon as I got out of college I started getting my own payments sorted. Been living alone since 18
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:40 PM
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Yes, and she'll be much more loyal if she fought to get you.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:29 PM
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You find a Bette one
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:07 AM
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Air quality sucks here, but you don't notice. I'm not sure, I know many farang have businesses here but it is easier as a national
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:34 PM
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I'm a software developer. I'd say kinda, it's a very typical Thai family but her mom just works really hard and owns a shop in a massive busy Thai market. I'm even planning on opening a shop in Bangkok too, lot of money to be made here because of low taxes.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:08 AM
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I live in Thailand, I can only recommend it. I live in the middle of the city in a fancy high rise building, I have a smart caring gf who's got her own car and is studying at an expensive international university. My job is great and I go out eating in restaurants three times a week, I never cook myself. After a while, I didn't even use tinder or bumble anymore. You can perfectly avoid trans woman, I never had any sexual interaction with any of them. You can filter out the ho's and there are ple…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:24 AM
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I usually say something like "that's fine if you're busy and cannot tell wether you're gonna make it I'll make some other plans." Don't waste your time waiting and just be open about that.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:39 AM
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The red pill thing to do is to not care about any hypes and do whatever you want. If she's not happy with pizza and beers but that's what you want to do, then show her the door and enjoy your pizza and beer.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 05:42 PM
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Don't. Shit. Where. You. Eat.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 05:39 PM
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Hey let me get some reality in to you. You'll have to work hard to keep it that way too once you're there. My advice would be to just set realistic goals and not aim for being a pro football player worth millions on your first day of practice at the local soccer team.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:47 PM
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I am just frustrated because sometimes she seems like she is very invested in our future but other times she just throws all that investment in the garbage leaving me feeling like a clown. That's just how girls make you feel. You know her better than I do, maybe she will stay faithful but would you waste your time betting on that? Only a month might be worth the bet but any longer and I certainly wouldn't.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:58 PM
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You shouldn't just fuck for the fucks. You should date and search for someone with the same goals and direction in life you have. You sound like you're both young so it's perfectly normal that she wants to do something like this. I'd recommend you to do the same and get out of America for a while if that's where you are at. And a month is suuuuper short btw. I left Europe a year ago and still don't want to go back. Don't look at her as if she is the only one capable of being your girlfriend, tha…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:35 PM
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What a negative piece of shit are you. I get it that you don't want her to go but it's a great idea to go to a tropical place and go scuba diving and make lasting memories rather than staying in a shit job and becoming depressed. Maybe you are just sad that you can't join her but that's your problem not hers. Yeah she's probably gonna fuck some dudes if you don't go with her but you can just do the same and tell her she's not your girlfriend when she's gone. If you have an abundance mindset this…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:51 PM
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The past is either an experience or a waste of time
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:17 PM
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Bruh PO maybe
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:17 PM
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Dude, it's probably just a ladyboy. They're horny AF and love to show their fake body. But don't be surprised I have had some crazy real experiences and never got scammed, I also live in Thailand.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:56 PM
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Let's start financial: a teacher makes about 40k-50k Thai Baht/month. You spend about 10-15k (270-400 euro) on rent for a nice place with a pool and gym ( got to look thoroughly to find a great appartement ). The food is amazingly cheap, about 200 thb (6 euro) will get you through a day if you eat local and don't mind street food/ food halls. That leaves 25k to do whatever you want. Drinks are same prices as Germany in Bangkok and there are cheaper places if you know where to go. Going out on a …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:30 PM
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Apply for a teaching job in English language in Thailand. You won't earn as much but you have the skill to do it and it's a great free life here.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:08 AM
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I chose to live closer to the city because it's a very stable metro ride to work and it just seems a better idea to me to be closer to where the fun is at. It paid of because we're moving soon and now the office will be in the city which is two stations closer and in the other direction, while I still live in a place I like to live. The question I would ask is if I'd still be happy to live there even if I lost my job.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:58 AM
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I wouldn't care if she got up to sleep in another bed because it makes her in a better mood the next day. I prefer to look at the things she does while I am conscious. My mom also has a separate room since I moved out and my dad thinks it's great because she's not complaining about sleeping bad because of him anymore and he gets to read his books as long as he wants in the evening. But if it is a deal-breaker you're not sleeping next to someone who can stand your snoring then go for it and find …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:47 AM
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Not worth it then, go some other places
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:05 PM
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If she's smart why not consider dating for a change instead of deliberately fucking around just for the fun. The issue isn't you risk anything but your reputation.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:05 PM
