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Nope, but I do think there should be strict criteria, like income, criminal history and stuff to qualify
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:59 PM
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Yea that’s why in my last paragraph I said it won’t have much affect, it’s pretty much just going to be a health application for women , but yes a very expensive one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:49 PM
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Well artificial wombs would have to be (and would be) heavily regulated, you couldn’t just pop out thousands of babies without a real parent to care for them And if we are being honest, most men and I think most women too, would not sign up to bring up a child on their own, most couldn’t afford to, have the time to The only way I see artificial wombs being used in any meaningful measure, is by couples where the woman is unable to or would struggle to have a child naturally, and by women who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:32 PM
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It’s not one sided, my comment is not gendered. You decided to view it as one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:16 AM
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Ok this obviously won’t go anywhere, good luck op!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:29 AM
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Yep and that requires much more effort and work than the initial stages of dating Are you happy to put that effort and work in to maintain a relationship???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:19 AM
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Okay, if what you posted is too much effort What are your thoughts on the effort required to maintain a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:15 AM
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I mean that’s exactly what it sounds like it’s literally the title, if not what are you saying???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:09 AM
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Maintaining a healthy relationship is like 100x more work. If the initial stages feel like too much effort, then there’s really no point tbh that relationship will fail at some point or get nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:34 AM
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Save the environment and cycle instead, get some cross country training in!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:02 AM
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Yea that’s why I’d probably only date someone who I’ve known for some time, so I can see who they are as a person before, well before I find out at the wrong time And btw you should just be able to apply a flair here I don’t think you have to be approved for one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:33 PM
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I just feel like late night messages, probably drunk late night messages are like the biggest giveaway, and especially after not talking to you for ages
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t message me at 1am on Friday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:08 PM
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Youd probably earn more money having a lemonade stand lol and that’s like anyone can do that soo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:21 AM
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I mean I’m not really trying to change your mind, you don’t want to talk to me - that’s absolutely fine I’ll respect that I just think there’s some critical context you’re missing Trying to interact with me when I’m walking alone at night ❌ Interacting with me respectfully in a safe or more sociable environment ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:11 AM
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Lol it’s my motherly instincts idk I just get an urge to say something when I see terrible stuff being said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:50 AM
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OP but you’re interacting with us rn asking this questions sooo like what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:22 PM
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Couldn’t afford to lol but tbh I don’t want to be dependent on anyone and I wouldn’t want anyone being dependent on me, so I’d want for both of us to have income Unless you mean short term bcs of some reasons outside their control then sure I would, why wouldn’t I be there for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:53 PM
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I hold the view if you want to approach someone, then do it, I can’t stop you lol but the only thing anyone can ask for is to just be respectful if it doesn’t go your way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:41 PM
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Yea I mean I’m not open to it, but I’m just saying that even people were pushing for it, it’s not really going to happen is it Like I’ve been approached but really only in certain places like bars when I used to go, and in my university, but it’s only been a handful of times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:31 PM
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Tbh I don’t think most young men have the social skills to successfully approach someone, let alone have the courage to try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:23 PM
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It shouldn’t end, for both people. That’s what kills relationships - taking things for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:02 AM
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I don’t think that’s right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:15 PM
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I mean all we can (and should do) is make people aware and leave everyone to make their own choices. I know what I want for my self and as long as no one is forcing any different on me, I’m happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:10 PM
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Aww that’s really sweet!! He’s your world and that’s all that matters, no use trying to convince anyone saying any different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:10 PM
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It’s not the same thing!! You’re making me feel horrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:32 PM
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I didn’t make you, you just done it lol, but atleast I had a good influence (I hope) on you right???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:24 PM
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I mean there’s nothing you need to be sorry for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:09 PM
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I just don’t want to comment there anymore, tbh I want people to leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:01 PM
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Yep it’s pretty much an endless ping pong match, that’s how I like to describe it ‘you do this, ohh but you do this, nope you do this’ just endless and absolutely unproductive If that’s how people try to debate, or resolve their differences irl then gosh… idk how that can ever lead to a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:11 PM
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I used to be around here more, like the daily chat and stuff but yea I mean after being harassed by someone, and just how much ‘wimin terrible’ can I see?? And like a lot of people here just aren’t reasonable, whatsoever lol, was making me feel really bleak tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:24 AM
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lol I mean that’s fine, I don’t expect people to, I just get enjoyment when men do take me seriously and listen But I will say that it comes from a place of fairness and reasonableness, bcs that’s what I think I am, and hey it might be right or it might be wrong, idk 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:58 AM
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I just like it when people listen to me 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:58 AM
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Street interview science
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:34 AM
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Yea I was thinking something similar that options ABC are pretty much akin to religious indoctrination ‘this way no other way’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:56 PM
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Oh please tell me more, I’m intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:23 PM
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Gosh wimin, so terrible!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:15 PM
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Really 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:10 PM
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I’ve learned there is pretty much no point calling anything out, people rarely change. I just won’t let them affect my morals, how I see other people, who I let into my life/ who stays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:55 PM
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Well I think I made my self pretty clear, you can (and should) use your free will to think about how you respond, react, what you do. So yes, terrible behaviour, illogical behaviour is never excusable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:51 PM
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What do you think??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:37 PM
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Well, are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:24 AM
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It’s not biology when you have free will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:19 AM
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We would have less potential options, bcs incompatible people would actually filter themselves out, it would be great But it’s not for the reasons you mentioned, underneath someone’s appearance there’s an entire person with their own, thoughts, feelings, mannerisms, goals, aspirations, flaws etc, plenty of ways to find incompatibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:40 AM
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Aww that’s a nice read!! And btw the top part doesn’t make you sound like a pussy, at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:16 PM
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Nope, if I do now that means I’ve lost frame, I’m smarter than this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:14 PM
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Gosh the temptation to write a silly answer to this is actually unreal lol but I’ll hold my self off 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:58 PM
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Yea it sucks, after yesterdays horror stories I don’t really feel comfortable being here tbh… so yep probably won’t be around that much here my self
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:12 AM
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It goes much beyond the toxic level
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:34 AM
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I just said we’re terrible!! I’m not trying to change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:36 AM
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Oh yep I forgot, we’re so soo terrible. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:19 AM
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In what way??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:15 AM
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Bcs there’s a lot of horrible people, I’ve recently had a strange interaction with someone, so much that someone reached out bcs they were worried. Horror stories!! why would they want to stay here and moderation isn’t doing much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:03 AM
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5 weeks later ‘why do I only get in toxic relationships waah’
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:18 AM
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You’d end up a friendless hermit lol!! But I’d try my best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:58 PM
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Mr oblivious lol No but it can be very difficult to know if someone is being friendly or if they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:18 AM
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That’s horrible and in that situation you literally have no idea what they’re doing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:17 AM
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A few times I thought if only they carried on the conversation normally, I’ve pushed my self out my comfort zone they probably did too. Who knows what could have happened, but nope, ruined!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:06 AM
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Yea I was saying this in another thread that a hey or hi is much better than a cringey pick up line or whatever stuff they feel like pulling off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:46 AM
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Yea I was curious, it was so brief just a few messages The first was something like hey I’m xxx from class, looking forward to getting to know you and everyone , how you finding the class To which I said hey, same here, im getting on well, I think its interesting And then the next messages literally, oh my friend sent this he took my phone, I didn’t mean to send any of that Like yea right, what??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:41 AM
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Gosh that’s so horrible, sorry you had to go through that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:36 AM
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Noo that’s so sad lol, and also why would a taxi driver need directions??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:15 AM
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Like what lol?? How do people possibly think anyone will go for something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 AM
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Ooh I’d get shivers that’s so weird, also the inside crease of your elbow is oddly sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:13 AM
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It’s gone I’ve probably deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:08 AM
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That’s horrible like at that age stuff like this is traumatising
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:45 PM
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Hmm I dont remember exactly, I’ll try to look for it lol I might find it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:40 PM
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Seriously?? Gosh that’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:37 PM
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What’s the most awkward/weird way someone tried to hit on you?? For me in one of my university classes we had a group WhatsApp, and there was a boy I kind of liked him, he probably caught me looking at him a few times, well we never spoke in person but one day I get a message from him on WhatsApp, I answered, but then he responded how his friend took his phone, he didn’t mean what was said. I thought yea right, just completely ruined it, I thought it was soo weird I blocked him. Then I had to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:31 PM
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Really?? Can I ask what do you get out of calling each other that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:00 PM
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No not like that lol, tbh I find the mommy/daddy thing soo cringey. I don’t understand the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:11 PM
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lol I mean what do you expect me to say to that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:57 PM
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Yea right, you just see it that way bcs you like me soo much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:52 PM
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Like how??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:29 PM
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It’s Based ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:38 PM
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lol you know why I think it is, bcs I’m small, I’m 5’2 lol I’m pretty much harmless let’s be honest, so having that bit of dominance helps me feel safer, like in control of my own space and boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:11 PM
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It’s also nice to be taken seriously, acknowledged, like my opinions and stuff hold weight you know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:52 PM
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lol yea I guess, seems like men don’t really mind it when a woman has a slight dominant side, a little bit feisty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:15 PM
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I mean you didn’t deny it lool soo Idk I just get enjoyment especially from men, I see you guys as rebels, so when you listen to me I’m like awww omg yess!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:59 PM
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I reckon I’m pretty good at getting the boys online to behave, my motherly instincts lol. Tbh I think I might have a dominant side to me bcs sometimes I like to have a sense of control and I really like it when people respond to it, play along
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:39 PM
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Yea it’s just a lot of the talking points here, I see in other places. People reference TikTok and instagram a lot, but I don’t have these so idk what actually goes on there lol, I mean I do know both genders like to attack each other, whether it’s sincere or just for engagement that I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:25 AM
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I believe playing ping pong matches is no good, and even worse for relationships. It’s just a constant blame game, it never leads anywhere. People should just be honest with themselves and with each other Btw your flair is terrible, shouldn’t think like that of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:11 AM
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No lol, I’m just not that kind of person. My thinking is this, why should I compromise my morals over someone else’s actions??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:00 AM
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You don’t want to be with a good wife?! I mean that’s fair enough that’s all you have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:51 PM
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I think you do good work and are someone people can get guidance from
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:48 PM
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Well statistically they will… most people go on to have relationships. But the quality of them hmmm I’m not too sure how good it will be if people come into them having gripes with each other, certain views etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:25 PM
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Yep you do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:02 PM
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lol the fight for good husbands continues, how many more can we lose??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:57 PM
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What sucks is that people get other people into a rut who otherwise could have had success… that’s what annoys me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:52 PM
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Yea it’s pretty much everywhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:36 PM
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Sucks this pill stuff seems to have went onto mainstream subreddits in the Gen Z subreddit I’m having a difficult time keeping the boys on a leash and making sure they behave!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:30 PM
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Some people do and some don’t, and there’s certain triggers that can make you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:01 PM
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2+2=5 ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:30 PM
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I would it should be exclusive to Brigid to see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:14 PM
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Yea it would be cute to laugh together about silly pick up lines
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:11 PM
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2/10 I mean it’s funny, but starting off with that with someone you just met… idk I don’t think it would go too well tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 PM
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9/10 Only bcs I think saying hi or hey is not a bad way to start a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 PM
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Option 3 - being depressed together that we can’t afford a home, children etc sounds more appealing than the other options lol, and there’s always a chance things will get better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:03 PM
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Yea I guess that could happen, but ideally you’d have been through this together, they understand, you feel comfortable with each other, it becomes less of an expectation and more of a milestone moment in the relationship which I imagine would make it a better and easier experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:42 PM
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I’ve read that men can get ED when they are anxious, shy uncomfortable etc, so for the causal option I would consider if you could actually manage being intimate with someone in a short amount of time, bcs it would probably be a terrible experience if you couldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:21 PM
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Yea that’s a lot better, definitely almost impossible to pull off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:49 PM
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5/10 I feel like if you added something after it would be better, like, does your mother need a son in law? Well tell her to stop searching I’m exactly what she ordered
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:30 PM
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-100/10 🤦‍♀️ if you said bcs you looks like a catch, it would be 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:37 PM
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Okay 3/10 bcs of the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:41 PM
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Flirting class lol, 0/10 btw it’s terrible No but I do think there should be like a social skills class tbh for the younger generations, were becoming increasingly anti social
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:36 PM
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lol 11/10 Very charming
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:34 PM
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Omg 11/10 Perfect. I feel very rizzed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:47 PM
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6/10 It’s definitely original lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:43 PM
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10/10 Love the enthusiasm and feel very rizzed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:41 PM
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9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:35 PM
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3/10 It’s disgusting, why not spilled water/ a drink instead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:24 PM
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3/10 No thank you, and no mention of being a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:16 PM
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Give me your best rizz/pick up line and I will rate it /10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:04 PM
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I mean maybe in my mind I definitely thought of some bad words 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:09 PM
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lol I wasn’t that angry, it’s just, ‘bitch’?? Like really??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:38 PM
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Yep I guess it’s just individual preferences, like with anything For example in shows I really love episodes which show a characters history, how they became who they are and stuff, or even YouTube videos with like extra theories etc like deep lore stuff lol but some people just don’t care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:24 PM
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this you don’t remember!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:21 PM
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Yea I really hate rape scenes they’re horrific, I mean I can understand why they do them for like historical reasons, documentaries etc bcs it does get the point across, gets you in the feelings but yep horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:00 PM
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lol really, I start feeling soo awkward idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:57 PM
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Mr many dragonfly I’m still very angry with you!! 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:56 PM
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lol that intense huh, noted ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:24 PM
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Really 🤨 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:13 PM
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They can be cute sometimes, it depends how it’s done it’s just when they’re actually going for it I’m like gosh what am I watching 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:13 PM
