BringingTheBeef Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Q about women talking about past rejection.	Lifestyle	BringingTheBeef	/r/seduction	13/02/24 10:27 AM

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1	Q about women talking about past rejection. Let me ask you this then. Because I've had this a lot. You suggest a plan for a date, could be a first or a fifth. And the woman says oh we could do that but I also wanted to try this restaurant. Or i say let's meet here and they say i quite fancied going for a walk round here actually if you don't mind? Happens a lot.	/r/seduction	13/02/24 05:29 PM
1	Q about women talking about past rejection. That makes sense.	/r/seduction	13/02/24 03:33 PM
1	Q about women talking about past rejection. Strong but i understand the sentiment lol	/r/seduction	13/02/24 03:18 PM
2	Q about women talking about past rejection. Thank you. Yeah this is both first dates, sitting opposite each other, so no reason for the dates to feel romance at that stage. Very good points you make. I'll always do a jokey escalation in future. I did just say that sounds lame, God knows. People are fucked. Etc. I guess them talking about exes is a bit friend zoney, I don't mind it but will try counter with humour and romantic escalation next time. Could even say do you always male it a point to talk about exes on first dates? Just shut th…	/r/seduction	13/02/24 11:01 AM
4	CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect. Probably because you studied how to stop being a loser? Why do you want women to respect people behaving like losers that want something from them? I'm sure they're not crossing the street to tell people they're losers. The men are making contact with them. A lot. So they get tired of it. You have some people that are so overly nice they can tolerate it but how are you when you're in a city where homeless people badger you for money all day? I am polite to the first two, maybe even give them som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 08:31 AM
21	CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect. Another thinly veiled "I've got some success and now I'm treating women with disrespect and I want to justify it to the world post"? Women have to deal with dickheads at work, in the street, in the park, everywhere. Why wouldn't you treat everyone with respect? Some people are idiots obviously, but that doesn't mean you go round being disrespectful to everyone and then justifying it by saying well they're horrible anyway and would have treated me like shit as I'm not Jude Law. What a ridiculous …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 07:05 AM
2	Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base level You're arguing this with no experience, then. As the other commentor said, the number one complaint about a prostitute is "clockwatching" and making them feel uncomfortable because they're obviously not into it. Almost every customer wants to feel special and attractive and that involves an interpersonal connection. Whether that be eye contact, body language, or them being asked questions about their day - it's interpersonal. Otherwise they would just fuck a sex doll. Have you considered the pos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 06:14 AM
1	CMV: RP strategies have become a pre-requisite for male success in dating Well she just sounds a bit crazy. Not necessarily her fault! It's not any of the people's fault really. It just tends to be the type of people on dating apps. And I am very included in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 06:41 PM
–	CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success. I don't judge women for "n" counts whatever the N is but I do think when I meet from apps, and the women are up for sex within a few hours, they must have shagged SO many people. Like I am about a 7 and about 50% of women seem to fancy me on a date and so not Brad Pitt and it's obv quite hard for a man to get laid in comparison. If I was a 7 woman I'd have shagged hundreds of women and I sometimes think that the women I have done this with surely are at over 100? Your other comment actually stru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 06:27 PM
2	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed I thought all Canadians were supposed to be friendly? Jokes aside fair play.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 04:04 PM
1	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed Reference please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 03:48 PM
2	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed Yeah unfortunately even a skinny man is still a threat. I actually used to sort of be wary of junkies, but a mate changed my opinion by pointing out what I wrote above. He too, though, is very wary of young teenagers etc. They're absolutely mental, especially these days imo and I grew up getting mugged a lot in London. These kids were feral. Also, I joined a volunteer group and when asked if anyone had any Q's/concerns everyone asked if the homeless/suicidal people that came to the crisis centre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 01:45 PM
