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Question For MenBritannia_Forever/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:44 AM
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When he says cyclical he is referring to cyclical history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:53 AM
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I don't agree with this at all. Her messaging towards men has been a marked improvement from where the democratic party was 4 and 8 years ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 03:06 PM
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It is a direct contradiction to how they speak and they're too cowardly too admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:28 AM
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If you read any of my other comments you'll see that I agree that seeking empathy on the internet from random women is pointless. I'm just trying to explain what the point of these posts really is to the women here because it seems like a lot of them don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:07 AM
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I'll quote the redpillers here "look at what they do, not what they say". They may use hypermasculine language but they act in a manner that is anything but. They love to complain about dating and try to debate women with the goal of getting them to validate their struggles. They spend more time typing aggressively than they do actually trying to escape the matrix like the claim to. They need to practice actual stoicism and realize that seeking empathy from women on the internet is a pointless e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:46 PM
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It seems like a lot of people in life tend to do that though. I think that is pathetic as a man to seek empathy from women on the internet anyways but redpill guys will continue to attempt it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:08 PM
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I didn't endorse his methods, I'm just trying to explain what he is failing to say. I personally find seeking empathy on the internet to be cringe and pointless. I've just never seen that approach get used here in a discussion. I think taking that approach would shut down OP's argument completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:58 PM
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The original comment is saying that women engaging in this conservation are dammed if you do dammed if you don't but at no point does the original commenter even consider taking a more empathetic approach to the issue. I believe in posts like this one, the OP is mainly seeking empathy and validation for their problems not an actual list of solutions or serious dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:52 PM
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Thats what people like OP are seeking with posts like this. I really don't understand how people don't get it by now. They will listen to advice but not before being validated by the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:04 AM
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Actual empathy would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:56 AM
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I agree with you, way more people make fun of harem anime for being unrealistic and portraying women in a bad light than romance novels with men.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:32 AM
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Oh of course but tbf there are a lot of harem anime where the guy literally just sits around doing nothing and women come onto him. Then he acts all uninterested until the finale.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:23 AM
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My point was just that romance novels are more like softcore porn or ecchi harem anime. There is straight up literary porn for women that I'd say is more the equivalent of porn.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:07 AM
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I'm confused. I thought you were talking about high school dxd.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:16 PM
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Bro wtf is wrong with you? You actually kept up with the plot in the anime titties show.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:56 AM
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The closer comparison is harem anime like high school dxd. Its more like softcore porn.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:37 AM
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Slim thicc with big brown eyes, a soothing voice, and preferably has a lot in common with me. Loyal and kinda kinky but not too much. Preferably similar political beliefs and moral values but I don't mind differences as long as it isn't too excessive.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:36 AM
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She is there alone but she can take literally any form you want. If you wanna have an deep conversation about the ethics of the bomb she can take the form of Oppenheimer, if you wanna relive a childhood memory of playing catch with your dog who died she can do that too, she can't take the form of more than one organism however.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:10 PM
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You can leave at any point if you want to die
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:07 PM
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That's brutally honest man. I really hope that you can find a path towards self acceptance. You may have had a bad life but you are not sentient garbage.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:22 PM
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Idk man you'd be missing out on the newest iPhone, influencer scam, and cardi b's upcoming hit single. Are you sure you could live without all of that?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:12 PM
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She has been alone for thousands of years and is immortal, you really think she would have ridiculous standards?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:03 PM
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Fair enough
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:51 AM
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What happened to you was horrible and I wouldn't wish a fate like that upon any good man. If you ever wanna talk about anything my dms are open. Although idk how much help I can offer, just sympathy. Doctors get away with so much bullshit, I've heard some horror stories of doctors manipulating people who attempted suicide in the ward.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:36 AM
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I completely agree with you that it is a damn near perfect offer and anyone who rejects it is privileged. You should reach out to your family though, you share blood and interacting with them will most likely make life more bearable. I want you to know that your life has value and you matter.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:28 AM
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Have you ever tried to bring about something more real with the people you talk to online? Or tried to make more of an effort to interact with your family more?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:19 AM
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Damn don't be so hard on yourself. You are not a generic mistake.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:09 AM
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Of course not, but you have to completely leave the world behind to live with one person until the heat death of the universe. This means no contact with the outside world either.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:57 AM
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You'd be content on the island for eternity?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:55 AM
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How are you do blackpilled about the perfect offer?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:46 AM
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You're talking about different groups of women. There are a lot of toxic women online (particularly on TikTok which I think is genuinely designed by China to destabilize America). But the women you meet irl are going to be far more varied than what the shitty social media algorithms are gonna feed you. It would be better for you and everyone else here if you ignored those dumb bitches online and focused on the women within your vicinity that you actually have a chance with.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:21 AM
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I will admit I can't provide guidance on this issue but I will say that there are environments where approaching is accepted and it isn't cold approaching or as shallow as dating apps, clubs, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 08:52 AM
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You're both wrong, you can definitely do more to meet women without having to cold approach, however he is greatly exaggerating how easy it is.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 11:19 PM
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Many would however I generally think they would get bored of mindless sex after a while (and it would take a while).
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:52 PM
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Isn't that why those societies were constantly at war?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:31 PM
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Do we have a men version of uncle Tom?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 10:57 PM
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I was out of line, I didn't mean to attack you. Having that mindset as a man would fuck over your chances with women however.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:26 AM
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You would be an içel if you were a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:13 AM
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Depends on how bad things got and how bad the good digger is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:08 AM
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Something is usually better than nothing I've found.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:00 PM
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The first generation where young people sat out voting in large swaths earning the slacker label, they were one of the first generations to inherit wage stagnation and did nothing to ensure the issue was addressed when they got political power, they really pushed the stranger danger stuff when they got older and started having kids of their own, and they killed progressive rock with the help of the music studios.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:58 PM
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Europe is way more urbanized, way less religious, way more culturally left wing, and doesn't have anything like the American dream to idealize starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:48 AM
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Even generation sucks from the boomers on for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:45 AM
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The pew study actually addressed this question though by differentiating between men and women who were single by choice and those who were single but wanted to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:40 PM
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Most protest votes are wasted votes in true democracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:38 PM
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Its all pathetic stalker behavior regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:44 AM
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Why do people like Vivek Ramaswamy aside from the fact that he is an outsider? We already tried the Republican outsider president and it was a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:15 AM
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That's one way to look it at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:01 AM
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The pew study sorted by who is single by choice and who isn't, the majority of single men said they weren't single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:30 AM
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The leviathan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:25 PM
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It always confuses me when I see atheists promote anti science views or use science selectively. Like they're supposed to be the main faction that upholds is sanctity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:12 PM
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Guess I gotta hang around Applebee's than. That's an interesting way to meet people. I hope I am a fortunate as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:24 AM
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I'm genuinely curious where this happens because the traditional avenues for meeting people in history haven't had the results I would've expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:35 AM
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My point isn't that it doesn't exist but rather that I'm my experience might as well not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:33 AM
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What fantasy world do you live in? This does not match my lived experience even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:35 PM
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Those are definitely still high standards especially for someone in their 30s and 40s. The 2nd and 4th one are reasonable but the 1st is unreasonable and the 4th is likely unrealistic when combined with the other 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:57 PM
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I think its ridiculous to suggest that men have good options available that they aren't considering while denying the same reality exists for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:50 AM
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I didn't realize you knew him irl and all the women in his vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:15 AM
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What I'd argue is that the numbers of people who were single and sexless were way lower among people your age 20 years ago when they were in their early 20s. I remember seeing somewhere that the percentage of sexless men was only like 7% in the early 2000s as compared to the 30% it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:56 PM
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2.07 is the closest any western nation has been to 2.1 in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:58 PM
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Did we miss anyone? M&Ms is all I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:09 PM
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You forgot bud and miller light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:44 PM
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If this is true why was the birth rate in America almost at replacement level in 2007?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:39 PM
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You missed the part where polygamous societies were constantly at war to kill off enough of the men to make polygamy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:28 PM
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Damn I thought you were gonna link sexy Mulroney pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:25 AM
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You're conservative prime ministers regularly do sexy photo shoots?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:38 AM
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AmErIcA BaD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:34 PM
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The story of your first female Prime Minister is pretty funny tho. Unelected, unpopular, ineffective, and gone in a few months. At least she did a sexy photo shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:33 PM
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I wanna hear why you think we haven't had a female president yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:10 PM
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Sounds like a lot of the women in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:02 PM
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Pretty sure they meant third wave on seeing as the first two waves are generally popular and everything afterwards is harder for men specifically to advocate for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:20 PM
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Then they should be consistent and split the bills 50/50 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:26 AM
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They already answered it, because (S)pain is focused on "gender equity" and clearly hasn't cared about the state of its economy since it was an imperial power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:39 AM
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Tbf Swallwell is particularly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:05 AM
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They said this whole fighting like 8 wars against terrorists in West Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:40 PM
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You may be the first woman here to admit men being emotionally vulnerable with their partners can backfire horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:09 AM
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I've seen this perspective commonly taken by men in way more mainstream subreddits like r/askmen and r/dating. Just because the majority of men are in relationships doesn't mean that they're all with partners who are there for them when they express vulnerability. The men in my life have all struggled with opening up to the women in their lives and have generally done worse for it (trauma dumping, drinking, and other non solutions). This is why I try to help my friends out where I can because a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:25 PM
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Oh I didn't think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:17 PM
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Why are you arguing this when most men (at least most men on here) could tell you that, from experience, this isn't the case. Every time I've tried opening up to a partner they change the topic or find some way to physically distance themselves from me. I've even had a partner use what I said against me in an argument later on. It seems like every guy has a story like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:41 PM
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Watch it if you like dumb movies. Get high or drunk when you watch it for full enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:43 PM
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She's not disgusting for it. His point was proven by her ghosting him though, he genuinely tried to help her by pointing out her timidness and overly accomidating behavior and she couldn't handle being hit with the truth so ghosted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:20 AM
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If more women my age liked the music I do I would care more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:19 PM
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Malthusian policies were used to justify not intervening for famines the world over. America isn't overpopulated and would prefer to have a consistently growing population. The current world economic system requires population growth to continue growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:15 PM
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They're just examples, I can use anecdotes instead if you'd prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:45 PM
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It's usually one requirement of many from intelligent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:44 PM
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My point still stands, intellectuals have always struggled with women and intelligence isn't a trait that is sought after in men, at least not mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:33 PM
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Nietzsche, Tesla, Darwin and many more geniuses struggled with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:15 PM
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It kinda portrays all men as very easy to manipulate and the secondary partners in their relationships but aside from that yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:00 PM
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It seems like more women stay here for their awful personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:54 PM
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You just explained why guys will continue to manipulate women for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:25 AM
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Mean is not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:04 AM
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She left the life to join the disciples. Christianity, like every religion, has outdated aspects to it and dumb followers pushing said outdated aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:17 PM
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Why does she need evidence? How would she even back it up without giving out personal details? I think we're somewhat in agreement that a lot of the women here overemphasize how open they are to men showing vulnerability but there really is no way to prove or disprove a story by someone you don't know and won't interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:41 PM
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You definitely are the exception. At least among women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:06 PM
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Why argue that she's being disingenuous when you can argue that most women don't think like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:58 PM
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The world may be overpopulated but the west sure as hell isn't. Population decline creates as many issues in the countries it occurs in as overpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:47 AM
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All I meant to indicate was that they don't act like that in person. Most of the cases of slut shaming are usually with like-minded people or with a certain degree of anonymity. This is because it isn't seen as acceptable to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:00 PM
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My point was that comments sections will tend to have women facing each other up and simping asking with the hate. Idk what you post and who comments on your posts but I doubt most women posting only recieve negativity of the shot shaming variety. You're saying that the men who say mean things in the comments section go on to act the same towards you in real life and that most women with an online presence also have to deal with the same treatment outside of social media. My overall point is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:01 PM
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And as many men who comment negatively simp in said comments and the same could be said for women gassing each other up in said comments. I fail to see how this isn't a problem exclusively on social media that translates to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:33 AM
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It's a comment section of an ig post i would say it's out in the open for all to see. It certainly isn't driving a larger cultural discussion. Unless you think most people read and engage with the comments on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:50 AM
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The same places as slut shaming in addition to in normal social settings. You just have to call them an incel if they're a guy and a prude if they're a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:29 AM
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Comments sections of Instagram and tiktok are still not mainstream locations. And isn't like they aren't met with criticism there or here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:28 AM
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The fact that the main places to find this stuff are here and other various controversial anonymous forums should tell you something about how slut shaming is treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:36 PM
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I still have to catch up in Stone Ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:46 AM
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Why do I have to defend every dumb thing said here by men? I just think feminists have an issue with acting like there are no downsides to getting a vasectomy and don't exactly err on the side of caution when the issue is brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:04 AM
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I wish the cat was in the show more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:34 AM
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Black Israelites are embarrassing and rip off white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:16 AM
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Bro stop listening to what Kyrie says on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:54 AM
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What about being left wing economically goes against being right wing socially? We had a period in America where right wing social views and left wing economic views were enshrined and upheld and society didn't tear itself apart due to the supposed contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:36 AM
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Tbf the only posts on TwoX about men that are positive are ones about men getting vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:05 AM
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It's obvious why he said it and it isn't about a theoretical future husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:01 AM
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Attacking your audience usually doesn't go over well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:28 PM
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There's a lot of middle ground between gold digging and egalitarian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:30 PM
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But when you compare South Korea to Japan it is a big factor for Japan having a higher birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:25 AM
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And women cheat and leave more often when a man loses his job or goes broke as opposed to the inverse. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:39 PM
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They are irrelevant to my dating experience unless one comes into my life. Also they tend to project their experience onto all women on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:29 AM
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Sex is also way more work for men than it is for women (you basicallyhave to treat it like a second job). I seriously doubt every guy interested in you is so selfish and uncaring. Prostitution is also not a feasible solution to this issue either for a multitude of reasons. If I told you what I think the solution is you'd probably disagree wholeheartedly. I think hardship plays a role in it but I really think the main reason women's friendships are stronger emotionally is due to a lack of negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:02 AM
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I said that some men will react to social isolation violently and that the number of men doing so will increase going into the future. Suggesting men fuck each other is not an actual solution and comes off more like you're trying to get an angry response. Women don't have to put in nearly the same amount of effort to achieve the same results as men. I don't believe women are more resilient, they just can get the things out of life that men can without being in a relationship far more easily. Fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:46 AM
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You're the one framing genuine issues with social isolation and a lack of companionship and intimacy as a "desire to peacefully rape women".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:21 AM
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Instead you made a statement about men here in general which is so much better. Yes it is one kind of violence that will likely become more common in the future. I don't understand how you don't see that as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:05 AM
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If only we could choose who was into us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:55 PM
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You accused the guy of threatening to rape you when all he said is that the response to increased social isolation would be violent from a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:52 PM
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You've got to be the most disingenuous person I've seen argue on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:27 PM
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I'm not defending that behavior I've just notice a lot of the women here seem to think most or all women currently dating have the same mindset towards men showing vulnerability as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:28 AM
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Most may not have been the right word. My point was every straight guy has dealt with women who react negatively to them venting or expressing vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:25 PM
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Good for you but most women are not holding this standard in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:44 PM
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Not if it comes with her trying to control everything and her being more argumentative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:01 PM
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Don't feed the troll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:45 PM
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Men and women are different, men are far less likely to encourage something like obesity and are more likely to see it as a problem. Uncritical support or gassing people up wouldn't help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:26 AM
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Nazis and Communists are just as bad as each other. One just unintentionally kills more people than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:12 PM
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Would you day the same thing to the tinder swindlers victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:21 PM
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She literally advocates for the US becoming isolationist specifically with regards to strategic chokepoints like the Middle East, East Asia, and Eastern Europe. How is that not the position a Russian or Chinese agent would take?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:53 PM
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Tulsi is a conspiracy theorist and likely a Russian agent considering how horrible her foreign policy positions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:48 PM
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Hos just like sex whores just don't care and try to profit off of their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:22 PM
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There is a difference between women who sleep around a lot and women you sell their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:53 PM
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Just go see a bad movie and talk over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:12 AM
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What song? I really don't keep up with pop at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:50 PM
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You just explained why it's bigger now and it failed then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:07 AM
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Lol no, I've been called an incel for criticizing Kamala Harris. The term has lost all meaning like racist or misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:58 AM
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Why do people like Lizzo?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:50 AM
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I'm an American who uses the term and I know plenty of Americans who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:44 AM
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Do you not think the west has significantly different dating norms than the rest of the world or that the only people to point this out would be non-westerners?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:36 AM
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I'd assume someone who already has an extensive social media presence and regularly works with professionals wouldn't struggle too much with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:29 PM
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Any tradcon simping over Tate is either not a tradcon or just makes huge assumptions of people based on a few cherry-picked clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:05 PM
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It's so difficult to take nude/lewd pictures or sit in a hot tub for a few hours reading chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:58 PM
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The process of accumulating options is not so simple for men in this situation. Usually guys who stay in bad relationships have no options in the first place and are introvert and low in self-confidence meaning it is a more arduous process for them. For many of them they have to get accustomed to putting themselves out there in the first place and can't just easily set up dates. It will undoubtedly take more time and effort than you have suggested here. I don't disagree that guys should look at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:15 PM
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I agree that abusive behavior helps cause the cycle of low self-esteem that lowers men's options, however leaving is still a risky move that can lead to loneliness. It takes a lot more effort than just leaving for a man to accumulate options. Standing up for yourself and leaving is a start but the path is more difficult and requires far more effort than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:28 PM
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All I said was that part of the reason men don't leave bad relationships is that they know they don't have options and would basically be hitting the reset button if they did. I didn't claim to understand women's motivations for leaving or staying and simply said that they have different reasons for leaving in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:19 PM
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Not just boys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:34 AM
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Men in relationships with abusive women usually don't leave due to how few options they have. It is very different for men than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:43 AM
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Clearly enough don't or else guys would be way more interested in relationships in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:59 AM
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For most men this is exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:29 AM
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It she contributes financially it makes sense for chores and home duties to be split. If a guy act chivalrous to start with there are ways a woman can show appreciation (he should be planning everything, leading every conversation, she should generally be supportive and back him on his decisions). The issue is when she demands he pay for her without contributing anything herself or being consistent about it. Basically if he is acting according to traditional masculine gender roles she should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:29 PM
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Basically homemaking. Cooking, cleaning, and (later on) childbearing and child rearing. It seems like a lot of women want the best of both words here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:14 PM
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Chivalry is reserved for those who uphold their end if the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:54 PM
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Maybe you should act as an example to them instead of hoping the internet will or that you commenting on a post will change their minds. It is way easier for women to break out of a dry spell or low self confidence than men. Men having higher standards only hurts them in the dating game and the casual sex game. It sounds like you don't participate in casual sex and are protecting your worldview into those who do. I don't want to defend the practice in itself but clearly women are getting somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:17 PM
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So we're arguing about different things altogether. You agree that casual sex is way easier for women than men right? Because that was the only thing I'm arguing in that regard. Also I just cut toxic people out of my life rather than continue to interact with them or call them out. It rarely ever causes a change in behavior and I fail to see why you'd rather change some random asshole's behavior when you can just seek out better people to spend time with. As for men ranting about the women they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:57 PM
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What do you consider nothing? Because nothing would be going to a social event and being approached with offers. Less than nothing would be literally not leaving your house and getting offers. So now its about looking good instead of upholding any kind of standard? As long as you lie there is no need to worry about being shamed. This argument is strange. Men aren't going to move on this until women start approaching regularly. I don't even glorify guys who sleep around but I'll admit it is more …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:42 PM
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It is significantly more effort than any women will ever have to put in and that was more original point. All a woman has to do is accept the guys advance. I hope you hold women to these same standards. Also no guy is getting laid with zero effort unless he goes after someone significantly less attractive than him. You guys aren't ever going to unify on this, as long as there are women fucking said guys none of this will ever matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:31 PM
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It will never be the same thing as long as men have to put in more effort to achieve the same results. You calling someone a manwhore is pointless as no one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:16 PM
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So you're just saying it to shout into the void and feel better about yourself than? How pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:02 PM
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I don't know any guy who actually gets offended by this label. Its projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:56 PM
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They get more funding when the overexaggerate how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:00 PM
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I doubt the second part would happen and take off if it is a profitable enough industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:29 AM
1

