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Being vulnerable works better when it's coming from a position of high value, and it's not the be-all, end-all of game. A man who has issues with other parts of his game is not going to do very well regardless of how vulnerable he presents himself. Further, I don't think you can become as 'vulnerable' as he advocates until your game is fairly solid and you have lots of interactions and experience under your belt. As such, I don't think it really clicks for newbies as much as others (or the reade…
/r/seduction05/01/15 01:59 AM
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Two and half immediate thoughts: Heavily screen/qualify/frame girls as being adventurous. As there's NO prospect for anything long term with you, you need to quickly and efficiently identify those that are okay with a SNL. Logistics are a bitch, unless you have a private room. Expect to go with them, or have some sneaky, dirty sex in your hostel. 2.5 Be Safe! You're a foreigner in not the safest land - I would be very wary of going anywhere with a chick, especially if she seemed exceptionally ea…
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:53 AM
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Cool story bro.
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:51 AM
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I totally agree, but if this was viable for the OP, I don't think he would be asking such a question.
/r/seduction29/10/14 12:40 PM
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I've had girls on my bed, with an opportunity to close, and wasn't into it Why do you think that's the case? Are you sure you're straight? been satisfied knowing that I could of I wanted to, but never did anything about it I can sympathise. You should look up the concept of "killer instinct" and really think why it is you're mentally satisfied with failure.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:57 PM
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I think you're overstating the issues with your mental health. Everyone has moments where they feel insecure, introverted, extroverted, and every emotion under the sun. You're 17 - I think you should stop worrying about such things and instead focusing on having a very open perspective of the world, and welcome any experiences that come your way (and also actively seek out new ones). It's these experiences at a young age that will set the foundation for being a confident man as you continue to g…
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:52 PM
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What's the closet you have came to closing? Where do you think you're going wrong?
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:45 PM
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That's really disappointing to hear, but thanks for the review. Have you considered requesting a refund or issuing a chargeback? I myself haven't taken an RSD bootcamp, but I did a recent Alex Hotseat that I found to be very well worth the money. I actually ran into his bootcamp while out, and it looked like he was very involved with his students.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:42 PM
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I honestly think you should be focusing 100% of your mental and emotional energy on getting your life in order before you try to throw yourself into this.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:37 PM
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I just don't know if mentally I can move away from her with her still being around me. No, you can't. Put a relationship with her out of your mind. It's not going to happen on your terms, ever. I have a few pieces of advice for you, since it's clear you do want to move on from this girl. Cut her out, hard. Tell this girl you're done coddling to her directly, or just fade on her. When she asks you where you are, don't respond for hours and then be vague. If she asks you to do X, say you already h…
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:29 PM
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She's like possessive of the fact I'm her friend..but no more and doesn't want me to find something that isn't her...but idk This is WILDLY selfish of her and you should not stand for it. Why in the world would you be this attached to someone who clearly doesn't give a shit about your well being? She has you wrapped around her finger. You need to make a decision: do you want to keep living your life by her terms? You have one, and only life to live on this earth - you can keep on going down this…
/r/seduction28/10/14 09:32 PM
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You don't have to do it with everything she comes back with, but I find doing it at least once early on in the interaction makes her go "huh, this guy is interesting..."
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:49 PM
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Here's a secret - boring questions are good. It's how you fire them off, and how you respond that makes them be boring or interesting. For firing them off, there are two things to keep in mind, your tonality, and the actual phrasing. For tonality, this is a FANTASTIC video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fHWTerKTNkU), and for phrasing, I like to use cold read statements instead of a question. What I mean by this would be "You seem pretty stylish - are you in fashion?" or "You seem the analytica…
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:20 PM
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Does anyone have any idea of what couldve caused this of what I could have done wrong. A million and one reasons. There's seriously no way to tell - not everyone is attracted to everyone, don't beat yourself up about it. She takes a long time to reply to my texts What are you texting her? restaurant and the to the movies. An awful first date idea. Do not do food and movies on the first date. A single drink or a walk through the park is best. If you're underage, I suppose food or ice cream can be…
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:03 PM
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Here's some videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio&list=PLGprU7kMUm-pBU4uOBmgDo2R2-wS2mJYG I personally know how you're feeling, because damn does it sound exactly what I went through with my oneitis. A few questions: I just don't want to lose her. Why? I just want her Why? not being able to pursue anything without her mocking them Elaborate. bc I'm afraid of becoming unmotivated Why do you say this?
