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discussionBrianMeen/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 05:46 AM
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hmm I’m not sure I agree - well it depends on what we mean by ‘approach’? do you think most healthy men have the social skills required to not only approach a woman but be effective enough socially to get her number? I think less than half of men have the social ability to do this. plus, a lot of men cannot read body language - they will stick around awkwardly even when the girl is showing numerous “I’m not interested!” signs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:46 AM
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he really takes his Reddit personality very seriously and that’s pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:18 AM
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most of Gen Z doesn’t approach becausr they lack the social skills needed to pull it off and/ir they don’t want to risk getting rejected .. too much discomfort for them I still say guys should go out as often as they can and if they spot a woman they find attractive or one that sends them signals of interest - approach her and talk. plus use your social circle and dating apps the dating scene isn’t nearly as bleak as many of you think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:19 AM
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Agree I want what’s best for flourishing relationship whatever that may be . Be interesting to see how things look in say 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:16 AM
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I honestly have no clue what ‘red pill’ currently means .. it used to mean studying female nature to find out how to manipulate certain dynamics so you can get the best results .. now it’s just everything that someone doesn’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:16 AM
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I’ve made similar comparison but according to women and some men, there is no comparable women’s space to the red pill. I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:15 AM
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true but it’s also important to realize we truly may be better off keeping some of them .. I mean, how many women are going to feel ok in being the main provider of a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:00 AM
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of course and I truly believe very few women truly want all gender roles to be done away with .. even in the most liberal circles you still see men doing certain roles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:58 AM
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interesting becausr most of the women I’ve dated still want some gender roles to exist .. I live in a pretty blue area too - I just don’t know how realistic it is to expect all gender roles to disappear.. women want and expect men to lead in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:32 AM
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that’s what I want to know - what does a non patriarchal society look like? would there be no gender roles at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:13 AM
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is there a place in the world right now that isn’t ran by patriarchy? I’m just curious what a non-patriarchal society looks like …?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:11 AM
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it depends .. if the guy is decent socially and the woman is receptive then it can move on to a date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:08 AM
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im sure red pill guys on the internet do play victim at times but again, it’s not even close to the rate that women do it .. all I’m saying ..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:06 AM
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I’m not exactly saying it’s irrational for men to talk themselves out of dating but more that it’s shocking that things have supposedly gotten so bad that men are bypassing their hard wired need for companionship and sex. that need is very strong and is what has kept society going as u know I do think things are harder for the average man to meet women and date but I also think laZiness and fear of discomfort/rejection plays a role in this too .. I bet if I was to talk to many of these Gen Z men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:03 AM
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you have some sort of grudge against red pill because many different groups behave like this online - echo chamber circle jerk over bs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:25 PM
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therw may be parts of the red pill that claim to be victims(it’s more black pill though) but the group most responsible for playing victim is women and this not debatable .. women instantly deflect to victim mode and if that doesn’t work, they start crying and it doesn’t matter how old they are .. seen it way too many times
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:23 PM
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“because everyone coddled women like defective children” this is accurate. I see so many guys that give in to their gf or wives in arguments or conversations .. very few guys are willing to say no or call out their wives silliness, rudeness or stupidity.. now, half of this is on the man becausr he has to change but the reason he doesn’t change is because the woman he is with will make life hard for him if he calls her bullshit out.. basically, the woman acts like a child if she doesn’t get her w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:20 PM
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in terms of a relationship perhaps being confident not competent matters but in terms of short term dating and casual sex, if a guy is confident and somewhat decent looking then he will not struggle in attracting women long enough to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:14 PM
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disagree. an ugly guy that is confident in who they are and what they can do will be able to attract people, especially women.. ugly is not a deal breaker if the guy is confident, fun to be around and competent .. I see guys telling themselves they have no chance because they are average or below average looking and that’s just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:12 PM
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there’s something so incredibly strange about a generation of men standing back and analyzing studies/polls to justify whether approaching/dating women is worth it or not. I never thought I’d ever see this happen .. we are hardwired to seek out sex and companionship and we now have guys sitting home saying it’s not worth the effort - I assume these guys are jerking off to porn or paying for OF ?? playing lots of videogames .. that is a road to a very underwhelming life but it’s their life to liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:24 AM
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there’s a segment of Gen Z men that have completely talked themselves out of approaching women out of fear of getting called a creep or her filing an harassment charge.. these guys exist and I’m trying to get them to understand that their fears are largely hysteria sure, cold approach is never going to produce great results but do you think it was easy for our parents and grandparents generations whrn it came to dating? they only had a few options and they had to risk it every time and many got …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:03 PM
