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| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsYou have just discovered this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desireReminds me of a story I heard: A Man and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?” So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.” So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn’t gone far when they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:12 PM |
| -1 | Men need to stop approaching and chasing women.Biology is not destiny, and the belief that it is is among the greatest harms that red pill philosophy has done to men. Men have formed armies. Men have formed nationalist and liberationist movements. Men have formed labor unions. We are quite capable of collective action and achieve results when we do. It's past time we did it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop approaching and chasing women.Nailed it. That is the problem the male is facing in the sphere of dating and mating today in one sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:03 PM |
| – | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolYour conclusion is sound, this is what Marx was saying 150 years ago. The emissaration of the proletariat is what you end up with when the ongoing process of ruthless competition in capitalism concentrates more and more capital at the top fewer and fewer people. It should not surprise us that mate selection (superstructure) works the same way because economic relations (base) are that way by their nature. Romantic and sexual frustration may prime these young men (and women too) to become class c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueI absolutely believe this. I've seen that time and time and time again. Relationship success is a personality type. That's really all it's down to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:05 AM |
| 11 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueThis reminds me of those anecdotal stories you hear about Aeronautics Engineers trying to decide where to reinforce armor on World War II bombers based on where they're finding bullet holes on the ones that are actually returning from the missions. At first glance, you want to reinforce the armor in the places that have the holes, but that would be the wrong answer. You would reinforce the places that don't have the holes because of the planes that get shot there don't return to be examined by t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:06 AM |
| 9 | Women in American society are poor prospects.It's too bad men are totally controlled by these reductionistic evolutionary takes and have no choices over anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 12:19 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidWell said. Moreover, statistically, 4B and MGTOW just cancel each other out. I doubt either will be missed by the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | 4B isn’t a movement: it’s a group therapy sessionThat's certainly possible and probably true. There is an overall decline in romantic love, though. More and more people are remaining single for a whole host of reasons. But that's another conversation, I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:15 PM |
| -1 | 4B isn’t a movement: it’s a group therapy sessionWe're way too worried about this as far as I'm concerned. On a lot of men's spaces and conservative spaces, the response to this has generally been some form of, "So you've finally discovered modesty, have you?" or "Thank the heavens." I'd also add that for every woman who's gone 4B, a man somewhere has gone MGTOW, and should we really be worried about this? These people don't want relationships with the opposite sex, they don't like members of the opposite sex and so would be miserable in such … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?This sounds like a toxic workplace culture. I'd get the hell out if I were you, even if that means taking time to build up an exit strategy and finding a good job somewhere else. A bad job is like a bad relationship. Life is too damn short for either, and they would only be worse were our lives longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:43 PM |
| 11 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?I think that low level casual "misandry" you're talking about is a mask for something else. It's probably down to romantic or sexual frustration. It's very politically incorrect for women to express such frustrations directly. The expectation that the angry feminist kayfabe be kept up at all times in public or on social media is considerable. The male version of this is just not to talk about it. Carrying on about not being able to get a date or get laid gets one branded an incel and that's pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?I think it's reasonable to want a partner who's sort of in the same ball park, but not necessarily spot on except possibly on a crucial issue here or there. If you get a communist together with a staunch reactionary conservative, you're asking for trouble. Most reasonable people can deal with reasonable people on the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?It could be that his workplace is also a genuine exception to the rule also. The general tendency might be in a particular direction, doesn't mean exceptions won't occur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified)Well, I know that I am not the Messiah but you know what they say about those who deny being the Messiah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified)This is just stupid. Some women are blaming men because they're men, and some men are blaming woke liberal democrat women for hating men to the point that they just simply had no choice but to vote Republican in federal elections. Can you really blame them? These are completely ridiculous takes. Here's why Trump won: Inflation and cost of living issues during Biden's term. Biden being in an obvious state of cognitive decline during his June debate with Trump. This caused a lot of people to quest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse4B is taking out the corpse. It wasn't the cause of death. The male loneliness epidemic, their growing disconnect with women, declining marriage and birth rates, etc are due to more young people having terminally online existences. Incels are notoriously online. All the time. So many men have just retreated to the goon cave to beat off to online porn that I honestly doubt they'll notice, or that this current 4B fad will move the needle appreciably. A contingent of women have been harping on abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseLooks like being terminally online and social media to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 11:07 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of women"There have been multiple posts here since the election made by men blaming women for not catering to men's issues enough as the reason Trump won." These people are as far off the mark as the women who blame Trump's victory on white men being white men and nothing else. Inflation? Cost of living? Loss of trust in institutions because they lie to us all the damn time? Urban crime? Lack of control over the border? Weak and dithering performance on the world stage? Who ever heard of these things? I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:54 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenA lot of them don't like Trump. But they had a hard time over the last four years. The inflation was bad and hurt people. And rightly or wrongly, the sitting government gets blamed for it. Or maybe they saw Biden's cognitive decline last spring and wonder what the hell the democrats were doing concealing the fact their head of state was in advanced senility and felt a loss of trust and confidence in the incumbent party as a result. There were many reasons. And some, no doubt, were racist and mis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:46 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenMarried people tend to be more conservative and therefore more likely to support Trump. Yet somehow they're all incels. How does that work, I wonder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:41 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenBecause the people (mostly women but some men) who think this way are ideologically blinded. They see absolutely everything through the lens of racial and sexual identity and privilege vs marginalization. It's a very reductive, cult like and totalitarian world view. It naturally lends itself to seeing whole populations in very sweeping and reductive ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveSame woman 29 years. Once a week minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itWorse men than that have been successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI trust you've never argued with an atheist? The absence or non-reality of a thing matters, especially when belief in said thing influences the way people behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:56 AM |