That sounds like a solution that worked for you but isn't it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:09 AM
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This isn't a good analogy. There are genuine alternatives to therapy that are as effective. Its more like using a different scented soap, it'll do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:12 PM
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Still doesn't address the lack of emotional intimacy and therapeutic need to vent and recieve positive affirmation most men lack. Its basically like paying upfront for a customizable live in prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:05 PM
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Therapy isn't the only way to prevent suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:03 PM
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Yes I always find it funny when they try to hide it and then when it comes out they lose a lot of followers. Like what happened to Okay Boomer girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:52 PM
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So? You think they give a shit about the average guy or will even listen to the average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:45 PM
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The average guy isn't controlling anything and women turnout to vote more than men do. This is really coming off like some typical Alex fallacy thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:42 PM
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Women definitely have more influence over economic trends due to spending more on average so that point is inaccurate. There are individual men who hold a lot of influence but the average guy isn't any more influential than the average woman. What is sexually accessible about onlyfans girls? If you think paying to text a girl is sexual access I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:31 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about, the manosphere invented the term simp specifically to make fun of people like that. I agree that more emphasis should be put on the simps but to act like these guys just pass up opportunities to shame simps is inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:07 PM
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Convince the highest tax bracket of Americans to pay 45% of their net earnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:15 AM
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Most men don't pay for onlyfans and the guys complaining about it surely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:27 AM
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There is no law saying women get time off for their periods right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:44 PM
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Until it gets passed into law it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:01 PM
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Why would a company hire someone who is going to put a bigger burden on them? Why would they care about discrimination unless it is legally enforced or seriously hurts their reputation? You're placing way too much emphasis on morality in corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:49 PM
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Too bad no company would ever hire women after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:23 PM
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I knew it was gonna be Dion. I thought it would be the wanderer but I was close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:40 AM
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When was the last time that there was a popular, masculine, left-wing figure? FDR? Teddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:35 AM
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How is it boomers fault? If anything its a combination of women entering the workforce, the rise of neoliberalism due to how incompetent the dems were after LBJ, overzealous unions creating anti-business conditions and the rapid globalization of the economy that began with Kennedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:33 AM
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You know there are a fair amount of feminists who advocate for women having days off every month during their menstrual cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:30 AM
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They can't ban everyone who reposts his stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:03 AM
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I see many people making the exact same point nowadays about women being less happy so I don't see your point. This is the only area where updating gender roles does make sense though there are still cases where even that gets fucked up. I've had women argue that if a man makes $250k a year and a woman makes $25k a year and they both work full time that chores should still be split evenly. Also why don't gender roles change with regards to men being expected to approach, plan dates, in many case…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:52 AM
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Feminism was successful back then as first and second wave feminism had largely achieved their goals of gaining women the vote and normalizing women in the workforce and third wave feminism was forming at the time. There will always be people who are shitty and blame women for being raped. What men desire by and large is consistency with regards to gender roles. In the 80s and 90s gender roles were way more well defined and understood. Nowadays it seems like gender roles with regards to dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:35 AM
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Most guys who talk about wanting to return to the old social norms are talking about the 80s and 90s not the 19th century. Also debate isn't always a pointless endeavor, it just seems like it because most of the "debates" here are. For example I had a pretty insightful debate with a good friend about abortion where, while we disagreed, we ultimately came to a greater understanding of each other's views. I'd rather people view debate as a good thing overall even if it means the occasional screami…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:02 AM
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Asuka is so irritating, Rei is actually supportive in battle, and Shinji is a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:44 PM
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Most people are boring and have boring lives that they think are interesting in my experience. This never changed whether or not I was social or asocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:05 PM
1