1	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed The person that posted that is a man. Again you're reinforcing this stereotype that desperate junkies, strung out, are dangerous to the normal public. They're less dangerous than a drunk from the pub..they're less dangerous than most men. They're shells of themselves and deserve care but modern society deems them dangerous for no apparent reason and subsequently they're more alienated and left with no help. I have no association to any "junkies" but it just irks me that people seem to think they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 01:09 PM
0	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed Imagine you went to prison in Louisiana. And you walked in, you would be most terrified of the biggest guy in there. Now imagine he came up to you and said do you want to be friends? Still terrified. Now imagine someone you knew from school was suddenly in there and he came across and said don't worry about Big T, Big T will protect you at all costs, he owes me his life, and you then felt like you trusted big T. Now you feel safe and secure and like you're not going to get killed/raped. Now big …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 10:22 AM
3	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed The stray junkie one is such a misconception. What are you afraid of? Him having a blade or a needle and threatening you? Literally never happens. They're so weak and if they tried anything you would overpower them easily. They're people with no self esteem who can't handle confrontation. Even if they get angry it is all bark and no bite. Now, the gang of youths, totally correct. I drunkenly made a silly joke comment to a gang of youths outside a pub not so long ago and they instantly went about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 10:17 AM
16	CMV: RP strategies have become a pre-requisite for male success in dating That's so on the money. I (M39) reflected recently and had a sort of Usual Suspects drop the mug moment. Almost every time I've gone on an app date and tried to take it slow you get the no spark text. Or even if they see you again, it feels obvious that they're "seeing if a spark will come" because objectively you're dateable. And literally, all the spark is, is you either being rude, dismissive, asserting dominance in some odd way, showing some skill at something, or just straight up awkwardly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 09:00 AM
–	I think the entire pill spectrum is dehumanizing for both men and women. Jesus, that is some succinct shit, right there. Here, OP, have a slice of reality!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 07:48 AM
6	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life I think this person was mocking your take. You're so lost in this ridiculous view that maintaining a social life for two people (for women - who usually actually care what people think by default which = stress) is some sort of blessing in disguise, that you cannot see the wood for the trees. Men just can't be arsed so they don't maintain it. Women can, so they do. The men then go to parties and can forget all birthdays and child births and get this human calendar to remind them to remain social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:24 PM
9	CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet. I joined this sub recently. I am a 39yo M. The anger on this sub has taught me a lot. It actually led me to the book "why she pulls away". It's completely changed my perspective on everything. Opening "CMV"s (no idea what that means) over and over again and just having it guaranteed being this teenage-esque rant about not getting laid. I saw myself. Very badly. I saw my own stupid, pathetic anger... Over... And over again. And it helped. I feel much more level now! But I am not going to lie, I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 12:22 AM
1	Most men are not socialized to be good potential partners I don't disagree with that. Avoidant types chasing what they know they can't have for the validation buzz are in the majority of older singles, there's no doubting that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 10:46 AM
1	Most men are not socialized to be good potential partners They do with a man they want. That idea is the same as the one that a woman just has to look good and life is a cinch. If she is dumb then yeah it might help, but if they want a high quality partner she will have competition from other women that are both pretty and smart/sociable and then she will lose out. It's a pretty reductive view that is quite easy to fall into and one I'm seeing pretty prevailant on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 08:04 AM
–	CMV: My argument against hook-up culture You want it to be something deep and intellectual. The fact is smaller knit societies shames women for having multiple partners because it was dangerous for family units and society. That is gone. So women can now do as they please without any consequences and if that is hook ups then so be it. It's not to do with porn, or the media, of IG. It is human nature to be horny, the restrictions have just been removed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 07:12 AM
2	Men send the same amount of messages to average women and good looking ones It's obvious on a dating app you have a standard and then you learn you get blanked or ghosted a lot so you just stock reply to all the definitely would meets and then there is the maybe pile and if they say something weird they become a no. But there are people you match with through boredom or attention without even realising it and then that just peters out because they're not good looking enough, or never really in the yes pile to begin with. It is just obvious this is what would happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 06:57 AM