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My fastest lay ever was at a hostel in Lisbon when I returned after partying and the girl who I fucked in the streets the day before declined to go back with me. I get back to the common room and there are two chicks and two dudes smoking on a balcony outside, I just sit down in the sofa to charge and play my phone a bit before going to sleep. One of the girls gets up and goes to the bathroom while exchanging fuck me eye contact, and exactly as I am leaving a bit later she comes back and I grab …
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:57 PM
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Ahh I totally understand the situation a lot more now. If the text would have been a merry Christmas text you'd be a pussy for having this reaction so it looked strange. You're right, it is a pathetic shot at getting some attention, she seems like a real drama queen and you are totally right to block her on everything. I had a similar experience where a girl went to my place after work and told me about it, so I told her to gtfo and since she was stubborn I slept in a hostel for a night just to …
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:46 PM
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Only the ones that put in the work become a rapper/CEO etc. Skip the gang part and aim for a goal. Your problem with girls is not your lifestyle but your mindset. Being in a gang is not going to magically increase your SMV. Now cut the crap and stop rationalising this idea, you asked for advice, we gave it so follow it! Or don't and do whatever you said and end up below your potential.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:24 AM
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That's only because you are young. Later in life all education will pay off and you'll be worth far more than those thugs who are in jail/got a record/work at McDonald's. What are you aiming for by joining a gang? It's such a short term solution to your problem that isn't even a problem.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:14 AM
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How did you know it was her?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:56 AM
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Curious to see if I can solve it
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:53 AM
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Solid advice, I interpret it as it being okay not to do all of this hyped BS and surprising her every once in a while will step up my game. If it ever becomes a problem, NEXT
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:32 AM
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Man just move to Asia, it's the average height there. Anyway, as long as you're uncomfortable about it it will stay a problem.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:53 AM
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Thai girls are actually perfect LTR material, just not the ones you meet in Pattaya or gogo bars. And trust me it's not that cheap actually. 50$ will get you a girl for a night if you pick her up on the streets. Getting a dance at a gogo can cost you 20$ very quickly.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 12:11 AM
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Yeah recently. I was plating this girl for 5 months and eventually she broke her mask and directly showed how manipulative she could be. I was very cautious with slowly transitioning her into LTR. After this one time she fucked up it gave me a good reason to go separate again and I instantly started finding new plates since I even already dropped some for her. They use a red flag at the beach if theres jellyfish in the sea, the sea still seems nice and surely you can go in and have fun for a whi…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:54 PM
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Dude, be a bit more real. Your ego is talking so much but truth is she doesn't see you as any more high value than all those guys who became after you. So you saying they're all beta just makes you beta aswell. There will never be a complete answer to the question why a girl broke up, since it's all the small actions you've done during the relationship combined. Maybe she got the feeling you were faking your frame or you lost frame a couple of times. Try again, with another girl and do better th…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:11 AM
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Start by entertaining yourself instead of her and you wouldn't even need the girl anymore
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:35 AM
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Curious why nobody sees this as a shit test. This is perfectly save-able and yeah if she allways pulls you through shit leave her but if it's the first date I would just say honestly that I have stuff to do or didn't plan to stay up too late and we should reschedule to another time. Cat string theory, she wants to grab the string and get hold of it so you don't let her but still keep the string dangling in front of her. Don't take her too serious, just enjoy seeing how far it would go without gi…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:06 PM
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No pussy no purse lol, stop paying for her shit. I don't even pay for girls who are fucking me regularly. She gets dry on the sex, you get dry on giving her any attention. And never talk about it, she should just realise it herself that sex is going to make you make her more happy.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:33 AM
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Finish it, it's great
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:40 PM
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Boy, only-fans is just a new generation of what existed long time. Before you could have a hooker in some low income country and have her call you every now and then for some money. There will always be betas looking for an exchange. The difference is just that because of the internet it's becoming more visible and unfortunately more acceptable. That doesn't mean every girl will become one of em. It's really not a goal they have but more of a last resort. If you'd be meeting many girls you would…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:30 AM
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They internalised these ideas, to attack the idea is to attack their personal. There is nothing to gain from those types of conversation with people who aren't actively looking for new ideas.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:24 AM
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You already read and know how to do it I suppose. Now just go out and actually do it
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:32 AM
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Best way to break up is to break her. If you're gonna soft out saying she's perfect but it's you, you're setting the next guy up for a boring ride. Leave her better, let her know what's up.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:27 AM
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Figure out if she's even worth you time in the first place. Just say "you're not perfect but I still love you" and if she brings it up again NEXT.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:19 AM
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To respond to the question to what IS value, anything can be of value to someone. Monetary value is a straight forward example of how much something is worth to someone, but time or comfort can be used to obtain a valuable thing aswell. A valuable skill is considered gold to some people and worthless to others, a valuable item can be seen as dirt to people who don't care about it. There are more commonly valued things such as love or comfort. You can provide value by determining what is valuable…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:18 PM