Than what did you mean by the grass is greener comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:56 PM
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That guys wouldn't love having the level of options women have. I see this take posted here every so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:54 PM
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In still think most men don't give a shit based on my experiences, there are just way more of them here which is why it seems so widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:41 AM
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I'd say hobbies and a base level of intelligence are important to me but aside from that I could care less if she's a batista or only never went to college. Why do you want people to care about things that they don't care about? Especially when it will just decrease their already small pool of options. Also just because a guy doesn't care doesn't mean he is forcing them to give up said pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:33 AM
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Nah most people suck and are boring to be around. Men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:48 AM
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I will never understand people arguing that abundance is bad to those experiencing scarcity. Why wouldn't I prefer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:34 AM
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Are feminists even fully aligned on this? It seems the more radical you get the more anti-sex they get. I think we have a case of a loud minority of guys here tainting your view on men in general. The sexual liberation movement was more of a pushback against the conservatism of the 1950s and 60s.m, though feminists played their role in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:12 AM
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You really think women are just as bad about slut shaming and upholding those standards? I can only speak from experience but I've know women to be worse about it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:54 AM
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I looked it up right after saying it to you lol. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.scientificamerican.com/article/people-have-been-having-less-sex-whether-theyre-teenagers-or-40-somethings/%3famp=true https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:35 AM
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Not what I was suggesting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:12 PM
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But was her heart in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:07 PM
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Maybe in the cities degenaracy reigned supreme but with degenerate usually comes a backlash. In this case it was the rise of fundamentalism and pentecostalism. In particular back then was the ongoing debate over whether evolution should be taught to children. Also how can you claim religion wasn't influential when it was mainly religious forces behind the passing of the 18th amendment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:08 PM
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Even Bernie's Medicare for all would be a disaster policy wise(costing somewhere between 6-8 trillion dollars to implement). Taxes would increase for all Americans by double digits and would likely keep increasing due to how unhealthy we are in general (every heart surgery, resupply of insulin, etc would be covered and America has the highest rates in the world of all of those things). It would likely be destroyed by congress do to how expensive life would get (hell most Americans don't even sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:10 AM
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I wouldn't have nearly the opportunities I've had in life if I lived in Martinique and I definitely wouldn't live a more fulfilling life in a country with an average wage of ~20,000 dollars per year. Why should I care if I might on average live a little longer if my quality of life is drastically lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:01 AM
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I'm not against healthcare reform to address these issues at all but I would bet money you would be way more extreme in your assessment of how to reform our Healthcare system than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:55 AM
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It seems like catholic majority city states are against abortion. Do you they not count here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:53 AM
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And I'm thankful that you can't vote in any American election. I'm so sick of foreigners judging us and acting like they're better than us while completely relying on us for their entire existence. As a person who is part black and got to live a quality life in America I am really glad I got to grow up here and wouldn't trade it away for anything. I hope the Saskatchewan, Manitoba, and Alberta can grow a pair and join America like they keep threatening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:52 AM
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77 is still not that bad compared to the rest of the world. It is lower due to COVID mainly not abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:46 AM
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It all depends on what you think the goal of America should be which in your case seems to be a welfare state with a shrinking economy and no military apparatus. I strongly disagree with this view. May I ask do you live in America now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:41 AM
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Except it isn't the only western nation with abortion bans when San Marino, Monaco and the Vatican also have bans, unless they aren't western all the sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:39 AM
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Well you're free to not live in America but most of the countries you'd move to wouldn't exist or be democracies without America's military providing their defense. I'm just glad we don't vote people who want to destroy our military infrastructure and market for welfare into the highest office or else the world would burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:36 AM
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The life expectancy in America is 79. Not on the high end but it isn't fair to say that its on par with third world countries. The only third world countries with a higher life expectancy are Lebanon and Cuba (which I doubt consider how dishonestly they present themselves and the Healthcare system). The only reason it is so low in general is due to an ineffective healthcare system which you can blame on Hillary, Jimmy Carter, and Nixon mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:32 AM
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You have to cherry pick stats, it always seems like the crux of most of the "America is a third world nation" arguments are that America doesn't focus on welfare and left wing social policies enough. As if those are the only metrics to be measured in this regard. We have the biggest economy in the world, the biggest military, a higher gdp per capita than most of the democratic world, and the unique advantages of federalism which allow one to live in a more welfare focused state vs a state with l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:25 AM
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Depends on who you're asking, in my opinion no, it wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:19 AM
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I didn't know Malta was a banana republic. You seem to connect quality of life to abortion access exclusively which I find bizarre. Just because America doesn't have the abortion laws you'd prefer doesn't make it a third world country. We are simply more conservative than most of our democratic allies and there was no way the pro-life movement wasn't going to be invigorated after Roe v Wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:59 AM
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So why bring up El Salvador at all? Unless you're one of those people who fearmongers about a national abortion ban. The only reason why I'd say Mexico is the most similar is due to Mexico breaking it down by state. You'd have to compare individual states to European countries if you wanted to be accurate about it. On the extreme pro-life end of states like Alabama have a similar policy to San Marino (who I missed on my initial list of European countries that banned abortion) and extreme pro-cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:35 AM
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Abortion is illegal on request in England, Scotland, Wales, and Monaco (where it is also illegal in cases of socioeconomic strife). Portugal has a 10 week ban for socioeconomic reasons or on request. It isn't the majority but to act like America is the only 1st world nation to make it illegal or difficult to access is just wrong. The only thing you have a point on is cases of rape. Even so this is only the case in certain states based on whether the Supreme Court, state congress, and governorshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:18 AM
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All I have off the top of my head is the US birth rate which almost hit 2.1 in 2007 before declining starting in 2008. I'll look around for stats on sex specifically but they are kinda harder to find, especially over 20ish years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:41 AM
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Not the computer itself, personal computers had been around since the 80s and the internet since 1995. It wasn't until social media was popular and widespread that the decline in sex occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:20 AM
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Birth control had been along long before that though. Every other factor you listed mainly affected social attitudes, I don't think we disagree here. For example the war basically legitimized the hippie movement and allowed it to reach heights that would've seemed unlikely for it to reach in say 1963. Of course this also resulted in it becoming radicalized and burning out way faster but the changes it made didn't just disappear. Said radicalization (and LBJ declining running again) resulted in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:17 AM
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This is why I think we're in desperate need of a religious revival of some kind. The 1920s and 1820s were both decades of religious revival. Also most guys don't try to look attractive and they would probably do better if they tried even half as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:11 AM
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I'm sure it's declined since the recession and web 2.0 but I'd bet it's higher than it was before the sexual revolution which is what I thought you were arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:02 AM
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And that pushback didn't stop people from fucking around that well considering how often people hooked up back then. Also the pill was legalize in 1960 but the effects of the sexual revolution didn't kick in for nearly a decade indicated that changing social attitudes played a huge role not just the newfound lack of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:45 AM
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Since COVID maybe but since the 50s and 60s is definitely more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:43 AM
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I don't agree with everything the guy said but do you really think the free live movement didn't result in the normalization of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:26 AM
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Not really that was just to do an expose of playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:41 AM
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Lol this point always baffles me, you realize most of Europe didn't even have legal abortion right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:16 AM
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It definitely made me realize that women talk about sex as much as guys do and oftentimes in way more detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:33 AM
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Maybe I just hangout with way too many promiscuous women who are way too open about their sex lives. It always makes me feel uncomfortable or insecure if I like one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:12 AM
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This is why I wish Julian Castro was still a representative, he actually represented a district in Texas and was in favor of decriminalizing illegal border crossing. If Abbot were to bus immigrants to his district I'm sure he'd change his tone and with the added bonus of not wasting nearly as much taxpayer dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:03 PM
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Every time I've been in this situation or heard of anyone else being in this situation it is usually in the context of drinking with a group of friends (usually female friends) and it coming out whenever they inevitably start talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:55 PM
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Alcohol and old friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:22 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a horrible way to frame it as it puts the blame on men in general rather than bad actors. Also I am highly skeptical of feminists who claim to want men to open up because the quiet part is always "I wish men would be more honest about their feelings in a way I deem okay".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:11 PM
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Your partner changed, this isn't exactly the best example as he probably risked losing you if he didn't. Of all the issues you could've brought up climate change was the worst as nothing significant has been done about it (not that anything significant needs to be done for a while, that issue is blown way out of proportion). Climate change is an issue that requires a lot of factions around the world to come together to solve(you need Western elites on board along with the governments of China, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:09 PM
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That's just wrong, it isn't just a lack of desire to do so in a lot of cases it is a lack of confidence in how it will go, a lack of trust in one's friends in that regard, or a lack of knowledge of where to even start or how to go about it. To act like men in general willingly put that burden on themselves is unfair. I've had friends who I could open up to but it isn't exactly a common occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:51 AM
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Cool, so you agree women undoubtedly have an advantage in this area than?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:26 AM
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Fuck that if someone can't find that out on their own as an adult it sure as he'll isn't my job to provide that to them. If you could actually bring up a story of someone changing I'd understand your point. I've noticed that people who tend to act like creeps or make blanket statements about others are assholes in general rather than a "work in progress" "in need of education". Why not just talk to your friends individually about their friendships with said assholes instead of hoping they'll "fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:26 AM
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But they don't which is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:17 AM
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I don't think that its fair to say men don't value relationships, they are just way less desired by women in general than the other way around. I am not saying a guy can't have friends because women do just that women tend to have way more supportive friends and they make friends easier in general. If you wanna debate about capitalism and the ethics of billionaires that's a whole different discussion and acting like men are the only ones not giving away the majority of their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:28 AM
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You really think anyone of them actually changed their behavior after the fact? I see no value in calling out someone when I can always leave and never interact with them again. The only one I understand is the homophobic girl because if someone directly insulted my girl I would hit back before cutting them off. With Mike I would've threatened to report him unless he deletes the images and then cut him off. As for Kyle, I would just go out of my way to not interact with him as much as possible. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:24 AM
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So the reason why my guy friends wouldn't take me seriously if I opened up to them is because I'm not trying hard enough? Even if I were to try as hard as possible I'd have maybe 1/10th the options of an equally attractive woman. Solidarity is the only issue you may have a point on but it is undeniable that man are far more individualistic than women and tend to seek out the best outcome for themselves only.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:45 AM
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Most men will never buy the patriarchy theory because it highly ovexaggerates how much the average men benefits from and upholds it. Most guys are just living mediocre lives and don't think about it. Also the whole "call out the patriarchy" thing, what difference does virtue signaling do and how is a guy supposed to call out vreeps when he doesn't associate with them (unless of course you think every guy has a friend who's a secret creep)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:51 AM
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Bigger friend groups, emotional support, more options for sex and relationships, physical touch (holding hands, hugs, etc), and more solidarity around women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:51 AM
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Social power. Women clearly do way better socially than men do and this is one of the key reasons why men do worse at dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:03 AM
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Not taking someone on expensive days and buying them gifts regularly isn't treating them like trash or disrespecting them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:09 PM
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I'd prefer to work for like 6 hours a day from home and have a stay at home wife but this seems highly unlikely to happen. Neither one of us can really claim to know which relationship dynamic most people want. The only way to know this would be if we lived in a world where both paths were available to the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:04 AM
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But if the only reason people don't go for traditional relationships more often is due to a combination of wage stagnation, inflation, and general economic stagnation than it means a lot of people in egalitarian relationships are only in them due to necessity. Also it is undoubtedly worth it for me at least and I don't plan on getting distracted anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:51 AM
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Why does his perspective not matter at all in this situation? He is half of the relationship after all. Men value sex more than women do. Most men don't feel like they are desired or appreciated in a relationship when they are made to wait especially by someone with a past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:40 AM
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Have I not indicated a complete willingness to make such sacrifices? The end result is worth the steps that lead to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:38 AM
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Yes which is why you save up beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:27 AM
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I'm just saying it's really easy to come to the conclusion that she isn't really attracted to you from the perspective of the guy in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:25 AM
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Thats not true at all, you can invest, put your money into high yield accounts, generally live cheap, and be rich enough to afford said lifestyle with a six figure career. You just have to live somewhere where the cost of living is lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:23 AM
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Idk it seems like acting promiscuous for one person vs acting like a prude to another indicates a different level of physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:16 AM
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Why do you think she is more attracted to the guy she made wait than the guy who she had kinky sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:49 AM
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The issue with this is that it results in the system becoming more hierarchical and based on kin connections. This goal, while having its own merits, is contradictory to that of egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:17 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:53 AM
1

You gotta worry about the Blue Jays and Rays tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:24 AM
1

Indeed we do but Chaim hates spending money on pitchers for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:41 AM
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Yeah I'm not too concerned about this year, unless we do something stupid like firing Cora. We are still technically rebuilding afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:59 AM
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You guys haven't won any rings in a decade and you look like you're about to blow another chance this year even though you are stacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:18 AM
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Oh god don't tell me you're a Yankees fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:58 PM
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Depends on if she's willing to be a stay at home wife and that'd actually be cool to date someone who works for a team I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:54 PM
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No but I have yet to hear someone who isn't counter this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:35 PM
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Scroll down, the usual suspects responded to remind me of how important it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:31 PM
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Red pills believe many contradictory things which is why I don't associate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:30 PM
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Thats something you do when you have money, most of the things I'd like to do don't exactly pay well. I'd rather bore myself for 8 hours and make money. Honestly I'll admit that I do kinda have a thing for women who work in creative fields and generally enjoy discussing such careers however this is definitely an exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:21 PM
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Lol, at least you responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:03 PM
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For the same reason she doesn't care about mine. Working is usually boring and not the part of the day most people don't look forward to. There are obvious exceptions like I would definitely rule out dating strippers, pornstars, or prostitutes but aside from those why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:02 PM
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What gave you the impression that I'm a conservative? Just because I criticize lefties in power doesn't make me a conservative. I think that bailouts are a necessary evil in the case of the Chips bill as opposing China is far more important than moralizing about one bill that was gonna pass anyways. AOC was also never at risk, she wasn't even at the capital and she got evacuated by capital police before the rioters even reached the steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:55 PM
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Also I have seen guys say it too but they tend to be bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:42 PM
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Good thing I'm in the process of breaking into a lucrative career field so I don't have to worry about how much a partner makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:34 PM
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AOC literally acted like she was about to die when Pelosi sent a police detachment to evacuate her before the riots even started. She also voted against funding for the therapy of the capital police because the who defund the police thing being popular with her base. Bernie not voting for the Chips bill is a matter of public record, idk why you would claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:32 PM
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Good for him, I like smart women too but Intelligence is not that important to me in the context of a romantic relationship and most guys seem not to care too much. In fact it seems like a lot of men want to be the smarter/more accomplished one in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:30 PM
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Well I'm the man do the burden is on me to provide the best possible life for my children, not on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:27 PM
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Do you know any women who aren't bluepill on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:22 PM
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Lol don't group me in with the guys who get neurotic about alimony or child support. I just don't see why I should take interest unless its something interesting. Idk about you but I can get through life just fine on my own and am not looking at partnering up as a financial decision (obviously I'm not trying to partner up with someone with debt) but I wouldn't have any issue with dating a batista or waitress long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:21 PM
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Why do so many bluepills try to convince men to care about women's careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:14 PM
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Who cares what someone you're never gonna interact with again thinks about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:12 PM
1

Bernie voted against the Chips bill and AOC tried to make the capital riot all about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:11 PM
1

