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Monero already covers this use case.
/r/askTRP11/01/22 03:45 PM
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Just take his half out, buy Monero with it and dip.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 10:48 AM
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Bezos can't pull such a move because he's in the public eye, he has a company to run and his money is tied up in stock, he can't just dip. Also, extradition over divorce money? Hahaha, that's not happening. If he really is willing to leave the US (not to Canada or Western Europe, but somewhere ambiguous) and can convert all his assets to Monero before the split, once he's booked a flight and is gone, there ain't no catching him anymore. You can't issue international arrest warrants over alimony …
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 10:42 AM
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Fake an injury, pay for medical treatment in Mexico (washing tons of money, the doctor will take $1000 to fake the documents, you "pay" him $50k in medical fees but pocket $49k. Come back to the states, make the wife get a full time job, play along for a year, do the divorce. That's how he can minimize impact.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/21 08:21 PM
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They don't abide by the Quran or the Sunnah or the Hadiths. Sunni are Muslims. Everybody else isn't. Like I said, you're not gonna cherry pick what you want. I thought you studied Islam? Hahahaha, stop it. If I claim to be a President, am I one? No. This discussion ends here. As is typical with people like yourself, you didn't study shit and you didn't cite anything remotely close to acceptable in terms of proof. Just baseless accusations and trying to tie Islam with people who don't abide by th…
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 08:12 PM
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Where is temporary marriage legal? Shia? They're not Muslims. Islam is the Quran and the Sunnah, not some country law you cherry picked that isn't recognized.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 05:04 PM
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Cite some proof for prostitution being legal in Islam. Quran verse or Hadith Sahih. Go ahead. Same with the throwing people off of buildings. As for the apostasy thing, I've already explained it to you yet you conveniently forget that and keep trying to twist things.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 10:47 PM
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There is no Christian religion. Christians Change their religion and sell it for profit as they see fit. There are only Muslims and non believers, that's it. Islam was sent as the last religion upon Christians tampering with the bible. The Quran is the only Book by Allah that has been preserved and not tampered with.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 10:40 PM
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Whatever lets you sleep at night. Just keep the same energy on the day of judgement. I guess everybody who's converting to Islam, including a whole bunch of intellectuals in the west who have studied the topic for decades and dedicated their life to fight Islam previously, are doing it for no reason? The truth remains the truth, even if you are opposed to it. I'm done arguing with you over my religion, I sleep well at night knowing Allah alone is my Lord and Muhammad Peace be upon him is his pro…
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 10:36 PM
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Well, this didn't surprise me. You're wrong, literally the entire world has punished treason by death for damn near it's entire existence. The only difference is that Islam abides by a due court process and most of you don't. Studied Islam? Please, I bet you didn't even read the entire Quran once, let alone thousands of Hadiths, let alone all the interpretations by Imam Al Hanafi, Al Maliki, Al Shafii or Al Hanbali. Go study even just the Seera (life) of Muhammad Peace be upon him, and come back…
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 07:05 PM
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Well, this didn't surprise me. You're wrong, literally the entire world has punished treason by death for damn near it's entire existence. The only difference is that Islam abides by a due court process and most of you don't. Studied Islam? Please, I bet you didn't even read the entire Quran once, let alone thousands of Hadiths, let alone all the interpretations by Imam Al Hanafi, Al Maliki, Al Shafii or Al Hanbali. Go study even just the Seera (life) of Muhammad Peace be upon him, and come back…
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 07:05 PM
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Depends. Rallying against Islam and waging war against your own religion if you apostate by trying to slander or turn others from it publically, is punished by death like everybody else punishes treason. But that isn't executed anymore. As for the few that take matters into their own hands and kill former Muslims, this is totally prohibited. An islamic judge and court has to decide on any heavy matter with due legal process. For example, in the case of fornication, i.e. a cheating wife or husban…
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 01:46 PM
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Yeah, I suspected you had only briefly heard it, thus the wrong information. As for Muslim MGTOW, hahahaha. Honestly, someone who lives in the West and is observant recognizes patterns of unfair treatment and powerlessness among men in the legal system. MGTOW is an easy sell in the west. I wouldn't mind marrying if we went back 100 years tho.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 12:46 PM
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Don't spread misinformation bro. The prophet's Hadith Peace be upon him tells us that the majority of the inhabitants of hellfire are women. It doesn't tell us percentages or that the majority of women go to hellfire, just that the majority of those in hellfire will be women.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 12:23 PM
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Hell no. He needs to pull all strings to make sure she's held accountable for attempting to destroy his life. Not "let the process flow naturally. OP, fire your lawyer, hire a new one and be on top of things, get 3-4 steps ahead of everybody. Don't just passively sit there as a helpless victim without trying your best to obtain justice. This isn't some fake emotional abuse where you can't prove a negative. You actually have a case and can likely win, so go for it.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 07:49 PM
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Crypto, cash, physical Gold and silver. I know of a guy who hid money throughout his whole marriage. When the divorce came he didn't lose shit.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:01 PM
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Stay home for 1-3 years, but don't slack just because you have food and shelter provided for you. Still work and save as much as possible. Then when you move out, you'll already have a 6 month emergency fund.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 11:50 AM
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I want to get deeper into my religion, convert more people to Islam. Absolute dream of mine. I see people walking around with no aim in life, no bigger purpose than a hedonistic life. That I know for a fact is a blindspot many MGTOWs have. I know in this place most are atheists, but you'd be well served to buy the Quran and just read it and research the explanation for the verses. I want to get in amazing shape. Something that takes over a decade to achieve. I'm talking in all avenues. Strength,…
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 12:50 AM
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Yikes. All of this because you were balding? I regularly shave my head off and I grow a full, thick hair. Balding isn't negative, just a different look.
/r/MGTOW219/03/21 08:27 PM
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I discovered CGA mid to late 2019. It resonated, I hadn't had the bad experiences that everybody else did but I was smart enough to not have to burn my hand to realize the stove is dangerous.
/r/MGTOW219/03/21 11:51 AM
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Friendship is a give and take. You sound like the guy who gives but is afraid or too shy to take. Have a similar classmate. I took from him. Homeworks, relatively frequently. This guy would never ask anything in return. So I volunteered homework, did it to a high standard, making absolutely sure the homework I gave him was of higher quality so he wouldn't have to worry about anything. I wanted to reciprocate. Guy couldn't stomach it. He thanked me but still did it himself, didn't accept the help…
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 11:59 PM