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While I agree with your statement, I would like to add that this doesn't mean you should not increase your value. If you study well enough/work towards a purpose, people will easily see you for what you are. You don't need to go out of your way because you don't have to prove anything due to the prove being that you are.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:07 PM
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Seems like you are the plate, just keep fucking her and get some new plates going, if she finds out just tell her to accept it or to fuck off. And stop caring
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:56 AM
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I studied management in IT and had a lot of programming. I just applied for a ton of jobs when I was here working as an intern and landed one that offered me a great opportunity. I now work as a mid level backend developer, and the programming is just the easy part of the job, it's the deployment skills (kubernetes) and security that makes me valuable.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:53 AM
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Well, the lifestyle where you can take a trip to the beach anytime and not have financial difficulty doing so. The lifestyle where you can eat at fancy restaurants and enjoy plenty of delicious flavours. The lifestyle where you can play golf or some other fancy sport. The lifestyle where you have nice clothes that make you look smart and fashionable. There is so much money can buy :p
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:28 PM
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If you'd spent as much effort for four years combined with the connections you make in college you'd be making 200k/year in four years. I'm 21, finished college (IT) and it allowed me to follow my dream and go live in SEA. Even today I feel like I have a lot to learn, and I would have never been here if it was for some home study whenever I felt like it.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:22 PM
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No one deserves an STI... He's just extremely unlucky to hit the jackpot
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:21 AM
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Luck, one I met at work lunch time. I work in a massive complex (like the WTC but smaller). The other one I met in a shady bar at 3 am while everything else was closed. From what I experienced they just wanted to feel young again, I'd even say they were more immature as I am. But god especially the one from the bar was georgeous, small fit woman about 1m55 with high heels and smoking hot white lingerie pushing those fake boobs together. She still hits me up sometime but she works at a bar in the…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:32 PM
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Milfs, I had some one offs with women almost 40, I'm 21
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:38 PM
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'ok cool goodnight'
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:37 PM
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It's definitely not the goal to break someone's confidence, the goal is to place your status above theirs
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:14 PM
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Don't gamble with stocks lol... Save up a bit more and open a restaurant or another business and advertise the shit out of it and get a cashflow going
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:05 PM
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Yeah me too, other than that I'm a workaholic nerd who dates wayy too much
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:57 PM
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What she sais is completely contradicting the fact she's sending you a message. She's just polling to see if she can still get validation and you are still emotionally invested. As soon as you answer you're giving her that validation and either she'll make a bit of drama or ignore you. Don't think you'll magically hook up for one last lay with this chick because of a text. Ignore her
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:42 AM
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Because she loves the drama, simple
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:29 AM
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Or maybe your just a psychopath. That's fine as long as you can control it.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:05 AM
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Completely agree with you
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:17 PM
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And set you up to replace the beta photography orbiter? Nah man
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:28 AM
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Not even sarcastic, who cares, buy a burger if you want to. Get your gym schedule to twice a week and spoil yourself every once in a while. You're working on yourself to make you happy, stop trying to be the best. Just try to be better.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:43 PM
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I moved out with a 2k college fund, don't use money as an excuse. Just get out of the house for now, stay late at work and socially active during weekends. Try to find a cheap place, you can afford it
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:16 AM
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I'm not saying that, well there are girls that will cost you a lot of money and there are girls that will be cheap. But in the end my golden rule is that if she cannot afford her fair share of the date, she shouldn't be on the date.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:31 PM
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You should look up a bit more into the spoiled child psychology. They will love you untill you stop spoiling them. So if you don't mind going on scrubby dates with scrubs, you can tell but honestly why not go for a high value woman?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:26 PM
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Wel then it's easy, you will be sure she likes you if she's equally rich. If she's not, you will never be sure because you'll be the guy paying for fun dates cuz you don't want to lower your standards of a date obviously
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:21 PM
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Bro, as a white guy in Thailand, I can tell you one thing, nobody wants to date a scrub. It's not about how they view you as an atm or not but about you finding someone that has enough value herself for you to be equals.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:12 PM
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Aren't we all doing that with girls too lol
/r/askTRP25/09/20 02:25 PM
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Your response should be 'yeah I am really understanding and I understand this isn't going anywhere' in 99% of this situation but since she's your coworker you should just not even text her at all
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:03 PM