Even so this rant made you think of mass shooters?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:49 PM
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His rant was stupid but a mass shooter? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:45 PM
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Women don't even watch them though, in fact it is so bad that after Charlie's Angels flopped there were articles written by "film critics" trying to shame men into going to see it. Also you act like Ripley, Sarah Connor, Buffy, Cynthia Rothrock, and many other actually well written and widely liked strong female characters haven't been around for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:37 PM
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The show spends way more time justifying her actions, portraying the two characters who can stand in her way as evil and again, giving a whole speech justifying her actions. You're forgetting the fact that the whole theme of episode 8 was that we learn from our mistakes (even though no one actually does in the movie). Poe is right about everything but the script treats him like he's wrong, Finn and Rose go on a pointless side quest where Rose lectures is about how animal cruelty and war are bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:40 AM
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I'm trying believe me. Not as hard as I should but whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:34 AM
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Easier said than done but rn I'm lucky enough to have a source of motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:25 AM
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Consistently working out, holding myself to a way higher standard (I try my hardest not to trash talk or gossip, trying to step up and take the lead when the moment calls for it, I usually quit smoking/drinking too), I find that I do better at all productive pursuits be they creative or just for the grind and in general due to increased self-confidence I'm way better in social situations even with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:05 AM
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Damn I'm kinda the opposite of this, I have a hard time getting motivated to do anything until a woman is involved and then I want to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:57 AM
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I agree with this philosophy but not for the sake of improving relationships. One should learn to be happy alone because a lot of us will inevitably be alone for long stretches of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:40 AM
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I don't disagree that theorizing does nothing and that we all have to create the outcomes we want but I'd much rather have to adapt to the standards of the 70s 80s or 90s than now. That being said I don't have a time machine so yeah. I disagree with you last point as not everyone puts the burden of their happiness on their partner even if they are unhappy while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:18 AM
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I mean sure for women but the opposite is true for men and a lot of people here like to claim that most men would hate being alive 20-60 years ago when it seems like they would do way better. Idk about you but I would've loved being a young adult in the 70s, the music and movies were amazing, people still had that free attitude towards sex, wage stagnation hadn't fully taken effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:36 AM
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This is only true for elites, plebian Romans and Greek were straight on average. Also Rome and Greece were particularly weird and excessive when it came to sex in general (for example a Roman man loving his wife was shamed heavily).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:14 AM
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I never said only men believed it but if you're a guy who was brought up believing that and you see guys who act diametrically opposed to that getting way more attention and having way more sex redpill looks a lot more appealing. The manosphere is definitely overall negative in terms of impact but to act like there is no truth to it is disingenuous. Also it really doesn't hurt you with women, one of my former friends was the stereotype of a redpill and he doesn't exactly struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:34 AM
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The job market was way better off in the 70s, minimum wage was the equivalent of making $27/hr back then. Lives are longer but way more people were pairing up back then and I guarentee most men here would trade off like 5 years for a time where gender roles are better defined and understood. Yes you can improve things now but the fact that you likely have to improve things you wouldn't have back then is disappointing. Tbh the 70s aren't really the best of those decades I'd say the 80s and 90s we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:29 AM
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Which past era are you comparing the one we live in now to because I'd argue people from like the 70s until the 2010s had access to said luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:34 AM
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Not capitalism, darwinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:37 AM
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I was naive as a kid and teenager as I imagine a lot of the manosphere was. Also it really wasn't just parents but peers, teachers, and even friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:27 AM
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His opinion was initially in favor of the 6 week ban, this we agree on. However, Roberts was in the process of convincing him to sign off on a 15 week ban like the one in Mississippi (which basically makes second and third term abortion illegal). Kavanaugh was open to the idea but the leak shattered his trust in Roberts because it shined a spotlight on things that normally only happen behind the scenes. Also why would CNN try to disingenuously cover for Kavanaugh, they were one of the main sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:13 PM
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Did you read the article? Roberts literally did the same thing with Obamacare in 2012 when the Supreme Court wanted to strike it down, instead proposing a compromise that saved it in the eleventh hour. He was attempting to negotiate the Texas ban up to 15 weeks after conception so as not to overrule precedent and was making inroads with Kavanaugh but the leak caused a loss of trust a reaffirmed Kavanaugh's initial position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:01 PM
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The Republican party doesn't even have anything close to the kind of majorities it would need to pass said bans. The only path is through the Supreme Court which means Kavanaugh, ACB, Gorsich, Alito, and Thomas all need to agree on it. The only reason the Roe overturn even happened is due to the leak which pissed Kavanaugh off enough to change his ruling in favor of overturning Roe. https://www.cnn.com/2022/07/26/politics/supreme-court-john-roberts-abortion-dobbs/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:04 PM
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Wanda is not treated like a villain at all in WandaVision, when she flies away from the town of people she kidnapped against her will, Monica (who is treated as the protagonist) says "they'll never know what you sacrificed" in front of the people she enslaved and tortured. Is "bringing Vision back to life" really worth enslaving a town full of innocent people so she could have her American TV family fantasy? If so i really question your morality.. Wanda only was defeated when she realized how ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:00 PM
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I think you feel to realize how many guys were raised with the exact opposite lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:32 PM
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Whose they? Only Thomas said that and last I checked they need 5 votes to pass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:20 PM
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All Dobbs was turn the issue over to the states. Roe was an overreach in the first place. Stop acting like we're on the road to Gilead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:14 PM
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Wanda but they don't even treat her like a villain until she goes all Hitler. It was just one example but look at like Rey if you want a better example (she's a hero whose literally flawless).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:54 PM
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Look at the MCU, every time they introduce a female villain she is always the most overpowered character and they only ever can be defeated by themselves, never the male protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:03 PM
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Not every team is the Phoenix suns lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:55 PM
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Most people would support it if it focused on conditions outside of the person's control rather than those brought on by a lack of discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:23 PM
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I have never seen body positivity used this way even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:04 PM
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Have you heard some of his crazier stories? Why would anyone delude themselves so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:55 AM
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Because it would cost too much money and take too much time to recast and reshoot Flash. But let's be honest here, he's done after Flash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:54 AM
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It's clear to me that women just do better overall when single because the things guys can only get out of a relationship are available to women without being in one. For example intimacy is something guya can only really get in a relationship. Virgin shaming is incredibly common in the internet and less so irl, I've seen it here too but only by specific posters. It is for these reasons guys often choose a bad relationship over nothing because it isn't quite as bad as loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:23 PM
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This is why I recommend men in bad relationships looking for alternatives before breaking up. Being single sucks as a guy and I doubt women will ever understand how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:58 PM
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Most men don't have the luxury of choice here. It's either the woman who doesn't care or nothing a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:50 PM
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Which post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:26 AM
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Convert
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:52 PM
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There is a certain point where it is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:43 AM
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No and I think you missed the point. One can't just tell themselves they are desirable and have it happen instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:18 AM
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My point is just because they exist doesn't mean they're interested, if a guy fails to attract women in general him telling himself that they all like him is just plain delusional. Most people don't gain the abundance mindset until they actually experience abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:53 AM
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So all 4 billion are interested in me (or any other guy reading this)? Tinder sucks, as does OLD in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:15 AM
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False abundance mentality, isn't denial supposed to be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:55 PM
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How does a guy not wanting wanting to date a high n woman sexist? I never said it would be like that all the time, just that it is like that enough of the time for guys to rule out opening up entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:08 AM
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You completely ignored the context I gave you (although I should've added we'd been together for a few months by that point). Neither one of us just jumped into talking about exes out of the blue. It was as a result of the flow of the conversation (friend drama > toxic people suck > my ex was toxic > mine was too > "yeah", then changes topic before I can say my piece). I know that there are women who are okay with this (as women here like to remind us incessantly). The issue is that if none of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:52 PM
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Its not necessarily something that comes up after an obligatory amount of time rather it comes up when you're talking about something tangentially related. For example, if we're talking about general group drama stuff and she brings up how someone's personal flaw reminds her of an ex. Than she'll start complaining about said ex and when I try to relate it to my experiences with bad exes she'll feign interest then immediately change the topic. Its a small example but you could see why I wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:40 PM
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So I only have to wait 10-20 years to be taken serious emotionally by my peers, what an amazing deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:31 PM
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What you think doesn't mean anything next to what the guys actually dating women are experiencing. In my experience, the women I've dated have generally reacted very negatively to me showing vulnerability or emotion. If a guy is dating women and puts himself out there enough he will have to deal with women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:04 PM
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What are the alternatives to the Social Democratic party? Do the conservatives at least act like they represent men? Are there any centrist parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:55 PM
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Easier said than done, this seems like another one of those "do I forgo companionship for the sake of principle" kind of scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:49 PM
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Women do post on social media in general way more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:03 AM
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Yeah I'd believe it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:10 PM
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And clearly one would adjust better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:06 PM
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This is all in the context of monogender separatist societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:52 PM
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But wasn't the whole point of this argument all about underappreciated but necessary jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:29 PM
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I remember when she was gonna play as Samus in a Metroid movie but that never ended up happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:06 PM
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There are way more men taking up nursing, teaching, and social work than there are women entering construction, logging, and maintainence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:55 PM
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Agreed, nuance is very important and often lost here. Acting like only one side of the aisle is exclusively arguing in bad faith is inaccurate. Too often when men try to discuss this issue they get told by women here that they just want to force women into relationships even if that isn't at all what they meant to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:17 AM
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Two things: first, we definitely are going to disagree on what changes need to occur and what struggles I need to understand and empathize with. Second, I find that plenty of women here like to assume I'm arguing for one of the aforementioned extreme positions even when I make reasonable arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:36 AM
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What if you don't call women harpies here and do view them as human?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:05 AM
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It's not that they don't have friends its just that their friends don't provide emotional support or even physical contact (this one makes sense to me but it isn't a problem for women).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:47 AM
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I said nothing about any "incel uprising" just that a lot of the things you likely take for granted wouldn't exist if America wasn't in charge. Also America could very easily go isolationist and stop participating in the international system very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:35 PM
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In my experience with political action organizations is that the women are either way too woke for me(at least where I live) or they are taken. Cell phones have ruined cold approaching and have basically made it so that people assume the worst when someone strikes up a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:28 PM
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I guess you like the alternatives than.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:10 PM
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It's not that Japan chose to demilitarize in the first place just that no effort was made to remilitarize until recently. Japan's had a low birth rate since the 70s. There are undoubtedly factors that caused the population decline unrelated to the bubble (long work days, more asocial culture, etc). China does have a lot of plans but many of them are unrealistic (Made in China 2025) or require their diplomatic reputation to dramatically improve in the future (east Asia should be dominated by Chin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:44 PM
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Plenty of western nations have political dynasties of their own. Japan (and Korea to a lesser extent) just have more blatantly hierarchical systems. I see no issue with this as the only alternative is totalitarian dictatorship or maybe authoritarian dictatorship. Japan willingly chose to remain demilitarized, only recently has Japan started to restore its military in response to China and America sure as hell isn't getting in their way. Japan's collapse was inevitable due to low population growt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:20 AM
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As long as the people voted for it, it is democratic. Japan is a lot more conservative than America and has a drastically less eventful (and thus toxic) political system than most of the west. What America did to Japan was not conquest or anything resembling that. If Japan was our colony we failed as colonizers considering they nearly surpassed our GDP within 50 years. The American occupation of Japan was completely justified and only helped Japan (although we definitely could've done more). I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:07 AM
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I really think you overexaggerate how much "power" the average guy had back in the day. The gender roles of years past were basically designed to keep most men happy enough to not revolt. Of course this gets twisted into "men worked with men in power to keep women down".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:15 AM
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First of all the Liberal Democratic Party did lose power in 2012. Second of all I'd hardly call Japanese democracy a dictatorship just drastically different due to cultural differences. The reason the pound lost its status is due to two world wars shifting the trade balance between Britain and America not neta historical cycles. The dollar could be replaced in the same way capitalism could be, if someone could actually create an alternative system.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:52 AM
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I highly recommend the movie btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:26 AM
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IMDb: : The Lobster https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3464902/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:15 AM
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America is underpopulated and our economic system is reliant on consistent population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:10 AM
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Do you really think the countries with birth rate issues are gonna be the main contributors to the population growth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:53 AM
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Are you suggesting we use The Lobster to model our society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:51 AM
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Japan is a democracy (and a very stable one at that). China is a dictatorship that was formed in a Civil War. Japan isn't nearly as reliant on economic growth for its survival as China is (you yourself said it was the main draw for the citizenry). The USD isn't getting replaced anytime soon (look how bad the main two alternatives to it are doing). Isolationism is a constant threat (especially considering how particularly dumb younger generations are in this regard). There is also no situation wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:45 AM
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People predicting a CCP collapse 20 years ago are as dumb now as they were then. China was the fastest growing economy in the world back then and their leadership was competent (Zemin was out of power by then). At least now the cracks in their economy are starting to show with their housing market being a mess, a trade war with their biggest trading partner, and economic slowdowns due to population stagnation and the Middle income trap. An American Civil War requires a divisive enough issue that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:13 AM
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Hypocritical morality that solves some of the contradictions they see in society but creates even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:08 AM
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This is why so many people predict a collapse if the CCP as their economic growth is unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:34 AM
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And pornstars too. Curiously no one who has gone to war has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:34 AM
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The only guys who would do worse are guys who are in happy relationships or those who already do well with women and want ltrs exclusively. I'm sure most guys not in those groups wouldn't care if those men do worse if they do better overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:49 AM
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I guess I always defined gossip specifically as the aforementioned things. I see no issue with just catching up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:57 AM
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Gossip is usually an overdramatization of the reality I'd prefer to ignore. DIY tools don't always remain the same, and the challenges faced sure don't, the end result varies and usually has tangible benefits. It would depend on what it was about, but it usually tends to be people venting or bragging which I don't care for. If something important happens sure I'm interested. Hell I even like to vent sometimes but if that's all we're talking about (or even the main point of conversation) I'm gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:54 AM
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At least the DIY stories change every time, with the gossip it is literally the same story every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:38 AM
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Some guys do (believe me I've dealt with them), but to act like this is as widespread among men as it is among women is silly. What would you say is the female equivalent of a DIY project? Because I'd be much more interested in that conversation than gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:51 PM
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Cuktural conservatism is not the same thing as fascism nor is it theocracy. There are plenty of democracies with outlawed abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:51 AM
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I'd imagine it applies to that situation too. Their point is no woman is cold approaching a random guy on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:59 PM
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He means someone they know from their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:37 PM
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When have the dems advocated for open borders (only Castro said anything like this and he thought a Biden dementia joke would give him a polling boost)? Some dems may push mandates but that is more of a thing in Canada. Dems realize how most people feel about mandates at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:25 PM
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When the issue is broken down further most Americans prefer legal abortion with restrictions over the standard Roe established (which was quite the overreach). Also if the dems do good in the midterms it'll be due to economic recovery if the rate of inflation is lowered in time. Most voters said the economy was the main issue of concern for them this cycle. It doesn't help that democratic aligned media doesn't exactly market the issue well either. Gerrymandering is a necessary tool that, if empl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:22 PM
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It can't be called body positivity or be associated with body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:40 AM
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We do have friends but venting and receiving emotional support isn't exactly the standard. Prostitution is a great example of a false fix for the problem due to obvious issues that come with it (potential trafficking, its legal risk, cost, etc). Hugging friends is not exactly a standard practice among male friends and its not like hugging is the only or main thing guys who struggle are complaining about. The distinct difference is that men usually only can achieve these goals within a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:58 AM
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Being alone isn't a bad thing for women who often get emotional release with friends, sexual release from casual partners(who we all know they can find easily)/sex toys specifically designed for their needs, and physical touch from friends. Being alone absolutely sucks for men because we get none of those things while single or poisonous "alternatives" like porn or redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:04 AM
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Fair enough but Hitler is very unlike Caesar in that regard, who was much more active in moving Rome in the direction he liked before achieving power absolute. Also the "it couldn't happen here" comparisons miss how drastically different our situation is and the way more likely path for authoritarianism to form in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:01 AM
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I'm not advocating for going for someone you have no interest in, rather someone who isn't "up to par" but has enough traits you like to counter it. Sure desperation isn't a good look but it is the reality for many men. It's more important that they don't come off as desperate than actually not being desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:58 PM
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Are you saying he planned the Great Depression, Russian Revolution, and the fact that the Viemar elite preferred him to communism? These three factors did more to help him into power than anything he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:15 PM
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Sure but even after that point a guys is fucked if he isn't realistic or willing to settle in some regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:11 PM
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This is terrible advice for men who are already struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:27 PM
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Vaush sucks. Hitler didn't plan his run for power at all, he basically got lucky that the economic conditions came to favor his cause as time went on. Also he got lucky the German elite believed they could control him if he was chancellor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:25 PM
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So because one side is extreme it justifies the other side being extreme. Isn't this the logic behind the Don't Say Gay bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:18 AM
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The only question I have when I hear about scenarios like this is how soon did you two move in together? I feel like everyone I hear a story like this the part left out is that the woman heavily pushed moving in together in the first place. Even if it was a bad idea in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:13 AM
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Have you seen Love and Thunder yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:35 PM
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Is it worth seeing? I was thinking of pirating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:04 PM
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You say this yet that movie did really well in the box office.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:49 PM
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Go to r/leftwingmaleadvocates if you want a better sub for men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:51 PM
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You don't think this is mainly a byproduct of wage stagnation and price increases? I'd assume guys didn't care as much when they were earning their fair share and could afford to be the main/sole breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:04 PM
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But if every guy you opened up to did that you would (that's the other guy's point).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:29 PM
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This is the weirdest criticism of Israel I've ever heard lol. Britain wouldn't have needed to sacrifice any lancers had the high command listened to Churchill at Gallipoli anyways. I honestly don't remember what I said about Britain and India but it was likely something akin to Britain shouldn't pay reparations that will likely just end up in the pockets of oligarchs rather than going towards addressing the structural issues corrupting India today. Also how the fuck is World War 1 a Zionist war?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:08 AM
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I don't believe in God in general but I do believe we kinda owe Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:41 AM
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Because our response to the holocaust was so inadequate initially that we (as global power) took it upon ourselves to protect the Jewish people and ensure their return to their homeland.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:12 AM
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We're obligated to Israel and have been since World War 2. I thought you would've said Iraq or one of the many Civil wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:55 AM
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Monogamy kinda was one of the first steps on the path towards feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:41 AM