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females can’t even hold their female friends accountable so no way they will call out females they don’t know. guys aren’t perfect in this area but we do call each others bullshit out much more than the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:22 AM
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I’d like to see a modern study done with a few average looking guys spending a month approaching women in public. have them be as nice and polite yet still forward and just see what responses they get.. then have below average guys do the same thing - I don’t believe women’s responses will be vicious as most guys seem to think they will . very few women will claim they are being harassed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:10 AM
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that’s pretty accurate, you will never catch a woman openly admitting that sort of thing so we all have to nod our heads in this collective delusion ..so often I hear women talk about what they like in men and respond to and I just shake my head as it’s often the exact opposite of what they actually respond to! not all women, but many women.. so as long as we can never be fully honest about approach/datinf/relationships we will just go around in circles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:07 AM
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pretty accurate.. many women expect men to be this perfect mix of confidence, charisma, humor, dominant in the bedroom yet also soft and sensual at times and able to read and detect her emotional state and know exactly what to do in order to make her feel better for the moment .. these expectations only seem to be growing now too - it simply isn’t practical .. I don’t know why any man wpuld sign up for that - I support casual fun/hookups and then get out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:00 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:16 AM
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i honestly don’t believe much of what you are saying at all. no offense 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:11 AM
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you just said it above in your own comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:57 PM
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what am I assuming exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:32 AM
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semantics i figured most of the people you are around didn’t want children 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:06 AM
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being wealthy and dressing a certain way will most definitely improve your odds at cold approach .. that said, if you don’t have the social juice behind it, you will fail.. well yeah I don’t think any guy that is struggling with meeting women can afford to be picky - there are lots of cool sane women out there that would love if a guy talked to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:00 AM
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either she’s has bad experiences or her mindset is one of paranoia or neurosis and she reads all male experiences as being hostile or offensive .. it could be either or both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:07 AM
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you seem like a black pill woman and not purple if that’s your actual attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:06 AM
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most people want children. I remember being one of the few kids in my classes thrpugh school that didn’t want kids. women tend to have an even more powerful drive to have them than men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:05 AM
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i know several Gen Z guys that have success with cold approaches and they are not models nor are they rich lol.. they are confident in themselves and know how to read and talk to women - it is not hard to learn this skill but so many gen z guys don’t even try and just make excuses if you guys want to obsess about this online and blame all of your dating failures on Gen Z women or whatever else, that’s on you.. you are only hurting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:01 AM
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sure cold approach results are bad across the board but if you can’t meet them on dating apps and your friend zone isn’t helping then what else can you do? all I’m saying is if you are a guy that isn’t great looking but you have good social skills - most women are not going to be bothered by you approaching them. they might not give you a number but they won’t file a police report or blow you out either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:05 AM
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I’m not a passport bro and never will be one but the weird hatred that many women in America have for them is quite strange to me. of course a guy will take his attributes and go to where he can attract a woman .. most people do this to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:50 AM
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sure, on dating apps you need to meet a threshold for attraction .. guys need to stop relying on them and start meeting women more organically ..doing that gives men the advantage as women are attracted a nice variety of things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:35 AM
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humor from a guy is a very big factor of attraction for women - if you are a guy that can get women to laugh then you will be much more likely to attract women. if you are attractive and can make a woman laugh then you will be able to attract most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:13 AM
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“being thick skin and being pro active” yep and extroversion helps too.. I think more introverted and socially awkward or anxious types struggle greatly in this area.. being social and pro active is very difficult for them and rejection hits hard. what they need to realize is even the most charismatic extrovert gets rejected socially but they don’t let it drag them down - they move on to the next
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:01 AM
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people don’t invite their ‘hobby frieNDs’ to hang out with theyr other friend grouos? where did you get this notion? it is incorrect, if someone befriends you and thinks you are fun to be around then they will invite you to hang out with all of their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:55 PM
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lesbians have the highest rate of divorce amongst any couples so it’s not easy for gay women either lol I do think women overall have too high expectations these days - I am friends with women that are rather average looking, ok job but they are a single mother and they expect to land a guy that is fit and attractive, good job and charismatic and able to connect emotionally. some women seem to not expect to have to put any effort in at all and I’m sorry but that’s just not going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:13 PM