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Get a killer LinkedIn account and just add everyone that you ever encountered and is not a McDonald's employee. Add everyone that passes is HR. I've had more people contact me on there out of their initiative than I had replies of online resume submissions. Do some of the skills assessment on there, lie a bit and just make it look like you're very engaged in what you do. For example I'm a programmer so I follow big tech companies and share news about Kubernetes, Flutter etc. Make your resume loo…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:07 PM
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How could you be vibin' from reading messages on a screen... Let the catfish in the pond bro, she's merely an idealisation of how you want someone to be but untill you've met, you know nothing about her. I think it's one of the first steps a boy takes to find some girly attention is to find it online. As soon as you start living in the real world, you'll find real girls. Remember, you're the only one who is responsible for your future wether is is love, money or health. So what to do? First of a…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:34 AM
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"which one gives the best blowjobs?"
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:50 AM
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Please watch https://youtu.be/3LopI4YeC4I I do admit luck played a big part in where I am today. But if I didn't set myself up to even receive those opportunities, I would have never gotten there.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:56 AM
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Crab bucket mentality... Yes, there will always be a sucker ready to take that job and they'll have to invest in recruiting and educating that person again. One day he will realise he can do better unless his potential isn't that great anyways. That's why companies who hires the best rather than the first one do much better. And in the same way there will always be someone better than you, but that's not a reason not to compete for the best. Because you cannot learn from those people if you deci…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:37 PM
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It's definitely not worth it.. just wait until your parents are out some day to get your lay or go a bit adventurous and fuck in a changing room at the public swimming pool.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:14 PM
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Just go for it, and if she pulls away, try again later in the evening. I've banged chicks the same night they pulled away at first because they just didn't knew how to respond. There is nothing that sais 'I want you' more than looking in her eyes while pulling her chin closer to your face.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:11 PM
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Let people see that you can walk away, I was doing an internship and they were interested in hiring me after that. They offered me an unreasonable low amount, to which I responded that I'd find another job if they wouldn't do better. So, I searched and landed an interview that led to my current position where I am being paid almost twice the average of the city I live in. Now the funny thing is, on the last day of the internship, they offered me what I initially asked for, which is a little bit …
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:54 PM
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First of all, just go to bed early during the week. You can them stay up late on a Friday, sleep long the next day and take a Saturday afternoon nap. That gives you loads of energy to go out on a Saturday night. Then secondly, do you enjoy the job? Why would you work twelve hours a day for little pay and not even liking what you do? Some career switches to consider: open a bar, start freelancing your skills, write a book, ...
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:56 PM
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You can only fuck things up when you're saying something. She's not your therapist, less is more when talking to a woman because she can imagine whatever she wants to imagine about you. Just let them do the talking and ask deeper: 'How did you feel when x happened?", "What made you decide to become a nurse?", ... Especially when texting, don't answer every five minutes. One or two messages a day is plenty enough to not let the relationship fade away when you're not seeing each other during the w…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:45 PM
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I'd say it is important in a relationship, regardless of the type of relationship. I'd say it's just as important to not have sex with certain people as it is to have great sex with others. If the relationship is important, that means the sex is too. For example a girl who is dependent on the father of her children, to her it is really important to perform because if she doesn't she'll lose her children and provider. To you and your employer it is really important not to cross any boundaries to …
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:29 AM
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Yes indeed, and ofcourse most women will not like it. What I meant is that there are many ways she can respond ranging from calling you out as a player and making drama without her even being your girlfriend (psycho), to actually accepting your manhood and realising having something with you is only going to work if you can roam free every once in a while. In the first case you dodged a bullet, I even like throwing in a "can't hang out tomorrow because I have another date with X" when I'm meetin…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:50 AM
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I back this answer, it's really not big of a deal and if she goes psycho about it then you're dodging a bullet by just recognising that and dumping her. If you're gonna lie about it because you're emotionally invested you'll end up in a fucked up relationship that's going to waste months of both you and her lives. You might be stupid and think you want to keep her around just for the sex but really the drama that will come from being such an asshole is not worth it. Been there, done that. You ca…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:48 PM
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We all know she never would sincerely apologize, just hard next if this keeps happening
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:41 AM
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It's not a moral dilemma. The issue is that she's got you emotionally hooked into believing that she cannot go without you. She makes you believe that gives you power, but in reality you are being played. She just loves to have someone waiting for her while she can do whatever she wants and focus on herself, which I'm not saying is a bad thing, but it doesn't work for you. I've been there, and trust me you don't know her. She doesn't even know if she wants you. You're just an option to her that …
/r/askTRP05/09/20 08:08 AM
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Confrontation will only end bad for you. Since if you fight you either lose the fight or get a police report. If you just argue he will not give a fuck and get away with it. The best thing to do is just to let cancel culture do it's thing and let society destroy him. Make it public that he assaults girls and if you're in a university or smtn go tell the head of the department he is at.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:48 AM
5

