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Brendadonna/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:24 PM
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We (women) do need to choose better, especially when having children with someone. Women will marry someone who is a total compromise and will disappointed and angry when he isn’t a good husband and father. I think woman are a bit worse than men, but same goes for men. Who you have kids with significantly impacts your future. Don’t ignore red flags and use protection ! I guess, more than anything, don’t choose someone out of desperation !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:34 AM
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It’s often true. Very sad
/r/MensRights09/03/26 05:48 AM
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Christina Hoff Somers is awesome!!
/r/MensRights08/03/26 10:35 PM
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6 3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:41 PM
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Could you say more about that? I’m curious. Do you mean just don’t leave if things don’t seem perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:41 PM
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Maybe. But that’s less and less true. Women drink a lot of wine these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:20 PM
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You are using the words humane and inhumane very strangely
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 01:34 PM
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The crying is weird for a man. Higher Testosterone levels usually make it difficult for men to cry. It doesn’t make him a bad person but he’s not manly for sure
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 08:47 AM
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I dont think you are being shallow. Hes not the guy for you. Seems like you dont need him and can take care of yourself very well. You haven’t mentioned kids. Why are you still with him?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 08:31 AM
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You’re not. He’s acting like a baby. Did he always behave like this?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 08:18 AM
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Shes not being dehumanizing. His behavior is really unattractive. It would be unattractive even if he were a woman
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 08:18 AM
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It has its origins in the need for women for the survival of the species. Maybe it’s outdated now, but both men and women suffer and benefit as a result of sexual dimorphism. It’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:08 PM
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Your description could fit many if not most crimes. Rape has a specific definition
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:01 AM
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Fear of conflict. I do understand that there is a healthy avoidance of conflict. No need to get into a fight if you don’t need to. But I sense that a lot of men have never had to stand up for themselves or their girlfriend/ wife Inability to do things with their hands. My dad was an engineer and could fix almost anything I haven’t found that men my age can do this. No relationship to this physical world almost
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:42 PM
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I’m really put off by the lack of masculinity these days. I want a man who is strong and can protect me. I am not ashamed of this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:45 PM
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I hope they work
/r/MensRights30/07/23 03:02 AM
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Yeah. They generally disprove of that. They will prescribe anti psychotics for extreme anxiety. It’s not an ideal solution. I kind of thought about it for myself. The side effects aren’t good. There may be some new ones now that are better
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:46 AM
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Therapy has helped. It for better over time but was always there. It did spike sometimes.l and get really bad. Overall the trend has been positive. Age helps. You don’t really care as much. You’re too tired My point is that it can really be improved
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:23 AM
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I’m looking into ketamine treatment for myself. The therapist shouldn’t have been telling you what age girl you should date. Of course not someone underage but that’s obvious! That’s weird Edit. Adding something. Have you tried lamictal ? I was on Zoloft. Now I’m on Zoloft and lamtical. I’m still a unhappy person a lot of the time, but the ocd is way better. It was godawful before. I drank a lot to get rid of the thoughts
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:17 AM
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Yeah. I thought I was secretly a murder. So crazy. Wouldn’t I remember? Wouldn thr police have stopped by?
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:14 AM
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Yeah. I wouldn’t do that Edit - adding. When did that happen. I feel as that’s not socially acceptable anymore
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:58 PM
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I really want to meet another younger guy but I can’t go on tinder or anything now because of my job. Guys in their 20s-early 30s don’t go ok match or eharmony
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:48 PM
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Younger guys often like older women. I’ve experienced it. They can be really kind. It might not lead to marriage but it’s nice
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:41 PM
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I’ve had men look at me with disgust when they knew things about my life. Where I live, my education. Etc
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:08 PM
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I’m 43 and I think I may have a chance if I lose weight. But maybe I don’t because I’m a nice but really difficult person
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:58 PM
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I guess OCD has a range of severity but it can merge on psychosis but you know you are crazy.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:01 PM
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If you are interested in treatment: You can find therapists that value masculinity. Might be hard but they’re out there. You can search a site like Headway or Grow for mens issues or conservative therapists. Please don’t try BetterHealth unless it’s your only option. It’s not good for clients or therapists OCD is a truly awful experience
/r/MensRights29/07/23 09:59 PM
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I’m a woman too and I’m attracted to masculinity. I want to feel protected
/r/MensRights29/07/23 09:53 PM
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Im a woman. Have not problem with “not all men.” There are better ways to phrase it but it’s perfectly reasonable. Don’t all of us have dads, bothers, male friends etc. I have so many positive relationships with men in my life And some very negative ones with a small percentage of men
/r/MensRights01/07/23 05:56 AM
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Love Doug !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:47 PM
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He said he jokes back and he finds her attractive. I think it’s a good idea to document in case things change but I don’t see why everything has to be such a big deal if he’s not distressed by it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:23 PM
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It’s sexual harassment if it’s unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:30 PM
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The women you are around maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:59 AM
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Women tend to be more risk averse. Especially when they have young kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:53 PM
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This stuff doesn't bother me at all. It offends some people but of course this is on average. There are plenty of women that have great sense of direction. Just not me !
/r/MensRights16/05/22 12:43 AM
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I feel so bad for people that never had a mother or had a neglectful one
/r/MensRights15/05/22 05:50 PM
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Everyone needs a father figure It could be completely internalized, which is ideal I guess. The rest of us need Cliff Huxible sp?
/r/MensRights15/05/22 05:38 PM
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His health stuff is unfortunate. Also I do think he gets a little crazy sometimes. I do really love him and I think being a genius can make you a bit crazy
/r/MensRights15/05/22 02:30 PM
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Me too. I have separated the character from the person. It was a real loss tho to a lot of people. So sad. Jordan Peterson seems to be a great father figure for a lot of people now. I love him
/r/MensRights15/05/22 01:37 PM
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Thank you !