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I live in Illinois. nice smallish town surrounded by a few cities. yes, I’ve heard quite a few women that are disappointed that guys don’t approach them more often.. again, this doesn’t mean they want overweight smelly guys approaching them in dark parking lots / they just would love for a guy to walk up to them and start a convo .. I think too many guys watch too much black pill content and think all women hate being approached but it’s so untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:09 PM
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yeah I do too. there is so much toxic bs out there when it comes to approaching women - a few bad cases get blown up and exaggerated and both sexes react in their own divisive manner. I’ll say this though, I know very few young women that don’t like getting approached by guys as long as he is sensible and can have a decent conversation. in fact, I don’t know any women personally that says they hate getting approached by men btw a common complaint I have heard from women of all age groups is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:01 AM
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the only part I disagree with you on is the topic of cold approaches .. I truly don’t think women on average have changed that much over the past 20 years to where they no longer like or will tolerate when guys come up to them and talk to them.. I do not think a guy has to be good looking or extremely charismatic to have a chance - he does have to know how to talk to a woman and get her to feel something(make them feel seen and heard) while not being weird or too aggressive. there is an art to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:56 AM
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depends on the situation. if a woman is coming on to a man sexually and he rejects her and says something to the effect of “that is not going to turn me on” then that woman is going to lose her shit .. women cannot handle getting rejected sexually from a man at all - men have to handle them with kid gloves and even then they still tend to blow up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:19 PM
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why would I tell her she looks chunky in a dress(if she actually does) and she just asked for my opinion? why wouldn’t I tell her that? I don’t want her going out looking bad for whatever occasion she’s going to. that’s the difference between men and women - if I had a buddy that tried on a suit and looked ridiculous in it I would tell them that. why do women ask us how they look in a certain outfit if they don’t want an honest answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:45 AM
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haha I’m with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:17 AM
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is dis better fo you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:20 AM
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I’m talking about when a man is dating a woman or married to one - if she’s gaining weight and he brings it up - she will blow a gasket .. better yet, if she’s gaining weight and is going out one night and has a nice dress on and she asks him how she looks and he replies “you look ok but you are too overweight to wear that”. and just watch her reaction ..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:19 AM
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are you kidding? do women still flip out when guys say they are getting fat?! yes of course they are - this hasn’t went anywhere and it won’t anytime soon. go talk to a few married men and ask them this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:15 AM
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a few anecdotes doesnt mean much here again, we need to conduct an experiment - get 100 married men and women and have the guy tell her she is getting fat and see the reaction.. then flip it around.. who do you think crashes out more? she won’t forgive him for life after that sort of comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:09 AM
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no they don’t need to be in all caps lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:42 AM
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perhaps but women handle it even worse(guys being blunt with them) than men .. do you disagree? men typically insult their guy buddies - it’s part of how we bond.. so we are toughened up by this growing up - women aren’t.. women will straight up lie to their girlfriends in order to not insult or offend them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:41 AM
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agree. I do think it’s possible for a guy to build attraction when it’s not there at the beginning but that guy will have to swim upstream forever in order to maintain it .. not worth it guys should only get with women that have genuine desire for them at the beginning .. problem is, many guys aren’t able to build genuine desire in women so these types of guys will have to chase endlessly and just end up frustrated or burned out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:35 AM
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ehh there are plenty of women out there that gravitate to men that don’t treat them well - it’s not because these men try to overcompensate with their positive traits. there’s something about a guy that doesn’t give a shit about what women thinks that turns women on or attracts them to him. I’ve experienced it and seen it too many times to believe otherwise .. red pill folks wpuld say men acting indifferent signals they have abundance of women attention and this triggers other women to be attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:15 AM
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you typing that in all caps tells me you most definitely care about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:06 AM
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well yeah no one likes being insulted but men can handle brutal upfront honesty better than women.. go tell a woman she’s putting on weight and watch her explode
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:04 AM
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sure, male attention can be scary but once all of that male attention goes away, many women really struggle with it- many women depend on the validation they get from men .. same goes the other way, men depend on the validation they get from women showing them attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:55 PM
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around age 30 it starts for most women - they start to feel less eyes on them and men acting more indifferent towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:49 PM
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this is one of those things you’ll just have to find out for yourself .. you can try to convince yourselves that women don’t care about men finding them attractive but that’s just false - there is nothing wrong about wanting to be attractive to the opposite sex.. it’s a very natural thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:48 PM
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watch out thpugh, once that male attention dries up, many women go through a very hard time adjusting to this. they start to feel invisible etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:30 AM
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simp numbers dying? where did you get this notion? I don’t agree at all - there are hordes of simps out there and they aren’t going anywhere anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:28 AM
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correct. women crave men and traditional masculinity almost as much as men crave women and femininity .. this won’t change anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:24 AM
