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BroChapeau/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 09:00 AM
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What is a “pure” mind? Just don’t intentionally load your mind with 🌽. Virgins at marriage are practically extinct. Low single digits percentages. What matters is whether you’ve been with losers or men who didn’t care about you. That stuff destroys the open, vulnerable, tender feminine heart, which is what good men actually desire. I hear your heart here in this thread. That’s what to protect for your future man. It’s more valuable to him than gold. A woman is a home for her hero. Advice: channe…
/r/RPChristians25/12/25 05:57 PM
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Making a direct move is unattractive to some men (like me for instance). Making your interest very clear is really very ATTRACTIVE. Guess what one of a wise man’s top filters is for women — genuine strong interest of the kind that she can’t fake. Women choose, not men. Men notice and act if interested. If you choose him, you’ve got to show it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/24 08:17 AM
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This is the advice for OP to take. It is the low-effort-but-long-wait that indicates low attraction. Women fall in love by doing things for a man. If she is going out of her way to make efforts, a wise, interested man can and often will wait. For a family oriented man with aligned values, it is actually extremely desirable to find a woman who can’t keep her hands off you, who goes out of her way to help you in your mission and in life, but who has her values-based principles. This dance of attra…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/24 12:06 AM
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This is some of the best actionable advice I’ve ever seen on reddit in any sub. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/24 07:01 PM
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God The Father has been under attack at least since the start of the hormonal BC free-for-all. Lots of “christians” want to pretend like God has no expectations or tough discipline. A lot is revealed by a woman’s relationship to masculine authority.
/r/RPChristians23/05/24 03:26 PM
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TRP mostly reaches spergy or skinny fat young men ‘in the wilderness’ before they have added real value to the world, or it reaches midlife divorce rape refugees. TRP isn’t en masse converting losers in to sociopathic don juans. Like anything, it is a pareto distribution and only a few will grind, do the work, and anneal themselves in the fires of rejection. The ‘get rich quick’ teachers count on this very laziness to make money. And those few who DO do the work are not necessarily more likely t…
/r/RPChristians21/04/24 07:33 AM
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Men need time to be with men. The promises broken are the issue. “I’m having a tremendous time, it’s so good to see these guys and I’m not entirely sure when I’ll be back. It may be as late as TIME HERE. Am I needed for something earlier than that?” When he says no, it needs to be direct, forthright, and respectful. This is what’s expected amongst men— “this is what I will do, this what I won’t.” You deserve the same respect. The source of this is probably pleaser behavior. He feels guilty about…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 02:19 AM
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Here’s the steel man of the Church’s position: There are deeper reasons for catholic teaching on this. A married couple is a child-producing union by its nature. The church thinking as that birth control is an attempt to abdicate responsibility for what you’re doing, and defy God’s will if it is in fact his will that you conceive. It places you in the headspace that family is an option for YOU to choose to avoid, and thus it fundamentally changes the nature of the union and of the person you mig…
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 08:38 PM
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I’ll even share what my strategy would be were I on the market: 1. University swing dance groups 2. Many mens ministry groups in wealthy suburban churches, where you are among the youngest members. You get mentors, and you get to impress traditional Dads with your maturity— Dads with functional households, who may have eligible daughters who may actually listen to their advice. In any case, get a proactive plan and grind. Just as with anything else.
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 10:15 PM
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That’s fine. There aren’t very many EXCELLENT traditional men, though, and that ought to be the goal anyway. If you’re the best version of yourself, it just is not difficult to find decent women. Widen your pool by doing many things, and filter very quickly by being very honest on a coffee date, and by not trying to impress the girl. But yes, avoid leftists if you aren’t a leftist. Let them alone. On a first date, ask them what they believe in— they will out themselves as long as you give no ind…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 10:09 PM
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Let your energy drive you to excellence. Sex transmutation: https://sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm Also, these days many traditional women too struggle to find traditional men. So be proactive and go find her through volunteering, joining hiking/fitness groups, etc. Expand the breadth of your group of acquaintances.
