BrianMcTill Archive

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7	Is the gender gap in tertiary education higher than ever? They are kind of irritated of our presence and they constantly look down on us, questioning everything we say in projects/lab work. This is why you should be the top performers. Seriously the best out there. This is the way. EE was/is male dominated, at least in Eastern Europe where I was studying but the education system is very different here, it is not that you start with Starbucks studies and end up in theoretical physics or something. Right after university I started working in IT and EE be…	/r/MensRights	01/06/26 09:32 PM
4	Japan Has Expanded Science and Engineering Female Quotas In 38 National and Public Universities, Including Kyoto University and Osaka University female talent Why do they need quotas then? I attended a country top 10 secondary school, started in 2004 in Eastern Europe, female to male ratio was around 7:1 in my class. Yes, you heard that right. None of the women from my class I still see on social media became anything "substential". Then country top 1 technology university, very small headcount, female to male ratio was around 1:2. Only 1 of the girl ended up working in real "tech", she is doing IT support to my best knowledge (if you wo…	/r/MensRights	01/06/26 06:18 PM
7	Why expecations from men and women are different in corporate setting? Am I delusional? Any engineering manager here? Yes, normal. natural instinct, they tag those who can get the job done not the ones who will cause more trouble. Only happens when there are multiple urgent issues and managers try to spread the work when women asked too to jump in. Happened many times with me too that different people were asked to solve different IT issues at the same time, then right after the "war room" meeting the woman who got assigned a task DMd me asking how to solve it. They usually randomly pick who they ask because ev…	/r/MensRights	30/05/26 07:17 PM
26	Why expecations from men and women are different in corporate setting? Am I delusional? Any engineering manager here? Work in IT and yes, women can/could get in free or via programs specifically for female applicants, then just deliver garbage and of course in the name of equality based on job code not added value, knowledge, quality of work... they must be paid equally. Just look at these ladies (second half of the video). Youtube got in trouble with this a few years ago. Also there was that famous Google "incident" many moons ago when an MIT graduate chess grandmaster (both are highly respected in my eyes) wr…	/r/MensRights	30/05/26 06:04 PM
-2	Younger women are just more attractive. Being young does not automatically mean someone is attractive. Maybe the typical +30-40 years older low income pensioner blue pill losers would simp such women though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 03:27 AM
–	The Delusion from Manosphere guys, that only beautiful Women have good Dating Options, and the other Women just get pump and dumped is laughable. I am 42 and I never seen handsome and successful guys with low class ugly women. I have however seen many times ugly men and women claiming on the internet the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 07:37 PM
5	Women often give horrible dating advice Yes, women after a certain age (min. 40+ I would say) indeed get much closer to real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 04:36 PM
–	Unconvetional women don't realize they are chasing conventionally attractive men Mate, min. 99% of women here are ugly (just as men). These women here are already hurt...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 08:37 PM
–	Unconvetional women don't realize they are chasing conventionally attractive men Tis is mostly online thing done by ugly women overcompensating (or just simply trying to "hurt" men... again online stuff) their lack of options saying/doing bold things like this suggesting they are not alone because they are ugly and only have bad options (speaking of education, financials... not looks) but because they decided so (or they just pull the victim card right away...). BTW I have really handsome friends and they never ever fucked ugly women. Never. No matter how drunk they were it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 08:09 PM
–	Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in dating It does. You just don't have that much. If you want to compensate your looks with money you gonna need a lot. I'd assume 5-10 million EUR/year income would make you attractive to anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 01:03 PM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. A very small percentage of older men can date younger women. Either they are not that old (like not far from 40) and still very good looking or they are seriously rich or better both but what percentage of men can be like that, 0.01%? I can also imagine that a very few with strong stomach may be dating with ugly young women but that is again falls into the who cares/does not matter category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:40 PM
2	Being funny is not attractive to women As an ugly guy who always hanged with the "cool" guys simply by having good sense of humour I confirm, it is irrelevant. It is looks (facial attractiveness) and money, those define your league not intelligence, good sense of humour, confidence, respecting women and all that nonsense... Quick story time. I used to party a lot with my very handsome and successful friends (they literally fucked hundreds of attractive women and still counting above 40). I was never a big drinker but they were, on on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 01:09 AM
7	This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here This phenomenon only exists on the internet. The only reason I am alone is that while myself being ugly I am only interested in top tier women. You can take it granted I would have noticed this happening. Well of course a few million EUR/year income can upgrade anyone to the top league but that is not something one can realistically expect to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 01:08 AM
2	How do men view fwb/casual sex relationships? Based on the pic you posted of yourself you are def. a petite very attractive highly educated and sophisticed lady, not working class and not ugly... if you know what I mean ;).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 04:39 PM
2	How do men view fwb/casual sex relationships? There are a lot of losers out there who are ok with lower league women when it comes to emptying their balls...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 04:13 PM
–	The problem with many women here The only problem with men here is they assume women here are attractive (or on any dating/relationship advice sub) based how they talk while 99% are ugly (just like men). It is a bit ridiculous to see women saying "why would I lower my standards"... like if she has any chance with average let alone handsome and rich guys :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 11:55 AM
-5	Women way overestimate their value and they get burned for it. Why? I'd also like to remind everyone that bare minimum 99% of women here are ugly (just as men).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 09:49 PM
2	Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental human Date down mate and you not gonna have any problems, women love above league (looks, money) guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:30 PM
9	Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value male Yup, if this story is true, it is more of a trash with trash situation, not to mention it is very hard (damn you biology) for a 45 year old woman (or man) to be attractive...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 07:12 AM
3	Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value male You still need to be able to expose yourself to high value men, a cashier highly unlikely will have the opportunity to expose herself to well educated, rich and handsome men no matter how she looks. She needs to invest, expensive clothes, going to luxury dance clubs etc. and she still needs to wait for her turn so in short the return of investment will be very bad for her. On top of it if she is a single mom the chances she will be able to lock down an - as you say - HVM is pretty much zero. Tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 06:59 AM
6	What have you tried in your life that was actually deeply transformative? You don't need to answer but from time to time I see posts like this and the only thing I sense is that none of this is true. They just come online to project their dreams and get some self motivation to not do anything then... 3 months later they wake up thinking "today I am gonna show the world how it is done" and they just start it all over again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 09:44 AM
9	What have you tried in your life that was actually deeply transformative? I gave up at 27 (14 years ago). Best decision ever. I strongly recommend to everyone who does not belong to the top 5-10%, don't be a loser and don't settle for ugly women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 09:03 AM
-4	They are not rules if you don't enforce them. No, it is stating facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 10:06 AM
-3	They are not rules if you don't enforce them. Just because a woman is married does not automatically mean she is attractive. Who do you think ugly men are dating with, attractive women? Nope. Ugly women. And yes, I am willing to put money on it that 99% of women here are ugly, most are low income working class too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:48 AM
-4	They are not rules if you don't enforce them. You are asking this where min. 99% of women are ugly and therefore never been in a situation when they had to throw their rules out for an attractive guy... What answers are you expecting from such women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:09 AM
12	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Women just didn't get used to it that is it. In my case they went full bitch in various degrees, if I had fucked them, they could have at least pulled the victim card (like all men want 1 thing) but if they are that worthless that you don't even bother fucking them... that hurts their ego really bad and I must admit I loved it :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:28 AM
21	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I rejected plenty of ugly women from my league and below, the only thing I can tell is they took rejections insanely bad, like reeeealy bad. I did not bother fucking them and that def. confused them, normally looksmatches would at least fuck them. I don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:11 AM
0	Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual. That is more like ugly women creating an ideology why they have to date with looksmatches... At the end it is always looks and money and playing in your league. I tried online dating many many moons ago and never seen attractive women saying things like this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 06:54 PM
4	The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short time I am not gonna argue on the salary stuff, where I live it is not the case, as per Pew Research seems not the case in the USA either but I am not in the position to tell what the truth is. Women happier child-free and single, how did they measure that, did they ask "would you confess you fucked up your life big time or you just gonna keep pretending". What is the average age of male death in the USA? Are they dying at 30 and same age women are not marrying again or are we talking about 60-70yo pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 05:43 AM
2	The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short time Like if all women are attractive with high income and therefore can compete for the top 20%... and even for those the competition is fierce for such high value men. Not to mention many are ugly undereducated with low income. They might be able to stay afloat sharing an apartment with 3-4 different people while struggling with bills but that is barely a good life... This argument is just stupid and very far from real life...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 04:53 AM
2	What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair? You said: "Join a nerd fandom and meet nerd women" while what you meant between the lines "if you are ugly, go for ugly women". That is the correct wording not "I say something random but you must read between the lines to get the implication".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:06 PM
1	What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair? What you are saying is irrelevant. An ugly woman is not choosing nerds voluntarily they just happened to be one although again, women have very different understanding of what a nerd is. Linus Torvalds was/is a nerd, Steve Wozniak was/is a nerd, do you see the pattern?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 04:39 PM
2	What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair? Please keep in mind min. 99% of women here and on other dating subs are ugly. This individual was not dating a nerd man, she was dating in her league with a man who may or may not be a nerd, women have a very different definition of what a nerd is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 04:27 PM
-1	Women's Attraction is not Complicated To be fair those women were undereducated working class trash mostly. None of the educated sophisticated women I know ever dated with criminals or undereducated men. Depending on how they look sure the attractive ones go for successful pretty boys (face not muscles) but never braindead trash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 04:57 AM
