BrickedHampster Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Modern Men would be better off self-evacuating their genitals to fictional women drawn by other men than playing the dating game	CMV	BrickedHampster	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in dating This is such a bad take that I don’t even understand what point you’re trying to get across. I don’t know anyone with a traumatic childhood that goes around justifying their relationship behavior because of it in the first place. People with traumatic or abusive childhood experiences probably have issues with mental health or disorders that make navigating life in general more difficult. Are you going to walk up to someone that was abused as a child and suffers from dissociative personality diso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 06:26 PM
5	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity “I like my dick the way it is.” I, too, hop out the shower, brush my teeth, and wrap up for the day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 11:14 PM
2	Young, feminine men have much more success compared with young, masculine men. No, good looking people are good looking. Cillian Murphy: Good looking/feminine Tom Hardy: Good looking/masculine Marlon Brando: Good looking/mixed Really, Brando was the most attractive to the most people due to not swinging to hard in either direction in A Streetcar Named Desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 06:25 AM
3	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? I don’t know, I’m going to go out on a limb and say that just about everybody can survive off sex twice a week. If you’re with someone that can only get off from some intense and, frankly, weird shit, that sucks, but there are bigger problems in relationships IMO, as a dude with a high sex drive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 07:44 PM
2	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Can’t see it, I’m only picturing Ron Weasley and Jake Gyllenhaal in Nightcrawler, but Ron Weasley is a loveable dweeb and Louis Bloom is the kind of sociopath that could still get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:32 PM
3	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Women=more functioning and yet we’d be fine if there was only 1/4 of the men on the planet left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:51 PM
5	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? “A certain weasley face.” The fuck? I have my own personal rule of thumb similar to your last point that this comment fits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 05:06 AM
1	Women often misinterpret what we men really want, they confuse us with the bad boys they like. Alright, so in practical terms, I can watch porn of anything imaginable and jerk myself off better than most women give head. Men have become proficient at this and we’re improving every day, hence the sex doll memes yesterday, VR porn, etc. And post nut clarity is real, so barring people with porn addiction, it solves any problem you’re talking about. Coming from someone who’s been entrenched in MGTOW shit for like 9 or 10 years, your argument doesn’t make any sense unless you’re trying to spew…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 03:14 PM
16	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. Some of the negative reactions in these replies is kind of proving the comic’s point. Being shamed for fucking an inanimate object in the privacy of your own home is definitely giving me “only when men do it” vibes. Also, some of these comments are missing the point entirely. A maid/sex robot checks more boxes for fulfilling common male needs than the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 06:57 PM
1	It's too over now, boyos. Take the fingerpill. Ahabrina out here trying to get the Moby Chad	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:33 PM
1	Ladies, would you swipe right? The aggravated assault one liner got me	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:29 PM
5	This sub in every single discussion about this topic I’m guessing most of them are actually 25-40yo white collar professionals who went overseas for work and ended up locking down an asian/getting married. Not an actual bro or an old sugar daddy. And most of these guys probably didn’t do it purely for vagina or traditional marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 09:23 PM
1	Feet enjoyer Like giving someone a face noogie with a cephalopod	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 12:46 AM
6	How dating should be done What the fuck is going on in this sub right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:04 PM
1	A solution for men under 5'7 and those taller who can't get laid I almost spit my beer out when I read that. Unfortunately, the vast majority of men would not/do not pass so both becoming a femboy or trying to fuck femboys is not the answer for straight men. Or men who . . . decide to be femboys . . . . If your post just said “go gay” that’d be much more reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:45 PM
1	Dummy thick. Discuss the superiority of thick women here OP, this is called obesity with fat distribution like Squidward when he ate all the Krabby Patties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:15 PM
1	I am slowly starting to despise Andrew Tate As someone who always just enjoyed the sound bites and ridiculous character he plays, I can’t say I hate the guy and I’d be interested to see how strictly or loosely the “sex trafficking” charges are being used against him. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was running a shady, sketchy business with women who basically depended on them for money, but I also can’t imagine he had a motel turned into a rundown e-brothel or something with rooms lined up for cam girls to use in between hitting lines of c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 06:05 PM
1	Hookup Culture and N-Counts The 1 in 99 chance that I got my ex pregnant every time we had sex was a chance we were both willing to take. If you gave me a gun and told me there’s a 1 in 99 chance that it goes off when I pull the trigger against my head but there’s $10,000,000 on the other side I’d think real hard about doing it, even though I’m fine financially. Plus, I have to assume that by busting multiple nuts a week my potency is also reduced, so 99% IUD plus my weakened seed sounds like a completely reasonable approa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 06:57 PM