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 01:04 PM
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Feminine young women who like boy band queers are simply scared/intimidated by the men they will later want. It’s too much strength for them. It’s like not being ready for the upgrade. They very seldom like the sissy boys for very long, unless they’re trauma bound and never mentally develop past their teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:41 PM
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Dominance is masculine. Full stop. All you need to do is examine all societies prior to reliable oral contraceptives. Imagine a world without birth control. All this gender politics BS immediately snaps back, because human females hide ovulation specifically do we cant rationalize ourselves out of procreation… so if you’re a healthy sexually active female you WILL get pregnant. And humans are very fragile, take a long time to raise… pregnant women and young children need protection. The person r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:34 PM
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If he wants it to be ok to continue being her friend, the dynamic needs to shift from direct friendship toward friendship THROUGH you. That is, you and her need to be close friends first, and then your man can still be her friend through your new friendship through her. That means group texts but none just he and she. That means you’re always his +1 or he wont go. That means you and this woman become genuine friends. That means he talks to this woman and tells her that you and she need to become…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 04:46 PM
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To be fair, I’d wait for a non-virgin with a low partner count who has only been intimate within LTRs… but only if: - she demonstrates high interest by going out of her way to be compliant and helpful - she understands that prior to sex Im not very invested and certainly not committed, and will go out with her but not much more. Hell, if she’s good enough company on an evening I’m free, what do I care?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 10:45 PM
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Meaningless sex has costs. If you don’t know, I shouldn’t spoil the surprise; life will teach you soon enough. Go research, and work on self-awareness.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 07:12 PM
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https://www.thefemininewoman.com Can you feel a man’s masculine energy? We can feel your energy too; feminine energy is powerfully attractive. It is, at its core, vulnerability and openness. Less experienced guys will feel foolish or even ashamed with a woman who has a past… what innocence are they using their virtue and labor to protect?!? I will not review the various costs of meaningless sex, but less experienced guys probably cannot maintain an effective relationship with a traumatized woman…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 07:03 PM
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If you have many past partners, then it is difficult. You’re best served by cultivating your feminine energy and selecting an older, experienced man who himself has a past too. He will know; you shouldn’t hide it. But if you truly change, this can work. Make sure he satisfies you physically, though; do NOT try to compartmentalize your ‘relationship guys’ away from physical attraction. A wide difference in number of past partners is absolute poison, so leave the less experienced dudes alone.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 06:41 PM
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He has a porn addiction, I nearly guarantee you. This is what porn does to peoples’ brains. Society tries to sell ‘it’s totally normal and harmless.’ It is not. r/nofap r/karezza
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 05:45 PM
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I think you should trust your instincts. I 100% disagree with folks advising you to expect him to chase. Wise men filter for her high interest; if he’s chasing you rather than taking care of business in life, what does that say about him? Should he reach out now and again? Sure. But if you want to see him, you shouldn’t hesitate to reach out too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 09:10 PM
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You’re on the right track. What I mean is that love is the joy of willing giving. And a woman who isn’t that attracted to a guy can’t open to him very well, blocking the free flow of energy and love. Because women seek safety, many times you see women in relationships with men they aren’t actually attracted to. These women made a decision out of fear, but now they can’t open… often times the guy had no idea that this might happen, or that he wasn’t a guy that can really move his woman. To avoid …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 06:40 PM
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If he is wise, what he’s filtering for is a high level of attraction. In my view there’s nothing aggressive or unfeminine about texting when she wants to connect with him. He should then take the cue if interested. I think try a text one more time.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 05:33 PM
