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Yes! And do they take initiative for things?
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/25 01:55 AM
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I’ve known people who have done it, but I don’t think it was a religious thing for them at all. I would also encourage you to really consider your discomfort with the legal aspect. Having kids forever changed my life and my outlook on marriage. There simply is no easy way to truly split things “equally.” In having kids, I’m the one who risks my body and health (thus to some degree decreasing my future “marketability” should we ever divorce—meaning I physically take on more risk during pregnancy …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 09:57 AM
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I worked on an investment banking floor. Some days I went home at 8pm, and they were still there. They were often too exhausted from a week of travel to come to church on Sunday (a few of them were also my church friends). Be prepared that he will need to put his all into his job for the analyst years. And he will likely be exhausted when he comes home. Set goals for yourself and work on them too. If not career related, look for another talent of yours that you would like to develop or some hobb…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/25 12:20 PM
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This is very similar to my story. Except I transferred bill paying to my husband after about 11 years of marriage. I also ask for budget for purchases now too. It really helped HIM to see where his income was going, because before he just complained that we were too expensive. Less stress for me too (except for that time he didn’t fully pay the electricity bill, and our power was shut off while I was trying to work from home while also hosting guests) BUT that growing room was important too. My …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/25 11:47 AM
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This is a hard one…because there’s so much baggage around it. I personally think it would be really weird for my husband to ask me to hand over my phone, or for me to say the same to him. I have nothing to hide. But like, I wouldn’t ask him to let me go through his dresser drawers searching for something, and would find it very odd if he requested that from me. That being said, if I was putting something away for him, you bet I’d just open the drawer and put it away. Same if he was putting somet…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 03:39 PM
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One thing I haven’t seen mentioned here is that women really benefit from the opportunity to relax as well. If I’m up at 5 am with a baby, and up til 9:30 at night with another kid, and then cleaning until 11, I’m much too exhausted to do anything except collapse. ESPECIALLY if I’ve had to try to figure out how to keep doing “more” during the day. Then, add to that criticism from my husband that I haven’t done enough, and I find myself closing down to him physically as well as emotionally. I nee…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 09:51 AM
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I do know is that mine is not a fan of false lashes 😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 10:40 PM
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I’d just let him know that you’re reading this book, it’s been really helpful, and that it’s helped you to understand some things better and given you a better perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 05:33 PM
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Yes! I think Laura Doyle’s work would help you with your perspective. I’m particularly thinking of the part in The Empowered Wife about how our helpful advice comes across to men. My summarized version would be that when we give men advice that they haven’t asked for, they often take it as us showing a lack of faith in them and their abilities. Sometimes people (not just our men) need space to figure things out on their own as part of their own personal learning process, and if we interrupt them…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 03:04 AM
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I think one of the problems with this attitude is that some of the resources on femininity kind of promote it. You really have to consume advice critically. I’m thinking specifically of things like Fascinating Womanhood which kind of says he’ll treat you right if you can live up to it. I don’t think that was the intended message of the book, but even Helen’s daughters have said that she didn’t have a mental concept that a man would mistreat his woman, so it really isn’t designed to advise women …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 02:05 AM
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I’m a fan of the LTK app. You can find influencers whose style you like, and they post links to buy what they’re showing off.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:55 PM
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You asked how to communicate with him, so here’s my advice for that. Share your emotions in a neutral way. “I feel unwanted” (while honest) can cause him to feel blame. Something like “I want you so badly right now.” Or “I’d love to have your arms around me” will likely be better received. Figure out what you WANT (not what you don’t want) and express that. These are all positive things that he can respond to, and they contain some instructions for him. The same kind of thing where telling a tod…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 01:01 PM
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My personal opinion is that each person should be in charge of their own development. He should work on improving himself, and you should work on improving yourself, and neither one of you should dictate what that looks like for the other person. I wonder if you also might like the podcast the Virtual Couch or Waking Up to Narcissism. They’re both by Tony Overbay, and he does have some understanding of masculine and feminine polarity. It’s definitely a tough place to be in where you want to trus…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 10:34 PM
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I’m not very familiar with this account, but this reel or whatever gives some examples of emotional abuse that you might find enlightening. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2nPCOduU4J/?igsh=MTJkbXpiMjU0MmQ3NA==
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 09:39 PM
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And if he isn’t ok with you taking care of yourself/setting boundaries for your mental health, then you really deserve someone who respects you enough to honor your boundaries
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 09:37 PM
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Sorry it’s taken me so long to respond. This is just such an important topic that I wanted to make sure I didn’t forget or rush through it. I found learning about abusive behaviors in relationships was really helpful for figuring out what is even reasonable to expect. So I would recommend some research into that. But, ultimately, it will come down to what do you really feel comfortable with? You’ve made these posts because you aren’t comfortable with what has been happening, and deep down you kn…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 09:35 PM
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I would love to see more compassion from him. But I think for that to happen, you have to set some good boundaries for you, and know that yes, you are worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 12:37 AM
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You deserve someone who respects you and who does not take advantage of you when you’re down. You might appreciate the book “Why Does He Do That?” By Lundy Buncroft. I also actually recently read a different book that kind of defined emotional abuse in a relationship and it totally shifted my perspective on some things too. If you don’t recognize that you deserve more respect than he’s giving you during the rough times, do a little bit of research on it, because I think deep down you know this, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 10:02 PM
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You asked for advice on becoming more feminine. There are a lot of good resources on the wiki in this group. A newer resource (that I haven’t finished yet, but am enjoying) is the book Magnetic Femininity by Allie Duzette, available on Amazon. It was such a huge mind shift for me. I don’t know if I agree with everything in it, but it goes a bit deeper than some of the other resources I’ve found. I do LOVE the Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 09:49 PM
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You said it’s been a week since he left for vacation, is he back home yet? I’d give him a full week of being back home. Also, instead of asking him when he’s done it, maybe ask when he expects he’ll be able to get it in the mail.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 03:11 AM
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I think for something like this, you can take the time to tell him about this journey that you are on and to let him know that you see these things, apologize for them, and tell him that you’re trying not to do them anymore. It’s a great opportunity to be vulnerable with him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:54 PM
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Laura Doyle does have a circle community and they still promote their coaching through that, so I do think there’s still a way to participate there.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:46 PM
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I definitely saw a major difference in my skin when I started using products specifically for my skincare concerns (wrinkles, large pores, blackheads). But I don’t think the skincare “gains” really make much of a difference to my husband. It’s just my own confidence boost that he finds attractive. I found for me, I have a slightly different skincare routine in the AM, than I do in the PM, but they’re both a case of wash face, then apply a thing or two, and then moisturize. I started first just u…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:44 PM
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