10	Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangers Yeah, I’ve only ever gotten my heart broken by women I’ve dated, so now I never even meet’em in the first place!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:06 PM
3	I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness. My actual opinion is that no woman would actually be disappointed if you waved a magic wand on their boyfriend/husband and made him more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 06:55 PM
1	I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness. No. Women want to marry a man that looks like Brad Pitt, is super introspective, is a rich workhorse that somehow has time for her and the family and fucks like Don Juan. Men typically want tits or ass with a beautiful face and agreeable demeanor. And unfortunately a lot of men would be fine in the bedroom doing things prison style with minimal talking. And then there’s real life and we all mingle amongst each other and figure things out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 06:41 PM
6	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards It had nothing to do with women literally wanting to date Ryan Gosling or Tom Hardy, which is why I said they were examples, it was about women being attracted to either smooth, good looking dudes or very masculine looking ones. I could make the same generalization for men if I had to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 04:04 PM
28	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards I think it’s the case that there’s a wider variability of women’s bodies that are fetishized by men than the other way around. Big breasts, small breasts, huge ass/smaller, skinny girl/bigger, hair colors, ethnicity, etc. With men’s looks, not so much. You either appear strong and healthy or you don’t, and beyond that, I’m pretty sure 99% of women’s taste fall into one of two categories that I’ll illustrate with two celebrity examples: She either wants a Ryan Gosling or a Tom Hardy. That’s it. E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 03:12 PM
3	For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold? I don’t know if I can answer that question, but I can tell you what criticisms they have against each other I agree with, and this next point is something that seem murky with both sides: I don’t agree with people who staunchly advocate for marriage and people with my stance on things usually end up getting straw man’d from both sides as being pessimistic, depressive, aesthetically challenged, or just generally black pilled, as if they have any idea what I or other people who hold this belief ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 03:07 PM
1	What's your body count? M/Mid 20’s/N a little over 20 with two, 2 year long relationships, one in High School and one in College. Most of the sex was in College, three FWB’s since then. I’ve declined as many women as I’ve been shot down by, and a couple just didn’t seem like they were worth the effort to build enough trust to bang without worrying about STD’s. I’ve thought about trying to get back out there this spring but it just doesn’t seem like it’s worth the time. Plus alcohol costs a disproportionate amount of mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 07:22 PM
2	STOP Cold Approaching How is a cold approach ending in a costly date for you? Also, who said people aren’t just doing both?	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/22 09:48 PM
8	STOP Cold Approaching Nah, you’re describing the most awkward cold approaches possible, wherein you walk up to them like an alien and try to immediately butt blast them with some bullshit conversation. A cold approach isn’t a surprise attack awkward engagement like in Youtube videos from 8 years ago. Let me break it down more actually. If it is that bold you just say hey, hello, or what’s up, and then immediately read her reaction and decide to walk away or not. Shit, if you want, at a bar, you can read the rejection…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/22 09:08 PM
5	Women are much, much more socially influenced by rules/trends/regulations than men It’s always been a strange mix of men who have never had sex or only one long term partner versus men who have had many partners all thrown into the melting pot that is the manosphere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 04:44 PM
1	I always cringe when people discredit evo psych by saying we’re in control of our instincts Bottlenecks in genetic diversity throughout history. I don’t know what keywords to use to find the research on it in ancient humans. Edit: lol the guy below me already linked an article about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 10:03 AM
2	Why are women more sociable than men on average? People are much more sociable with women than most men. It’s the Halo effect. A lot of men get it too, but on average most people, male and female, find most women more attractive than most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 01:57 AM
26	Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women. An average man would probably be happy sticking his dick in a microwaved bag of gummy worms if I drew tits on it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 11:13 AM
17	please help me explain to my friend I hate to say it but she’ll figure it out after enough failures	/r/MensRights	11/12/22 02:55 AM
1	How are you all feeling about passport bros If they’re tired of the western scenery (literally) or it’s for a fun time, I can understand. If you’re talking about guys trying to wife up a young woman in Thailand or Brazil, I don’t get it. Maybe places like Japan and South Korea are different, but South American women seem ready to ditch men at the same rate as American/Canadian/European women.	/r/MensRights	10/12/22 09:10 AM
1	Study: Short men have higher sex frequency This study and post is a massive nothing burger and it feels like OP is just trying to goad the roaches in the wall (misogynists, doomers, etc.) And then posts another study basically claiming the desire to be tall manifests sociopathy what the fuck is this garbage If there’s one thing I hate within all these communities, it’s people digging up shitty studies. One of the worst parts of the MGTOW community was someone digging up a “women bad” study and extrapolating an entire manifesto to make a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 06:35 PM