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It’s the same advice as if he were the same age as you are: - magnify feminine energy - embrace vulnerability and stay open through the pain of his lack of attention sometimes when he’s working - try to help him (by doing things, not by giving unsolicited advice) thefemininewoman.com
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 06:27 AM
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Muddy Waters has something to say. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=clSC-e3YKUs Steely Dan too https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5J7IrPVLc4U I will advise my sons to wait until they are 30 and then seek a ~20 year old girl. The girl is less set in her ways, has more years to bear healthy children, and the man is much further on his journey toward mastering himself. Self-mastery is the ultimate masculine trait. If I ever have a daughter, I will help her choose the best masculine man (that she is highly …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 05:28 AM
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I’ve rejected every woman who has asked or directly propositioned me. I find it too masculine/bold, and an indication that values would very likely not align. That said, men are well advised to focus on their mission, not women. As far as ladies go, focus on constantly gauging their level of interest so that action can be taken if interest is mutual. That’s the male role: notice, and take action. She chooses, he acts. The problem is that young men find few spaces/forums where it is expected to a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 05:04 AM
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Listen to this advice. It isn’t about looks. Normal men like normal women. The army general isn’t always the tallest man. And the most captivating woman isn’t always the prettiest. I have felt a woman’s energy across a train car without knowing which woman I was feeling it from. Once - in central Ukraine over ten years ago - I felt powerfully drawn to the energy and poise of an absolutely radiant 70+ year old woman. It is feminine energy that attracts the masculine. Just look at Michelle Jenneke…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 07:30 AM
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The game has never been about looks. Looks just make it easier. It’s about self-mastery. Theres a female groupie for every kind of master. Plenty of masters are ugly as shit. It’s a Russian proverb that men only have to be slightly better looking than ogres. If a man is penetrating the world with the highest form of his personal energy, nobody cares what he looks like. The feminine is drawn to the masculine irrespective.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 01:26 AM
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Like daddy issues is such a random thing to pick out It is not. This man explains better than I can: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_dPHuNGKazk
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 04:56 AM
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I don't disagree with anything you said in this response. However... I dispute that masculine men would be turned off by women without their own drive or see them as "losers." I dispute that it's a turn off to tell a man that you want to be a housewife. Exception: women over the age of ~25 who went to university and presumably experienced the "world" there. Women who tell men they want to be housewives but are approaching 30 and have a communications degree... yes, these women make wise men very…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:23 AM
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Men who expect masculine drive from a potential partner would seem not to be very attracted to feminine women. Which means they're probably not very masculine themselves. Solution: filter for masculine men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 02:11 AM
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I strongly disagree with the expectation that she work a 9 to 5.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 02:09 AM
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This. Women were once the backbone of America's civil society, which was a great bullwark against authoritarianism. My grandma started a charity for mentally handicapped adults that she still sits on the board of in her mid-80s. My other grandma was in rotary, several sororities, heavily involved in church, and so on, and so on. The decline of civil society goes a long way toward explaining our current political dysfunction. Feminism, etc, and every woman working goes a substantial portion of th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 02:08 AM
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I think it’s a grey area What kind of butts are you looking at? But on a more serious note, it doesn't seem so clear that divorce is forbidden by Paul. To "put her away" meant to kick a wife out of her house without serving her the legal divorce papers required under Jewish law, so that she'd remain married but have no place to go.
/r/RPChristians29/01/22 05:09 AM
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Point to me why it's not permissible to get a divorce or annulment when it was done regularly in israel. That's not what "let no man put asunder" means. Also, point to me where the bible forbids anal sex within a hetero marriage.