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agree. I keep hearing stats like “35% of men haven’t had sex in the last year” or “60% of men are single and have no desire in dating or relationships.. this is nonsense .. vast majority of men and women want to date and be in a relationship - I don’t see this changing anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:19 AM
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well yeah no shit which is again why they should tell a guy beforehand on what gets her to orgasm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:03 AM
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do you think it’s a benefit to prejudge others? im not sure about you but I want my loved ones to prejudge others based on their appearance even if that judgement may not be accurate 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:26 PM
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so do you expect people to stop stereotyping others? I don’t see that ever happening - humans generalize and it’s not perfect but its human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:07 PM
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where do you live in that all of your female friends have these stories? most women I know are very eagerly wanting more men to approach and talk to them lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:06 PM
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but it’s not “lots of men” that are showing concerning behavior. just look at the data - it’s a very small % of men that are doing the harmful or aggressive behavior .. I’ve heard women from the suburbs say they don’t travel anywhere alone for fear of being attacked by a man - this is feminist brainrot right there. random men attacking or assaulting women is a rare phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:01 PM
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there is a lot of truth in those stereotypes though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:53 PM
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I don’t understand how any man could enjoy just the chase - they may enjoy aspects of it only because they feel a reward is coming down the line .. I can’t understand how a guy would enjoy calling and flirting and waiting … is he a masochist? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:43 PM
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yes so women should be more communicative as to what will bring them to that level of sexual pleasure - it’s not that difficult folks! it really isnt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:17 AM
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what I find disturbing is many women are attracted to the types of guys that are the least safe for them. there are guys out there that would treat them like queens and would go as slowly as they want(sexually) but they tend to not go for these guys .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:13 AM
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newsflash: not all women get turned on by the same thing!! communication is key people!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:11 AM
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if women want a certain result then they should communicate openly about it! we are all adults here are we not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:53 AM
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you need to choose better men then - take responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:51 AM
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it’s most likely these women are not filtering better and they pick the guys that are just with them for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:51 AM
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no one is ever guaranteed safety anywhere though - human nature guarantees 100% safety is not possible .. you need to be more realistic about the danger you are in though when it comes to dating men - Scott Galloway has very interesting data about this that I can pull up if you’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:49 AM
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especially since there is no way to reduce or eliminate all oppression - people have always oppressed and or been oppressed - hierarchies will always exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:43 AM
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plus factor in the numerous women that brought their own girlfriends to Epstein so he could take advantage of them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:00 AM
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guys keep confusing things though, sure it is easier for women to get into relationships than it is for men but women want much more out of relationships than a night at the movies and casual sex .. so, in ways it’s harder for women to find worthwhile relationships but sure, if they want casual flings, it’s much easier for them than it is men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:50 PM
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an average man over the age of 40 definitely has lesser options but he also has experience, wisdom and know how so that helps things. imo you are too focused on achievements - do women want a guy that is successful or achieved a decent amount of things? sure but most women will overlook a lack of achievements IF the guy is fun and knows how to connect with them .. it’s shocking how most men out there these days that don’t know how to talk to women and build an actual connection ..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:52 AM
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I’m fine with everyone having their own standards but I’m also a fan of calling people out on their delusion. if I have a friend that is single and doesn’t like it yet has sky high standards(all the while they deliver very little in return) then I will politely tell them that.. I know 3 people who have wonky standards - 2 are women and they will most likely be single for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:44 AM
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I’m definitely for everyone having their basic needs met .. most men aren’t going to protect someone that isn’t important to them and I don’t blame them .. look up heroes of various incidents though - 99.9% are men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 AM
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“the average man is so screwed” no they aren’t. I know tons of average looking men with average jobs that have gfs or are married with kids. if an average guy is somewhat fit and has good social skills, he can attract women .. it isn’t nearly as hard as some of you think . men have the advantage over women in that there’s many different things they can do to attract them - women only have 1-2 key areas they can improve to try and attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:21 AM
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eh I see these things parroted online but in all my life experience - the vast majority of straight men and women deeply desire to be in a relationship with a member of the opposite sex .. of all the single women I know, I know of maybe 1 that seems mostly content with being single but she’s older and has been married twice - the rest are all trying to find a man ..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:17 AM
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do women really want all gender roles to be abandoned? I’d say 90% of the women I’ve dated seemed to like a good chunk of the current gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:12 AM