2	cmv, people who don't sleep around and rack up ncounts are missing out. Nice, one of the friends/girls I hooked up with was into that and we ended up having great sex, not because I let her spit in my face or slap the fuck out of me but what we both wanted was really straightforward. Tinder hook ups are way worse, even if it’s obvious you both just want to bang.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 07:42 AM
5	cmv, people who don't sleep around and rack up ncounts are missing out. Hook-up culture doesn’t facilitate good sex. Using a condom for a lot of men makes sex less pleasurable than masturbating and I don’t think anyone plans on showing up to a tinder date with STD testing papers from a walk-in clinic. My best sex was my first time with girlfriends, post-breakup sex, and hook ups with close friends where we both knew there was no risk of an STD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 07:25 AM
5	cmv, people who don't sleep around and rack up ncounts are missing out. My ex girlfriend had a friend who had been dating a guy for 2 or 3 years while her and I were together. The friend had genital herpes and told her boyfriend she was on her period anytime she had a break out. Fucking insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 07:22 AM
13	cmv, people who don't sleep around and rack up ncounts are missing out. STD’s have pretty serious consequences. You could fuck around with a few people and then meet the “right” person but if you have herpes or even a treatable disease it won’t matter if you can’t act on it. Plus the sex is usually pretty bad, even as a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 05:44 AM
2	Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual? I know one gay guy and one straight guy that are horn dogs and seem to be doing fine. The straight guy bounces between relationships and hooks up with random girls in between those, the gay guy just seems to have a lot of FWB. I dated a girl for a few weeks that was a complete nympho with an extreme Bipolar disorder who’s life seemed like it was falling apart every other day. She lost her V card behind a building at like 19 or 20 with a random Tinder guy then racked up a dozen plus lays in like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:28 AM
1	What's the problem non-MRMs and/or anti-MRMs have with gym and physical exercising? Really leaning into the insecurity, bro	/r/MensRights	06/12/22 11:31 PM
1	What's the problem non-MRMs and/or anti-MRMs have with gym and physical exercising? Bodybuilding culture is steeped in narcissism, insecurity, and broadly, homosexuality, even if the vast majority of bodybuilders aren’t gay. It’s the bodybuilding culture specifically that tends to rub people the wrong way, not just lifting weights or exercising.	/r/MensRights	06/12/22 04:40 PM
1	Who are the men who consistently date attractive women? Guys who are working off the same playbook as Stacy are the most common and then there’s outliers; like guys with the Boomhauer approach or dudes with a catch (musician, super jacked, badass job or hobby). But normally it’s this: Stacy and Chad both come from an upper middle class or wealthy family, are well socialized, played a sport in high school and/or college, didn’t struggle with school and finished college without a hitch. Plus they’re both conventionally attractive. Maybe not pure 8/10+ …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 03:38 PM
52	A principal at a local school committed suicide yesterday for a possible false domestic violence claim. Last fb post here This is the weirdest crossover I’ve ever seen between subreddits I follow, read a first hand account of the death last night with no context. https://www.reddit.com/r/PKA/comments/zc3l9t/just_witness_a_suicide/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf	/r/MensRights	05/12/22 06:40 AM
26	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? In my experience a woman like the one pictured is dating a guy who’s more attractive than she is. Most of the chubby but well put together women I know have boyfriends who are healthier than them as far as weight goes. If a woman’s fat distribution favors legs, ass, or breasts she falls into common fetish territory and can get pretty heavy while pulling very attractive men, especially if she still has good facial aesthetics. At one point my ex was pushing 200lbs but most of it was in her boobs a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:31 PM
1	I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting women Any beginner barbell program that has you starting light and adding 5-10lbs on the squat/bench/Deadlift almost every workout. StartingStrength and StrongLifts get the job done, but I’d recommend the free programs Greg Nuckols has over at StrongerByScience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:17 PM
19	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I don’t think so. I think most of the bitter people on here, men and women, really have had shitty experiences. Personally, I fucking loved dating around. I didn’t like the sex and I hated my LTR’s, but dating around and meeting new people was a good time on Tinder and in college. It’s probably a defining time in my life, more than the social experiences I had in high school, as far as getting to know a ton of strangers and seeing how people really operate. Different strokes for different folks.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:43 AM
4	N-Count Survey of the USA (2021) Results Yes, I’m saying this particular survey is useless, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 11:05 PM
6	N-Count Survey of the USA (2021) Results That study represents 0.0009% of the US population and averages out to about 73 people per state (out of 42) that participated. I’d expect a study focused on a single major city to have more participants than that. I’m going to go out on a limb and say this survey is basically useless. This data also shows that people in Wisconsin have more sex than Floridians and people in Oregon have more sex than people in Ohio. That’s ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 10:54 PM
4	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. So you’re saying that because you’re a mod, your special privilege lets you ignore the subreddit’s rules for this post, in this “special case” that you already admitted breaks the rule (I know I’m talking in circles here) . . . and that another mod removed the post because it violated the rules, you then approved it because it’s about yourself, despite breaking the rules, as well as being posted by someone who you know breaks the subreddit’s rules by blocking people . . . How does any of this so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 09:31 PM