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Deal with it. The moment shaming language seizes to impact you, you now have complete control over your life. I don't deal with negativity because I've learned to keep my mouth shut about this, the hard way.
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 09:11 AM
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First I thought he was a genuine successful entrepreneur as he claims. But of course that's BS. Same with a lot of his advice about women. PUA who wants to sell you expensive consultations. But what has he achieved in life? He's divorced and paying child support. Bashes other men. He's 6'3 and 210 on TRT now peddling the "make money and muscles" BS. I'm the same height as him and I was more muscular and heavier within 6 months of training and no drugs so I don't see how he's qualified to give ad…
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 02:32 AM
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Don't do it in the US then. Don't get me wrong, great work field and great pay, but if you can't hack it and drop out 5th or 6th year while stuck with $300-400k in debt with no degree, the chances of coming back from that are just not in your favor. And that has happened to more people than you may think. Look at the Dave Ramsey show on YouTube. Plenty of medical school students who call in and are screwed. Some who didn't graduate. I would either try to find a way to do the whole thing under $1…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:04 AM
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You're welcome man. Lesson learned. Truth is, you always have to have some sort of plan in case people turn against you, I'm talking about really close people, even your family. My dad has always taught me that you help people and be kind, but never expect that they reciprocate. In fact, you can't even expect that they won't use it against you should the opportunity come, such is human nature. Watch Coach Red Pill's video on whom you can trust. It's not the people that are close to you and "woul…
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 08:10 PM
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That's exactly what a smart man does when he realizes that a problem has arrised. Solve it. Great idea with putting the money away. I know of guys in real life who have been putting money away from the beginning. From physical Gold to cash in a safe in Switzerland to paper stocks to properties in the middle east, all of which cannot be traced or confiscated by western governments in divorce.
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 07:23 PM
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Start withdrawing a little more than you need every time you do. 1-2 times a week $70-150 every time. Seriously ffs how can you guys not think about this strategically? Save money, lie about a car repair whatever you need to do.
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 07:18 PM
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My dad is a dentist, my cousin also just finished studying but is continuing for orthopedic license for more money. If you like it, go for it. My dad was pulling in $4-6k a month in Syria for crying out loud. All while being in his practice basically part time and closing for 1-2 weeks whenever he wanted to and could organize client work to fit that schedule. And that was the lower end that they'd make. He had more luxurious offers from the Emirates and such but declined because money was never …
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 07:06 PM
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My friend, I absolutely understand where you're coming from, the biological drive to have a family is strong. Everybody has it, don't let anybody convince you they don't. I've let the same scenario play out in my head for a few months now. This assumes that good men will be allowed to raise good kids in accordance to their values. Remember, you do anything against the mainstream and it's considered child abuse, therefore in everybody's mind justifying taking your kids away. Your kid wants ice cr…
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 09:35 AM
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It's way more nuanced than you are implying. MGTOW have said it clearly, society has alienated young men and left them to fend for themselves, therefore, you don't owe society anything. MGTOW is simply about unapologetically protecting yourself from the dangers that are marriage, LTR's, kids and cohabitation while pursuing the interests you want to pursue instead of being someone else's servant. Simple concept really. There is no use in beginning a union with someone you believe is "good" when t…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 05:02 PM
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Set some Goals into the future, picture what you want to do in 15-20 years, then break it down into steps as to how you want to get there. Personally, my big Goal is to return to the middle east in 1-2 decades. Permanently. That means, I need to have made enough money and invested it by then that I cover my expenses. There, I want to fix up our old farm and maybe live there, renovate it. Start a business, make some serious money, a lot of things haven't been done in the middle east yet so the ri…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 04:54 PM
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Hey man, my friend just lost like 28lbs over the summer and gained significant muscle mass. My tip for you would he to focus on your diet and do some cardio. You can and should just do the program I listed 3x a week, I didn't leave anything out. I didn't lose weight but over the course of a year, I gained 30lbs but didn't look an ounce fatter. Go on Google and find a TDEE calculator, enter your stats and get a calorie estimate. Eat 200-300 calories below maintenance. Do some cardio. 20 minutes o…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 01:00 PM
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I like his nutrition advice.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 12:51 PM
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Good for you man! I was squatting 3 plates for reps within 3 months but Bench took over a year to hit 2 plates despite weighing 230-240 during that time. For me the lifting comes easy but the cardio and weight management is more the struggle. Need to find a way to sustain cardio year round and not be lazy on it.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 02:30 AM
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Hey, I applaud you for taking your health into your hands now. My dad is 63 and there are weeks he has very bad sleep due to back problems. Hasn't regularly exercised in 30+ years. Keep that as a cautionary tail. One workout every 4th day still adds up over the years to something very significant. My friend was an amateur weightlifter and his coach is in his 70s but toys with very serious weights. Turns heads at regular gyms if he goes.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 02:28 AM
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Of course man, I'd be glad to help. I've helped some people in your situation so I get the struggle, definitely harder than losing weight.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 02:25 AM
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Hey bro, let me address the points first: I'm one of those hahaha. The reality is, what you eat, in the contest of lifting, getting stronger and more muscular, is almost irrelevant, it's a miniscule difference. The only purpose to watch it closely is to regulate weight change if that's the goal, wether it is weight loss or weight gain. So the amount of calories is important. The actual food? Irrelevant. I've seen way too many guys who try to eat perfect or what they think perfect is, but they ne…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 01:20 AM
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How can you specifically train skeletal muscle? As far as I know it's recommended to do big heavy structural exercises like squats and deadlifts and all of that as they build the entire body and up the bone density too. There's just a difference between some dude who gets bug legs through BS exercises and a guy who actually does the hard exercise squats are. They may both be big but the guy doing squats, his bone density and tendon strength changes permanently. I've not touched a weight since No…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 12:40 AM
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I get what you're saying, some guys really are there just trying to look good, they're the majority in fact. I don't tend to associate with them or workout with them. I've really just gotten to know the few really serious strength guys there and they really couldn't care less about looks. If it doesn't improve their lifts, they don't do an exercise. For me, home training or just running isn't the same, I don't enjoy it. I need the social aspect of others lifting too, I need the barbells and the …
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 12:36 AM