When I was born and turned out I had a dick, that's when I became a man. When I stopped asking questions and took responsibility about my own destiny, when my experience taught me enough to sail into uncertain waters, that's when I became an alpha man.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:36 AM
0

To go a bit more into detail, if I were recruiting I'd want to have proof that you think like a programmer. I'd need to be sure that you are susceptible to change, that you can interpret concepts easily and that you can learn a new skill fast. Just learning one language isn't going to cut it. Make a portfolio, build your own website from scratch where you have a game you built yourself with a proper backend, deployed correctly in the cloud and learn how to use Git and other IT management tools. …
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:58 PM
2

Easiest to learn and quickly get a job is React native or Angular. Python is also a great plus but honestly to get to a good level you need to atudy in college or uni and have years of experience. I learn something new every day, working with Kubernetes and Spring Framework
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:45 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat...
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:55 AM
1

Actions over words. Text her one message a day, then ask her again in 4 days to hang out and if she's a bit interested she would definitely say yes because she realises it's the only way to get your attention. Text her back after two minutes every time and she'll have you on a leash knowing she doesn't even have to get out of bed to get validation from you.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:02 AM
1

Man, it's not about being beta anymore. Stop worrying about how people think about you. Just look at it this way, if you let it go then nothing will happen and you can go on with whatever you were doing before you met her and you'll find someone just as fast as you found her. If you do however just send a "hey what's up?", you guys might catch up again and you can add her to your plates again. You can then re-evaluate how she makes you feel. Even if it doesn't work out that way, sending one fuck…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:58 PM
3

She soft nexted you, just text her! What could go wrong. If every girl would block me after me not replying when I'm busy I'd be very lonely
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:04 AM
2

I live in a big city and use a new nickname, trust me,as the foreigner they always ask about your name. Not having a reason comes off as wearing a mask.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:48 PM
10

Of you're doing it right, you should treat a virgin exactly the same as you would treat your average ho. Making sex a big deal will do the opposite of increasing your chances of getting laid with her. She sais she loves you quickly because she doesn't know a damn about it. She never had these feelings and now that you opened her up for going on the emotional roller coaster, you'll lose her just as fast as she came into your life if you don't vet her properly. Enjoy the turn, don't put her on a p…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:39 PM
1

You're never bargaining a relationship, remember that to her it's all about how she feels and not about how much she's given or got from you. If you want to make a girl satisfied you have to make her feel emotions. She's mentioning her ex because she's not feeling this with you, you are a good provider and on paper there's no reason to break up but she experiences you as being fucking boring. What you need to do is start taking actions to make her hamster spin again. Agree and amplify is the tra…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:41 PM
1

Never talk about the relationship with a woman. There shouldn't even be an opportunity to mention such shit. The fact that she does, means you're seriously messing up the whole attraction part of having a gf. She's calling you out and all you do is continue to simp and ignore the obvious sign you're not man enough. Definitely don't ignore this. I'd say agree and amplify, put her into her place and let your actions prove that you are man enough.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:16 PM
2

Location man, move somewhere and start playing the easy game. The balance has to be good or else you get this situation where either males or females become lazy and the other gender has to work hard to get the top percent of the gender that does minimal effort. If all men would stop being hopeless simps and rejecting lazy girls, the balance would return but unfortunately that is not the case. Remember, it's the men around you that made it so bad, don't blame girls for having it easy! How would …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:56 PM
2