–	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. Maybe you are just not delusional and know what you can get which is a good thing. Personally don't know much rich men, to me the definition of rich starts with 2-5 million EUR/year income though. However I don't care about the new money type of influencer brain dead people, I prefer the old money sophistication, they do go for sophisticated attractive women not insta whores if that is what you meant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 09:08 PM
1	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. "Chad thing" is only relevant in the context of attractive women. Ugly women have nothing to do with handsome and rich men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:06 PM
1	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. You were such a nerd. I was just a loser because I was just self studying C programming, went to math/physics competitions and just compiled Linux kernels around 13-14. Who am I to compare to you :). Before anyone asks I did sports too, I was in school's basketball team and was doing athletics too (100, 200, 400m sprint, long jumping) but I was not that good at them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:54 PM
2	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. I am putting a "nerd" as an example that women have in their head when they think what nerd is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:53 PM
0	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. Mandatory view on real nerds vs a very different "nerd".	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:25 PM
2	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. More importantly there are many ugly undereducated women out there too who cannot be selective based on looks, money, they get what they can which is not gonna be any of that. Normalize your numbers based on that and let's see the correlation because it will just turn out to be sill looks and money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:17 PM
1	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man In the US 40+% of people are obese, that means minimum 40% of women are ugly. No matter how much makeup and filter they put on, only similar league men will fuck them. Thanks to extreme use of filters they may be able to match with higher league men but they not gonna fuck them for sure... 3 of my close friends are very handsome, they fucked hundreds of top tier women and even when they were drunk they never fucked ugly women for 2 reasons, 1 it is hard to get that drunk, 2 we look after each ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 03:12 AM
0	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Not sure which reality you live in but ugly women will never gonna get fucked by handsome guys. That is even problematic for attractive women because they need to wait for their turn. Ugly women depends on your standards, for me working class women are automatically no thanks category so for me 80-90% of women are out of scope because of education and looks... to bad I am ugly and have no chance with the rest :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:50 AM
0	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man No, but he was saying "women only go after the top 10%" which is only applicable to attractive women. Ugly women get what they can. Of course they are attracted to top tier successful men but that is just never gonna happen so for them either cats or ugly men and there are plenty of ugly women out there especially in the working class...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:29 AM
3	Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition. That is hard for women to be that attractive at that age unless she is going for ugly young guys. I've only seen it happening when one my very handsome friend (he was around 26 at that time) fucked a cheating MILF a few times. She was a 40yo mom, she was quite hot I'd say, she had multiple plastic surgeries of course, her "daddy" was a 50-55+ year old top manager at a smaller financial institution. At that time I lived with my friend and had to leave the apartment because this lovely lady was a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 01:36 AM
2	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man I hope you do know there are many ugly women out there too...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:59 PM
–	Where do you people find ugly guys ? No. It is 100% my fault that I am single. I could have had plenty of educated (lawyers, dentists...) ugly women from my league and below w/o any effort but I'd rather be alone than with ugly women therefore your guess is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:53 PM
–	Where do you people find ugly guys ? Attractive women have very different problems. Most women here are undereducated, low income, working class too...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:34 PM
–	Where do you people find ugly guys ? Sounds like you are just an ugly woman like 99% of other women here. The good news seems you are not delusional or not hurt to come online and take "revenge" while crying behind the scenes :). I see many ugly women with ugly men out there so it is not that it is uncommon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 07:52 PM
–	Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronorms Check the population pyramid, try to match it with the men/women single ratio for the given age groups and come back with the results. It is not possible to explain this with women dating older men unless you say 20-30yo women dating 70+ yo men but still the math won't work as most men will be dead above 75 (comparing to women). There is only 1 explanation, the one that incels got laughed at a few years ago :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 01:42 AM
–	If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towel LOL if that is what you think is enough to be considered good looking you might need to reevaluate your entire life :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:28 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Why do you think anyone should care what ugly working class women dream about? They are allowed to say/dream about anything they want but men should know it is absolutely irrelevant what they say because it is not that can get any of that... What I observed is men tend to forget a very large percentage of women here are ugly and undereducated... For example to OP the correct reaction is not start arguing about standards but linking her some local animal shelters and wishing good luck with her li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:00 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards You are assuming OP is attractive... just as min. 99% of women (and men) here... if you know what I mean... Love women here and on other dating subs talking like they have any chance with any of the high value men while themselves ugly, low class undereducated low income...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 03:20 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? I am 100% ugly, no questions asked. I am thin though, I am a long distance runner so I am thin, no muscular, but my face... :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 04:39 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? Nope, kinda like laughing and confirming women here are just seriously frustrated because they are not ok with the low league ugly working class men they can get. I love it when women talking here (and other dating related places) like they have any chance with attractive and successful men while based on their profile the only men they are exposed to are trash ugly men. Ever wondered why women in many places are saying things like hygene problems, bar in hell... Because these women are only exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 04:05 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? I open their profile and check their posts/comments sometimes. Some posted photos of themselves either as a profile picture, obesity "related" subs (typically face blurred on those subs), etc...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 03:52 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? Not just think. Whenever I click on their profile sooner or later it turns out many are low class low income, typically retail workers like cashiers...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 03:49 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? I have a lot of money on it that at least 99% of women here (and men too) are ugly. The few that had photos posted confirmed this. Many are undereducated working class too. How exactly are you expecting ugly women to have any experience with average or good looking men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 03:37 PM
3	A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid. I was an asshole with women (still am just I have been avoiding them for a good 13 years) and while myself being ugly I could have fucked plenty of ugly women from my league w/o putting any effort in it if I had the stomach...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 04:33 AM
–	It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on dating The ones that I know apart from me did/do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 07:55 PM
–	It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on dating I don't know I just do it but def. I lost a lot comparing to my younger self :). Never did and never will do prostitutes if that is what you are asking, visited more than 40 countries around the world including some where white caucasian males are highly sought after by career wives and prostitutes and never cared. 1 thing I am not willing to do is financing women in any form.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 07:53 PM
–	It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on dating Ugly women will start losing too, in my opinion they started losing already. I know the argument "those men were not... anyways" but that is a terrible argument, just as bad as "now women can earn money" like if all of them are making 3-400k a year... From the group of men checking out most likely a larger percentage are "good" men just ugly, so good candidates for ugly women they are just more sensitive to the toxic dating environment and they simply check out while the ugly trash psychopaths a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 07:32 PM
–	It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on dating I am with you on this. Gave up at 27 for various reasons, 1 of the main contributing factor was on my end (not willing to play in my league). 13 years later the only thing I would change is giving up much earlier. The frustration caused by their games they played (they love attention...), seeing what my handsome friends can do while women were literally queueing for them... Big nope. I read this story recently and it reminded me of all the frustration I had... I'll never go back trying, if you d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 07:14 PM
0	Can a man become charming/fun? If so, how? Drinking does work but it just helps you lower your standards nothing else (funny sketch on the topic). Although if drunk women cannot consent then... but that is a story for an other day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 03:48 PM
2	"Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad" I don't care about this pill thing, it is like religion, creating some ideology around something that does not exist... 80/20 is just saying large percentage of women are attracted to a small percentage of men but it is not that ugly women are getting banged by handsome, educated, successful guys. The last 2 is achievable to ugly women too if they themselves are like that but they not gonna find handsome guys that is for sure. They can dream of anything but that will not be translated to real li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 08:27 PM
0	"Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad" For young adults there can be something. Handsome guys are rare resources, the attractive women I know either share the resources knowingly or just wait for their turn and as such there could be a larger percentage of men left out but I have a suspicion ugly women slowly catching up as more and more ugly men are checking out and within that group very likely more men are leaving who otherwise would be "good" candidates to ugly women (so not trash, criminals... just ugly but educated, good income…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 08:09 PM
0	"Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad" Who fucks ugly women? Ugly men of course, except me. Why do you think in places like this women overwhelmingly say they are exposed to ugly men only and the bar is in hell? Because they are ugly themselves too, that is why...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:52 PM
11	"Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad" Attractive women have sex with Chad, not any women. Important distinction. And it is true that attractive women know exactly, lets say above 20, what to expect when they spread their legs to handsome guys. There is no debate here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:33 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I don't know who they are... 6.5 and 9... Irrelevant. We are talking about attractive women that is what matters. They are either attractive or ugly and this list shows that very well, you can have personal preferences but you not gonna say to a 4.0 she is on pair with an attractive woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:14 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Happened only when was young, lets say 22-27. I was only interested in attractive women while myself was ugly, lets say I was around 3.5 from this list (now I am more of a 3.0), the women I approached were around 6/10s. Did not do much cold approaches or asked out anyone I knew, I knew exactly I had zero chance but I was young and I tried to believe in the fairy tales with respecting women, confidence, good sense of humour, intelligence and all that crap. Then for "fun" around 27 I wanted to see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:01 PM