/r/RPChristians29/01/22 04:20 AM
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Don't worry about dating, just go do interesting things in groups with other people. Hiking, dancing, singing, self-improvement/networking, the types of things that your kind of guy would likely want to do, too. Also, women pick men and then men ratify the pick by noticing and acting. So you don't really need to looks max or whatever, just focus on feminine energy, on what kind of person you need vs want (realistic expectations), and on your mental hygiene. Remember that nobody but you can make …
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/22 12:50 AM
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I don't know how this woman can add to your life and/or help you along in life if she's kicking up so much drama. Either trust issues or more likely she's not that attracted to you at this point and is looking for a reason to beg out while maintaining her self-conception as a woman who wouldn't suddenly do that without a good reason. Meanwhile you're paying the mortgage for a home without your name on title. Personally I would remain stoic, not respond to moving out threats, and at length ask he…
/r/RPChristians20/12/21 08:12 AM
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"know thyself." I hear that. Nevertheless the sex frankly isn't the important part about plate spinning. Plenty of women are really easy for an attractive man to bed, and the bar for decent sex is quite a bit lower than many people think it is (because most people aren't great at it). No, the important part is the repeated rejection, which creates resilience, experience, and pressure to improve. Women are the world, and they are a pretty good proxy for how the world sees a man overall, how he's …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 10:15 PM
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What you want isn't wrong, and it isn't wrong to depend on a man. In a great relationship the partners can depend on one another... though you don't want to be codependent, but that describes something else.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 06:21 AM
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Say it while giving him a home baked pie. The reality is that a woman who can resist having sex with a man makes him believe - often accurately - that she isn't attracted to him on a deep animal level. Therefore, if you actually are attracted to him you must show him in other ways, by continually trying to help him and please him. If you do not want to do this, it means you are not attracted to him and you should let him alone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 06:18 AM
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I heard about an online community: https://libertassisters.com/
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 08:59 PM
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Youtube: Coach Red Pill; Alexander Grace; Entrepreneurs in cars; coach corey wayne
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 08:57 PM
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If she maintains her feminine energy and they maintain sexual polarity, then yes 'wife goggles' are a thing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 08:46 PM
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Feminine energy is a cheat code, and more important than genetic gifts. I've been attracted to a ~70 year old woman on a minibus in Ukraine, because of her poise and energy. I've been drawn to one of the women on the other end of a Chicago L car without understanding which one was attracting me. There are youtube videos about tantra that are just talking heads, but the men in the comments are going nuts because the woman in the video has so successfully cultivated her energy that it shines right…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 09:07 PM
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Personally, I don't like it when women make the first move. It ignores the wisdom of using the requirement for bold action as a powerful filter. I call to invite her out. However, after the first couple of dates I don't typically contact her first. Much like real life non-verbal indications of interest, in my experience a woman will send a check-in text when she wants to feel a guy's presence/energy. Then all I must do is take action. Don't fight your natural inclination to reach out when you fe…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 03:44 PM
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If I discovered a secret cache of love letters written because my mate couldn't contain her bursting love for me, I'd attempt to overflow her with love over the next few days. In a manly fashion, if you get my meaning. You remain on the right path to unlocking his passion/adoration. Men want nothing so much as a woman's openness and vulnerability.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 07:38 PM
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On a deeper level, men are men no matter the country. Men want lovely feminine women with gentleness, empathy, nurturing, who is compliant and ready to conform to his life path and mission. You are the ship he is the river. Feminine women are magically and mysteriously alluring, and much more valuable than gold. An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the d…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 07:31 PM
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I don't think it's abusive unless you attempt to set boundaries and then he ignores them. It could be incompatibility, but that's not the same as abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:39 PM
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Be active, fun, have interests and do stuff in the world. The IOIs will come. Your job is to notice her interest and then act if you are also interested. If you do not receive IOIs you need to: work on becoming the best version of yourself go out in to the world and do more cool stuff you like doing I agree that your job is to always gauge her interest, which will change day to day. Filter for high interest with compliance tests; she must want to help you and/or please you. You want to select fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:47 AM