Honestly, untill they're in a relationship, then all of a sudden they're the most loyal and invested type of girl you can have.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:51 AM
23

You taught her a good lesson, who cares about frame when you're stuck with crazy.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:22 AM
1

You shouldn't be in the situation where a girl has to hold you back. That already shows lack of self esteem, lack of responsibility and a lack of common sence. No girl wants to be together with a guy that would fuck his life up to prove how "manly" he is.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:18 PM
10

You show genuine interest in the guy. If he's a douchebag trying to steal the girl he'll fuck up and look like and asshole. If he isn't, might become friends.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:14 PM
1

I'm just sketching the background to where my believes come from, Ive met numerous fat people and their diet consists of snacks at unregular times, big portions and sugarised meals. I've met vegans who are ripped, I've met bodybuilders who's diet consists of 50% shakes. It's what works for you and I'm not saying your full meat diet is something you should quit. I'm just saying "only eat meat" is not the right advice for an average person. You need protein source and you need to cut all the bad s…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:25 AM
5

That's the answer right here. It's not about eating ONLY meat, or ONLY plant based, there's good things in both and humans are omnivores. We should mix up our diet and get the best out of both and AVOID garbage food. I eat a variety of things (live in Asia), and feel great about my diet and energy, the only thing I might should cut on is rice. I never go to fast foods, and the only thing in my appt is eggs, chicken and water. Other than that I eat out to grab chicken or pork based local dishes. …
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:50 AM
1

Don't give a shit about money and enjoy being young man, you'll earn plenty when you finished college and got a degree. Just don't slack in school and work on good habits. But no use in saving money if you're barely earning anything.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:19 PM
1

LMR sais it all... Google it
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:52 PM
14

Some girls can lie very cruelly. Don't ask and believe... Just don't care, enjoy your turn and don't expect her to be a unicorn unless proven. Don't become a hamster yourself, if you feel bad about it, ask yourself: does she have an ex there? She went to her parents so it's easy to fall into old habits...
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:42 PM
1

I mean, the answer is in the red pill. It is about increasing your SMV to make the pool of girls that can potentially be attracted to you bigger. Blue pill guys expect that if they improve their looks, money and game, that they will get their oneitis to fall in love. But the reality is that if she is not one of those potential girls, it will never happen. If you do work really hard on improving your smv, and that also includes mental self esteem development and other things, you will become more…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 10:03 AM
0

Thai, 21yo, 1m65. I don't date girls over 50kg here
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:47 AM
3

That is partially true, let's talk from my own experience. I studied management in applied information sciences, at a respectable university in Belgium and got about 5 job offers when I wasn't even finished yet. All with a car, extra benefits and high salary that goes up twice a year. They really were hunting for people like me who could finish this degree because those are the people that can learn quickly and adapt. But fast forward, I moved to Thailand where finding a job as a young graduate …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:05 AM
1

I just gamed a chick that's 46kg telling the whole time "she was fat" and always talked about food. I ignored it every time, continued about something else without even mentioning it. When I was on top of her ready to go in deep she said it again and all I did was say "shut up" and fucked her. It's two things, first of all it is her insecurity that would not be solved if you kept talking about it because the insecurity will then believe it is an important factor. When you ignore the problem, her…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:44 AM
2

That would not really make sence in this context. I also have to disagree with his advice to 'work it out' with his "friends". They might tell him what the problem is but as long as he doesn't change, nothing will be solved. Who even wants to change for people, even if they're above on the social ladder. I'd say make new friends, one by one and start working on yourself at the same time. People change a lot during those years after highschool and there is no need to stick to the past connections…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:32 AM
8

Autism Syndrome I believe. I have this one guy in our friend group aswell, he is constantly stuck up with what people are thinking of him and trying to impress for no reason. No one invites him because he is the biggest cockblock of all time. But when it's a homeparty with the boys, he is quite entertaining and brings a lot of booze ( to impress).
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:22 AM
1

Instead get some more edgy pants, like with squares and flashy socks in between, don't just go for the lightblue shirt brown pants look
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:27 AM
3

Do not engage in drama... As soon as you notice a girl is talking shit about anyone or making drama over stupid things, you know she's going to talk the same about you or be butthurt easily. Learn how to walk away. Don't try to impress people, this is just a general tip I give you. The girls that want to be impressed have different values and will be more likely to call you out on anything if turns out you're not the man you told them to be. Move, if you're in an area where the dating scene is n…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:17 AM
1

In my experience, they're boring as hell....
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:05 AM
26