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Of course it does!! lol no it doesn’t either, you can apply this to pretty much anything in life, idk say you want to do an assignment, but you’re tired so you put it off, you want to talk to someone, but you’re scared so you don’t etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:58 PM
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Do you guys enjoy watching those scenes??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:57 PM
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I’ve not watched it yet, but I’ve got the dove x bridgerton body wash it’s actually really good lol No but it’s just so awkward, like I don’t think I need to see intricate details of how someone is having sex to understand that they like each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:44 PM
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Sex scenes in movies are so pointless, like okay?? Why does anyone actually need to see this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:35 PM
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You know It doesn’t work like that. Sometimes you want to do something but you don’t for various reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:18 PM
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Still nice I think really it’s the person that makes it special imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:08 PM
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I know, I’ve almost been rizzed up here by someone lol, almost
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:06 PM
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Sounds like building the courage really paid off for him!! That’s so sweet I’ve always wondered, people with reading hobbies, do you guys spend time together by reading, or is it more about discussing what you have read??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:05 PM
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Q4 partnered people, how did you meet your partner and what did you do on your first date??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:31 PM
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Do it in the morning catch em at their worst lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:41 PM
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lol nope but they’re not going anywhere until they take the tablets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:19 PM
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Prescribe him 2 paracetamols for the pain and 1 ibuprofen to help with inflammation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:12 PM
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Good work, amazing progress
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:06 AM
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We’ve talked about this… Repeat after me ‘Scary girls are bad, I don’t like scary girls’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:04 AM
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Yep they are very cute together, irl they seem like amazing people But gosh I struggled sleeping after that episode… it’s gory lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:12 PM
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Omg, really??! I did not know that, but he sucks in the show, how can you cheat on someone like this, she’s so good and soo pretty :(( she deserves the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:07 PM
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I’m watching the walking dead and I’m on the episode about negans life, and gosh Lucille is the best wife ever, it’s such a devastating story, idk if I could ever forgive cheating, let alone not say anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:37 PM
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I only use the app, if I logged into Reddit on my laptop I’d spend my entire day here instead of doing my artsy stuff or assignments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:10 PM
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Same thing, you like pets, you want someone else who likes pets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:09 PM
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Thats like saying 1 person doesn’t like me so everyone else must not like me, nonsense!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:01 PM
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Stop the lies!!! We know you would love to do your woman’s hair, you dream of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:00 PM
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Mine updated by it self :( It was slow so I just closed the app, opened it and it’s totally different!! Sneaky!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:50 PM
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<image> This is a true story btw, aspiring to be a good husband will only help you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:46 PM
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These fantasies need to stop!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:43 PM
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Well I would say yes, but I’ve given up on him, I just hope they treat their next partner well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:37 PM
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Good husbands take their woman seriously!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:30 PM
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That’s so true lol, but this one is just weird. I’m on the iPhone app and I think it’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:29 PM
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You know it’s the effort that counts!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:28 PM
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But you can always learn, it would take so much less time, and I also think it’s such a cute bonding activity to do together. Very romantic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:23 PM
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The new Reddit ui sucks ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:19 PM
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I mean it’s a fair deal bcs doing it yourself takes soo much longer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:09 PM
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Stop 🚫 watching porn 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:05 PM
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Good husbands should learn how to do a woman’s hair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:54 PM
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I think as long as your morals are in the right place then being a little mischievous is okay, can’t always be serious and definitely non of us are perfect, we make mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:13 AM
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What do you just say??? you ******* ******* Btw I’m just joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:03 AM
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Made of steel forged in fire lool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:02 AM
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When I get angry here people think it’s funny lol, they’re like be careful Brigid is angry, it’s fine makes me laugh. But one thing that’s hard to control is how people perceive you, it’s definitely a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:00 AM
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Yep unless you know the person well, their motives, intentions etc then it’s difficult to tell. Or sometimes they’re acting aloof but internally they have strong feelings, I know bcs sometimes it happens to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:49 AM
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To me holding frame really is just emotional regulation, and like with certain things you should try to regulate yourself, for example how you react with what people say on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:37 AM
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No 🚫 boba teas 🧋at 3:45AM 🕝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:50 AM
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lol I definitely wind up the boys sometimes, they just know better than to try and make me lose frame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:04 AM
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Yep, I’ve never lost frame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:00 AM
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I don’t even think about holding frame, I just do naturally lol 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:53 AM
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I and many other women hold frame much better than these red pillers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:53 AM
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I mean I do know of a few people coupled up in my university classes and stuff but I think the attitudes towards dating are not good at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:39 PM
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Go on tell us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:38 PM
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But that doesn’t stop you coming across terrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:37 PM
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Gen Z not dating as much makes sense when putting yourself out there feels like you’re going out to a hellscape, rarely do I hear anyone say dating is fun and people already have so much to stress over lol, wonder what happened tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:04 PM
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Aww that’s a good step towards being a good husband!! Showing compassion and care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:50 PM
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You do realise whatever you’ve thought of inside your head just speaks about your mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:23 PM
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Yep agreed, and if they don’t that means they hate puppies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:54 PM
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<image> Soo cute
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:43 PM
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I’ll take that as a yes lol, okay that’s fine. Wishing you luck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:36 PM
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First clarify to everyone if you’re aspiring to be a good husband?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:31 PM
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Tell her she’s a terrible girlfriend!! And you know better than to entertain this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:59 PM
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lol nope I wasn’t even born then, I’m just joking at the guy who always says ‘back in the days’ I find it hilarious every time they write it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:07 PM
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Fridays
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:51 PM
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Those were definitely the days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:51 PM
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lol nothing, I’m just being cheeky, I’m bored but I’ll go entertain my self so byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:53 AM
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Gosh, back in the days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:55 AM
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I try to sneak away to my room or something, I say I have lots of assignments (I don’t I just want to nap) lool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:50 AM
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I know I get it, but do you ever look towards the future (for example how much of a good husband you will be, how you will design the inside of your home, pets, travel plans, other goals aspirations etc)??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:47 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:34 AM
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Well I hope it goes well, my family tries to get all together especially for times like Christmas everyone will come, it’s nice but also very draining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:31 AM
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Back in the days is your favourite word isn’t it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:25 AM
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Oh wow that’s a really long time what happened??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:25 AM
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I’ve been watching the story with the monkey, punch, and I’m so here for it lol, when I first saw the video of him dragging the plushie around I was devastated, it’s good things are getting better for him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:51 AM
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It’s just disappointing knowing there’s people who will try to take advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:17 AM
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It never fails, it’s the best filtering tool, so if I’m not innocent I must be a bitch to them?! Great 🖕 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:14 AM
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lol well I wouldn’t care tbh, but I think you misunderstood, it’s more about why they think im innocent, like why do you think that?? It’s a great filtering tool tbh bcs peoples true self come out so quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:02 AM
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I hate it when people call me innocent, they think I don’t have self respect or boundaries that I’m easy to manipulate, no, you’ll just get on my bad side and there’s no coming back from that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:24 AM
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How do you expect keeping a decent girl when you’re like this?? Your problems are a result of how you are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:43 PM
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I’d want them to tell mee, but it’s impossible I like being skinny!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:40 PM
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It wasn’t funny, I get dark humour but there a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:36 PM
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Pointing out false claims isn’t unpleasant, it feels like it but that doesn’t make it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:14 PM
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I mean I have similar feelings I want to get my self together before I try dating, but also I think putting my sled out there is a toxic hellscape soo I just never get round to it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:06 PM
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Never say that again. That’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:54 PM
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You should know what a good husband is! And you do know bcs you want to be one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:51 PM
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Aww yess!! But why don’t you want a relationship are you trying to work on yourself??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:42 PM
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Well seems like you have an internal conflict to solve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:25 PM
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How 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:24 PM
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I mean that’s fair enough lol just as long as you plan to be a good husband afterwards to a good wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:09 PM
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Awww yesss!! So you’ve changed you mind?? You want a wife now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:08 PM
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I mean cmon do you really think anyone is going to believe a guy telling fantasies on Reddit lol, I think not!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:05 PM
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Hmm you raise a very good point, this is why I say to aspire to be a good husband before you actually are one!! All the pieces are in place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:00 PM
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You could have just said yes!! ‘Yes miss Brigid I do’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:48 PM
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Yea right, we all know you aspire to be the bestest husband!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:47 PM
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Aww that’s really cute fantasy!! But good husbands don’t marry bad wife’s so that’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:46 PM
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Cookies and paninis are definitely one way to a woman’s heart lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:39 PM
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So is being a good husband part of being a good person 🤔 sounds like it is!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:36 PM
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I’m just checking if my brain washing is working (which it looks like it is) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:36 PM
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That’s good!! Definitely part of being a good husband. But how about after you become a good cook??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:27 PM
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Q4m: are you aspiring to be a good husband??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:19 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong thread bcs I don’t see that how it relates lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:03 PM
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Tell her you’re aspiring to be a good husband so if she changes her mind that offer is also on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:50 PM
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And I also think it’s a self respect thing, like I’ve tried to talk, you aren’t listening or trying to compromise with me, okay so then that’s it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:00 PM
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Yep so certain things definitely I think can be compromised on and should be, but there’s things like for example say gaming, they spend so much time it impacts your relationship, or they prefer spending time with friends over you. Then there’s just no point is there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:35 PM
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Yep I agree with this, I mean it’s a terrible situation but it’s also a self respect thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:32 PM
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So you wouldn’t let someone know you’re unhappy with something they are doing, no chances you’d just leave??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:29 PM
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I think so too or they just put up with it, and if you really loved someone you’d want to make that change or at least reach some kind of compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:27 PM
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Does hoping someone changes ever work out?? I’m beginning to think it’s a futile endeavour, if you get to that point in a relationship it’s pretty much finished unless you decide to put up with it, bcs if they took it seriously and respected you they’d have listened the first time, so giving someone 1 chance seems like the best boundary to have tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:25 PM
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Im only joking lol, but now im curious, what kind of person is your type?? Like personality traits and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:41 PM
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Of course, but there’s things you don’t lie about, and you’ve woefully ignored every other thing I mentioned. Anyway just finally the true person has revealed themself (like they always do)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:23 PM
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Right bcs women like being lied to, people who don’t keep their word, people who are nasty online, people who try flirting and dming with other girls, let’s make that clear. Right, or she’s just not real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:06 PM
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Well you should change this and be a good husband to your wife!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:49 AM
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Are you suree?? Are you hiding something from us 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:45 AM
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I don’t like disloyalty too (especially in husbands) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:33 AM
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No 🚫 smoking 🚬 bcs it’s gross 🤢 lol but I think it’s gross too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:28 AM
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Being a classist and looking down on people is horrible, it’s just being intentionally ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:25 AM
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With people who been cheated on being a dealbreaker is there a reason behind it or just something you’d rather avoid having to deal with??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:19 AM
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Good list!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:18 AM
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lol nothing a few rounds of brain washing won’t solve!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:02 AM
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Oh being aggressive towards me I could not put up with that lol, I don’t like it when someone takes out their frustrations on someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:48 AM
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Wdym it’s short and fine??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:29 AM
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Aww luckkyyy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:29 AM
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What are some of your guys instant dealbreakers?? For me it’s anyone who talks about, interacts with people in an unpleasant way bcs if they do it someone then they’ll probably do it to you, doesn’t like pets, too political, liar, and a big one is not keeping your word, I find that a lot of people don’t keep their word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:22 AM
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Well my hair being longer is a connected to Irish mythology, to brigid in Irish mythology she is a redhead goddess, or fairy if you go deep enough, I used it as a self confidence thing to grow it out, to be like her bcs I’m a red head and I had a rough time with it growing up. I wouldn’t call it spiritual though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:15 AM
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lol not really I’ve had longer hair my whole life pretty much I just never bothered with styling it that much but I want to start experimenting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:05 AM
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I mean I’ve been to the hairdressers yesterday and it’s down to mid back, it was to my lower back but I had it styled, I had it heat curled, I got bangs!! And she also put it in twin tails it looked sooo cute, but to maintain and bring out natural curls it’s just so much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:49 PM
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Yep I’m trying to get through like a 50 page guide to bring our natural curls and the different products, routines, for different hairtypes etc 🙃 And gosh it can take a year or two of a constant routine once you find one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:47 PM
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That would make it worse lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:45 PM
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I don’t I literally been to the hairdressers yesterday and it turns out I have curly hair, and with a good routine I can get really good curls, so I’m trying to get my head round reading like a 50 page guide
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:32 PM
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I don’t think I will lol and btw it’s miss Brigid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:28 PM
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Ughhh why does hair care need to be so complex and so much effort 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:25 PM
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He would be an amazing husband!! Hmmm maybe a little bit of a rebel but that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:41 AM
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Lool He is hilarious in the show, and he sure does love his chicken, nearly died for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:31 AM
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Lost in space is really good!! It’s the one with the alien robots, I love the family and the ending it’s so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:18 AM
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Yep, they really are, have you got any??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:05 AM
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It’s great!! Another show I really want to watch is game of thrones, but it sooo expensive I’m hoping it’s free with the subscription one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:02 AM
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It’s on Disney + and prime if you have those, I have them all bcs I watch a lot of shows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:46 AM
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I really enjoy watching it, it’s my favourite show, the last season isn’t that great but all the other seasons are amazing imo, just the character development, the story how it changes from survival to building something, I think it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:42 AM
