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| – | Boyfriend giving silent treatmentRed pill works both ways. He’s not living up to his burden of performance. Cheat on him with a top shelf man and then leave | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/26 07:52 PM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.Men and women are evaluated for attractiveness on different elements. Physically, men find women more physically desirable than women find men. Women mostly have to just not be fat and not be ugly, and they'll land somewhere fuckable by most men. Men need status, competence, confidence, and physical presence for a similar effect. But on the whole? That's rough. Most women are normal, but the high-value men are very high value. A small group of men could carry the whole of male attractiveness, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.More reason to self improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.I’m 31 and look and game better than I ever have. It’s not about being your best ever. It’s about being the best you can be with what’s left of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.It can’t be generated in the present. You are where you are with looks and game. That said, both can be improved with consistent effort over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Point 2: frats discriminate (rightfully so) based on attractiveness to the average of their organization. Top houses recruit higher-SMV dudes; low houses get lower-SMV dudes. Of course, alcohol and drugs help young people get laid. But even unimpressive frats create opportunities to get laid by throwing events. If you're a seven-man, eventually the lonely 3 am six-woman is gonna avail herself to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.The answer is clear here, broski. It always comes down to SMV (sexual market value). Game + attractiveness + affluence. Everyone is on a 1-10 scale. MEN Between 1 - 4 will have a hard time getting laid. Probably only with women between 1 -3, and some 4s. 5 - 6 are in low demand, but will likely get between 1 - 5's. 7 - 8 have greater relative optionality and can consistently pull lower 6, 7, and rare 8s Men 9-10 have their pick of any woman and can behave like hot women in terms of optionality a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Question/challenge for all (there's no flair for that sorry)Get 10,000 random women. Get 10,000 random men. Ask them questions about shit, and patterns will emerge. This propels us to talk in broad strokes that seem like absolute statements. People who miscomprehend the nature of these statements aren't worth engagement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Nah, you're absolutely correct. Let's take it a step further and add that a hook-up material man should strive to never be a husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | It's generally not as good to socialize as a man than as a woman.You're overthinking it. Build a strong social life and become an excellent man. Insecurity like the one you're demonstrating in this post will give creep vibes. Attractive men are charismatic, charming, popular, and social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:51 PM |
| 1 | "Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst possible adviceMen and women have different perogatives, especially as the wall approaches. The limits of where you can meet women and how old are fictitious. You still have deprogramming to undergo. If you're a man, become excellent to enjoy optionality until it disappears at ~38. Aim for the most attractive women (they WILL be younger) If you're a female, make good decisions and lock it down before the wall comes. Don't do anything that makes you unmarriable. Although the female will have plenty of blue-pill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:48 PM |
| – | I find it funny the amount of excuses the women use to gaslight and justify their lack of effort on making moves on the guy they like.There are two opposing forces at play. 3rd/4th wave feminism and evolutionary psychology. The feminism portion exists consciously in the female mind, but the evolutionary psychology is what actually gets them hot and heavy. Their beliefs are whatever mental gymnastics it takes to get these forces to cooperate. Approaching isn’t a “man’s job,” just like cooking or childbearing isn’t a woman’s. These jobs are real and assigned appropriately. Most men don’t like chasing; they do it because they thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:41 PM |
| – | I find it funny the amount of excuses the women use to gaslight and justify their lack of effort on making moves on the guy they like.TL;DR (Sorry to do this to you) The rant argues that many women complain that men don’t approach anymore, but then give inconsistent or self-serving reasons for refusing to approach men themselves. Common claims like “I’m the prize,” “men like chasing,” “real men approach,” “men hate when women make the first move,” “if I approach he must not like me,” “men will only want sex,” “I’m old school,” or “the Bible says so” are called out as weak, contradictory, or hypocritical. Core points: Approachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Nope. Why don't you explain it for me. I believe you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.You're right, but we have to acknowledge the path it takes to become the chronic hook-up. There are naturals out there, but for most of us, it was a journey. I give credence to the idea that men grow one heartbreak at a time. We start off with the dominant blue-pill cultural narrative to deny our masculine proclivities, and they're toxic. Women prefer emotional availability and vulnerability, but in reality, these qualities repel desire. In truth, women need game, looks, and affluence in that or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Your understanding of sexual dynamics is completely debased from reality if you believe the average dude is fucking regularly. >The needy? Since when did Chad become "needy"? Do you see the dissonance yet? Cause I'm sure the others do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 12 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Most dudes don't fuck, although thank you for your public cervix and giving to the needy. Does it feel good being in the category that fucks? Absolutely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give for a sex-averse woman?You’re swimming upstream on this one. Find an asexual man if you’re straight. If not, I think your odds improve if you expand your horizons. Be upfront on this one or it will come back to bite you every time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/26 08:22 AM |
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