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| 2 | What are good responses to girls saying "I have bf" or "I'm seeing someone rn" ?I wouldn't respond anything to it, that's his problem not yours. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Night game is harder than I thoughtYou're all over this then. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Night game is harder than I thoughtYou are starting to get me. Dance upstairs, talk downstairs. Now you got it. I'm not saying, you have "no ability to talk", just gotta pick the right place to do it. You don't take girls to a movie and start talking to them, same as that dance place, just the wrong place to do it. Downstairs is good for talk though. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Night game is harder than I thought"Especially would like to talk with females". Don't focus on that though. I understand what you are saying, you believe your talking game is going to be better than your dancing game. And you would likely be right, except in a place where people cannot hear you talk, then your dancing game will trump your talking game. So here just watch this: https://youtube.com/shorts/GGHPAWoTUkg?si=K5G-53C04ZtAo0cm That about says it all. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Night game is harder than I thoughtI just feel like, you want to talk really badly to chicks, which is fine, but in the scenario as you described talking wasn't a very good option, dancing seemed to be. So you say hey lets go dance, and you shuffle or whatever, and then just have fun. If you're dancing with a girl and at a bar drinking and having fun together, what conversation would you need to have? Just go with it, there's always plenty of time to talk down the road. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Night game is harder than I thoughtI mean yes if there is no music playing you can chat. But I wouldn't expect to get to "really know" someone at a loud dance party at a bar. I think you gotta think more about dancing and having fun and being a bit more loose. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Night game is harder than I thoughtThose breaks are for you to get a drink and ask them to dance with you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Night game is harder than I thoughtJust dance with the ladies next time. Duh. That's what the music is for, dancing, not trying to talk over. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | She is very talkative and social, you are the quiet guyLet 'em talk away. I got 2 ears and 1 mouth, and chicks get all excited and nervous around a man and talk nonstop. So I listen, and see if this girl is even worth my time. I ask questions, lead some conversations, flirt with her, if a decision needs to be made I make it. I don't know about how people perceive me, if they find me boring, then so be it. They can make up their minds as I make up mine. If she starts complaining about it then it's an issue for her and you need to say hey look...I'm j… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be a nice guy but not boring?I feel like this is the answer you are looking for: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTh5JzRziHE | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Constant rejectionI guess, if I were you, and that forward approach was not working at all. I would change my approach, since that one isn't working. Just go out, have fun, stop trying to be a serial seduction artist and just enjoy some time where you resist hitting on every woman that gives you some signs. Be a bit more selective. Keep your conversations a bit shorter/don't talk as much, if what you're saying isn't working. I find, you don't need to talk all that much with a woman, they love blathering on, espec… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be?Just be yourself. All you can really do. Trying to fit into some idealized notion of what some woman wants you to be...ain't gonna work. And who cares what their notions are anyway, you can't change that, you can only changed your own notions, and be yourself and be confident in your game and they will come around to you, rather you having to come around to them. And if not, big deal...on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:42 PM |
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