1	How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player? Just because these people and me always think there is something better out there (something less scary in reality), so the idea of sleeping with a stranger seems ridiculous when we are going to find THE ONE Tomo on a dating app (and make a connection with them over the app for a bit before just shagging them. All delusion, obviously, but it eliminates a huge subset of society that used to go out and sleep with people after an hour or two in a bar. The scarcity mindset has been eliminated (even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:21 PM
1	How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player? I get about one date in 100 matches. Then those people have so much baggage and attachment trauma (as do I) that the chances of it working when we can both just "start again" with someone else, is nigh on zero percent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:53 PM
2	Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your Attractiveness Ah yeah you meant hair and make up overrated. Gotcha. Also they have a very short life span because after sex in the morning there will be a fall from grace and perhaps a harsh rejection in conjunction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 06:54 PM
1	Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your Attractiveness Make up has no other benefit than looking good. Excercise and eating right, look good and feel good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 06:50 PM
3	Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your Attractiveness The latter has the benefit of feeling good, whilst the former has zero benefit of that and is just an annoying chore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 05:07 PM
2	How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player? "Super hot guys" in a busy bar. One shags some hot woman. He is gone out the equation. Other women in their want to get laid. Other man gets laid. App world, that same guy shags both those women on a random Monday and Tuesday. Also, you have to remember, even good looking men would have to chat women up. They'd have to approach. A lot of people wouldn't do that. But they would hammer away on the chat on an app no problems and their shyness would be endearing and elusive in a quiet bar on a Tuesd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 04:55 PM
2	How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player? It used to be a hell of a lot more on the cards pre apps. People kind of had to. It's like everyone knows they've got a private chef at home now so noone gets a kebab at the end of the night. I'm sure OPs mates or whoever he hates for getting laid do get laid by either being slightly alpha male like or acting like alpha males successfully. Yes I'm sure they'll embellish and exxagerate but it's not like it doesn't happen. It just doesn't happen if you're negative and neurotic and these things see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 01:43 PM
–	Relationships are transactional Some actual sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 01:53 PM
6	Men over hype how hard guys try to get relationships/sex I agree with this. I actually fall into the trap of planning all these great dates and then kind of get annoyed and just stop. And then the relationship generally grounds to a halt. This is my own doing, I understand, and nice guy behaviour (to do things to curry favour and then become embittered about it) but I really don't know what else to do. The only other option is not date, really. Because either I am not the kind of guy women will emotionally invest in, or a lot of women in their 30s hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 10:35 AM
2	The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it all Especially OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 09:06 AM
2	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. This has helped me immeasurably btw. Just walking around town my general thought has been that women "I did not give you consent to leer at me!" and it has created this boundary of respect that has freed my mind! THANK YOU!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 03:57 PM
34	Men being required to ask women out overvalues women This is utter gibberish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 10:42 PM
11	All humans (to variable degrees) value something that is more scarce. And all humans say that they value authenticity. Which is the way in the context of dating? This is an excellent question. The two narratives are constantly promoted when it comes to dating. I think it is said to Chandler in Friends before a date, "just be yourself, but not too much!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 03:46 PM
2	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. It is very accurate to say it is bullying imo. It is more a low esteem person imposing their power on someone their mind perceives to be vulnerable, as opposed to someone just finding that person attractive. I find when I am in a bad mood or feeling negative my mind is drawn to do this. When I remind myself not to do it at all, and have more empathy, I find women will look at me warmly and possibly even smile. I understand you saying to look isn't anywhere near the level of active leering, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 02:46 PM