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gender war is mostly an online thing .. I never hear people talking about these things in everyday conversations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:10 AM
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I wonder what other similarities those countries have…? hmm I do wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 AM
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do women want to be the head of the household? it’s not as glamorous as some seem to think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:03 AM
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you think there’s actually a system we can design that will lead to the majority of men and women being ‘happy’ ? whatever that even means
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:02 AM
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I think it’s a few factors contributing to this problem - my dad and grandfathers generation would be shocked to see a generation of men that aren’t that motivated or interested in going out to meet women .. it’s such a hard-wired desire for men(it’s kept the species going lol) so for them to back away from it is strange ..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:58 AM
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do you not think past generations worked hard too? most likely they had harder jobs than we do yet they still found time to go out and meet people.. our problem is tech - we get home from work and are tired and immediately pick up our phone or iPad as it’s no effort and mild reward instead of showering and going outside.. we gotta break away from social media and thousands of tv shows and movies to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:26 PM
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but there are plenty of meetup groups or hobby clubs out there today.. my town has 4 nice parks in it(with a variety of free activities)and they are mostly empty .. guys and girls aren’t meeting because they are isolating themselves - it has never been easier to meet the opposite sex yet people think it’s harder and make all sorts of excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:23 PM
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but that bs is only said ONLINE! I have not heard any woman in an offline convo tell me she hates being approached by men - this crap is peddled online ad nauseam though.. more guys need to put phone down and go outside and talk to actual women and they will find out what women actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:21 PM
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and this is relatively new and seems to be a Gen Z thing.. older generations pretty much knew that rejection and possibly upsetting women was a necessary part of approach and dating but they did it anyways because they wanted a partner.. only Gen Z seems to let the possibility of offending someone to keep them from trying to talk to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:19 PM
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yes but what you don’t realize is a vibrant personality can make a guy appear to be much more attractive to a woman .. I know a short, balding average looking guy that is great with women - he looks painfully average but his personality is fun and outgoing - he knows how to make women feel seen and heard ..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:16 PM
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correct. most women ‘light up’ if a decent looking guy with competent social skills walks up to them to talk to them .. the guys that get bad reactions from women in public are most likely giving off weird vibes or they don’t know what to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:13 PM
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most women are boring(to men) because men don’t require them to be entertaining.. if a woman is under 400 pounds and has a heartbeat - most men will crawl through fire to date and sleep with her.. she can be the most boring person on the planet and it simply doesn’t matter .. if men held women to higher standards then this might change men have to develop personality to attract women, women don’t..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:04 PM
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hmm I don’t think most men should be afraid of approaching women though IF they can read women and have decent social skills. I have quite a bit of life experience and I only know of a tiny amount of cases where women insulted men or were offended by men that approached them in public.. I feel much of this topic is a terminally online talking point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:00 PM
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those men are only gracious because they want sex though.. let’s be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:55 PM
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I honestly think the notion that so many women are hostile to men approaching them is something only terminally online people think.. it just is not true in my experience - women like to be approached by men as long as the guy has social skills and doesn’t act like a weirdo .. I have talked to quite a few guys in their 20s and 30s and they have not faced hostility from women when they approached them in public .. a few were rejected but weren’t told to fuck off by the woman btw im not claiming t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:24 AM
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your post resonates - are you in your 20s or 30s? I ask because it doesn’t matter how much I improve social skills - that barrier never goes away.. I’m fit and above average looking and I actually get approached by women occadionslly when I go out but it goes nowhere. I can flirt and socialize but it all requires so much energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:52 AM
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oh my great post.. im high functioning and am too self aware of my deficiencies and what I’m missing out on - this in turn makes it harder to operate in social situations as I’m so aware of my masking and everything else. it’s brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:42 AM
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oh yes there’s a massive double standard when it comes to this issue and I don’t think I’ve ever even heard it brought up in mainstream discussion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/25 02:19 AM
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that is correct. women are terrible at dealing with rejection especially when it comes to sexual rejection .. they tend to act like angry 8 children if you decline their sexual advances ..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/25 02:17 AM
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Damn you created a sub for Donovan sharpe? lol How or why did Donovan go broke? last I heard he was finding that convention but that was a few years back
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 09:20 PM
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I have not been following him lately so I couldn’t tell you.. overall though, I think you’d find most red pill streamers(or streamers in general) are making more than you’d think.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 07:20 PM
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well I have a decent amount of life experience and I find about 80% of what Rich says to be quite accurate and spot on .. I despise the rhetoric about women “hitting the wall” but a lot of the other stuff is accurate ..
