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I appreciate your approach. However, I am also talking about in my case family members, friends etc. I used the word relationship but I see how that could be misleading to mean exclusively a romantic relationship. My family is broken in many ways tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:32 AM
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Like I said before. If you are confident in defending your views, let's have an actual debate. Your 'sadness', while it may be true to you, isnt much of a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:16 AM
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You are free to go your own way then my friend. Dont pretend like you have good intentions now, either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:09 AM
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Its sad when people have joy? Also, do u not wanna have an actual debate. Where's your confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:01 AM
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Why u mad homeboy? Just becuz u dont understand what I am telling u Yk what, let's put your confidence to the test. You wanna do a live debate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:50 AM
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LOL. Its not from that, I can tell u that much 😂😂 I hope my memory is okay though. I have an interview for med school next week and I gotta be on my game
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:48 AM
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Sometimes I get so angry and frustrated in relationship that I jump and hit my head on the ceiling or throw my socks and shorts across my empty room. What a foolish person I am. But then without fail, I feel joy come forcefully back into the deepest part of me. I am refreshed and I feel my heart is healed and sewn together, washed truly clean. I know where it comes from. I will trust in the Lord and submit myself to His will. I have thought, "protect yourself, dont let others steal your joy". Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:34 AM
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U/HardTruthssss building the first prototypes of his kind and loving AI fembot gf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:41 AM
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I work in the office ~4 days per week. I have the ability to work from home when I get sick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:46 AM
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Now when I get sick my girlfriend cooks for me and takes good care of me. Honestly getting sick is not so bad anymore.... and I can work from home too. On another note, I was watching these YouTube videos and I realized that if I moved to China, I could afford a private chef for premium meals every day... Im only 22 but the cost of living is so cheap there I could afford it even on my entry level corporate salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:38 AM
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Yk what, thats fair. I actually read what you wrote and its slightly different than what I expected it to be... I would agree. Being overly nice and generous will not generate attraction. In general I dont think that unreciprocated acts like these are a good idea. But I disagree with your last sentence. A lot more than looks matter to generate attraction. Most people who have been in an LTR will realize how important interpersonal skills are to the health and wellbeing of a relationship in the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:54 PM
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I am reading this and questioning..... what rock do some people form their opinions under. Get into a real adult social network, situation, event, group etc.. personality and natural ability to make good conversation is one of the best skills not just in dating but for life in general. Yes, buying some BS class and reciting the same tired lines won't do anything, because that is flimsy and shallow. However, developing real interests, real social experience, real confidence, real friendships, rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:35 PM
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This is not a debate or a consistent question.... It comes down to individual definitions of what is "good" A girl who just wants a husband with a job will have a different perception than a girl who wants a, b, c, d, and e. And they will both have a different perception from a guy who just wants a chill friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:29 PM
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Test. Line break test <Enter>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:23 PM
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I dont even understand what your saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:57 PM
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Anyone else miss when this place was just...... HardTruthssss posting about how futuristic AI powered fembot gfs would be kind and loving and released soon. Or about how 15% of women in the US are spies or something else crazy like that. In other words, I miss the whimsical and satirical delusion. Now all I see are reminders of how screwed up our culture can be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:50 PM
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Is that the best way to handle conflict with someone you love and are committed to? If you dont love them / arent committed, why do you feel the responsibility to have sex in the first place? On a deeper level, it sounds like you have gone through a lot of pain. We live in a broken society, and in many ways, a broken culture. Keep your head up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:03 PM
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"Jesus may forgive these hoes, but it doesn't mean you should..." This is a thoroughly unbiblical take. Read the first few verses of Matthew 7. Or the Lords Prayer (i.e. forgive our sins, AS WE forgive those who sin against us). In fact, Id argue that as Christians it is our responsibility to forgive others, regardless of whether we want to or not (although the true, pure feeling of knowing one's own sins are forgiven. Oh... my friend this is enough to make the heart dance for joy and want to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:25 AM
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1000%. Children deserve love, respect, care, patience, and their basic needs to be met, regardless of who they are. Child negligence is immoral. Parents in different social and financial situations might have slightly varying levels of practical moral responsibility based on their own situation, but that is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:47 PM
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Never mind then. Also wdym... you usually wouldn't care. No no no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:25 AM
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Why not try to talk to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:53 AM
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Lmaoo. Did you forget what I wrote in my first comment? You are perfectly free to go back and reread it. It is very clear what I am proposing. If you dont like it, you are free to say "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:47 PM