1	CMV : “Looks don’t matter” is not a common theme in culture. It’s the opposite. But this is just painfully obvious. What inspired you to write this? Looks don't matter with certain men because they are so masculine they don't need to be conventionally attractive to attract feminine energy. Are you just ranting because you're neither of the above and acting like you've uncovered some conspiracy theory (that in actual fact everyone knows is the case, as it's completely normal).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 12:17 PM
2	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. I have just gone through for a while reading your comments on here. I would say I've rarely read anything of someone that describes modern social dynamics between men and women so accurately. You should write a book. Do you have any particular books you like on these topics? As a man I struggle with a lot of the stuff you both discuss and lament and I often find myself exasperated that I cannot always switch it off (a brief (and quickly admonished) leer for example). Oh and I'm not being a creep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 10:55 AM
–	Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some? Of course it is. Noone is answering that with I'm caring and a great listener and getting any airtime. They're saying have you got a nice house or the plan to get one and are you good looking enough. End of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 09:36 AM
4	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. This comment is amusing. He's literally saying you have to pimp your life and show it. No tricks.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:14 PM
7	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. I completely agree with you on this. But what % of people have all this stuff in order? It goes back to making your life great in order to be an easy sell. But what % of people are going to do that vs just trying to get laid. Also, you're going to have to have all those things and still have an attractive aura. It is not easy. Saying you just stand there is silly. You're obviously intimating to women you are rich, physically protective, strong willed, funny. You also sound like an arrogant arseh…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:13 PM
33	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. "Lol strong rebuttal"	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:08 PM
5	Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women? Yep. A lot of people would argue it is intrusive and you're just doing it to try and have sex with women. You know where my favourite random social interactions happen? The golf course. Everyone really warmly says hello and that is just totally lost in normal society when in reality it should be the most natural thing in the world.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:02 PM
5	Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s? Yeah, I've definitely got worse in late 30s tbh. Easier when you 20 something and dont give a flying fuck.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 09:43 PM
4	I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks. He's not saying you're toxic. He's saying you might be leaning towards nice guy behaviour, which is quite toxic. "If I follow these rules then people must be attracted to me". I speak from experience as someone that will lean into this kind of toxic thinking when I am insecure about not being liked. He actually wrote out a very good and thoughtful reply here and even gave you two great books to read. He is also being positive saying you just need to do some homework and you'll probably fix this …	/r/seduction	06/10/22 03:59 PM
1	Tell us, what would you say are your top 3 principles for high-quality game/seduction/etc (inner, outer) and how do you live these principles? This needs to be laminated.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 07:44 PM
2	Why do girls do this? Yep. Basically most of thinking about it is neurosis brought on by the emotional rejection of being turned down by someone because you were just more into them, than vice versa. Sometimes it just sucks and that's life. Learning to move on in a healthy manner, without bitterness, would probably be a better way to spend your time, rather than trying to find some reason or meaning in someone just not being that into you.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 12:15 PM
2	How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit? How wonderfully frank.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 01:04 PM
2	Is it possible to get an ex back by reinventing yourself? Preach	/r/seduction	03/08/22 12:01 PM
1	When is too soon to date exclusively? Just reading this 4 years down the line. Quite nice how much you were into this girl. Did you guys last up to 4 years later (now)?	/r/seduction	24/02/22 08:32 AM
1	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game Yeah but all these ideas will help you build attraction. Your argument it's true but it's reductive and there's no nuance to it, in what is a very nuanced game.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 12:31 AM
1	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game You should write a book.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 12:27 AM
