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| 8 | The Confidence Hack You’ve Never Heard OfJust in case you don’t want to read all that here’s a summary- Confidence isn’t about knowing things will go well, it’s about not hesitating. Hesitation kills confidence because the more you overthink, the more nervous you get. Most guys wait for the “perfect” moment to talk to a woman, but that moment never comes. The trick? Act fast. If you move within two seconds of seeing an opportunity, your brain won’t have time to second-guess. Confidence isn’t about guaranteeing success—it’s about trusti… | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls?Yes. One of my bros is in a wheel chair and a bit overweight. He’s probably slept with way more women than me and Im fit and able to run for miles. Just watched him pull a broad a couple weeks ago while at a surprise birthday party at a bar. Now… I’m picky with the women I get with and they’re usually more on the fit side. He has more options because he’s not as picky as me. Edit: He’s the exact opposite of you though. He’s confident, an enthralling story teller, somewhat of a comedian, and is o… | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How can I seek out a ‘bad bitch’ on dating apps?“Looking for peace of mind and a baddie to go with it” seems to work for me rn. In the past it was “Searching for a baddie widda fatty 🍑” and that worked as well. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men who have been in many relationships, would you say most women have anger issues?Yes. But at one point I couldn’t control my anger as well, mainly in my youth. I think this is less a “woman” thing and more a human thing. Albeit I know more men who can control themselves in stressful and tough situations independently more so than women. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 12:34 PM |
| 28 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badApproaching in real life is the way to go. Especially in California where most guys are inept to even approach a woman. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What to say after what’s your name?Still have to shoot with them as well haha | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 3 | What to say after what’s your name?I would still say probability is in favor of those who shoot their shot not the ones who don’t. Always take the shot even if it’s just for a “random quick interaction.” Never know where it will go if you don’t shoot. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | What to say after what’s your name?I usually lead with “Hi my name is ____, thought you had a nice vibe to you. What’s your name?” After she replies with said name, depending where we’re at I’ll ask “Are you from here?” Or “What brings you to (the place you both are at)?” Cool, now tell her why you’re there and then ask for her #/Ig and see if you can catch up later. I keep interactions at clubs short because most of the time the woman is there with her friends to have fun with them and unless you have friends with you on the app… | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Started talking to a girl in another countryTrust and believe a scammer will goto outlandish odds and ends just to get money out of you. Video chat might be a way to confirm also. Just tread real carefully. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Started talking to a girl in another countryBefore really committing to this try to meet her in real life. And dont be one of those guys that sends money to women they've never met. Not ideal at all. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 4 | No girlfriendLooks like you should focus on yourself more so than looking into getting a gf bud. Women can smell desperation a mile away. You're desperate right now. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is my problem!??Do you have a high voice? And when you say nice guy do you mean like a "simp?" | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a guy that might not see me as available?"She belongs to the streets" ... Future | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Need some life adviceOnly read like the 1st 8 lines and... yeah no, you need to focus on yourself my guy. This girl will probably want to explore other options sooner or later seeing that your probably lame and will stay the same. Your probably way too insecure bud. I advise you hit the gym and get jacked for your own health and because women love a jacked man. Another advice, find a way to get money. Unless your going to college and plan on continuing schooling, find a way to make money and learn the ins and outs o… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Girls friend is hotterYezzir, live your life King. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 01:29 AM |
| 6 | Girls friend is hotterNot a scumbag move. Anyone saying so is a simp, or is a woman. The one you originally were pursuing doesn't want a relationship rn... oh well her loss. The friend is single and probably wants a man to fill the void her ex left. Fill in that void if you want to. If not then don't. The choice is up to you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 12:05 AM |
| -1 | Friday Date Night Gone WrongShouldve split the bill, payed your half, and went off on your way as soon as you felt a weird vibe. You don't need to entertain such a lousy piece of sh*t. The audacity of that woman. Learn from this King and learn from it well. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 23 | Introducing touchShe's probably just using you as an ego boost. If she really was interested, she would've let it happen. Tread carefully king. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 33 | Funny Cold AproachI'd say thats pretty smooth bud, not funny at all. Nice. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Had a girl over that was crazy about me. We started making out then she tells me were not compatible? Anyone else experience this?This. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How can I [23] force myself to approach my crush at the gym?I'd say thats a miss then cause she knows your there and knows she sees you on those days. Hate to say it. Unless you get bold enough to just outright start the convo up, your just going to be looking on the sidelines bud. | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How can I [23] force myself to approach my crush at the gym?Damn you really missed your best chance when she had to open the door for you. But have you at least been saying hi to her whenever you see her since the door situation? | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 03:19 AM |
| 11 | Making goofy scenarios when textingStop texting her and see if she texts you back. If she doesn't, leave it alone. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Suffering not from approach anxiety but approach 'motivation'Really you just gotta have an interest. If theres no interest theres no motivation. Dont force anything you dont want to be a part of. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | A strange thing keeps happening to me!!!Might be the case. But hey you win some ya lose some. It's not the end of the world alright 👌🏽 | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | A strange thing keeps happening to me!!!If your using signal texting app it doesnt send msg's to people that do not have the app sometimes. I never get my brothers texts because he uses the app, and I dont have it. I refuse to use it lol. Other than that the only other reaso would be that... maybe they werent that interested to begin with? Idk op | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Date is set. How to send a reminder to her if we are still on before the date?Checking in on Saturday might be the move. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 06:11 AM |
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