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| 1 | Looking for some perspectiveI feel a lot of women just fall into the “permanently in therapy” racket The goal of a good therapist is to have you in and out within a few months. You do the work, assume accountability for yourself, and maybe periodically check in once every few months afterwards. Therapy is not supposed to be a weekly sounding board where you spin your wheels…You are not supposed to be friends with your therapist.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Looking for some perspectiveAmen brother. Seen my share of women lie to therapists and basically use them as emotional prostitutes to satiate their own egos. And as you said, not all therapists are going to give good advice, especially some of the more politically obsessed ones, not to disparage the progressive movement, but woke therapy isn’t really big on personal accountability…it just green lights people to be assholes | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | AloneHey man, sorry to hear you’re struggling. Once a marriage is over I see no point in holding onto nostalgia, memories, or rose tinted glasses. It’s her loss man. You have the New Year coming up. Who do you want to be? Sit down, plan out an amazing year for yourself, get ripped, get your finances dialed in, and chase some tail (responsibly). No happy marriage ends in divorce, use this as fuel to be the man you couldn’t be when you had a boat anchor weighing you down. You got this 💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 03:02 PM |
| 3 | What did YOU do wrong?Just marrying someone with a generally incompatible life approach. She was smart and beautiful, but also had problems with emotional dysregulation, behavioral splitting, and was deeply enmeshed in an unhealthy family with lots of codependent baggage. Regardless of what I could’ve changed, and I do acknowledge I wasn’t perfect, the marriage was ultimately doomed to fail due to her family’s inability to respect healthy, normal boundaries, and her unwillingness to break the cycle. My advice, don’t … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 12:52 PM |
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