| 13 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itLove doesn't exist independent of the human mind. Therefore, it exists if we believe it exists, and it doesn't exist if we don't. I once believed as you do and was single and miserable. Then the scales fell from my eyes, and now I'm in a 29-year relationship and am content, happy even. By faith, my will is made manifest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:53 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:42 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.The dems did a lot of this back in 2016 too. Remember the basket of deplorables? The democrats didn't learn then, and I doubt they will now. They know that 40% of the country will vote Republican no matter what, so why take their issues seriously? The dems stand to lose more by retreating from the red meat - or maybe vegan delight would be more fitting - that their man hating core of urban women supporters eat up than they stand to gain by making overtures towards segments of the population that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:39 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Ask swing voters who opted to vote Republican this time around. Maybe it was being senile and hanging on to power. Maybe it was inflation. Maybe it was COVID. Maybe it was the withdrawl from Afghanistan. I don't really know. If I had voted - I can't because I'm not an American - I would have voted for Harris. So I can only speculate. Some doubtlessly are raging misogynists and racists. But just keep in mind that Biden was the President from 2020 and will be until next January. So that's what the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:30 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Because the competitive character of the free market appeals more to the masculine psyche, while the nurturing and care based character of the nanny welfare state appeals more to the feminine psyche. At least these days. Trump specifically and the right more generally have essentially structured themselves around the appeal to masculine vibes in the last 5 to 10 years or so. It hasn't always been the case though. Until relatively recently, the right was more hawkish on security concerns and more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:57 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Sure they did. They just didn't play a decisive role. Men supported Trump at relatively similar rates to 2020. But women supported Trump a bit more now than in 2020, although this was mainly suburban white married women. Men and whites have been skewing right, and women and minorities left for a long time now. That leaves swing voters who don't identify strongly with their racial or sexual identity to actually cast the deciding ballots. Those voters don't care all of that much about misandrist h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:45 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Gerrymandering doesn't rule out that result overall. Gerrymandering simply makes it so that most of the seats are safe seats for one party or the other. There are still enough seats that are truly competitive to deliver a significant victory one way or the other if the voters in those districts are so inclined. This is why you don't see 500 plus Electoral College results anymore like you did in FDR, Nixon, and Reagan's times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:08 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Those results are certainly possible. But remember, the Democrats enjoyed similar success back in 2008. The current dispensation gives swing voters a lot of power. And they can deliver pretty significant victories one way or another. What you are not going to see are the kinds of absolute 500+ electoral college curb stomps like Roosevelt over Landon in 36 or Reagan over Mondale in 84. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:04 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.They lost support because the voters who decided this election were treating it as a referenda on the incumbent sitting government. Rightly or wrongly, they decided that government wasn't up to snuff. This is because it's been a hard 4 years with inflation and so on. I don't think it has as much to do with gender as a lot of people think. Those kinds of voters are pretty set in their ways and tend to vote the same way in election after election. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:48 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.The American electoral system has gerrymandered itself into a point where most of the seats are safe seats for one side or the other. So it is swing voters in swing states that actually decide elections. Those are the people you have to cater to if you want to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:45 AM |
| 4 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetWell, this is why figures like Andrew Tate come to the fore. A decade and a half of casual misandry online has had very predictable results. Men try to meet women's reasonable sounding demands but nothing changes and even good men get lumped in with the bad ones. So guess what? Now men come back with their own mirror image brand of the same thing. The amount of misogyny I am seeing online these days is absolutely stuttering. Expect to see misogynistic violence increase over the next decade. It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:05 PM |
| 3 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI think these two things feed off of each other. The phrase "the hate that hate created" comes to mind here. It is tempting and easy to blame men or women separately. But it's the broader Dynamic that is the problem. The answer isn't to hate back, the answer is a better way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 12:59 PM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseLast I checked the 4B movement in South Korea had between several hundred and a few thousand members. In a country of 50+ million. So yeah, I agree. Movements like this have happened before. Separatist feminism in the 1970s led to the establishment of so-called women's lands. Gotta hand it to them, they put their money where their mouths are. But it didn't take off at any kind of scale and overthrow of the patriarchy and put men in their place quite the way the Hipster establishment of the time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..You will hear a lot more about this than you will actually see it. The media loves stories like how often it actually happens in real life is another matter. This will be most enthusiastically embraced by women who never really liked men anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministA staunch misansrist or a staunch misogynist would get no protection from me. Neither would a Nazi anti-semite nor a Ku Klux Klaner. Believe horeible things that place you outside the social contract, lose the protection of that social contract. Refuse to protect a woman because she could be a misandrist or feminist? That's a bit unhinged, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 02:24 AM |
| 14 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?The biggest problem with red pill thinking in my view is that it is very biologically deterministic. I think TRP has some insights, but some problems also. Taken too far, everything becomes this game of passing on genetics and maximizing one's own position in some kind of genetically determined gender hierarchy so as to be able to reproduce with the "best" people. So according to that ideology everyone shoud be constantly looking to "trade up" so to speak. Older women are easily replaceable by y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.The debate in this thread reminds me of an old Star Trek episode: "It doesn't make any sense." "To expect sense from two mentalities of such extreme viewpoints, is not logical." "But their planet's dead. Does it matter now which one of them was right?" "Not to Lokai and Bele. All that matters to them is their hate." "Do you suppose that's all they ever had, sir?" "No… but that's all they have left." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:50 AM |
| -1 | Most men basically worship women."It doesn't make any sense." "To expect sense from two mentalities of such extreme viewpoints, is not logical." "But their planet's dead. Does it matter now which one of them was right?" "Not to Lokai and Bele. All that matters to them is their hate." "Do you suppose that's all they ever had, sir?" "No… but that's all they have left." Let This be Your Last Battlefield | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:46 AM |
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