2	Men who lack ambition. What can they do to find a life partner? There’s a massive difference between climbing the socioeconomic ladder and being a loser. For one, what does that mean? You could find a guy steadily working and making 60-80k a year comfortably in his 30’s with a home, nice car, and find a ton of people on the internet or on dating apps who look at that guy and say “he’s not ambitious.” I might not necessarily call that guy “ambitious” either, but that certainly doesn’t make him a loser or mean it’s hard to date or find women. The way things ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 07:03 PM
0	What are your thoughts on "strong" women? Opinionated - probably not. I’m highly disagreeable and I find myself arguing with a lot of outspoken and opinionated people about the finer details and minutiae of their beliefs. A decisive woman, on the other hand, sounds great. Hardworking? Sounds good, I think everybody likes hardworking people. Career-oriented? No. I could get along with a woman that loves her job and regularly puts in 50+ hours a week but not a woman with a demanding corporate job, at say, a marketing firm or a law firm, r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 06:14 PM
9	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. It’s not productive to most conversations, just like OP’s post; the two quotes don’t even contradict each other and the OP is just digging through the replies fishing for an excuse to call people in this subreddit hypocrites. Whether or not it falls under witch hunting, harassment, or hurts people’s feelings isn’t my point. People playing games like this skews the signal-to-noise ratio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 05:39 PM
6	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. It sets a bad precedent. In a subreddit that discourages downvoting, you’re going allow a post that targets a specific user and quotes their comment history? And yes, I know it’s directed at you. I don’t even think people should be allowed to pull up and quote users comment history in the replies if it’s totally unrelated to the argument or discussion topic, let alone make stand-alone post for personal attacks or to try to prove that someone’s a hypocrite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:57 PM
9	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. The redditor is pointing out that women who signal that hard are almost always hypocrites who already went through a hook up phase or got pumped and dumped a couple times by other men on dating apps. It doesn’t contradict the previous statement whatsoever, he or she is just implying that the kind of woman in the second quote is full of shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:43 PM
1	Different Sexual Expectations For F-Buddies/FWB and Actual Relationships The nest egg and the fuck buddy are not always the same man (or woman). I can say for certain that a woman I would only want to have sex with once or twice is not the same as the woman I would want to casually date and neither are the woman I would consider living with, but there’s some overlap between the second two. Women work the same way, more or less, even if they won’t readily admit it like men will. That said, once a man gets hooked on a woman in an LTR she might as well be in either cate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 03:40 AM
1	CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 3: Red Pilled Men Are Overly Concerned With Getting Laid Point by point: 1: Men have a much higher sex drive. Women on Testosterone have a much higher sex drive. It’s just a fact that men want to fuck and women ARE the gatekeepers for sex. Outside of rape, nobody is fucking anyone unless the woman consents, so the whole premise is bullshit. I got a lot of pussy as an 8/10 hooking up with 6’s or 7’s who wanted to bang me in my early 20’s. I didn’t lie to anyone or play touch and go with the prospects of a relationship. They just wanted to bang me and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 12:01 PM
2	I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting women The bench volume is only 3-6 sets a week and the standard 5th lift to add to the program is the power clean. If I went back in time as a beginner I wouldn’t want myself to do that if the goal is just to add as much strength and mass as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 07:26 PM
22	I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting women Hitting the gym absolutely benefits most men in terms of attraction, but level of muscle mass needed to boost your general attraction is overrated. You don’t fit the bill as far as guys who need that advice. I don’t enjoy endorsing Starting Strength (the program), but the 3-6 months of beginner gains from a program like that is enough to bring any man up to snuff at a healthy body weight. It only gets ridiculous when people start pimping out a bodybuilder lifestyle or measurements. Looking gener…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 07:54 PM
2	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? The timberlands do all the work, the insoles do maybe 1/2 inch on top of 1-2 inches from the boots. I guess it depends if you’re trying to mog women at the bar. All I know is that worn out vans seem to get the same tail because women are about eye level to my nose, if high heels aren’t in the equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:52 PM
2	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? No they aren’t. Heels are 1-3 inches plus the shoe base. That’s enough to make a dude in sandals look like a midget at the club but not enough to make average men look like manlets. The Tim’s I usually go to clubs in put me around 5ft11 and I’ve never felt like a midget in the dance floor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:47 PM
5	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? Uhm, okay. Well, anyone with their heel elevated walks a certain way. So if you walk with insoles that elevate your heel the same way that high-heeled shoes do for women you will walk the same way as far as your bone structure dictates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:42 PM