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Amen. Boomhauer preaches: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7FVmeJXwCY
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:36 AM
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I utterly lack respect for you. Didn't your mommy tell you life isn't fair? It has never been, isn't going to be, isn't supposed to be. Act or be acted upon. There is nothing else. The world doesn't care about you; stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:33 AM
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This can't be true. Are you including indirect approach, like an indication of interest? Because even the women who are pretty directly coming on to you won't usually literally say "will you go out with me?" What qualifies? Good lord, I guess I didn't realize I'm bathing in riches, relatively speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:27 AM
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Get better. The world is a harsh mistress. Improve, then try and bend her over. Get slapped. Improve some more, then try and bend her over. Get slapped and a bucket of slop poured over your head for all to see. Improve some more, then try and bend her over.... You get the idea. Get better. There's a version of you that can bend the world over and f*** the s*** out of her. Don't like it? Too bad - you were born male. Excel or die; whining about 'fairness' is for women, and OLD-only strategies are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:04 AM
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Ah, the great filter. Even the women currently using OLD should get off of it; real life filters men much more easily and is better for guarding your heart against the mirages of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:56 AM
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Not possible. You're a dude. 'Slut' is a term for women, alluding to perceived lack of fidelity in a relationship combined with possibly trauma-caused risky and unwise behavior. Since the fear of unknowingly raising another man's child is by nature a hardwired male evolutionary preoccupation/fear, 'slut' is a universal concept that refers to women. Using 'slut' to refer to men is silly PC nonsense; the underlying concept will never go away, and the concept will simply switch to another term if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:32 AM
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Feminine energy trumps looks. I've been attracted to a woman in a train car without knowing which one, simply because I could feel her energy. I've been attracted to a ~70 year old woman on a bus in Ukraine to the point where I remember it now 11 years later. It was her radiant energy and poise, the way she carried herself... I can't explain it; it's a mystery to me and it's one of the few mysteries in life that I truly don't want to understand. There are youtube tantra videos of fully clothed w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/21 12:24 AM
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This is a very interesting topic these days. The trouble is that society's full acceptance of hook up culture, casual sex, and 'get it girl' encouragement of female sexual desires has produced a dating scene wherein smart men start to filter out women who do not sleep with them quickly. This is because these men reasonably assume that said woman has categorized them in the take-it-or-leave-it category while she quickly goes to bed with men she actually finds attractive. This is, all considered, …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/21 09:57 PM
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Want to take a second to congratulate you on the positive changes in your life! Mazeltov!!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 05:17 PM
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You are right to participate in your own rescue (being proactive). I also understand wanting to move; for me in CA this critical race theory racist claptrap is now in both my place of work and my kid's school. But I can't help but think that more fundamental to your odds is joining groups of people that increase your odds. Where are the men you want likely to be? Urban history walking tours? Hiking groups? Freemasonry halls? Catholic fraternity groups? Rowing clubs? Swing dancing societies? Book…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 05:05 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGeWIiwXCMY&t=30s "Should" is a strong word. I merely speak for me, my house, and those I let in my life. Yes, I would not get in to a relationship with a woman intensely invested in some notion of "equality" if she wasn't in practice demonstrating attraction far more primal and involuntary. My sense is it might have to be pretty strong attraction to overcome the dogma, though, and I'm not sure I could sustain that. Got things to do, after all: https://www.youtube…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 07:25 AM
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A balanced individual doesn't need another to feel complete, and in that sense I don't need a woman. But in the broader sense men and women need each other, and by no means do western women no longer need men. American women have never been unhappier than they are right now. Meanwhile, self-possessed masculine men are not interested in women who think agreeableness, pleasantness, or taking a following role means "stroking the ego of the male" or "dumbing yourself down." It's a recipe for battles…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 06:50 AM
