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| 1 | Been 2 years….Do you consider yourself pretty? If you don't know what to answer, come to Mexico here, a lot of foreigners have started again or have gotten a wife, recently I am meeting a neighbor who is French who has already been married for 13 years in his second marriage and the idiot couldn't be happier He is 52 years old and decided to have his first child with his wife and he does not even remember that he has 3 other children who do not talk to him because of the ex-unfaithful | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Money branched ex wifeIt depends, from me who has already been married for 6 years being the AP...... to my neighbor who only lasted 3 months giving up 29 years of marriage, it is not pride but I think that most cheaters do not last with AP is because of trust and above all social pressure, in my case my wife's family and her son isolated her from their life, her family really loved the man very much, I know that he repeated his mother's mistakes and I hope for karma, but at the same time Maybe I think I'm lucky beca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Caught my wife cheating and I'm guttedI confirm it, it is incredible how first world society has masked its male population, I am Mexican and here women, even if they cheat, the vast majority do not get divorced. It's not something to be proud of, but here women have learned to divide their hearts between lust and the familiar. From my mother to the women I have met in my life who have cheated, they have told me no because they love to fuck, they mean that they don't love your family I understand now why thousands of foreign men get… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Vacant motherIf you have proof that they fucked in your house, you have the possibility of taking everything from him... I tell you this because my wife's ex discovered things that we did in his house (he was drunk and it was only that one time) and he manipulated son to say that he was at home and there was nothing to say conclusion of the judge, from going to have 50/50 she lost custody and without hope of fighting it until the child wanted, alimony for the child and supervised visits twice a month, someth… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Divorce parents honest opinionI'm so sorry, I can't know your pain. and in fact I am the least suitable, my wife was married to another man..... you know I was the third in contention Personally, the children deserve to know the truth, when my wife divorced her husband I never suspected an affair, at that time you had 50/50 custody of your son, the boy was angry but I had accepted it until one day my wife in His stupidity left his phone in his basement and the ex thought of cleaning it..... everything went to hell, he was fu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 03:11 AM |
| 3 | The hardest partthat's because she already replaced you, look you're a buffoon man but women just wake up one day and want something new... that's how I met my wife, I deeply regret having accepted that but this is not your fault, she In 3 or 6 months out of nowhere he will present "the new one" and try to make up everything.... You focus on your children, she is already dead for you, the woman you knew is already dead and what remains is the woman who ALWAYS WAS just that you never realized. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/24 10:13 PM |
| 4 | My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talkIf she lives with her AP there is no room for friendships, before everything comes first your love and respect for yourself | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 04:23 AM |
| 1 | The ringstook my mother's wedding ring from her, that bitch didn't deserve it | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Cheating - ConfirmedA long time ago I was the Ap... the truth is, this episode of your life is a before and after, don't let that woman ruin your being Believe me, what a woman hates most is the indifference of the doormat, live your life and Zero contact with exes, not all women are shit Cheer up, I wish you the best and the most important thing more than a woman, the most important thing is self-love, because if you love yourself too much, no one can destroy you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Financial ruin (divorce) vs. Wasted life (stay)And what is your mouth for? Talk to her and come to an agreement If you say that you have a good friendship, you can both come to an agreement Not everything has to be black or white | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Resentmentfeet is that divorce is stability and free money for the woman, in my case being of a different nationality than my wife and I would end up separating or she would leave, it would not affect my finances since what I bought married in the USA would be divided But here in Mexico, my friends, the few who got married and divorced as soon as their wives left, they and they had a partner...... I think that's the advantage of being Mexican hahaha, that we live the day as if it were our last | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Update: How do I navigate through this life dilemaIt is a question of taxes and above all responsibilities, here when someone gets legally divorced, usually the child pension is according to the minimum wage, and many women want it not to be like that because honestly in the dollar equivalent it is 10 dollars per week That's why in Mexico the government tries to make it less convenient to live in common law and they want to sell that being legally married is the right thing to do. It's really scary to get married in the USA and now I see why mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 10:06 AM |
| 12 | ResentmentLet me tell you that it is not like that, the truth is that I came to the conclusion that women are emotional beings who always seek to have everything but they will never fill that thirst with anything. When they get divorced it is not because they are cruel but because they have already experienced the grief of relationship, they already mourned the dead man, that's why when they give you the news they are always cold and calm, something that we still do not accept. but the only cure for that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 04:21 AM |
| 2 | SuicidalHow sorry I am for you, loneliness is hard. I don't know the situations of your divorce, but if you die, you only leave your house and your pensions to her. DON'T ALLOW HER TO LAUGH AT THE END. The night is darker than the dawn but rest assured that soon you will have your dawn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Update: How do I navigate through this life dilemaMéxico… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Update: How do I navigate through this life dilemacrack no offense but now women need to have "insurance" to take the step forward, for example in my country no one gets married legally so there are no couple rights/benefits since many unfortunate people get them pregnant and abandon them and the burden is on them Well, they recently made legislation to force a man or woman with a strong income to pay pension or custody after 4 years of concubinage in order to give rights to the most vulnerable couples. Maybe when she knows that you have money,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Walking out of judicial settlement conference-could it make anything worseYour case is difficult, the truth hurts so I will tell you. In your case, accept the deal, before your children FIRST YOU ARE, fix your finances and try to raise your children as best you can, the only way you can win is with a shark lawyer who attacks the judge but you can't sustain it relax and get emotional support either from friends or family your case is hard but don't hesitate, she wants you to break down so she can take custody of you, don't let her do that | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 06:56 AM |