4	Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirable Assuming you are going for attractive women. Ugly women cannot get any of these.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 04:37 PM
2	Men, We’re Losing the Dating Culture War. Keep in mind I am not willing to fuck ugly women from my league, could have had plenty, never gonna happen. How that will help with believing in love :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:33 PM
3	Men, We’re Losing the Dating Culture War. I was asked this before, this is what I do to "improve", still true, except we postponed our next Royal Yachting Academy course to next year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:10 PM
8	Men, We’re Losing the Dating Culture War. It is like the lottery, every day you don't play you win. Gave up around 27, 13 years later all I can say I should have done it eariler. Much earlier. If you don't belong to the top few percent the return of investment is really bad. I eyewitnessed thanks to a few of my very handsome and successful friends. Just don't do it, move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 05:40 PM
5	Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer? Have some really handsome friends and come back after 3 months, it is gonna be eye opening ;).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 02:27 AM
2	Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer? Sounds like you don't have any experience with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 02:10 AM
2	Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer? No. Women know above a certain age what they are doing and what they can expect. If they complain, that is just women being women, never listen to them always see what they do... I partied a lot with my handsome friends back in the days, happened many times that they walked up to a girl, started kissing, optionally a drink, grabbed a cab and done. I remember 1 particular case, this was right after the university, we shared an apartment downtown for a good 2 years, he picked up a girl, fucked her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:56 AM
2	Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer? To me only if he is fucking attractive women, if he can only fuck ugly women then no, that is not a big deal, everyone can do that, I would not call that a player or womanizer, he is still just a loser. How common is this? Don't know the number but the really handsome and successful guys I know will never commit to any women. Maybe the top 5-10% of men can do this. Not sure I get this but if you are asking if women misinterpreting handsome guys intentions than you are wrong, attractive women kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:40 AM
3	Once and for all, explaining things for men You also need to keep in mind that the chances you are talking to ugly women on this sub is really high. I have money on it that 95-99% of women here are ugly. Same to men. It is not that you hear a woman saying "he persuaded me with his personality", it is "I cannot do better anyways".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 10:27 PM
5	Once and for all, explaining things for men Or in short you simply need to play in your league which is primarily defined by your facial attractiveness, financial situation... For women they have 2 leagues, a slightly higher league men who are willing to fuck them but women cannot lock them and the same league men who are willing to stay. I'll skip the cheating part. Personality and all that crap has no relevance in attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 09:52 PM
2	What exactly is a Chad? The well educated (lawyers, doctors, dentists...) and very attractive women I know go for the successful, educated, sophisticated and facially very handsome pretty boys, tall is only if they can but (local) average or a bit above average is doable, ugly face or broke not. I don't really know any working class women but based on what I saw on the streets they more likely go for muscles but otherwise equally broke guys with looksmatching. Muscles do not play much in the first group, you cannot be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 08:18 PM
5	Would you be better than women at vetting guys? He also has a few hundred million under his pillow and he is not banging theoretical physicists and mathematicians. Muscles matter to working class women, I mostly know highly educated and very attractive women (lawyers, doctors...) and they are going for typical pretty boys with good career not trash garbage with many criminal records. I am not saying a few hundred million USD under your pillow won't make them wet because I don't know (most likely it would though) but that amount of money is so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:30 PM
7	Would you be better than women at vetting guys? There was a recent case in the country I was born, a US nurse traveling around Europe had some fun, had a Tinder match with an other tourist, no court decision yet but the guy is saying they both were into rough sex, women got strangled and died. Bet the guy was bare minimum good looking with some obvious red flags (so not the typical ugly incel basement dweller women so affraid of dying because those guys have no matches on Tinder). +1 fact, this lady had a long term boyfriend waiting for her a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:11 PM
–	How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other? I asked the same question a few times myself too and don't know how. Quick story time slightly related to this. Good 18-20 years ago I was using a good old fashioned local forum (small European country), we were talking about the same things as we do here just back in the days there were a few things that were not said out loud (like online dating is only for top 20% of men, etc...), we even had a few real life meetups. Both the guys and the girls were indeed ugly including me, there were 2 ugly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 12:04 AM
9	Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill. you couldn’t fuck a woman who was cheating on her husband I never wanted to bang her, never expected attractive women to say yes or anything either, I know my place on the dating market, below in this thread I already said that whenever 1 of my good looking friend fucked a girl I immediate lost interest anyways. You would have gotten the exact same treatment from me in this situation no matter how ugly you are, I would not have kicked you to the side or anything just let you be as comfortable as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:11 AM
8	Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill. I guess you didnt even have interest in seeing if they couldve hooked you up with one of them or something I never asked and I rarely talked about women, I just silently listened to the crazy things there were saying. There would have been no point anyways, that does not work like that, you need to be good looking to get attractive women's attention. They could not do anything to "support me on my quest" :). At the same time I immediately lost all my interest in girls when they fucked them and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 12:18 AM
10	Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill. Many stories of course, I keep forgetting them then they just pop in my head again. I should have written down these to remind me never deal with women. Here is one. It all started with some girls we were frequently partying at that time uploading a party photo to facebook with a new blonde with them we did not know at that time. I immediately knew she would be fucked by 1 of my friend (eventually 2 of my friends fucked her with 1-2 years difference). Fast forward a few weeks, I woke up in the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 11:56 PM
48	Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill. 3 of my close friends are very handsome (I am ugly), I know 1 of the guy from high school, 2 guys from university. They literally fucked hundreds of attractive women (at 40 still counting). After university we were just junior IT guys at various positions (I am the only real hardcore IT guy, the others were consultants/project managers at that time), at the beginning we did not make that much money, I lived with them for about 2 years. I knew how things were in high school/university but things …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 10:29 PM
–	Men: Can you honestly say most guys you know are attractive? I only have 3 close friends that are very good looking, they fucked hundreds of attractive women (at 40 still counting), they are tall, handsome, successful, your typical top 5% that every women want (even married ones, they banged a lot of cheaters). My other friends are not good looking, neither me. They only have/had ugly women as a consequence. However what you are saying is a hygiene problem, not sure what type of people you are surrounded with, none of my friends have any issues like that.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 09:04 PM
21	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% 40yo here, partied a lot with attractive women thanks to my handsome friends, lived in a 2 million capital. Never seen attractive women with average men. Heard many times on the internet this is real though :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 04:11 PM
-3	Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ? To tell that you can easily live w/o women and it is not worth lowering your standards and go for the ugly ones... Few of my close friends are very handsome, tall, successful with high income (the typical top 5%), I had the opportunity to observe what women really do, how toxic they are, how easily they spread their legs without hesitation to good looking guys even if their long term boyfriend/husband waiting for them at home... If you don't belong to that group I must say women are terrible "in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 05:46 PM
–	Men Marrying Later or Never Are you sure they are not just simply prostitutes? Because of my handsome friends I partied with a lot of attractive women, know a few who were famous influencers in my country (small Eastern European country) who later moved to Miami for sex work. One since then married to a twenty something years older plastic surgeon who owns a private clinic I believe, the other married to a very shady person, much older of course..	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 08:24 PM
–	Commitment from a man with no other options means nothing realistically. I'm the highest league. I know :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 01:33 AM
–	Commitment from a man with no other options means nothing realistically. I am his ideal woman More likely you are the best he can get and vice versa with a known twist that women can get fucked by a bit higher league men but they cannot lock them down or start milking them financially. In other words you are somewhere between absolute garbage and top tier. If he'd level up (realistically speaking only financially he can), he would have access to much higher league women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 01:22 AM
43	The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men. Is your fiance bisexual? Probably just a working class undereducated loser surrounded with other undereducated losers overcompensating their insecurity with aggression. He could still be an overcompensating closeted gay though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 04:15 AM
–	Dating isn’t hard, you’re just not putting in enough effort That is why you are a cashier/retail worker who is aiming to become a Starbucksologist? You lead by example not by imagination :). Unless I did not get the memo and you are being sarcastic or whatever...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 06:27 PM
3	Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation? To tell my story so that other men can see this is doable. Or the other way around, just because you are ugly that does not mean you cannot have anyone just she must be ugly too. The latter part is usually left out by many, especially women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 03:16 PM
6	Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation? My ugly face, not willing to play in my league plus I have been avoiding women for a good 13 years now (I am 40 btw). To be honest I don't even remember when was the last time I had to talk to a single woman in person, maybe 3-4 years ago... I could have had plenty of ugly women before I started avoiding them, some were literally throwing themselves at me but that is just not gonna happen and it made me feel good every time I rejected them. I have some money so to speak so for them I am in fact …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 01:35 AM
1	Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them You try with attractive women and then start lowering your standards until you find your league. Or if you want instant success and have the stomach for that do the other way around and start with ugly women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 07:47 PM
8	Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them Either you simply know your league or you do the empirical way and then you learn it. I always knew what my league was and I just said no thanks. BTW money can make you attractive to anyone you may just need that much it becomes unrealistic to expect you will ever get there...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:50 PM
2	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality ...to the point it becomes so rare that we could safely say the statistical correlation value between personality and attraction is zero. And then you could also examine intelligence, good sense of humour, confidence and all the other crap women say and see how those stand... The other way around is like me, I find women disgusting so from female perspective we could say I have a terrible personality yet I could have had plenty of ugly women, some ugly women from my league (well a bit above beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 01:18 PM