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This STEM degree holding man couldn't disagree more. Though I'm not sure you have a solid grip on what feminine energy is. Here's how I explained its power in a different reddit thread: Femininity is vulnerability and openness, feeling what you feel moment to moment through the joys and pains of life. It's feeling the joy of the now. Masculinity and femininity may be counterparts, but there is much in common. Presence helps to unlock both, and meditative breathing is a cheat code. Femininity is …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 05:25 AM
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A man must ask. She puts herself in to his orbit and gives him an opening, and then he must ask. This doesn't change even further in to dating; my woman is on my program not vice versa. I don't like a woman asking me. To me it demonstrates masculine energy as well as a failure to recognize the wisdom of using the requirement that he asks as a powerful filtering tool. A man who wants a woman but doesn't appropriately act on it has some growing up to do. Conclusion: put yourself in to his orbit, b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 09:54 PM
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Don't go to a commiseration congress like a ICMI. Go swing dancing or hiking or surfing or skiing. Join groups of active people. Go to a Tony Robbins type event. Etc.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 10:39 PM
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I read an interesting article last year talking about how the nuclear family is actually an aberration only ubiquitous for a relatively short time in the 20th Century. Before it were 'company families' combining their efforts, and now it's broadly breaking down in favor of tribes of choice. To wit (ignore the clickbait title): https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/03/the-nuclear-family-was-a-mistake/605536/
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 09:24 PM
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Ever heard of Freeuse? For the right couple that gets both their motors running. Hundreds of thousands of years of caveman and woman evolution don't lie. If you're interested in that, then instead of directly telling him I'd first make it in to a delightful game. Start coordinating your dress and hair with what you want from him. Colors and styles mean you're particularly wanting certain acts. Make these fashion choices more and more exaggerated as time goes on; you're trying to telegraph sexy m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/21 06:57 AM
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- Irrational self-confidence is a positive trait in a man. Equivocation is not as desirable as you may think right now. - To get the best relationship, a woman's surrender to her man's frame is a linchpin part. You may "know" he's wrong about something, but to what extent is it really helpful to point that out or dwell on it? If I make a reasonable claim about something, arguing is for the world to do; I don't want to argue with my woman. Even if she doesn't fully agree, the key is that she trus…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/21 06:34 AM
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- Feminine energy. Receptivity and openness, which a person cannot fake for long. Pick a man whose energy you trust and can open to, who you have high desire for and therefore want to receive. - A genuine interest and desire to help the man accomplish his mission by being his partner in his life. A wife is traditionally known as Mrs. and then the man's first and last name. She's on his program, not vice versa. He is the river, she is the boat upon it. The man applies energy to his woman to creat…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 11:30 AM
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He has every right to get with other ladies at this juncture, but rubbing your face in it is both insecure and manipulative. Hard to believe he'd so casually do that to a woman he cares about. A man really shouldn't kiss and tell; unless he's 16 he ought to know better.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 11:29 AM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with having no experience as a girl your age. It indicates self-respect. For a man, incredible sex is about her openness and surrender, just like for her it's connected to his full presence in the moment with her. Which is to say, by being authentic to yourself you've been protecting your heart and your ability to open to the right man. The fact is much of the casual sex happening in this society is bad, shallow sex, and many women damage themselves by flippantl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 08:05 PM
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Should I let it go because "he's just not that into me?" No. Broadly, men don't make an effort to spend time with women we're not interested in. You wouldn't want the kind of guy who's in a hurry anyway. To prevent excess early attachment, don't do a bunch of stuff for him out of proportion to his investment, and don't change your life or your openness to meeting other people. Try to take him at face value and let go of the expectation that this will become something more. Be patient, take it fo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 07:04 PM
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In 2021 a man who doesn't thoroughly vet a woman's quality before committing is foolish, doesn't understand his value, or doesn't have much value. High quality people are rare, never more so. After commitment I broadly agree with you. But the vast majority of women are not worth a particular man committing to; most won't make it. Not many women have the inner strength to submit to my frame and more or less see the world through my lens, adopting my mission, values, and goals as their own. That's…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 06:39 PM
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What woman wants a man who will so easily commit? Answer: an insecure woman who wants security and will settle to get it. Secure high value ladies want a man who has plenty of things going on and plenty of options and - at length and after much testing - chooses to spend his time with her although there's plenty of awesome stuff he could be doing instead. WHY? Because she adds so much value to his life and falls in to his life path/frame. Look for a man who has real value and thus expects a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 07:16 AM