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 05:10 PM
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“rich seems brainwashed by his own bias” we all are “these guys talk about the same shit all the damn time” yes as does every other YouTube genre - daily videos put out about the same talking points.. I don’t know how they do it lol “but nobody in the game/manosphere/redpill space is getting paid crazy money” wrong. I was quite shocked at how rather small RPs like Donovan sharpe was making a few years back.. he doesn’t even get many views .. guys like Rollo do much better fact is, as long as mai…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 05:07 PM
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That seems to be the way we do things - we go to try and fix something and then break it but in the other direction .. it’s unfortunate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 07:50 PM
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“It hates men” that’s interesting u say that as I see more young men saying the same thing - I try to get them away from that mode of thinking but perhaps they are correct? I feel society sees men as more expendable and disposable more than outright hates them but I could be off here.. question is, if society hates men then what can we do about it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 10:26 PM
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But why? How did we get here? Have feminists taken over that many positions in institutions?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 10:14 PM
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I have never heard of this show. It’s about incels?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/25 01:49 AM
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Yep. Power dynamics are at play in all relationships and conversations. To deny that is basically denying reality
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 06:36 PM
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Nicely said. Modern red pill Is a mess of contradictions . Using modern red pill messaging it would be pretty much impossible to have a healthy relationship with a woman
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 03:03 AM
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Yeah I remember when the red pill was mostly evo psych and dealing with human nature - then it turned into a beast of sorts. The type of messaging that fresh n fit delivers is just warped and is creating a generation of bitter, unhappy men I do talk to a few sensible men in the red pill space and they have also tried to talk to younger guys in the space and dial them Back from the more toxic messaging but we’ve had no success A left wing voice or section would be nice.. there’s a guy called Mack…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 03:01 AM
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No I’ve always been for helping people based on their class, not race. The fact that we look at race much more than class really baffles me - how did we get here?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 01:14 AM
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But isn’t it supposed to help black and brown men? It’s not solely for women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 08:39 PM
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So what is the deal with DEI? Has it not been successful at hiring more people of color across the board? It’s only hiring white women ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 06:24 AM
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The right does claim to offer men solutions though. They promote relationships, competition and camaraderie .. in a way they do promote dominance over women but at least it’s something - the left just tells men how not to behave .. well they seem to tell men to behave more like women which just doesn’t work in current society I’m honestly disturbed at how many young men act these days - their lethargy or rage at the system or women .. there is an almost complete lack of hope or motivation amongs…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 06:11 AM
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The left wing has demonized masculinity and the frustrating thing is they still have never given examples of modern men that present positive masculinity or what or how a modern masculine man should behave.. they haven’t given any examples so of course this is a blunder and will have many men going to the right
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 05:54 AM
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Yeah I asked or wondered awhile back as to how big Tates audience or fanbase is..? How much actual influence does he have on society? The world today is separated into two realities these days - real life and online .. online Tate is quite popular but is he that well known amongst the average person you come across..? Probably not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 05:52 AM
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I don’t know what to think of Tate. I really don’t know his full belief system but seems pretty obvious that he says things to shock or to trigger .. I’d be curious how he behaves in his daily life and how he treats the women he dates..? I really don’t believe he is as sexist or as much of an asshole as many think
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 05:49 AM
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“Has to collapse” What would that look like though?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 12:28 AM
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When it comes to academia how do we go about beginning to change it? It seems if anything it’s headed in the wrong direction as more women are going there and becoming professors etc etc .. way too much group think going in there
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/25 08:14 PM
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They don’t seem to ever put themselves in the shoes of these “good guys” that they want to jump in and risk their health in protecting them .. after the last few years I’m honestly not sure how I’d react if I saw a woman getting assaulted or roughed up in public. I’d probably stay back and call police or security - a somewhat popular YouTube saud he was just in New York and saw a man arguing With a woman and was going to assault her. Mr YouTuber said he could not bring himself to step in for the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 09:05 PM
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But Pence is happily married and behaving like he does makes sense. what should single men do? Ones that actually want to meet women and date..? I feel that we are almost making men too paranoid about false accusations and a sizable % of men are just completely avoiding women altogether and that’s definitely not the solution . We need to find a sensible formula as I know many women want guys to be more pro-active in approaching them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:58 PM
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This is why many guys turn to the red pill - society raised them to think of women as heavenly beings of light that only spread love and good but after a few relationships they realize this is absurd.. the only way to fix this is by educating people at a young age on what boys and girls are and how they behave(their base wants and needs) .. problem is, the reality of human behavior tends to black pill many - feminism has taught women about men and a good chunk of the rhetoric is true and it has …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:52 PM
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Yes but I see guys taking this to the extreme and just avoiding women altogether.. many in the manosphere space have seen a few cases where the woman has lied and now they think it’s happening every day, in every town across the globe. Theres So much hysteria out there and it’s tiring to sort through
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:47 PM
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Good post and it’s an issue I’ve been wondering about. I’ve actually seen up close a few female friends or acquaintances make up bs about a guy assaulting them or sexually abusing them and I’ve seen the fallout from it.. that and watching quite a few mainstream cases go the same way only for the media to quickly bury the case .. whats troubling are the discussions I’ve had about these cases - trying to discuss these cases with many women is difficult as there seems to still be a bizarre notion o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:45 PM