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Well now you have to explain what you're cutting and why. This issue is a lot more complex than the typical lefty "just stop bombing people" takes. It depends on which war and how much of the budget is being cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:44 PM
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Except no one wants higher taxes during an inflationary period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:25 PM
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Thats why I think focusing on averages when talking about individuals is useless as the individual is going to have different options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:49 AM
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I was wrong. Body positivity is way worse than worshipping unrealistic body standards. At least most people strive to be better and healthier. Better than glorifying doing nothing. This whole overreacting to the extremes of the past thing is really dumb and reflects badly on us as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:12 PM
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Yeah I agree, I feel like I've been seeing a lot more of the pro choice men than pro life women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:09 PM
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The third one is the closest to reality, it seems like a lot of women just come here to feel intellectually superior for beating a social awkward teen in a reddit argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:54 PM
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They are different in terms of life experience sure but the market they're dating in is a lot more similar than those of the past. The internet becoming mainstream alone drastically affected dating enough to warrant testing on this group alone. I'll admit the data will get better as gen z grows up but for now this is the best way to group it m
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:13 PM
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So if the guy struggling isn't fat or obese does that mean he's above average and thus should seek out above average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:50 PM
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Two lefty celebrities being against Roe being overturned doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:37 PM
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So people reacted to one extreme with another equally bad extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:33 PM
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To me it makes sense, it is the first demographic of people to live their entire lives with the internet and most of their lives with social media and smartphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:20 PM
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Something tells me you're going to disagree with most men on what the root cause of men's struggles is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:18 AM
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We will be the sole superpower unless both Russia and China collapse (which actually looks likely). Even if they both collapse, we will not be able to assert nearly as much influence on the world in 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:29 PM
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The number is actually 70% of guys who have had sex in the last year (only 49% percent among those aged 18-29). You're right no one is entitled to it but people like you really aren't helping anything and if anything you're making things worse by trying to convince people that this is a natural or good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:30 PM
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I said earlier that it isn't the problem but the side effect of a far bigger issue. It is their problem sure but the fact that they can't vent about it without people like you trying to convince them that it is a good thing will inevitably lead to bitterness and claims of solipsism (rightfully so). I can only speak for myself when I say that you are overexaggerating how easy it is. I assume you are a woman and thus have never been in the shoes of the average straight guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:10 PM
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I think you're ignoring the many other factors that caused this shift like the rise of web 2.0, the general decline in social behaviors, the invention and widespread use of smartphones, the decline of religion, etc. Have our lifespans increased that much in 15 years compared to any other point in history? It really seems like you just don't want to admit there is a problem because it isn't effecting you and because the main people complaining about it are people you're at odds with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:32 PM
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Because they aren't just waiting to have sex, they are usually trying and failing or they don't try do to a lack of results/self-confidence. As for the people losing their virginity by 40 thing we can't know if what was true for past generations will continue to apply here (and the numbers really don't look good for gen z). It seems like you don't know many guys in this situation and are making a lot of assumptions. Also clearly not everyone is bad at it if the numbers were drastically lower jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:18 PM
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What a dumb thing to compare, imo that number being over 15% is concerning in its own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:05 PM
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That's the point, it started at the fringes and has grown fast specifically starting in the late 2000s. So you need it to grow by six times the original value to acknowledge the trend? This seems rather obligatory, why not acknowledge how drastic the change has been in the last 14ish years? Why do we need to wait another 5-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:14 AM
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This argument works for physical contact but not compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:19 AM
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Was it not around 7% before 2008? Also I don't think it's a problem on its own but more the side effect of another more serious issue (social isolation). I would highly doubt the rain for most men's unsatisfying sex lives is them just putting it off. Also community colleges are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:07 AM
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The number has tripled in 20 years. How big does the number have to get before people notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:38 AM
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I don't believe its possible to 100% agree with someone on even all the major issues. They are likely lying about a few of their positions. I have a feeling the issues you consider major are different from theirs as they are from mine. Also why the assumption that arguments are always a bad thing? I should've used the term debate as usually that is more akin to what political disagreements bring on. If I disagree with someone I care about I usually want to find out why which leads to both of us …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:51 PM
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Pray tell how does one destroy their desire for companionship in this scenario than? It seems quite unwinnable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:41 PM
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The complaining about feminism does get excessive even on more moderate subs like r/leftwingmaleadvocates but it makes sense. The goals of the two groups are fundamentally opposed to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:10 PM
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Because that tends to happen when two people disagree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:18 PM
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The Greco-Roman elite class was overwhelmingly gay and bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:32 AM
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I've never understood this view, an apolitical partner sounds better than someone who you generally agree with but still argue with when you disagree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:26 AM
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First of all why is it assumed that every guy has a "perfect homely girl" on the side that he neglects for "stacies"? I can tell you a someone who has picked the homely girl that this narrative is bs. Second why is there no nuance given to the issue? Why can't he go after average/ slightly above average women first? There aren't only pretty and ugly girls out there after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:05 AM
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Tbf how is going after people over isn't interested in going to improve their self confidence? Its not even guaranteed to help them learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:51 PM
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I would agree except this issue gets drastically worse if the dems mess around should they get the chance to appoint justices anytime soon. Also court packing isn't a viable option if that's what you meant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 09:01 PM
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If you want Roe reinstated you better hope Biden's Saudi Arabia visit goes well, then two conservative justices need to die before 2024 (or someone needs to convince Robert's to overlook precedent this one time). Even then abortion would only be secure until the next time Republicans control the senate and white house. It was the democratic party's mistake to think the Republicans would just forget and Roe and Casey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:56 PM
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I doubt it, we could literally have a neo nazi takeover and half of them wouldn't care as long as the gas prices are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:50 PM
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Young people never vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:56 PM
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Diamonds are one of the greatest scams of all time and probably the first thing i would capitalize on if I had a time machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:39 PM
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All you have are assumptions of bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:39 PM
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When I am I tend to reflect and learn from the situation instead of doubling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:37 PM
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It certainly comes off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:24 PM
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Is Moissanite cheap or are diamonds just artificially scarce?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:10 PM
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So I'm guessing you've never dated any introverts or awkward guys because they're too "dumb".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:42 AM
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Perhaps but reddit definitely prefers a certain flavor of radicals over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:37 AM
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Still not quite a quarantine or ban but I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:05 AM
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I thought they made a grand return.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:12 PM
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The only real issue is redpill and MGTOW getting the ax but not FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:25 PM
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But you can see how the lack of knowledge of said crush would make this point irrelevant as per the original comment (he only gained confidence after knowing someone was attracted to him)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:16 PM
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I think the negatives caused by women entering the workforce in large number outweigh the vague positives you've been able to list in terms of outcome for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:23 AM
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And this only happened because of women entering the workforce? Seems like correlation not causation. Safety is likely corrected to cringe more than anything else and technology generally improves with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:05 AM
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And really (aside from stuff we need like medicine and vaccines) what good has upgrading said technology done? It has made us more asocial, more depressed, more anxious, and less connected to the world around us. Even cars quality going up hurt the average person as the only way this occurred was at great expense to the American auto industry (which relied on tariffs to stay dominant). Now America is a joke in the industry that only can effectively make gas guzzlers and barely employs anyone in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:41 PM
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I would argue that this hasn't happened at all considering how common inflation has been seen the advent of the doubling of the workforce. This combined with wage stagnation (also caused in part by the workforce doubling) makes this point invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:26 PM
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How does the GDP doubling directly benefit the average man if wages don't follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:45 AM
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But why the fuck would someone who acts thay way care at all? Also it clearly doesn't negatively have that much of an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:57 AM
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Why do you think the wages stagnated in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:47 AM
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China who will likely collapse in a few generations and western Europe which went from almost 40% of the global economy to just above 20 in 3 generations. Real tough competition there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:40 AM
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If it isn't negatively effecting the person in question is ut really a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:12 AM
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I didn't say there were no predators within the society just that there weren't any external threats to the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:25 PM
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Yes but his point was that the only reason the egalitarian society you referred to was brought up was due to a lack of competition from other tribes and a lack of natural predators which allowed priorities to be shifted away from what most of the ancient world was focusing on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:15 PM
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Lack of support, lack of a unified idea as what and how reform occurs, lack of unity amongst those wishing to reform things, extensive pushback from those who benefit from the way things are now, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:08 PM
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He doesn't mean abusers he means higher ranking species on the food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:07 PM
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So if a guy went in with completely good intentions (studied the culture, is generally interested in the nation, has intentions to marry and start a family) would you have any issues? Because a lot of the arguing i see here seems to be about those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:04 PM
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America and her sphere of influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:04 PM
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Why distract yourself from a bigger problem when you could attempt to solve it. Also men want gfs for way more reasons than validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:05 PM
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I don't know how but there have got to be numerous better alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:46 AM
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I really don't think encouraging men who are struggling to seek validation through social media is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:32 AM
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So you're saying every instance of starfish is well deserved? I don't know if I would agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:19 AM
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Where have you seen guy advocating for starfish sex over enthusiastic sex? They are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:18 AM
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I disagree, in my experience this varies based on how successful and thus desperate the guy is and how attractive the woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:14 AM
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This is dependent on the circumstances but generally this holds true. I don't think its fair to say men enjoy starfish sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:09 AM
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If by enjoy you mean prefer over the alternative than sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:49 AM
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She didn't say men had no standards, she said that men have standards on par with women's when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:13 AM
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Thats my point about the term incel though, it has become misused, even when it comes to unrelated issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:33 PM
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I think Kamala is slightly better than Trump and Hillary is better overall (but she still sucks). My point was about how Hillary flip flopped on gay marriage and then denied it repeatedly and how Kamala flip flopped on criminal justice. Of course if you say this in a left-wing subreddit people love to default to calling you an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:50 PM
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So anyone who disagrees with left-wing censorship should be banished to right-wing spaces exclusively? How are you not just pushing the undecided towards the extremes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:36 PM
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I've been there before. I've been called an incel for criticizing Hillary and Kamala before. All I said was that they both flip flop a lot on social issues. People really throw around that term too much nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:53 PM
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So FDS is a cult too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:03 PM
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Damn 1 in 4 sounds too good to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:26 PM
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I can see it becoming a problem if neither partner is particularly creative at finding things to do together. I will say that one of the most attractive things to find out about someone is that you have a lot in common with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:29 PM
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Specifically referring to your point about hobbies. It seems a lot of men here have a hard time relating to their female peers due to a lack of common interests and it has negative effects on their dating lives. I have been there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:15 PM
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I feel like a difficulty relating to women is an understated issue here. Would you say that this is true in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:59 PM
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The reason the west won the game of civilization was due to a higher level of war and competition among those states within it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:55 PM
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Can they win in Boston tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:16 PM
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I don't think I've ever heard or seen this outside of the occasional post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:44 AM
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They are attracted to women sexually they just usually dislike their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:31 AM
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Since when does the left care about morality? They only seem to care about looking moral nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:22 PM
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They have they just don't get the support or attention required. Also we are kind of in the infancy phase of mens advocacy movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:59 PM
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This seems to be the general consensus on this thread. For some reason there aren't many challengers to your claim either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:34 PM
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Its supposed to be a reflection of how you would be treated had you been born the other gender. So it likely means a lot of bad and mediocre options but with a few good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:43 PM
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I don't live in any of the countries men go to to find traditional women but I do know a few guys who went that route and they all seem to have happy families. It can and does work out. I think we agree here for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:25 PM
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But what issue is there if the man in question is acting in good faith and is a good partner? You seemed to attack the idea of men going to more traditional areas in general (though you did emphasize those acting in bad faith).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:21 PM
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This seems to be an issue more with the intentions of the guy in question. Traditional relationships do give a lot of power to the guy. Power that can be abused. I don't see what the problem is if the guy is a good partner however. So what if he finds dating easier in Traditional cultures?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:00 PM
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Or a lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:41 PM
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Doesn't matter because Joe Cool is locking up the AFC north.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:20 PM
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Hasan is my favorite lolcow in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:45 PM
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There are a lot of posts arguing the opposites, admittedly they're usually by radical feminists or fds users.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:01 AM
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How did she even become notable in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:57 AM
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Prioritizing between nothing and something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:06 PM
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Which is why I believe the second case you brought up is more common. It seems like a women who dislikes video games would be more successful dating than a guy who is addicted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:52 AM
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The more competitive a game is the more likely this is to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:35 AM
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This is why I could never be a househusband. The temptation to play video games and watch movies/TV all day is too great.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:25 AM
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I'd assume most guys who no life video games are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:37 PM
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I agree that this is like trying to find a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:05 AM
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And they are usually side characters too. If you wanna roll back that requirements from eccentric to quirky you'll find more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:08 PM
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When she's interested go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:38 PM
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I mean there are good examples like Tiny Tina or Radical Edward but neither one of those characters are main protagonists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:40 PM
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There are plenty of people disputing it, "hours worked" and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:28 PM
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I mean yes, you should've become a software engineer. Why wouldn't you want to make more money? But also why is the partner in this situation who does what they enjoy in spite of it not paying we allowed leeway with wanting to do what they love, even though it doesn't pay well, but the partner who decided to take an engineering job they don't love not given any? You're right that a rich guy would struggle convincing a woman who works and enjoys her work enough to see a future in it to stop worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:18 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:14 PM
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If you're allowed to bring up theoretical scenarios than I should be able to also (btw yours involves two people who will be making the same amount of money within a few years and is different from what I'm positing). If the individual is making less money but is on the path to make an income on par with their partner I see no issue with a 50/50 split. The issue I have is when she works a career that doesn't pay well and doesn't offer serious opportunities for growth and demands 50/50, I will ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:08 PM
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You agree that if she did have access to his money and they do cohabitate that it makes sense for her to do more housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:14 PM
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I disagree that someone making way more should work the same amount of chores. Choose should be divided based on contributions to household income. If the guy makes enough money to support both of them than why isn't the burden mainly on her? At that point she's only employed because she wants to be. In that scenario I almost think a homemaker is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:51 PM
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The easiest example is the paying for dates/"going 50/50" extremism FDS promotes. Like the notion that the guy should always pay and not even expect their date to pay attention to them or that even if a guy makes 5x more than his wife that chores should be evenly divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:55 AM
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It's usually the same few users, they comment the typical self-serving kind of takes and only get pushback by guys but when guys say the male version of this they get challenged extensively. I guess I get it considering my tendency to challenge female posters more than male posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:56 AM
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Idk, I see a lot of fds level takes being spread on here that only get countered by guys (specifically redpills which I find ironic).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:44 AM
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Fair enough, it clearly doesn't happen here tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:10 AM
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I'm glad you're acting in good faith. I guess I've just seen more eye-roll worthy arguments from women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:46 PM
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I think the white knight term is an overexaggeration in this case but you're clearly biased towards women if you only ever seem to find guys making bad arguments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:29 PM
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Where do you see women calling out women? Surely not in this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:25 PM
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But even mainstream feminists believe in the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:09 PM
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Japan only discourages women from entering the workforce, it isn't exactly a religious or incredibly socially conservative country otherwise. Korea, like Japan has a work culture that limits the likelihood of successful relationships in addition to women entering the workforce. India and the Islamic world are dealing with having a higher number of men than women and a class system that makes Korea's look like communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:51 PM
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If you aren't a natural in social settings you will do worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:12 AM
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I preferred when evangelicals allied with the democratic party.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:59 PM
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You say this like anyone on here significantly influenced the decision themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:43 PM
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Let's be honest here, no political organization gives a shit about kids because they can't vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:34 PM
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They just hate men and protect said hatred onto trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:32 PM
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You need a study to prove that a lot of women have options even while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:47 PM
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How does this not contradict the "be picky" advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:00 AM
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So you're saying to settle now? Does this not contradict what you said earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:50 AM
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You act like most guys have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:25 AM
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Pickiness results in loneliness and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:49 PM
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You're arguing the wrong point, it doesn't matter if three women on here say they would do, it matters what the majority of women would actually do, especially those in close proximity to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:45 PM
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I greatly appreciate the existence of this subreddit, it is one of the few places where an issue can be freely and openly debated with reasonable regulations. I wish however, that there was more of a venting space for men specifically that doesn't try to be a frat guy strategy guide like redpill, an isolated echo-chamber of extremists like blackpill, or a MGTOW style subreddit where the same overgeneralized points are brought up repeatedly. Preferably a place for men to vent and recieve actual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:52 PM
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When did I say you had to give us sex? All I said was that guys having a place to vent about their dating woes without all the manosphere bullshit or constant arguing would be a good start. If you think all complaints men have about dating nowadays boil down to "women won't fuck me" you're being willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:16 PM
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A place to vent about this without being constantly argued with us a good start. A place where commenting or posting doesn't get you instabanned from many subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:49 PM
1

