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2

Means she could be preparing to massacre your forces once they get drunk during dinner
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:11 PM
6

For cowards lol
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:49 PM
28

I usually say something along the lines of: "You wanna cut off my leg and count the rings lol?" "Sounds like you have plans for me if you're already checking if I'm legal."
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:53 AM
5

True. Incels will incel regardless of the gender
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:11 PM
10

Ah, the ugly decoys. The best bet is to befriend them first before making obvious moves on the girl you actually like.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:55 AM
2

Then I would take her effort as a good sign. If she's in grad school and working I'd give her the benefit of the doubt regarding the texting
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:02 AM
1

How has she responded when you've asked her out?
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:31 PM
-2

Lol not quite 6 ft. I'm sure that helps a bit too
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:22 AM
11

I started getting compliments 2 months in and got to where I liked in about 6.
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:57 AM
165

Put on muscle. I always did decently with women, but muscles just eliminated all the work.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:55 AM
12

This is why it is morally wrong to commit to a girl until you've confirmed she's hotter than her sisters.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:06 PM
5

Most states have laws that allow for this. A high school senior isn't going to be sent to jail for banging his sophomore girlfriend. Most states anyway
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:13 PM
4

Relax lol. Men are fortunate in that they tend to do their best in dating in their mid to late 30s.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:34 AM
17

Boob men have no honor. Breasts are the product of lucky genetics A great ass takes hard work.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:11 AM
1

If there's a nice park or neighborhood nearby that's good to walk to while drinking. Heading to a book store or antique place is neat too
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:19 AM
2

Even if she's into you, this could ruin her career. She's probably not gonna go for it. Wait til the semester ends if you really want to try
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:51 AM
2

She could be genuine. Most guys are codependent and you having a life beyond her could be a breath of fresh air.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:30 PM
68

Literally no one is that busy lol. It becomes obvious you're playing games because you don't want to appear overly interested. Cancelling your own plans for her would be making her a priority. Sending a low-pressure text one time in a week is not that.
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:09 PM
10

Maybe, but attraction can definitely have an expiration date if one doesn't make their intentions clear early on.
/r/seduction21/04/21 10:38 AM
32

You can have ppp removed via laser. Might cost anywhere from 600 to a 1000 usd but if its affecting your mental health this much it might be worth it
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:45 PM
1

I would say something along the lines of "so we agree you like me. So why haven't you asked me out yet?"
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:17 AM
1

People who know they have limited options learn to settle lol.
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:50 PM
5

Girls often make comments like these when they perceive you as someone who can easily attract women. It's a good sign.
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:28 PM
22

Man, you guys are defeatists lol. Don't overthink it. The fact that she even responded is a good sign, and you can work with that. She only spoke to you for five minutes. Don't just jump to asking for the date in your first text if you don't actually know the girl. Build some comfort first then ask. She's giving you that opportunity. What did she actually say? ​ And future tip; If she's hot she has at least 5 guys she's texting, and most of the time she may ignore them if she isn't looking for o…
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:31 AM
190

Throw your phone out the bus window
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:32 PM
0

Both. Doesn't discount the truth of the matter though
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:15 AM
5

Makes sense. People are narcissists.
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:01 AM
2

Today, every one where they're quarantined with their basic ass boyfriends.
/r/seduction01/06/20 01:31 PM
0

Manipulation is just a tool. Nothing more. And every person uses it. It doesn't have to be used to "get one over on someone." It can be a simple as infant's crying to get attention. It's just a tool to get what one wants.
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:12 AM
2

Those people get a nice little dopamine boost from helping others. Manipulation doesnt have to mean one has negative intentions.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:41 PM
27

Every human interaction is a manipulation tactic. People who decry "manipulation" are using a particularly high level manipulation tactic.
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:26 AM
2

Lol what's more normal than not wanting to date the unattractive?
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:43 PM
9

Yeeeeeah ignore the energy mumbo jumbo. Attractive girls like guys who hang with attractive girls. You're pre-approved now, so the ones who see who you're hanging with now are having second thoughts about not pulling the trigger with you before.
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:02 AM
42

Quality of the sub has really gone down in recent years. Also a bunch of girls are home with nothing to do and are on the internet "helping" lol.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:10 PM
8

Dude, you can't have the mindset that just approaching someone to speak to them is a sign of desperation. That will color all your interactions.
/r/seduction28/03/20 06:58 PM
1

At the moment? If she wants to break quarantine to see you. At normal times? How readily she will follow your lead and do what you ask.
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:59 AM
1

The old info does still exist. I'd suggest looking back at some of the older info from the most upvoted posts the last few years.
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:54 PM
0

All that's really feasible is watching a movie at your or her place.
/r/seduction17/03/20 02:57 AM
7

Exactly! Man what happened to this sub. I'm damn lucky I'm at a point where I don't need its direction anymore.
/r/seduction17/03/20 02:50 AM
4