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:46 PM
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I sat down at her table to talk to her in the lunch area. Ballsy as fuck. Well done. It's a start. Exactly. Look at it from two perspectives: You just did something that 99% of men have NEVER done in their entire lives. You put yourself out there, made yourself vulnerable, and decided to take action for something you want. There's nothing fucking better in the world that a man who is willing to risk his neck for something he desires, so good fucking job dude. You approached, it failed, and lived…
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:29 PM
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No.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:25 PM
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Show her she really means something to you by spending time with her, or doing something for her, not buying her something material. I'd suggest going to her place and cooking her dinner. If you can't cook (you should learn a few basic meals), bring takeout and a bottle of wine over, turn on her favorite movie, give her a massage, and only initiate sex if she does, in which case you fuck her brains out so hard she forgets about everything else.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:23 PM
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Probably right. I'd just get him out - even the littlest amount of female attention could help him.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:18 AM
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That's an extremely limiting belief. If you're not willing to risk things in life, you deserve nothing.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:11 AM
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Don't do it inadvertently. Be honest with your intentions, and if he's a worthwhile friend he'll respect you for it.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:03 AM
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Good, prove me wrong. Best of luck.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:03 AM
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Why do you think this?
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:02 AM
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Congrats dude. Yes you felt awkward, and yes it's probably not going to go anywhere but you just did what 99% of men do not do: you found your balls and struck up with a woman you've never met before. Good fucking job. Forget about that number, now go approach more.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:02 AM
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Why should the friend being there mean anything? You're going to have to learn at some point how to approach mixed groups. Just do it. You're so in your head at this point you will probably be rejected. Use that rejection and learn.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:56 AM
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You already did. Girls can read through the lines of you wanting to hang out with them. i think it would be nice to say, "well i hope you dont mind if remind you every once in a while" or something like that? No. Why should you want to remind her? You're the fucking shit dude, it's her fucking loss that she doesn't want to hang out with you. Go find another girl who will suck your dick and forget about this girl who doesn't recognize what a badass you are.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:52 AM
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How old are you? Why do you care so much about this one girl? Approach others - it'll make it easier to approach her if you're coming from a mindset of abundance.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:45 AM
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The best cure for oneitis is another woman.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:43 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but she's not interested. Women will move heaven and earth to hang out with a guy that they want. Sorry. There's only a million other women who want you.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:41 AM
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What do you think you're afraid of?
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:39 AM
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Your issue is that you're coming from the mindset of "I need to impress her" which is causing you to second guess yourself and what you say. Instead, you should always view it as she is the one chasing you. Qualify her, push her away, make her chase. Also how can I initiate contact or kino with her? What's the best way to start? Shoulders up, social touching to start. Tease her a bit, then shove her away with a light tap on the arm, then pull her in for a side hug as you laugh together. Lastly h…
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:36 AM
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Why are you waiting until you're texting to show intent?
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:32 AM
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There must be a string of sentences that get a person's attention no matter their interests? People generally like talking about themselves. I personally have no issues asking the following "boring questions" because they open up a lot of personal and fun conversation threads. Where are you from? What do you do? How do you girls know each other? Have fun with these. Typically I'll make them into a cold read statement, which is more interesting than a basic question, but fear not, if cold reading…
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:11 AM
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Yes, definitely. Why try and be someone you're not? Authenticity is attractive.
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:52 PM
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It comes from experience and know how to calibrate well, as some girls hook (the hook point being when she starts looking at you as a potential sexual partner) faster than others. Further, some girls hook differently than others (some will be all over you; others will become quiet and attentive). It's morbid, but the drug dealer analogy is a good one. Every time you make her laugh it's a hit - if you do too much too soon, she'll get burnt out and she'll lose interest. It's much better to fire aw…
/r/seduction27/10/14 01:31 PM
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Her loss. Next.
/r/seduction27/10/14 01:29 AM
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Whatever is congruent to your personality. Personally I find I hook very well when I'm my natural high-energy, off the walls, kind of weird self. However, once the hook happens and "it's on", I chill the fuck out, and let her pursue me. You want to give the set "room to breathe." If you're 100% the funny, overwhelming guy, you'll burn her out and lose your sexual frame.