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It’s really grounding, like you’ll get yourself into a rut and you have like a month to feel sorry for yourself lol when the show is on, then once it finishes you can begin sorting out your life, it’s great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:31 AM
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Yep with cookies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:10 AM
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Really, I find that hard to believe lol you know considering that perhaps you aren’t so sincere in your arguments either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:04 AM
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Oh happy cake day btw it just came up lol!!! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:02 AM
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Oh there’s definitely no answers lol, I think in the first season when they go to the CDC they make it obvious that they actually have no idea what’s going on But there’s also a spin off show, called Z nation, that one’s more comedy and they come up with a ‘cure’ for the disease, it’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:00 AM
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Really, it’s literally just getting started, after that season is when it gets super interesting, like snacks and dry eyes interesting lool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:50 PM
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I don’t think I’ve actually watched anything from the 70s I’ll look at stuff and see it’s made in like 1995 I go nope I just skip it, might try giving one of these a go maybe it’s just getting used to the difference in quality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:49 PM
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Oh I love it when negan shows up, it’s just constant drama lol, and it’s just how the characters and everything developed, they went from living on a farm, a prison, barely surviving to a thriving community, they’re focus changed from survival to trying to rebuild the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:40 PM
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I mean that’s what’s Netflix, Disney is for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:34 PM
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Older stuff is better directed and has a much more interesting plots, it’s literally just the quality and graininess that puts me off them. like I’ve been trying to find some new shows and really I’ve only enjoyed fallout and Wednesday, those a great
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:34 PM
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I’m more into like sci fi / alternative universe kind of shows, Marvel stuff, star trek is good, but the new ones I can’t stand the low quality and obvious CGI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:20 PM
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Idk it just comforts me I can’t explain it. But I can’t do with every show or movie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:16 PM
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Yep, I’ll just isolate and watch the entire thing, the last season is kind of boring tbh, well the last few episodes really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:15 PM
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I’m watching the walking dead series for the 3rd time, it’s my comfort show, takes me like 1.5 months to finish it lol, Daryl and carol are my favourite characters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:12 PM
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You two would make for absolutely terrible husbands An instant dealbreaker is when someone talks about/ interacts with people unpleasantly, bcs if they do it to someone else, sooner or later they will do it to you So keep that in mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:39 PM
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Perhaps but I love napping it’s my favourite activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:43 PM
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Yep it makes you scratch your head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:43 PM
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It wasn’t here, there’s no point here I learnt this ages ago. I started an infinite comment chain in the Gen Z subreddit, but some people just got on my nerves!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:42 PM
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My head feels like it’s going to explode lol, I do not recommend participating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:31 PM
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Gosh how do people debate here all day, I done a few hours and I need a nap !! It’s draining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:27 PM
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Might say that actually lol, no I won’t I’d feel terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:11 PM
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One thing I don’t like about old people is that they always got to have had it harder, like please it doesn’t need to be a competition can we not just agree that it’s getting harder for everyone, it’s definitely not getting better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:08 PM
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I just doomed in the Gen Z subreddit and I feel great lol it’s good to let it all out sometimes and feel understood
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:04 PM
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Wimin of course, I don’t even know why you asked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:31 PM
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I’ve explained that lots of times, you know I’m actually devastated bcs I put a lot of effort into doing that and you’re telling me you have nothing :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:32 AM
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Yep and it’s more than that it’s this whole toxic culture they are pushing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:28 AM
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So you’ve not been taking notes??! I’ve explained aspire to be a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:19 AM
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I really hope men stop idolising that idiot. Him and those other people are going to ruin to ruin an entire generation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:13 AM
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He’s hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:49 PM
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I always found it soo cute how the donkey helped the dragon and they fell in love, but I was too young to ask the real question How did they have babies lol, now I have some theories
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:45 PM
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😇 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:10 AM
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lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:20 AM
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Of course we’re not real, it’s whatever they put in the water makes you think you see us, talk to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:48 AM
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It’s similar to those memes you see where they say women don’t exist, or were like a psyop made by the government or something like who even makes that up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:18 PM
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One can read the intrusctions and the other one can build, idk if it would work but it’s sounds cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:49 PM
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Building Lego’s together sounds so awesome, well I hope you guys have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:44 PM
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That’s very sweet and thoughtful, sounds like a very good husband!! - men take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:16 PM
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I asked a question about yourself!! Not women lol, which you haven’t answered But I get it, perhaps after all you aren’t too good handling the truth either when it comes to it But my point is, if you let terrible people affect your morals (lying) then maybe your morals weren’t too good to begin with So just something to think about :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:50 PM
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‘Wimin wimin wimin’ how about you tell us what makes you so different from these terrible women, I mean you’ve already openly admitted to lying sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:45 PM
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So in that case you just lied, that means you think we can handle the truth and you don’t lie to us, aww that’s so sweet!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:26 PM
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Unacceptable!!! If my husband wrote this I would show them the door lool There shouldn’t be anyone else on your mind if you love someone… if you respect the person and have these feelings the best thing you can do is tell them, perhaps you can work through it somehow, but I doubt it. I wouldn’t put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:24 PM
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lol we can’t count, I heard men they are really good at counting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:48 AM
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So you can make sure it’s all there 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:41 AM
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Oh no the grass needs counting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:16 AM
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lol I did (and I can’t) 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:14 AM
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Bcs you’ve been mean your 1 week of no wimin terrible comments has restarted 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:12 AM
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Nope I’m not sucking my toes or trying to!! 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:25 AM
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Omg people here are so mean!! I think it’s sooo sweet you went out with her for dinner 🥳😌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:23 AM
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Idk what you want me to say, I can’t think of anything else that’s weird or depraved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:47 AM
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I mean idk how to answer this, I don’t care about that, I like my self and that’s what matters to me, but if other people find me attractive?? Hmm I think so, I get fetishised for my hair, my height, I’ve had people approach me, ask me out, I get complimented, but it just doesn’t mean much to me, I’m not bothered what someone thinks of me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:15 AM
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Omg lol not that much!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:55 PM
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Pretty much everything lol, like just their life’s and stuff, how they looked, their confidence, how they’re outgoing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:55 PM
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I used to as a teenager, I don’t really anymore idk I’m a lot more comfortable with my self, a lot more self confident
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:52 PM
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So I have a weird one 🤷‍♀️ I think I shared it before about how I have a fantasy of like having an emotional broken/ closed off guy break to me and open to me, like they’ll be the first person they feel safe and comfortable to share that stuff with and be vulnerable with me But it’s just a fantasy lol, irl I know it’s not going to go well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:51 PM
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You know, I don’t know and I’m not going to try it lol just bcs you said it, but I am curious if I can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:49 PM
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Yep it’s just feels like high school stuff lol I literally just don’t care for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:47 PM
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Bcs I only want to warn people from doing things, the rest I don’t care I’m not interested in drama or spreading it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:37 PM
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Oohhh nope I’m not sending pictures especially not after the last incident with people sharing theirs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:01 PM
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Omg thanks!! 🙈 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:57 PM
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Awww would you actually??? I mean I’ve already got a few lol, like it’s up to you if you want to seriously I wouldn’t mind 🤷‍♀️. And I’ve also wrote everyone a card Btw happy cake day 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:51 PM
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No seriously don’t like it’s actually so annoying!! Just ask the question, or tell me what it’s about so I don’t have to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:49 PM
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Omg now I’m curious!! But if you don’t want to it’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:34 PM
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Hmm I don’t think a question will get you banned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:30 PM
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I tend to overthink and feel embarrassed idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:28 PM
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Yep that’s what someone suggested to me is to try to be open and just do things im uncomfortable with, but with not a lot of consequences, bcs nobody here knows me it’s seems like a good place tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:18 PM
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So I have no idea if I was… do people remember these things lol. I mean I like mine, they’re nice, I don’t find them to be anything special or something to obsess over like guys do, like I just don’t see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:16 PM
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lol I did say it’s okay, but my heart is racing 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:13 PM
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I’ve never tried this before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:10 PM
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Well I don’t have a social circle, but I don’t like having lots of attention on me, I’m pretty shy, awkward it doesn’t really help my life tbh lol it’s hard to get over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:09 PM
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Ask Brigid an intrusive question! I’ll leave my comfort zone and I have been asking you guys lots of questions so I will reciprocate, if there is anything you want to know I will answer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:06 PM
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I understand I was just curious to know why you did change bcs I was going to say that I don’t want to answer (so other peoples don’t ask lol), btw I don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking, and I do appreciate the thought that maybe I wouldn’t have wanted to answer I agree it’s something a good husband would do 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:40 PM
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I would answer, it’s good questions to know, but not to strangers!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:36 PM
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Is this an ask Brigid intrusive questions day lol, btw I don’t think it’s wrong to ask I’m just letting you guys know that I won’t answer these type of questions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:22 PM
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Oh I wasn’t going to answer lol I just clicked on my notification and then saw the comment be totally different, btw you shouldn’t have edited bcs it’s even more 🤨 lool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:53 PM
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Why did you edit the question 🤔 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:44 PM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:56 PM
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😱 A good wife wouldn’t say that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:36 PM
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Aww that’s cute thanks!! ☺️🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:01 PM
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But I don’t have one 😞 However you’re right! And I would 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:49 PM
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Awww thanks but I’m not counting on it lol ☺️🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:42 PM
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Aww nooo my stomach isn’t going to like this !!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:13 PM
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Thanks !! 🥰🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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Oh of course, it’s just a joke I have here lol I think mostly everyone here knows, but thanks 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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lol yea right, but I’m only joking so I will let you off today (bcs I’m feeling nice not evil) 😌🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:19 PM
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🙂🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:30 PM
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‘Thanks miss Brigid that’s sweet, have a happy valentines’ those exact words but thanks 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:24 PM
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😇🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:23 PM
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Aww noo you’re a good bf dont try lying to us lol 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:05 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:04 PM
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🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:44 PM
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😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:28 PM
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Aww thanks! Nom nom nom, whoops I eaten them all lol 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:00 PM
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Aww thanks that’s sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:59 PM
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Happy Valentine’s Day!! 💜 I’ve made a card for everyone (excluding bad bfs/ husbands lol) so if you didn’t get one, well now you did, Save it, frame it hang it on your wall!! :) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:57 PM
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Yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:49 PM
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Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:49 PM
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Of course not, we’re terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:22 AM
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Yep I do. I think the majority are being sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:46 AM
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I understand humour but joking taking advantage of people it’s just not funny 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:42 PM
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No that’s where you’re wrong, being deceptive to have sex is terrible, how could you live with yourself for doing that?? Why would you not prefer to have sex with someone who you love, and they love you, youre each others worlds, it’s literally infinitely better is it not I get it, you get horny, I do too!! I’m okay using my toy to get me by… I can wait until I find someone, I won’t be deceptive and use someone, definitely wouldn’t suggest that to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:12 PM
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A good husband wouldn’t say that!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:50 PM
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Why did you get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:37 PM
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I just don’t understand why they see it a some kind of attack Like why would you not want to be a good bf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:31 PM
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Oh okay so you go on a tangent instead, that’s good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:29 PM
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That’s not answering my question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:24 PM
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Well I appreciate you being the first person to actually answer the question lol, everyone else seems to freeze
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:18 PM
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Hmm there was a personal attack he called me a child!!!! But I’m okay with that, I’ve asked a different question. Why assume it’s one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 PM
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It literally just did lool scroll down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:03 PM
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No stop copying me lol 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:00 PM
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Why is it that when I say to men to be a good bf, they go up in arms about how it’s only one sided?! You wouldn’t want to be with a woman who is not a good gf to you would you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:55 PM
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(We do)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:46 PM
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Yess!!! I knew it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:45 PM
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Nope that’s not good enough I’ve made it clear that I want to be a good gf, what makes you think that by saying be a good bf, it’s only one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:43 PM
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What’s weird is you assume that it’s one sided Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:39 PM
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Aww so you do agree 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:31 PM
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But it’s not a fantasy and you know it’s not, there’s lots of good gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:20 PM
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Nope bcs I would be a good gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:18 PM
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I mean I’m joking about the Brigid tax, I don’t expect them to pay I’m happy to split But bcs I’m very shy, awkward I don’t think I’d be able to build up the courage to ask someone out, I’m not against it and perhaps one day I could, but I think men have more courage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:17 PM
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Hotlack don’t tell me that you wouldn’t want to be a good bf (to a good gf)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:15 PM
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Yep I think both people should aspire to put 100% into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:12 PM
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Would you pay the Brigid tax 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:10 PM
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See I think you like to act tough, but why would you not want to treat you gf well, and I’m only joking about the clown thing. But just being a good bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:09 PM
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Yep 🥰 And btw I know you’d love to do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:07 PM
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That’s not whimsical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:00 PM
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Loyalty, respect, thoughtfulness, effort, you know just being there for them, treating them good, checking in, surprises, supporting them and that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:58 PM
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2026 version lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:51 PM
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Yesss!!! I Always knew you’d agree 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:32 PM
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If I was a man I’d aspire to treat my gf like a queen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:27 PM
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Brigid tax - they ask, plan and pay lol Tbh I wouldn’t mind it going either way but I’m too shy awkward to initiate so really it just wouldnt go any other way, I’d reciprocate on the second date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:37 PM
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Aww you’re asking us for approval, hmm let me think 🤔 Nope not allowed, maybe if you go 1 week without a wimin terrible comment I will change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:28 PM
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Aww thanks 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:02 PM
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Yep it’s rough sometimes lol but once it’s done it’s done I know you’ve got this 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:43 PM
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I wish I could do this with mine I usually leave mine so late 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:25 PM
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Let me guess, assignments??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:56 PM
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Or just a day for yourself that’s what I’m planning to do 🤷‍♀️ Wash my hair and stuff, spend like ages in the shower lol do my nails, maybe dress up, get some nice food snacks and watch a few movies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:25 PM