"Omg you must be dating so many girls" (shittest) "Yeah I got the next one waiting so I got to go at 9" Always works
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:25 AM
1

I made friends the first three days I was here, just go out, talk with girls on the beach or park, don't say no to any invitation and try tinder without expectations
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:23 AM
4

"why do you have three pairs of girls shorts, makeup and 7 toothbrushes?"
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:41 PM
3

I'm 21, moved out when I was 17 and lucky enough to have my parents support me back then. If you really don't want the drama of your parents knowing what's up, just get out as soon as possible. How comes you still live there anyway? Are you still studying? Then focus on your studies and don't care, that's also a way of increasing your SMV. If you do stay, it's all about the girls you meet, they have to be open minded enough to have either your or her parents know. Or meet girls that have their o…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:42 AM
7

I was working in a small but growing company recently and all of a sudden the CEO hired a new female HR. Two days later we got a 'course on sexual behaviours around the workplace'. The funny thing is that because of my "don't shit where you eat" attitude, I get more attention than any other guy in the office.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:19 PM
1

Why is the response on this subreddit always 'hit the gym'? Tbh that's the least of his concern, learning the game is wayy more important and that will not automatically come if you just 'hit the gym'. He might have a good job and is already in shape... I mean, yeah getting in shape is important but abs are not going to fix a broken marriage, just saying
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:09 PM
4

In my early college years, yes I had a lot about it. But the older I got, the more I realised these fraternities are pretty much drunks who don't do much for their studies. Basically they're all kinda party hoes. When I stopped going to those parties (they're all the same), my grades skyrocketed up to A levels instead of B-. They're fun, and can give you some really good connections but keep in mind college is wayy more important and if you join you shouldn't take it too seriously.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:25 PM
2

What do you want to hear? Sounds just fine. Get the stress out next time, no need to she's just a girl. Other than that, don't expect every date to become a ONS.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:22 PM
30

Have you ever tried to pull her? Saying 'lets continue the party at my place?' I've had many dates where I didn't really feel the sexual vibe but the chick was hot and when you finish the date instead of saying bye I just baldly asked her to come to my place for a movie and they just go with it. You need to realize girls are programmed to follow, so be a leader. The other guy has a difference with you in the sence that he simply dragged her with you. She gave you the awkward smile because she co…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:58 AM
2

By not trying to be the best / good enough for someone else's standards, but by trying to be the best version of yourself. If you wake up every day and you are better than you were before, you know you are good enough and people who cannot see this growth in you are not the people you should look up to. If you cannot make this change of perspective and you stay at a low level after trying many things, go see a therapist because then there is something seriously wrong in the way you grew up. Ther…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:31 AM
8

"yeah me to so I could fuck hotter chicks" if you've been banging her before (how else does she know your size?), Shows you do not care and she's not of higher value than you are
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:24 AM
1

well, why'd you offer to pay for drinks for a broke ass bitch?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:17 AM
1

So all I see is you saying 'you're right' to every comment, I kind of get the impression you wanted to be roasted to give you a reason not to change because it confirms your insecurities. Let me ask you this question now, three days later, did you actually change a thing? Now is the time to reflect on these last three days.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:15 AM
2

What about the compromise to not go to the gym to spend time with many plates?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:24 AM
2

The redpill describes the age of 35 as a man's peak SMV. Soif you're under 35 and have a good growth, go for it! It makes you look older thus more attractive at this age. When you're over 35, try to look younger and shave. I have a full beard and clean it up on the sides, girls love it and I get girls that are 1-4 years older then me ( I'm 21 ). But some friends of mine who are a bit older (32-33) get the same type of girls while having a clean shave.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:30 AM
2

It depends on how you eat and train I would say. When I started bulking, I became noticably bigger after just 4 months (I was gery skinny), then when my body adapted to this new habits, it started to slow down again and didn't really change much in the last two years. I can lift wayy more, but I'm still the same weight and energy level. The most important thing is to know that your body adapts to the habits you excersize. For me, I'm happy where I'm at and doing more effort isn't worth the aditi…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:29 PM
3

I'd say you're a bad salesman, I used to have the same issue with my closer friends and brothers. Try giving them a proper intro about what you are going to say. Tell them where the ideas come from and make them understand rather than giving them the facts straight away. They never heard of pickup or SMV, there is a reason most recommended books in this community have a 10 page intro.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:49 AM
0