4	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality In science (eg. economics) there is this thing called ceteris paribus, if you want to see the effect of one variable change you keep the other variables, those than can distort your results, intact. By doing this we could build up a hypothesis saying if personality matters attractive women pairing with ugly and handsome guys should be equally distributed. Otherwise you are measuring the effects of other variables (in this case looks and money). Now the question, do you see this hypothesis to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 01:07 PM
12	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality Yeah I heard on the internet the "trust me bro" many times. But only on the internet :). Wonder why.... And we are not friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 02:36 AM
13	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality Well I am 40 year old guy not a woman living in the fairy tales and never seen this happening unless money was involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 02:32 AM
19	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality Do you think eg. a guy with looks from 3.0 row can attract top tier women with this so called personality (assuming he is not rich of course)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 02:27 AM
–	If the men on here somehow managed to convince all women to lower their standards, (negotiation of attraction) you can’t convince them to genuinely be happy in those relationships I'd argue with that, I knew some loser men who were ok with banging ugly/fat women if there were no better option available at that moment, there is a saying in my local language, hard to translate but it is like "need is a need". I'd make a distinction though between men who genuinely cannot fuck better women, those are def. settling or a very small percentage like me rather stay alone forever than dating women in their league. To be honest a very large percentage of men and women must lower th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:02 PM
5	Q4M: Thoughts on these common dating profile lines? "...Looking for a deep connection..." typically a lie "...with a glass of wine and a good book..." typically a lie "...can make me laugh until my stomach hurts..." maybe entertain yourself then "...Been to 35 countries and counting..." ginormous red flag, I have been to more than 40 countries around the world, speak a few languages, heard many women getting too relaxed around me assuming I did not speak their languages, lets just say those "travelling" women can compete with prostitutes in terms…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 04:06 PM
7	Men need to stop chasing women. Not at once and not everyone (eg. why handsome guys would ever do that) may happen in the near future. In my opinion if 10-15% of men would start completely ignoring the existence of women, the whole society would feel it not to mention about the cascading effect on other men. Ugly women would start falling out too, less children, more households with single person living in it on very long term which would keep increasing the prices... I am tempted to say in 10-15 years we might reach this numb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 09:57 AM
-1	Men need to stop chasing women. I don't care what delusional women bitch about online, in real life they love attention. They just love it. If all of a sudden all would disappear, knowing how mentally unstable women are in general they would seriously feel it. What you are saying is true but only in current "climate" because they live in this reality where they don't need to do anything and they get their daily dose of attention. But if that changes... It is like me, I am relatively good at my profession (IT), on LinkedIn comp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 08:02 AM
4	Men need to stop chasing women. That is not true, 3 of my close friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of attractive women over the years and it is (was, until 27 I partied a lot with them, since then I don't as I am avoiding women) not too frequent that women throw themselves at them. They are going for top tier women only, those women get a lot of attention from good looking guys, it is not like pussies are falling from the sky if you are handsome. Online dating experience is very different for them from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 07:49 AM
2	Men need to stop chasing women. Ugly and average looking men should stop doing that I agree, you cannot possibly expect top tier men to stop fucking women, you would not do that either.... In this case I am not just a hypocrite btw, I have been purposefully avoiding women for 14 years now for various reasons (started around 27). The last time I could not avoid talking to woman in person was last year May (apart from close family and my friend's wife) so yeah I became pretty good at it :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 07:16 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do I personally would advocate for other things like intelligence not for something that is nothing but blatant lie unless women want lie to be sold them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 12:53 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Your league is primarily defined by your facial attractiveness and financials not your muscles or the clothes you wear. I don't want to be rude or anything but I am fairly sure you can do the math from here why average women are not available for you. Based on that post you made a lot of effort which is very respectable but maybe just accept that there are better ways to spend your free time than focusing on women. If you don't belong to the top 10-15% lookswise the return of investment with wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 06:34 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do You need to come to terms with accepting that everyone has their league, sorry for losing on the genetic lottery but most likely obese women or facially deformed women is your league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 06:04 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do It makes sense to date down. I don't want to be a hypocrite because I'd never do that but from male perspective it is a smart strategy. "Modern" women learnt from their mothers they deserve better, with higher league dudes they think they grabbed god's leg while the guys do not need to give a shit about them, likeliness of her cheating him is lower and even if she does he can easily replace her. Win-win-win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:41 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do You don't believe a word women say do you? There is a ginormous discrepancy between what women say and what they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 02:53 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Take makeup out of the equation and reconsider what you are trying to say. Without makeup a large percentage of attractive women become just average. If all of a sudden all women would stop using makeup and filters on online dating, things would drastically change in terms of attention, how good looking men would right swipe on them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 02:45 AM
5	Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with them I am just facially significantly below average who rather be alone than with women from my league. I am thin, not muscular, thin, I am a long distance runner, you can imagine my build. Of course I am balding too really bad :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 11:08 PM
9	Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with them If they are young (like below 18), I can image this to be true but at some point they realise either forever alone or lower the expectations. A few ugly women were literally throwing themselves at me plus I see many ugly women date ugly guys from their league or somewhat above if we consider money+education too. Otherwise 30-40% of women would be alone which is not the case. If you are young and/or your life is very online focused + you are sensitive to this topic then you may be more receptive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 03:30 PM
12	Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with them I am just pragmatic and realistic. I am fully aware I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league and below but we are talking about attractive women here not ugly women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:11 PM
38	Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with them I am an ugly guy and never understood this either why ugly men think they have any chance with attractive women. I opted out 14 years ago for various reasons (I was around 27), since then I follow a very strict "code", 1 of the things I don't do is I am not looking at women at all. At my current employer my colleagues noticed this after a few months and they asked me about this, I asked back instead "the question is not why I am not looking but why you are, what is your expectation what will hap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 11:10 AM
–	Why do S.I.M.P.s tend to be men, but PickMes tend to be women? Quick story time. I am not saying I was ever a simp but I was kind of a loser for sure, no one ever exploited me in any way but still I was def. a loser simply by the fact that even though I am an ugly guy I was trying. 14 years ago I opted out but before that my head was full of all types of nonsense, eg. "respect women", believing in what women complained about eg. "all men want sex" and how bad this is and stuffs like that and I just wanted to be the opposite of that showing that my intention…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 05:39 AM
–	PPD women are introverted outliers and because a lot of gender rhetoric doesn’t apply them, they don't think it exist. Yes, very large percentage of women here are simply ugly, the others have some type of mental health issue eg. they are bipolar. Same applies to men too though, most are simply ugly. To be honest the outliers are the very small percentage of attractive people here not the ugly ones :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 05:12 AM
-3	It’s not worth it for men to have female friends, too many downsides, not enough benefit. I am even more impressed that people just jump in while not being there, not spending any time with them and tell me I am wrong :). Do you use this superpower in life too not just in some a reddit subs where losers are gathering?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 12:04 AM
–	It’s not worth it for men to have female friends, too many downsides, not enough benefit. It is a funny word but it describes very well how life is if you are a very good looking man. My handsome friends usually have 1-5 women (depending on how much free time they have) at their disposal at any given time, harem is the perfect word to describe this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 11:17 PM
-10	It’s not worth it for men to have female friends, too many downsides, not enough benefit. Depends. My handsome friends keep some attractive women in their harem who they are not fucking at the moment, they may have fucked them before or will fuck them at some point but not at the moment, they invite them to parties, take them out sailing at the weekends etc. Women click based on looks, attractive women therefore have attractive "friends", it is worth having them so that they can bring in new women to them. I personally don't do this mostly because I am ugly and never enjoyed female c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 11:00 PM
1	CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to. I opted out very long time ago, 1 obvious reason is not willing to play in my league but since 3 of my best friends are very handsome (they literally fucked hundreds of attractive women and still counting) I have seen/heard many things which allowed me to learn about women a lot. I rejected plenty of ugly women from my league and below before opting out so I don't think I ever felt frustrated, from time to time I need a little fuel to get things going though, I usually come to places like this t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 05:05 AM
1	CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to. My monthly income is above 30K (if I average out because a large percentage of my income is coming from stocks (RSU) but I don't vest every year). I am only attracted to top tier women and I can tell you it is not enough to compensate my looks, still ugly women from my league were the only options before I opted out. Never tried with working class women though since I have zero interest in them and more importantly I am not willing to finance women in any form (so no prostitutes either).	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 04:10 AM
0	CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to. The best way for men to improve their dating prospects is playing in their league and especially below. Btw your league is primarily defined by your facial attractiveness and financials not muscles, at least for educated sophisticated women, I don't know working class women, muscles may work for them as it is a recurring theme here and there. The problem you would need to make an insane amount of money to compensate your looks and therefore be able to score higher league women. Just because you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 03:49 AM
–	Speed dating is the most brutal dating setting I am sharing your opinion, I am not on 100% "level", from time to time I need a little fuel to get this going so I show up in places like this every now and then but I gave up 14 years ago too, since then I avoid women as much as possible. Simply the return of investment is insanely bad for average and below average looking men if they are not rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 06:48 PM