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They didn’t want people to start crying bcs they’re single lol, but I also think valentines doesn’t necessarily have to be celebrated with a partner or a date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:11 PM
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Yep it probably is just a waste of money, I really like looking at the displays idk it’s just a nice atmosphere, but I have read that people are changing how they celebrate, it’s now becoming more homely with less money being spent, I’d probably do something similar just a nice relaxing date sounds good, but hope you guys enjoy your night!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:01 PM
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Aww that’s amazing they used to decorate here, well mainly just the centre but now that’s just depressing lol Perhaps it’s bcs everyone just gets stuff online now, it seems to kill everything like events, displays. Everyone just stays home so nobody will see it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:34 PM
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That’s a good point, I’ve looked into it and the number of adults who say they celebrate valentines dropped by 7% in the last few years, to around 51% which I think is surprisingly low It does suck tbh everything going online bcs I also remember even my city put up displays like hearts and stuff hanging from buildings in the centre, maybe they just don’t think it’s worth the investment anymore nobody’s going to be there to look
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:27 PM
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Looks like less people are celebrating valentines I remember going into stores and they’d put up big displays, lots of cards, plushies, gifts chocolates etc it looked cute really felt special but now it’s just like half an aisle with a few cards and plushies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:27 PM
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Yep it sucks, I mean I have very conflicting feelings about it part of me is okay with it and another part is not so idk, but thanks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:22 AM
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Lol no I don’t I can barely form surface level friendships how will I get a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:16 AM
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We’ll have fun! I will be cozying in my sweats bcs that’s what I do lool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:07 AM
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My Labrador bf post got to you didn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:47 AM
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That’s complicating it too much. it’s just an incompatibility the feelings are probably mutual, you think she’s a prude and she thinks well you’re trying to get in her panties, best to move on and not think about it too much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:44 PM
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That’s why Labrador husbands are good so they can deal with it patiently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:48 PM
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I don’t think they know themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:45 PM
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<image> Omg too cute!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:35 PM
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Now I want a Labrador bcs I posted about Labrador husbands but the dog is actually soo cute lol, maybe a labradoodle so it stays a tiny ball of fluff forever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:31 PM
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Aww yep like to me that sounds perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:15 PM
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Oh definitely not but it’s like a bonding exercise lol, it makes a relationship stronger. I’ve not seen the story with those streamers you’ve commented so idk what’s happened
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:42 PM
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I don’t want a fancy wedding with lots of people I’d be happy with just our families being there and just a small venue to celebrate, lots of people don’t have fancy weddings, ive been to a few and they’ve all been pretty humble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:36 PM
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No but I think it’s a good sign if you can make it through rough moments as a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:27 PM
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Tbh same, a cute Labrador is a really good alternative. Well make it 2 and also a very cute cat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:13 PM
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Hmm tbh I don’t think it will actually die but a lot of alternatives will gain more traction, they will feel it for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:12 PM
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Yea right if they cared they’d have done something about it ages ago
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:10 PM
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Exactly lol they probably already know exactly who you are just by your internet/ email and things but something about giving my face and id to use websites bugs me lol, I’m a very private person and that’s like the appeal of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:09 PM
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Looks like discord is going to die bcs of the age verification, sucks tbh I don’t use it often I’m in a few artsy, study servers and people are already leaving lol but it’s nice having somewhere to post my arts, get tips and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:28 PM
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Well we can’t have it all lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:33 PM
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We all know secretly you want to be a good Labrador bf it’s okay to say it lol Well anyway if you change your mind you can refer back to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:22 PM
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And don’t forget about cuddles, pets and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:51 PM
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Yep as well as being let off the leash at times, but only if you haven’t been playing up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:49 PM
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It’s hilarious it’s good to make a point, I picked the lab bcs I think they’re cuter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:45 PM
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I will I’m trying to make men here see the benefits of being a good husband, like how can you look at that cute face and say I don’t want be like it???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:35 PM
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I think they’re great bfs and ideally you’d have a mixture of both in a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:33 PM
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Nope this isn’t up for discussion 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:20 PM
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Nope I just posted about a great role model so read it and take notes 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:15 PM
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They are terrible role models lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:10 PM
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<image> This is a Labrador, soo cute and a perfect companion, but what else are labradors good for? They are the perfect role model on how to be a good husband!!! Why, bcs they are •Unfailingly loyal A Labrador is ride or die. Your wins are their wins •Emotionally available They notice when you’re sad and will sit with you until you’re okay, no fixing, just their presence •Low drama, high joy Labradors wake up happy. Every day. They’d bring good vibes only to a marriage without being fake about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:56 PM
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😞 My quest has failed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:41 PM
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A role model is someone you can take inspiration from, how to act in this world etc, their moral compass it’s not about scandals or being a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:27 PM
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And that’s exactly what they do Nobody is perfect but there’s a clear line between someone being absolutely terrible and an overall positive person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:09 PM
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It’s terrible, this world sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:06 PM
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There’s people here in their 30s, 40s like there’s a time to grow up imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:04 PM
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People share stuff that kids do bcs they’re kids and put them online for upvotes, we all done stupid things as children its expected
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:04 PM
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Yep exactly that’s a very good role model lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:01 PM
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Bcs they are good men, they do good things in the world. They don’t spread hate or toxic stuff, they have good morals So what I’m understanding is that if you don’t think they are good role models, it means you have terrible morals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:00 PM
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There’s so many good male role models like Keane reeves, Steve Irwin etc but why do men choose to follow these red pill idiots, scammers I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:50 PM
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lol but that’s what I don’t understand is why be mean and stuff?? That’s not how to be a good husband I think that should be clear And also there’s probably a lot of single women looking for someone and seeing this stuff will just put them off even more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:24 PM
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It’s terrible to see tbh there was progress at first like I sensed a much more positive environment but I’ve read some stuff that I gasped so ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:20 PM
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I’ve given up on my idea of making good husbands here things seem to be going the opposite direction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:17 PM
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Guys in my school would play games trying to hit each other in the balls and stuff like they found it funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:55 PM
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I know they banned social media for teenagers in Australia and tbh the last thing I want to do is send photos of my self my id and stuff to use websites. I really hope it doesn’t come anywhere else or they think of a better way of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:46 PM
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Oooh mr serious well I guess not everyone enjoys this type of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:26 PM
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Yep I don’t think governments should be restricting people like this I can kind of get it but it should be on parents to put in parental controls for their children… that’s the issue they seem to have is with teenagers accessing social media and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:24 PM
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Well I guess it’s a good excuse to accidentally give them a kick in the balls lool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:15 PM
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I didn’t I usually don’t remember my dreams but I’m just hoping I don’t move around or talk in my dreams bcs that’s terrible lol it would be annoying for someone sleeping next to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:59 AM
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I had a nightmare and I screamed and I think I screamed irl bcs I woke myself up 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:13 AM
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By cuddly you mean they’re so cute you want to jump on them and give them cuddles lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:47 PM
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Aww that’s sweet wishing many more happy years for you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:31 PM
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Battle scars lol that’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:25 PM
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Describe to me the woman of your dreams, one that comes to mind, stop being difficult lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:14 AM
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Perhaps it’s conventionally attractive but I think having a type means some stuff which you find extra attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:13 AM
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I like slightly longer hair too (so I can pull it when they’re playing up lool)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:05 AM
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So you have no physical preferences at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:59 AM
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Aww that’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 AM
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Aww noo don’t say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 AM
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From the comments I can see a really huge variety of types people like And I hope you are taking care of yourself!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:49 AM
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Hey it’s okay!! To me your comment read fine, thank you for sharing 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:45 AM
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So a man of many tastes, lol I’m joking thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:32 PM
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lol the last sentence is hilarious, thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:05 PM
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I’m definitely a sucker for a nice joyful smile too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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Yess I like nice bright eyes too, green, blue, hazel all of them lol, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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By long legs do you mean they’re probably a little on the taller side??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:03 PM
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Aww that’s so sweet, wish you guys well!! Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:02 PM
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Well that’s rather detailed lol I guess I did ask, thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:00 PM
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Aww that’s cute, hope all goes well with you guys!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:58 PM
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Aww that sounds just like me lool I’m joking thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:57 PM
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Nooo 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:18 PM
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I’m asking for your type!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:08 PM
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No more to add?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:06 PM
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Interesting! Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:06 PM
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I agree if I don’t like them as a person then the physical aspects wouldn’t matter one bit, it wouldn’t go further
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:54 PM
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You would put angels into prison??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:49 PM
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I’m only joking btw I don’t think most of us are that terrible tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:48 PM
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Oh okay I see what you mean, they’re like very open
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:46 PM
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Right it’s much better to spend your time laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:44 PM
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Oohh we have a mr serious over here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:44 PM
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That is very true, I definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:42 PM
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That’s interesting so you’re type becomes the person you end up falling for pretty much, I’ve always thought this happens like you’ll have a picture in your head of your perfect person but who you fall for isn’t necessarily exactly like you imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:41 PM
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I have a very similar type to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:38 PM
1

Wdym by big eyes??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:38 PM
1

I’m ginger but I’m 5’2 lool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:37 PM
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Yep you’ve got us, what now??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:30 PM
2

Cmon you can do better than that lol, give me details!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 PM
1

You know I’m surprised to hear you say that bcs I always took you for someone who is super serious, I don’t think I’ve ever seen you crack a joke or anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 PM
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Q4A: what is your type looks wise which you tend to gravitate towards?? And for those in a relationship how close is the person to your ‘type’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:35 PM
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Sooo is that a yes?? You like when you can be silly together, not everything has to be super serious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:51 PM
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It’s such a nonsensical comment lol like what am I meant to reply to that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:38 PM
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They should all have I think it’s just automod messing up, I had someone use my comment as an auto mod like lol thanks??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:28 PM
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Tbh I wouldn’t date someone super serious too, I’d like someone to be silly with and perhaps even mischievous at times lool, I don’t mean like breaking the law and things but just like playing pranks on each other and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:46 PM
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Definitely there’s times which call for seriousness but I couldn’t imagine always being serious, being whimsical is how I like to entertain my self lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:39 PM
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Question for men: do you like it when a woman likes to be a little whimsical/silly at times??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:25 PM
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I’d make similarly incoherent posts on askreddit thinking I’m absolutely hilarious but I’d just get downvoted lool so yep I don’t do that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:42 PM
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If they are how would I know?? it’s not like they’d tell me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:27 PM
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I hate it when peoples tell me to smile, like if I wanted to smile I’d be smiling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:16 PM
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I have before and this was my reaction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:24 PM
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That’s why you put them on a leash so they don’t stray off too far lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:09 PM
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Maybe I’m just a romantic lol, bcs genuinely if you asked me If id rather have wanting to just have sex with me bcs they find me hot or if they’d rather have sex with me bcs they find me hot and want to spend their life with me. I’d choose latter option every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:05 PM
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From what people I’ve been friends with tell me a lot of causal relationships end in someone catching feelings, so someone being hurt bcs they’re not reciprocated Like rarely do these kinds of relationships actually end on good terms from looks of things. I guess it kind of does make sense it’s mostly inexperienced people who want them, but idk to me being truly loved would precedence over something casual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:56 PM
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It’s amazing how opposite the views are between men and women when it comes to causal sex, like literally totally opposite Most women don’t seem to view causal sex as an achievement, and if they do enjoy it, it’s just for fun, where as for most men, it’s a thing where they feel truly desired, but it seems for most women how they feel desired is being truly loved by someone, being the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:46 PM
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Hmm perhaps it’s like a societal or cultural thing? Bcs I genuinely would feel infinitely more desired if someone loved me, wanted to stay with just me, like I’m their whole world, I’m the only woman outside their friends or family that matters to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:34 PM
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What I don’t understand is why do men value hookups so much Like you will spend all this time to have 1 sexual experience with someone, and that is it, then you will spend time to do it again?? The time, the effort, the rejection between etc With a relationship you are having consistent sex, with someone you love, how is that not better?? I’m so curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:25 PM
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lool okay but I can’t promise anything 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:18 PM
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That sucks 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:16 PM
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Thanks will try to 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:52 AM
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I sucked at the game lol like the combat and stuff but I loved the story, it’s my favourite game and also bcs of the art
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:51 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
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Yep I do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
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Sometimes I’ve not really found anything to play since expedition 33, I usually just do artsy stuff if I got spare time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:16 AM
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lol no I don’t think that’s good for you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:16 AM
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Hopefully or I’ll just isolate for a month or two lol so ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:03 AM
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Well looks like I got my self in a depressive rut, that’s going to be fun 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:45 AM
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How can someone who knows nothing about me like me, tbh it just seems like they’re trying to take advantage of the fact that I’m lonely, there’s definitely nothing genuine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:52 AM
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I’ve even had it happen here a few times… like I get it I have my gender revealed and my avatar isn’t helping but still it just shouldn’t happen And it’s not only that bcs a lot of the times those people aren’t so friendly with you afterwards when they realise it isn’t happening, actually terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:14 AM
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Sucks how online I pretty much can’t go to any community without immediately being asked out or trying to be flirted with, bcs it makes it so awkward to stay there after and it doesn’t feel nice And I don’t get it like what are those people actually expecting?? you don’t know my name, you literally know nothing about me, I know nothing about you. I’m open to potentially finding a relationship online, but not 5 minutes after talking to someone lol, it’s a very bad first impression tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:32 AM
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Yep that’s really good, I like my whole head scratched pretty much lol I think it’s where I have really long hair so it irritates my skin, I do it all the time to my self
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:42 PM
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Looks like again won’t have nobody to give me head scratches this valentines 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:32 PM
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Ok party don’t act like you never thought it was clear orange juice and not just an empty bottle, it’s okay it happens to all of us!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:25 PM