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“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women I disagree with the above. "Contrarily, women can be romantically lonely yet still nurture their friendships, still care about their community, and still work to maintain their comforts. To this point, I genuinely believe that females are better at sparking, facilitating, and maintaining interpersonal bonds (friendships or otherwise) than males are. Where…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:37 PM
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I disagree, although you've written at least a somewhat coherent argument. Here's my challenge: I prefer to debate people live, over voice or a call, with or without an audience. Can be almost any issue, I'll argue against red pill or an argument like this. I used to do that on CapitalismVsSocialism a few times. I find that in live verbal debate, it becomes much more telling. Then we will see how well someone really knows their issue and how well they can think on their feet! This offer goes for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:07 PM
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Please talk about this with real life friends or mentors (face to face, not over the internet) who care about you and will take the time to listen. You will most likely not find the support it seems like you need on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:14 AM
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Think I might become blackpill after this.... I used to doordash Ben and Jerry's when I was hanging w/ my friend and our friend Mary Jane. Decided finally let's just go and get it ourselves.... So we walk to the convenience store, and my 6'2, 165 lb w/ 6pack fatass self walks into the store. Only to see... a girl and her friend sitting directly over the ice cream cabinet that has my Ben&Jerry's inside. 😭 how am I supposed to get it I said "Move woman, I beg you please, so that today I shall acqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:40 AM
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The fact that someone is keeping track of this.... 😂😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:13 AM
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Well said and great attitude my friend 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:59 AM
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Friend, trust me there is no shortage 🙏 Cheers to your success. Honestly its commendable to simply initiate somewhat normal conversation on this damn web forum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:08 AM
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I genuinely dont get it. My advice to these people is..... work out these things with a close friend or group of friends (face to face not over the internet) who care about you and will take the time to listen and understand your situation. Doing that will feel like a weight is lifted off your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:05 AM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:56 AM
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Man I see the comments of angry and frustrated women on here and all Im thinking is "Wow I am grateful my girl is not like this 🙏🙏" At some point it just moves from being funny to being sad. I guess its kinda the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:52 AM
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I miss when HardTruthssss used to be here. Such whimsical and naive delusion, paired with good writing, was really a masterclass. Now all we have is a bunch of whining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:28 AM
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Alright here goes Politicians should be quiet and talk significantly less What's your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:15 AM
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Alr you pick a topic, let's see if that holds up lmao. Make your opening claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:58 AM
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Well done. I use to buy these Alani protein shakes at Walmart that gave 30g per bottle. $6 for 4 bottles. And they tasted great, I mean incredible for a protein shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:57 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:47 AM
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In 10 years you will have a kind and loving AI powered Megan Fox fembot gf cook you a full course meal. No but fr, I remember when HardTruthssss used to post on here about it 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:38 AM
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Wouldn't your conclusion apply to all countries? Is biological / genetic reality so different in Scandinavia that 'evolutionary history' applies differently there? Maybe you are not picking up what I am putting down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:26 AM
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Regardless of whether or not you are right..... To me, your conclusion is devoid of hope and rather nihilistic and depressing. So people are destined to always get into bitter conflict because we just evolved to do so? People just do what they do as a chore and it doesn't mean anything? This train of thought just comes off as sad. And the anxious, unfortunate product of an overly materialistic culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:00 AM
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Mhm. Good work. In that case, you should stop being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:00 PM
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Instead men should take a lesson from you. By constantly whining on reddit, there problems will surely improve.... 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:34 PM
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Very thoughtful critique. Well said. And I have to say I find subtle points of agreement here. You are right..... The pills-and-therapy industrial complex is just designed to make $$, its not some magic pill. My advice for young men today is this (and I didnt say this was easy): Work your ass off to find a job that compensates you well and that you dont hate. Invest as much as you can without neglecting your daily needs. Stop watching porn. Go to church. Read the Bible. Find a close group of fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:53 PM
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Mhm. Finding someone with similar values increases your chance of building a successful LTR and getting laid. Funny how that works, isnt it? I wonder what happens, apart from reddit echo chambers. Maybe this is even what happens in the real world too? Woahh All jokes aside, Have a good Thanksgiving and take it easy. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:32 AM
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I feel like virgin man would tend to gravitate towards women who arent judgmental in that way, no? A LOT of women would view it as a positive, and imho women with these values are wonderful. Especially if the guy has a stable career and is doing ok (i.e. not the virgin stereotype). Probably not the type of women you are gunna see on reddit super often tho lol. Granted, the more I think about it I get what your saying..... majority of women won't like it if the guy is like 27. Although I dont thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:14 PM