14	Why MGTOW was doomed from the very start but decentering opposite gender is the best option moving forward Maybe they are just doing that that is why you don't even hear about them. It is not doomed at all, it is a logical decision. I opted out 14 years ago for multiple reasons to not even try (I am 40 btw), I look away if a woman is nearby or just grab my phone to look at that instead, I don't talk to them anywhere, I don't stand next to them on public transportation, I don't meet my friends if women can be there. By doing this I managed to reduce my yearly exposure to women to like 2-3 (typical exa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 09:35 PM
8	Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice? Facial attractiveness is your number 1 seller (and financials) not muscles although I don't know working class women, maybe it works for them. None of the top tier and educated women I know dated muscular guys, rather typical pretty boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 04:54 PM
0	Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice? The best advice is go for below league women, the uglier they are comparing to you the easier it gets. You cannot possibly level up your attractiveness as a man that much unless you can make insane amount of money - like a few million EUR/year - which is again unrealistic to expect. It is possible to find someone in your league but then you will be just one from the hundreds of similar options she has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 04:41 PM
53	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of attractive girls over the years (at 40 still counting). I know them since high school/university, 2 guys were my flatmates after university for a few years. In their 20s when they had more time (yes, for them it is just time) on average they had 1-5 different girls at their disposal at any given time, the amount of women they fucked who had long term boyfriend/husband waiting for them at home is just insane. I am unfortuna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:06 PM
2	For men who have been approached at least once in their life: Do you think the women who approached you were in your league? For the context I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy not willing to play in his league. Short answer no. Cold approach only happened a few times in my whole life. 1 very ugly girl in high school (love letter), few ugly women in luxury dance clubs. Reason I say "luxury" because they may have thought I had money... Well I had but probably not as much as they may have thought :). Eg. 1 slapped my ass and smiled, other started grinding herself to me from behind when I turned she smiled. I did not care. There…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 12:09 AM
7	Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be. I know. You know attractive women are not dating with ugly guys right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 05:43 PM
10	Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be. If you are ok with below league women, sure. I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy, in person I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league on the other hand on online dating only below league women right swiped on me, I had subscription, saw who right swiped on me, that is how I know this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 05:16 PM
1	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. I am not attracted to ugly women. Same reason attractive women are not spreading their legs to ugly guys just because they may treat them well. I know there are many loser men out there who say it is still better than nothing but I am not like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 03:11 PM
2	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Yes and yes. I may have missed your question though, can you rephrase it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 02:41 PM
–	Denial, Anger, Bargain, Depression, Acceptance model for the struggles of single men Like I said, ugly guy, in person, I point to attractive women, he has to prove it, I pay (well... he will).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 01:58 PM
–	Denial, Anger, Bargain, Depression, Acceptance model for the struggles of single men Wish there were some redpill (or PUA) men out there showing how it is done. I'd be willing to pay big money for a below average looking men proving that PUA whatever confidence crap actually works :D. I'd just point to some top tier women and let them show how it is done. However if they fail, they would be mandated to pay me the equal amount of money we agreed on :D.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 01:46 PM
1	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. That is whatever category to me just like you being a christian... You made some statements about "friends", "blaming apps" and all that while the only key is willingness to play in your league. If you are ok with it, go for it, I am rooting for you but that has nothing to do with your fairy tale imaginary theory you put together above. You are just projecting your dreams. Go out and get some women from your league or better below, the uglier they are the easier it gets...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:56 PM
1	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Yeah but you are contradicting yourself. You said it is all friends and whatever and all of a sudden women will be everywhere while now you are practically saying playing in your league... Which is the way btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:43 PM
2	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. You are changing the agenda... What makes you think I said anywhere I deserve anything? I don't. I just don't care about ugly women and rather be alone instead. That is a decision, no one said I am entitled to have/do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:36 PM
2	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Apparently you want to believe in the fairy tales. You are free to do that just make sure you live up to your expectations then :). So go out, have friends and all of a sudden top tier women will queue even if you are ugly. Let us know how it goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:31 PM
3	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Maybe read what I said again. I have plenty of friends, 3 of my best friends are very handsome who fucked literally hundreds of women... I am not struggling socially neither financially. I am not making millions though before you ask otherwise I would not have issues attracting top tier women but that is unrealistic to expect from anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:27 PM
2	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. I am 40 and I never seen that happening in real life unless money was involved and as I said I partied a lot... This bold statement is popular online (probably because people want hope...) but not happening in real life. There was 1 guy saying this long time ago on AskMan and he happened to have a post with his so called "model" girlfriend. That woman was a way below average overweight woman...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:23 PM
3	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Social status is just looks or money. Just like seeing you confident by women is looks or money at the end of the day nothing else. This guy has a theory that it is not looks but friends and all that. Nope. If you look like this, you can have zero friends and women will queue for their turn on online dating or anywhere else (this guy had 11 000 matches in 1 month on Tinder).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:19 PM
1	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. So you are saying ugly women do not care about personality while attractive women do? That would be a twist don't you think? Or you are saying something else when saying "personal responsibility"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:12 PM
1	Men If You’re Struggling it’s Your Fault. Myself is an ugly 40yo virgin but I easily could have had plenty of ugly women from my league or below w/o doing anything however I am only attracted to top tier women. I always hanged with the "popular guys" (I have really good sense of humour), partied a lot especially after university, 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they f*cked hundreds of attractive girls (still counting). I was exposed to many women, my friends organised lots of house parties, sometimes just 2-3 guys and 7-10 top t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:07 PM
–	The mirage of options for both men and women Are you sure the mirage of options are like this? It is 1 thing you right swipe on incredibly low quality women (rather not use the t.... word, your problem anyways) but based on your comments there it seems you may count bots/fake accounts as options :). I am tempted to say women have real experiences with real people on the other side not like this when we talk about mirage of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:20 AM
1	The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationships 3 of my close friends are very handsome, they fcked hundreds of women (at 40 still counting). They fit your description and knowing the fact how many women they fcked who had long term boyfriend/husband waiting for them at home they not gonna settle even if they want to... On the other hand the average/below average looking married guys I know had real difficulties persuading their wives to get children, 1 of my best friend wanted a very large family but he could not persuade his wife (also no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:42 PM
–	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men There is this saying: "Single moms are dating with men they would not otherwise if they did not have kids". This is 1 thing that men in general are together and try to help others not to become losers. If he has no other options, it is a clear indication he is gonna get exploited (financially). Of course the presentation could have been nicer but it is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 03:29 PM
–	Women do not have ridiculously high standards in men There are the things that women say and there are the things that they do. But let me ask you something, if you have this list: "kind, funny, able to hold a conversation, that he has a steady job, some hobbies, takes care of himself and smells nice", how does height contribute to any of these? And I just named one, we could ask the same about money, muscles... because I have a suspicion that these have negative correlation with your list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 03:13 PM
14	If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.” I was 10 30 years ago and I was pretty much 100% sure it is not gonna happen to me. I was right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 02:15 PM
3	If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.” Not many people are willing to learn from smarter/experienced/... "colleagues" so most of the people need go trough this learning process themselves and then make a conclusion whatever that is for them. Thanks to my handsome friends I saw quite a lot of shit and eventually realised this is a no game for me, opted out 14 years ago, since then I am avoiding women as much as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 02:11 PM
11	Both genders would be happier if women did the approaching If I use the Tinder right swipe rates from TinderData sub - men if they are good looking: 10-30%, men if they are average/ugly: 40-60%, women regardless of how they look: 0.5-3%, it would make sense but what makes you think the exact same women would start making better decisions in person? I am tempted to say women would just turn to online dating 100%. I know they complain all the time about that but it is because they are comparing everything in their "reality". Plus would you be ok with ugly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 03:27 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men My handsome friends who literally fucked hundreds of women (at 40 still counting) have a very different opinion ;). 1 of the reason I opted out 14 years ago to not even try. I know what women say about many things but you know there is the thing that they do...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 03:39 PM
-3	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy with small and thin penis. I am by all means not a women teaser online (only online, I have been strictly avoiding women for a good 14 years now, I need to talk to women in person like 2-3 times a year...) but I don't really feel anything and never felt anything when I see/saw stuff like penis size, looks, money... It is not that they all can get what they want, think of it a 3 variable optimisation problem (and ignore the fact that later they will cheat you no matter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:09 PM