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Aww happy birthday!! And hope things get better ❤️‍🩹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:08 PM
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But that defeats the purpose of brushing them, you should brush them after drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:05 PM
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Cold fresh, 100% squeezed gosh I’m salivating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:03 PM
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Orange juice is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:24 PM
4

You mean during summertime??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:51 PM
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Well I can only speak for my self, I’m too possessive so if he’s mine, he’s only mine. Wouldn’t work any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:41 PM
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I know but there’s a big line between just going to asking someone out/ heavy flirting and just being a little flirty/teasy if you think maybe they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 AM
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Do they have feelings for each other??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:32 AM
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Why do you guys ruin it for yourselves??!!! You know people would want to compliment you more if you responded appropriately, and also a good husband would know to respond appropriately :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:31 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:15 AM
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Perhaps a thanks miss Brigid that’s so kind, is a more suitable answer, what do you think about that??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:11 AM
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But that’s still taking compliments badly lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:06 AM
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<image> Something like this?? its so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:00 AM
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They sure do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:41 AM
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There’s also r/femalelivingspace if you’re into that kind of thing lots of inspiration and idk I find it easier to talk with them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:35 AM
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r/malelivingspace It’s actually hilarious they’ll post a picture of a plastic chair and a tv in a room and everyone’s just there saying its perfect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:23 AM
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I know I’d really love to feel comfortable to wear a mini skirt with tights I’ve been loving that look recently it’s so cute!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:23 AM
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That’s like something my dad texts me when I tell him something, that’s not how you respond to a compliment lol at least say thanks that’s sweet or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:17 AM
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Yep 😞 But it’s bcs I feel like people have over sexualised them and I hate thinking that I have this kind of attention on me, makes me feel so self conscious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:10 AM
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Guys are so terrible at taking compliments I’ve tried complimenting the guys over at the living space sub saying stuff like ‘nice room I’d chill there’ and they just respond with OK 👍 or one even said to me im gay lool Like im not doing that again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:03 AM
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Nope sooo I just feel self conscious when I do wear them and I can’t get over it 😞 I think skirts are so pretty and cute but yep and the embarrassment seems to even extend over to my avatar lol… so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:58 PM
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Gosh I’m so awkward I made a Reddit avatar with a skirt but I changed it bcs I was feeling the embarrassment through my avatar lol 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:57 PM
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But if you fall in love with each other then work won’t stop you… people cross seas for each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:38 PM
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Yep I think so too, I really see nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone from work… it happens a lot. But it’s probably a thing that develops over time, like there’s clear tension and stuff between you and it’s been there for a while, not just asking someone out straight away lol I’m actually dreading starting work and that happening to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:23 PM
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Yep I skipped my classes today and had a nap and watched stark trek discovery instead lool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:19 PM
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Great ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:12 PM
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I’d be open to being asked out at work I guess but only if I like them, if not it’s going to be awkward sooo idk haven’t been through that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:10 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:59 PM
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Our lectures are recorded so I don’t feel bad if I miss them occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:59 PM
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Nope probably not 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:32 PM
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Based miss Brigid ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:14 PM
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You know I’m literally watching a Star Trek series lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:12 PM
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Oh it’s perfect, I’m a heat seeking animal 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:57 PM
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😈 Gosh I love having free will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:57 PM
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I’m skipping classes and just going to be warm and cozy in my bed 😸
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:46 PM
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😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:36 AM
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I mean just the terrible things that happen, idk perhaps shouldn’t have been reading the news and got my self depressed lool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:22 AM
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This world sucks tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:12 AM
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I’ve been trying to think but I can’t lol, it all sounds nice but I think it’s the person you’re with that makes a date ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:27 PM
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😌 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:07 AM
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Yep and when I graduate I will have lots of work husbands 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:27 AM
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I guess it depends on what someone likes, if they liked those alt women then they probably would have listened to what they say they like in a person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:30 PM
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Ooh do you like them a little chunky, squishy??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:29 PM
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So fierce 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:47 PM
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I think bcs Reddit attracts a lot of alt people, and alt people like things that are, well different lol I like skinny men always have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:46 PM
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lol that’s actually so me, evil miss Brigid 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:22 PM
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Yess!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:20 PM
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I plan to have lots of work husbands, but no sex and stuff I just want them to do stuff for me so I can relax lol 💅🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:26 PM
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😌😴🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:51 PM
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😤😤🙄😠 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:29 PM
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Hmm I don’t remember exactly but something like women who like this type of person don’t exist and that being similar to cillian is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:54 AM
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Idk what agenda relationship means???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:45 PM
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Jumping on him and then cling onto him for a bit, that’s what it means 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:35 PM
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It’s miss Brigid!!! And it’s not it’s just you see it that way 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:29 PM
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Its short and snappy, I’d probably write a massive paragraph no one would bother reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:28 PM
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He so cute id jump on him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:26 PM
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I like it and so does rule number 7 so we exist 🙂 But that’s also another thing, not everyone will find you attractive I think a lot of people make the mistake of trying to appeal to everyone, and take it to heart when someone doesn’t, it’s okay not everyone will like you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:24 PM
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Oh Im fine with that, but a girl can dream can’t she??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:13 PM
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Yess we should start thinking of a bio for you, i think instead of saying looking for someone boring, it’s better to say someone who finds joy in a peaceful and quite time, or something along those lines But me I’m just over here chilling in my sweats enjoying my self 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:13 PM
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Seems unhealthy and homeless so nope lool but also goes to show how taking care of yourself can make such a difference!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:03 PM
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I say my opinion shouldn’t matter tbh all that matters is if you’re happy with yourself really, I think that’s where it all starts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:59 PM
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More evidence that we’re literally twins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:58 PM
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Well I do think cillian Murphy is very attractive especially in that show peaky blinders omg idk why but I like the haircut and the gentlemanly clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:52 PM
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Yea right lol but I do think introverted bfs are underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:44 PM
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I need a bf like cillian Murphy wouldn’t worry about him straying off too far anywhere lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:25 PM
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We know you’ve said this 100’s of times now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:22 PM
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The idea is to use bots to make as much content with as little effort as possible, if you click on the side bar on Reddit you will see ‘earn cash with Reddit’ and for every award you receive on a post it gives you money, so that’s probably why Reddit is mostly bot posts now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:55 PM
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That’s terrible tbh lol, I’d urge you not to do it, good husbands don’t jab at people :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:44 AM
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Btw a good husband doesn’t purposely annoy his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:40 AM
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Idk why It feels like my femininity is being stripped away, I don’t think it’s necessarily a jab, perhaps more just a habit men get into from talking with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:29 AM
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Oh I can definitely understand lol, I mean I probably wouldn’t unless they purposely and repeatedly do it just to get me mad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:27 AM
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It’s miss Brigid!! But I’m doing great 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:26 AM
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My pet peeve is being called bro, I don’t like being a bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:52 AM
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That’s great but this is in the context of dating and my own preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:20 AM
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If you knew anything about anatomy then it would be helpful, very much infact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:59 AM
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Nope :) I’m not a gossip lady you just won’t get that stuff out of me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:57 AM
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Yep 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:47 AM
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It’s miss Brigid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:46 AM
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I don’t want to say but I will make sure they get banned every time I see them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:42 AM
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One thing people can learn from this post is that everyone has their own preferences, some people like being approached, others don’t. And that’s okay!! If you want to approach, approach them lol!! If you’re respectful if the feelings arent reciprocated that’s all anyone can ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:09 AM
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I’d rather not and that’s my point, just not how I’d like to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:38 PM
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They just want to sleep with me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:36 PM
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It’s a risk I’m not willing to take Someone I’ve known for ages is definitely a much safer choice so that’s what I will go for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:35 PM
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Yep exactly it just raises questions which just the thought of put me off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:32 PM
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I guess it works out for some people, I just see my self starting things off with someone I know well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:31 PM
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Someone’s who’s been banned here for a very good reason, they keep on making accounts and I keep on catching them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:28 PM
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Oh I understand that, it’s just how I’d like to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:27 PM
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I know but from my perspective I don’t know that, you could have approached 100 women that day lol, idk I just don’t want the risk of being hurt with bad intentions and stuff you know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:26 PM
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I dont but I envision starting things off as friends, perhaps there will be tension between us but I’d like to make sure as possible that we’re compatible, a good match
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:23 PM
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I don’t like being approached, it’s awkward, I don’t have the social skills to navigate it. But it’s mostly bcs who am I really to them?? I’d be just someone who said yes out of how many no’s they’ve received
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:18 PM
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I know who this is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:26 PM
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Really lol. You know what I think, you’re not arousing her enough !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:08 PM
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That’s also another point, where are these women going to go?? To a poorer country with more traditional men, like it’s just a bad deal all round lol, you’ll have lower standards of living and also be treated worse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:27 PM
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Tbh I think it’s just people being burnt out with dating and voicing their frustrations, but are they actually considering leaving their country? I doubt it, it seems like so much effort for no guarantee anything will actually be different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:07 PM
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Perhaps bcs we aren’t as desperate, besides who even has money to leave their country just to date people lol, outside of these spaces I just don’t hear about it, and even here when you do people say they would do it, but they don’t (probably bcs they can’t afford to)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 PM
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Ive not been anywhere I had you on my list for a while bcs after you said to show me a picture of my thighs (after I said I want a tattoo there) lool but perhaps I overreacted, so you’ve been forgiven, don’t ruin it!! And irl I am very reserved and quite I guess, but when I feel comfortable I can be a bit of a yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:21 AM
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Idk I just don’t think I’d find anything meaningful on them and I also heard so many horror stories I’d be put off dating for life, bcs I can take things to heart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:19 AM
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I’ve been wondering what happened to the daily chat here, it used to be much more active and it’s a pretty unique idea like I can’t find another place with one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:54 AM
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I can actually, I do it often just pondering on things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:15 AM
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Dysfunctional people exist in every gender 🤷‍♀️ Like I don’t know what you want me to say to that lol, you can run with any narrative you want to but I’m pretty certain that majority of women wouldn’t tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:07 AM
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Maybe I am a bit of a yapper after all lol, but tbh I don’t think that’s a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:00 AM
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Oohh that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:57 AM
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I think it’s means bcs you think being mean to women turns them on, well I’ll let you know for me that will not work lol (it will do the opposite)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:56 AM
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🖕 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:36 AM
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Are you lying to mee 🧐??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:13 AM
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Yesss!!! Oh and happy cake day btw 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:12 AM
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ohh that’s cool, you know I thought it’s something to do with something supernatural, like and odds thing, guess I got that totally wrong lool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:06 AM
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I just checked and I can see why it reminds you of my avatar lol, looks interesting might see if they have it on Netflix and stuff!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:03 AM
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I haven’t haven’t heard of it either tbh what’s it’s about!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:52 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:46 PM
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Are you ginger too??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:33 PM
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Ooh that sounds interesting I like artsy stuff, perhaps one day you can name a ranch after your username
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:31 PM
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Ooh lord of the rings, loved that tbh but switched the w to a b lool that’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:24 PM
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It’s not, it’s pretty close and yep it’s rough 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:22 PM
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I still need to watch that show! Seems interesting And lol, I think it’s hilarious just even reading your username pop up on my notifications makes me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:18 PM
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Well tbh I didn’t think much of it apart from what I said so idk probably other people seeing the same way tbh But mines very personal to me, if you go into Irish mythology deep enough Brigid was one of the fairies (hence Brigidfairy) I used it as a self confidence thing growing up with her being a red head and stuff, it means a lot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:15 PM
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You know I thought it was your first name, and the XY being for male chromosomes lol, well got that one totally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:06 PM
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lol well I actually like french toast too haven’t eaten it in ages tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:04 PM
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Awww that’s so sweet 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:03 PM
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It definitely fits this subreddit, very well actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:58 PM
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Well I agree with the first half lool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:42 PM
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You know I was thinking something similar, now it’s confirmed!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:31 PM
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Q4A: does your username have any meaning, a reference to something/ someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yep 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:07 PM
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I would be such an annoying gf this is exactly the type of I imagine my self doing 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:06 PM
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Never!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:39 PM
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I do like it! Some of them are hilarious I found this on Pinterest just now <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:30 PM
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I don’t even have a cat lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:12 PM
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🥰 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:02 PM
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You thinking how much I’m right?? Aww thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:57 PM
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Are you saying that you don’t agree??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:17 PM
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lool you know I can’t think of anything more to add to yours either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:09 PM
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😌 And yep in Irish mythology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:00 PM
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My notes I really can’t think of anything more to add <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:53 PM
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Did you find it helpful?? I’ve been a few times my university gave me a few sessions and I just found it really calming to unload on the therapist lol, I even had notes and just said everything I had on my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:12 PM
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I can be both I like being silly at times 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:01 PM
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Well I think it’s great you have someone now who you can share that stuff with, and know you’re safe with what you share bcs people can use that stuff against you especially those irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:03 PM
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Oooh lol I will
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:24 PM
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So I think that’s great I don’t see why men shouldn’t support each other.. especially if they don’t have anyone else, it’s good to have someone there for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:08 PM