And here I thought that that "just be youself" shitpost was a sign of how this sub has declined lol. Different perspectives I suppose.
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:32 PM
5

You don't know how good anyone is until you meet them after 9 missed meals. Most people are self-interested but harmless when allowed.
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:31 PM
2

A bit dumb to do it with a guy you will be seeing again though.
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:15 AM
2

Tinder is entirely a numbers game.
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:36 PM
14

You aren't wrong. 9 times out of 10 it's better to meet a new girl rather than fix things with am old one, but a challenge every now and again can be good for a person's growth.
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:55 PM
2

It's the 21st century dude. There are plenty of good women who insist on paying for themselves, or at least switching up who pays every now and again. You're doing yourself a favor screening out any girls who expect you to pay for their stuff.
/r/seduction03/06/19 11:52 PM
-9

That there are no reasons to cheat. There are plenty of reasons to cheat, and people in happy relationships don't do it. If someone cheats on you, you weren't giving them something they needed.
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:38 PM
10

Easier than flat out rejecting a guy to his face. Some guys are weird and or dangerous so I can understand this. Also if you text too much too soon, you can come off too interested. If you take too long she may have forgotten you. Or she could be going through finals now and be too stressed to text back right away, and when she checks again it's been hours or days and it may feel awkward to reply after so long. There can be many reasons. Try not to take them personally. My go to is to agree to a…
/r/seduction08/05/19 09:44 PM
4

Narcissistic doesn't have to mean mean.
/r/seduction25/03/19 05:32 PM
1

Yes and yes.
/r/seduction09/03/19 02:47 AM
2

Just the opposite. Flirt with EVERYONE(where appropriate). You just have to refine your flirting.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:04 PM
1

Some girls do. Maybe OP is flirtatious by nature but he's doing it in an unintentionally awkward manner because he doesn't want to overtly pursue anything right now.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:30 PM
2

A similar strategy was made by Barney from How I Met Your Mother.
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:00 PM
3

What should he have said.
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:45 AM
3

Hey Barney!
/r/seduction01/04/18 10:59 AM
0

Lol the girls I regularly interact with already know to expect this kind of comeback from me. I would use this on a stranger too though. She brought it on herself.
/r/seduction11/02/18 12:30 PM
57

"Well yeah, I save the A material for the hot girls." Edit: Because I clearly need to emphasize the how's and why's of what you say are way more important than the actual words coming out of your mouth. Don't be butt-hurt or emotional. She makes a joke, I make a joke back.
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:08 AM
5

In order to prevent him from comparing himself to your ex-boyfriends, refrain from mentioning your ex-boyfriends lol. You may have to take the lead and literally grab his face and kiss him when the mood is right. Us guys can be super dumb. If he's the type to overthink a lull in the conversation, then try taking about things you know he has a lot to say about.
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:31 PM
5

Atleast you're self-aware. Now you can work on that.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:13 PM
5

How good of a friend to you was she while leading you on? Has she helped you meet other women? Can you really not get over her? If the answers to this aren't satisfactory, I say keep up focusing on you until such a time when you are truly over her.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:18 AM
4

Leave him alone. Shooting herbivores from thirty yards away is the only thing that gets his dick hard. Let him have this.
/r/becomeaman17/10/17 07:20 PM
13

Because its fun lol. Not everything has to have an end goal. Ideally, a guy would approach a girl after getting a postive response from this, but sometimes it's just fun to be the Han Solo in the room.
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:12 PM
3

Yeah, ignore that guy. You did the mature thing by being upfront with her from the get-go. Most girls of any experience would rather share a 10 than have a 5 all to themselves. Now, you have to be mature and tell her once again monogamy isn't for you.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:51 AM
2

Don't immediately jump to the worst conclusion. But yeah, next time offer to meet if she wants to get the full picture. I wouldn't have even sent a full dick pic. Could temporarily delete any social media you may have if you're really nervous.
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:26 PM
2

To save time, nowadays I only approach women who show signs they're interested i.e. lingering or recurring eye contact and a smile. Just give a guy you think is cute a nive smile and hopr he has the balls to approach.
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:17 AM
2

Excellent list. You have good taste
/r/seduction22/11/16 04:01 PM
1

At least she has a sense of humor about the whole thing. I'm sure she'll reply more often on the off chance that a guy may be a physically perfect human speciman.
/r/becomeaman28/08/16 10:59 PM
5

Upload your own snaps of you having an awesome life. Eventually, one day just ask if she wants to tag along one day. Don't wait long if you already know she likes you.
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:11 PM
1

Lol this was good. Now I feel like ignoring the kiss after dates just so I can send that "I'll be back in 2 minutes" text haha.
/r/seduction22/06/16 05:00 PM
1