1	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game What a great saying!	/r/seduction	29/01/22 04:25 PM
1	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game That's so true. I was thinking how many of my friends I made in my thirties (several best friends) I'd be friends with if I made a decision in the first month of meeting them. The answer is 0%. That is a month, with a woman you probably have one date! So you have to get someone thinking you fit with them (without seeming like you're people pleasing), even though that is impossible in reality, and then you can appreciate each others nuance once the smoke has cleared. It's really quite a tricky ga…	/r/seduction	29/01/22 04:23 PM
1	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game Yeah, you have to go left field because of this. I've noticed only recently this pattern and so go totally random. Ask very random open questions. It's tricky.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 04:18 PM
4	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game I just can't see any world where telling someone to watch porn is a good idea. It's completely toxic for the brain, let alone any spirituality. Waiting for months for sex when a woman wants to is pretty wild, but I just can't get behind this advice. Surely anything is better than frying your brain on porn, especially if you're shy around sex in the first place.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 04:13 PM
2	What are your family/parents like? !Thanks for that. Very well written and emotive. I have a similarly messed up background (albeit less relentlessly punitive and dysfunctional as yours sounded. Pretty brutal stuff for a kid to go through. Mine was more cover - NPD mother). Everytime I like someone I freak out (I think I start disassociating) and so the only way I seem to be able to get anywhere with someone is by beginning to act. This is where TRP steps in, I guess. The Bible of acting. And you go and pull women with zero self …	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 01:00 PM
2	Do women like validation more than sex? This. It's wildly frustrating though. But you just have to accept it. I'm getting so annoyed with it it's going to push me to approach people in the street. Time wise, it's a much better investment.	/r/seduction	26/08/21 09:35 PM
2	[deleted by user] "confidensh, confidensh, confidensh" Sean Connery.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 07:15 PM
1	Girl goes cold after 4 dates Yeah you might as well. But my other reply is still true.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 10:21 AM
16	Girl goes cold after 4 dates Let it go. You've fucked it up half way through the first date when you didn't kiss her. Some other dude did it and he has her full attention now. "I didn't do anything wrong" is so ridiculous too. You don't get any points for not doing anything wrong. You get points for proactively turning a woman on. It's tough to let it go after you've sunk a lot effort but you were behaving like a pussy and got friend zoned. Up it next time, X 10.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 10:20 AM
2	Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship? Haha yeah I guess there is a balance but I think they'll happily escalate with someone very confident. The good thing about that mind set of escalating is you're a man with a plan. It's much better to try and make things go faster than sit there wondering if she into you. If you watch Love Island the lads make moves FAST. They make their intentions very clear and start getting playful physically very quickly. It feels a bit unnatural and love Bomby but who cares we are just very clearly trying t…	/r/seduction	12/08/21 09:52 AM
3	Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship? It does sound weird they're up for going out again. So you're good company but you're not polarising anywhere near enough. I regret many dates where I didn't make sure they knew what I'm after and if they didn't want that then fair enough, onto the next. More touch, and no way waiting even for the end of the first date for a kiss. If you are trying for a kiss at end of date 1 you HAVE FAILED. You need to make them turned on enough during the first date to kiss you or just don't bother showing up…	/r/seduction	12/08/21 01:19 AM
1	I (28M) dated a really cool girl (25F) on hinge 4 times over 6 days. Now she’s gone cold I wrote a message like this a while back. It still haunts me. The girl also flashed me into a totally needy state by suddenly going cold. Two things happened - because she was hot and funny I deluded myself she wasn't a nutter. And I melted like a little bitch. Why the fuck would she go out with someone that melted like that, with no pride, and when she went cold, basically begged her to still like them by hoping Atlanta goes well. Here is what is happening - she is coldly, and abruptly ditching…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 10:12 AM
1	Tips for gaming younger girls without judgement Because you're preying on their vulnerability and you don't want anything more than sex with them. If you were going to marry a 16 year old like in ye olde times then fair enough but you could well be taking their virginity and then be jading them for life when you instantly lose interest because you're a narcissist. You can legally behave like Donald Trump if you want. Doesn't mean you're not a c**t.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:40 AM