Selling England by the Pound is their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:54 PM
2

Yeah it is kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:27 AM
2

Competency is much preferred though the two traits aren't contradictory. Dwight Eisenhower was a competent and moral president.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:08 AM
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Jimmy Carter was a moral man but an incompetent leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:28 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:53 AM
1

One can go out of their way to mitigate the chances of such a scenario rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:29 PM
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I mean human nature in the sense of our tendency towards tribalism and othering those outside of our perceived tribe when left to our own devices.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/22 12:54 PM
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Humanism and liberalism go against human nature.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/22 08:15 AM
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Religiosity, how urban or rural the population is, the social views of a population, level of social cohesion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:02 AM
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This isn't a guarentee, their are way more factors effecting birth rate then just the quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:48 AM
3

For God and Queen!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:59 PM
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The number gives you the outline, the higher it is the more likely the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:50 PM
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To me this comes off as us projecting our modern values over an ancient myth or culture. Like when people say Loki was Non-Binary or that there were trans Vikings. Also the story clearly is against that interpretation and has a pretty clear message about what equality looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:40 PM
2

Okay but I don't see how the Lilith story is about equality when she is literally punished for seeking it out. I also understand why the Bible removed that part. It was kinda an unnecessary side plot that went nowhere and was never followed up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:32 PM
1

Being a demon in hell for eternity is equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:20 PM
4

Why do you assume every guy acts in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:18 PM
5

Clearly different men are complaining about different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:16 PM
1

Red pill dude who used to and can't seem to forgive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:22 PM
1

I've seen a version of this with red pill guys and single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:53 PM
1

Who the fuck thinks emo women are unattractive or niche? Big titty goth gf was a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:04 PM
2

Immigration is also a solution to the problem of population growth and capitalism. Immigration shouldn't be relied upon exclusibely however. Preferably American has a replacement level birthrate and a progressive Immigration system. America is underpopulated if anything, and could sustain a population way bigger than the one it has now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:40 AM
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Regulation of big industry was what allowed the relatively high standard of living of the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:34 AM
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I'm not arguing for that, if anything I'm arguing that society could've moved in a way better direction from the 50s using the good aspects of the 50s as a foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:36 AM
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Your conveniently leaving out the only true era of Keynesian economics being tested in America. Maybe overall the quality of life was worse due to technological improvements and changes in social policy but the cost of living and wages were relatively way better and favored laborers more than now. Minimum wage would be like $30 an hour if it had scaled with time and productivity. The 50s definitely had their issues but let's not act like there weren't positives too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:28 AM
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Population growth is needed to maintain capitalist growth. Considering how people like to predict the end of society every time their quality of life decreases slightly, I don't think most people are ready to live with the consequences of a stagnant or even declining economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:07 PM
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Cost of living, wages, and social isolation have all gotten drastically worse since the 50s, some things have definitely improved but many have regressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:00 PM
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The only reason women fought for the soviets was because the soviets were literally backed up against the wall fighting to not get genocided by the nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:00 PM
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You don't think that society could've evolved in a better direction from that point? Maybe one that has the best aspects of 50s society and the best aspects of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:40 PM
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I don't think any post-communist country has high birth-rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:42 PM
2

Who would've thought a religion about destroying one's culture would fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:32 PM
2

The CCP has tried and failed to replace religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:29 PM
1

So I should believe you because America bad? Never heard that one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:41 PM
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I need evidence that the west was at all involved in that. It didn't seem that ridiculous to me that a pro Russian puppet was overthrown for a "democratic" leader. It happened independently in Georgia. Also you seem to assume that America cares about geopolitics way more than they've demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:58 PM
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What meddling? The most NATO did was protest and levy sanctions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:53 PM
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If NATO was pushing its luck in Ukraine don't you think that NATO would at least agree unanimously to let Ukraine in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:45 PM
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Ukraine's leader who got ousted in the coup currently lives in Russia and was a Russian asset. I can see why he was overthrown. What I missed was Putin funding separatists in Eastern Ukraine for those 8 years. I also don't see how we were supposed to protect a nation that, at the time, was diplomatically isolated and closer aligned with Russia. Sure we could've anticipated this more and planned the sanctions further ahead of time but our options here are limited as they tend to be when 2 nuclear…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:14 PM
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How did the west cause what happened to Ukraine? Russia invaded in 2014 then Ukraine immediately rushed to NATO. Germany and France kept blocking their entrance and Putin took the opportunity 8 years later. NATO expanded into Eastern Europe because the nations of Eastern Europe experienced life under Russian rule and preferred life under American protection. Ukraine and Belarus didn't even try to join because they were more aligned with Russia back then. I fail to see how anyone can blame the We…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:04 PM
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How could we directly involve ourselves without it escalating into WWIII?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:44 PM
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Its kinda a problem with how people are raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:36 PM
1

More incels kill themselves then other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:29 PM
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It definitely would've happened another way. Incels are always gonna be incels and modern dating is a shitshow. She's acting like she split the atom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:55 PM
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I feel like the better comparison is harem anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:27 PM
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That's sounds like what social media was supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:56 PM
1

Wait really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:26 PM
2

True tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:49 AM
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I should've added time too, there is no way starting a second family is more convenient than tricking someone into raising someone else's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:13 AM
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Easier until you factor in the amount of money require to provide for 2 families in 2 different parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:10 AM
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These two goals aren't mutually exclusive, in my opinion it is disingenuous to frame it that way. Obviously the first goal is more easily achievable, that doesn't mean we can't strive towards both as a species. The problem is that we have no evidence that said ecosystems exist nowadays. Why not explore and answer these questions instead of outright rejecting them due to some perceived exploitation and distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:09 AM
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This is true. Most privileges come with downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:18 AM
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Do you not view space colonization as the natural next step for humanity? Also with planets like Mars and Venus where there is currently no confirmed life what would we even be exploiting? Also how does me being upbeat about space exploration make me a colonizers or exploiter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:16 AM
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So you just hate humanity than? At least make the typical "humans destroy everything they come into contact with" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:52 AM
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How is easy sex not a privilege or at least a positive side effect of another privilege (men are more attracted to women than vice versa)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:49 AM
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What would be exploited in this scenario? I see nothing morally wrong with expanding human influence into the solar system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:48 AM
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Then why not use those examples as your argument? I agree that most guys wouldn't take that for easy sex but your first point wasn't exactly compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:47 AM
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I guarentee most of the guys complaining about a lack of sex would trade it away for a lack of respect from car salesmen who are just trying to con you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:40 AM
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You said space colonization is a bad thing the is only becoming of a parasitic species. I view it as an opportunity to cross the next barrier. Clearly I have a more optimistic view on it than you. All I said is that clearly everyone doesn't view the idea of leaving earth as some negative scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:16 AM
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Idk women are still better at giving iois so I'd prefer more obvious iois.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:12 AM
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Why would any guy with money take that deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:11 AM
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There is no way second families are any more common than paternity fraud. Feel free to find any stats to challenge me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:39 PM
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Earth's destruction is by no means a guarentee at this point. Also pretty much every utopian sci-fi involves humans expanding beyond earth while still inhabiting earth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:58 PM
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Sure but women seem to prefer iois, if its gotta be that way at least be more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:52 PM
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And we're probably thousands of years from it, we have multiple entities (multiple governments and billionaires) spending billions of dollars to find alternatives to earth, and more and more sustainable living projects are gaining steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:31 PM
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He phrased it weird, he meant he would like iois to be more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:29 PM
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There was literally a gender swapped version of this question posted earlier, where was all the righteousness then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:23 PM
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Indeed, more evidence that women's baby fever wouldn't be enough to offset the general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:17 PM
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Expect continuous population growth is not at all an impossible task.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:16 PM
1

Yeah and the number of childfree women has been growing rapidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:48 PM
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Our economic system is mainly driven by population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:45 PM
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But their goals are completely different. A tradcon would want a single income household, kids, and a monogamous relationship. An RP would go for a rotation of fuckbuddies/one night stands and wouldn't be caught dead spending any more than the minimum amount of money required to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:07 AM
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Ah yes, Europe is the ultimate victim of American imperialism and doesn't benefit from not having to spend any money on defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:03 AM
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Because we have to provide defense for the rest of the developed world. It's really way to fund a welfare state when you don't even contribute 2% of your gdp to NATO funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:46 PM
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She convinced him to run for president. There is your motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:34 PM
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Why do you assume that rapists would listen to random men or care about morals or be talked out of committing rape? And why is it the responsibility of all men rather than the justice system?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:19 PM
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Enough to make dating incredibly uneven for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:11 AM
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Pretty sure he meant androgynous not asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:42 PM
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In the 2000s it almost reached replacement level and it was steady throughout the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:56 PM
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Indeed but usually republican tax cuts are broad as if they only cut taxes for the rich their strategy would lose all subtlety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:48 AM
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I think I phrased it wrong, I meant the biggest gap in approval between genders over an issue is use of military force.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:38 AM
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Isn't the most gendered political issue the use of military force?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:36 PM
1

Lower taxes benefit everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:23 PM
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You're saying this on a subreddit full of men complaining about the state of things. Clearly this isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:09 PM
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This might be the one post where everyone's take is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:41 AM
1

Still lame, does he just show up, complete a task, and then leave like last time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:33 PM
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Does he actually act like Luke this time or is he still a video game npc like last time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:02 PM
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Because if Chad fucks 5s and 6s regularly and I'm a 6, 3s and 4s are gonna think they're my looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:04 PM
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It's kinda like the reform party, the loudest person is the smartest person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:03 PM
2

