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I feel sorry for you bro. You have lived this way all your life. For someone like you STFU will be very necessary, but not STFU with your wife, STFU with yourself. Stop talking, stop thinking, get your diet in check, get your workouts moving, and just think of nothing but yourself and the basic duties that you need to do for work and your family. Don't engage in anything other than what I have just pointed out, become a mute if you have to. Re-evaluate in 6 months, then do another 6 months of th…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:29 AM
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Poor casting choice. This guy isn't even the main character in his own life.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:22 AM
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His comments are usually short and direct. It's all in the sidebar, so no point in making long replies to guys that are too lazy to read the sidebar. Stfu and bench are just the first two steps. He actually wrote betch (bitch), but it was 5 am and I read bench.
/r/askMRP12/04/24 11:55 AM
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Stfu= not distracting yourself from the path by getting involved in her bull. Bench= focusing on something more important than her, ie yourself
/r/askMRP11/04/24 09:13 PM
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Still hanging around I see
/r/TheRedPill21/03/24 09:48 AM
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At your weight and height, you can likely get your squat to 308 and DL to 380 on a 5x5 program.Those were my numbers at that height and weight. Don't be afraid of the push.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 08:51 PM
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Ya know, I have seen guys get offended from your comments. But the more I see them, the more I like them. You're doing them a great service
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 08:39 PM
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F
/r/askMRP08/03/24 07:52 PM
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Thanks. Yes, unfortunately it is already. It is on top and always have been, the goals are not listed by priority. I will look into the book, I have never had a problem with saying no, or feeling guilty for it, but if it helps me recognise manipulation tactics then it will have value for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 08:59 AM
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Will try
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 06:00 AM
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OYS #1 STATS Me: 34 years old. 174cm/5'8. 72.5kg/159lbs. Down 2,5kg/5.5lbs in the last two weeks. Fitness: Running Phraks Greyskull for 13 days now. Increased Daily steps to 15,000 - 25,000. Dog owner. Running a big cut to drop to 10-15% BF from about 22-24%. Lifts: Phraks 3x5+ BP 60kg/132lbs, OHP 42.5kg/93lbs, Row 60kg/132lbs, Squat 65kg/143lbs, Dead 80kg/176lbs. Ran stronglifts just prior to covid. Quit gym due to covid. Goal is to get my lifts back to where they were at the beginning of covid…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 09:39 PM
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Why is your deadlift so low?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 10:06 PM
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I am very very new here, but after reading this there is one thing you need to do. Well, actually, there are a few things, but it's really just one thing. NO to your fucking wife. NO to your fucking sugarbaby (this will bite you in the ass so plan it well). NO to your fucking escort. NO to having sex with your hand. NO to fucking everything except what is prescribed by MRP. NO, NO, NO, FUCKING NO! It's easier to say no when you don't fuckimg care what other think about you
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/24 07:32 PM
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Is it really cheating if your wife hasn't had sex with you in a year? Isn't she then just a moochy roommate? Would your roommate who doesn't watch football with you have a right to be mad at you for watching football with someone else?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/24 07:33 PM
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Necessary comment
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:51 PM
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If you're a curry, then you're likely to get plated!
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:24 PM
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Yeah I do. Would love to stand toe-to-toe with my boss before I leave but it would be stupid. In my company there have been lots of people that have worked together on different projects, for different companies, in different coutries over the last 30 years. You never know when you could meet (or even need)that person in the future. 4 months savings is not enough to keep you from homelessness. Life can turn pretty bad prettly quickly. It can be hard to stop the ball rolling downhill.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:02 AM
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Silence can be a great weapon. He clearly gets under your skin, which you shouldn't allow. A wink and a smirk might be just the move for that guy, Showing him that you don't really care about what he says. Or, give him as many opportunities to make a fool of himself as you can, just for your pleasure and so others can see his foolishness at every opportunity.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:51 AM
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Everyone wants to quit their job with a marching band behind them but things like that can come back to bite you in the arse. It's advisable to not burn bridges. Play the long game and remain professional
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:45 AM
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Personally, I would stick with working for my parents while developing my own education and side hustle. That way I may end up with two empires
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:52 PM
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Can anyone explain why she maybe acting masculune at home and feminine outside? I have seen snippets of this before
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 02:21 PM
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Ok, yeah definitely stops when it gets no grip, just like most the shit they try. Well depending how this LTR goes I may be posting a field report to help get the info out
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:30 PM
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Thanks Matty, nice to have an endorsed perspective on this. It almost never comes up ever, so that's not an issue. Yeah I think they all try that, hasn't worked on me yet, dead set against saving bitches. I like to feel needed too but that's more about a girl being with me for genuine reasons such as love and desire. I qas eeally hoping someone could go in depth from their own experiences so we could bounce ideas off each other
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:20 PM
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I would like if you could explain those points in greater depth/give examples...? Not because I'm too lazy but because more resources the better. She is pretty good all round, don't have any real complaints. Although how could a man not have complaints about a women, even the best girls have problems. I did vet her for 6 months before going exclusive. I'm not sure that she has real issues with his death, I just want to make the best/smartest decisions that I can when it comes to LTRs
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:31 PM
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The reasons forbeing broken/not LTR material?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:15 PM
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I fuckin knew it
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:20 PM
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LDR's are not worth it. You waste time/life on a relationship that won't work out if you're still young. Benn there, bought the t-shirt...cost me a fortune, financially and otherwise
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:56 PM
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Yes I am OP. I will sit and write a reply when I have time but for clarity I have tried every angle I can think of with this cunt. This is a man who just called me to tell me to demand that a store order new goods because we would like to purchase them. Not to create an order specifically for us (because they cannot) but to restock their store, as if I'm the inventory manager.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:35 PM
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I have read these and they are quite accurate in what I have seen with this company, but this place is odd. I have seen one employee get sacked 3 times in the first 5 months of last year after being sacked on 2 previous occasions. I have seen other employees get sacked then re-hired a month later with a payrise only to get sacked again the next month. This place is a fucking circus!