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Absolutely not. To all my virgin homeboys: please do not give this advice a second thought. It is much better to find a girl with similar values, enter a relationship, and experience that with HER. Also Consider this..... do you really want to set the tone for your future sexual experiences as: sleeping with someone you blatantly have zero interest in and are treating (both for them and yourself) as a check-box?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:11 PM
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Have some freaking self discipline.... its not that complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:52 PM
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Ha! its already happening to genZ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:47 PM
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Yall tripping. Chill and help your mother cook her Thanksgiving meal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:44 PM
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Because we talk about how we are doing....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:32 PM
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I've been friends with him since elementary school. We used to hang out almost every day and still are close. He also just got into med school!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:13 AM
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Dude.... I get what your saying and I feel like there's some truth to it. But its easy to counterargue what your saying At some point its better not to presume / its not a battle worth fighting to further divide people homeboy. Turn the microscope inward too, if you want to use one. I'll leave it at that, just my 2cents
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:50 AM
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I think we can all learn from this. Why the need to weaponize it into another men vs. woman thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:41 AM
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Thats called paying to doordash food / getting takeout whenever it doesn't feel like cooking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:32 AM
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Im sorry brother 🙏🙏 hope you will find peace
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:25 AM
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If more unmarried and single young men and women are virgins, AMAZING! 🙏 Lost mine at 20. I'm 22 now and I'd say my friends are roughly half and half. The happiest guy I know is virgin. Sex is a beautiful and wonderful thing, and once you lose a part of yourself its hard, but certainly not impossible, to get it back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:18 AM
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Alr good luck homeboy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:30 AM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:20 AM
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Dude.... you fully missed my point but sure. If you want to talk to her, just be honest. Tell her how you feel it will come out one way or another. Dont rush it take your time, write down how your feeling, think about it, and craft a text....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:14 AM
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Has it ever occured to you...... to NOT make judgmental assumptions....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:09 AM
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Homeboy take a deep breath. Get some water. Take a shower. Do some push-ups in your room. Step one is clearing your mind even for just 5 minutes so you can think more clearly about this situation! 🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:01 AM
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This a comment I would see on capitalism vs socialism haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:09 AM
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Small but not insignificant W now get offline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:38 AM
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Oh man, this title could be read in two different ways....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:12 AM
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Youre overthinking homeboy The women you described do sound kinda insufferable. And I think your right in terms of these specific examples. Now that youve realized that, dont date those women and dont even give it a second thought 😄 Enjoy life brother, go cook a meal u like, go to the gym and hit everything hard, study sonething your interested in, listen to some good music, go on a hike with your buddies, hey u seem like a thoughtful writer, write about something you love. There are a lot of mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:03 AM
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Enough of this.... When I was just 21 years old, I graduated college and settled down with a great 9-5. Since I lived in a relatively low cost area, I rented a 2 bedroom single family home. Mind you, I was coming from paying 700/month for a bunk bed as a broke college student / intern in nyc Then I thought "oh man I need a nice girl to share this with and choose furniture who can bring me a cup of water while Im mowing in the hot summer." Nah, really you just get more comfortable sitting around.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:02 PM
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Ur good homeboy. My b
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:25 PM
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The lion dont gotta tell everyone they are a lion. People see it for themselves. Cant on reddit tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:17 PM
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Honestly if there were more virgins the world would be a better place, judging from the way people on here talk about the transactionalism and bitterness allegedly embedded in sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:41 AM
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My dear friend, the comment itself lays out of one the issues I have with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:36 AM
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You know what I feel like is really sucking and destroying happiness (and more importantly life fufillment) ... Atheistic nihilism, and the idea that both the taste of chocolate and a parent's love for their children or spouse are products of the same amoral, empty, derivitive brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:18 PM
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Dont worry about ppl w/o good intentions homeboy. Good rule of thumb for dating too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:26 AM
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Nope men should not lie to women. Yk I also dont think its in mens benefit either to sleep with women who dont give an F about them.... You kind of cornered me with that brilliant response though. Such emotionless logic in good faith really convinced me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:20 AM
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Someone who doesnt give a F about u, yeah of course thats not in your benefit 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:38 PM