Sounds like you didn't learn a thing in 7 months. The best way to learn is to DO. Knowing a house is going to break down isn't the same as fixing it. The first step is to realize that it is all your fault and that you are the only one who can change your situation. Wake up tomorrow and don't even touch any of the bad habits your talking about. Run 3km, do as many pushups as you possibly can, write a résumé, make a list of what you want to achieve and how you will do it. Then go outside and medit…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:13 PM
3

If this is the case, where she cannot afford an expensive date, it's usually better to just change the plan to something she can afford. When you do she'll notice you care about it aswell and are responsible with money instead of being a beta that throws around money to get chicks. The first message might've been a shit test, and if girls shit test on text just ignore for a day (unread) and see if she changes her mind already without you having to do anything
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:26 AM
2

Bro, he's young, he never experienced being a Chad and honestly he would learn a lot more about women by just breaking up and getting in the game again. I think if it's purely for having sex it's stupid, but if he wants to look over the horizon and explore new worlds he has to be honest about it and tell her to see if she wants to join in on this adventure or not. Counts for everything, not just "sex with other women"
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:12 AM
-17

You shouldn't have fucked her... You gave her and her friends the validation that you're hers in the group. If you would have just flirted, she would have been talking about you but everybody would know you're available. Anyways, if her friends are somewhat slutty you should just be a huge asshole and get to know them through her first, stop fucking the girl ( brush it off as if you're busy too much for her ). And then start gaming on them. When they ask why you're not into girl number one, say …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:56 AM
2

Don't bang those in your classroom. One class of girls can get full of drama easily if there's just one high value man. Instead: focus on getting on top of the social ladder without getting sexual with them all. There will be plenty of girls going out in your college years so don't worry about that, trust that from someone who studied IT with 700 other guys. This will not only just make them want you more but also open up connections to girls outside of your classroom. Think about it, having a c…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:02 AM
1

Why did you fight over her friends, you don't like them and you want to stop being around them then that's your choice. You should not fight about it and if she does start drama just say that it's not your problem if you just stop seeing them and she can still see whoever she wants. It sounds like she's got some issues and eventually it will break your relationship, since you don't know how to deal with them. You need to decide if you want to deal with them in the first place and no that doesn't…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:15 AM
3

Indeed, don't shit where you eat. I get attention from girls at work all the time and yet I never dated them because of my own restrictions. Same applies to girls you meet through your close friends and they have (had) a thing. To be honest, this group of friends sounds like they're in a small bubble which is often the case in a smaller village, but you can pull girls from all kinds of different directions in your life. I would suggest to find like minded people and learn from this experience. M…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:29 AM
2

Not only your SMV will change, in different cultures the whole male and female dynamic can be different. I live in Tailand at the moment and therefore I am taller than the average population even though I'm only 6"1' (average for Belgium), girls love my blue eyes because it's unique to them and even my dicksize is over average here. Besides that, most foreigners who come here live alone (Thai live with their parents quite often) and have a higher average salary. Thai girls are also raised to ple…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:28 AM
1

I have the same going for me, it's because you are younger. Not even with plates but people I meet when going out buy me drinks all the time because they respect my lifestyle at this age. Just accept it but never ask :) they have more monetary value because that's how the system works, but why would that mean you cannot have a piece of the pie.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:21 AM
2

(I live in a country where I don't speak the native language) Mine is: 🇧🇪 - 183 - Pro's: - can cook - always has booze at home - no instagram, my attention is all yours on a date Con's: - can only cook macaroni - your friends will hate me for stealing your heart I don't like fat girls, and if you don't speak English don't swipe right either.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:08 AM
32

"I'm sick of being fat and lazy, should I go to the gym and work out?" Same thing I guess
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:50 AM
3

Let them do the work! Just sit back, relax and have them get drunk. If things get quiet just put on some good music and say you all need shots. I was in a similar situation with 5 girls and when they got really drunk they even roofied me with viagra. Was a crazy night and a shame a threesome didn't happen, but I did fuck one in the bathroom and the other four girls were going crazy about it.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:52 AM
2

The key to getting out is realising what happened. I get it, the problem with lockdown is that all of a sudden your whole life changed and so did your habits. When you normally go to the gym every monday, wed, fri after work, all of a sudden you can go whenever you want so you wake up and say 'I'll go to the gym later'. You have more time as usually and do not know how to fill this up so you tend to easily give in to temptations as porn, sigarettes and alcohol. And that is where everything goes …
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:43 PM
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