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Simple. Talk with people. Gyms are intimidating, I know. You think everybody who's training and looking focused is an asshole. That's not true. 1% are assholes but they're usually other beginners. I've found that most will be glad to help you out if you need a spot or are confused with anything. Get over your fear. Everybody has fear of different things. The quality that only men have, is that they don't let fear cloud their judgement. At most, you'll look out of place and lost for a couple mont…
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 12:33 AM
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Guys, one thing I need to address. I tried to post this with a physique pic and numbers from my scale with Bodyfat and muscle mass as proof. That didn't work. At my best before gyms closed down, I was 6'3 and 240lbs at 17-18% Bodyfat both visually and on the scale at just 17 years old after a year of lifting. My lifts at the time (all one rep maxes) were a 200lbs Bench, 420lbs Deadlift, 365lbs Squat and 135lbs Overheadpress. My best are 242, 485, 419, 155 on those lifts but at a heavier weight. …
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 10:45 PM
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Yes, my friend who struggles to gain weight routinely lost 5-7lbs when he stopped taking creatine.
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 10:38 PM
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Yup, forgot to mention that. For me most times it would be just walking/jogging for 3-5 minutes and then start the workout. But I do know some guys who are very advanced that do stretching and other things too. One Pro MMA guy literally sprints and jogs every time for like 30-40 minutes before he ever touches a weight.
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 10:37 PM
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Yes, it definitely completely changes your perspective. Originally I started to get better at basketball as I was an undersized yet not very athletic center at 6'3 which was pretty much the shortest for any starting center in my league. A few months later I was pushing around 6'9 270+lbs beasts because I was stronger. Problem I see at my gym is that people get too excited too fast and burn out very quickly. Others disregard the complexity of programming beyond the novice level. It's like they ge…
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 10:24 PM
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I'm very sorry guys, for some reason this doesn't get posted so I've formulated everything again and posted it again. If you find this with no text to explain, ignore this post and click on the other one on my profile that I just posted.
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 09:28 PM
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It's simple. Are they strong, admirable men? Weak men are simps out of necessity. Strong men have tangible things going for them. Are they in shape? Physical sport (Football, MMA, Jujitsu, Powerlifting, Olympic Weightlifting, Boxing, Wrestling) is always a plus. Are they successful in their goals? If not, how do they handle failure. I just had a friend drop out of highschool this year. Dude is going to be a millionaire, mark my words. Accepted failure, moved on and pivoted to the next step, no e…
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 12:29 AM
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Sure buddy, whatever lets you sleep well at night
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 04:14 PM
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Sorry bro, being a good person and not a deathrow inmate doesn't mean top percenter
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 01:03 PM
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Buy the book Starting Strength and run the program.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 06:46 AM
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Bullying works? In my experience, people like yourself who want to attack weakness are weak themselves, they do it because they feel threatened as they rank only slightly higher. In school, I beat up people like yourself, I can't stand someone who feels the need to kick others when they're down.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 06:42 AM
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As a man, power and money are infinitely more important than looks, no matter what PUA's and self proclaimed "alphas" (Fuckboys) want to tell you. A man who commands respect and admiration from other high profile men, is an attractive man regardless of being bald or 4'7 or whatever trait you want to assign to him. Peter Altmaier is in the news regularly, is a minister and giving interviews, he wouldn't have problems pulling any women he wants on demand. Sounds like jealousy to me.
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 09:36 PM
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Not even surprised anymore at such stories, he was just a utility and convenient to keep around, nothing more.
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 07:41 PM
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Depends on what you're looking for. LTR? Short fling? FWB? Not enough context to your question. Generally, when the negatives start outweighing the positives, when risk and exposure is too much, you end it.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:56 PM
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The truth is, I do have quite a lot to offer, and I'm quite tall, but that's irrelevant. Shaming language doesn't work over here. You think I'll be stumbling all over the place trying to prove your wrong, or back peddle on my statement. I won't do either. I'm sure you're smarter and better than the rest, so put your money where your mouth is, and marry your gf, because of course you can out alpha laws and the state, right? Still man, good luck. Really hope you actually did catch a good one and w…
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 05:08 PM
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Exceptions don't disprove the rule. Getting lucky is not something you can plan for, therefore your experience doesn't change anything. 98% of women aren't worth the hassle, and finding the 2% would distract you from your purpose and delay your goals possibly by decades, if not render them impossible by the time you realize what had happened.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 11:04 AM
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Let's be real here, Christianity is dead and has very few people who actually practice it and make the sacrifices. 99.9% call themselves that or go to church to socialize and virtue signal, nothing more. No man should bet his life's work on finding the 0.1%.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 08:47 AM
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Keep it up man. I also like Dave Ramsey, great advice for the general population. Not a guru or salesman, just giving real advice, make good money, save a lot, put a little structure into it, invest and boom, by 60 you're set up for life and your kids too. To me it's crazy how people can live paycheck to paycheck after college. Just the jump from student random job to salaried professional job is a huge raise in pay and people still squander it. Of course marriage..... we've all heard the storie…
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 12:28 AM
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Awesome man. $85k money is good money, especially because you knew how to direct it. Too many people make $100-150k but live damn near paycheck to paycheck doing so, glad you made good decisions and are reaping the rewards now. How's your experience been with people your age? You effectively retired 10 years early. Aaron Clarey has talked about this problem people have who have obtained freedom and retired/working on their own projects on their own schedule early on. Their friends have no time a…
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 10:59 PM
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This is why ideas of a smart community are so damn valuable. I gave a general idea and you came in here with specifics and experiences and actionable advice, thanks bro, this is gonna be helpful to anybody interested in that lifestyle. I'm guessing you shower at the gym and have your address set for the place of your parents or a sibling or relative? Or how do you receive mail? Edit: Wait, you spend only $100/week? Damn bro that's impressive. Circumstances change so take full advantage of this o…
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 10:48 PM
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I said average cost of living area, so obviously not california. Double it in California, but the salaries are there to compensate if you're in a useful field.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:17 PM
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Good job man, that's what I like to hear!
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:16 PM