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Isn’t there a decent amount of misandrist propaganda in academia? I assume it would be quite difficult to get rid of at this point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/24 01:18 AM
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Would like to know that as well but as a guy in the red pill space, I’ve noticed an uptick in rabid misogyny type rhetoric. I don’t have data or know how data would be collected or accurate when it comes to something like this ….?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/24 01:16 AM
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But upvoted to what degree? 5-6 upvotes or thousands?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/24 01:15 AM
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It truly seems that considering how social media is that it’s going to be very hard to actually reduce misogyny or misandry to any noticeable degree. I’ve tried to talk to men in the manosphere on trying to curb the rabid misogyny but I’ve had no luck at all. In fact, I found that some guys would end up doubling down on the anti-woman rhetoric.. not sure how it would be trying to talk to women about misandry lol .. anyone have success in this area? I honestly find so many of the culture issues t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/24 01:14 AM
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It’s honestly so hard to tell what is really happening out there as you have online discourse and echo chambers which seems to represent such a different form of reality where incels, feminism and red pill misogynists are greatly exaggerated in terms of how prolific they are and how influential their rhetoric is on the average person . when I go out socially I rarely hear the talking points i hear online - I just think 95% of this gender war is mostly online Do we have info on how many young men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/24 01:08 AM
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I’m all for men opening up and being vulnerable but I’m sorry but it just doesn’t work in current society for most men. I’ve seen women that had legit attraction for me just change when I opened up a little - I could immediately tell instinctually that I had better change the topic very quickly .. or the other reaction from women was indifference to my issues . So we have a very long way to change things so men can comfortably open up. its not possible imo with our society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 02:01 AM
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so you wish to live in a society with no power structure? No elites and no bottom feeders? Or something similar?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 01:58 AM
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So these problems won’t exist in a socialist country?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 01:57 AM
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Have you ever listened to Tate? He says dumb things but he’s right on the money on about 60% of what he says. Stop being such a black or white thinker - when you look at the individual take in each point and discuss instead of saying “oh he’s toxic and wrong”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:53 AM
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The manosphere and feminism have a few things in common - both movements go straight to slander and insults when people push back on their ideas Most school shooters from what I’ve seen would qualify as black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:43 AM
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Agree with most of this. When it comes to the female political streamers - all political influencers get death threats .. it’s literally part of the game so to speak. Plus, the problem with people like Anita is they see everything as being sexist or misogynistic. feminists Have thrown these terms around so much over the years that they no longer have meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:40 AM
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Agree, men need to also stay in shape - staying in decent shape should be a priority for everyone .. they owe it to themselves as it will make them look, feel and function better. I look at the young generation today and I’m shocked at how many are overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:29 AM
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I wonder what % of the population have a mental illness? I bet it’s at least 30%…?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:08 AM
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I’m not sure but it does seem men lack friendships and 75% of the women I know don’t like the friends they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:55 AM
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I think that’s extreme but more you need to only date women that show genuine interest in you. don’t chase especially if they aren’t reciprocating in a somewhat even manner in terms of one night stands - the day after often changes things quite a bit .. very unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:50 AM
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Huh? I’m in America and most people tend to not be thin or in decent shape. Obesity epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:46 AM
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traditional masculinity will always attract women .. being good at capitalism usually helps most men get laid .. yes, being at the top of a hierarchy helps women see you in a more attractive light
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:00 AM
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if you meet a woman that has a friend base without any women in it - Run fast from this woman! Seriously get away from her ​ women that are straight loners are hit or miss - they could be very introverted and asocial or mentally ill. I’ve ran into both types
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:34 AM
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eh it’s pretty messy when it comes to guys being “friends“ with women. Depends how good of a friend they are. Do you hang out one on one? Besides, most of us men learn early on that there’s big downsides to lending a shoulder to cry on to women. It just tends to not work out well for men for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:17 AM
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I wish more people understood the importance of enjoying being by yourself. I find so many people need to be around others at all times . Such strange behavior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:20 AM
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but attractiveness is only one positive trait or attribute - I know guys that are borderline ugly that have girlfriends or are married. They are fun to be around and charismatic or have other attractive attributes that draw women to them. Guys are actually lucky in that they can make up for a lack of attractiveness. Women have a bigger difficulty in this area
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:19 AM
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I will never understand why people(mostly women) feel the need to post hundreds of selfies on Facebook or instagram - I mean 95% of the pics look almost identical so why post them? I totally understand taking a good picture and putting it up but putting 5 up every day..? Why? Why the need for constant validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:01 AM
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if your looks are subpar then you can improve them Through exercise. A muscled frame on a guy always looks better than a frail or chubby one ​ you also need to work on your personality if your looks are below average. Learn to talk to people(especially women) and try to be more fun and outgoing. Another obvious one is work on bettering your career ​ guys are lucky in regards to being able to work on areas other than looks that will make Them more attractive to the other sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:44 AM
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you want to see attractive 30s women struggle? Struggle in what way? Femcels actually exist? I find it hard to believe a functional woman cannot get laid if they desire
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:40 AM