1	Q4M: What dating advice would you give a guy who exudes “beta bux™️” but doesn’t want to be “beta bux™️”? Don't speak this "language" but I assume this means ugly men targeting way above league attractive women. I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy only interested in women way above my league. And I just answered the question :D.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:32 PM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm Just as online dating and women swiping right on certain men. I really don't want to argue because I honestly don't know if this is the way or if this would do anything at all. We could also say OnlyFans is legal and at this point it is even the "norm" which is just as ridiculous as it sounds... Like women openly advertising with full face and zero shame. You cannot force other people to do this and that, you only have influence over what you do (and maybe in your close surroundings), you have t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 10:49 PM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm I'll tell you my opinion regardless of having it as a well baked idea or being correct at all. If we (men) want women to fill certain requirements, then we (men) should show example. If you want low body count women (in other words just decent human beings), then be 1 of yourself too. I visited more than 40 countries around the world including some where white caucasian men are highly sought after (by prostitutes but also by "sugar babies" too) and never ever said yes to prostitutes. I understan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:01 PM
–	CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW. English is not my native but I'll try to explain it w/o being offensive to this guy you posted. The problem he is an extreme example. He was probably pulled/forced/... by others and even so he was to make money. He is not a self made men. Then very likely he got money and ended up with women. It is not that he went trough a path where he on his own merit became attractive. Very likely he is making way above average money and ended up with women. Everyone knows money pulls women. You cannot reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 11:27 PM
1	coffee dates not good enough? I grew up in Eastern Europe (I still live in Europe just not there). I visited more than 40 countries around the world and I must say there are countries where the attractive/not attractive ratio is significantly different. Here there are more attractive women I'd say so here the number is like 20-30%, in the USA/India/Arabic countries this number is very different for me. Even if you say it is a lot, you need to consider that I am facially significantly below average, I belong to the bottom 10-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 11:07 PM
–	CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW. I get what you are trying to say but in my opinion showing extremes as positive examples are never a good idea. The thing is he was probably pulled (or forced) all over the country by others to perform on some kind of freak shows. Even if he did it voluntarily, he most likely did so because he had to choose between life and death. And now he is probably making way above average and what a surprise he had/has women... Very likely these type of "freaks" always have someone behind the scenes managi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 10:47 PM
–	CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW. When he was growing up, that is what I seen too but is he "dirt poor" now too? And you need to compare the living standards/conditions to Ugandan standards. The average monthly income is around 100 USD it seems. Even if he just making 400/month he is already a king there. The equivalent yearly income in the USA (I don't live there so...) ~60000 USD, think about your living standards if you made 240 000... That is a ginormous difference but in Uganda it is just +300 USD and it is already 4 times …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 10:25 PM
–	CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW. Ted Bundy was said to be very handsome... I am sure he was a walking red flag (after all women were disappearing around him) but... you know...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 10:14 PM
–	CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW. How do you know he is "dirt poor"? Don't know much about Uganda's dating market but I know it is not the richest country in the world, if you make a little money maybe you are already good. I did a quick search and on "local" forums locals mentioned the word "money" multiple times. He is utilising his ugliness and very likely making much more money than an average man there, he said to be a "national curiosity". Also a few more quotes from Ugandan websites: "...Godfrey chose to use his newfound …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 10:12 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. I have a lot of free time, I have reddit account. But if you are interested, I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league and below over the years but only losers date with ugly women. If that is what you call punching bag, then sure I am :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 09:35 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. Gotcha. There is no definitive amount, it depends on your facial attractiveness and how many levels you want to go above your league. I am unfortunately facially significantly below average, in my case to compensate my looks I'd need to make at least 1-2 million EUR/year. And there is the thing that I am not willing to finance women so no matter how much I make they not gonna get anything...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 09:08 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. I am sorry mate but it seems you really did not read what I said above. I literally said ugly men can have ugly girlfriends and with money you can compensate everything in the looks department. Literally the first 2 sentences of mine :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 08:51 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. Jokes aside you missed my first sentence. I am fully aware that even ugly guys can have (ugly) girlfriends that is why I said you have your league and play in it. That is all you can do. I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league over the years if I were ok with ugly women (I am not).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 08:34 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 08:31 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. Seen many posts like this before, these type of posts are typically for self motivational purposes. Wakes up in mommy's basement, persuades himself to believe in the fairy tales, comes online and announces to the world how it is done. If he was successful with women, he would not even be here... 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of attractive girls over the years (at 40 still counting), they don't even have reddit accounts... Needless to say none of them adve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 08:19 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. Or you just simply played in your league or below... This PUA crap they advertised assumed with confidence, dressing like an idiot and all that crap will allow you to score top tier women. Everyone knows ugly guys can have ugly girlfriends, but it is not because they "negged" them (or whatever it is called) but because none have better options so either nothing or that...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 07:35 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. You mean if you follow their guidelines and dress like this pussies will be falling from the sky? Don't believe in PUA stuffs, very 2000s and literally no one ever I know and went down on the PUA road with these so called "gurus" (who themselves uploaded random photos of women stolen from the internet stating they scored "last night" on obscure forums) had any luck apart from the paid "actresses" in those bootcamps they organised for the losers :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 07:25 PM
–	The difference between men who struggle in dating and men who are successful, is their ability to recover from rejection and their perspective on the same. Numbers game only if you play in your league and especially below. If you go above your league you need an awful lot of money to make yourself attractive to them w/o looks. If you consider eg. this guy (more photos: one, two, three) who had 11000 matches in 1 month on Tinder with eg. this guy, do you think your "recovering" logic would work at all? First guy's original post on Reddit, he deleted it after 1-2 years but the comments are still there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 07:13 PM
–	coffee dates not good enough? So you are saying this is average look :D?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:56 PM
–	coffee dates not good enough? I prefer highly educated and very attractive women, not ugly undereducated working class trash. Before you say It is not that I can get it but I'll never lower my standards and finance ugly women instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:37 PM
2	coffee dates not good enough? ...about this phenomenon, you skipped the second half of the sentence ;). Btw how do you know I am not using Lynx browser and as such I can only see the textual representations of any web page :)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:27 PM
3	coffee dates not good enough? are high maintenance and likely beautiful Saw photos on the internet about this (let's assume they are all true). It is the very opposite, some clearly undereducated trash working class women barely hitting average looks. They are just overcompensating because they are only exposed to equally trash working class/ex-convict/drug addict/... men. Top tier women don't need to "advertise" what they deserve, they are getting it by default...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:18 PM
1	Men who don't want to get married should invest in older women Not attracted to average or below average looking women. I could have done plenty same age from that league, would not have needed to go for older women for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 02:46 PM
6	Men who don't want to get married should invest in older women I am an ugly 40yo, was always an ugly guy, when I was young I thought I would rule the dating market with aiming "older" women. It turned out really attractive 35-40 year old women are getting fucked by the same handsome guys who take care of the same age attractive girls too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 01:24 PM
3	Why do men think they are funnier than women? This could be a back and forth ping ponging between us, it is not worth the time for you and me either. Ask other men and see what they say. Of course it can happen that an ugly woman joins an attractive group for some reason (eg. she is someone's cousin...) and typically this is where you can observe a woman trying to be funny which is usually nothing but serious overcompensation of her looks and saying very rude things out loud trying to come off as funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 02:03 AM
-3	Why do men think they are funnier than women? My own observation + 3 of my best friends are very handsome (they fucked hundreds of attractive girls and at 40 it is still counting), you can take it granted they know "how it is done".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 01:50 AM
0	Why do men think they are funnier than women? I'll give you a few hints. Men usually click based on similar level of intelligence, similar interests and sense of humour. Women on the other hand mostly click based on looks. I know this is gonna be an automatic reply with not being true at all, women are superior and I am an incel anyways but you can ask any men not just me and they will tell you the same, the general rule of thumb attractive girls always have attractive friends, ugly girls ugly friends. The other answer is much simpler. Beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 01:44 AM
-2	Why do men think they are funnier than women? What baffles me is that women online (probably mostly ugly women otherwise they would not be here...) are on some kind of mission that there is no way they cannot be superior in anything. Dating is harder for them, online dating does not even work for them (other version I heard is "too exhausting" :D), they can only make smart decisions, they are not going for looks, you name it. Or if the numbers are telling something different, then it is because they are victims. More and better male comedia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 01:21 AM
-3	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? What makes you think this list has any implication whatsoever with women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 12:41 AM
-5	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? Not bleeding every month is a good thing. Mentally stable. Not toxic. Having the ability to actually be funny. Being able to make good decisions. Having the ability to really have true and lifelong friendships and being able to count on your buddies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 09:19 PM
4	Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months? Not sure I got the question. You are asking which companies are applying female quotas? Pretty much all multinational companies. Haven't you heard of the "more women to engineering" nonsense? I interviewed many people including women, they were always bottom performers on the objective/quantitative tests. Despite this women must be hired no matter what and they cannot be fired because they are bad performers, usually they just get promoted to management because of damage control. Youtube got in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 10:27 PM
–	Men not going to college Could someone who can utilise critical thinking and elementary school level reasoning skills enlighten me about the upper level education system in the USA? Where I live (Europe) there are huge differences between universities, here the state financed are the highly sought after ones and to get into the state financed top universities the entrance exams are really tough (think about math/physics/history/... competition level questions, if you participated any in elementary/high school you know w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 06:35 PM