4	How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching? Gold	/r/seduction	05/08/21 08:22 PM
2	Tips for gaming younger girls without judgement Hope this is a wind up. Real low hanging fruit.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 06:38 PM
1	Tips for gaming younger girls without judgement He said early 30s. This is a very fucked up thread. OP needs his head fixed. The age of consent doesn't mean you should manipulate teenagers into sleeping with you. They're impressionable children ffs. Absolutely ridiculous line of enquiry.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 06:37 PM
1	This is a last resort. Dating apps have just buried me and made me hate myself so much. Yeah it's rude/dismissive. I agree. Have you thought about mushroom/ketamine therapy (DIY)	/r/seduction	05/08/21 12:49 PM
1	[deleted by user] The Q was so absurd I thought I would reply with an absurd suggestion. The fact it wasn't taken as a joke shows there are a lot of nutters on /seduction. But I appreciate it probably looked psychotic at first glance.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 11:29 AM
1	How to find and seduce a gay daddy? Perfection.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 08:23 PM
2	[deleted by user] I was joking.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 02:45 PM
-5	[deleted by user] Just message hey slut or hey you bitch. She will know you messaged her but it will trick into never thinking you're messaging for sex. Thank me later.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 01:04 PM
8	How do you respond to “I’m not looking for anything serious” Of course it does. But you've just got to work at filtering. Which is a ridiculous amount of work. But I think being cut throat helps. The other issue is you will turn people off by being intense and asking these Qs because it seems intense. So it's really very tricky. But being humorous with bluntness Def helps. "What are you looking for" "To orgasm as quickly as possible from the point of meeting you, delude both myself and you we will have a future, and then pick some minute flaw in your look…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 08:31 PM
3	How do you respond to “I’m not looking for anything serious” Sometimes it's before meeting? Errrr there's your problem. Set boundaries and stick to them.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 08:18 PM
3	What to do with her? Should I stick to befriend her? You, imo, have to GTFO of HER frame. She is talking to you like you're a lost little puppy. "I'm not into you now but I'd like to be friends?" NEXT. Do you know how soon she would drop you if she found a boyfriend? INSTANTLY. DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU'RE INTO. It's like masochism on a very subtle, self esteem destroying level. Now if you want to get with this girl and see other girls while you try and build a relationship with her then fair enough. But buddy you only live once and you H…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 05:37 PM
1	[deleted by user] Young men mainly respond to women being really flirty. Young men are also a bit retarded and might even go for the woman that everyone says is hot, even though perfectly hot women are left, right and centre. You basically need to up your flirting game. Dead pan ironic love bombing statements (prob for a woman better to dead pan things like "but I know you're desperately in love with me" rather than "when we get married" etc). Look up kino escalation. You'll go far. There is a girl in my friendsh…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 10:53 AM
1	I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why. But what if you like eatin' pussy?	/r/seduction	30/07/21 10:13 AM
0	How to have harder and healthier boners? https://youtu.be/oo1XV5XhdaU	/r/seduction	29/07/21 04:11 PM
2	Unmatching on apps after no text back post-date Only when I've deleted off app. Narcissistic injury is very real and I think women will never let that go. In fact when I met the last woman she waited till the very end of the date and brought up the deletion. This is after she offered a ridiculous excuse for flaking months before and I just deleted off Hinge. Then got bored and messaged her. She remembered it all for months. They don't move on if they think they've lost.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 03:41 PM
1	Unmatching on apps after no text back post-date Ok nice cheers for answering. Good stuff.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 03:40 PM
0	How to have harder and healthier boners? What the other guys said below.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 03:38 PM
3	Unmatching on apps after no text back post-date Why don't you send follow up after dates? Why do you after sex and what sort of thing do you say? And yeah, the biggest turn on seems to be unmatch and then text a few weeks later. It's all based on ego and it's pretty pathetic.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 01:50 PM
0	How to have harder and healthier boners? Reverse kegels are good. Kegels can cause issues for men. Hard flaccid, peyronies, etc.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 12:59 PM
-3	How to have harder and healthier boners? Don't do kegels.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 04:43 AM