Assuming sex needs to occur to receive a rape accusation.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/16 06:49 PM
1

Television, clean couches, clean kitchen, video game console with party games like the wii certainly helps.
/r/seduction18/05/16 01:36 AM
2

For day game you should try to escalate immediately to an "instadate". Just say you're heading somewhere and see if she wants to tag along. If that isn't an option then I suggest just giving her your number. If she wasn't interested, you'll never hear from her and you can save yourself time and texts.
/r/seduction06/04/16 02:27 PM
1

Yes to dorm life. It really is the easiest way to meet people when you first go to college and everyone worth knowing will usually have an open door policy so you can just say hey and expand your social circle. I might keep your age on the dl though. The girls will probably like the fact that you're older but others will just try to use you as the designated alcohol mule.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:26 AM
2

Atleast the hooker was getting laid and making bank.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:18 PM
6

"That's too bad. Frowning gives you wrinkles."
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:23 AM
3

If you're using a condom make sure you have her put it on you so her fingerprints will be on it. Don't be afraid to have a lot of foreplay, just rub yout cock against her slit and ask her "are you ready?" In no uncertain terms and rock her world. Unless her friends and social circle find out, the only kind of sex a girl regrets is the bad kind. If you are letting her stay over or you're staying over make her a quick breakfast and then leave. You don't want her feeling like a number. Even Mike Ty…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 01:57 AM
2

My greatest fear is being tried by a jury of my "peers".
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 09:58 PM
1

Lol are you asking if surrendering the responsibility to meet and seduce attractive women to your family is the red pill thing to do? And then to marry the one girl they choose? Come on man haha.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:08 AM
3

If you're already kind of hitting it off just say, "I have to borrow your friend for a minute," then take her hand and walk off.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:59 PM
12

Maybe it's just me, but I started finding the games hilarious once I understood the rules.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 07:25 AM
2

Shit test are reserved for men women find atleast somewhat attractive.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:32 AM
2

This is a fun idea. Question 1: ”Are you a player?” - Why? Are you attracted to players? Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” - Actually, I normally save that one for the guys. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” - Just practicing my smolder (Been years since I heard anything similar this one. I usually have a shit-eating grin on my face.) Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” - What, like this week? Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” - Of cou…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:31 PM
25

Look into the past of any racist and you'll find the woman of his dreams being railed on a black guy's cock.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 12:37 AM
6

Agree and escalate while laughing at it. You can make fun of them back but make sure it's coming from a place of lighthearted humor and not legitimate emotional distress.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:06 PM
6

The James Bond movies. Maltese Falcon and most of Humphrey Bogart's work.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:03 AM
8

Jesus, I expected something like looking at other girls while on dates, pretending to check texts, or interacting physically with other girls while out, but you went straight to 11 with fishy vaginas.
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:04 PM
5

Barney Stinson Indiana Jones Humphrey Bogart in most of his work
/r/becomeaman14/11/15 02:44 PM
2

Exactly. If you are being shit tested in the first place it means she is at least semi-interested. No need to react as if she is an enemy. It's all a game and if you're here you now know the rules.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 05:04 AM
9

Asking if you have a girlfriend is an indicator of interest. Not necessarily a shit test.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:26 AM
1

They aren't inherently bad questions, and they do highlight his flaws, but if she's the kind to overthink things she may view them as leading questions. Try emphasizing that you just want to be friends, and even jokingly ask her if she is just that frightened of falling for you that she can't go anywhere with you. And then finish with "Does he not allow you to have male friends?" while wearing a half smile. If that doesn't work a good Hail Mary would be to invite her to a social event where you'…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:58 AM
0

First off, never bad mouth this guy to her. Ever. She will defend him, almost reflexively so, and it makes you look bad. In fact, talking him up to her will probably get her to examine his many flaws. Your goal is to get her to go out with you. Lie if you must. If she says anything resembling "Tee hee. My boyfriend might not appreciate that" you reply "He allows you to have friends, right?" This gives her deniability, and not-so-subtly suggests that he controls her, and the idea of some beta guy…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:45 AM
11

Money can be a part of SMV but it definitely isn't the be-all-end-all factor. Women cheat on wealthy men all the time and often with those who aren't nearly as well off. Perceived status is all that matters. If you can cultivate a powerful reputation, you can be a pauper for all most girls will care.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 02:59 PM
8

I think being able to overcome the possibility of relapse is an important part of the process. If you can't fuck an ex without falling for her all over again then you still have work to do.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:35 AM
54

But the only reason she was charged is because she admitted she was lying. If she hadn't found a conscience who knows if the truth ever would have come out.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/15 01:35 PM
3

That was clearly not the first slap she suffered. Also I'm sure being drunk helped to numb the pain.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/15 11:11 PM
3