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I’ve already started making lots of good husbands 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:07 PM
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That’s one thing I’m struggling with is trying to think what’s the line when it becomes over sharing, trauma dumping
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:07 PM
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Do you find it helps sharing that stuff?? Bcs I feel like even if it’s not exactly helpful it’s good anyway so you can better understand someone, get to know them more, just like a deeper connection kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:55 PM
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So you feel like you don’t really need to tell anyone anything that’s going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:38 PM
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Aww well I guess I can kind of understand, with me I just feel like I’m being an inconvenience, like nobody really wants to hear that stuff genuinely you know, and like that I’m just being annoying. But idk it does make me feel better getting it out Idk why I think that bcs I’m pretty open to hearing people and just listening so no idea why I think nobody else would want to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:36 PM
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Well I think it’s great you feel comfortable to share that stuff, it’s good But I guess there is a line where it just becomes trauma dumping, seems difficult to establish that line tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:16 PM
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Question for men: do you feel like you want to share your feelings and stuff with your partner or just other people?? Bcs I think you actually do but maybe are scared or think it’s not manly to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:00 PM
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Oh yea of course I’m just talking in the context of someone you love, bcs I guess when you love a person you love their flaws and imperfections - it’s what makes them, them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:08 PM
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Btw this is something a good husband would say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:04 PM
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Gosh that sounds horrible to go through, but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:00 PM
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That’s heartbreaking to hear, but im happy how you’ve grown from it 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:58 PM
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Aww that’s really sweet I’d like to marry my first bf, idk it just seems so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:43 PM
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Well I’m not going to believe you now lool but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:39 PM
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I like how they can carry stuff (especially heavy shopping bags) And they can fix stuff around the house, just the strength they have I find fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:28 PM
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I can answer this for them, they love everything about us, just the way we are 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:27 PM
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Did you manage to find someone after getting back out there??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:27 PM
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I hope you treat your gf better bcs you lied multiple times about not having a gf and she deserves to be acknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:26 PM
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Aww well thanks for sharing, do you still have a crush on her?? Do you keep on her life at all on social media and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:24 PM
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Do you mind sharing why you regret your first adult relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:23 PM
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I’m just worried I wouldn’t know what to do with the feelings, regret, but maybe I’m just overthinking 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:19 PM
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Aww nooo :( but that’s a really sweet way to think about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:16 PM
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Do you find that they have a special place somewhere bcs they’re the first person you loved and stuff / or well thought you loved maybe, or are they pretty much just gone from your mind lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:01 PM
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First and as a side question: is your first relationship something you have fond memories of or is it something you come to regret??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:20 AM
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Yep and that’s why men should take notes to avoid this and be good husbands 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:36 AM
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I hope you’ve taken good note of this, in fact show me the notes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:28 AM
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💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 AM
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Yeah right you wouldn’t cheat on your gf I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 AM
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A good husband wouldn’t say things like ‘keep me fed,keep my balls empty and I won’t cheat’ Gosh it’s such a horrible choice of words, just don’t say it!! 1 it makes you sound like a baby incapable of feeding yourself and we’re not maids 2 people have sex together when they both want it 3 putting conditions on cheating is just toxic I’m pretty sure for most women those would be the last words you ever spoke to her if you said it irl - take notes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:45 AM
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Perhaps all I know is that I would make a great gambler (for the house) loool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:00 AM
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See told you 😌 2 for 2 never fails!!! Lool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:54 AM
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Hmm I will use my psychic abilities again, he will lose. And please do let me know the result
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:31 AM
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Wfh bf, and wfh gf, that’s my dream so we can live in a forest property away from everyone and be alone, peaceful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:48 AM
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Perhaps also at first there were compatibility issues which they overlooked and then became an issue after and that’s why they break up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:46 AM
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I want an introvert bf he ain’t going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:42 AM
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Tbh keeping them on a very short leash seems so much easier lool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:32 AM
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I have a very short chain for that exact reason, can’t have him straying off anywhere too far!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:28 AM
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What’s NRE??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:26 AM
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So I’ve read that a lot of relationships do actually end after the honey moon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:54 AM
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But that doesn’t sound like polygamy bcs during that time you only think about one person, you just want to be with them… Btw your good wife post was terrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:53 AM
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I hope so 😅 Perhaps it’s an effort thing just both of you trying your best to keep the spark
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:49 AM
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Supposedly a lot of relationships end after the homey moon phase, like people describe it as coming out of a dream, an illusion that slowly falls apart. Like that’s kinda worrying to me tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:43 AM
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The honey moon phase seems so weird, you’re like obsessed with each other, have sex like rabbits, madly in love butterflies etc, and then it just ends after a year or so lol. Seems like those feelings should last forever in a relationship tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:24 AM
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I feel like such an old lady going on Reddit and reading the news page
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:12 PM
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And best of luck on the apps!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:38 PM
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Wdym serious like you tell them you want a serious relationship and they say they don’t and want that??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:36 PM
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Well at least you didn’t lie lool but I guess everyone can make up their own minds
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:35 PM
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Well I think it’s great you manage to get dates tbh… that’s really good but I understand the feeling of things not going well it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:31 PM
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Are you crushing on people here in that case 🧐 don’t lie to meee!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:18 PM
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Where does it tend to go wrong, like you’ll go on a few dates, or when you’re talking stage and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:17 PM
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I got you too bcs I know exactly who you are lool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:09 PM
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Yep but I’m scared lol I just can’t press the send button and especially if it turns out they don’t like me I’d be so devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:03 PM
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I’m still crushing on this one person who followed me a few months ago 🤦‍♀️ I knew them from school I was convinced they’ll message me but nope :((
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:01 PM
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Hmm are you telling me lies??? Every single woman lol 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:59 PM
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Wow that’s a really long time tbh, what goes wrong if you don’t mine me asking?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:59 PM
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Question for single people: do you have a crush, are you talking to anyone, how often do you find yourself between finding someone you’re interested in/ talking to someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:47 PM
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I know what you mean i get like 100x more social and whimsical when i drink ice done stuff like cuddle with my girl friends at the time or well kiss and stuff loool omg it’s so embarrassing thinking about that stupid stuff you do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:39 PM
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Well if you get the chance definitely try it, it seems much more healthier and their fries, I think they’re called Cajun fries, OMG they are the best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:30 PM
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Some of them do sound nice, it’s just the ‘beer’ part that puts me off but maybe I’ll like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:27 PM
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I’ve heard of things like crafts beer, is that what you mean, is that like idk they add flavourings to it and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:24 PM
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What’s the difference??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:23 PM
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Yesss!!! That’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:21 PM
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Gosh I love popeyes it’s really good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:20 PM
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Do you drink often??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:16 PM
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Perhaps it’s an old person thing lol, it’s like wine supposedly girls love wine, well that’s disgusting too, I was sick after drinking it the first time and tbh idk if I’ll ever try it again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:12 PM
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Aww nooo what’s going on if you want to share with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:06 PM
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Men can you answer this honestly, do you actually like beer??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:04 PM
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Hot lack I hope you’re taking care of yourself and also I have to say this but on your profile description you have ‘believe’ spent wrong you have beleive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:01 PM
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Do you just like start messaging a bunch of people and stuff when you drink??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:59 PM
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You know what I think, men say they like beer bcs every other man says they like it. But they actually don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:53 PM
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I’ve tried beer it is actually disgusting, I like cocktail drinks like vodka mixed with juice and stuff, or just them canned cocktail drink those are my favourite
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:45 PM
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I rarely drink tbh, I like it but idk just having a drink on my own feels sooo weird lol. Well hope you guys enjoy your drinks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:40 PM
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Going to have a beer after work ain’t that right boys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:35 PM
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Don’t doubt my tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:34 PM
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Gosh no thanks Brigid no nothing 😠 Men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:07 AM
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Men terrible Here you go 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:00 AM
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Hey! That’s my role here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:51 PM
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Yep same here. I don’t let it bother me that’s exactly what they want, we call them downvote demons here lool Though I would love to figure out who it is, the mind wonders!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:41 PM
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So I don’t want to share anyones names / details I’m just trying to warn people how toxic the communities here are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:38 PM
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Yep and if anything this should be an eye opening experience to people, you might think people are your friends, you trust them, but something goes wrong, a little argument and stuff you don’t want out there WILL get out there Sucks tbh I’ve pretty much given up hope finding an online community that’s trustworthy, it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:55 PM
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Bcs at first all seems okay, like a good community, you start feeling comfortable you start sharing personal info, pictures of yourself with each other Well something goes wrong and turns out people showing your pictures to other people, people doing inappropriate things with your pictures…. Using your personal information against you etc very toxic environment It’s happened, and gosh I’m so glad I never shared anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:50 PM
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I’m not sure but if you want to avoid that put your profile on private, so nobody outside your friends can go through it. Remove your city you live in, remove where you went to school etc bcs then it would just be your name left to identify you, among thousands it would be hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:42 PM
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It’s pretty simple, she knew your first name plus your city. You can filter that stuff on Facebook and find people pretty easily, I know I’ve done this 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:36 PM
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Don’t join the discords!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:32 PM
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Aww sorry to hear that well thanks for sharing 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:24 PM
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Do you have similar feelings/ thoughts?? I’d like to hear if you want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:57 PM
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What I mean is that I so far at this point in my life feel like I am not enough to go out and put my self out there, I do have expectations and stuff from a partner, maybe it’s thinking I’m not at the point where it’s fair to expect it, you know, like I’d be lying if I said I’m the most functional person, have my stuff together So there’s plenty for me to do and yep to avoid any troubles 😅 a lot of it is self confidence, social skills etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:36 PM
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I do try to be and I definitely have some whimsy in me, sometimes I get embarrassed here 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:44 PM
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Well I’m sure it’s nice lol but for me 1 bf giving me princes treatment is what sounds nice to me, one thing I don’t get is they said they are shy, but post their whole life on TikTok so much that there’s articles about them 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:43 PM
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It doesn’t seem to open for me but reading from the link name, definitely not for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:37 PM
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You know I’ve realised we’re pretty much twins lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:31 PM
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I don’t have this whimsical confidence, entitlement or whatever you call it, often I feel like I’m not enough, that I wouldn’t bring enough, not funny, witty smart enough. I want to give my fair share in a relationship and that’s including things like money, I want my partner to feel like they can rely on me for emotional support. I feel like I could always be better soo yep definitely doesn’t feel like that to me, idk if anyone else here can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:23 PM
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Oh it doesn’t trigger me, I don’t know where you got that from, I said his whole persona is to get engagement through saying triggering things, but you derailed that (as usual) You know sometimes I wonder why you are like this, I think I’m going to stop communicating with you bcs you’re terrible, seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:40 PM
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Yep I have every reason to assume that, it’s what he does, he says triggering things just for engagement, you can ask him that Besides you get too far ahead of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:22 PM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:40 AM
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Hmm you’re making a woman angry so much they’re swearing?? Now does that sound like something a good husband would do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:31 AM
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Well can’t get them all, I knew this 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:28 PM
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Yess!!! Im sure she will be a very happy woman 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:25 PM
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Hmm I’m starting to think my goal of making most of yous good husbands is actually achievable lol, a little bit of work and good to go, be on your way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:10 PM
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Yep I think that’s the best way just some things you should keep private your intimate life is one of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:51 PM
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Is that something that would interest you, receiving those kind of pictures like showing off outfits and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:50 PM
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I don’t have many friends lol, it’s terrible it happens especially when you’re in a serious relationship or even married to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:44 PM
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I mean I’ve never heard of women sharing these kinds of pictures, I’ve heard them talking about their intimate life but tbh I don’t think many women really are interested in those kinds of pictures, definitely seems like a niche interest for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:37 PM
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I guess that’s a good point it is something protected by the law so they will get in trouble for it, whether that stops some people idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:34 PM
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Well the goal is not to date a misogynistic man lol but I wouldn’t do causal and hookups tbh, like sharing sex life stuff that’s probably a conversation we will need to have bcs I wouldn’t be comfortable them sharing that either tbh. Idk im a pretty private person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:33 PM
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So I’m not going to or I’ll just keep it to outfits and stuff guess they’ll just have to be there with me to see mee show off lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:31 PM
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Yep I think that’s right as much as I’d like to I think it’s just not worth the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:42 PM
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I guess what I’m asking is if you were in a long term relationship with someone, someone you love, would you share that kind of stuff with people I know people do it, that’s why I’m worried, but I’m asking if you would feel wrong doing that to someone you love, trust, admire etc, do you want other people seeing it or is it something you’d rather keep for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:32 PM
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I guess that’s something I could do, tbh you’d be able to tell anyway bcs my hair is really long (pretty much to my lower back) and on top of that it’s also bright orange lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:24 PM
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It’s like a miracle just happened here I never thought I’d be happy reading the men’s responses here lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:24 PM
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Yep it is it’s reslly good to see men here think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:23 PM
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Hmm that’s actually a good idea I haven’t used Snapchat in ages lool but maybe there is also other apps out there to keep everyone safe with that type of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:07 PM
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Yep I think it’s terrible and disgusting to do it, like don’t get me wrong I want to do that with someone I love but idk I guess it’s just not worth the risks, no matter how much I trust them and other stuff can go wrong I guess like someone else getting into their or my phone so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:01 PM
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You know I guess that’s true, sometimes I will take a picture and I’m like gosh I look so good and I dream of sharing it with someone I love and they say the same thing. But they could do that irl I suppose, it’s definitely super risky 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:59 PM
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Well that’s good to hear tbh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:55 PM
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Gosh that’s terrible I guess absolute trust is something you need before you do that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:54 PM
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So I’m only asking bcs I’m worried it’s like a thing, I think I’d like to send that kind of stuff randomly but the thought of it being shared would kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:50 PM
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Question for men: do you share intimate pictures of your partner with your friends and stuff, talk about them???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:48 PM
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I think it’s weird the moment you start telling people about it, like I get it people do weird things when they have a crush are horny and stuff. But keep it to yourself!!! Now if someone told me this I would be grossed out, feel disgusted tbh, maybe not if I liked them idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:28 PM
