BridgeToTheMountains Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off?		BridgeToTheMountains	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 08:36 AM
3	Asking out a girl who just told me she was single?		BridgeToTheMountains	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 01:39 AM

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3	Asking out a girl who just told me she was single? I slept with two separate women this weekend, and have two other dates this week. So enough on deck, from the pump n dump perspective. To be totally honest with you and myself, this one (said in a slightly blue pill voice ;) ) has more going for her than being hot, flirty and DTF.	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 02:27 AM
2	Asking out a girl who just told me she was single? I likely won't see her unless I set up plans - so that organic oppty is low probability. Given that, would you say I should set up a time to hang out in a platonic manner, and then escalate when we hang? Or ask her on a date the next time I see her?	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 01:47 AM
3	Am I deluding myself by living at home? Socially well off - surrounded by family Not the same as social structure you'll develop with peers. Unless grandma wants to come rip shots at the bar on Friday nights with you. Make sure you develop a strong social circle outside of your family too. I am currently an undergraduate.....savings... This trumps the other stuff. Finish school, do well in school, get a good job, and then get your own apartment. In the meantime, have fun with your peers and just be open about your housing if it comes …	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 05:08 PM
1	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? She's not that affectionate because she’s not that type of person / I’m not the right person to make her tingle. Yep, it might be that - the chemistry is just wrong.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 05:01 PM
1	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? Your LTR is NOT your best friend. I agree with you it's better if it's not. It's also hard for me to remember/put that into practice. Thank you.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 04:12 PM
1	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? Can you elaborate more on the "not earning it"? (Not necessarily disagreeing, but just curious what that means in terms of actionable advice).	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 04:02 PM
1	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? Yep - that's where I'm at. I've tried to induce dread, but I've largely been unsuccessful. Two examples to illustrate my point: 1. I had an old flame hit me up because she was in town for the weekend - and in not a subtle way. Full on pussy shot, and a detailed description of what she wanted to do to me. My messages can be seen from my lock screen - current LTR saw it, and calmly asked if I was cheating - I explained it was an old hook up, from before her. I got a "Oh, okay. No worries." from he…	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 04:01 PM
1	Maybe it's time for a long term relationship. I'm going to echo this from above: "The thing you need to understand is that a woman will not complete you." Once you have that 100% understood, and it's TRUE for you, then you'll be in the space for a healthy LTR. Without that, it's a compromise in your standards and hers.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 09:18 AM
2	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? Intuition usually is - cheers.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 09:10 AM
1	Salvaging an LTR by calling it off? Thanks for your perspective. The special bit is her skiing ability. I'm wrestling with the tradeoff on skiing vs affection. True about the women in Van... maybe I should live there for a while. Locals seem pretty friendly too.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 08:50 AM