15	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? I have insoles for my work boots. I also have insoles that would jack me above 6 feet tall (I’m 5ft9). They are awkward as fuck. They’re more useful for getting in and out of attics off a ladder than getting women at bars. If you use them like high heels you will walk like a woman in high heels. A man can get his height up by 2 inches at the most without looking like a weirdo using boots+insoles. Might as well just wear the boots IMO and not fuck with insoles outside of comfort reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:33 PM
1	Did “common interests/hobbies” ever work for you? Depends on the people. A lot of the time, overlap between my ex’s interests and my hobbies made me feel more alienated in my relationship. That said, my hobbies are really niche but my taste is really broad. I can hold a conversation about movies with just about anyone and any film, but my own music performance can be a total dead end for conversation and never helped cultivate a relationship outside of getting laid “by a musician.” Most people don’t seem to understand the difference between bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 05:47 PM
1	Can youmake a case for or against promiscuity? Depends if the person wants to get married and have children. Promiscuity becomes sort of a hobby if you’re actively trying to fuck attractive people as a man. You have to be in shape, groom well, and put on a façade 24/7 to attract women in the middle of the bell curve consistently to be a manwhore. The women I’ve known personally who engage in that seem to be complete train wrecks emotionally and psychologically. One girl I know, who has the most intense case of BPD that I (or most people who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:19 PM
2	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? It’s hard to describe. As a man, it wasn’t really sexually satisfying but I had a good time. I did the majority of my hooking up in college, completely sober using Tinder as a freshmen and sophomore. STD’s were always on my mind, hence not being sexually satisfied. I tried to make it as intimate as possible for the girls but not for myself, and oral sex was absolutely off the table on both ends unless I was with a chick that just liked to suck dick. I got vaccinated for HPV but the information o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:03 PM
2	N-count and F-count Absolutely. I’m postured against MRA’s because the bunch of them seem to be selling a traditionalist view. Conservatives want to manifest their idealized version of the past and liberals want to manifest their idealized version of the future. A charitable self-assessment is that I’m a centrist because I’m just looking at the blocks for the puzzle that fit right now, but the puzzle is always changing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 09:34 AM
2	One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationship Marriage blurs the issue. If you’re dating someone long term becoming a fat fuck will destroy the relationship, male or female. Getting fat in the marriage will cause problems as well, but by then you’re crossing your fingers that your partner is down with some love handles and maybe by then the two of you have just become Netflix binge watchers and pizza lovers. Any substantial change to your appearance or lifestyle adds stress to most relationships. If I’m lifting weights religiously for 5 wee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 09:13 AM
1	N-count and F-count Yeah, it’s a really fun topic. I ejaculated in my two ex girlfriends enough to emotionally disturb whoever they’re dating now, add into that our age during the relationship and it would emotionally cripple me in their position if I wanted a marriage and children. Delete a traditionalist disposition and none of it matters. That said, knowing a person, male or female, has had 2 or 3+ intimate partners in an LTR and then locking that shit in requires a constitution I don’t possess, as a man who fit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 09:02 AM
3	One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationship One of the best ways to get dumped in a heartbeat as a man is to get fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 07:53 AM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls In another post I said it might be to men’s benefit to date down as far as physical attraction goes and I think that’s what we’re seeing. I’ve been noticing this since I hit the bar scene (US & Canada) and heard similar thoughts elsewhere (Germany). I think it’s especially prominent with people ages 25-35, trying to find an LTR for marriage and children after missing the opportunity in High School or College. Interestingly, a few “popular” girls I knew in High School are starting to fit this bil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 05:39 AM
2	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women It’s more important for men AND women than height, disproportionately skewed in importance for women as far as data goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:58 PM
2	Would you encourage men to ''date down''? As far as physical attraction goes, it might be a positive, but I wouldn’t encourage men to date women that they find unattractive. Intentionally dating a poor woman is a terrible idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:18 PM
1	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating And an American or Canadian moving somewhere like Spain, France, or Germany would probably be even more fucked than staying in his native country in terms of dating. This is complete nonsense. In any population there's there's going to a group of girls that like Anglo culture, and they'll be all over a moderately attractive American/Canadian, especially if they can speak the language. Yeah, sure, for all the right reasons bud. Not to mention Spain, France, and Germany have much lower obesity rat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 07:14 AM
2	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating They look like a pretty even match to me. They both look like 6 or 7 out of 10’s and if you held a gun to my head I’d guess she’s older than he is and was probably previously married if they met within the past 3 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 09:27 PM
5	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating That’s one hell of a take. This might work for a Western European guy in an Asian country because the language difference and cultural barrier is so large. This would absolutely not help an American moving to a European country or a South American country unless he was just leveraging his wealth to snag a poor woman in Latin America or Eastern Europe. And an American or Canadian moving somewhere like Spain, France, or Germany would probably be even more fucked than staying in his native country …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 08:45 PM