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Toxic masculinity is a made up term meant to attack masculinity in general. Just stop at toxic. That sounds like it could have been toxic behavior, especially the bit about trying to keep your self-esteem down to make himself feel better. It doesn't have much to do with masculinity. All of us have parents that messed us up in some way, and recovery is part of growing up in to the best version of ourselves. My father certainly wasn't perfect. Men would not be better off "without the burden of nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:07 PM
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I didn't say there weren't such a thing as patriarchs. Believe it or not despite what the world says having a controlling father is not all bad; the messages the world is sending young women are not good, so the right kind of firm guiding hand is critical in a father trying to raise a healthy young woman. What I did say is that there's no systemic patriarchy in the West. There's no inequality between men and women the way the feminists claim there is. All the "unfair" aspects come down to innate…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:32 AM
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Better is a value judgement, and I'm not qualified to judge you. Those traits would unequivocally make you more attractive to the men that you apparently seek, however. So if getting the kind of man you really want rates highly on your life priority list, then yes making these kinds of changes will be vastly more effective for you. I empathize with you; men and women are not born intuitively understanding the other's needs/wants. We tend to assume that other people are like us, but they often ar…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 05:06 AM
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Not better. I wouldn't say that. You do you, miss. I only communicated what high value masculine men almost universally want.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 03:19 AM
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This is almost directly opposite of the truth. Men don't care how much a woman makes or what her job is. It about youth, fertility, feminine energy, and willingness to fall in to his frame and mission. Most of these things irreversibly decline with age. In contrast, the most attractive masculine trait is self-mastery, and the financial and social success/status that it brings. This increases with age, so long as the man has his s*** together. That's why being a bachelor is often good but being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:13 AM
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Men like reserved girls! But we like feminine joy, expressiveness, and vulnerability, even in our reserved mates. It's okay to be reserved, but that's not the same thing as stone-faced. I try to develop stoicism in myself, but it isn't a trait I'd want in a mate. As far as change, I feel that every year I'm substantially different than the year before. I'd reframe it not as changing for a man, but as changing for you so as to better manifest the kind of life you want. People - male or female - w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 01:15 AM
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Don't use dating apps. Go join organizations, business groups, hiking groups, dancing groups, etc. Good men do real stuff in the real world with real people, and they have lives outside work and dating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 11:51 PM
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Honest answer from a man - You've identified what you want in a man as generally fitting in to RP archetypes, but the RPW archetype isn't working that well for you. We attract our reciprocal; is the man you're looking for likely to want the woman you are? Our personalities are not fully intrinsic to us, and we should be ruthless in tossing out parts of ourselves that don't serve our highest goals for our lives. Is your relationship lower or higher priority than your government career aspirations…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 11:06 PM
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Health/fitness is critical, but there's very good news for ladies. Men are attracted to feminine energy, and you can cultivate that poise, self-respect, joy, and openness/vulnerability. The power is such that I've experienced attraction to energy I felt across a train car without knowing which woman I was feeling it from. I once saw a 70 year old woman in Ukraine who took my breath away. It was a public bus and I saw her only from a distance, but she was radiant and the energy was pouring off of…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 09:38 PM
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Two things: First, don't expect your woman to provide the same type of intellectual stimulation that you can get from a group of men questing for the truth and interested in talking about anything/everything. Our sexual relationship can't carry the load of all the various interactions and relationships in our lives. This distinction only works if she, too, has plenty of other friendships and relationships; if she is an attached homebody who mainly wants to be around you then this lack of intelle…
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 10:13 PM
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Opposite problem. One of my life goals has been to ensure my wife doesn't need to work, but my woman is the sort of person that wants to work anyway yet gets annoyed that I don't do half the housework, etc. Bottom line is in a society of splintered cultural points of view it's plain straight up difficult to find a person who shares your values, that's all.