Don't think too much on it. Some girl are just looking for validation but you eliminate these by escalating (physical contact, kissing, throat-fucking her in a public bathroom, etc.)
/r/seduction16/06/15 05:10 PM
1

Could you explain exactly where you feel the conflicts lie? I'm certain lying no Phd but most of the conclusions seem to go hand in hand from my pov.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 11:44 PM
1

I just miss /r/trpgame. Seeing nothing but posts complaining about girls riding the cock carousel and wanting to go back to more conservative days gets old, especially since I'm not clear on why anyone here is even bitching about it. If you're an attractive guy, you're a part of the 20% of the cocks the best girls are spending their prime riding. If you aren't then I suppose you crave the old days when society demanded marriage by 20.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:28 AM
1

Car, park if its warm, club bathroom, whatever. Or schedule dates for when you know your house will be free.
/r/seduction15/01/15 08:47 PM
45

That was a girl?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/15 06:44 PM
1

Correct. Being "pre-selcted" makes pick-up as easy as shooting monkeys at the zoo. I have never been approached as often as I have when an attractive friend of mine has wandered to the restroom.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:09 PM
16

It's just the way it is. In antiquity men had to form bonds and work together to ensure the survival of the group. Women had to protect themselves and the children. Of course, there are outliers but by and large a girl will immediately move on from you the moment something new and shiny crosses her gaze. Lol ain't it fucked up? One of the reasons I feel no guilt whatsoever about being emotionally unavailable.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 03:29 AM
5

Well, who doesn't? But if you try to create something serious with a respectable girl there, you can expect to be stabbed to death by a mob of insecure little Thai dudes with an inferiority complex.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 11:36 PM
-3

Wut? This sub is called r/seduction, not r/misplaced-morality posing as self-improvement. The fact that the members on this sub are lauding a typical humble brag "I so could have had sex with this girl but I didn't because I'm above it all. Aren't I fucking honorable?" shows how utterly defunct it is at this point. This post is completely irrelevant in terms of seduction. If he come to the conclusion that he still has latent oneitis that he has to overcome, or if he actually went into detail on …
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:06 AM
2

The best girls will usually be dating someone already. You can either be a vulture and wait on the periphery, or you can take what you want. It is impossible to break up a relationship you aren't a part of. If she cheats, it's because she found a more attractive man. And of course don't tell your friends this lol. Rule 1 is don't tell anyone about pick-up, red pill, etc. Also this is the first time I've seen 'craven' used in conversation. I think I'll start using it more.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 10:37 PM
1

I don't think anyone here is trying to marry the girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 10:31 PM
1

Soooo what does this have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction27/12/14 10:28 PM
2

"Nice. Any more?" is my standard go to.
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:25 PM
2

Girls always tell you about guys not replying because that is the single thing that effects them the most in this digital age.
/r/seduction25/12/14 09:06 PM
2

Yes, when they are younger, but mid-twenties up social standing and, for lack of a better word, alpha-ness begin to take precedence.
/r/seduction21/12/14 03:45 AM
4

Invite her some place one-on-one, like for coffee or something. That's simple enough, if she doesn't go and fails to offer an alternative time, then you can assume she isn't interested.
/r/seduction18/12/14 07:35 PM
1

Kino and subtle innudendo. Thats how you express intent while remaining interesting.
/r/seduction13/12/14 07:03 PM
2

I think you mean Don Juan not Don Quixote, but I agree with your sentiment.
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:29 PM
3

I'm agreeing with them but I'd probably say something like "the balls need attention too" You give an answer if she is legitimately curious, and you ignore the "special" comment altogether. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/trpGAME20/11/14 08:11 PM
1

New Brunswick
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:57 PM
3

I'm not trying to be confrontational, but what are the "right" reasons to like someone you've exchanged 5 sentences with? The point of a date is to get to know another person to see if you do actually like them. Her actions indicate insecurity, immaturity, and past issues she hasn't squared away yet. That's not to say I don't understand or sympathize with the girl. I, personally, would still go on the date and have a great time, and escalate when the friend inevitably had to leave early for what…
/r/seduction04/10/14 05:18 AM
1

A reputation as a player is probably the best thing you can get.
/r/seduction13/08/14 10:50 PM
0

"Well, it wasn't my best" If she was still there, then the game was still on, dude. Don't take it too seriously.
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:24 PM
3

Yeah, a lot of guys are saying that sending such a message makes you seem "overly invested", "needy", and that the best thing to do is to drop her and act like you don't care, but the thing is, you do care. Flakes are immature and just plain rude. You'll have white knights, feminist, and even your odd pua say she doesn't owe you a response or a date, even if its clear that both of your intentions are there, and they're right, but flaking and not responding because you're afraid of confrontation …
/r/seduction17/07/14 06:38 AM
3

A girl isn't a thing that can be owned. If you find someone more attractive that you're more compatible with, why shouldn't you move on.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:52 PM
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