1	Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't? My LTR’s were both with women gifted in the chest department but I couldn’t care less about how big or small a woman’s breasts are compared to the rest of the package. I think one of them was actually bummed out that I wasn’t a boob guy because she knew she had like top 1% tits, big and gravity defying. Most of the women I’ve been with have been more concerned about keeping their downstairs shaved than I was. That said, I also don’t want to go surveying the Amazon either. The manic pixie girl an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 08:29 PM
5	A man’s lack of success with women is no one’s fault but his own. Looks absolutely do most of the hard work unless you’re a seriously fucked up or obnoxious person. Being good looking completely overrides half the anxiety of meeting or talking to a new person because you’re already getting cues that they’re attracted to you, even if they don’t want to date or hook up. The entire world is a much friendlier place, which gives you more opportunities to meet and interact with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 04:16 PM
1	Debating equality of the sexes with a female friend, looking for advice. As much as I’ve heard women complain about anal I’d bet men are better at that sport, too.	/r/MensRights	12/11/22 10:53 AM
2	How easy/hard is it for you, in your opinion, to 'get'* casual sex? 20’s, male. I’m surrounded by college towns so if I went out of my way to drive to one on Friday and Saturday, then went to a bar, club, or venue that a lot of college girls go to I’d say there’s probably a 1 in 4 chance I get laid that weekend. If I went out on a holiday like New Year’s, Saint Patrick’s or during some of the popular local events in my city I would bet money I could get laid if I really wanted to, which means my age range goes up to around 35. Tinder would be much harder. I’d ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 11:29 AM
0	"'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout" If you mean giving you an excuse to outline the tradcon manifesto that’s been floating around MRA’s for years, yes.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 04:56 AM
-5	"'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout" I take offense to the idea that the desire for a nuclear family is the only thing keeping people from becoming nihilists.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 03:39 AM
3	"'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout" Well, there’s the abstract ideas within MGTOW and there’s the act of abstaining from pursuing marriage and children. I’ve mentioned a couple times here on Reddit that MGTOW is a very vague term. Abstaining from marriage and children doesn’t have anything to do with someone’s political beliefs as far as I can tell within those circles. A lot of people who are associated with MGTOW do not support the draft. Non-compulsory military service seems to be a different story. If someone invaded the Unite…	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 03:27 AM
-4	"'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout" I must have forgot that traditional Christian women were the only commodity of value in the United States. Jefferson’s famous line about “life, liberty, and the pursuit of pussy” must have slipped my mind.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 03:03 AM
0	"'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout" “These are men who would refuse to hold a rifle and fight for their nations - after all, there's nothing they view as worth protection.” Classic tradcon ad hominem. Reminds me of MGTOW constantly being accused of being either incels or hedonists.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 01:51 AM
8	The most attractive apparent fat mass for female bodies was significantly lower than the healthiest appearing fat mass (and was lower than the physiologically healthy range), with no significant difference for muscle mass. I don’t know if I would call that a perfect study	/r/BlackPillScience	09/11/22 08:43 AM
1	Promiscuity has little to do with looks in both men and women. Normal people can hold a conversation with strangers. Sorry to burst your bubble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 11:29 PM
1	Promiscuity has little to do with looks in both men and women. I wouldn’t say that talking to people outside a bar requires that much charisma or social intelligence. Making the moves to try to bang them also doesn’t bring much consequence if you’re a homeless 45 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:37 PM
1	Most of the OGs of PUA are more blue pill than red pill So what was the golden age (specific years) and who were the mouth pieces	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:22 PM
1	Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking? It seems to depend on the female (I’m a heterosexual male). There’s tons of information and studies on individuals facial traits in regards to sexual and general attraction online. My front profile is mildly androgynous (think Cillian Murphy) and I was told I’m good looking/beautiful by men and women when I was 18-22. Because my features come together in a sort of androgynous look, the type of women I had success with on Tinder seemed to trend with my hairstyle. Buzzcut was a completely differen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 06:46 PM
3	Q4W Is there anything you like about men? “Challenge my view.” It’s the flair mods stamp on posts that start arguments/debates. It seems to make up about 90% of the posts on here anyone bothers to comment on (not shocking considering the name of the subreddit). A lot of them are usually based off a straw man or broad generalization. Most of the time the OP tries to move the goal post when they argue with people in the replies. This is a great subreddit but the actual posts are a shit show a lot of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 05:30 PM
2	Something akin to „ok boomer“ but for women degrading men In my experience, okay boomer applies to men and women. Edit: I don’t know if you’re objecting to my unilateral approach to calling people cunts or if you’re implying that there’s an asymmetry in my approach.	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 06:35 AM