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The term morally attractive is subjective itself. I dont care about being morally attractive. I care about being moral. Other people are free to think about my morals how they please
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:32 AM
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When I say morally attractive, Im not talking about willingly allowing yourself to be manipulated. Thats just foolish, we agree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:26 AM
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It is on me. But you missed the point. The point Im making is that these ideas dont even help you at all. Also tf u mean, at my expense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:05 AM
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Huh? Genuinely curious how treating a partner as unequal will foster a good relationship or good sex or what you want homeboy. The bottom line is this, and I'll put it into your own terms: chasing alleged sexual attractiveness (and I do mean alleged) at the expense of being morally attractive is not something I'd reccomend...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:49 PM
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I feel like you approached this with good faith which I often dont see here lol. Take it easy and have a good evening homeboy 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:42 PM
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" This hate is mostly spread by dating gurus from both gender. Those people are generally hurt and don't encourage improvement but condemns the other sex at once. Each difference became thr occasion to show a moral/biological deflect. No, women are not gold digger, no men are not animals, some are and you have just bad luck " You are right about this part. Opportunistic influencers will say a lot for views
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:36 PM
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" I have hypotheses that maybe conservative-leaning households don’t necessarily instill values like mutual empathy and mutual consideration? That maybe the ideals are “we’re better” “who cares about other people not like us, focus on only what you want”? Idk. " I fully agree with this. But this is a problem with America today in general (and beyond). As someone who grew up in a pretty conservative area then lived in NYC for a while, the lack of mutual empathy is there regardless. The only quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:58 PM
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Dont date men then 😂. You answered your own question. On another note, ts just sad if you think about what she's saying and whats behind it. Damn, we live in a broken world 🙏 Feel like having relationship advice on reddit is like having alcoholics anonymous in a liqour store. People want help but they will hear as many toxic things about them, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:16 AM
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Huh, What? If by good, you mean never taking a stand or trying to baby her or only telling her what she wants to hear, sure I guess.... 😐 Imo this is not sound logic. Im not even talking about a relationship atp. Step 1 is learning how to deal with others in society: friends, parents, peers etc. Not just be friendly, but be charming, have hard conversations, listen, speak with authority, speak with gentleness. Something tells me focus on step 1 and you'll resolve your issues homeboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:42 PM
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Hope everything magically works out. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:27 PM
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What are u talking about? Ive never met or dated a girl who will willingly accept to 'share' like this. Imo if a girl likes you they will try to 'lock you down' ASAP. Homeboy if I even mention the name of another girl.... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:26 AM
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Nope. I always pay for first date. But I give the girl the opportunity to pay for the next. Every time I can think of, they will deliberately make a point to pay for the next without me asking or implying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:40 PM
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Ae people on reddit detached from basic reality? YES
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:53 AM
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Genuinely curious..... what is gunna replace having a family for people who want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:27 AM
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Im luckily not in that situation but if I was heck yea a buddy of mine got married that way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:51 PM
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. From a woman.... like 30 min ago. Yesterday too. From a man: yesterday me and my buddy just called and started glazing each other. I value that more since weve known each other so long, we started joking about how I could drive 12 hrs and be there the next morning so we could get faded and go see jurrassic world and get ice cream from our hometown together 😂. I have a career now but it doesnt seem to be stopping these shenanigans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:35 PM
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Being an attractive guy with a good income is not 'winning' ? Homeboy with all due respect what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:24 PM
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I think people take dating advice more negatively when its from an anonymous stranger on the internet, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:18 PM
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Interesting, I actually agree with this. But Id say its a general issue with society today. In large part young people men and women are having a hard time finding a stable job and financial situation, buying a house etc. The ripple effects of this probably carries over into composure in personal life too.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:15 AM
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Everyone has different priorities. Who knows what that specific person's life is like. I know a buddy of mine who is a bit like this, and tbh, I still don't know why but he's a good dude so no judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:50 AM
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From someone who doesn't even know what the pill means, it seems like everyone here just uses this as a spot to complain about dating things lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:38 AM
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"I'm a tall good looking guy, but I don't take it personally" "As a guy I can hardly complain about being prejudged/ misjudged and the barriers I face in dating when women's safety is on the line, but every now and then I find myself getting furious with the way a minority of men have ruined the dating experience for everyone else, or at least made it much more difficult and much more fraught." Ight homie, get off the internet then and live your life. I agree with you about the online dating BS,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:40 PM
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