| 1 | How do i navigate through this life dilemma?I recommend that you get either a residence since it is easier to buy real estate in Mexico that way, because here they give many facilities to Americans to invest/buy properties And in the USA the only way to not take away anything in a marriage is for you to have a co-owner of your income or properties either in your mother's name, my wife has her things like that and if I separate it will only be shared whatever you have in texas And as advice I tell you, if your girlfriend doesn't want an ag… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | How do i navigate through this life dilemma?Look, if you are interested you can request a residence permit here I will explain. I am Mexican but my wife is an American citizen. I got married in Texas because she was not interested in Mexican nationality or, and no, I did not accept American citizenship because the Mexican tax system is very good. The FBAR does not apply with accounts/investments of more than 10,000 dollars but here is the trick, here the pension system is linked to the private initiative and the government and every citiz… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 05:25 AM |
| 2 | How do i navigate through this life dilemma?I recommend that you keep the profits from your businesses/investments in Mexico, I will explain In Mexico as a foreigner you have the right to bank and investment accounts, I do this and I only pay taxes in Mexico and I have no obligation to declare in the USA Here the joint assets are divided in half, only the pensions/retirements remain per person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 04:13 AM |
| 0 | I’m struggling. Separated wife is guilt tripping me. Am I crazy for still caring about her? Doubting myself for wanting a divorce.I understand you because I was the AP... I honestly think that you were plan B. If the friend didn't want anything serious, but at the same time in your story you have told us that she has not had an affair. I believe that trust is something that is earned with actions, but since she is afraid of losing you because she knows that without you it is worthless, she has tried to tame you to her liking but you have refused to do so and that is why she has become frustrated. I think that for you to le… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | After a big fight, My wife (37) said she doesn't want anything to do with me(38) anymore; what now?I doubt it.....my mother faked a happy family and marriage life for 20 years until my father died, so it depends on what that person represents to you so that you are willing to do/pretend something you are not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 10:56 AM |
| -1 | Best Country to get Married/Divorced?México IS THE GOAT 🗿🗿🗿🗿🚬🚬🚬 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so bad at making friends?Well, it depends on the context of where you live, in Mexico there is something called "compadrasco" which literally means "you scratch my back and I scratch yours" but what differentiates us from the Anglo-Saxons is that THE FAMILY is not only limited to bleeding if Not that FRIENDS can also be considered family, in my house like my friends we really like video games and anime in general we always talk and get together about them and we ALWAYS take the initiative, For example, if one can't go, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | No idea where this came fromWhat a similar thing my mother did so long ago. Look, at best she respects you and has some affection for you, and from what I read in your post, the two of you separated "on good terms." Or on the other hand, she realized that her new boyfriend is very vanilla and will not give her what she is looking for in a man and that is why she tries to "get you back" maybe she wants to see how much she can control you or rather retain you but of course It's just a guess because the worst option that can … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Happened to Me TooThank you for telling your story..... but don't feel bad, you gave everything to save the relationship and she didn't, you should be happy because even though you failed you gave everything and your conscience will be at peace and yes, this will teach you NOT TO TRUST anyone, women for some strange reason get bored of the good man who gives them everything and they simply use him until they squeeze him out and that is what happened to you, but this will help you in the future because Now you wil… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Letting your kids goI tell you the experience as a son who eliminated his mother, your children no longer love you, what. What follows after love is not hate, it is indifference Sometimes in a man's life we must make difficult decisions, talk to your children, tell them the truth, even if you cry, tell them how you feel and if they still don't care, then YOU MUST LET GO It will be a traumatic experience but you as a human being are worth the same as them and your happiness is worth even more than your children, f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Letting your kids goI don't know what your philosophy of life is like, but apparently when reading and analyzing your story, you are one of the men who goes with the flow and that's fine...... IF YOU ARE SINGLE, my wife is still more economically powerful than me, but That never stopped me from improving my personal life. I believe that since you are white and live in the USA, your life is only based on making money and eating. but that's not life, do what I did when I eliminated my mother from my life, get a mirro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/24 06:57 AM |
| 3 | I won. Here's howIt depends on who you call and under what context you would consider it a "happy marriage." I maintain that the woman, even if she does not love the man she married, if he generates deep respect for her, even if she is the most unfaithful bitch, she will never dare to speak ill of you... or at least that's how her marriage was. my parents My mother all her life had a lover who for 30 years waited for my mother to leave with him and only my mother married him when my father died of cancer. The co… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Tough day todayThe context depends on whether you live in the first world or the third, but emotionally, when women stop loving someone, they go through the phases of grief, but we just don't realize it. Even the most bitchy of them cried, screamed and accepted because their marriage died and when they accept that something inside them breaks and they automatically see you as their enemy. We must understand that when a woman cheats on you or leaves you it is because you have already bored her and the only way … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Get divorced to be the fun dad you always wanted to beProblema of First Word…. In LATAM the father rules | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Stopping My Emotional ResponsesJust ignore her brother, my uncle and my aunt were the only stable marriage in my family but my aunt is a monster in sheep's clothing who deceived my uncle in the most vile and cruel way when he was sick, in the end with facts she showed him my cousins my aunt cheated on them and at the end of it all my uncle got better and simply ignores her, the only form of communication is through the parents App and every time my ex-aunt comes either to drop off her children or For whatever reason, my unc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 04:56 PM |
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