1	Something akin to „ok boomer“ but for women degrading men Exactly why I said OP can call any woman (or man for that matter) a cunt then exit stage right. This particular phrase or comparable phrase directed at women specifically would likely invoke such a response from myself. Feminist: Fuck men OP: Okay, vaginal-boomer. Me: Fuck the both of you cunts, goodbye.	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 06:30 AM
17	Something akin to „ok boomer“ but for women degrading men This post smells like bullshit. As far as your own life is concerned, you could call any woman a cunt or a dumb bitch then walk away to exit any conversation if that’s your goal; not my recommendation. Edit: I’m pretty critical of actual boomer political action, but “Okay, boomer” is just a smarmy shithead response to people aged 50-80 right now. Overall, I recommend you purge that out of your vocabulary and I promise that any attempt to extend that condescending language towards women won’t wor…	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 06:03 AM
1	Q4W Is there anything you like about men? The question is equally to blame. It infers a personal testament. A lot of the CMV posts on here are stated in a way to confuscate personal experience with general and moral views on gender and sexual relationships to the benefit of the poster’s argument or point. Edit: not implying any bad intentions on the OP in this particular post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 05:27 AM
8	Q4M: Is there anything you like about women? I haven’t gotten that sentiment from people in this subreddit. I disagree with the premise, but to answer the question; I like or dislike women on personal basis no more or less than men. If I had been keeping track of positive peer and work relationships over my life I’d say I probably have a positive trend towards women overall. Close friends are 4 men to 1 woman, most of whom I’ve known since childhood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 03:09 AM
10	A lot of guys here confuse "Chad" for "The guy who's peaking in life right now with no future plans" A lot of people who are attractive, above average intelligence, and have benefited from their family’s economic situation get into a scenario that I’ll refer to as “escape velocity”. They have reaped the social and economic benefits of their upbringing to the point that they can continually succeed in the sexual and financial situations barring any major failures due to themselves or the outside world. This is who “chad” is. Chad is not a villain or apex-sex demon-Greek life business major like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 02:41 AM
34	Why are books so lowkey sexist against men? Women and men are both written better in many of the classics.	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 01:34 AM
2	CMV: The dating/relationship market is not a woman’s market, it is actually 50/50z No, if you consider marriage an aircraft then the majority of women are the only one in the relationship with a reliable ejection button if it starts to crash. Women control the dating market and courts trend towards favoring more than men them in most legal scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 12:16 AM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women The manipulative use of statistics as a basis for this argument is giving me a headache. Someone else already explained how redundant that number is. Anyway, there’s been dozens and dozens of figures, graphs, and studies that have come out in the past 8 years about dating since online dating became mainstream. People have had various reactions to that information, RP communities being one of them, which is centered around maximizing SMV to leverage your relationships with women (and broader soci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:14 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women RP is largely centered around cultivating what the man considers an ideal or favorable relationship with women. MGTOW does not inherently have anything to do with projecting fantasies or promoting black pill or incel-related ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:57 PM
0	Are women expected to give up part of their life when becoming a wife/mother? Well, then I don’t see what bearing her highly dysfunctional relationship has in regards to male and female relationships in general or how it provides a basis for conversation on the idea of whether or not women should be full time homemakers. Edit: It’s like if I linked a post on r/confessions wherein someone confesses that their sibling tortures animals and then I used that post as a jumping point for a conversation about the morality of owning pets in general.	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 08:47 PM
-1	Are women expected to give up part of their life when becoming a wife/mother? I don’t have a lot of faith in the OP. How are they getting married in two weeks without having ever had a talk about raising children? Are they both idiots? Getting married at 30 & 32 . . . never got into any specifics about raising children before . . . something’s fishy. But to answer this question, it often works out better for both parents in practical terms if the mother shifts responsibilities towards the children. As someone else said, the pregnancy itself already cuts into her employmen…	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 08:18 PM
9	Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag? If she doesn’t have any strong active hobbies or interests. That’s practically a red flag for me at this point. Ended up being a big issue with my last LTR. She didn’t really have much going on besides going to work and school. Kind of felt like dating a robot. She bounced around a few interests while we were dating and I wouldn’t be surprised if she still is to this day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:21 PM
2	RP Men should just drop the "No single mothers" , "no promiscuous women" rule. Nobody wants single moms unless they already have their own children from a failed relationship. I wouldn’t want an LTR with one on my worst day. As for whores - nobody, male or female, wants to date a whore unless they’re a 10/10 in the eye of the beholder. As for your summary, none of the stats do women any favors. The “stats” are what paint the majority of relationships and women to look like an economic and emotional dead end. The stats are what show the stark difference in standards for mat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:45 PM