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Wow, that's incredibly helpful. I was just talking to my school's career counselor the other day (one who has worked in the open economy for decades, not your usual useless one) about picking between 2 Universities (top 2 in the country in this field) and one is traditional and engineering oriented while the other has leaned far out the window and allowed a lot of programming into the field. Short term, the traditional one is a hair better, but long term, I think the other one is the way to go. …
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:16 PM
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Wow, good for you man, killing it! If I may ask, what field are you in? And if you were 18 again today, what field would you go into? I'm finishing Highschool this year, headed off to industrial electrical engineering (combination of engineering and business) at a Top school in Germany so no debt to worry about. Hoping I can make it big in my field. I've heard what you said about possessions a few times already. Aaron Clarey recommends for young men to have possessions small enough you can fit e…
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:11 PM
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Definitely the way to go.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:03 PM
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Living the dream sir. My dad is a dentist and when we lived back home, we had a farm. He'd basically be doing more farming work than client work. We used to have chickens, two horses, 2 dogs, some rabbits at one point, growing some fruits and vegetables although most of the proceeds went to the neighbors who were actual farmers as they handled most of the work when we weren't there. Awesome life, I miss that. Simple, at a slower pace than the city, working with your hands and getting dirty, yet …
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:01 PM
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I'm not an older man, but in tech, keep working, stacking away your 40k/yr and rising up the ranks. Let's say you don't get a lucky break. In 5 years, 40x5 plus the 100 you already have, that's 300k in liquid assets. Then you can start your business knowing you have good cash reserves and can tough out a year without much business. Scale it only as fast as cash flow allows you realistically, meaning if you just hit a great year, don't go spend all the money on new employees and expansion right a…
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 06:00 PM
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I can't lie to save my life, wasn't raised to be that way, which is good. But reading people and detecting lies is something you can practice.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 01:49 PM
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Yes you actually have a point. You're right.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 01:28 PM
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Me neither, I get your point, but this is reality. When I know it's raining, I take an Umbrella, I don't go out and curse the sky. When I know a neighborhood is dangerous at night, I avoid it, I don't go there, get robbed and then act like it was out of my hands to prevent it. I'm blaming him for the very simple reason that it's common knowledge, even to a blue pill guy, that you don't just trust a stranger to take care of contraception, you do it yourself. Feel sorry for him, shit situation to …
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 01:20 PM
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Two possibilities here, assuming you already verified that she's pregnant by giving her 2-3 pregnancy tests you bought yourself and made her take them. Once that's done, if she is actually pregnant, 2 possibilities. First is, she was pregnant before, let you hit it raw to pin it on you as she knew the baby daddy would dip anyway. The other one is, the baby is actually yours and she tricked you into impregnating her. How the fuck do you trust a stranger's word when it comes to handling your seed?…
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 01:04 PM
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Dude he's right tho. My man just trusted his seed to a stranger, not something you'd expect from a 34 year old. He's fucked.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 12:58 PM
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Exactly. Same story with useless aquatints. People who once upon a time you enjoyed their company, but now you're hanging on to the past, still going out when you don't want to, still going to birthdays and such things. You don't even have to be extremely busy to have this attitude. Nobody has a right over your time. If I want to chill, watch some Netflix or play videogames over going out with somebody I am friendly with but not friends with, then so be it. The pressure of upholding dwindling re…
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 09:52 PM
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Aaron Clarey Bachelor Pad economics and the book of numbers. Coach Greg Adams Devolution and the other book too.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 05:09 PM
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Of course, but to what extent? The good woman today will still be talking about Girl Power equal partners BS despite you paying the bills. She still wants you to be 6ft and earning a lot of money. Still wants that expensive wedding to top her friends. Still will shit test you. Still wants all your attention and validation. But, some good qualities remain. She won't divorce you over petty shit (hopefully), she'll let you take the lead in raising the kids into adulthood, emphasis on let you, becau…
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 01:41 AM
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I don't think so, it's just the natural progression in life. My dad married and had his first kid @43 (my brother who's a year older). Maybe he thinks by that age I would change my mind too but regrets not having us earlier in life and wants to prevent me from making the same "mistake". My dad has done right by me and continues to do so, I'm not making an absolute negative statement about him for looking out for his own best interest, it's natural, normal. It's just that I have to realize this i…
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 10:25 PM
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You can't know if everyone believed her. More likely than not, the people who had their doubts kept their mouth shut as it would be detrimental for them if it turned out to be true but they didn't believe her. So going by that, only the voices of the people who did believe her were heard as the others didn't speak, creating the appearance that everybody unanimously believed her.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 02:44 PM
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It doesn't take everybody believing her for his reputation to be ruined. You see, let's say I tell you X had assaulted X girl, and you're unsure about that. Your voice wouldn't be the loudest in the room, you wouldn't jump to the conclusion that 100% she lied, you'd just keep your doubts to yourself and not gossip about it. On the other hand, most people will loudly gossip and believe the lie, making their voices heard and not requiring all people to believe it for it to be spread.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 02:08 AM
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To an extent I agree with you, we should be masculine but not waste that resourcefulness on women. However, once you have kids, if you're in their life, it is absolutely admirable to use your protection, provision, masculinity to guide them and further their best interests, especially when they're helpless children relying on you. Instead, this guy's dad cucked out, probably such a loser in all aspects of his life that he felt the only way he could command authority over anybody was by beating h…
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 01:26 AM
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How is she "aight"? She jumped the gun and spread the rumor immediately, didn't file a police report, and took her 16 year old daughter who has a personal interest in getting rid of the boyfriend at her word immediately without any questioning, without giving the boyfriend a chance to explain himself, without being shown any evidence. Stupid people like her get people killed.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:52 PM
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Seriously, when people are in the right, or at least think they're false claims can hold up, they'll go the legal route not reputation assassination.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:48 PM
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Man FOH with this gender neutral shit. You very much should have gender expectations. If a man is indecisive, feminine and out of shape, shy like a 15 year old girl, then he doesn't deserve my respect or admiration, that simple. I know over here we're not fans of people saying "a real man does xx" because most use xx as something to benefit them, but some basic standards do need to be upheld.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:38 PM
2