/r/askTRP31/01/19 08:25 AM
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I no longer do more than is required of me, no special favours for him anymore. His favourite employees are degenerate unreliable alcoholics. I won't compromise myself or my health just for the possibility that he will temporarily ease up. Yes I do sound like a bitch and the only way to stop being a bitch is to walk, but I would like to triumph before doing so.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 08:22 AM
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I have tried that angle and it has worked the best so far, but it makes him more aggressive and scorned
/r/askTRP31/01/19 08:19 AM
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Incel, why so? I am having a similar experience with life and I don't believe I am an incel. I have an have an easy job with a good package (about $100k all in), a fat saving account that keeps growing. An LTR who just brought me to Australia all paid. I have no external drama or bullshit in my life. I see the improvements from lifting, stoicism and TRP education in my life. People wish for what I have. But after all that I still feel like the OP and struggle to find the point in life and wonder…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:51 AM
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Caring really is suicide, a slow suicide.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:48 AM
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Get a job in construction while you search for work in your qualified field. Construction means, reasonable pay and long hours so you cant spend it. That would tide you over while you spend 6 months, looking for a business job, living like the biggest cheapskate and monk moding. Sometimes you can't climb out of a hole, but you can get a shovel and dig your way out!
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:54 PM
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A lil muscle won't change her mind really. If you want, you could try to pull other women when you are with her and that might achieve something. Personnally, I wouldn't even try with her, your energy is better invested elsewhere
/r/seduction08/11/18 03:05 PM
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Doesn't sound like she is the problem, seems like your self esteem is. Start lifting weights consistently, improve your looks. Next time you meet she will probably have a different opinion on her feelings towards you but that won't bother you because you will be slaying P by the boat load. Good luck buddy!
/r/seduction07/11/18 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you received an ultimatum, I personally don't tolerate them. Sounds like you don't want to be with her but don't want to lose a girl who treats you so well,. I know that feeling and decided to end it, best lifr move ever. Also, if you have problems that you need thereapy for then you probably shouldn't get emotionally involved until you get a handle on it as it is not fair to her. If you let her go then do it gently for your sake but most importantly her sake and any guy who comes af…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:38 PM
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Ok
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:10 PM
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Why are you dating a single mother?? You clearly are less experienced than you think. You came to this sub to find out why a single mother won't fuck you enough. She has bigger priorities than fucking you so get used to it or exit. IT WON'T GET BETTER. When I was BP, even then I knew it was stupid to get involved with single mothers unless they were 10-15 years older (I was like 20), because they only would want dick from a 20 year old, not much else. By the time I was around 25 I worked with a …
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:10 PM
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So you guys don't live together and when you meet up she is too tired for sex? Most women just starfish anyway, unless she really wants it. You say that he sounds inexperienced...if you were experienced then you wouldn't be asking questions here.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:28 PM
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Sounds like you're looking at the rest of your life right there dude. Where can we send the bereavement flowers?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:52 PM
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Move on dude
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:37 PM
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This happened to me recently, she lives with me. I was thinking about it while sick. I allowed her to baby me because it made us both feel good, most womens maternal instinct is natural so let her have at it, but not too much. Decided as soon as I was better to kill it in the gym. Came home in pain but smiling, told her the gym is my bitch again. So basically I just amped up "doing manly shit". What else can you do? I held it strong for 18 months, then got sick, can't be throwing out A-game with…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:23 PM
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Sounds like a good excuse for a special massage ;)
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:12 PM
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I agree, only posts I really read anymore. This wpuld be a great feature/link.....
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:04 PM
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Didn't request it because I was worried, I want to compare the article with her behaviour
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:24 PM
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"This has nothing to do with RP, you're a complex person , RP can help with women but it can't cure depression and child hood issues , It's not intended too, while our lives are much more than the women we sleep with, it's important to conflate the two." Not to detract from what you have said above, but I disagree with that statement a little. Pre RP I spent years in a state of angst and confusion. I felt mentally split in a way, I had a big problem with anger and not knowing who I was. Friends …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 01:19 PM
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Why, it didn't stop me from finding all the othe rationalemale articles....
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:10 PM
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If I could attach a screenshot you would see. Not that I need to prove myself to an internet stranger but if you want I can send you the screenshot. I googled rollo tomassi menstrual and the first result was "intersexual dynamics". I tried searching images hoping I would find the graph and go from there. To all the others, thanks for helping out a fellow male.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:49 PM
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Thanks, take an upvote. that wasn't on my google, I tried all the keywords i could think of and nothing appeared on the first 2 google pages
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:37 PM
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Also a fantastic post for OP. I would have been lost for good after my first breakup if it wasn't for the endorsed contributors on this sub, I had already lost a year after the relationship ended.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:03 PM
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It's all summed up here for you dude! I would treat a dog a whole lot fucking better than a woman/friend who done that. It will be hard for awhile, but not that long. You will get over it a whole lot faster than you think. GO NO CONTACT AND KEEP IT THAT WAY. FOLLOW THE ADVICE IN THE ABOVE COMMENT EXACTLY AS IT IS WRITTEN.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:56 PM
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I'm glad you brought that to my attention, much appreciated. Long term - it's probably best to move...but it's so hard to when all the sexy blondes are out for summer!!
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:38 AM
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If anybody could give a european/UK court description of the above it would be much appreciated....
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 04:54 PM
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Why the exemption for construction?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:12 PM
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Sounds like you're in Sweden
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:09 AM
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