1	My sister thinks I'm a pedo because a random girl said so. A 15 year old boy retelling accusations (what people will interpret as rumors) isn’t getting a restraining order against jack shit.	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 08:39 AM
2	My sister thinks I'm a pedo because a random girl said so. Be a 15 year old, live like a 15 year old. Tell your sister and that girl to fuck off and flip’em the bird. Secondly, nobody in this subreddit knows details about you or your situation socially or interpersonally with your family. Lastly (but not really), I’ll tell you this. If you’re getting good grades and you’re actively involved in an extracurricular that you’re good at, keep it up. You can tell people to fuck off and leave you alone until you become an adult. Working a job comes third after…	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 08:35 AM
20	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? The only thing that annoys me to this day is all the bullshit messaging in Disney and Hollywood movies about love and romance. One relatively new trope that annoys me with modern films in particular, is that the chad has some massive character flaw that makes the girl go for the average or loser guy. Real women would probably ignore that trait outside of extreme or evil shit, plus most chads are no different than average or below average men. They just won the genetic and/or socioeconomic lotter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:10 PM
1	Anyone tired of movies where 4’2” tall women massacre 42 military trained men? There are a lot of female comic book characters that are supposed to look strong and she’s one of them. Starfire, Hawkgirl, and Powergirl also come to mind.	/r/MensRights	04/11/22 02:21 AM
1	Anyone tired of movies where 4’2” tall women massacre 42 military trained men? I don’t know about that, but having Wonder Woman played by Miss Israel was one of the worst casting decisions I’ve ever seen. Same with Brie Larson as Captain Marvel.	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 10:35 PM
2	The principles of the RP make sense to me, but the content creators/community are ruining everything I made a comment yesterday about how MGTOW collapsed on top of itself around 2015/early 2016. The issue with MGTOW is that the values were so vague that they could fit any narrative and get co-opted by any group or subculture that agrees with some of the very basic ideas. It got co-opted by traditionalist conservatives, nationalists, race-realists, and anarcho-libertarian types plus people who seem to outright hate women. “The Red Pill” is the exact same thing, and it covers topics that people w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 07:20 AM
6	Hypergamy is making men marry women even without love, and that is OK I believe OP is insinuating that men settle because they can’t find proportionally attractive and/or valuable women, or ones that they actually have chemistry with due to the dating game being stacked so high against them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 05:38 AM
2	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Most of the younger people I work(ed) with sit on their phones all day even if they aren’t socially debilitated. It’s annoying to have to remind them to do their job because they aren’t lazy, they just aren’t paying attention. Otherwise, I don’t think it’s necessarily becoming much more common as much as it’s become socially acceptable. Most of the geekier kids I worked with still had girlfriends or sexual experiences in high school from what they’ve told me and have girlfriends currently (guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 05:46 PM
1	The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 04:39 PM
1	How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex? “If for example a girl strips off then rolls over and goes to sleep…” Classic. The ol’ pie in the windowsill trick. Oldest one in the book. I actually did have two girls do that to me on Tinder dates in college- nothing but a T-shirt and thong while we watched tv in her bed then basically “okay I’m going to sleep”. The first girl literally stripped in front of me and definitely wanted to have sex, which I did NOT reciprocate. She gave me crazy vibes and in fact ended up being seemingly psychotic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 02:06 AM
1	Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the Table On a distantly related note, The Redpill schtick was the best thing that ever happened to MGTOW because it killed the term after it had been co-opted by traditionalists, PUA’s, and men who were just bitter at women. The abstract concept of MGTOW is a completely healthy and sound idea that doesn’t need to be predicated on anger or resentment towards women, the dating market, or gender asymmetries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:28 PM
9	Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the Table There is female and male nature (biological inclinations), with outliers within both genders, and negative and positives to the traits that we associate with the genders. I don’t know how that sounds taboo whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:09 PM
1	Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the Table Good job, you lost me as soon as you said “I’ve come to the conclusion most men are mediocre”. The idea is that men want to know what women bring to the table because they don’t want to put in a disproportionate amount of time and resources into the relationship compared to her. Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels have even gone so far as to tell men that if they’re low achievers they won’t have good luck with women and shouldn’t be resentful because there’s a good chance the women they want are just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:05 PM
1	Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater? I’ve never particularly enjoyed hanging out with my friends’ girlfriends or wives. My last girlfriend had one couple we would hang out with from time to time but I wouldn’t say they were my friends, they were her friends. And I’m not saying I’m rude or have an awkward relationship with any of these people, but it’s never crossed my mind that their relationship is really any of my business	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 07:11 AM
1	Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater? Tell my SO to fuck off. I would’ve avoided being in the company of my friend’s partner anyway to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 10:40 PM