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Aww noo don’t say that some people don’t like sarcasm they think it’s snarky, or it’s something you can work on if you think it’s a good quality 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:55 PM
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You know I’ve realised sarcasm isn’t your strong suit lool but hey at least you’re trying right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:42 PM
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Nothing is stopping you from striving to be worlds no 1 husband 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:26 PM
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And how do you have a healthy relationship?? By being the best possible partner (worlds no 1 husband)!! Now I see why you changed your flair lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:06 PM
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First and on that note every man here should strive to be worlds no 1 husband to their partner!!! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:20 AM
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I don’t know why anyone would do that to themselves trying to convince someone that they are enough… it’s heart breaking to think about tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:08 PM
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Gosh I can’t think of many things more demeaning than begging a man, can’t even imagine competing for a man either, there won’t be any ‘choose me or her’, as soon as I get the impression they have focus on someone else I’m leaving, it’s pretty much just a lack of self respect if you do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:51 PM
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Oh yea I think it would take longer than 3 dates for me to consider having sex 😅 But I guess I shouldn’t worry that much bcs if waiting for me to feel comfortable is something they’re not okay with or being pushy then the signs are there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:18 PM
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I don’t, but is there really any point in trying to change your view around the word?? We just have differences in interpretation and that’s okay 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:11 PM
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Maybe dysfunctional women, I would never have shouting matches and stuff in the first place soo that’s maybe where you get it from, I don’t know what kind of content you consume but them kind of things are not conducive to a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:42 PM
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I don’t think it’s that tbh, I don’t have the energy right now to verbalise my thought process behind it but idk it’s just cute, I like being called these kinds of things, making cute names for each other etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:29 PM
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I won’t 😌 I find it cute but my response to the question was just joking (bcs I find the question silly lool) only a very dysfunctional person would enjoy the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:24 PM
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But maybe more appropriate in certain scenarios say like I’m trying on a dress and they’ll say ‘aww my princess is so stunning’ then yes it’s absolutely cute Wdym it’s infantilising lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:22 PM
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I don’t think it is I think it’s quite cute actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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I mean im only making a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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None bcs I don’t see him calling me his princess anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:57 PM
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I guess I’m just worried bcs I’m pretty inexperienced my self so it’s something I don’t want happening to me, the stress of navigating through fi and it’s how would I know someone is like this??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:56 AM
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Yep so there’s not enough honesty and self respect in this world, very hard to navigate through that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:53 AM
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For a normal healthy functional person?? A mixture of all these things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:52 AM
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If only those men were honest to people about this then there wouldn’t be any issues, but it’s the deceit the acting that inevitably falls apart, shattering someone’s entire world that bothers me. Just adds more things I need to think about when dating which obviously I’d rather not have to worry about lool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:37 AM
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What a toxic and terrible world view to have, but hey if you have nothing else to offer I guess that’s the only thing you can value
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:28 AM
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So if I asked you how would want you partner to talk about you, the things they see/ value about you. What would you want them to say??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:14 AM
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I don’t think it’s a majority of men but it’s more about how damaging it could be for someone, just imagining how your partner talks about you and it’s just ‘she’s hot’ or something and I’m here thinking I’m his entire world for all these reasons the entire time, I’d be devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:05 AM
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I mean don’t get me wrong I can understand the appeal lol, that kind of stuff you can really only get from a relationship. But just knowing that it’s fake idk I don’t think it would do much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:03 AM
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And you do this??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:55 AM
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One thing I find devastating is when I read what a man wants from a woman and it’s pretty much just ‘sex sex sec’ I feel bad for the person they end up with but also I guess how can someone not place value on any other things?? I’d like to be valued for other things, I think I have much more to offer, im funny, witty, smart, a shoulder to lean on, supportive. That’s the kind of stuff I’d want my partner to see in me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:35 AM
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It’s miss Brigid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:20 AM
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So I do think its good to talk about them things, especially to people you care about and who care about you bcs then they can support you As always its a double edged sword, people can use stuff against you and sometimes the person uses their issues as an excuse for their behaviour But I think it’s really good when you find someone accepting and supportive and you work together
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:39 PM
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But what exactly would you struggle being obedient with like if your wife asked you to do something, you’d struggle with accepting the request??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:19 PM
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Exactly lol but at least you recognise this about yourself it counts for something right??? It’s just a question of whether you want to/ are able to do something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:16 PM
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Yess!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:14 PM
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Well I hope you’ve been taking notes from the stuff I share about how to be a good husband!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:12 PM
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I mean a good wife wouldn’t push you over, but tbh I can see how it’s a bad thing bcs people will take advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:08 PM
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Would you say a stable relationship is something you want at this point in life?? Bcs it seems like you tend to find yourself in very dysfunctional relationships/ people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:06 PM
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Yep I don’t think it’s bad to have bad qualities (we all do) but rather it’s about recognising them, trying to work on them or just being honest when you do mess up etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:03 PM
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Hmmm yep you definitely sound like a tough cookie 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:01 PM
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Will do 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:23 PM
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Yess we have 😅 But this is part of the greater goal to encourage more good husbands!!! I need to know where people need improvement and help encourage them (through mind control like tactics) to make them good husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:03 PM
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lol I get that, do you tell people this before you get into a relationship with them??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:59 PM
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I’d say I’m caring, fiercly loyal, supportive But I can get emotional at times and do say things I don’t mean Editting to say I could give a much a more detailed answer but I wasn’t expecting to be asked so this is just a brief summary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:58 PM
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Hmm I’m asking for a self assessment, I’d like to hear it if you want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:16 PM
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Question for men: do you think you would make a good husband?? What good qualities do you think you have, and what bad qualities???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:04 PM
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Don’t be scared say it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:35 PM
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🤦‍♀️ And here I thought we found some common ground lool!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:24 AM
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Oh yea I’m not too versed on the different tribes just from a few things I watched, anyway do you think inspiring that kind of culture I described would be bad as a whole?? Bcs today’s ’me me me’ culture doesn’t seem to be working out so well tbh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:38 AM
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Hmm I’d be curious to see the replies tbh we live in a ‘me me me’ culture so interesting to see what people think about it 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:36 AM
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I mean sure anyone can be manipulative, but from what I know the native people treated each other very well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:12 AM
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SHOW ME THE lol im joking but don’t you think that’s exactly what’s missing from today’s world??? A culture where people acknowledge each others strengths/ weaknesses and they respect each other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:10 AM
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It’s more about making a culture where people respect and acknowledge each others strengths, differences that I find endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:07 AM
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Show me the notes you made
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:24 AM
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He would make for amazing husband - men take notes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:17 AM
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Yep some people do appear to be in a constant state of rage, gosh couldn’t imagine living like that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:05 AM
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I like the idea of making things slightly better than they were before, small little changes, anything. And even though it’s not ideal or big leaps at least something is better right?? It’s a nice easy thought but even putting that into action can be difficult I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:03 AM
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Hmmm I like to say that I’ve become a humble person 😌 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:32 AM
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Well I guess we all hope for that lol, but also you know where your shortcomings are, where you can do better to improve to get what you want, but you don’t do it. Idk that doesn’t sound like a strong ego
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:31 AM
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I also feel like most times you know what you needed to do, but you just didn’t do it, I think I’ve accepted that part of my self bcs most times yes I know exactly where I failed or needed to work on, but I just don’t do it, so the anger isn’t there anymore I mean how long can it be there for
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:29 AM
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Yep maybe lol 😭 just running on autopilot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:25 AM
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I guess it’s still there for me but it’s very short lived, the feelings are not as strong as they used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:15 AM
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With me I think I just don’t place much importance on my own happiness as much as I used to, I mean I still do things that I find joy in, and pursue things, but if they don’t work out then it’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:09 AM
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I think I just don’t have the energy to have envy anymore 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:06 AM
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Over the years I seem to have lost my sense of ego, like I just chalk everything up to ‘oh well that’s life’ I mean I still have dreams, goals, aspirations but if things don’t happen how I want them to I don’t really dwell on it that much, I used to get so jealous of seeing other people do things I wanted to experience but now I tend to find happiness through other people’s achievements, with all the hurt in the world at least someone else managed to find happiness right???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:58 PM
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You know it’s bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:44 PM
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Tbh I don’t even read them anymore, but I do question their validity. In any case they are just using them to poison people’s minds!!!! Terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:33 PM
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Awww that’s so sweet thanks for sharing, I believe having these conversations, striving to meet each others expectations etc are key to sustaining a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:02 PM
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Oh wow yep lol that’s the kind of stuff I was thinking to put in there to make it cute and just more funny, something to look back on But have you guys done something like this?? How do you find it works out, like do you ever look back and think ‘maybe I could do better there’ or ‘maybe this needs improvement’ or just taking a next step to a goal or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:43 PM
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Awww why didn’t you go was you too busy looking for pictures to screenshot and post here??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:16 PM
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Oh I didn’t get it from there it’s just something I conjured in my head, I mean I’ve not been diagnosed with autism but most likely tbh I am somewhere on the spectrum lool My thinking is this, you can write down expectations, goals, plans and just things you want from each other which you think will make and keep the relationship strong Doesn’t have to be like a 500 page contract, but just a few key things and even some funny ones like I mentioned (daily cuddles, no stealing snacks etc Bcs I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:02 PM
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I was messing around yesterday saying that before I enter a relationship I’d make the person sign terms and conditions but now I actually think it’s a good idea You can write down your expectations and things, also it makes you accountable for things you don’t do or failed to do, so it’s there written down and you can’t say ‘oh but I never said this etc’ so maybe it’s a good idea after all, both people agreeing to each others terms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:15 PM
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I think the picture is implying that fried chicken looks like dogs (which you shouldn’t eat) But I love fried chicken anyway soo yep I’m eating it anyway lool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:49 PM
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The first picture is dogs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:43 PM
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Yep I’ll give you that one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:48 PM
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I mean I was only messing around too that’s why It’s good we got this cleared up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:34 PM
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I think they would really appreciate this thoughtful message lool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:53 PM
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Just beautiful, amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:53 PM
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Yep now that I think about it it’s not enough, maybe I will change it to 1.5 hours bcs I think that’s reasonable, when we’re watching a show or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:52 PM
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Goofed how?? Like I catch you sneakily messaging other women!!! Like this is something that needs clearing up I think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:51 PM
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I’m only messing around but I feel embarrassed now so yep idk what to say 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:50 PM
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Ooohh soo the only reason you offered to write me a card was out of desperation!!! Now I’m insulted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:28 PM
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You can listen to music, watch a show or play a relaxed game
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:20 PM
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Hmm I think I had someone similar to your name blocked so therefore I will do the same 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:38 PM
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I think before I agree to enter a relationship I will make the person sign some terms and conditions So things like, daily cuddles (minimum of 10 mins), weekly drive and walk at night across the city, no stealing snacks And for punishments if they break the terms idk I’ll think of something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:38 PM
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And don’t forget a card and message!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:36 PM
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In 2 weeks time I am expecting everyone to have prepared a nice card/ message for someone (or just for practice)for Valentine’s Day and to show me them for professional comments and review Along with a plan of activities for the day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:36 PM
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What you don’t understand is that someone statistically can be average in some metrics, but mean the absolute world to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:59 AM
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I urge every man here for Valentine’s Day to make your gf a very thoughtful card, write a heartfelt poem, some flowers and also give them a shoulder massage (just a brief one) and get them some chocolates - so get to planning!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:58 AM
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Omg this is amazing!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:04 AM
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And it’s the perfect time for it as well, gosh imaging how romantic it would be to have a anniversary on Valentine’s Day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:57 PM
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Yep and it’s called the Brigid tax 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:52 PM
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Well I searched it up now but I don’t want to put people into an uncomfortable position so that’s why I wanted to get an idea of who would be okay with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:52 PM
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I shall not rest until I witness a couple form on PPD!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:50 PM
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I like it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:41 PM
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I don’t have a boat Wdym who here has boats lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:40 PM
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I have a song for this subreddit https://youtu.be/WpYeekQkAdc?si=-vsYbhmp6iqGqx6y bcs seriously where is it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:22 PM
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They won’t like it!!!! There’s a romance allergy or something here bcs my efforts to bring people together have failed, miserably in fact lool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:07 PM
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I was thinking an online card, bcs sending stuff to random people idk about that lol, there’s lots of websites where you can make your own card and then just send someone a link for free, i think it would just be a nice thing two strangers do for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:48 PM
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So here’s the thing first I think it’s better to figure out who’s open to it and then if those people do agree we can let them know who we think, and if they both agree then amazing they will have a valentine lool!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:41 PM
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I know but I believe a few people doing a nice thing is better than none tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:30 PM
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Well no bcs mine abounded me lol so yep looks like I won’t be getting involved idk I just think it’s nice thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:26 PM
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Well we can be at least be happy for those people… we don’t all have to suffer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:25 PM
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Awww noo I actually think I have someone to match you with, but I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:23 PM
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We should match single people here for valentines and they can make each other cards and write a heart felt poem, how cute would that be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:18 PM
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Idk I just really like it, I put sweatpants on get comfy warm, some snacks etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:43 PM
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I’m a binge watch for 3 days straight kinda person 😅, release the entire series and I will watch it no breaks (apart from sleeping and stuff), I’d prefer that actually lool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:26 PM
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Rub them on sandpaper instead we will all appreciate that very much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:12 PM
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Weekly releases of series should be illegal, the anticipation is actually killing me lol, I just want to see more!!! What happens next!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:00 PM
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Well all I know is that it’s a pain in the butt for me lol, I’d rather pay less for a home and tbh I don’t have much hope I’ll ever own one, or if I do then it will be when I’m old I think what people want is for average incomes to match average prices similarly (3-4x) bcs that seems doable and also you can live a life apart from just saving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:07 PM
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Not as expensive, a house on average costed 3-4x (average salary) Now it’s almost 8x, so double pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:00 PM
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People aren’t saying they want to live in 1977 lol they just want similar affordability of homes and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:52 PM
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Well yep I wouldn’t say it has to be porn necessarily, just consuming social media and stuff will expose you to this stuff from a young age, like I don’t think it’s healthy, but that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:58 AM
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Not at all that’s probably a watching too much porn and stuff thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:54 AM
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Jumping to conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:51 AM
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Oh jumping to conclusions lol I see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:51 AM
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Nope looks like he has his head straight, maturity, patience and not jumping to conclusions are amazing qualities, if they don’t appreciate that then someone else will