To get your foot in the door, unless it's CS or sales and you have projects that prove your ability, you will almost certainly need a degree to get your foot in the door. No self taught engineers or doctors out there. It can't be an absolute answer to wether college is worth it or not. Depends, most degrees aren't worth it.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:22 PM
2

Nah man, don't let them know that you know. Just play along and say "Ok, when I find the right one". Anything other than this and you're asking to be ostracized and possibly disowned.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:25 AM
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I think this is BS. My dad, after talking to him, seems to know exactly why. Has friends who've been screwed over, many horrible stories, yet still gives me the "Prenup" excuse or hiding assets. Like you said it, once you're an adult, your parents care more about getting grandchildren from you than they care about your safety and wellbeing. That's why at some point, you become the only person on the planet who you can trust to further your agenda in life, and even that is only if you put the wor…
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 11:23 AM
2

I'm a very extroverted person, I like my friends. Made me suffer a lot during lockdowns, still do. But somewhere along the lines, I feel like I've started to develop faster mentally. I'm a senior in Highschool and literally every year for the last 3 has only gotten easier and more effortless while others complain how difficult it is. Same with a lot of my friends. I feel like I'm a 40 year old in a teenager's body. Thinking of plans and scenarios 20, 30 and even 40 years down the line. Solitude …
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 12:28 AM
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Dude why the hostility? Very few men were able to evade that trap prior to men exchanging notes on the internet, so I seriously don't understand how you can come here accusing people of being stupid for making a mistake 99% of men made. You have no context for his situation. Maybe he's staying for the kids knowing they'd get abused if he wasn't there everyday. Seriously, chill tf out and recognize us young guys are lucky, 20 years ago you would've likely made the same mistake under the right cir…
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 05:32 PM
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Can you tell us how things changed after marriage? When was the point you realized you were trapped and she had only acted along well u til that point? Young guy here, would appreciate the insight of real stories.
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 01:14 PM
2