9	Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months? Yeah, wanted to say the same, it just "does not count". Never believe a word women say. Even ugly women are getting insane level of attention or those women who identify themselves as "forever alone" (although my observation is "forever alone" for women typically means multiple past relationships, sex, non-stop dating). As Martha Stewart said, "just nothing" :D.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:59 PM
13	Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months? 0, gave up 14 years ago (I am 40 btw). Speaking of OLD I tried Tinder very long time ago mostly for "fun" because I knew exactly what would be the outcome. I had zero matches at roughly 40% right swipe rate with right swiping on 10 000+ women. I am only attracted to above average looking women (while myself being facially below average) though and I am not interested in women with 2 braincells, instagram wh*res, obvious sluts so I easily filtered out those who would have right swiped on me to pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:53 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? You not gonna get any of those from women. What you get from women instead is insane level of toxicity, financial exploitation, non-stop cheating... And all that for an ugly women to put into? That does not sound like a good investment does it? I am not willing to finance women in any form (therefore no prostitutes either) but a very attractive sugar baby makes much more sense than dealing with ugly women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 01:54 AM
30	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? I learnt that there are the things that women say (eg. about their preferences) and then there are the things that they do and they don't really overlap. And of course the things my handsome friends can allow themselves yet women are happily spreading their legs to them... The other really big realisation was the amount of women they fucked who had long term boyfriends or husbands waiting for them at home...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 11:56 PM
10	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? The typo? I already fixed it :). Or what do you mean by saying suspicious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 10:48 PM
29	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? I have a few reasons. One is I was only interested in women way above my league and of course I constantly got rejected. Before you ask, no, it is not because of my personality/sense of humour/respecting women/intelligence/... because I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league and below w/o any effort... And I am just counting the ones who initiated/showed obvious interest. The other main reason is 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of very attractiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 10:31 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? You got that right, either top tier women or nothing. This is coming from my personality, if I cannot become at least above average in something I am simply not doing it. On top of it the return of investment for average/below average women is insanely bad, why would I waste any resource on them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 10:19 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? My compensation package has many components apart from my base salary (company car with unlimited fuel card for private use, private health insurance...). Large percentage of my yearly income is coming from stocks (RSU) which I may or may not vest in the given year. This year I vested a lot so this year gonna be above average, around 300 000 CHF (~360 000 USD). I got stocks almost every year from the company but that is not guaranteed. My height is a bit below average (where I live), my facial a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 10:02 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? Probably he (and many others here) is just trying to evaluate how delusional you are. I have a master degree in electrical engineering from country no1 technology university. Although I got that at 23 and started working in IT right after that (which was one of the best paying sector and probably still is) I was very far from making 100k in the first few years (equivalent, I live in Europe). I don't really understand how exactly you all of a sudden will make 100k after you got a master degree...…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 09:21 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? Because I am a man :). It all depends on how delusional you are. I have no reason not to believe you are above average looking so your standards are not high at all and you will get what you want. Although in this case you are targeting a very competitive environment, relatively successful men, above average looks at or above 30, sounds like fierce competition is imminent and what I have seen women are not really good at competitions let it be work or romance. You might end up soon asking "Why a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 08:57 PM
–	As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high? What made you think it makes any sense to ask this here? You try and you will see. From all the crap you put together the only thing that really matters is what exactly "ideally average-looking" means to you because this will define the league you are targeting. If you are not attractive enough for that league, you not gonna have any chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 08:50 PM
4	Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it. I am 40, 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of very attractive girls (still counting), I am afraid I know exactly what to expect from women. Have you ever talked to women in real life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 08:25 PM
10	Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it. You must play in your league and still have very thick skin because you will face with an insane level of rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 08:11 PM
-1	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? No, I just listen to drunk women when they talk. I also travelled to more than 40 countries around the world, female tourist around you in foreign countries most of the time don't assume you can speak their language (I speak 3 languages + my native, learning the 4th at the moment) and the say many "funny" things if they are relaxed. 1 of my favourite was in Japan in a very small train station around Fuji mountain, 2 girls from the USA were talking while me and my buddy was next to them, I am cau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:41 PM
0	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? I have no way to observe all women in real life neither you do. All I can say if I compare the things women say with the things I observe in real life for some unknown reason they pretty much always contradict each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:33 PM
0	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? As a general rule of thumb never believe what women say, always look for what they do. When women want male prostitutes or fucktoys they pick up guys with big dicks (thick to be more specific not necessarily long). Forgot which countries are those but if I recall some African countries are popular "holiday" destinations for 50+ single UK women for this reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:23 PM
–	Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them It is irrelevant to this question really but those men are ugly (just like me). You can ask women too about them if you want and they will say the same :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 05:34 PM
–	Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them Yes, but it is irrelevant, I just wanted to give a base of reference to what I meant with a 3.0 w/o uploading a photo of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 05:27 PM
5	Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them That was not the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 04:45 PM
10	Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them Let's assume I am a 3.0 (I am btw), would you like me walking up to you at the grocery store/public transportation/hit on you at the places you listed... or you'd prefer left swiping on me on dating apps instead? Which do you think is more convenient for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 04:42 PM
1	Men should stop lying about having low standards 22, I am thin (not muscular, thin). I have a typical long distance runner "type" body, I run 20-50 km/week and 1-2 marathons per year. Why does that matter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 07:53 PM
1	Men should stop lying about having low standards I am not mocking anyone, I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy who could have had plenty of ugly women from my league and below (obviously they were initiating, I would have never done that) but I rather be alone than with ugly women from my league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 05:42 PM
2	Men should stop lying about having low standards Depends on how you see it though. If we assume the male to female ratio is close to equal it means I am "missing" from that pool then. I agree I am a garbage option to women in general but if you narrow down to the options garbage women have in my league I am in fact a good option. I belong to the top 3-4% with my income in the country I live (Switzerland) and I am not willing to "give" that to ugly women. I am tempted to say it is "harmful" because 1 ugly woman is not getting it and that is exa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 02:06 PM
7	Men should stop lying about having low standards The average right swipe rate for women is around 0.5%-3%. And they are dating even with numbers like this... Example one, two, three.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 01:55 PM
3	Men should stop lying about having low standards That is true. I am facially way below average. Although I started avoiding women a good 14 years ago, maybe once a year a meet someone new because I cannot avoid it (friends birthday...). But would be the same nonetheless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 01:28 PM
24	Men should stop lying about having low standards I have very high standards, for me only top tier women or nothing. At 40 I ended up nothing :D. My body my decision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 12:59 PM
–	What part of a man's personality are women attracted to? This is gonna be an awesome question. You will get all types of nonsense answers that you will never be able to translate to real life experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:17 PM
3	Modern Dating Woes are due to Technology I am not willing to play in my league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:04 PM
2	Modern Dating Woes are due to Technology You could call me one if you want, 40yo ugly virgin guy reporting for duty :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 01:09 AM
2	Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate? I did not because I did not know that, I did not watch any other videos apart from the link above neither I checked anything else as I am not interested in braindead women. Practically you are directing traffic to her only fans :D.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:57 AM
-1	Modern Dating Woes are due to Technology getting drunk, getting high and starting fucking each other again You do that with a woman and you risk spending the rest of your life in prison if 5 years later she figures she did not want that and you cannot pay the money she is asking. Technology is definitely something to blame but your reasoning is flawed. Not getting the social stigma for f*cking 20 different guys in less than a year is very much part of the "empowerment of women". I let you decide if it is a good thing or not... Filters …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:49 AM
30	Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate? That is not business casual, this is more like an undereducated woman saying stupid things. I work in a highly educated environment, this is not how women dress when wearing business casual. They dress classy and sophisticated not like wh*res. The way this woman talks you can tell she is braindead trash. Maybe this works in a car rental front office or whatever when you try to attract undereducated working class men... You are free to do anything you want but my suggestion is don't watch/follow …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 01:50 PM
6	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. It was tough. To say something that is a bit more relevant to OPs post, back in the days (~20 years ago so university time) seeing my handsome friends insane level of success while myself struggling I felt quite lonely and more importantly very embarrassed. I did not talk about these with anyone. At that time online dating was seen as "only for losers" so did not even told to anyone that I tried (zero success btw). Of course I knew I was not good looking but at the same time my head was full of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:35 PM
3	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. Drugs? Not much, mostly alcohol, weed happened and some synthetic drugs but we are all highly educated (2 guys are lawyers, other is an economist, myself has an MA in electrical engineering but worked in IT in my entire life) so nothing serious. Their main source of women is luxury dance clubs and online dating. Back in the days (university time) they did not fuck that much women from "traditional" online dating but since Tinder... it is just too easy for them. One other thing that is really min…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:20 PM
2	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. Sure, just pls. not in DM so that others can see too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:02 PM