/r/seduction27/10/14 01:17 AM
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"Here, before I forget throw your number in again so we can hang out next week/later tonight (if it's early)." Then continue on the interaction. It's poor form to have the interaction end immediately after getting the number - it'll separate you in her mind if you stay for a bit. Then hand them your phone, they type their number in. Send a text the next day: "Hey <Name>, it was cool to meet you, despite [neg/callback humor] ;)" That's it - don't over think this.
/r/seduction27/10/14 01:14 AM
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It's how I got my start. I'm glad you already mentioned it, but shifting from revenge to wanting to just do this for yourself, free of external considerations (be it revenge on an ex, trying to prove something to friends, etc.) is extremely important.
/r/seduction26/10/14 11:02 PM
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Identify what's really important to you in a woman beyond just looks - career ambitions, moral fiber, music tastes, volunteer activities, physical activity. Think long and hard about this. Screen and qualify. You are the prize, and are not about to settle for any woman. Take those qualities you identified as being important and make sure a girl has them. Lastly, it's a misnomer to expect those butterflies you experience with a new woman to last for very long. The passion should never fade, but t…
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:42 PM
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The game should be the way you find your future wife, or your soul mate, or whatever you want to call it. No. Game is a 'skill' like any other that is up to each individual to define what it means to them. Do not assume that you have the moral high ground in anything, it makes you come across as arrogant and self righteous. With that said, it's great to see you getting into this at a young age.
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:35 PM
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Do you try? Have you read any material in the side bar or watched any other videos?
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:27 PM
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Do you try? Have you read any material in the side bar or watched any other videos?
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:27 PM
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I haven't had my coffee yet, so here's a word dump: A helpful line I've found that if you REALLY feel you're going too hard is to back off with a, "Ugh, my friends always say I'm too touchy sometimes, just let me know if I'm too much." It shows empathy, and I've yet to have a woman tell me I was too much. They typically go "no, no, it's fine!" which then solidifies it within the reaction. Regarding duration of kino, I would avoid long hugs. Friends give hugs. For the majority of the interaction,…
/r/seduction25/10/14 05:37 PM
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The path of the gap toothed man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the brace face and the tyranny of straight teethed men. Blessed is he who in the name of charity and goodwill, shepherds air and spit through the valley of the crevice between his gap teeth, for he is truly his brother’s keeper, and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my gap toothed brothers. And you will know I am the…
/r/seduction25/10/14 05:27 PM
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What the fuck is this
/r/seduction24/10/14 12:10 AM
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I'm very much against Online Dating as it has potential to be used as a crutch, and removes the growth derived from being blown out from cold approaches. In general though, yes, experience is the greatest of teachers. So many questions on this forum can simply answered by "approach more" yet the allure of attaining more and more information to "make sure you're ready" is a strong one. Lastly, fairly scummy to come into this forum and plug a paid product.
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:29 AM
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Yeah, this is how I first viewed it, but you have to remember these guys are on the clock. Yes, they have an incredibly cool job, but when they're out with students, it's work. They have people paying them for their time who they need to focus on. I've met Alex, Brad, and Valentino all 'off the clock' when they were on their own time, and they were great guys.
/r/seduction23/10/14 12:35 AM
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Alex mentioned he was "on-the-clock" and couldn't really talk to us, which seemed like a poor excuse. He was working. Picture this - if you called up a close buddy while they were at work, how much time would he give you? This is livelihood - if I was him I'd probably tell you to fuck off if I was with students who were paying me a shitload amount of money for my time. It's unfortunate, but you have to remember they're running a business and while what they do is awesome, at times it's not all t…
/r/seduction23/10/14 12:24 AM
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By doing it. No, really. Do it.
/r/seduction21/10/14 02:01 AM
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i got a bit mad told her a few things What did you say? I have a feeling you're reacting poorly when these girls don't want to meet up and it's breaking your frame. i just say next week x place y time Try proposing two times instead. kurdish and English Is anything culturally where you're located that may prevent younger women from meeting up with a guy 1v1?
/r/seduction21/10/14 01:38 AM
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How are you reacting then when they say they can't be meet up? How are you proposing the dates? Give us specific examples of texts you have sent.
/r/seduction21/10/14 12:58 AM
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