I feel the same about my two uncles from my father's side. One actually lives in the same city as we do now but we still only ever see him or my cousins once a year or so. We actually lived with him for 5 months a few years ago, but the connection was never there. Stranger. It's not that we don't see them as often anymore, it's that we don't interact with them, no calls, no WhatsApp, only saw them 2-3 times before I was 12 etc. My aunts and grandma and uncles and cousins from mother's side, I've…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 02:36 AM
2

So unfortunate. I'm 18. 2 years ago, I discovered CGA. Everything resonated, made sense immediately. But just think, you never hear about the manosphere and go about your life, you'll learn if you're smart, but you'll learn the hard way and pay a hefty price. I'm glad I didn't have to because other men shared their experiences with us.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:59 AM
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Honestly can't support this behavior. I wouldn't want any of my female relatives treated this way. The way you're acting, you're vindictive, not any better than some of the manipulative women out there. If you lived in my home country and word got out to her brother/father/uncle, you'd be a dead man walking, and nobody would bat an eye. You have the illusion of control, but you're 1 false accusation of abuse away from being under the wheel. Be careful. And stop this BS, either show her the door …
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:53 AM
2

You can't make a necessity into a virtue. It's like a broke guy making videos about being frugal or minimalist by choice, or an out of shape guy saying he chooses to be out of shape, or what's typical with most alcoholics, saying I choose to drink and can quit at any time. If you are not choosing MGTOW but rather are being forced into monk mode, then you're not really MGTOW are you? I choose monk mode, so do many guys here. Difference is, they could very well be with someone next week if they wa…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:10 AM
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Think for a minute, you have guys enslaving themselves to some ungrateful fat wife, that get marital petty sex once a month trying to come in here and trying to rationalize their own situation. They can't comprehend the fact that you're unwilling to enslave yourself to pussy. It becomes a dick measuring contest, yet the way they try to measure success is a way that caters to what they're pursuing and only that, meaning you cannot win an argument. MGTOW is literally doing what you want to do, unh…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:45 AM
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I'm one of the younger guys here. I would love to have kids, under the right circumstances. The risk is too high, especially in the west. This is the nail in the coffin. See, 60-70 years ago, sure, having kids meant a lot of responsibility and a lot of money and time spent on them, but you knew that going in, and the rest you could kinda control. You controlled how you raised your kids, who they socialized with, you could actually discipline them. Nowadays, that authority and control is lost. Co…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:32 AM
2

Let's pretend that's achievable for most people. Top 3% earners make $300k/year. Top 3% height is 6'3 etc.... But let's ignore all of that. We'll say every guy has the capability to build himself up to $300k/year within a 15-20 year time frame. Why? Why slave away your best years so you can have a family later on in life when the other side isn't even putting in 10% effort into it, knowing full well that what's asked for them is something every woman can do if she wants to, no uncertainties. See…
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 07:11 PM
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Even if you split, the constant dinners, going to the movies and other activities that cost money but you wouldn't be wanting to do anyway is something you have to count.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 12:13 PM
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CGA gave one of the best answers there is: If you want me to get married, will you pay for the divorce? If she's gonna give you a few $100k upfront, then you can think about it. Others have said, will you pay for the dates, gifts, wedding, my time, marriage expenses? Again, when you want to go to the zoo and see something, you pay for it. She has no say in what you do with your own money. The most practical solution? "Sure mom, I'm just working on my career/college/side hustle right now and am r…
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 12:06 PM
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People in this thread telling you to tell your dad to fuck off are not giving you actionable advice regarding the full circumstances. Want cold, blunt, hard advice? Dump your friends if possible, asap, if not, learn to control your empathy with them, give their opinions less weight, minimize contact. Stay cordial if you have to interact with them due to college or whatever, but pull the plug on your emotional investment in them. Get financially independent of your dad. See, until you do that, yo…
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 02:36 AM
3

Coach Red pill has an excellent video on this and where you want to be in different aspects of your life by which age. It's almost an hour long but worth every second in gold, watch it. It's called "The days are long but the decades are short". There, his financial and career standard for 30 years old is: found the field he wants to work in and finished his apprenticeship (education most likely) free of debt (college debt takes most people longer, he wants you to be completely free of it) found …
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 02:15 AM
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2018 via Coach Greg Adams, I was 16 years old at the time, everything resonated. I was observant enough to recognize the truth without having to have experienced the pain most guys in the manosphere had to go through first.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 01:53 AM
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What I've come to realize is, results matter. My parents also talk big game, same with many relatives, but if someone has not been successful in the endeavor they're advising you to pursue or achieved more than they're expecting you to, their opinion doesn't matter. My parents generally don't do this, but due to some special circumstances, I have 2 friends who are 2 and 3 years older than me, I'm a senior in Highschool. One guy finished slightly better than I will, and my parents often go like "…
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 02:15 AM
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You can't control anybody, only your reaction to their actions. Therefore, you cannot control what a woman does, nor should you want to. The only thing you can do is set boundaries for what you will and will not tolerate, and be willing to walk away the second the red line is crossed. Settling down, marriage or even having a kid, takes away all of your power, all of your free will, as you are not able to stick to your boundaries anymore. This alone, without getting into any discussions about wha…
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 06:46 PM
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I've had that problem, 4th grade, moving from private to public school. First week, got the shit kicked out of me. Went home crying, telling my mom about it. She said, defend yourself, learn to defend yourself. And so I did. Year after that, moved the country. 5th grade to 10th grade were mixed all at the same school. Had many people try and mess with me, scare me and outright single me out to fight for no good reason. My suggestion? Fight with everything you have, everything. I've been in dozen…
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 05:07 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking. No marriage license or common law required for her to ruin you if she wants to. A lot of red pill guys out here spouting being Alpha and holding frame or whatever which is cool, but that's more PUA type shit, you can't out alpha the state.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 04:11 PM
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What happens when you break up with the woman and trying to get her to move out? It becomes a whole mess, who paid for what etc. She can just slap a charge on you like he hit me or whatever. One false accusation and you're done for, doesn't matter if you didn't sign anything. C'mon man, you're 29 with kids, not some 22 year old kid. Why would you risk that, especially with kids? Breakups are just cleaner when you can simply ghost her or she can ghost you.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 04:08 PM
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You very well could not only lose him as a friend because of this, but have him tell other people in your circle about these things. 2 questions: Would he want the help, recognize the value or even appreciate you looking out for him? Probably not. What's the probability of success? Very very little. I've convinced my brother of some of the concepts, others he finds misogynistic or typical responses. Tried it with 2 other people, backfired badly. Relegated what I thought to be 2 real friendships …
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 10:45 PM
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Salute man, this info is priceless, at least in your life you can say you were that person who you never had, for someone else. If you're teaching this to your sons, they're very very lucky to have a father like you.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 11:01 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate it. Stories like yours ring heavy to young guys like myself. I hope to avoid some of the mistakes you made and lead an easier life armed with all the information and experience of others early on. Salute Brother.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 10:31 PM
3