/r/MensRights15/05/22 12:51 PM
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My dad went to MIT for both undergrad and graduation school. He's an aeronautic engineer I believe. I have good genes !!!! I just suck at spatial stuff. I think my younger sisters may be better tho. It's almost like a disability with me. My sense of direction is always wrong. I'm always lost !!! 😂
/r/MensRights15/05/22 12:41 PM
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It was really disheartening that Bill Cosby turned out to be the person that he was. He was a great example as a father. So symbolic to a lot of people . I like Jordan Peterson as a representation of fatherhood
/r/MensRights15/05/22 09:09 AM
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What do you mean ?
/r/MensRights15/05/22 08:03 AM
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You are very funny !!!
/r/MensRights15/05/22 07:17 AM
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It can be very painful
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:40 AM
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Really??
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:39 AM
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Men, on average, have superior spatial reasoning. The expansiveness of this is unknown to me since I am terrible in this realm
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:23 AM
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It's hilarious!
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:17 AM
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I can tell you that no man is less strong than me unless he has a disability of some kind Edit - "who defends men?" I don't know. It sucks and isn't fair
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:05 AM
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Do you really think that. ? I'm seriously really curious. I am a real weak woman by the way
/r/MensRights15/05/22 05:00 AM
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This is the kind of thing that hurts everyone. But of course the man who is falsely accused is the most traumatized here. But yes, women who make false accusations hurt all women who may have had legitimately abusive things happen. A close friend of mine had a friend whom was dragged through the legal system because of a deliberate sexual assault false accusation. This is something that is antithetical to a free society
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:57 AM
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George Carlin says men are better at suicide
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:51 AM
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I kind of feel that both women and men face problems because of their anatomy. Why is it always women and children first, why are men so disposable that they go to fight in a war? Women have their own issues resulting from our anatomy. I think that we should not forget that there are two sides to this. Men don't win all of the time because they are men. Not true
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:49 AM
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Thank you !!! I really appreciate this
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:40 AM
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This is a really sick mentality. When did we (US/western people) decide that it was ok to discriminate against people based on immutable characteristics. Don't these woman have fathers, brothers, etc. I do t get it
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:32 AM
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As a woman I can say that i really appreciate men. Some of my closest friends are male. Ive made some poor choices as far as dating goes, but that's really on me. The guys I dated who were abusive had major red flags that I didn't react to. A lot of these woman who blame men for everything are sheep and they aren't capable of self reflection.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:30 AM
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I'm always aware that a man could just kill me with his bare hands. I just know it. I'm not afraid most of the time because the guys I know care about me and want to protect me. I have no upper body strength whatsoever
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:16 AM
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I have a lot of respect for male strength. I've been in in some tough situations and I had male friends who offered to protect me if I needed it. I can't say how much I appreciate that.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 04:14 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, men don't carry weight well. There is no "curvy" male body type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:26 PM
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You’re taking what I said literally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:42 PM
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Class is weird in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:52 AM
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I guess there are different kinds of people with money. Some will drive the same beat up car for a decade so they are not showing it off. But there are other more subtle markers of wealth I was brought up to believe that showing off wealth was tacky. This is admirable but some people just plain lie about what they have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:46 AM
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NEver met an MIT grad who was struggling to pay the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:39 AM
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Yeah but they have their own social world. They have really taken over in my area !! MIT guys are the best !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:39 AM
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I really doubt this But I have noticed that people from wealthy families tend to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:36 AM
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We always need plumbers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:32 AM
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Do they have to have worked there a long time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:29 AM
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It’s obvious that cats see through her bullshit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 01:44 PM
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I’m a bit overweight but I have a waist and large chest. I’ve never had trouble attracting affluent men even at my biggest. And I live in the states and in area where most people are thin That being said, I’d look way better if I lost 20-30 pounds. I’m waiting to start dating when I do. Hopefully that’s around when covid will be over
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 07:19 PM
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Wait, you don’t think men get tired of women at a similar rate ?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:26 AM
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It’s probably not
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:11 AM
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I think this may be true. Some people don’t really want to be in a LTR relationship Anyways Maybe I’m unconsciously selecting for these guys ?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 02:09 AM
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That’s semi true but it’s hard to find someone that you really connect with emotionally Edit - in the beginning it might feel like there is a connection and then the chase is over or something and there’s no spark anymore. Or maybe he figures out you’re boring lol ?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:33 AM
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Like I perceive there to be an over abundance of men ? I don’t think I’ve heard the term in this context Edit - yes I female
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:21 AM
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Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️ men don’t seem to be happy if you just like them That’s my experience anyways
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:08 AM
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I agree edit - men get tired of women too, when they're done chasing them. women get bored when the man has been domesticated it sucks but men respond really well to be ignored. its all a game. its sort of sad
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:03 PM
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Completely !! And now, people aren’t (usually) paying attention to just because they want to sleep with you
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 12:08 AM
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I used to get a ton of male attention in my teens and twenties. Obviously I was more attractive then, but I think part of it is that men know that you are naive when you are young, but In your 30s and up, they know you won’t be easily impressed by them It’s weird, but when I got to be about 38, I started attracting a lot of guys in their 20s. It’s funny becuase 28 was when I first noticed men paying less attention to me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 11:25 PM
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Catherine Deneuve has said this as well. I think she chose her face in the end I think the best choice for me will be to get lipo on my midsection around menopause and to keep some fat in the face. Also, Botox and filler work great in moderation
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 11:20 PM
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