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:09 AM
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Well he’s being mature about it, no one knows what’s going on, he’s patient shows he’s serious… jumping to conclusions and suggesting speedrunning dating isn’t what they need at all, he’ll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:03 AM
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Life is just too demanding 😅 I don’t have the energy to do all these things at once, I’ve been back a week and already feel burnt out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:30 PM
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Honestly where do people find the time to date, if I don’t have any revision or work to do after classes I just want to chill on my bed and not talk to anyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:09 PM
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Aww well good luck on your special day!! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:32 PM
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I believe in it bcs unless I feel drawn to someone immediately then it just won’t happen, well so far it hasn’t, and also they’ll be the only ones on my mind and stuff. I won’t be interested in talking to anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:04 PM
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Wow lol I think I’d be in panic mode if I didn’t have something ready/ in progress like a month before, so much can go wrong!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:57 PM
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Gosh 🙈 I guess it’s just something I’ll learn to navigate as and when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:06 PM
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That’s one thing I’m terrified of when I start working is people potentially hitting on me lol, like how do you deal with that??! Just put up with it, tell my manager and then what just continue working with them like nothing ever happened, so awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:47 AM
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Coincidence??? I say not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:03 AM
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Maybe this is why there’s so many failed relationships these days, being chosen not for you, but bcs you’re just someone who said yes to them Definitely not good husband behaviour!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:51 AM
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I get jealous bcs I don’t have the monies or the space to make my room look like this, let alone an entire home at this point in my life!!! But it’s good inspiration and I’m happy for those people it’s nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:28 PM
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But you can just lift the blind up slightly… you know I gave up trying to make this man see reason lool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:26 PM
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Right some guy was saying how he finds the sun annoying coming into his living room, and I said you know you can just buy a blind And he said no bcs his dog likes to look out the window and would leave hair on the blind, I’m like just lift it up!!! Gosh imagine dating someone like this just making life difficult for themself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:08 PM
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I really like the male/female living spaces subs bcs you can get good inspiration and product recommendations but sometimes I get so jealous of people’s rooms and stuff, idk I think someone’s living space tells a lot about them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:03 PM
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Or you can be honest that your opinions come from your butt!!! I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:50 PM
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Yep I don’t really like those subs bcs there’s a lot of stuff said out of spite, hurt etc just stuff a young mind shouldn’t see 😅 Similar to here you have to be careful with what you interact with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:27 PM
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Better not this willl be the 3rd time!! But I don’t think it’s over I believe in you 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:25 PM
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It’s miss Brigid !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:09 PM
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I think we’re just less expressive unless we feel comfortable to be… idk maybe it’s something that takes time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:06 PM
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It’s terrible bcs I’d like to be expressive about those feelings to someone I love but at the same time I feel like I’d be ashamed to be expressive… like I just shouldn’t be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:04 PM
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Yep and like someone’s style, aura and vibe can do something you know like that chill, relaxed, everything is okay vibe that people who smoke weed give off??? That, I really like that lol but I’m not necessarily a fan of people who indulge, in my classes there’s a guy who’s like this and gosh the careless aura he gives off just does something to me, I mean he’s sharp and smart too, idk it’s just intriguing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:47 PM
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lol I think it’s the idea where it’s not spontaneous… it definitely can be lol. I think it’s makes us less expressive of these thoughts bcs it makes me think ‘ oh maybe I shouldn’t be feeling this, better not tell anyone’ so what does it actually reinforces the belief bcs even now I don’t think I’d be comfortable expressing those feelings to someone, I’d wait for them to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:38 PM
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Oh wow that’s actually the interesting think I’m going to have a read about this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:33 PM
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Exactly just bcs it’s not constant doesn’t mean it never happens it’s such a wild theory lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:21 PM
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Right bcs you hear ‘oh women only get going for this, xyz’ but there’s times I’ll get going from feeling the vibrations when I’m on the bus lool!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:18 PM
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Where does the idea come from that women don’t get horny?? It’s just not true lol and at one point I actually thought something is wrong with me for feeling what I’m feeling, I still think I repress those thoughts in a way bcs of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:10 PM
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4 hours??!! I do an hour of squats, pushups, crunches and my arms legs and butt ache for days lool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:32 PM
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Oh I wasn’t gone anywhere just didn’t feel like talking to anyone 😅 busy with studies and stuff felt like being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:22 PM
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Yep I will 😌 And Hot lack owes me a box of kittens!!! He said he will send me them as a gift for moving into my own home, everyone remember that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:58 PM
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Hot lack find something that gives you joy, set and work towards a goal!!! For example music and art gives me joy. Getting my own home, designing it how I want it to be and getting a kitten is a goal I’m working towards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:46 PM
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Oh gosh 🙈 I’m like bright red rn I’m going to be thinking about this for ages!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:31 PM
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lool I definitely do freeze in a sense like I can remember a recent example idk if you saw me talking about it but a few months ago a boy I knew from school followed me, I always liked him and I was convinced he will message me anytime, well it’s been months now and no messages lol but a few times I thought, well maybe I just should, but I didn’t. In my mind we’re at a stalemate scared to message each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:12 PM
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Oh I’m definitely introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:56 PM
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I’ve had urges to shoot my shot (I never did) lol but the urge was definitely there I don’t think it’s a man thing tbh I just think they’re more likely to go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:50 PM
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Good husbands are trustworthy, supportive, communicative, responsible partners who help without being asked and show appreciation, listen well and keep growing as people so the relationship can grow too!! (I could keep on rambling but this just a shorty summary of the key behaviours lol) If men really want to know they should read this thread and take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:44 AM
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I mean that’s sweet lol but I’m asking seriously, if you want to answer of course just interested to know what, why it went wrong if you did want to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:19 AM
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I’m only messing around trying to be funny (idk if it’s obvious)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:16 AM
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I’ve got a question for you, did you ever have dreams of being a husband??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:41 AM
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Bcs what we want is good husbands I thought my comment was clear on that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:21 AM
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Nope probably not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:11 AM
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Ok party would make for an amazing husband wouldn’t you??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:10 AM
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Agreed so let’s get to work so we can have more good husbands!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:09 AM
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Nonsense you’ve been day dreaming about this for years don’t lie to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:40 PM
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Oooh so now where’s the accountability your favourite word lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:40 PM
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Yess so help me in my goal to motivate more men to be good husbands!!! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:29 PM
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Oh I understand, but I think it’s good to be prepared so when the opportunity(of a good wife) does arise you know you got this 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:26 PM
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You know for someone to be at the finish line, they must have finished too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:16 PM
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Yep 🥰 I love this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:14 PM
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Nonsense, you can be an amazing husband to an amazing wife I know it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:13 PM
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Yes exactly!! I can’t believe these men don’t know what’s good for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:12 PM
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Hmm a good wife surely should be motivating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:09 PM
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‘They’re bad so I’ll be bad too’ two wrongs fallacy is not a good way to be a good husband and find a good wife
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:02 PM
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I know you agree wholeheartedly don’t lie to meee
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:54 PM
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You know, somehow I am not surprised you don’t know what a good husband means lool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:53 PM
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Yep my goal is to motivate more men to be good husbands I think there’s just not enough passion these days lool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:52 PM
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Nope you should aspire to be a good husbands before being married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:49 PM
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Hmm I’m going to be okay, I’m talking about the issues of men are a result of them not wanting to be good husbands!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:44 PM
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So you can get a good wife!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:43 PM
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Men don’t want to be good husbands anymore this is the problem 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:35 PM
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Gosh yous are hard work!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:16 PM
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Show me the notes you made lool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:13 PM
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No seriously read it it’s so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:55 PM
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A thread I have saved to never expect any less than all this lol men should takes notes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:40 PM
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Gosh I am so glad that I have very sparse and pretty much invisible body hair lool cant imagine having to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:47 PM
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I mean I get it sometimes you wish things were different or you start day dreaming and stuff but for me it stops at that, acting on those thoughts isn’t the smartest thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:30 PM
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Terrible tbh it was like 7 years ago so looks like I’m not getting over that one 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:16 PM
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Nope and I’ve had something like this happen to me and when going under an overpass I look up to see if anyone’s there now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:56 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:00 AM
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You’re a prime example of the point I made tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:55 AM
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Well you don’t have to date them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:53 AM
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Well I don’t like making fun of people we all go through things, deal with things differently etc so I understand that, I’m not immune to this lol, it’s more about how you deal with it that decides whether it’s a problem or not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:53 AM
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Tbh I see nothing wrong with it, like everyone will have their own preference but I wouldn’t like a man to be a brick wall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:44 AM
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I get feeling anxsty about it, but after some point you have to make a choice about how you let it affect you and how you treat others, your attitude etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:42 AM
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I mean im inexperienced too we can learn together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:39 AM
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I don’t have much issue with someone being inexperienced I actually find it incredibly cute, it’s such a vulnerable position to be in and like bcs men don’t really like showing that, but that’s something you can’t hide and it’s as vulnerable as it gets tbh it’s sweet But the other side of the coin is that the inexperience leads to well what you see here, just not pleasant things so idk how well that’s going to work out 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:27 AM
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Ughhh nothing worse than the dread of going back to classes after a break 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:50 AM
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I don’t keep male friends and if I did it’s bcs I’m interested in them, want to get to know them more to see if we’d be compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:22 PM
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I mean who would like it, it’s pretty much guaranteed to destroy the friendship if you don’t like them back Editing to add that I don’t think there’s anything wrong with revealing your feelings, it happens we develop feelings it’s okay, but just be aware that it will most likely ruin the friendship so I’d try to be as certain as possible that they’re somewhat reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:15 PM
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I think online dating is mostly a lost cause tbh if people are open to meeting people online then I think they should join communities they have interest in etc and interact with the people there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:10 AM
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Awww idk why I find it really cute for some reason when it’s like a hopeless romantic lol, but only if they’re nice and kind otherwise it’s like 🖕
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:09 AM
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Have you dated before???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:37 AM
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Right it seems SO awkward meeting a stranger at like a cafe or something, so many things can go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:37 AM
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Yep people seem to have a lot of gripes with online dating, I mean it’s a good concept in theory but in practice it looks like just stress and disappointment lol Sucks bcs for someone like me online dating is like the only way for me to meet someone, but I don’t think I could put up up with it without just giving up all together on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:35 AM
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‘Dating is meant to be fun’ that seems like utter nonsense tbh I’ve not met many people who described dating as fun. People seem to hate the idea of having to go out there and want to be finished as fast as possible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:12 AM
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Wish it snowed :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:11 AM
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This is hearsay!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:27 PM
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Idk that much about you but you too have some…. Interesting takes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:37 AM
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Well you have some interesting takes I give you that lool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:32 AM
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Well I do apologise if my comments did hurt you And tbh I’m not a master debater or anything I don’t make the most coherent points, I probably do respond emotionally at times though I try not to, I give my honest opinions That’s just what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:59 PM
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I’m just being honest with what I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:44 PM
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Right…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:37 PM
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Tbh you’re a special case of toxic and total lies I don’t take seriously a word you say
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:35 PM
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Great bring up anything you want it doesn’t mean I have to like it I felt like you purposely brought up that women stay in abusive relationships to hurt me when I said that you shouldn’t be mean You felt attacked, great not much I can do there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:24 PM
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I’m not going to lol it’s long ago now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:13 PM
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Tbh I didn’t even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:11 PM
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I know, just how much of it is actually genuine, or purposefully hurtful etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:07 PM
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Do you ever think that you might be tunnel visioned to only acknowledge those persons and write anything else off as lies etc There’s so many perspectives out there, such a variety of opinions and views, they can’t all be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:04 PM
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I mean I get it, you’ll find the worst of people online and the communities you visit which you relate to will only reinforce your world views
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:43 PM
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Sooo many broken people on this subreddit, I sometimes wonder what kind of a rut you need to get yourself into to have a such a twisted world view, like where does it even come from it’s so blatantly wrong Don’t get me wrong I do feel bad for those people, it’s sad but I can’t help to think maybe it’s better for them to be alone with how bitter, nasty, difficult they have become, sometimes there’s just no helping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:20 PM
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I can drive I just can’t justify the cost of it bcs I wouldn’t drive that much, maybe after I graduate and start my career but atm I’d rather save up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:15 PM
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Tbh I don’t think most cities are safe, it just depends how much risk you’re willing to put up with Like there’s always a chance a group of drunk people or someone homeless or something tries to start things with you, but if you have a capacity to defend yourself then I guess it won’t worry you that much I’m 5’2 I could put up a tough act but realistically what can I do??? Idk it’s just something that crosses my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:13 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s dangerous but I don’t want to risk it I can’t defend my self, there’s been a few stories of people being sexually assaulted and someone being raped in the park so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:29 PM
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Night time has the best vibes it’s just so quiet and peaceful, love the city lights idk it’s just a nice atmosphere, sucks bcs I don’t feel comfortable walking around by myself and don’t have anyone to drive me around either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:19 PM
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lol great, hope they have fun 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:01 PM
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I say let them stay in their cute little hate bubble, I just remove my self from the group lol. I value my peace way too much to ever engage or stress over this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:41 PM
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People do it bcs they like the drama and gossip If someone talks to you behind someone’s back then likely they will do so with you to someone else, those people are no good to keep around!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:24 PM
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Very wise I shall proceed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:23 PM
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Yep I know it’s dumb 😅 Maybe I should embark on a healing journey by my self lool and the fantasy will slowly disappear from my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:19 PM
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Exactly lol isn’t that romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:38 PM
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That’s a really cool movie haven’t watched it in ages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:36 PM
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You know I think it’s from bcs I see my self like that, but underneath there’s a bubbly nice kind person and idk there’s just something that draws me towards me it, maybe bcs I think going through stuff builds a lot of character and can make you a stronger person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:30 PM
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Nope this is when we live happily forever after Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:13 PM
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Maybe something like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:09 PM
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More like undertake a healing journey together
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:06 PM
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lol maybe 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:04 PM
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Oh gosh I seriously hope I get over my obsession with breaking through a man who has like a cold soulless look in their eyes and getting them to open up to me, no idea where the fantasy came from 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:53 PM
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Nope bcs I won’t follow them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:27 PM
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