Man, I'm very sorry for your situation, hang in there, I'm sure the situation will get better and things will be looking up soon enough. Your situation is my nightmare as a young man. Do you have any advice for us younger guys?
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 08:26 PM
9

Awesome dude. Oh what I would do for a Barbell and a rack. Grind with it.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 05:05 PM
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The gym made me a young man instead of a goofy teenager. Get in the gym. Or an MMA gym. The weights form your mind. Push it, buy the book starting strength and run the program as written. It'll make you a man's man.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 10:32 AM
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Don't simp, be quick to let go of any girl who causes problems. My buddy treated this girl like a queen in 9th grade. When she was hanging out with his best friend and broke up with him, he was crying and shit. Girl probably cheated on him. Tried to get her back. Doesn't work. Has her uncle call him threatening him if he says anything about her being a ho. Suddenly, she accuses him of being violent to her. Teacher was actually questioning him and shit even though everybody including the teacher …
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 07:14 PM
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Why is that a surprise? Just in the last 5-10 years, so much information has become available on the internet by other men, older men, that only the stupid don't take advantage of it. I personally as a Gen Z kid have realized I don't have to burn my hand to realize the stove is hot. I was talking to my brother yesterday about divorce laws and I think it could be slowly getting to him, but he still throws back some typical responses at me like "but if you choose the right one" or "you can't think…
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 09:46 PM
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Coach Greg Adams did a great video on his AskCGA channel addressing this recently. Don't tell them you're MGTOW, don't try to explain the facts to them. Just say you're at a serious point of your life and looking for only serious people, ask them to please refrain from trying to introduce you to somebody. Trust me, I've done the whole explaining thing and it's backfired bad. I'm only 18 so by letting the cat out the bag on what I know, I've taken away the option from myself to deflect the subjec…
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 08:33 PM
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That's why you withdraw cash
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 03:15 PM
1

Same thing for me, I'm just getting into Pullups, assisted by a lot of band tension. Lat Pulldowns are just not the same. I got to a 485lbs Deadlift and could Pendlay Row 225 for reps easily but I can't even do 1 Pull-up because I'm 6'3 and 270 rn. I'm walking every day and doing Pushups and Pull-ups while losing weight. This will get you in shape for sure. Maybe not massive but it'll get you in shape. Not just muscle wise but conditioning, cardio, high reps is the base. When you can master cali…
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 06:17 PM
3

Bro I'm a serious lifter, at least when the gyms are open. Your routine is really good, might wanna consider adding pullups if you can find a park or have a pull-up bar. I'd do it this way: 2 Squats 1 Pushup 4 squats 2 Pushups 6 Squats 2 Pushups ..... And you just pyramid up to a number that is relatively difficult, and the come back down. This way, starting with low reps and progressing to high, you ensure you're warmed up along the way instead of jumping into sets of 20 or 30 right away.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 12:46 PM
2

Number 1, take up a combat sport, lift weights. Timidness is an epidemic among us young men. I lift weights up there with the strongest in my gym who are way older. Strongest 18 year old that I know. Confident, talk well, communicate well with adults etc. Get around men, older men, masculine men. A serious weight room or a boxing/Muai Thai gym is where you're most likely to find a high concentration of masculine men. These environments naturally build aggressiveness in a good way, but it also we…
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 05:26 AM
2

Marriage? Oh boii. I've heard over there money is the big issue. Stupid high dowries, gotta have a house etc, things most of you can't reasonably achieve before 40, right? At least in the Muslim community. I'm Muslim too and my mindset currently is if a young woman won't take a chance on a young man starting out and grow and build with him, why come back when you've made it? I don't see the sense in working for 15+ years to 'qualify'. Stories of men being rejected on pure finances have red pille…
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 05:05 AM
2

Bro I'm a tall guy and I'm lucky I found the red pill at 16. From there, observing behaviors in school, testing some concepts and realizing it's all true, it's spared me some pain I would've encountered in the future. We're all lucky for the internet and learning from other men's experiences and mistakes.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 04:58 AM
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A day of hard work does not make you healthy and strong. Women especially, get the soul sucked out of them when they pursue career like men do. They age faster, burn out faster, higher stress levels and all that. So tell me, if you were choosing the optimal mother, would you rather have someone who has their full energy to give to their kids and their needs, or someone who is exhausted from a day of hard work? My mother worked as a teacher, she always made sure her job didn't get in the way of t…
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 02:19 AM
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True
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 07:50 AM
9

Yes definitely very important, don't wanna be the scapegoat for all fuckups.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 09:16 PM
2

Damn bro, glad it worked out in your favor, congrats on the promotion, your grind paid off. Question to everybody, how do you protect yourself at work from accusations like that? Trying to climb high up the ladder, you're bound to have somebody try and take you down. Do you guys always have a witness when talking to females or sketchy males at work, do you document everything said and have them sign it, do you wear audio at work, body camera or what? I'm seriously curious how one could do this w…
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 07:49 PM
4