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yes but have you ever thought of the massive benefits of not having a strong sex drive? I don’t think most men can even begin to contemplate it but they have put zero time thinking of the time/effort/stress/money they waste in the pursuit of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:36 AM
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interesting as I’ve had only one woman tell me how important height is to her. my height (5’10) has never been an issue in dating. Or not that I know of but it’s just never brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:31 AM
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I see these “socially awkward” guys online and I stress to them they need to get offline more often and just start talking to people face to face. The only way to improve social skills and reduce awkwardness is by talking to people. It cannot be learned via text. Many guys refuse to do this though and just dig themselves a deeper hole by isolating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:52 AM
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“Explicitly calling them out” ​ to the guys face? Granted there are rude women that could laugh or mock a guy if he approaches them but this is pretty rare as well. ​ Oh and get off these forums more often. Seriously there is a lot of toxicity thrown out by both genders on social media - you can’t take this to heart and act like every girl thinks this way. Girls want to be approached by guys as long as it is a decent time and the guy has ok social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:49 AM
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I’m equally as baffled by guys talking as if every girl will call them creepy or a sexual harasser if they approach. I have never heard of this happening in real life to a guy. Has it happened? Sure buts it’s incredibly rare - it may happen once out of every 500,000 approaches .. guys that are afraid of approaching just use this talking point as a way of justifying their inaction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:42 AM
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red pill is evolutionary psychology, it isn’t the “dark arts” at all. It’s knowing what women want and how to achieve that. Women do the same thing with men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:39 AM
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women have called you a misogynist or sexual harasser for simply approaching them? I sincerely doubt this . That is unless you approached the most radical feminist . I have never had this happen to me and it’s never happened to any of the guys I know either. ​ i see a lot of guys using this talking point and it’s more a way of a way of justifying their reluctance to approach and talk to women. Most women want to be approached by guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:38 AM
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I think this is exaggerated - I guess it depends on how socially awkward the guy is. I mean, did he walk up to the girl shaking and sweating and unable to form sentences? If do, yes this will put anyone on edge, even men. now if a guy is just a bit awkward and doesn’t exactly know the right words to say but still can hold eye contact and isn’t shaking then very few girls will see this guy as creepy ​ i keep Hearing men acting as if the average woman will file charges against a guy if he approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:35 AM
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basic red pill concepts should be mandatory for every boy when he hits the age of 16. There is a big chunk of red pill that is very valuable but I do agree that guys and girls do way too much examining of every little nuance - way too much reading and bickering and not enough action.. they end up over-thinking the hell out of dating or sex etc etc. I’ve talked to some of them and they’ve taken the fun out of it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:29 AM
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same here, I like to just mostly skim various subs and occasionally comment. I find there are folks online that scare me in terms of their desire to write very wordy posts and go back and forth endlessly even when it’s obvious neither side will budge. Seems like a waste of time n energy . Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:23 AM
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“women are happiest single” ​ I am not sure if I buy this. Very hard to accurately measure “happiness” ..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:09 AM
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Funny how we never hear that stat in mainstream media .. gee I wonder why? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:05 AM
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agree, I hear people that want to do away with ‘gender roles’ But I think that’s a mistake. As a guy I would get frustrated with a woman that wants me to change certain roles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:19 AM
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if a guy in his 30s is still very shy it’s not see as cute or adorable anymore. In high school it is but not in middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:17 AM
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“insecure” is a pretty broad term. Everyone is insecure to some degree. How insecure are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:16 AM
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OLD is real life but are pretty terrible compared to bars and parties .. meeting women through friends or by approaching is far superior and much more efficient . At least it was in my case. ​ I really don’t like young people especially depending so much on dating apps .. looks like this won’t change anytime soon though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:15 AM
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yep, if you are a good looking guy you can walk up to most women and ask them outright what they think of Ted Bundy - or you can literally make fun of their shoes or pants and you will still get positive feedback from them . Basically what I’m saying is looks get a guy very far right off the bat. Shocking huh? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:39 AM
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it is very unfortunate but most men eventually learn that “the worse you treat women, the more they like you”.. this alone is a real mind jammer because it really confuses a guys outlook on dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:36 AM
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Boys get coddled? Umm some boys I guess but I’d say on average, girls are much more coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:33 AM
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Yep, it’s not only men that are incredibly dishonest to possible mates. “oh I hate drama!” — is always involved in drama “oh I don’t want hookups!” — hooks up on the first date ​ need i go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:11 AM
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Many women are deathly afraid of rejection too. Plus most women have terrible ‘game’ as in they don’t know how to approach attractive men and talk to them in a way that would cause them to feel attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:08 AM
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Both genders are very hypocritical and strange when it comes to many things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:59 AM
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kids growing up around me would never brag about being a virgin .. they’d actually do the exact opposite .. it is so bizarre to see young men in this generation label thenselves an “incel” .. so weird how popular and praised victimhood is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:03 AM
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agree, every 16 year old guy should be introduced to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:12 AM
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Red pill is also about female nature and trust me, most men outside the red pill know very little about female nature lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:09 AM
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they could be right though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:57 AM
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Most people are still having kids though. the thing with women is, the more success they have in their career, the more they reduce their options.. with men, it’s the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:56 AM
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