Are there even people who identify as purple pill? It seems like an ideology of not having an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 AM
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The only entity powerful enough to counter them is the United States government.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:23 AM
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Its not a bad idea on its own but if anything its one we'd need to see positive progress with birthrates before we try it. Imo itd be better to pressure corporations into paying better wages across the board as it doesn't cost the government anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:33 AM
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So let's make the welfare state even more expensive and unsustainable in the hopes that people start procreating. That sounds realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:23 AM
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The man has to deal with the worst of traditional gender roles and modern gender roles during the early phase of the relationship then the woman has to do the same when things get serious. If anything you'd assume both sides would realize this and go out of their way to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:03 AM
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The video where she says that there is no unified western culture? I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:11 PM
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The number of incels capable of doing so appears to be growing based on the growing number of mass shootings and attempted mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:24 AM
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Except plenty of people predicted covid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:18 AM
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I still don't see how this would effect the amount of people doing school shootings. Also the government targeting incels wouldn't just result in the entire manosphere falling apart tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:12 AM
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My point is even if the FBI treated them like Al Qaeda there would still be mass shootings and the names of the shooters being spread around. You can't kill an ideology so simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:49 AM
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You realize most of the shooters don't formally identify with the cause right? How would the government preemptively stop all school shooters?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:33 AM
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That sounds like wishful thinking. The more that occur the more effective they appear to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:19 AM
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My point is that the number of incels going off the deep end will continue to increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:08 AM
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More like not yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:43 AM
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Look at the number of mass shootings, acts of political violence, rioting, even crime. It's all gone up over the past decade. Unlike other posters here I don't think we're on the verge of an incel uprising or anything but we are headed for an era of more cruelty, rape, and death.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:04 PM
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The kinda person who shoots up a target doesn't care if they have all the technology in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:38 PM
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Tbh Victoria was basically a figurehead. Mary is a better example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:07 PM
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How the fuck do I provide evidence? I've literally seen this happen on multiple times. Maybe an obese guy can pull a girl at a party every once in a while but never off a dating app. Women just have more leverage on dating apps where they get way more offers and looks are basically the only factor anyone selects for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:17 AM
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Than why don't Europe and east Asia have obesity problems like America? At they not capitalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:00 AM
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Abercrombie models is definitely an overexaggeration. But plenty of obese women are fucking 6s off of tinder and from parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:35 PM
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It is a commitment I do agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:15 PM
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And if a guy struggles with them he might a well get the best betabuxx he can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:42 PM
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That's why I emphasized legal immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:59 PM
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I would agree and cite American immigration policy (legal immigration policy) as a good example whereas Germany and Sweden seem to have a "fuck demographics we have immigrants" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:48 PM
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That was a typo, I meant to say he said it without knowing your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:46 PM
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I misread emigrants as immigrants, my bad. Do you think immigration would help solve the brain drain or would it just cause a reactionary response?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:47 PM
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Are they mostly from the Islamic world?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:32 PM
1

What country? That sounds like a lot of EU nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:12 PM
1

You said it in a different conversation that took place after he brought up slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:36 PM
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That sucks and all but you can't unequivocally say that about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:12 PM
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I've seen 3s literally get a more attractive match, leave with said match within 5 minutes, and then 5 minutes later reject said match because they weren't doing it for them, and then get back on OLD to find another more attractive match within another 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 PM
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It's not quite as bad as its made out to be but OLD is kinda notorious for dudes dumpster diving. 3s can have ONS with 6s with a swipe. These same 3s also tend to complain that said 6s won't commit and claim that men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:33 PM
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There are reasonable aspects to fds that I understand the push for, much like with trp. However, like trp, fds takes it way too far, encouraging a self-defeating cycle of manipulation, bitterness, and complaining that keeps a consistent audience engaged and ready to buy their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:04 AM
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I see, no point continuing this conversation if you can't acknowledge reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:21 AM
3

Left wingers and history revisionism. Have you been to a college campus recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:56 PM
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Go on fds and tell me that what you see didn't reek of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:53 PM
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To be fair David Bowie and Prince went out of their way to encourage the label. But I see your point about the boy bands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:14 PM
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Justin Bieber was called gay for making annoying bubblegum pop songs like "baby". The metrosexual look didn't help but if he wore leather jackets and aviators he would still be called gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:44 PM
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Religious purity culture is a direct response to the insane sex culture of the Roman empire and Greek polities. I also think based on general trends in history that religion is the only effective way to keep a population chaste (if that's your end goal).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:31 AM
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Or they just like different activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:31 AM
0

Do you honestly think a single mother is going to want to have more kids? It seems like it is less likely that a childless woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:38 AM
4

Same with Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:13 AM
2

It definitely isn't all Americans, just the shallow ones. The same people who seem to get way too much attention and validation nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:57 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:22 PM
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Oh lol I assumed some shit went down lol. What fucking lovers, having social lives outside of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:00 PM
3

What happened to r/menslib?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:14 AM
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Nah they get peddled up and down town.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:51 PM
2

Damn, I know a lot of people who disagree with you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:49 PM
4

But what about a 40 year old that looks like Steve Carrell?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:05 AM
2

You still need to occupy captured territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:43 AM
2

You're acting like a world war breaking out with China, a European war with Russia, or some Middle Eastern war between Iran and the US is impossible and out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:43 AM
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Go to r/detrans. There is a reason most detransitioners are AFAB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:40 AM
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It depends on how old one is mainly ime. If you're high school or college age you're inevitably going to have to deal with it. Emotionally immature women aren't exactly a minority when you're younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:12 PM
4

Fair enough but it is clearly enough women to negatively effect dating for men regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:40 PM
0

Damn, speaking of white knights
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:44 AM
2

I don't know they probably had lives they were missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:55 AM
4

This subreddit really needs more guys who take a balanced approach between red pill and blue pill outlooks, more onlyfans/sugar women (because they are brought up all the time but never seem to provide their own perspectives), and women who are currently dating. It really hasn't changed that much aside from more fds women showing up and there being less blue pilled guys and white knight types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:19 AM
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It is based on commenting on this subreddit for an odd couple of years and mainly interacting with older married women or trp type guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:07 AM
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Women in this subreddit tend to be disproportionately older and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:57 PM
2

Both of them cheated...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:43 AM
3

First of all its not just male validation. Women validate each other fairly often. Just look at the comments on a selfie post on Instagram or TikTok. Male attraction is worthless if the guy in question isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:24 PM
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Beauty standards and the insecurities surrounding them do not negate the fact that women can still easily recieve attention and validation. The kind of surging men far less often. Now I don't know if you believe in the placebo effect but I've found positive reinforcement leads to higher self confidence. Of course this shouldn't be a bad thing but in the era of instant gratification and a lack of impulse control it is incredibly easy for it to get out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:54 PM
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Nice personal attack. By your logic no one can truly analyze or say anything about this because we are all human and damn near all of us are born as one sex or the other. It makes sense that one would notice the other sex's overestimating their attractiveness more than when it occurs within their own sex. However I would argue (with the exception of delusional people like the ones of r/rateme) that men are way more likely to be told honestly how attractive they are thus not feeding into the delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:29 PM
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And go to tiktok and you'll find just as many if not more women doing the same kind of shit. Of course reddit is going to disproportionately display the male side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:15 PM
3

This issue is undisputably worse among women. Its a byproduct of easy validation through OLD and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:53 PM
1

If you held a referendum on abortion in each state it would be outlawed in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:03 PM
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Tbf Roe and Casey are undemocratic. I'm honestly surprised it took 50 years for them to overturn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:43 AM
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I don't think Casey will get overturned. I honestly want to never have to hear a debate about abortion again in my life. It seems like an issue we should've solved decades ago and only distracts from more pressing issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:33 AM
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Casey is what they'd be overturning. Not Roe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:50 PM
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My point was more referring to what we (men of ppd) are supposed to do about men being too horny for their own good. I never said anything about women catering to men's libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:58 AM
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Yeah and it is an unintended consequence of social advances too. Its like we forgot that we still are evolved for tribalism and life as hunter-gatherers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:37 AM
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I feel like it is more due to a sort of moral arrogance that we've developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:31 AM
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I only wonder why we act like we're so above those tendencies nowadays when we clearly aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:29 AM
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My point was more that the only successful ways men have gotten other men to ignore their urges for the "greater good" is through religion, extremism, and killing them off through war.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:24 AM
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I've seen this conversation here numerous times on here. The guy says that dating sucks for men. The typical response by those on the blue pill end of the spectrum is that men being desperate, horny, and indiscriminate causes said problems and that the original commenter should bring this issue up with men. So I wonder, what the fuck can one guy on reddit really do about it aside from screaming into the void hoping for someone to relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:17 AM
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What are we supposed to do about it? Cause right now the only option seems to be using religion or extreme ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:31 AM
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No the subreddit r/pinkpillfeminism was a WGTOW community that was actually growing before it got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:21 PM
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WGTOW exists they just got banned off of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:01 PM
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You realize the catholic church was the first major institution in the west to oppose cousin marriage right? Along with enforcing monogamy. Arranged marriages may have been the norm for royalty in the middle ages but it certainly wasn't the case for the peasantry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:31 PM
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And what better examples are there that content aimed at women can be just as bad as content aimed at men? Also I fail to see how more women getting into positions of power changes anything. Especially something like men and women's preferences for dating and sex. We already live in an era where women's interests are pandered to and I don't see men as a whole upping their game in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:25 PM
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How is what he said not proof that changing out a few people at the top doesn't change anything? Do shows and movies like Sex/Life, 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight not exist to you? Women are just as capable of (if not encouraged towards) creating smut as men are. If you really want better media, find a way to get people to stop watching terrible media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:40 PM
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First of all women entering the workforce would've been a more gradual transition than an immediate addition of labor to the market without second wave feminism encouraging women to enter the workforce en masse. A transition that could be adapted to better than we did. I only meant to partially blame the 70s stagflation on second wave feminism for the aforementioned reason. Other recession likely would've happened regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:59 AM
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A significant amount of those issues (inflation, stagnant wages, recessions) were caused in part by women entering the workforce en masse in the 60s and 70s. Obviously not exclusively the fault of 2nd wave feminism but its role can definitely be linked to the decline in quality of life seen in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:28 AM
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Go for it but if you do this you can never complain about a woman using a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:39 AM
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Tbh fds is way worse about this. The amount of times I've seen them compare themselves to Beyonce...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:58 AM
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Do you view the two processes the same? Is someone using a morning after pill the equivalent to an abortion. Because there is a huge difference in what point the in the process the birth control occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:22 AM
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In none of those cases does the fetus even develop. Life never had a chance there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:06 AM
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You're also preventing a life from forming which is in my eyes taking a life. It seems really bizarre to dehumanise potential human life to justify disposing of said life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:27 PM
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I can say from personal experience that women make me a lot more ambitious than I am normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:19 PM
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Or we could just stop giving ridiculous settlements to people obviously gaming the system like Renner. Seriously how does she get $100k a month after making tiktoks on how to use men for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:17 PM
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Sounds like an easy way to justify taking a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:12 PM
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How much of that art and science was done specifically to impress a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:05 PM
2