2	What is a good way to meet women? It is pretty hard to get past that sort of thought pattern but it can be done with hard work. I sincerely doubt you're bothering them. If anyone feels bothered in modern society they leave immediately.	/r/seduction	28/07/21 12:19 AM
1	What is a good way to meet women? You're being inauthentic when you see a hot woman and don't talk to her - because deep down you want to. You're just afraid of rejection and are using the idea that you're a gentleman to shield from this fear.	/r/seduction	27/07/21 01:41 PM
1	What to do if she resist to come straight to your home Don't fall for the "I think you're going to rape me" trap? Thanks, good advice	/r/seduction	27/07/21 01:35 PM
1	Lost my chances to approach a girl at the gym. Haha that is a great opener. Left field is always best	/r/seduction	27/07/21 11:17 AM
2	Eye Contact While Walking By, I seem to always break contact first?! There was no hate in his response. He's giving you advice.	/r/seduction	27/07/21 11:07 AM
0	Which are the best books that you guys recommend? The best	/r/seduction	27/07/21 11:04 AM
0	Should I message her? Poignant.	/r/seduction	27/07/21 09:31 AM
3	Cold approach works This is a great reply. All of what the previous commentor said was based around fear of rejection and what this guy is saying is he has completely taken that off the table. I myself can't be bothered ( read - my ego is too fragile) to be rejected 9 times out of 10 etc but really this guy is clearly doing it right. I think on a deeper level you're actually hardcore accepting you for you when you do this, which makes you happier? Which will all come back to your frame given to you by your mother. …	/r/seduction	27/07/21 09:12 AM
8	I keep track of my sexual partners via a spreadsheet and since I recently hit the 150 milestone, I thought I'd share some of my data with you guys for fun I doubt you will, fear not.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 01:42 PM
7	The Importance of Being Good in Bed Maybe you attract the women that like gritty men. And women that randomly tap up men for sex probably do like it rough. Your post is a little inflammatory as it could mislead young men into thinking 'she's saying she likes it soft and slow but that Reddit dude said they all like being fucked to next Sunday'. Plenty of women like it soft and slow and sensual. I'm not saying you're not accurate in your experience at all but just that this is not what the OP was saying.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 11:56 AM
3	You need to know how to manipulate girls to keep them Thank you for refuting this almost satirically sociopathic post.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 11:39 AM
86	Where should I cum This is the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. 37 years.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 10:45 AM
4	About to go and meet a YouTube star. Great sleuthin'	/r/seduction	20/07/21 03:08 PM
3	Why do women often entertain conversations with guys that they are not interested in? Yeah how is this so far down the comments. Is everyone deluded? Haha. It's all attention. Agree that going for "the fizzle" is probably to keep it confrontation free and both sexes do the attention thing, just women are more selective in partners so do it more without meeting.	/r/seduction	19/07/21 08:42 AM
1	How to not be impressed by an attractive girl ? For some reason this answer really seems the best attitude to take.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 10:53 PM
4	Gift giving Because you don't understand that everytime you simply just cast your dignity aside it chips away at your boundaries and self esteem and women are world class poker players when looking for weaknesses in your self esteem. So go and beg this girl for a date but don't fool yourself it's for thinking she might be into it. It's because you want to beg her because you don't think you can do better.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 07:34 PM
1	what should i do? This.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 11:49 AM
1	Am I good enough for her? What a total mess! Smorgasbord of codependency. You did not feel love from this woman. You felt unabridged attention which you register as love. She is toxic too so enticing and fun. Reading these types of comments is illuminating as it's the kind of junky horsecrap I've written many times. Sheesh. No offence btw.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 10:21 AM
5	Tinder non responder It's tricky but what you're saying to them might be 'vanilla'. I would expect to get about the same though. Def 50% at least are blanking me. But as soon as say something vanilla I am toast. "how was your weekend?" Etc. Basically anything that has been said to them to death and they nix you, ime. Having said that can you then be arsed to become an unpaid comedy writer in order to maybe get a date? And then you still gotta be clean comedy wise or they might get offended and report you. When most …	/r/seduction	13/07/21 11:54 PM
4	Tinder non responder Yeah so just copy paste this list and start asking the girls which reason is it when they ignore you.	/r/seduction	13/07/21 11:50 PM
1	Late cancellations. Ok perfect, thanks. That's a great template. Oh and Comms was fine but she a bit crazy. We hadn't been out yet. Just her photos were hyper sexual and a bit mad. It was more amusing than the puppy flake.	/r/seduction	08/07/21 03:59 PM