12	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. For handsome guys it is true, they can allow themselves many things yet women will queue. I used to live with them for a few years, they often joked about "having more high heel shoes at the apartment than door knobs" even though no women were living with us :D. I am the exact opposite of them and it was not that fun living with them, developed serious anxiety, felt insanely awkward whenever women were there and at some point I just decided to live alone. It was not their fault of course, I am j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:58 PM
9	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. They don't know the exact number, I just extrapolated from the occasions I know... I know them for a good 20 years, we were flatmates for a few years too but yeah they are all above 100, 1 guy should be above 200 easily, he had the habit of going down to dance clubs alone because he knew he would not be with us anyways as he always picked up a girl and went home with her. At some point I think he just got "bored" and started hitting on women when their boyfriends/husbands were with them too, he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:48 PM
22	Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces. 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they literally fucked hundreds of attractive girls over the years (still counting, btw we are around 40) and all talk shit about women, they are very misogynistic. 1 of my friend's dad was top-tier on shit talking too, what is more his mother too, she says things like "all women are whores"... Not joking...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:34 PM
10	Women hide under the ideals of masculinity to avoid approaching men socially I am not asking, I am just saying I keep seeing "women approach all the time" to make it sound like this is just an other day at the office while the truth is it is extremely rare even when you belong to the top 5-10% lookswise. Heck once on a local forum a woman was complaining about having difficulties with online dating, don't remember the wording but somehow it had something to do with numbers, I told her to get a subscription and she literally said "I am not gonna pay for dating". Till to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 02:03 PM
6	Women hide under the ideals of masculinity to avoid approaching men socially 3 of my best friends are very handsome, they fucked literally hundreds of attractive girls over the years (we are all around 40 btw) and based on what I have seen it is rather rare that women approach. They show signs, sometimes terribly obvious but them initiating is rather rare. I am an ugly guy and got approached 3-4 times in my entire life. Of course the enthusiasm from female end and the insane things my friends can go away w/o being called creep, sexual predator... are very different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:38 PM
17	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? One of my very handsome friend's mom literally says this: "all women are whores". You heard that right. Btw he is very misogynistic and extremely successful with attractive women (we are talking about hundreds). My mom was heavily opposing my brother's choice in the 90s too. Also remember we were at our aunts place, mid 90s (I was quite young) and remember she was shouting at my cousin who apparently was dating a 30+ yo single mom, she said the same, don't you ever dare to bring her home... Diff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 12:15 AM
2	Reasons for men to decenter relationships For me having very handsome friends and seeing what women really do which is quite the opposite of what they advertise did the trick :). But in general I agree, the correct approach to try improve the situation is on male side. We need to change. Well, they need to change, I opted out 14 years ago (am 40 btw) and not planning to "go back".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:07 PM
-1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. It is ok, I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy, I don't know what normal people do in situations like this and how "agressively" they can push away women w/o being violent. Happened a few times in my life that women touched me w/o my consent (in "neutral" places though) or eg. at a dance club a woman started grinding her ass to me from behind but this was waaaay over the line. I rejected a few women in my life and at that point I was fully aware that women take rejection really bad, after this "ordeal" I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:30 PM
4	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. One of the girl my handsome friend fucked a few times was at my apartment (house party) when at some point she casually said "men are not allowed to say no to sex when offered". Also there was a single mom who hit on me really bad, even though I multiple times said no she just kept grinding herself to me. This was at her apartment, I went there to help her with some "man" work, we never had any relationship or anything, she all of a sudden attacked me and started grinding, I did not know what to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:37 PM
8	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. "In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases". Consider this percentage in the reciprocal cases too when seeing who initiated the violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:30 PM
–	You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality Or maybe he is just creating an ideology so that he can justify to himself and to the "world" why he cannot get better women. Do you think attractive women cannot get this so called "personality" that OP is referring to? Now the question why OP chose a fat woman over an attractive one. Because this is the maximum he can do. And it goes vice versa, a fat woman had no better option just a seriously depressed (and more importantly ugly) man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 12:26 PM
–	CMV: if you’re born ugly as a guy there’s very little you can do to compensate That is quite normal practice, women cannot really be fired, on top of it it looks good on paper, can be sold to management and tell the public that look how many women are in leadership at this company + they not gonna brake anything (well except potentially losing some good players who do not like the fact that now the worst is their manager making more money than they do just because of some stupid agenda).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 11:56 PM
–	CMV: if you’re born ugly as a guy there’s very little you can do to compensate I work in IT, my current employer is not doing this, at least not openly, but my previous employer had quotas (more women to engineering...) so women must have been hired no matter what and they rounded up their salary to job grade average if they asked less. Needless to say they were utter garbage. Before that I worked for a financial institution's IT department, somehow a bit older lady got hired, she could not even install a frickin software on her computer she was that stupid and later it tu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 11:38 PM
–	CMV: if you’re born ugly as a guy there’s very little you can do to compensate Maybe you yourself is ugly too and simply you don't have better options. Which is the lowest on this scale you are willing to go and where would you put yourself here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 10:42 PM
–	CMV: if you’re born ugly as a guy there’s very little you can do to compensate There are ugly women out there too, they don't have better options either. Even though facially I am significantly below average, I could have had plenty of ugly women from my league and below over the years. Too bad I am not attracted to women from my league and as such I became a 40yo ugly virgin guy :).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 10:34 PM
–	"just be confident" is a shallow advice for men I don't want to accuse you or something but based on the styling in theory this photo should have been made by a professional and the female face is insanely out of focus to the point that it looks it is artificially edited to the picture (eg. replaced by AI or something). The female face in theory is more or less in line with yours, the children's face are blurred out but their hair not and based on that it seems the depth of field is not that shallow to have the female face so blurry. Without …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:54 PM
1	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. Would you mind linking a few? I have a guess about those videos (don't want to tell what that is beforehand).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 05:34 PM
2	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. So you are saying the situation depicted in that video, namely women lining up holding balloons while (apparently) braindead men walking in with hidden cameras all around is a normal everyday situation in the world of dating? In other words this TikTok whatever is representing normal dating life and therefore can be used as a reference to show women are always rejecting abusive men? To me this is more like a scripted reality show or similar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 04:46 PM
3	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. I'll be honest with you seem to be very well informed and "educated" in incel "culture" and stuffs. I am tempted to say you would call me an incel in like 2 seconds but I don't know any of these things you are linking. Also note the video you linked in your question as a reference seems to be a televisionized something, maybe a scripted reality or similar. You should really not educate yourself and build your knowledge based on braindead sources like undereducated people from TikTok and stuffs. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 04:24 PM
5	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. I don't know this video but seems it was televisionized or something. Don't know how anyone would expect seeing anyone behaving the same they would behind the camera... Maybe this guy was just simply ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:34 PM
1	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. It is still a valid advice, women have free will and they don't automatically become victims whenever something "unexpected" happens to them although we live in a world where women/minorities/... can and will easily pull the victim card for everything. In other words women are responsible now for their own decision. If I step in the same puddle once or twice, happens, but whose mistake is if I do that all the time? On top of it the problem whenever you hear women complaining you always hear 1 si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 01:40 PM
2	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. I personally don't know much about Pew Research but as myself also participated in some academic research which involved some statistical analysis (I have an MA in electrical engineering so by all means I am not an expert in statistics neither academics) I know how those look like and what to look for and so far the things I have seen about Pew Research suggest me it is a trusted source. I am not saying margin of error, I am saying the statement "Men are somewhat more likely than women to have t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:36 PM
1	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. You are free to pull data and show us and prove that "it might be considerably skewed" but so far everything I have seen confirms what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:04 PM
2	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. I am trying to say the results seriously contradict to what people are saying online and in real life (expect my very handsome friends who literally f*cked hundreds of attractive girls). I am just trying to understand why that is and the fact that they are saying "Men are somewhat more likely than women to have tried online dating (34% vs. 27%)" suggests me that the data might not properly representing the overall online dating population. Since you linked this result I though you would also kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 01:58 PM
3	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. I am a 40yo ugly virgin guy, I am not "casual" and wanted to understand why my very handsome friends f*cked literally hundreds of attractive girls over the years, easily picked up women on online dating while I was getting zero matches so of course I am not an "average" user, also myself has an MA in electrical engineering, got involved in some scientific papers, obviously I started digging and did some research while "casual" users will never bother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 01:52 PM
7	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. Something is seriously distorting the results here, I don't really have the time to scrutinise their methodology, I see 2 odd things: "Men are somewhat more likely than women to have tried online dating (34% vs. 27%)" this is like WTF, this is an absolute public knowledge that men are overrepresented on OLD they included oversamples of adults who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual not sure if this distorts the results, just saying... although based on a few things I have seen here and there ga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 01:33 PM
2	Dating apps are worst than the websites were, at least for men. There is a sub called TinderData (self submitted using data exported by the user him/herself), you can have a look there but to save some time here are some examples for you. female 1 - 0.2% right swipe rate, yes 1 out of every 500 men female 2 - 3% right swipe rate and still dating... female 3 - 4% right swipe rate, she was admittedly dating/fcking multiple guys at the same time, got fcked by 20 different guys in less then a year Some guys for reference: male 1, ugly or average looking, ~75% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 01:05 PM