Hey man, would you mind elaborating on the work log and Timestamps thing? You'd do that so nobody claims you went home early or fucked up something you weren't even working on or what?
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 07:44 PM
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Threaten to sue them into oblivion if your case holds up. You've got leverage, don't bend the knee.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 07:42 PM
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It depends on the exercise and your goals. I find calisthenics boring personally and currently just do it because the gyms are closed. But in the gym where I can lift weights, I can do that all day. There's so much more to it than doing 3x10 on every exercise. When you understand programming and can manipulate 100 different things and the results come in, you're getting bigger, stronger, leaner, more athletic, then you become hooked to it. But most don't get over that initial learning hurdle to …
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 10:21 AM
1

There's a company that sells red pill Rings. The purpose is for other fellow red pill and MGTOW guys to recognize you but for everyone else not to understand what it is. I think that is more practical than meet ups. The anonymous aspect to MGTOW is what makes it special, it's not a movement, organization or whatever. It doesn't have a public leader that can be discredited or many rules. There are a few things agreed upon, the rest is gray area that leaves room for discussion. I think trying to o…
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 11:00 PM
2

Painful. I lost 3 very good childhood friends moving continents. Haven't talked to them in 3-4 years, don't have their contact. I'm graduating High school this year and I know for a fact all friendships will fall apart except for one that I'm hopeful will last for life. That guy is like my brother, I'm sad he's moved like 200 miles for college, have only seen him twice when he was here during holidays. Painful, but a fact of life. I learned not to do business or lend money with anybody who you c…
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 11:28 AM
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Why did your family stop talking to you? Could you please expand. I told my dad about this and he told me this is life, confirmed my observations but that you still get married because you want to live with somebody and that there are ways to protect your wealth (I'll admit he told me about far sneakier things than a prenup, things never discussed in the man-o-sphere. There was a point where he realized that I might actually be serious about what I'm saying (no marriage) and the atmosphere turne…
/r/MGTOW231/01/21 12:56 AM
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Just don't, normal people won't understand. I'm religious myself, so MGTOW means monk mode because I refuse to engage in extramarital affairs. Same thing. 6'3 and also go to the gym, probably a 6-7 in the face so also not ugly, same assumptions, even by people who claim to be religious themselves. Don't bring it up, you can't explain this deep of a subject in a casual conversation. People can't grasp the concept that you're not thirsty, your rebellion against their norms is a threat to their sys…
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 05:36 PM
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Good job bro, keep grinding, I wish I could say I've got things pieced together like you have. I did NoFap once for 7 days and that was crazy. At the 7 day mark I was at a birthday party and was getting attention like never before. I'm starting that again, I deeply regret having quit it last year. Day 2 now. I also like listening to older men. I've come to realize this listening to my dad. Before, I thought he was just a regular guy, but he knows a thing or two about these concepts without havin…
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 02:49 AM
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Thanks brother, this is really helpful and points me in the right direction. I've been money driven for 1-2 years now, not that I'm making any money but I've come to realize how important it actually is. Definitely will get started on this for the next few months as I've got tons of time and need a daily schedule to do something.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 02:43 AM
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Do you reckon this is something that could be done on the side by a non IT guy? I'm headed for University next year for industrial engineering (kind of a mix between business and engineering, the way to go in a business degree in Germany) at the #1 Uni in the country, that shit is really difficult but I reckon I can improve my chances on the market and make some side money in college doing some online stuff. What do you recommend? Where would I start learning this? I've got a solid 9 months of t…
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 01:35 AM
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Do you work in IT? You reckon somebody in business/engineering could do something?
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 12:33 AM
1

I have to disagree. MGTOW is about not basing your decisions around any woman and truly going your own way. By getting out of shape and not making money, you compromise your way to do that, why? I know you wanna do that so that women become disinterested but then again that means you're giving them an important part of your decision, that defeats the whole purpose. I wanna make money to retire early and afford traveling, a nice home gym, big home, nice gaming setup and all those nice things in l…
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 12:31 AM
1

I've been feeling similarly, but make no mistake about it, this is the wrong way. I've been consuming deep red pill content, beyond just guys like Sandman, CGA or Joker. I'm talking Bar Barbossa, Donavan Sharpe, Tomassi Steph is cold and many many more, started 2 years ago so it can't be regular beginner red pill rage. I guess the more I learn, the more I understand that this is by no means by accident, it's organized hate towards men and that pisses me off. That being said, you have to channel …
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 12:22 AM
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It's not mutually exclusive. 48 laws of Power holds very important concepts that will help you advance your interests and enforce them around other people, be it advancing in a career or something else. So you very much could use it to advance a noble cause. I've unconsciously used a lot of the concepts, such as not outshining the master, and coincidentally people always made sure I got ahead. Life is already difficult enough, without contacts you have to use every edge you can get. Personally I…
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 12:13 AM
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Nope. Only way is to keep withdrawing money throughout the whole marriage and launder it by slipping it to your dad in cash or something, but that's kinda illegal I think. Don't do it, it's a massive risk. Just don't marry. Only reason to marry is.....none. You're gambling with your life, a Prenup might or might not stick. The ones that stick have conditions that pretty much give away half or close to it, so pretty much worthless. ....
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 12:12 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy. They've already invested a lot into it so they feel they have to keep going to get a return.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 11:35 AM
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