/r/RPChristians22/08/20 12:07 AM
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European-style social democrats are not socialists, bro. Sweden's economy is more lightly regulated than the US in many ways. Actual socialism really is horrific. Furthermore, Marx's ideas were written from his perspective at the dawn of the industrial revolution in the 1840s. Nobody knew what would happen with the large amounts of labor dislocation happening as the guild system gave way to industrialization. The American experience in the century to follow is evidence that Marx was off base - F…
/r/RPChristians01/07/19 08:45 AM
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What it makes you is a catch. With that kind of support your boyfriend will be able to accomplish anything, and your future children will grow up very well adjusted. Wives and mothers like you are the bedrock of a healthy society. The attitudes you describe are corrosive and pernicious; if you are fulfilled by a very feminine supporting role, building a beautiful family, this is absolutely not any less valid or prestigious than ambitiously climbing the impersonal corporate ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:44 AM
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Not possible. Every occasion is a good occasion for a dress. If women all wore colorful dresses all the time the world would be a much more beautiful place.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/19 05:32 AM
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Of course a christian can be in to BDSM! You simply need to find the right man. You do not want a nice guy and you do not want a bad boy. You want a man with self-mastery who will dominate your mind, body, and soul. This really is the biblical model for marriage. Godly women who obey their husbands should be well ----ed daily by a husband who will take charge of their sex life and use it to grow together. That said, so much of what's on the internet is sick and demented and not at all in keeping…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 07:52 AM
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This is horrible advice. Don't lie to women. That makes you a pleaser. And never lie to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:59 PM
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I live in LA. LA is a special place. no matter what type of life you want, you can find it in LA. SoCal has over 20 million people. Not just image conscious wannabe-stars. There are many non-entitled people here. Don't whine.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 01:33 AM
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Bullshit. Don't you have any interests that involve being around other people? Bars are for whiskey and fucking. Want to find good people? Join groups of interesting people doing interesting things. Random example -- Chicago has a group called Forgotten Chicago that does tours of abandoned and hidden historical bits of the city. You take a tour and meet a woman there, and you've already filtered out lazy, stupid, uninteresting, and even to a certain extent self-absorbed.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:10 PM
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And you watched, popcorn in hand, as dude was falling for it?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:48 PM
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Lots of slander and libel lawsuits. The trial lawyers love your idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:07 PM
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TRP doesn't hold any great secrets. Big surprise, you have to be a fucking man for women to like you. If you allow your emotional and pleasure centers to run you you're not being manly. Not exactly revolutionary thought. Why would it be intimidating for others to discover this community of men pushing one another to be better? That's why TRP exists.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:01 PM
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Village girls overseas. It's about the last bastion.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 08:00 PM
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"To the bold go the spoils." -- Who the hell knows
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:42 PM
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Indeed. One of the most important kinds of damage done by SJWs is to open debate. It's a crime to entertain certain ideas now, and that is a very very dangerous thing to normalize.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 06:10 PM
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Jury nullification is one of the most crucial American rights. It's critical we educate our countrymen about this little known right. I made students write essays about this at my masonic lodge's Constitutional Observance Day last year. Almost to a one they said they'd never heard of it. So terribly sad.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:59 PM
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The idea comes from a time when voting was only for the landed.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:57 PM
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It's because a man's recognized self-awareness and self-confidence -- his mastery over himself -- is what attracts a woman. A secure man puts himself forward while remaining outcome neutral. Spending too much time figuring out what the other person is thinking is really very close to being a pleaser. Meanwhile it's generally pretty evident when a woman wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:29 AM
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But this is the crux of the argument. Even if you've heard it before, this is the key point; men and women are different. Slut shaming is important (and will not be protested out of society) because men have to lower the risk that they will spend their resources raising another man's child. Furthermore, a promiscuous woman is in no way worthy of your resources in a LTR because the simple fact is that in sex the man is the giver, the woman the receiver. The man is the actor, the woman the subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:20 AM
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That quote is a better summary than I have come up with for why I'm a freemason. And why life isn't about being happy, but improving oneself and the world around.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:14 PM
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This post made me realize -- I think Los Angeles area TRP people might really like the mens group I'm forming. We make commitments to one another every other week, and keep each other accountable to upholding them. On pain of $50 next meeting. Define your objectives and hustle for your own success. They must be specific and measurable. We meet in South Pasadena. If you're interested in this kind of iron sharpens iron brotherhood PM me.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:01 PM
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I think both sexes are better served with moderate to low partner counts. The reason it's so critical for a LTR woman to have a low partner count is because the quality of sex is controlled by the man; he is the active partner, he is giving and she is receiving. The difference between a good male lover and a bad one is far larger than the difference between a good female lover and a bad one. If your woman has been with scores of men, each having rocked her world in different ways, then she may h…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:28 PM
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I think both truths can coexist. There are quality women who do not put themselves in these situations, who do not go out looking for dick, who aren't attention whores, and who really are well-adjusted feminine girls who want family and love. BUT AWALT still applies. Women are simply more suggestible than men, always susceptible to an upgrade. The feminine cannot help but yield to the masculine. So a man must keep his woman in line. Even if she loves him and isn't seeking to be unfaithful, if sh…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:29 AM
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