None of what you defined as socialism lite requires a transition to socialism. The most successful countries at implementing said policies are welfare/Keynesian capitalist states.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:35 AM
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Socialism just replaces the old hierarchy with a new one (usually intellectuals).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:36 PM
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I said that liberal democracy doesn't provide the justification for the lifestyle we live now on its own. Where the fuck did you get the idea that I support the Taliban?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:03 PM
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But not a good job justifying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:57 PM
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If you look at history, men regularly dying is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:41 AM
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As cold as this may sound, this isn't as much of an issue when the male population is dying left and right (there is still a low intensity conflict going on in Afghanistan after all).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:34 AM
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They aren't saying it jokingly at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:35 PM
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I said it because it was the first thing I thought of, I'm sure if I wanted to I could scroll down FDS and find plenty of posts, comments, and links to sources that are sexist towards men (just scroll through this sub during purge week to see the worst examples). I'm not offended by the term scrote its just like a bad parody of terminology that was cringy to begin with. I find this ironic when FDS users try to present themselves as better than the manosphere while using slang directly influenced…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:17 PM
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So what's the argument even about than?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:20 AM
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You make a lot of assumptions about someone who was arguing with someone else about something else. All they were arguing over was whether or not FDS is sexist and/or toxic. The original commenter didn't respond to the request for proof so I did and you immediately swooped in with these assumptions and accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:16 AM
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Did I ever argue that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:54 AM
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We are talking about sexism in FDS not irl. I brought up the term scrote because it is sexist and is regularly used on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:53 AM
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Have you ever heard a guy say that in real life tho? Cause I feel like only incels say that kind of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:43 AM
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You asked for specific examples
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:35 AM
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The term scrote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:19 AM
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Social democrat on economic policy, social conservative on social policy, hawk on foreign policy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:13 PM
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Why was it a refreshing change?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:49 AM
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I'd love to actually watch anyone claiming this about that movie livestream themselves watching it from start to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:26 AM
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I feel like the problem here is that men tend to notice these types of women and women tend to notice abusive guys due to the society we live in giving them so much attention in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:16 PM
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Anticapitalism =/= being against excessive consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:46 AM
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You act like all of human history has had as much overconsumption as the era we live in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:19 AM
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There is way more overlap between socially left-wing people (Woke-crowd) and economically left-wing people (Keynesians, Socialists, and Communists) than you give credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:37 AM
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You act like porn has any inherit value beyond masturbation material. Those artists and authors create art, pornstars get railed for an hour. Not exactly a unique talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:44 PM
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No one likes those guys tho, no one here at least. I remember in college this one guy started working out regularly and took one of those mirror selfies while flexing his biceps. Everyone I knew made fun of him about it for the next 2 months and many memes were made out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:56 PM
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Idk Japan isn't poor and that seems the main country I hear about guys (at least American guys) going to for romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:54 PM
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It isn't the majority of women but it is enough to where me and most of my male friends have experienced this and clearly it isn't limited to my social circle because others on the internet have had the same experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:52 AM
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Simp with money usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:17 AM
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There is nothing you can do about it. However trying to see things from the perspective of the opposite sex (especially on a forum like this one) would help show men here that women can be sympathetic to their struggles and (hopefully) allow women to then share their perspectives on similar issues so men here could sympathize with them. The issue here is one of value and perception. Men and women value casual sex differently and don't fully understand each other's perspectives on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:03 AM
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WWI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:43 AM
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Sure but I've noticed a particularly trend of relationships set up by friends of the opposite sex failing hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:20 AM
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It goes both ways tbh. I've definitely put up with women I can't stand that I'm attracted to as a friend with the intention of fucking later. But I've also had to deal with having a huge crush on a girl who was already taken but I still get along with very well. So I can see both points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:45 AM
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You act like nerd fandoms don't have ratios more fucked than Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:27 AM
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It happens but rarely works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:24 AM
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What the fuck does a Namibian tube have to do with divorce court?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:19 PM
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This allegory is kinda unfair considering the fact that not every option available to women is bad. I don't think he wants you to be content with the way things are just for you to admit that with regards to relationships women have it easier than men. Also the beat orbiters comparison is a false equivalency because casual sex with men isn't guaranteed to be a bad experience (whereas listening to someone complain about their relationship/day-to-day problems for the tiny chance of having sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:46 AM
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My point about the 70s disproval of malthusian theory is that technology is the solution to these issues not halting population growth. North America has enough arable farming land to feed the world, even in a doomsday scenario where the world climate increases by 4 degrees Celsius. Nuclear energy can power a developed nation as evidenced by France and other green technologies are being developed to handle the energy emission problem. Small nations like Bhutan can live on wind power exclusively …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:14 AM
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I'd love to hear you saying that after living under a fascist or communist regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:08 PM
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Thats funny because in real life most people I know still believe in America albeit with certain well earned criticism and generally believe their neighbors and peers are good people. It is only on reddit and Twitter where I see the whole "America is in decline and won't exist by 2050". As for our debt, raising taxes along with reduced spending is the solution (not a sexy or short term solution).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:07 PM
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I think you're grouping a lot of the people you don't like into one group. Most people who watch porn are not addicted to the lengths that you suggest. The same thing is true with video games. They are no different from social media in that they are only vices if one treats it as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:27 PM
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Any situation is which a war occurs would only be due to China starting it. India may not be as developed as China but India is also huge and difficult to occupy and would definitely force China to keep a significant amount of troops deployed in the subcontinent. Troops that can't be used in Korea or Vietnam. If Russia isn't involved the US has the advantage due to the fact that we have over 2800 nukes and an above 90% nuclear shootdown rate while China only has slightly over 600.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:24 PM
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China is also reliant on the Middle East for oil which is supplied via Naval trade route which would be easy for the US cut them off from. In the event of a global war, China also risks pissing off their neighbors which means that long as most major island nations side with America and provide troops (most are in official and unofficial alliances with the US) the number imbalance is irrelevant. Also don't forget to consider that India is also a player in the region and aligned with America.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:48 PM
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Yeah but we have nukes now, none of the past superpowers had nukes. Even so, the US couldn't win a conventional war against China without all of its allies firmly aligned behind it and considering half of our allies can't even pay their 2% requirements for NATO I'm not too confident it would happen. The only potential Flashpoint is Taiwan which I'm doubtful China could take due to our naval and air Superiority. War is not a good idea when we'd be engaging China and potentially Russia and Iran on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:44 PM
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I'm saying you're as unlikely to find a guy who doesn't watch porn as I am to find a girl who never uses social media. It is not an unreasonable requirement but one that eliminates the vast majority of potential options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:39 PM
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Not wanting a woman who uses social media is so unreasonable to you huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:18 PM
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I doubt a World War would happen considering how tied together the world economic system is. What is more likely is a new cold war with more of a focus on economic blocs and trade agreements. We'll also see a shit ton of African and Middle Eastern proxy wars where new technology will be tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:46 PM
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We wouldn't necessarily lose. It all would depend on how many of our allies show up and how many of theirs inevitably betray them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:44 PM
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Asia has already experienced its demographic explosion and now many Asian nations are starting to experience decline. Sure there are a lot of developing markets but for every Philippines there is a Japan to match it. America's spot at the top is pretty secure because even if we collapse we'll take everyone else down with us. There is a reason the recession hurt Europe worse than the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:20 PM
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I don't mean to sound cruel but Covid hasn't killed nearly as many people proportionately as the Black Death, Bubonic Plague, or the various smallpox outbreaks throughout history. You want an example of the kind of pandemic that the original commenter is talking about look up the Justinian Plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:15 PM
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I like how as soon as the quality of life drops off a little bit everyone starts predicting societal collapse. Sure we haven't fully recovered from 2008 but we are nowhere close to a societal breakdown. Belief in democratic institutions and social cohesion are still stable. Why do you think society will collapse specifically ten years from now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:04 PM
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Its almost like said corporations and politicians intentionally guilt people over it to shift the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:38 PM
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Population growth is not the main cause of climate change, its energy production combined with car emissions. Energy companies spread this myth to shift the blame from themselves. Malthusian theory was thoroughly dismissed in the 70s when people thought humanity would starve to death due to overpopulation. It turns out all we needed was for farming techniques to adapt to become more efficient. How do you we were able to handle Asia massive population growth throughout the late 20th century?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:36 PM
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Dystopia? Really? Considering the multiple actual dystopia states that failed to take over the world in the 20th century I'd argue we're doing alright right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:29 PM
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You found the reverse correlation between child rearing and quality of life improvement. This problem is especially bad nowadays as the quality of life has been stagnant since 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:11 PM
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The UK is more part of a sort of the anglo-sphere now than Europe. At least in terms of geopolitical alignments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:28 PM
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I have heard women called men neckbeards (specifically in retrospect to their friends after rejecting said "neckbeard"). It makes sense why women don't use the other three. All three of them are terms that served their purpose originally but got ruined by people referring to normal guys in relationships as simp/cuck/beta. So naturally they are associated with "guy who is a decent boyfriend" rather than "guy who let's women use his desire for sex or relationship for their own gain without offerin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:23 PM
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In the past the church was the place to meet people. It would be cool if someone found a way to consistently get people of similar ages together on a regular basis without all the spirituality bs tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:33 AM
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The issue isn't with what toxic masculinity means. The issue is with how one would perceive being told they have a problem with toxic masculinity. Don't you see how easy it is to take it the wrong way from the guy's perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:08 PM
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I'm not optimistic for the church at all, I think they are going to decline in America because they refuse to adapt to the world we live in. I do think that religion is a solution to the isolation problem in theory however.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:20 PM
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Yeah it is sad that there are so many people who willingly isolate themselves and refuse to put themselves out there. Also I think any reformed church would preferably ditch the heaven/hell and anti-lgbtq parts of the Bible. Along with lowering sermon times (30-45 minutes is enough), not playing shitty christian music, and changing the focus of sermons from Bible studies to lessons that can be easily applied to the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:03 AM
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I don't mean literally forcing people, I mean like using the whole heaven and hell thing to convince people. I agree with you that the onus is on the individual but some people just won't put themselves out there unless they think they're gonna go to hell otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:54 AM
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I mean some people kinda need to be forced into social interactions or else they wouldn't show up, especially the guys who would most need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:47 AM
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It doesn't necessarily have to be Christianity but Christianity coming back seems more likely than any other religion making waves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:43 AM
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Encourage the church to reform to meet the needs of younger people and find a way to drive up attendance. The biggest cause of dry spells among men is a lack of a sense of community and isolation. Religion provides the reason for the community to interact and nothing has worked better than it at combating isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:37 AM
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Yeah the best way to encourage people to seek help is by calling them and their behavior toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:31 AM
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He wasn't advocating against women pursuing men just for compromise in a relationship with regards to planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:17 PM
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Eh, its more of a symptom of the actual issues (isolation, social anxiety, lack of general fulfillment with life). I wish the people who complained about not getting laid would try to look at the root of the problem rather than just focusing on how horny they are. It would definitely result in them being taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:58 PM
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I feel like the main problem I've seen most men have with feminists speaking on men's issues is how out of touch they come off as. Like at least try to look at it from the perspective of a man. Also you didn't even bring up men's biggest grievances in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:50 PM
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I mean solving gender issues isn't exactly an easy thing to do. As for your second point I do think men in general are struggling across the board. Class and race play a role in said struggles but there are definitely specific areas where men as a demographic are challenged not harshly. There is definitely a gender divide albeit not on the same level as the class or race divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:48 PM
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I feel like you're missing the root of many of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:24 PM
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Oh come on, I don't believe in the 80/20 rule but just think about how different we are culturally nowadays and how much smartphones changed OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:20 AM
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FDS reminds me of every toxic relationship I've ever been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:33 AM
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This is pretty accurate, just replace "bad" with "crazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:07 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:56 AM
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It makes even less sense when you read Reagan's quotes about how Hispanics would be the backbone of the Republican coalition in the future. Asian voters were also starting to lean republican in the 80s and 90s. It was definitely a huge missed opportunity on the Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:37 AM
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Redpill makes sense if you're a rich guy but it doesn't really apply to the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:03 PM
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I was just about to say this. They remind me of this one girl I knew in middle school who constantly was shipping guys with each other. She even wrote fanfictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:23 AM
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People who ghost are pussies. Just tell them you aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:35 PM
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I agree that marriage is kind of a necessary evil that hasn't and probably never will be replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:37 AM
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Because a significant amount of the men on this subreddit think marriage is bad and a significant amount of the women on this subreddit are married. Also this subreddit in no way represents society as a whole. It would be interesting to see PPD exist in a bubble tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:29 AM
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Why would you name an account after a dead political campaign?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:23 AM
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Check out the archives from r/blackpillfeminism and r/pinkpillfeminism they were the more extreme versions of FDS. Kinda like MGTOW and Incels when compared to theredpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:47 PM
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Well good luck convincing people that they're gay. Let me know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:28 AM
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By bringing up this point you have changed the topic of the conversation from the discussion of whether there are more unattractive women with attractive men or vice versa to a trivial argument about sexuality that you've now entered into with multiple people. Don't get me wrong both arguments are stupid and pointless but one is stupider and more pointless than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:13 AM
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Nice dodge, ot worked really well the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:07 AM
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Tbf they quarantined r/pinkpillfeminism and banned r/gendercritical and r/blackpillfeminism. Idk why they didn't at least quarantine FDS when RP is quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:48 PM
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I'd argue that this wouldn't be an issue if the US government hadn't destroyed the blue collar industry and betrayed the unions that kept many men employed with good wages. Now that we're living in a gig economy where everyone is competing for a limited number of white collar and service jobs it only makes sense that men would be doing worse overall and women better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:46 PM
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Thats my whole point. I'm baffled that people willingly do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:24 PM
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Because they're desperate and don't really have anything else going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:10 AM
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I'll try not to be poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:42 AM
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This is why I fail to understand why so many guys are stupid enough to let themselves get used like that. I get the desire for a relationship but there has to be a limit as to how far one is willing to go for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:37 AM
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That isn't a friendzone tho. Genuine friendships are genuine friendships. It is a friendzone situation when the girl is the only one benefitting from the friendship (ex: when all their interactions are her complaining about her life and him agreeing with her).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:57 AM
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If she's hot, dyes hair isn't gonna effect much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:09 AM
1

Neoliberalism really fucked up everything by selling out the average person for the ultra rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:26 AM
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What subs fo you find this kind of shit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:25 AM
1

Which group is worse though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:34 AM
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This subreddit is so predictable in these ways and yet I find myself always coming back. I guess the arguments will never stop being funny in how pointless they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:26 PM
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The funny thing is I'm no better than any of those people. The first time I commented on this sub, I got into an argument with some OnlyFans girl who kept claiming she didn't need men. 6 hours later I realized I could've spent that time watching the Lord of the Rings trilogy or skateboarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:14 PM
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The most pathetic displays on this subreddit usually come from when a male and female engage in an argument that goes on for hours about nothing. It happens way too often but considering COVID who can blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:10 PM
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It depends on what kind of mood I'm in and what day of the week it is. For example if I'm feeling social and it is closer to the weekend I'd rather hangout with the rapper. Whereas if I just had a long day at work on a weekday and am feeling stressed I'd likely hangout with walmart guy. As for the Megan Fox question I'd take the woman who looks like her but isn't her because I hate the idea of dating a celebrity, there would be less drama with the non celebrity, and I'd rather not know a lot abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:28 PM
1

I don't think hookup culture alone causes this, but the fact that hookup culture was at its height in a time where the internet is killing human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:14 AM
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Who is this addressed to? You make so many assumptions and generalizations throughout the whole post holy shit. Also "nebbish dweeb", what are you an 80's bully?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:28 PM
1

So you're saying that everyone wants a harem to themselves. No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:01 AM
2

What do you have against introverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:53 AM
1

Idk about anything you said but the least someone can do is act interested. Maybe say your partner's name. Maybe don't look at Instagram while fucking. You know basic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:04 PM
2

How much tax money does Nevada make every year from that industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:02 PM
2

Because if I only find her sexually attractive I won't want to date her. I don't want to date someone I'm not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 06:48 PM
1

I just feel like, at least for me, the kind of person who I'd enter into a fwb relationship with is very different from the kind of person I'd enter a serious relationship with. I am just way too insecure to enter into a fwb relationship with someone I have feelings for as I've been hurt in the past doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:51 PM
2

That's great that it worked out for you but I will never understand why one wouldn't just go for a relationship to start with if they actually have feelings for their friend instead of spending who knows how much time in an fwb situation. I tried that shit once and I hated every second of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:42 PM
7

Why not talk to your husband about it instead of shit talking him online?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 02:36 AM
1

You say this but I guarantee you there are numerous lonely guys desperate enough to go for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:05 PM
2

Why generalize all men? Sure this may not be the norm but can you honestly say a lonely guy who is lacking cash would say no to a successful fat woman? My main point was in agreement with you, the main reason women believe that they have a harder time living up to beauty standards is due to said industry exploiting their insecurities day in and day out. What feminists have managed to do is somehow blame this on men which allows the beauty industry to keep chugging on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:39 PM
0

The same applies for fat women with social status or a prominent career.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:25 PM
5

True, but it is more than fat men will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:21 PM
1

I'm not creepy or fragile, I just hate myself. This is why I'm scared to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:36 PM
7

I think the fact that women have a whole industry catering to societal beauty standards while simultaneously exploiting their insecurities and the fact that this industry has little to no influence on men plays a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:12 PM
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